Susie Graves
Beloved Wife, Mother, Daughter, Sister & Friend
Strength and honor are her clothing; this verse from Proverbs 31:25 so accurately reflects the characteristics of my dear sister-in-law, Susie Graves. Susie was diagnosed with breast cancer 4.5 years ago but she was determined to not let it slow her down. She had a husband and four beautiful daughters to care for. In addition, Susie was a loving foster parent who was responsible for changing the lives of 16+ infants who needed a home. She loved caring for those little babies and watching them smile, laugh, and grow. Susie's kindness and devotion was unmatched. Her heart overflowed with empathy for others who had less than she or those who were suffering. Many times during Susie's treatment, you would find Susie cooking and visiting others who were in need. She was a true servant of God, praising Him in everything she did. Susie did not complain nor did she question God. She took what fate had given her and she made the best of it. To illustrate her sheer determination, see her photo on this page. This photo was taken at the ACS's Relay for Life on May 16, 2008. Even though her health had continued to deteriorate, she insisted that she participate in the relay. We lost our precious Susie only six days later on May 22, 2008 at the age of 41.
On some days, the emptiness she left behind seems unbearable. But I know that she is finally resting in peace and comfort. She did not lose her fight against cancer...she was victorious. Susie triumphed in the way that she led her life and now she waits for her eternal reward. Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: " Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all." Proverbs 31:28-29.
Susie is survived by her husband: Shayne Graves, daughters: Emily, Caitlin, Hannah and Amanda Graves, parents: Tony and Carolyn Mullins, brother: Anthony Mullins and sister: Erin Barger.
With love and appreciation,Laura Graves
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Jack Haynes
Sun, Jun 08, 2008
I will always remember Suzi's mindset. She refused to complain. She brought honor to her family and her legacy will be a soul that I will remember to the end. Already, I have preached about her! Something that pleased me immensely was her close association with Shannon Jones. What a great companion she was and will continue to be to the Graves family.
Melissa Reynolds
Tue, Jun 03, 2008
In the 2 short years that Susie was with us at Embry Hills Church of Christ I grew to admire her greatly. While I am sure there were many times she didn't feel up to being at church or caring for all those sweet babies she did it. She put her brave face on and got done whatever she felt she needed to do. In doing that she made a lasting impression on me. I will never forget Susie Graves.
Larissa Holland
Tue, Jun 03, 2008
I see Susie's legacy in a loving family who was nurtured and is strong in the Lord, many many friends who looked at her life and were inspired, an example of strength, courage and an unflagging joy in life and in the Lord. I remember the day the sweet Graves family joined our church and all the years they blessed us with their friendship. When I think of models of young Christian womanhood, I think of girls named Emily, Caitlin, Hannah and Amanda. What better inheritance can you leave than that?
Nicki Baca
Tue, Jun 03, 2008
Its still hard for me to wrap my mind around the thought Susie is no longer with us physically, but I know she still lives on in our hearts and always will. She was a very special friend and more importantly a very special sister in Christ. I have a little doll she made me one time when I was sick and in the hospital. It now has a special shelf to set upon and when I gaze at it I will always see that wonderful smile and hear that amazing laugh that belong only to Susie. She touched many lives in her short journey here and she will be missed by us all.
Aleta Samford
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
I only knew Suzie through cyberspace, too, and the connection we acquired, as I remember, was over our common struggle with cancer. Not myself, but my husband who has stepped into eternity as well. I'm always very careful to share too much about him with those struggling with cancer since he lost the battle. But with Suzie, it seemed that never stopped her from "talking" with me...in fact comforting me (!). As I read what others have to say about her, it is obvious that she didn't fear death; she anticipated going home. My heart goes out to all of you there in your loss. I KNOW you miss her so badly it hurts.
Shannon Jones
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
I am so thankful for the special friendship Susie and I shared. There is an empty space in my life right now and the tears still come very frequently. I will always treasure our relay picture together. She was determined to do the survivor lap with me and she bravely smiled for all of us that night. Through her smile, I see her courage...courage that characterized her life. She was a wonderful example of Christian love in action. She has gained a great victory and I know we'll meet again.
Eva Sochor
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
I'm so happy to have gotten to know Susie, if only through cyberspace. She was and is an inspiration; and her legacies of hope, unselfish courage, and determination are wonderful gifts to all who love her.
Beth Murphree
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
The bravest woman I have known
Shelia Ullman
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
I never had the chance to meet Susie in person, but I was fortunate enough to "meet" her online. We have all daugthers, too, which gave us something in common. She was such a fine example of what a Christian woman should be. She will live on through the family she left behind here on this earth, but more importantly, she will live on throughout eternity in peace. Prayers are with the family.
Gaynor Gray
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
My "trailer park" buddy and 1st friend at Beaverbrook. After Susie retired from public school teaching, we would meet every year at the Relay for Life--
I am so glad I got to see her May 16, 2008. You are my hero!! May her family take comfort in the knowledge of how many people love her!!!
Tara Brown
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
Because of her and others that have joined our Lord I strive harder every day to join her in everlasting bliss. We will sing,praise our LORD, laugh and enjoy all that Heaven has waiting for us. She is in our hearts and with us every step of the way. I love her for how she raised 4 beautiful girls and took care of my brother and so many others.
Erin Barger
Mon, Jun 02, 2008
How we all will miss her. Because of my sister, many people are praising God for her life and how she reflected the love of Christ in it. Through her death, God is being glorified, and I thank Him that her death was not in vain.
Barry G. Heatherly
Sat, May 31, 2008
Just wanted to say that Suella was a wonderful example in her life and during her illness and at death. I hope that all of us can prepare to meet our Lord with a hope that she had. I believe she is in a better place. I know that those who were around her will miss her so very much. I love you all. To all.... Please keep the faith and don't lose heart. Remember that when Lazarus died that the Lord Himself cried when he saw the tears of Mary and Martha. He sees our tears He understands our pain and He cares for us. But remember this also. There WILL be a resurection one day. We hope to meet in heaven again. Death is temporary we can't fully understand that right now. We have to look through the eyes of faith. I love all of her family and pray for them. Take care and may God bless each of you and comfort your hearts.
Barry G. Heatherly
Sat, May 31, 2008
Just wanted to say that Suella was a wonderful example in her life and during her illness and at death. I hope that all of us can prepare to meet our Lord with a hope that she had. I believe she is in a better place but I know that those who were around her will miss her so very much. I love you all. To all.... Please keep the faith and don't lose heart. Remember that when Lazarus died that the Lord Himself cried when he saw the tears of Mary and Martha. He sees our tears He understands our pain and He cares for us. But remember this also. There WILL be a resurection one day. We hope to meet in heaven again. Death is temporary we can't fully understand that right now. We have to look through the eyes of faith. I love all of her family and pray for them. Take care and may God bless each of you and comfort your hearts.
Ryan Graves (nephew)
Fri, May 30, 2008
my aunt never forgot to send the best birthday cards. They were probably expensive but nevertheless, no matter how sick she was, she always had the strength to send them. THis is why i will always remember my Aunt Suella.
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