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Colleen Dorney (Klingseisen)
SPOTLIGHT STINGAREE: WHERE ARE THEY NOW?
BETH ALBERTS
Our next interviewee for this series is a high achiever. In middle school and high school, she was always sweet and upbeat, and she was also frequently capturing the boy’s attention! Beth Alberts’ life immediately after high school was different from most of us. But she forged a unique path in her life and her diligence and excellence saved the lives of many. You will be very impressed! We are lucky she is helping organize our 50th reunion! Enjoy catching up with my dear friend, Beth Alberts.
When did your Victoria life begin?
My family moved from Corpus Christi to Victoria in November 1966. I attended Juan Linn Elementary for that partial year and then my family moved and in 5th grade I started going to Shields Elementary. That is truly when my Victoria life began. I met Ellen Swanson, Cindy Gallemore, Mechelle Rogers, Thomas Null, Guy Cleveland, Sandy Golden, Don Bain, Harlon Oehlke and so many more at Shields!
I’d love one fun memory from growing up in Victoria, especially if it involves other classmates.
Too many fun times to count and memorialize here! Where to begin?
Friday night VHS Football games?
Summers with Cindy, Ellen, Mechelle and friends at the Tanglewood Pool or listening to music (or swimming) at Sun Valley?
Weekends and summers when Karen Cyphers and I would sometimes buy a bag of potato chips, some onion dip, find a shady spot and have what Karen called an “onion dip party”?
Riding in Paula Crawford’s car (she was the first of our group to get a license and a car)?
Playing racquetball at the YMCA?
Hanging out at Mary Jo LaCaze’s apartment during lunch break?
Going to Rockport with Jeanne Shields and her family?
Colleen’s mom taking us to the beach?
Early morning drives down to Port Aransas with Glen Wimberly, Mark Pittman and/or Bill Flaharty?
Hmm, the beach and swimming sure do show up in a lot of these memories!
Who were some of your VHS bestie’s growing up and are you still connected?
I am thrilled to say that I am still connected to some of my best VHS buds and life-long friends. Ellen, Colleen, Mechelle, Jeanne, and VHS 1976 Alum, Francie Strane. I cherish these women with all my heart and look forward each year to our annual get togethers! Sometimes Paula Crawford, Margaret Crabtree and Ana Wendt have joined us!
Because of Facebook, I have been able to reconnect with so many classmates whom I adored in high school: Guy Cleveland, Terry Sizer, Tommy Seerden, Paula Ryan, Susan Brooks, Kevin and Suzanne Jordan, Nancy North, Gayle Gainer, Gay Moulton Pruett, Wanda Wilson, David Bailey, Sandy Orlich, Grace Sullivan, Bonnie Swain, Loree Starkey, Michele Krier, Martha Goodwin, Cindy Macha, Greg Lopez, John Rendon, Glen Wimberley, and so many, many more (I apologize to those I left off this list but I am old.) π
Who from VHS had an impact on your life and how?
English teacher, Dorothy Kendall, had a big impact on me. She really encouraged me to write creatively and to submit some of my poems to VHS’ Impact publication. I don’t think I would have had the courage to do it without her support!
Tell me about your life since VHS.
I got married on Thanksgiving Day of our Junior Year, so I was a 16-year-old bride, and my life changed dramatically. In addition to schoolwork and my part-time job now I was in charge of a household! I was so unprepared!
During our senior year, I learned that I was pregnant. I knew back then that unwed mothers were expected to be hidden away – not just “not heard from” but also “not seen”, but I didn’t really understand the repercussions of that in real life. Because I was already married when I got pregnant at 17, I was able to walk across the stage to get my diploma, but there were other pregnant girls who were not allowed that privilege. It seemed unfair to me then and even more so now.
