Carol-Lynn Liberator (Miller) (1976)
Why are all of the classes of 1965 to 1991 to 94 grouped together ? Just wondering!
I just went to the funeral of a friend this week. Ned Smith was the Coventry CT HS Band Director. He died over the weekend. He was 30. Great Teacher, Great Friend, Great Musician and Percussionist. A spiritual young man. A Catholic young man who would share his philosophical & spiritual wisdom without hesitation. He reminded me of Les.
I thought of our dear friend, Les and what an impact he has continually made through my life. Les's life lives on and on in each one of us who experienced Les's compassion for teaching and of fellowship through music. I never experienced any one quite like Mr C before when I entered South Catholics doors. His Cheshire cat smile and twinkle in his eye. That sweaty brow. That voice that poured out a Crayola Box of music notes. Mr C gave me confidence and told me so and encouraged me. He brought out in me a love of singing that was hidden in my music box. Being taught to sing in a way I didn't really know any one could. That one could be trained to... sing ! NED, the same as LES went to Hartt, and I was on the committee to interview Ned. The first thing this young man presented was how he wanted everyone to sing their parts. FUNNY thing was Ned was being interviewed for BAND director. BUT i knew ! I knew if H S students could hear and sing their parts what better music students they would be. Ned got the job. His impact, as with other "life" teachers you know has such a powerful ripple effect out to others.
Is Mr C smiling at you now..... smile back and wear that smile. So many poeple we pass each day NEEED to see a smile and hear a hello. Try it you'll like it.
I want to share a story of how this man. A larger than life teacher. The first black man in my life. I say it that way because it was sooo important and brave of him to teach in the south end. Especially after the '60's. He taught so many of us, our Parents Family & Friends too that we are all Children of Our Father. He came to our house with out reservation of what "neighbors" thought. He taught friendship and respect of all.
Mr C gave me driving lessons in 1977 in his crapped out car (was it a Pontiac) with the bent out of shape drivers seat. Why did he ?
So we could attend the first Spoleto Festival in Charleston SC. We went. The two of us. I felt safe but i don't know if he did. I received careful instructions . I got a dose of the true south through Mr C and how weird to experience that, as i am "well " white and a new englander. I learned that seperation existed . Sadly exists still. My life was never the same after that trip. It molded my person, My stronger Catholic person that I am today.
My faith ful Catholic life changed dramatically after many years of marriage to my wonderful husband Glenn. God always knows everything about each one of us.... from who are grandparents were to be & before we were conceived ...to how are life role would play out. What we would do and how we stray. GOD forgets nothing.
God loves you right were you're at but HE loves you too much to leave you there. We are HIS creation and HE loves us sooo very much. You & you and YES ! you too.
In 1999, the year Mr C died, the Lord led us to a mission at our parish to open our ears, minds and our hearts. We met Father Ray Introvigne. He is one of the greatest priests God created. Fr Ray spoke about the Love that Our Lord wants us to take. Years later, we have been knocked down silly with how Jesus has opened our lives to HIM and to know & share the Love of our dear Lord to many others especially through the Holy Spirit and Spiritual Renewal, through Life in the Spirit, Philip, Unbound & the ACTSCT retreats.
I wish you all a new Autumn season and a full ... filled to the brim Advent season. Read the Bible - Get into a bible study. Or Better yet. A Catechism study . Know your Catholic faith. Defend your Catholic faith. Go to Mass! There is one everyday. As Fr. Ray says " YOU may be the only Bible somebody reads "
I pray for all your joys, griefs, and for you to become the Best Authentic Whole person that God wants to you TO be !
Blessings of our Lord to all of you,
Carol-Lynn Miller (liberator) 1976 Coventry CT
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