Kenneth Davis

T H O U G H T F O R C O N S I D E R A T I O N
TODAY'S WORDS - SOLVE PROBLEMS
Life does not require us to be consistent, cruel, patient, helpful, angry, rational, thoughtless, loving, rash, open-minded, neurotic, careful, rigid, tolerant, wasteful, rich, downtrodden, gentle, sick, considerate, funny, stupid, healthy, greedy, beautiful, lazy, responsive, foolish, sharing, pressured, intimate, hedonistic, industrious, manipulative, insightful, capricious, wise, selfish, kind or sacrificed. Life does, however, require us to live with the consequences of our choices.
You've given up your whole life to be the person you are now. Is it worth it? Everybody is given a Dream... you may have to work for it however. Life does not listen to your logic; it goes on its own way, undisturbed. You have to listen to life. Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you. You are always free to change your mind and choose a different future, or a different past. Humanity is not a gift of nature, it is a spiritual achievement to be earned. To learn anything, you must put aside the safety of your ignorance. There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. You seek problems because you need their gifts.
Bad things are not the worst things that can happen to us. Nothing is the worst thing that can happen to us! Mistakes - call them unexpected learning experiences. If it's never our fault, we can't take responsibility for it. If we can't take responsibility for it, we'll always be its victim. There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go. Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they're yours. Allow the world to live as it chooses, and allow yourself to live as you choose.
If you want to meet someone who can fix any situation you don't like, who can bring you happiness in spite of what other people say or believe, look in a mirror, then say this magic word: 'Hello.' I do not exist to impress the world. I exist to live my life in a way that will make me happy. I think the source of our sorrow and the source of our joy are intimately entwined. Our sorrow is that we have forgotten who we are, we have forgotten we are one with that source of all life - absolutely indestructible, perfect, joyful. The source of our joy is when we remember that. You can't solve problems for someone whose problem is that they don't want problems solved. Every problem has a gift for you in its hands. You wait a lifetime to meet someone who understands you, accepts you as you are. At the end, you find that someone, all along, has been you. Don't fear change. It's always for the best.

~Richard Bach~
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