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06/12/14 09:11 PM #33    

Robin MacRae

Dear Donnie - I am SO very sorry to hear your sad news. We are never ever prepared for this....even with the warning signs. I've never reconciled which is worse (knowing; or not knowing)....the pain is enormous.  I shall ALWAYS have such lovely memories of BOTH of your parents...and our fabulous childhoods....the many sleepovers at your house (w/ all our sisters).... ice skating @ the Englewood Field Club (w/ hot chocolate after). I even remember what the "A" stands for in your's, your father's and your grandfather's middle name!!  Please extend my most heartfelt condolences to your family.  Much Love,

Robin

 


06/13/14 03:39 AM #34    

Lisa Krong (Geisel)

Donnie, sorry to hear that your dad lost his last fight...wishing you much strength and love through the saddest time, your friend, Lisa

 


06/13/14 08:56 AM #35    

Vinnie Curcio

Donnie,
No matter our age and no matter our parents age, a piece of us is lost when we lose a parent.  That piece is never replaced or healed, it can only be given to our children and kept in our hearts to make us better people for carrying on their love, hopes and traditions.  My deepest condolences for your loss.  Vinnie Curcio


06/13/14 10:33 AM #36    

Pat Pierce

Dear Donnie,

I am very sorry for your loss.  I lost my dad just last week so I completely understand.  We are very lucky that we had them for so long.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


06/13/14 11:51 AM #37    

Greg Morris

Dear Don and family, at our age, I am sure that most of us are acutely aware of how you feel. That does not take away the pain.Does not help to replace the friendship,and advise, so often received from the people we lose. There are things that might help to ease the pain for you tho.At least once a week I find myself uttering fraises that came from my father.Some times rediculous, some times profound. Most times good solid information about life in general that I pass to my kids.I find myself smiling on these occasions. Also, if you believe in a higher power as I do, he is not gone!! You just won't get to see him for a while,thats all. Peace to you and yours. What was that saying way back when, oh yea, keep on truckin!!


06/14/14 06:59 AM #38    

Cindy Britton (Picinic)

So sorry to hear the news about your father.  My father is very ill at this time, and we are going through something similar. I hope you have some great memories, some wonderful family pictures, and I'm sure the time you spent with him was special and greatly appreciated. Sending sympathy to you and your family.

I cannot attend your reunion on Saturday, September 20th.  We have a wedding for a very close friend's daughter that day. I'm sure I'll miss a lot of fun with our classmates!


06/15/14 01:56 PM #39    

Mary Lynn Shea (Lehmann)

Donnie, sorry about your Dad.  You were lucky to have had him with you for so many years.....you will find comfort in the memories, they last forever.

 


06/16/14 10:10 AM #40    

Donnie Quarles

Hi everybody,

    I want to thank you all for your sympathies and condolences - I know many of you are going through this same type of thing (or have already, or will soon). My Dad had a great and long life, so I am thankful for that. He was loved by all, and I got to spend a lot of time with him in recent years, so no regrets. I miss him terribly, but am extremely greatful for his long life, health and love. In the end, the love is all that endures. Again thank you all - you guys are the greatest!

      Hope to see those who can make it Sept. 20th

       love to all,

          Donnie


06/16/14 10:55 AM #41    

 

Trish Leary (Joyce)

Beautiful message, Donnie. You are so right ... Love endures ... always. Continue to count your family's meant blessings. Our hearts remain with you.


06/19/14 07:52 PM #42    

Peggy Foss (Fleischer)

Donnie,

I'm sorry to hear of your father's passing.  May your memories of better times carry you through your tomorrows.  Sending prayers for you and your family.

