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Peggy Treiber

Profile Updated: September 22, 2020
Residing In:
Fayetteville, AR USA
Spouse/Partner:
Jeremy Hess
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Occupation:
caregiver (temporarily) for husband dealing with lymphoma; pollworker with face shield and mask; conscious evolutionary (ask me about that if you're interested); and still writing...
Children:
Adrian, born 1981; Megan, born 1984; stepchildren Sheryl, born 1968; Becca, born 1976; Josh, born 1979; More… lots of grandchildren...age 9 through 22!
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September 2020
at last. at last i understand what i need to understand...about me, about life, about purpose. it's not all bliss...i am working for the Biden-Harris campaign and get to deal with the feelings that come up when someone says "Fuck you" or "The only real Americans are white, because the native Americans actually came here over the Bearing (sic) Strait." I mean, how does one respond to that? I decided not to. but, mostly, a calmness that transcends the annoyances and sarcasm and worry, and the quiet time of Covid has contributed to that...so that's my update. What's yours?

Marc 2020
Mother Nature has sent us to our rooms, maybe to think about what we've done to the world, and my biggest reaction is appreciation. We are so lucky, those of us who have rooms. And food in our pantries. And people in our lives...even if we only see them in video calls. Everything except toilet paper! But not to fear, I was in Spain when the lock-down came there and I grabbed a pack of 12 rolls, used 3 there and brought home 9. Good thing because the stores at home still don't have any!
The rolls got all squeezed (sorry, Mr. Whipple) in our suitcases, but they work!

While on the cruise that took us to Spain, I heard two speakers who were portraying the Hoovers during the stock market crash and ensuing Depression. The First Lady said that it is important to maintain as much normalcy as possible in crisis...that it is an act of courage. I don't interpret that to mean relaxing the lock-down here in the U.S., but I do think it means stuff as small as continuing to tip your server, even though you are only getting take-out. And I think it means staying upbeat and hopeful. And supporting others with small donations through GoFundMe...even $5 helps, especially when a lot of folks do this...I'm open to your thoughts on this!



kept the older comments for reference (so i don't forget!!!!):
It's 2017 and I missed the reunion, but taking care of post-surgery family was higher on the priority list. Still, it is fun to see the photos. Also, it has been a real joy to reconnect with classmates through Facebook, Pat Flaherty and Pat St. Clair and Cathleen Wing bennett and all you others I see, although less often!

When not heavily involved with grandchildren, of which there are nine total, we volunteer for Meals on Wheels and at the local arts center. And then we travel. To see family all over the country and to see the world, all over the globe. :)

We are headed to the Galapagos for Thanksgiving and to South Africa next September. Somewhere in between we will do another cruise. It is hard to keep track of where I've been sometimes, but that's not a complaint. We have learned to travel cheaply...using tours when they go on sale and trans-ocean cruises and frequent flier miles. We take out credit cards to get the latter. So, if you wanna learn about thrifty traveling, talk to me! Or join us!

Hope others will update their profiles. It is much fun to read them. Or find me on Facebook. Peggy Treiber, still in Arkansas. Thanks all of you and continue to enjoy each day of your fabulous lives!

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So it was ninth grade, at Roehm Junior High, and I was struggling to play third-chair cornet in the band, while Eric Grulke was smoothly and easily playing first chair. "I've Grown Accustomed to her Face," I believe, is what we were working on, and, of course, he had the melody. I was mesmerized. And I realized I had a crush on him. But I was too shy to speak up.

Everything seemed to come so effortlessly for him, and I admired and envied that. 

Now, of course, I realize that nothing is easy for teenagers, and appearances are deceiving.

But it is strange to think of him as body-less while I make plans to remain in mine another 25 to 30 years.

I never wholly got over my crush in high school, even though I full intended to enter the convent after graduation. I even had an acceptance letter from the convent in Youngstown. It was senior year and I was dating Tom Bates but the TWIRP dance was coming (remember? The Woman is Requested to Pay) and I saw this as my last and only chance to connect with Eric, to figure out how he worked, how he did it all so seamlessly. And I invited him, much to the chagrin of Tom and my friends. And he said yes.

My dad was our driver that night. Picked him up at his house. Went to the dance. Spent very little time together that night. And, of course, I didn't get to know him any better than I already did. He was gracious and kind and we took him home and that was that. And Tom and I went to prom.

I suppose that dance got me over any crush, but I always held a special place for him. I quit the cornet after that year, but I will always remember him in band practice. I' grew accustomed to his face.

 

 

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happy birthday, old friend. and i mean that in the nicest of ways, since i too turn 70 this year! hugs and love...

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