John Bertram Bennett

December 8, 1939 - November 29, 2016

Obituary

Following a long battle with COPD, John Bennett passed away on Nov. 29, 2016. Although our hearts are heavy, we feel fortunate that Dad died at home, surrounded by his family. He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Marg, who was the absolute light of his life. He also leaves behind his 3 children, Kari, Lesley and Scott and their spouses John and Kyra who he considered his own children, as well as his 7 adored grandchildren. Forever their "little brother", Dad will also be missed by his two loving sisters, Joy and Sheila. Dad leaves behind a broad circle of great friends - some of whom he shared most of life with and others who he enjoyed later in his retirement.

Dad was a great man. He was a true character who lived his life with integrity, humour, and a spirit of adventure. While he was an excellent storyteller, Dad was more a man of action than words - the epitome of a "do-er". His intuitiveness and perceptiveness were remarkable and others sought him for counsel, for comfort, or simply a laugh. Dad had a wonderful ability to bring out the best in people and would lend his strength when others felt weak, as he had lots to spare. He had an uncanny ability to really listen, and therefore to help others see their own potential without being preachy, just real.

Throughout his life, Dad was drawn to the ocean. From his mischievous, youthful years of fishing Stuart Island with his best friend and "partner in crime", Jay McPherson, his brief (and unprofitable!) year as a commercial fisherman, to those "nautical field trips" with his students through the Inside Passage aboard the Northland Prince , to exploring BC's southern waters with Mom on the "Alligator", to his "true home" on Hornby Island – Dad never strayed far from the ocean and has instilled in us the same passion.

Mom and Dad's marriage was rare and inspiring, rooted in a love deeper than most ever get to experience. While Dad was the "rock" for much of their marriage, Mom became his strength in his later years, as it is with true partnerships. As a father, Dad was a perfect blend of sounding board, cheerleader, consummate teacher, and comedian. As a Grampa, Dad was the same - just sillier than his grandchildren - making them laugh and see the humour in life. Above all, family was most important to Dad; he would do anything for the people he loved, his love steadfast and unconditional.

Perhaps Dad's greatest gift was his ability to teach. As a high school teacher in North Vancouver for over 35 years, he shone as a unique and masterful educator who cared deeply about his students. Dad's mentorship inspired and impacted generations of families. Over the years, Dad and our family have had countless expressions of gratitude from former students; many have voiced that Dad's influence changed the course of their life.

Dad and our family very much appreciated the care and friendship of Dr. James Ingrey who supported Dad throughout his illness. As well, the many people who held us in their thoughts during the last weeks have helped us immensely.

Dad leaves behind a void impossible to fill, but for those of us lucky enough to have known and loved him, he leaves a legacy of stories, laughter, and wealth of happy memories.

No service at Dad's request. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Hornby Island Medical Clinic
Cheques can be made payable to Hornby Denman Community Health Care Society (HDCHCS) for "Hornby Clinic"
Mailing address - 1965 Sollans Road, Hornby Island BC V0R 1Z0