In Memory

Robert Perry "Bob" White

Robert Perry Bob White

Robert Perry "Bob" White

It is with great sadness that I write to inform you of the death of our classmate Bob White

(Robert P. White) Class of 1965, Grady High School, Atlanta, GA. Bob died at 3am on Monday,

May 23, 2016, in Richmond, Virginia of complications from a descending aorta aneurism. He

was first stricken on Saturday May 14, and operated on May 18, and was making a good

recovery. He was expecting to be back to near normal in a few weeks and looking forward to

living on his boat, but his heart stopped on Monday morning.

Bob has lived the last 28 years in Japan where he taught English. He was very interested in our

50th reunion and in reconnecting with old classmates but could not make it back from Japan for

the reunion. He did speak to several of our classmates over Skype during the reunion. And made

several posts on the classcreator website.

After graduation from Grady in 1965, Bob attended Georgia State University. In 1967 at the

height of the Vietnam war, Bob and his roommate both enlisted in the US Army. Bob served two

tours in Vietnam, in 1967 with the 269th CAB at Cu Chi, and in 1968 with the 7th Finance in

Saigon. Bob was involved in the fighting in Saigon during the 1968 Tet Offensive. Bob was

proud of his service in the Army.

After the Army, Bob returned to Atlanta where he opened a restaurant in the old Decatur train

station called The Freight Room. Seats were from old train cars. Bob had a large size model

train track added about 12" from the ceiling that ran all around the restaurant to the delight of

Decatur Children eating their peanut butter & Jelly sandwiches from the Children's Menu.

Bluegrass musicians entertained on Friday & Saturday nights. He ran the restaurant for several

years.

Bob then moved to Sapphire, North Carolina where he was a real estate agent, had a camping

goods store, and painted houses. In the late 1980s Bob moved to Japan where he taught English.

Bob married a woman in Japan but they separated after several years. Bob had no children and is

survived by his sister Ms. Columbia Jones of Atlanta.

I re-established contact with Bob about a year ago when he was in Japan. I had hoped to talk him

into returning for our 50th reunion. But it was too far for him to make it. We have talked many

times over Skype over the past year. Especially as he contemplated moving back to the US.

Last month, on April 18, 2016, Bob packed up everything he owned and came back to the US to

pursue his life long dream of sailing. He was fixing up his old sailboat in Virginia and planned to

sail on the Chesapeake Bay this summer. And next summer, he hoped to sail in the Caribbean

Islands. He had a life long love of sailing and had a sailboat on Lake Lanier while in high school.

In order to help Bob get resettled in the US, I met him in Charlotte, NC on May 10. We drove

back to Sapphire, NC where he use to live and still has friends there. It was a real trip down

memory lane for Bob since he had not been back to visit in 15 years. He enjoyed it immensely

and showed me where he had his camping goods store and many other places. I helped him

renew his NC drivers license and register to vote. We spent four days driving over the mountains

and valleys where he use to live. And had a great time. On May 13 we started the long drive back

to his boat in Reedville, Virginia. Stopped for lunch in Greenville, SC and saw Bob Easley,

Grady 65, And then drove on arriving at Bob's boat at midnight.

At 4am on Saturday May 14 Bob awoke with massive chest pains and shortness of breath. I

drove him to the nearest Emergency Room in Kilmarnock, where they evacuated him by

helicopter to the regional hospital in Mechanicsville near Richmond, VA. It was a good hospital

and they took good care of Bob. I last saw Bob on Sunday morning May 15 and he was resting

easy waiting for the Doctor to decide whether to operate or not. The hospital did a six hour

operation on Wednesday and it seemed to go well. I last spoke to Bob on Saturday May 21 and

he was looking forward to getting into rehabilitation and back on his boat.

During his short time on his boat in the boatyard in Virginia he made many good friends at the

boatyard. He had a kind, open way of talking to people and made friends where ever he went. He

will be sorely missed by his many friends.

Rusty Brooke



 
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06/01/16 05:38 PM #6    

Susan Guggenheim (Renas)

So sorry to hear about Robert]. I didn't know him well, but he will be missed. My condolences go to his family.


