It is with deep sadness to announce that Michael Timothy Cox Sr., 74,  of Kittery, ME, passed away unexpectedly on May 17, 2023 in Kittery, ME. Born the eldest of three children on the 18th of October 1948 to Clarence Winfield Cox and Thelma ‘Teddy’ D. Cox (Jordan). 

Michael ‘Mike’ attended and graduated from Traip Academy in 1967 where he excelled at baseball and a was the starting quarterback of the football team. After graduating from high school Mike joined the United States Army—where he did his tour in Germany (A service he was very proud of until his very last day). Mike dedicated himself to several careers in his life including more than two decades retiring from the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard and added several more decades in the private sector focused on high clearance quality control and logistics—finally retiring from the “rat race” in 2019. With nearly 30 years of sobriety and active member of AA, Mike has dedicated himself to helping those in need when they needed someone the most. He made himself available 24/7 to help, encourage, and inspire others to stay the course in their journey of recovery—a best friend to many.

He is, in his own right, a Hero to be Remembered. He was a man impervious to the slings and arrows of life. Mike will be remembered by those closest to him as a steadfast, passionate, and comforting soul who had a keen eye for the comedy of life. With his quick-witted nature, Mike was always quick with a joke in the most loving way. When Mike was not spending time with his family or serving those in need, he enjoyed many activities. He was a freedom loving man and gun enthusiast—challenging those who challenged freedom at every turn. He loved spending time in the kitchen and the family appreciated his efforts in this space. He is the self-proclaimed “Chili Master” and took on the nickname “Beans” in his household. He loved spending time outside getting his hands dirty in the garden. Mike was a New England sports team fanatic, except for football, he would find himself alone rooting for the New York Giants while the rest of his family was rooting for the New England Patriot (something he wouldn’t let anyone forget). His genuine nature was easily recognized by dogs, which he loved dearly, evidenced by the greetings he would receive upon entering a home where furry friends resided. History was one of his favorite subjects spending hours of research and reading with his most passionate focus on World War II—likely due to his father’s service. A Constitutionalist at heart,  Mike made no bones about his beliefs in the decisions being made at the highest level in government. Even though he stood firmly on his beliefs and values in politics he welcomed, accepted, and respected the debate of opposing opinions. He truly wanted to “Make America Great Again”. A man of God, submitted to understand the things he could not control, he would look for guidance through divine inspiration.

Mike will always be remembered as the go-to person when in need. He was a level-headed man that always found time to make the lives around him feel welcomed and loved. Words cannot describe the vacancy left in many hearts upon his passing. He was and is continued to be loved by many souls that remain present in the physical. He was a husband, father, step-dad, brother, uncle, grandfather and friend to so many more.

Mike is survived by: his loving wife, Susan A. Cox (Frazier) of Kittery, ME - Daughter, Tammy L. Pelletier (Cox) and her husband Dennis Greene of Dover, N.H.- Son, Michael T. Cox Jr. and his wife Heather Sargent-Cox of Milford, NH -  Step-son, Adam A. LaFramboise of Kittery, ME – Step-daughter, Tracy Pond of Dover, NH - Grandson, Matthew J Pelletier and his wife Kayla Pelletier of Tilton, NH -  Granddaughter, Tricia Berchiolli of East Wakefield, NH – Grandson, Matt Pond of Dover, NH – Granddaughter, Jessica Racicot and her husband Bryce Racicot of Milford, NH – Greatgrandchildren AJ, Bella, Ellie, Alyx, and Ruby – many nieces and nephews, a countless number of friends, and his couch buddy and furry friend, Murphy.

Mike was predeceased by: his father, Clarence Winfield Cox – mother, Thelma ‘Teddy’ D. Cox (Jordan) – younger sister, Vicky L Moulter (Cox) – younger brother Jack Winfield Cox.

 “I love you, sweetie”

“Love you, bud”

GB

“We got your six”

There will be a small private service for immediate family members only. To leave online condolences please visit www.jspelkeyfuneralhome.com . Care for the Cox family has been entrusted to JS Pelkey & Son Funeral Home. The family asks that in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Tunnel to Towers Foundation www.T2T.org , in memory of Michael T. Cox Sr.