According to Jerry Poole:

Connie Jo Mayfield Totty, 65, passed away peacefully on December 28, 2012 surrounded by her loving family.  She was born June 19, 1947 in Oswego, Kansas to Lulu and Ross Mayfield.

She married her high school sweetheart, Donald Totty on June 29, 1968.  She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister and aunt.

Connie enjoyed wathcing her grandkids play baseball and supported her granddaughter's girl scout troop.

Connie was full of life.  She loved to shop, line dance, gamble, travel with her sister, and most of all spend time with her family.  She was a loving person who had a gift for making everyone feel special.

Connie is survived by her husband of 44 years, Donald Totty, her children Danny  and his wife, Angel of Santa Rosa, CA; Billy of Napa, and Jill and her husband Rafael of Napa; four grandchildren, Sabrina, Bryce,Justin and Ashlyn; sister Sharon Neidlinger of Napa, Janet and her husband, Ken of Clearlake Ca, and brother, Ricky and his wife Chris of American Canyon, and numerous nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her parents.