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08/01/08 03:26 PM #334    

Faith Zimmerman

I have to agree. One of my biggest complaints (among many) with the Catholic Church has always been how they treat women. This includes going all the way back to probably about 4th grade when they wouldn't let any of us be "Altar Boys". I was so indignant!

08/01/08 10:51 PM #335    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Thanks Elmer!! Have a safe trip!

08/02/08 08:34 AM #336    

David Jones

Bill,truth be told,your 2 daughters won't let you go.I know the feeling,I have 3 daughters that won't let me go.It is more like you wanted to go with your friends and your wife won't let you go ( as in my case ).I also tried to explain my reasoning, and that didn't work for me either. My friends and I went somewhere else. As far as Hoovers/Hooters, Hoovers doesn't have many wings, but they do have plenty of breast.

08/03/08 03:02 PM #337    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

gotta love men talk geesh! Good to see ya David where have you been hiding?
Beautiful day today...love theses days they remind me that school will be starting soon...yippee!
OK cyas later not very talkative @ the moment...I know you are all surprised...but tis true not much to say...bye

08/03/08 11:53 PM #338    

Lisa A. Henkel (Bruening)

Greetings! I've been following the posts and am looking forward to seeing so many classmates at the reunion. Thanks Cheryl and John for taking the initiative to get this going. I've updated my profile and posted a couple of pictures. Now you know I'm out there!

Lisa (Henkel)

08/04/08 05:47 PM #339    

Vincent DeJesus

Hi guys. I know I'm coming in late to the game but I've been working my way through the old posts and they've been awakening brain cells that have been dead for 30 years.

Harold: Back in May you were remembering how Sister Georgine used to beat you for your "disruptions." The word she actually used was "ejaculations." That's one I've never forgotten.

Bill: Loved the picture of you and the yak. Which one was the yak?

Marianne: I got Cheryl's email with your directory project. You're on summer vacation... you don't have to give out homework assignments.

Hope to see you all in October.

08/04/08 06:18 PM #340    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Vince, it doesn't matter that you are late in joining us, just glad to see that you are. Your note to Bucky made me laugh, thanks for that.

08/04/08 11:22 PM #341    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Hi Greg,
I have to find out more info, but my nephew sent a resume for a teaching job in Hawaii, just to see what would happen. Guess what?? They contacted him about it. Now he is like, what am I to do?? I will find out where just to see if you know anything about the location. Is that alright with you??

08/05/08 09:10 AM #342    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hi Vince!
Glad you joined us! You're funny...there's always time for homework. The assignment is due August 20th; for each day you're late, 10 points will be deducted from your final grade, so you better those typing fingers moving!!!! Just kidding, good to hear from you.

To everyone,

We are off to the Sussex County Fair today. It's now the official State Fair of NJ. If you live in the area and have never been, you are missing a great time! It's a wonderful family day trip with lots of cows, chickens, roosters, goats, pigs, home ec exhibits, not to mention the food and rides. Oh, and there are great craft tents for all you shoppers out there.
- I especially like the tie-dye lady - she makes beautiful clothes. Hope to see you at the fair!

08/05/08 11:35 AM #343    

Richard Kagan

Does anybody know where in the world is Mark Paleologo?

08/05/08 06:12 PM #344    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Hi MaryAnn,
We went to the fair on Sunday. Had a great time and ate all kinds of good stuff. Brought home a huge bag of kettle corn. Boy, its soo good. Have fun!!

08/05/08 09:46 PM #345    

Glenda Fidler (Gallagher)

Hola!

I just posted a couple of photos from this weekend in NJ. We celebrated Kathy's son's 10th birthday at Marianne's house in Boonton (Kathy's sister).

Just received the reunion invitation. What a great weekend it is going to be!

Glenda

08/06/08 07:11 AM #346    

Harold Cody

Hey All, Sorry I haven't posted in awhile, but it's my busy season at work. Steve Bourdette wrote me and reminded me of one of the funniest recordings ever. I had this on tape as a kid and I can remember bringing it to school. “The Great Crepitation Contest of 1946" by announcer Sidney S. Brown assisted by CBC producer Jules Lipton Note: This recording contains language that may be offensive to some listeners. Get over yourselves! :) Enjoy:

08/06/08 05:56 PM #347    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

What a great pic of all of you!! HI there everyone!! You all look great!!! :)
Thanks for posting it Glenda!!

08/06/08 09:36 PM #348    

Rich Lauber

Elmer:

Sorry for the delayed response, busy. Glad you enjoyed your time in Syracuse, wish I knew you were here we could have met up. Hope you got to visit Armory Square downtown, or some of the rest of the region (Finger Lakes, Adirondacks). I've found it's a great place to raise a family.