06/01/16 05:54 PM #7    

Karl Michel

So sad to hear about Bob's untimely death.  We communicated through this site before the reunion about our time in Cu Chi.  Our tours apparently overlapped by a couple of months.  It was kind of weird thinking that he wasn't that far away from me, but our paths never crossed.

It seems very fortunate that you were with him during this time, Rusty.  It sounds like you all had a great experience, so at least there was that aspect to his final days.

When I went for my annual physical last year, the doctor sent me for a ultrasound of my aorta in order to look for the possiblity of an aneurysm.  If you have ever smoked, you have an increased chance of developing one, so it might bear checking out.  

 

 


06/01/16 06:02 PM #8    

Sara Cohen (Levy)

Rusty,  

I am so sad and shocked to hear about Bob.

Thank you for sharing your hearfelt tribute to a dear friend. You were both lucky to have that special time together.  I am sure you will cherish the memories forever.  

My thoughts and prayers are with all of his friends and family.

 

Sara Levy

 


06/02/16 03:30 AM #9    

Carolyn Johnson (Faglier)

I did not know Bob personally but enjoyed reading about  his life and his comments on this site.   Bob was blessed to have that time with such a friend in Rusty. It takes a very special person to take time aside from home and family to share with a friend.  How bitter/sweet the memories must be. Sending hugs and love to all that knew and loved him. He will be missed.  I feel such a sense of loss as we continue to lose classmates as time moves on.


06/02/16 01:30 PM #10    

Rick Kondy

I cannot describe the saddness that came over me when I read the post by Rusty . Bob and I were friends during our time at Grady . He and his family were very special . This is such a shock especially since we had reconnected in recent months . So very glad he was able to come back to his home land and spend time with his sail boat . Thank you Rusty for sharing with us the time you were able to spent with Bob . I know its was very special to him . My thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family .
 


06/02/16 01:51 PM #11    

Bootsie Allen (Dominick)

I was so sorry to hear the news about Bob, but was so glad to hear what he has been doing since Grady...what an interesting life he had...I am so sorry he didn't fulfill his dream of sailing...Thank you Rusty for letting us know his story....

06/02/16 03:27 PM #12    

Janie Friedman (Bitterman)

I am so very sorry to hear about Bob! What an interesting life he led & a beautiful tribute to him by Rusty!! Thoughts & prayers go out to his family & friends!!


06/02/16 05:26 PM #13    

Alvin Townley Jr

Glad to see all of the thoughts and comments posted for Bob.  I worked with him when he opened up The Freight Room in Decatur in the Old City of Decatur Train Depot.  He was an idea man who connected with the many locals in Decatur when he worked at the Decatur Bottle Shop on Clairmont.  There was not really a place at that time (late 70's & early 80's) where families could go for an inexpensive meal that also served adult beverages...So, with the backing of his many customers and friends, Bob created a perfect place for families with children to enjoy a fun restaurant complete with the model train Rusty mentioned for the children to enjoy. 

Bob attracted people easily and his customers were loyal to him and his creation.  He is to be admired and respected for his service to America during the Vietnam Era.  I'll never look at another sailboat without thinking of Bob.  We were all so hopeful that he would make it back to Atlanta from Japan for the 50th Reunion, but it just did not work out for him. 

Oh, one more thing, Bob went to great lengths to be certain that he made a really nice donation for Buzzy Grimes Memorial Bench.  He had to send the check twice from Japan, but it finally made it.  I guess I can say that now...

 

Alvin Townley


06/03/16 12:13 AM #14    

Frankey Crim (Jones)

Very sad news! I've talked to Bob twice in the last year. He was so upbeat and had so many plans. It felt good to reconnect and I was pushing for a Georgia trip in the future. Bob and I rode the 45 Virginia-McLynn to school each day. RIP Friend!


06/03/16 08:06 AM #15    

Brita Molkner (Levy)

I am so sorry to hear about Bob. Thank you, Rusty, for telling us about his life and your experience with him. You were a true friend. 


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