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10/18/08 09:21 AM #1308    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

Lauryn's bathroom
Her Bedroom
See what I mean?

10/18/08 09:32 AM #1309    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

back on the note of the whole boy thing. I still take this into consideration, if you tell them NO they can't see that person, then that is exactly what they are going to do. How many times have we seen that happen? Mom and dad say "no, you can't date that boy" then they sneak out or say, I'm going to so and so's house and they don't go there they are going to see exactly the same person you tell them they can't. I'd rather know that's who they are a seeing, so I know when she's with that person and where they are going. Remember I can check up on these things, people are willing to tell you when they've seen your child. For the most part lauryn and some of her friends will just be hanging out around the house. They will sit here on the couch watching movies, or out in the garage goofy off with either a volleyball or basketball. I'd rather know and be able to monitor, than wonder if they are doing something I've told them not to......does that make sense?

10/18/08 09:32 AM #1310    

Sheryl Morris (Gilmore)

She prob. would die if she knew you showed us.You know I stay overwhelmed around my house cause were always in a state of transition, with our remodeling.You know, with my husband doing that for a living,my house is last. With the kids, our working and other activities, we never have the time anyway. So one of these days, when the kids are gone(I'm sure) my house will be done!I prob. want even need all the space by then!

10/18/08 09:35 AM #1311    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

well guess it's a good thing she don't come on this site!!!!.....LOL

10/18/08 09:42 AM #1312    

Sheryl Morris (Gilmore)

Oh yeah!I totally understand that! In fact no one can watch my kids like I can! it seems when my Erin would go to her friend's house,I would find out that they did things her mom failed to mention to me.And it always seem my Erin got the blame after the fact. But her mom wouldn't always watch over them like I do.They got into trouble for texting a boy, when my kid doesn't even have a phone.My Erin got the blamed for that one!Even though,she said she hadn't set limits for her daughter before hand. Give her a phone, then lay out rules later on a 11yr old! Makes alotta sense, Huh!

10/18/08 09:54 AM #1313    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

See that is where communication is key! I know lauryn is going to do things that she isn't going to tell me. I'm not stupid enough to think she isn't. I do however, talk to her all the time. She keeps me informed of where she is and I usually know who she's with. Her friends will always say hi when they come to pick her up, or they run out to the car if I drop her off. I tend to see the majority of the people she hangs out with either by them coming over, or at school. This past season, it was nothing to have about 20 different kids come running up to me screaming Ms. Vicki and wrapping their arms around me in a big bear hug. Of course she has one friend I tell him he's a freak all the time. He will run up grab a hold of me squeeze really tight and say oh baby every time he does. When he finally puts my feet back on the floor, I smack him and say, "Storm you're a flippin freak!" The really funny part is when I tell his mom, "you know I threaten to beat him senseless on a regular basis right?" She just lookes at me and laughs saying, "Why threaten just do it, he probably deserves it"...LOL. I feel so sorry for that woman, she has 4 boys and they are all a trip. Storm is one of the stars of the boy's varsity soccer team, Cadence plays baseball, gunner is into basketball and, Cannon is a very talanted gymnist even at the age of 6! I will be looking for that boy in the olympics one day. You think I'm kidding, be looking for the name Cannon Tootle! The really sad part is he looks just like Storm. We call him storm's mini me. But I digress, I think one of the biggest battles of raising your kids is communication, as long as that line is open than you are good to go. At that point you are so far ahead of some parents.

10/18/08 10:00 AM #1314    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

Oh I'm also not stupid enough to think my child is a perfect angle and doesn't get into or cause any trouble...LOL.

10/18/08 10:11 AM #1315    

Sheryl Morris (Gilmore)

I know what you mean! It wasn't that long ago that we were there, you know!Just a blink ago! Anyways, I gotta go Vicki--will catch ya later!

10/18/08 07:31 PM #1316    

Rebecca Atchison (Welch)

You guys crack me up....

