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I've been Tamara since I left for college, but it would be weird if any of you called me anything other than Tammy - which is reserved for people whom I love the most.
I went to UW-Madison, graduated with a Theater degree with a minor in Writing, but my real major was partying. Was Social Chair of my sorority for two years! Went to Univ. of Michigan for Law School. I practiced complex commercial and IP Litigation for 6 years both in Chicago and Washington, DC. I became a legal recruiter in 2000 and haven't looked back. I married the guy who would become my ex-husband in 2005. Divorced 10 years later. Best 180 pounds I ever lost. I have two phenomenal, strong, empathetic, beautiful, obnoxious teenagers. I surround myself with rescue animals, art, music, and gratitude (sobriety date 2/17/2017). I'm a black belt in taekwondo, can flip 24 (when not training) to 40 (during the middle of the season) quarters on my elbow and catch them in my hand. I believe sparkles are a neutral. I spent too many years/months/moments stressing about things I'd done and things that might happen - I try every day to be present, tolerant, and kind. You can only keep it if you give it away. And this day? This day? It is life.