Melissa Wilder Kurz

Oh boy, here's how it went down. I may be remembered for dating, or even being ENGAGED in high school, defending "MY RIGHT" to wear an engagement ring during cheer functions and all that great stuff. I look back at that now and just laugh. Yes I married Steve, and 2 months after we were married I caught him sleeping with one of my "good" friends...... needless to say, I sucked up all the pride I had and @ 18 yrs of age I said NO WAY will I live like this. We divorced! I then met Doug, who became my 2nd husband........ We were two peas in a pod. Got married in 1996 and had victoria in 1997. we lived life, me being a stay @ home mom and working full time periodically to cure boredom. Happy as we were I became prego a 2nd time in 2007 only to find out @ 3 mo pregnant that my husband is addicted to Meth and heroin. we lost everything we busted our asses off for, and I fought hard during my pregnancy to get him help. but the day I gave birth, I gave up on him. My new little girl needed my attention. He is still currently addicted, and Victoria is almost 12 and lil kali is nearly 2. Im happily living in Santa Maria with my current love Lorne Leeds. :)

I remember Jalama Beach with Michelle Rowe during 3&4 periods and Lunch.... hitting a cow, and almost driving off the cliff 2x LOL ....... WHITE ROCK CURVE. I remember Walking out of graduation line just so I could walk out with Kenny (hey we should have run off together like we planned) LOL highschool was fun, and I have no regrets...... cause @ one time I really wanted that regret. HA