I am just catching up....We took Bailey and Joh as well as our nieces Taelyn and Raven to Zoo Boo today in Houston. It was packed but they had a good time. Normally we go tot the zoo during the week when all the big kids are in school:) no so busy. Then we hurried home to have Raven's 8th birthday party....Hannah Montana style:) It was fun and i just dropped the last little girl off at her house. I figured I would have a moment before having to drive Robby to the high school for the Homecoming dance...gosh does it ever end?????????

Kids aren't to bad though...Oh and our 2 yr rule applies to our boys as well. Matt is 15 but still in the 8th grade (he had trouble reading and has been held back twice in Elem.) So he is not even allowed to have a junior high girl friend unless she is atleast 14 or older. And we really stress that to him that most of the girls at his school are still way to young to even be interested in boys and if they are they are not the type of girl he wants to be with:) So far its worked. But I agree with ya V communication is key!!! Plus myspace and facebook are the greatest things in the world. Heck yeah I accept all my teenagers friend invites...a myspace page tells ya alot about a person!
But even still they go and do stupid things...example Nicole out of the blue calling and saying hey we are getting married tomorrow....oh well I'll get ove that sooner or later.

10/18/08 09:39 PM #1317    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

I agree on the myspace thing. I have several of the girls' friends on my myspace page. Lauryn's thought on several occassions that I sent them request when the truth is most the time they are sending me request...LOL. There are a few of her friends that send me comments all the time. One of them happens to be one of her old boyfriends. Lauryn always just laughs and says to me, well they just think you're the hot mom with the big boobs....LOL. She told me one day, I think half the guys I know don't talk to me because of me, I think they talk to me because of you. I told her well, I can't help that, but at least I know who you're talking to...LOL.

10/19/08 12:14 AM #1318    

Rebecca Atchison (Welch)

Ok I just got home from getting Robby from the dance and I kid you not when I dropped him off there was this group of kids out front when we pulled up that were like "McLovin, cool" . So I pick him up this evening and he's chatting with one of the school police officers who as he says bye doesn't say "bye Rob", but "see ya McLovin"...So I asked him if those kids were his friends and he's like "nope just people that know me as McLovin" I was like "and the officer"...he's like mom "I am McLovin' everyone calls me that...friends, people I don't know...even the school police" I was just speechless. I don't know whether to be glad it is bringing him out of his shell or worried???? but hey the kid is smiling and socializing...life is good!

10/20/08 11:10 PM #1319    

Rebecca Atchison (Welch)

Hey all I posted some new pics on my page of my little ones at the Pumpkin Patch....V I even put up a pic of Baileys pumpkin:)special just for you:)

10/21/08 12:09 PM #1320    

Jenny Davis (Renault)

Everyone loves Mclovin. So I think it is a good thing.

10/21/08 03:28 PM #1321    

Rebecca Atchison (Welch)

Thanx...me too...he says mom EVERYONE knows me now....not bad for the shy child. I think it has actually done wonders for him!

10/22/08 11:09 AM #1322    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

PRAY FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! LAURYN GOT HER LEARNER'S PERMIT TODAY

10/22/08 11:24 AM #1323    

Sheryl Morris (Gilmore)

OMG Vicki!! I'll Pray !! Like I said you're a few yrs ahead of me,I'll learn about what not to do as a parent from you!Ha!ha!Ha! I already know,don't give your kid's friend the keys to your car,like Becky's mom allowed me to do.We never did anything bad or even wrecked her car,but I'm sure I'll never let that happen! I just can't believe we were trusted enough to have the keys!

10/22/08 01:45 PM #1324    

Rebecca Atchison (Welch)

My mom and dad loved you! Plus I was the kid that KNEW I would get beat if I F'd up. I got grounded for bad grades...can you imagine if I actually did something????

OMG V...on the prayer list:) Really not to worried though you know your girls are the best and better behaved than most their age!