Harold:

Checked your website, what a cool business. Glad you enjoyed the Sal Piro audio I posted awhile back. Let me know how you embedded audio in your post, I've got almost an entire basketball game radio broadcast on tape. MCHS vs Chatham Boro in the 1977 tournament at County College. (Promise, it's the last recording I have). I'd like to make it easy for everyone to listen to. (Lisa, I wouldn't want to make you scream and fetch some kids to help :)

Marianne:

My mom and dad send their best to your family. You haven't changed, I'd recognize you in a moment. I'll watch to see if your husband plays any dates in upstate NY. I would make it a point to meet up with Ray. A friend of mine tours with the Belmonts, he replaced Dion years ago. He says he's played on the same show with Jay and the Americans many times.

St. Christopher's gang:

I hear Miss Rossi is still there. Sister Edwardina's diagramming sentences one of the most most useful things I ever learned. And her cutting pizza with scissors one of the grossest things I ever saw. :) Sister James Helene (now Sister Lorraine) still around, my parents ran into people who know her, say she's well.

I tracked down Mike Mellott, he was aware of the reunion and hopefully will log on soon.

And it's nice to see our HS senior pictures have been, as they say, repurposed so creatively. My daughter got the mail and saw the pic on the invitation envelope, she is STILL laughing...

08/06/08 09:59 PM #349    

Lisa Coppola

Lauby,
You'll be glad to hear I'm improving and have been copying and pasting with wild abandon. You would be proud of me. By the way, after reading your post,I thought I would recommend to you and all of our teaching classmates,an adorable little book I read entitled "Sister Bernadette's Barking Dog:The Quirky History and Lost Art of Diagramming Sentences" by the author Kitty Burns Florey. If you haven't read it, it's a must. It's nostalgic and informative and humorous...and will take you back to third grade standing at the chalk board in a flash. Do read it if you have time. It's fewer than 200 pages and goes very quickly.
Also, great to hear about Mike Mellot. He's got to come. He represents classic class of '78 memories for me. I'd love to hear about high school through his eyes!

Cheggy,
How are the boys?

Carol,
Where are you?

Elmer, Did you bring "good finds" back from the UK?

Faith,
You and Hope would have made adorable altar girls.

Bez,
Nancy Rodimer looks like she hasn't aged a minute.How is that possible? Glad you all had a good time.
October here we come!
xoxo Lisa

08/06/08 11:48 PM #350    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Hi All,

Yes, I've posted more pictures again, but want to continue sharing the GOOD times we are having before the GREAT time we are all going to have at the reunion. A couple of pictures from the birthday party for Kathy's son Dylan, and then dinner with the girls tonight at the Olive Garden in Rockaway. And Bucky, I forgot to extend a personal invitation to you - can you forgive me?

Rich, I can't believe that Miss Rossi is still at St. Christopher's. I may have to pop in and say hi. I remember seeing Sr. Lorraine not that long ago and she looked wonderful. And Sr. Edwardina's diagramming - who could ever forget that; but do you remember getting your head pounded into the blackboard while you were diagramming?

Lisa, I totally agree with you about Nancy, she looks trey fab.

Joanne, how are the boys doing? I continue to pray for them everyday. Thanks for posting the pics from Marcia's party. Karen looks wonderful - love the short hairdo and Marlene looks the same, fantastic. And Cheryl's cake, it was beautiful - I wouldn't have wanted to eat it. One more thing Cheg, I too have a picture of a double rainbow that I took at Wally World (that's what we call Walmart) by the Rockaway Mall back on Memorial Day weekend. That was the first double rainbow that I ever saw also. Must be something with the Rockaway Mall!

Okay all, must say good night.
Love to you all, Maureen

P.S. - don't forget to get in touch with Bucky about golfing on 10/3.


08/07/08 09:22 AM #351    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

Hello all,
Last night, it was either my wife or the dog or both having a crepitating contest, I think my wife won. Isn't great to be married! Harold my sons and I listened to that contest and were cracking up! Thanks!Ijust want to remind people of golfing at the Knoll on Fri. Oct. 3rd at or around 1030 Wives, husbands, first timers are all invited. I have extra sets of golf clubs if any one needs them. Iseem to collect them when my game goes south. It's not me it's the clubs.My e-mail is briedinger@foxvalley.net or call 815 356 5568
Keep crepitating
Buck

08/07/08 11:28 PM #352    

Cheryl Knapp (Carbini)

I”m fiddling around with this website, as if you haven’t noticed and I just read quickly the posts going backwards (getting ready for the Beijing Olympics, I guess)

I think I just decided that Elmer will give the welcoming speech at the reunion...wherever you are!

It is great to see the new pictures and see new people here! Keep it coming!!

I have to say Ciao...I have a stack of bills here-prob a whole months worth needing my attention!

08/08/08 11:27 PM #353    

Kevin Barone

Hey All-

Been lost in work lately...I think Carol is lost at the Sussex County Fair!!!!

I only read the last page of posts,so I really don't know what's been going on,but I found it very funny that Hoovers was still being mentioned because I think that's what my last post was about....and that was 2 or three weeks ago!

