Obituary for Ms. Patricia Ann Cullins

Once upon a time, November 4, 1948, in Little Rock, Arkansas, Ella W. Cullins brought a sweet bundle of joy into the world. She named her Patricia Ann, but called her Pat. Being an only child, Pat grew up basking in all of the attention that her doting family showered upon her. Needless to say, she was just a tad bit spoiled. But growing up in the South where cotton was king and hospitality was queen, Pat, too, soon learned the art of “spoiling.” She loved people and had a special way of pampering all those she met, especially her friends, family members, and persons in need. Gift giving was her thing, if it was a special occasion for you, Pat remembered it. She sent cards, hand written notes which often contained a neatly folded one dollar bill, and sometimes included one of her most recent photographs. Dressing up and having her picture taken was a favorite pass time, not to mention listening to cassette recordings of Michael Jackson.

As a young adult, Pat moved to Prairie View, Texas where she continued to meet people, make new friends and find her niche. She brought with her that same caring spirit and commitment to friendship. She volunteered at both Prairie View A&M University and Waller County Libraries, and often babysat for neighbors and friends. For it was in the dew of little things that Pat found her morning and was refreshed.

On Tuesday, April 2, 2013, after sixty-four courageous years of living, loving, learning, setbacks, health challenges, and grace, Pat quietly and peacefully slipped away. She is survived by her loving mother, Ella W. Weaver of Prairie View, Texas, uncle, Silas Cullins (Anita) of Long View, Texas and a cousin Sonya Hicks, Houston, Texas.

While we are grateful to so many of you, our special thanks go to Pat’s caregiver Mrs. Lula Hall who never wavered in meeting Pat’s many special needs, to the City of Prairie View Police Department, Waller County EMS, First United Methodist Church family, and Cathy Watson, a friend to the end.

While what we loved most about Pat maybe clearer in her absence, there is no doubt she left an incredible legacy of caring. Rather than flowers, Pat would have probably preferred you send donations to agencies and organizations dedicated to helping others, especially the marginalized and the at-risk. Her compassion for others, and the kindness and generosity she extended to all are exceeded only by the joy she found in doing them. Her example of caring for others is worthy of emulation, continuing that legacy in your life would be a very high tribute indeed.