In Memory

Rodney Duncan

Rodney Duncan, an honorable Veteran passed away on October 22, 2021 at St. Louise Hospital with his wife Mary by his side.

He was a loving husband, son, brother, uncle, Grandfather and Great Grandfather.

Rodney is survived by his wife Mary, his three stepchildren Randy and wife Kelly, Rachelle, Russell and wife Star, four Grandchildren Kane and Deacon Raikes, Brandi Raikes Paris and Shannon Raikes.  He had four Great Grandchildren Alyssa Tarabay, Kyle Paris, Aurora and Marley McWilliams.

His mother LaRetta Duncan resides in Provo Utah along with his siblings Debbie, Kirk and Selena Duncan and many nieces and nephews.  His father Herbert Madison Duncan passed away in 2016.  Rodney will be laid to rest by his father’s side in Utah Veterans Memorial Park in Bluffdale, Utah.

When younger,  Rodney traveled with his family extensively throughout the US, Europe and the Middle East.  Rodney loved all of his family and loved visiting his family in Utah where he grew up. He also loved taking his dog Sasha to the lake for a run.

My Last Request

Please don't say that I gave up

just say that I gave in.

Don't say I lost the battle,

For it was God's war to lose or win.

Please don't say how good I was,

but that I did my best.

Just say I tried to do what's right,

to give the most I could,

not less.

Please don't give me wings or halos,

That's for God to do.

I want no more than I deserve.

No extras, just my due.

Please don't give flowers,

or talk in harsh tones.

Don't be concerned about me now,

I'm well with God, I have made it home.

Don't talk about what could have been,

its over and done.

Just see to all my family needs.

The battle has been won!

When you draw a picture of me,

don't draw me as a saint.

I've done some good, I've done some wrong....

So use all of your paint.

Not just the bright and light tones.

Use some gray and dark.

In fact, don't put me down on canvas,

just paint me in your heart.

Don't just remember all the good times,

but remember all the bad,

For life is full of many things.

Some happy and some sad.

But if you must do something,

then I have one last request:

Forgive me for the wrongs I've done

and with the love that's left,

Thank God for my soul's resting.

Thank God for all who loved me,

and praise God who love me the best.

 

We love you and You will always be the wind beneath my wings.