Peggy
 


06/30/14 11:03 AM #43    

Donnie Quarles

Hi All, 

   thanks again for all of your comments, thoughts and prayers concerning my father's passing. Good news for those who can make it on Sept. 20th to my house for the party. The bash will now be a double-header, with the 45's party going from 1-8:30pm and my daughter's band, the Otterknockers, playing live from 8:30pm to 1am. Emily is the lead singer and the band is experienced and fantastic - she is the only band member under 50. They do mostly 60's to 80's rock (Aretha Franklin, Otis Redding, Dusty Springfield, Cream, Tom Petty, Hendrix, Guns 'N' Roses, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Jackson 5, Bonnie Raitt, etc.) and a few contemporaries mixed in. If you can make it, you'll love it.

Directions: NYS thruway north to exit 17 (Newburgh) - make left out of tollbooths onto 84W - 1st exit - exit #6 - make right off exit ramp onto 17K west. Go about 3 miles on 17K west into Coldenham, make left on Ridge Rd., (just before Spruce Lodge) - house is #96 - 2nd from last on right - you'll see our name on tree in front of house on the end of the driveway.

    Hope to see you all - feel free to BYOB or grill item - Enjoy your summer

        Donnie Quarles


07/01/14 10:30 PM #44    

Robin MacRae

You had me @ Otis Redding & Dusty Springfield......LOL  :)


07/03/14 12:00 PM #45    

Greg Morris

Wow Don, those directions sound very close to me. As per my usuall, I will bring way more than I will need. As far as food though, I only know steak, burgers, and dogs. I will bring almost any thing YOU want. Just let me know. Greg


07/25/14 09:30 AM #46    

Donnie Quarles

Hi all,

  Just an update on my 45's party - unfortunately, due to circumstances beyond my control, we had to switch our party date again - from Sept. 20th to Sept. 13th - it's still a Saturday - starting at 1pm - just the week before. The 45's portion will go from 1 to 7ish, followed by my daughters' band, the Otterknockers (party rock). Come one come all!

    Donnie Quarles


07/25/14 11:33 PM #47    

Laurie Zullo (Totoro)

Hi Donnie.  I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's passing . Many prayers for you and your family . Keep your many warm memories of your dad close , Laurie Zullo totoro 

 


09/08/14 12:28 PM #48    

Donnie Quarles

Hi everybody,

   With 6 days to go I thought I better remind everybody that my 45's party at my house (96 Ridge Road, Montgomery,NY - Exit 17, NYS Thruway) is this Saturday, Sept. 13th, beginning at 1pm. As we anticipate quite a crowd, you may want to bring a drink or food item of your choice. The 45's party will go from approximately 1-7pm, with my daughter's band to follow. The pool will be open, and we'll have an outdoor fire pit for those that want extra warmth. Hope to see all those that can make it on Saturday. Bring your dancin' shoes and/or your drinkin' shoes!!!

      Donnie Quarles


09/09/14 09:05 AM #49    

Cindy Conover (Potterton)

I am bringing my dancing shoes and how does scewered shrimp for the grill sound?  Can't wait to see you and Melissa and your family!


08/28/17 02:30 PM #50    

David Blakeman

Donnie ,  I did not know your dad passed away. I'm so sorry . I know the time we were a Ryno's Dads wake and you thanked my Dad for coaching hockey that meant alot to my Dad.


12/10/20 03:42 PM #51    

 

Trish Leary (Joyce)


12/10/20 03:43 PM #52    

 

Trish Leary (Joyce)

Vincent Joseph Curcio

(July 6, 1955  - December 8, 2020)

 

Vincent “Vinnie” Joseph Curcio, 65, of Toms River, NJ, the son of the late Victor and Catherine Curcio of Haworth, NJ, 

was reunited with his parents and sister Carol Curcio-Mertz on Dec. 8, 2020 after a courageous battle with cancer.

 

Vinnie was born in Brooklyn, New York, on July 6, 1955. He grew up in both Hillsdale then Haworth, NJ and 

attended Northern Valley Regional High School, in Demarest. As a proud member of the class of 1973, 

he was co-captain of the high school football team and was a member of the wrestling team. 

He attended Rochester Institute of Technology.

 

His medical battle was one of courage, grace, and determination, having endured 10 years fighting Stage 4 lung cancer.  

