Mary Jean Illardo

Profile Updated: August 24, 2010
Mary Jean Illardo
Where do you live now? Farmingville, NY USA
Email Address: mary_illardo@yahoo.com
Occupation: Retired 8/21/10, currently p/t editor online
Children/Grandchildren: Son in VA married
Daughter in NY married
Where else have you lived?

In a fantasy world

Past Jobs:

Supervisor, Suffolk County Dept of Labor
ESL teacher, Adult Level
HFC Branch Senior Assistant Manager

Favorite Mercy High School Memory:

Thank the nuns for tolerating my eccentricities. I would skip one class and attend another, usually a different, younger grade level, nuns at least knew where I was and never bothered me about it.

A special thank you to Sr. Gerard, our guidance counselor, who realized I would never apply to college on my own and picked out three colleges, filled out the applications and pulled me from the hall one day to sign them. I got accepted at all three.

Instilling a need to help others. I love mission work and loved selling off donuts each morning in the cafeteria to raise money and raffling off passes to the National Speedway where I worked as a timekeeper at night and on weekends in between working at my parents' store.

Meeting some really cool friends:
Margaret who introduced me to the book Lord of the Rings on my 16th birthday
Janet who crocheted me a poncho for college that I wore all through my freshman year even in the snow to keep me warm
Finding out during the prom that the girl who threw me in a Judo move and knocked my breath away was secretly married during school--are you still married?
Mary, Wendy and so many others who extended a hand of friendship, and social invitations that enriched my high school memories.

Kenneth, my first date, chaperoned with his cool mom and the approval of my old fashioned dad to the movies
Louis, my heart throb and theater colleague and senior prom date



Least Favorite School Memory:

Being called Mary Magdalene as a chastisement in front of the class by Sr. Venard. I never even kissed a boy yet. She is now my patron saint and I celebrate my name day on 7/22.

Being smacked very hard with a yardstick on my back by the Spanish sister (the one that was mentally ill can't remember her name) right after
I yelled out after being struck hard by a rubber band in the cheek by Dave. I forgave her, she was so sweet outside of class and turned demonic in class being forced to teach and mentally unable to do it.

No one wanting to go to my high school graduation

My parents were tired from working so hard and I said okay we won't go and then my sister just in from Germany sticking up for me saying we had to go we couldn't skip my high school graduation and we went.

That night my aunt said she was giving me a graduation party, but it wasn't. I knew in advance it wasn't. It was a surprise 25 silver anniversary party for my folks and my graduation slipped by unnoticed.

What did you do right after high school?

Performed at Gateway Playhouse-main female dancer

What do you like to do in your spare time?

paint in oils, write books, play with my dogs, charity

Countries you've visited:

Canada, Italy

Places you want to go:

France, England, Brazil

Do you see/talk to/hang out with any of our classmates? Who?

Email Mary Kramer, Mary Clausing sometimes.

What would we be surprised to know about you?

Distinguished President of a Kiwanis Club in 2008, founded Kiwanis Circle K club at Stony Brook University 2009, Kiwanian of the Year 2005

Did you have any nicknames in school? What were they?

If I did, people didn't tell me.

Biggest thing you would do differently if you were able to go back to your time at MHS?

Focus on my studies, especially science. Be in the debate club. Try to get closer and keep in contact with the students I liked.

Tell us about your memories of MHS, such as: secret crushes, embarrassing moments, funniest thing you did in high school (or someone else did), favorite hang out, etc.

I loved senior year. It was so exciting. I drove to school in a car, dated, was in a play and even wrote the second half of the poem on the back page of the
senior prom pamphlet. It was kind of a coming out after being so quiet for so long.

Famous or interesting people you've met:

Harry Chapin and his wife she helped sponsor a Walk Against Hunger I organized.

Cool things you've done:

Co-facilitated a discussion on Pakistan in 2009 with 40 people in attendance.

Will be facilitating a book discussion on Three Cups of Tea this 9/21 to create an awareness of alternative peace efforts in Afghanistan.

Any words of wisdom?

Keep creating passion and follow it through.

Have you ever gone on a blind date?

Yes

Have you ever skipped school?

Yes

Have you ever gone back to Washington, D.C.?

Yes

Have you ever made prank phone calls?

No

Have you gotten divorced?

Yes

What animal would you be if you could choose one?

dragon

Have you ever been on tv?

Yes

Have you ever stolen any traffic signs?

No

What's your favorite tv show from the sixties:

Star Trek, Tobor (cartoon)

What's your favorite tv show today:

no specifics, channels 13 and 21, loved Monk and Boston Legal

Who was your favorite teacher and why?

Sr. Liguori, Physics, she tried so hard to get me to like Physics. (I didn't then but I love it now)

Who was your least favorite teacher and why?

The spanish teacher because she was ill and I really did want to learn Spanish and never did.

What was your favorite subject?

I loved history

Did you ever get a demerit at Mercy? How many? For what?

None that I remember, they left me alone

Where did you go for our Senior Retreat? Any comments?

I hated the bars on the window, I felt like I was in jail.

I loved to sneak out in the courtyard early in the am, it was so peaceful

I liked hearing how Sr. Carmella got her calling when we were all gathered in our jammies one night for girl talk.

What's your favorite book?

scarlet pimpernel, harry potter, lord of the rings, Restoree, all agatha christie

What's your favorite movie?

oldies, sci fi, comedy, don't like romance

What's your favorite music?

All music, classical and hard rock still don't like country I try some rap very little

favorite songs
Halleluiah by Leonard Cohen
Imagine by John Lennon
Superman by Laurie Armstrong
favorite operas
madame butterfly
songs from shows
phantom of the opera
sound of music

What's your favorite smell?

wood, men,

What's your favorite taste?

spicy

People you admire?

Benazir Bhutto
Obama
Eleanor Roosevelt
George Washington
Gandhi
Jesus
and that amazing journalist PBS female reporter
Warner or Werner? will edit with her name soon

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