I don't know what to say, really. I've been married and divorced. I think it may be a sign of the times. We are a fast food, cable tv, wikipedia, facebook society. I'm not sure we want to work for anything anymore, and I may be a sign of the times. Who knows? I still play guitar, for those who remember, and though I've finally ditched that primered Chevelle, I've picked up/lost a few nice old cars, since. I've been in the Navy 10 years. I might do 20. I think of it like this: the people who join, love it, and do 20+ and retire-they're stupid, and don't have anything to say but a big, blind, "Ooh Rah!!!!!" The ones who join to give it a chance, may not love it, weigh the benefits, and may come to find a calling-smart. I'm at the weigh the benefits stage, myself. We'll see how it goes...