A non-smoker, Vinnie still stayed active in life and never allowed his illness to hold him back.  He was a brave warrior who did not

 slow down, but rather continued being dedicated to his career, family and friends.  He also loved travelling to Puerto Vallarta. 

In addition, he loved golf, skiing, swimming, traveling, writing, boating, fishing, and of course riding his Harley Davidson. He did it his way.

 

Vinnie was born into the beauty industry where he held various sales positions and gave his heart and soul to the business. 

Vinnie started his career working for the family business, the V.J. Curcio Company, then in Jersey City, NJ, 

as a third-generation family member. He started in the stock room and spent his summers delivering orders 

and learning the business from the best – his father Victor Joseph Curcio.

 

A true people person, Vinnie spent his life working in the beauty business and was a master of his trade. 

He went on to work for Revlon-Realistic, was co-owner of The Wild Company and was a sales executive for The Kirschner Group. 

He was well loved and respected for his business acumen and detailed knowledge of the many brands he represented.  

His love for his customers and manufacturers was deep and reciprocated. He won countless awards and received many accolades 

for excellence in his career. Vinnie loved what he did, the friends he made, and the clientele he served.  

If you were a customer of Vinnie’s, you were a friend and if you were a friend, you were family. 

He was a consummate storyteller and God forbid if you interrupted him.  If you were lucky enough to be his girlfriend, 

you never paid for a dinner, a date, or a vacation. Plus, he was a great gift-giver.

 

Vinnie is survived by his son, Jarred Victor Curcio, and his wife, Katelyn, daughter, Kara Lynne Barker, and her husband, Ryan, his adored twin

granddaughters, Fia and Ella Barker, his sister Joni Rae Russell and her husband, Robert, his sister Marie Grace Elwell and her husband, 

Bob, his niece and nephew Lauren Elwell, and Robert William Elwell, his brother-in-law William Mertz and his wife, Kathi, 

his niece and nephew Caitlin Mertz and Taylor Mertz, his goddaughter Victoria Strange and his girlfriend Susan Silver. 

He leaves behind many cousins and dear friends.


The family, in this time of the pandemic, asks that in lieu of flowers or donations, that you patronize your favorite restaurants, 

either as dine-in or take-out, say a prayer for Vinnie, make a toast to his memory and tip your servers well.

The immediate family will hold a private Mass and Burial at St Luke’s Parish in Toms River, NJ and Holy Cross Cemetery, North Arlington, NJ.

 

A “celebration of life” will be announced where all can come and lift a celebratory glass to Vinnie sometime in 2021.  Details to follow.

 

The family wishes to sincerely thank Vinnie’s friends, industry associates, and clients for their compassionate messages. 

Your expressions of love for Vinnie have truly touched our hearts.

Written by Vinnie's sisters, Joni and Marie


12/10/20 03:45 PM #53    

 

Trish Leary (Joyce)


12/11/20 03:02 PM #54    

Marina Graizzaro (Birch)

I am heartbroken.  He was a great guy!  Always remember our Hunter and Hampton days and my favorite disco dancing partner.  We were good friends back in the 70s and 80s .  Even came to my wedding.  I no he fought hard against cancer.  He will truly be missed💕💕<>>

 

 


12/12/20 01:48 PM #55    

Suzan Meldonian

Really sorry to hear this. Vince was always a kind and gorgeous person. My deep condolences to all. 

Suzan Meldonian


12/13/20 02:58 PM #56    

Lisa Krong (Geisel)

Such sad news, Vinnie was a truly wonderful person and fought such a courageous fight against the cancer which unfortunately ultimately won the battle. My deepest condolences to family and friends, who, like I, will hold his memory in our hearts...

 


12/14/20 12:48 PM #57    

Polly Farber (Hutnick)

Vinnie could light up a room without even trying. His positive energy will be long remembered.  Heartfelt condolences to all and deepest sympathy to his family and loved ones. 


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