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Ken Ortiz
"I'm not in love...so don't forget it...It's just a silly phase I'm going through... And just because...I called you up...Don't get me wrong...Don't think you got it made......I'm not in love, no, no......."
How many of you had your first heartbreak while at Lane? I did. And she was a Lane student also.
When I heard the above song at the reunion dinner, it reminded me of my first heartbreak and the song was one of several that stuck with me during that time.
It was also the first time (but not the last time) I heard the term:
"You are a nice guy....but I only like you as a friend"!
OW!
But it didn't quite go like that.....it was worse......here is the story:
I liked some girls while I was at Lane, some I had crushes on, but I was pretty shy in the way where I would not let them know. But I would joke with them and hang out with them as friends. So there was one among a group I hung out with that would ride back on the bus I went home on. So we started to hang out together on the bus after school and we were hitting it off really well. So one Friday, we decided to get off the bus together before our stops and hang out and we had a great time together, holding hands, then snuggling on the bus going back home. Since my stop was before hers, she hugged me and she kissed me before I left the bus.
Well, all weekend I was on cloud nine. I was IN LOVE and had a girlfriend. Then Monday came.
So on Monday, things changed.......she was distant.....I was getting the cold shoulder......she was avoiding me during lunch.....etc. So, in essence, I was getting "Ghosted - 70's style"
The next day at lunch, she was with a few of her girlfriends and I went to sit by her....she gets up and walks away. I start to get up to follow her, but one of her girlfriends stops me and says to me:
"She thinks you are a nice guy, but she only likes you as a friend"
DOUBLE OW!!
That was my first heartbreak and it took me awhile to get over it. I was such a mess during that time too. I found out sometime later that I was a "rebound" guy and her heart was still with her previous guy (not a guy from Lane, a guy that lived in her neighborhood).
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