I had my first beautiful daughter when I was 18 and then my second beautiful daughter when I was 20. I got a divorce when I was 23. I worked my way through several years of classes at Victoria College and UH-V, got my associate’s degree in 1983 and then transferred to UT-Austin. It took me 10 years to finish undergraduate school but in 1985 I finally received my BA. Moving away from Victoria was hard, but it was a real growth experience to be a single mom, full-time student and working 2 part-time jobs in a city 5 times the size of Victoria. We were broke but those were still good times.
I remarried in 1984, and Mark and I had a blast playing racquetball at tournaments around the state for several years. Our girls still say they didn’t mind being dragged from Racquetball Club to Racquetball Club. I had always been somewhat athletic, but never played any sport competitively until Racquetball. It helped me gain some discipline and self-confidence that had eluded me until then.
We moved to Houston in 1987 for better employment opportunities and to be nearer to our families (both sets of our parents lived there).
Once in Houston I went back to work in the nonprofit sector and worked at several different social service organizations. In 2001 I became the CEO of Texas Center for the Missing (TCM) and helped the founder, Doreen Wise, realize her vision of helping families of missing children, like hers. My job at TCM was less like work and more like a “calling”.
When I was a young girl, I really only had two dreams for my future: 1) to be a truly great mom to my children and 2) to be a part of something larger than myself. I wanted to positively impact people’s lives and help others in a meaningful way.
During my 20+ years at TCM, I was on call 24/7 to issue Amber Alerts for the most at-risk missing children in the Houston-Galveston region. We ran the largest Amber Alert program in the country (serving 7 million people), and I know that my efforts helped to save children’s lives. I am proud and humbled to have had this opportunity. In 2002 I worked with Senators Kay Bailey Hutchison and Dianne Feinstein to draft national Amber Alert legislation that was modeled after our Houston program.
As the TCM CEO I was invited to the White House twice, I testified before Congress, I participated in the FBI Citizen’s Academy and visited Quantico, and then in 2019 I received the FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award. Additionally, for 6 years I served on the board (2 years as President) of AMECO-the Association of Missing Children's Organizations, an international consortium of leaders in the missing person’s field. We dedicated ourselves to creating and promoting best practices in the field.
The day I retired as TCM CEO, May 31, 2021, was declared “Beth Alberts Day” by Houston’s Mayor Sylvester Turner, and I wish my Mom and Dad could have been around to see that.
What’s going on in your life now?
I am mostly retired. I still do some nonprofit grant writing/grants management, and we are having a blast hosting guests almost every week at our Airbnb cabin. We live on 62 acres between Gonzales and Moulton, TX and the cabin is on the property adjacent to our house. Mark and I love to hike and this year we went to both Sedona and Lake Tahoe to hike as much as we could!
The things I love most about having a more leisurely life now are taking my time in the morning to drink my coffee and read the paper before I exercise, and I love not having to rush to finish my exercise! I do yoga and lift weights 2-3 times a week but running and walking outside are my favorites.
I ran my first mile the year I turned 40 and ran the first of ten half-marathons when I was 55. Then set my personal record in January 2020 and shaved almost a minute per mile off my prior best time. I cherish those race medals so much because running 13.1 miles is something I never dreamed I would ever do! I’ve dropped down to 10k races now, but I truly hope I can run until I die! π
Are there any lessons you've learned along the way that you'd like to share with others?
I’ve learned that there is always someone younger, prettier, smarter, or more successful, but each of us has our own abilities and talents that make us uniquely us and we each have an opportunity to make a difference in the lives of others, and at the end of the day that’s what is most important.
Favorite Motto or words to live by:
“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world: indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” -Margaret Mead, anthropologist, recipient of the Planetary Citizen of the Year Award in 1978.
Will you make the 50th Reunion on April 12, 2025?
Absolutely! I am co-chairing so I think Michele Krier would be super mad if I didn’t make it! π
Finally, is there anything else you'd like to add or share about your life that we haven't covered?
Pretty sure I’ve said enough! π
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A POEM BY BETH ALBERTS (Hightower at the time)
Published in Impact Magazine

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