Stewart Myrent
All right. I've finally had it. I'm tired of being a lurker! And I've decided to take up Carol's challenge, preferring a "group of contributors" to an "audience of lurkers." Before I start, I want to thank Alan Alop, Steve Hirschstick, Allan Karlin & Marv Blustein for their recent contributions, as I was laughing my ass off, reading their posts. Laughing is my favorite thing to do. The reason I decided to chime in, is that I have noticed a not-so-subtle change in the Forum, in the past few days. It seems that the tone of the Forum, lately, contains posts from our classmates that are bending over backwards, to not be offensive, or insensitive, in any way. Frankly. it has somewhat of a phony feel to it. I much preferred it, when it was more openly hostile. even with people putting a more civilized edge on it. I would much rather know someone's true feelings, than be misled. Although I rarely, if ever, post, I do open my Class of 1964 Forum, with great anticipation, on a daily basis & read all the posts. Despite Carol's claim that Janis has a "personal blog" on the Forum site, I have to say that I, in particular, look forward to Janis' posts. I find them to be empathetic & informative. Before I continue, I want to say that I have been a life-long Democrat & liberal, so perhaps that explains my appreciation of Janis' posts. What I really wanted to say, is that I would have guessed that most of my classmates would have similar outlooks on life, in general, and politics, in particular, having come from the same, or similar, communities & backgrounds. I realize that I was foolish to ever expect that to be the case. Because the older I get, the more I realize that our thoughts, identities & proclivities are there because of ancient attitudes that are instilled in us from our childhoods. Can we change? Possibly, but not likely. My major problem with the current Congress' attitude towards immigration, is that I am flabbergasted at their attitude, because every single Representative & Senator, regardless of party, has ancestors who came from somewhere else, in hopes of attaining the American dream, or at least some personal freedom. Even if they came over on the Mayflower, they came from somewhere else. Every single wave of immigrants has had to endure the pain of prejudice & ostracization. Because they were different. Because they spoke differently, or dressed differently, or ate differently, or believed in another God. It didn't make any difference if you were Irish, or Jewish, or German or Polish. They all had to go through it. But in every case, those first-generation immigrants, who spoke little, or broken, English, and probably spoke most often in their native tongues at home, bore children who spoke English perfectly. If it wasn't their children who spoke perfect English, it was their grandchildren, who were able to assimilate into the great American culture. I really don't get this antipathy to immigrants & I never will. It is what made & makes America great & different. Sorry to be so long-winded.
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