10/22/08 02:18 PM #1325    

Sheryl Morris (Gilmore)

Hey Becky--I didn't know that they were that strict.I thought they were cool.My parents,on the other hand, wouldn't let me drive my car anywhere,my mom would have died,if she knew about your mom letting me drive her's.I use to think it was torture for them to give me a car and not let me drive it anywhere.I really only could drive it to school and back home.I would save my lunch money for gas to drive my friends home after school.I don't remember even driving it around the neighborhood that much,did I ever drive to your house?I thought my parents were very strict with me on that,but they never came down on me for my grades.How crazy?

10/22/08 07:56 PM #1326    

Vicki Johnson (Patzold)

Aren't all of you glad you don't live in NC? Did I forget to mention that she almost rear ended someone on the way home from getting her permit? I told her, if you are going to drive in the right hand lane you have to be prepared for people to stop and turn (even worse the ones that turn at a snails pace) which is what this person did. I thought my heart was going to come out of my body!

On a lighter note, I also found out today my baby girl Lauryn has been nominated for the Sophmore Homecoming Princess. I'm so proud. Amy got nominated for Princess when she was a Freshman up in Alaska. Now to have my other little girl nominated as well. Amy didn't get it, but who knows maybe Lauryn will. I'll let you all know.

10/22/08 10:09 PM #1327    

Rebecca Atchison (Welch)

Sheryl-Ya know my parents were funny about stuff...strict in so many ways and then I dated a 21 yr old for 2yrs, starting when I was 16...go figure. But ya I guess it depended on how drunk my dad was on any given day...
And no you never drove to my house...come to think of it I never even knew you had a car...LOL...guess they were strict:) Wow I guess we were lucky to get to drive my moms car...

V...I hope she gets it...both girls are so beautiful!

10/24/08 06:42 AM #1328    

Sheryl Morris (Gilmore)

Becky-I can go on and on about how my parents were so strict with me and how my brother had all the freedom in the world.I guess that's why,I've always been the responible one,though!
Vicki-I wish Lauryn Luck!

Where is everyone hiding this week?

10/24/08 07:16 AM #1329    

Deana Sampson (Jenkins)

Hey peeps!
What's up?
Sorry I've been m.i.a lately, it's been hectic around here. Beau was hospitalized in Missouri last week for what they thought was a heart attack. Thank goodness it wasn't, he was found to have an irregular heartbeat and he had a bad anxiety attack that for him mimmicked heart attack symptoms. He came home and has decided to give up the long haul, on the road trucking and is going to be more regional/local to be at home more. It's all good!
Our Reunion Committe meeting is scheduled for Sunday at 3:30. Hope to see those of you that can make it. I'm excited to at least pin down a date. The company that is sending me the proposal to do our reunion is saying that the best turnouts are in July/August, but nothing past September. Sounds all good to me.

Hope everyone is good, all is good over here, gonna add some pics to both sites today so I will be around hanging out on the boards...check in peeps!

10/24/08 07:57 AM #1330    

Jonel Bishop (Lockler)

Deana I hope Beau feels better. I know you must have been freakin' out with him being so far away in sick. Good thing he was not a knuckle head and took himself to the hospital. Kevin would have been like "naw, I'm ok, just walk it off". Please call me if you need anything. We are still in the apt, but not too far away to help out.

10/24/08 08:32 AM #1331    

Deana Sampson (Jenkins)

It really did bite ass that I couldn't be there. I'm a bit of a control freak sometimes, and when I don't have it, I am just a freak! It was tough him being so far away, but it all turned out good. The hospital was sooo nice and I am sure they will charge for that, but hey, at least he is okay.
Thanks so much, you are such a sweetie pie...Love ya bunches!
I think we should carpool on Sunday if you are still up for it, I meant to get back to ya on that but I was scattered...LOL...

10/24/08 09:33 AM #1332    

Jonel Bishop (Lockler)

Glad to hear he is feeling better. I'll call you on Sunday. I have to check with Kevin and see what plans he has for the day, Chelsea got a job and gets off work at 3, I think. I'll call you to arrange the ride.

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