In Memory

Robert Obray

Robert Obray

Robert Dale Obray

February 5, 1967 — August 9, 2022

Robert Dale Obray, 55, died peacefully at home as a result of a rare neurological disease on Tuesday, August 9, 2022. His family whom he dearly loved was by his side.

Bob was born to Larry and Vicki Obray on February 5, 1967 and was the third of seven sons who all share the same haircut. His childhood was spent in North Ogden where he helped his father in the drywall business. The training taught Bob the importance of hard work, integrity, reputation, and quick-witted humor. Bob was an active and confident young man playing football, participating in school choirs and serving as class president.

Bob first met Jennifer Evans in second grade. They have been great friends ever since. Bob regularly recounted his excitement to be assigned as Jen’s choir partner in junior high. Upon returning home from his service in the San Juan, Puerto Rico mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Bob and Jen were reunited at a singles ward ski trip. They were sealed for time and all eternity in the Salt Lake Temple on December 15, 1988.

Bob received a master’s degree in accounting from Utah State University. His typical response to praise for his accomplishments was “not bad for a bean counter.” Throughout his life he influenced people who looked to Bob as a leader and a mentor. Bob was a loving and confident man who experienced success in every aspect of his life.

The success that mattered most to him was in the home and he made family his highest priority. Bob and Jen had an ideal marriage that was built on the comfort and the well-being of the other person. During their 34 years of marriage, Bob and Jen became parents to three children. Bob was happiest when he was spending time with his family: boating, skiing, golfing, cycling, and going on family vacations. He especially loved spending time with his grandchildren.

Bob was a natural leader. In his presence, people felt seen, valued, and loved. At the time of his passing, he was serving as Stake President of the Layton Legacy Stake and as Chief Executive Officer of Associated Food Stores.

Few things brought him greater satisfaction than taking raw material and refining it into a masterpiece. He applied this principle to people as much as his woodworking projects. The result of his master craftsmanship is seen in the people he influenced and in the pieces of furniture adorning family members’ homes.

Bob is survived by his wife Jen, his three children, Lindsay Evans (Jonathan), Trevor Obray (Maddie) and Chandler Obray (Aubrey) and four grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his father Larry and his brother Kevin.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 p.m., Saturday, August 13, 2022, at the Layton Legacy Stake Center, 752 North 3700 West, Layton, Utah. A public viewing will be held at Lindquist Mortuary, 1867 No. Fairfield Rd, Layton, Utah, Friday, August 12, 2022, from 5 to 8 p.m. and from 12 to 1:30 p.m. at the Stake Center prior to the funeral services.

Interment, Ben Lomond Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints Missionary Fund.

https://www.lindquistmortuary.com/obituaries/robert-obray?fbclid=IwAR1r1m7OAy5DRHkAj8JM4EAdLFMgHmxCiT-QQLx2_jZ9OBTrkuX6GSHH8OY

 



 
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08/12/22 11:08 AM #1    

Tonya Ross (Fanto)

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Bobby. His obituary was spot on. I can not think of a kinder young man in high school. Both Jen and Bobby were the nicest people. They were inclusive, caring, leaders and I am grateful to have known them. I send my deepest condolences to Jen and the family, I know he will be truly missed. Love to you Jen.

08/21/22 12:32 PM #2    

Patrick Osmond

It’s no secret that Bob and I were best friends our senior year at Weber.  Bob was very fun and a handsome man.  Bob's sense of humor bounced off mine so we just cracked each other up.  Admittedly, I was jealous when Bob married his beautiful wife Jennifer who was a cheerleader at Weber.  He was my best friend and I knew that his marriage to Jenn was the end of our friend.  Such is the things of life.  I loved going to stomps with Bob, skiing with him, going to dances and seeing him every day in school at good ol' Weber.  Naturally, I'm heartbroken that Bob's life was shortened by this awesome disease.  I loved that man and his entire family.  His children were beautiful.  Vicky and Larry, his parents, were like my substitute parents.  If I was hungry or thirsty, I'd just go look through the refrigerator and pick out what I wanted.  Indeed, I was their 8th son.  I can't wait to see you again my friend... my heart hurts that you are gone.

Pat 


08/23/22 09:16 AM #3    

Randi Russell (Bibler)

(Shared from Mindy Leavitt Whiteley)
This is one of the last videos of Bob

https://www.instagram.com/reel/ChlQdmzlGsq/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

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