Dan Bowman
Our first 50th class reunion planning session took place on Aug.14th at Richard's Pizza on Main St.
In attendance, classmates Tom Porazzo, Rick Turpin, myself and the long distance award winner, Melanie Williamson Gross. She flew from her home in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, to join us for the evening. We knew of two others who wished to be there but an earlier commitment for one and an unforeseen situation preempted the attendance of our other valuable classmate. To be clear, any classmante who can attend to share ideas during this early stage of planning are of value to not only the committee but for all who attend our "once in a lifetime" 50th anniversary.
A question posed on this forum concerned spousal participation. My reply was in the affirmative. Having been a novice military reunion planner in 2003, many of us collectively learned that "If Mama ain't happy, nobody's happy." The "norm" was to plan events that weighed heavily on the men's interests with the spouses expected to tag along. Living in a two gender world necessitates input from both sides. If my spouse were not a particant in helping to plan our 50th, I must honestly tell you that any ideas that I may personally feel strongly about, would be shared with her knowing that I would receive objective feedback. I still feel committed to having spouses join us if they wish.
As with any planning of this nature, knowing certain criteria is paramount. What we need to know can only be answered, at this point, with a mistake proof crystal ball. Learning that these rarely seen accurate future telling mechanisms are in extremely short supply, we must press on with planning by placing ourslelves into the minds of each of our classmates.
So far, the committee feels that as in the past, most classmates want to stay close to home. Hamilton obviously is HOME. However, there is a cost to staying close to home. Therefore, we are looking at some other venues nearby that may be more lucrative cost wise. From past experience, I know that some people will not find a problem spending an amount of money that another would feel to be too exhorbitant. The bottom line for the committee is to have each and every class member attend if they choose to do so. We do not want money to be an impediment to attending this event.
A 50th class reunion is to be celebrated like none of the past reunions. Our dilemma is to provide the best at a cost everyone will embrace. Some may want a fully plated, sit-down dinner with everyone wearing their finest while others may wish to snack, drink and schmooze while dressed in their most comfortable attire.
Most importantly, we need to know numbers. Who wants to attend/will attend is high on the list of things to know. Obviously, if we provide objectionable answers to your hopes, the list of attendees shrinks.
Although there are no guarantees in life, the planning committee would be more comfortable knowing what our classmates wish. Sharing your ideas either on this forum or contacting us personally would help us determine what course to follow.
Thank you for taking the time to read. If there is any confusion due to my rambling thoughts, please consider "asking for a friend."
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