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Stephen Leuchtman
Sometimes I think it was in another life; other times I think it was the day before yesterday. I remember that it had rained, so we had to have commencement in the gym. In going up to get our diplomas, we were paired up with a member of the opposite sex, more or less by height if I remember right. I got paired with Sue Haight, whom I really didn't know---but I remember being struck by how pretty she was.
The highlight of commencement for me was Marilyn's salutatorian speech. Most commencement speeches are boring, pretentious, or both. They're either a reminder that the future of the graduates lies ahead of them (where else would it be?) or an exhortation that the graduates can do anything in life they want to if they put their backs to the task (really?!?). Instead, Marilyn's speech was about the sights, sounds and memories of Thurston High, how it would stay with her forever, and how quickly it had all passed. It was very moving, a word picture that really let you see in your mind what she was describing. I've thought about that speech on and off over the last 50 years.
It's funny how life comes around in a full circle. We leave the place where we grew up and the people we grew up with, go off, have careers, raise kids, travel, laugh, cry, make love, fight, and live our lives. And then as it becomes evening, we remember and cherish our roots. I've lived in Bloomfield Hills and Montana, and I've spent a large amount of time in New York and Los Angeles. But in the end, I tell people I'm just a guy from Redford who went to Thurston High School. I imagine that at heart, we all feel that way.
Thanks, Marilyn, for once again taking us down memory lane.
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