Marianne-

If Elmer speaks,it will take all night just to figure out what he's talking about!!!! LOL
Sorry Elmer,no offense!!! But I thaught that you were talking about LEGOS when I first started reading you last highly dignified post! I loved Legos when I was a kid! As most of you parents must know,those old games that we all knew now speak or spin or just downright confuse!!! It's almost like you're not really playing,your robot is.I'm pretty sure Twister is basically the same though....how would they....

Oh yeah, if Elmer speaks we'll need our lap tops & lots of researh material & I'd rather get drunk and just catch up....

Glenda!!
I was so glad to see your name.I have fond memories of you.You were so funny & sweet.

Speaking of funny & sweet,I get a double bonus when I come up for the party! I'll be seeing my goddess,Madonna,in N.Y. while I'm up there.The tour is called "Sticky & Sweet".I know...I'm a typical gay fan of Madge.

Harold,
Was it you that posted that old radio broadcast??I didn't listen to the whole thing,but I was so impressed!!!
I can't even figure out how to update my profile!
And if any one has seen my profile,you'll know why.
No wonder why you guys tortured me!!
All I have to say is that I have deffinately changed!

Carol,
You told me that you would help me.
At least you have some recent pics of us...

Hope & Faith,
What a fabulous pair of alter girls you would have been!!! It's so unfair!!! But don't get me started about religion again....Just love yourself and every one else and we'll all be fine...right???

OK,just wanted to post on 8/8/8.
Don't ask me why....


Oh, and Cheryl,
Honey just throw those bills in the garbage...the country is falling apart....save your money,you'll need it!!! Peace,KGB

08/09/08 07:57 AM #354    

Carol Vallone

Kevin,
Since they switched it to the State Fair, instead of Sussex County Farm & Horse Show, it's just not as much fun anymore!! (My favorite pastime, people watching, isn't as colorful since it's not mainly Sussex County residents.... if you know what I mean!!!) Even Robinson's racing pigs has gotten old for me!!! But I understand the 31st annual Renaissance Fair, in Tuxedo, has just started up. I try not to miss that since I went with you & your mom!!! Ahhhh, me hearties!! OH NO!! That's pirates!!! :o) You know what I mean though.... I'm never disappointed there, just amaaaazed at the goings on around me!! If I ever get a breast enlargement, maybe I'LL even start wearing a costume!!! For all you guys that can't get to Hooters because of your families, bring them to a Renaissance Fair!! All of a sudden it's okay for everyone to be baring their breasts... When my son was younger, he felt like he was in HEAVEN whenever we went!!!!

By the way Kev, stop BS'n.... you said you weren't going to the reunion!!! Are you or not?!?



08/09/08 01:51 PM #355    

Kevin Barone

Dolly-

I don't think I ever gave a diffinative "no"....but M is playing that week in Jersey & N.Y.!!!! So I figure if we're going to one....we may as well go to the other,no???
And yes,all of you families concerned with boobies...
Carol is 100% right! The rennaisance fair is the place where it all hangs out!! The wenches and their voluminous breasts and men in leotards.AND it's educational!!!!! BTW,what's wrong with the human body?
Nakedness is not a sin but a part of life-have no shame!
The moral part of sexuality has nothing to do with nudity.It's what goes on beyond the nakedness that needs to be taught.Many kids can get into a lot of trouble with their clothes ON!!! Glad 2 B single...KGB


P.S. Carol,I'm so sorry that they changed the "venue???"
of the pony show.I know how you enjoyed watching all the peeps up there!

08/09/08 10:34 PM #356    

Glenda Fidler (Gallagher)

What's that drink they serve at the Renaissance Fair - It's been a few years, but I think it's "mead"?(sp??). I think it has honey in it. Not sure.....


08/10/08 04:30 PM #357    

Elmer Dante

Hello all...

Bill and Faith:
What a fascinating issue you both brought up. Keep in mind that no contemporary theologian that wants to maintain any sort of respect in academic circles would support the postion that woman should not be ordained to the sacred order of priesthood.

However, the complexity of the issue is often been overlooked. Because the R.C. Church embraced the scholastic theology of St. Thomas Acquinas (one of the greatest theologicans who ever lived), the Church inherited the ideas of Aristotle (whose writings were synthecised with the teachings of the Church). Throughout his writings, St. Thomas refers to Aristotle as simply 'the Philosopher. Aristotle did not believe that woman were fully human. He thought that woman were deformed-men. Unfortunately, the reverberations of these historically-conditioned ideas are still felt today.

These Greek ideas mingled with Jewish ideas of ritual cleanliness. That is to say, in Orthodox Judaism, a menstrating woman is considered ritually unclean. Therefore, how could a woman preside at Holy Communion? Even today, many Eastern Orthodox women will not take Holy Communion when they are menstrating (this is not part of the great Tradition of the Church but has survived to this day as a folk practice).

In folk belief, this idea that women should not enter the altar area sometimes borders on the absurd. I remember as an altar boy in a Greek Orthodox Church (I was Orthodox before becoming an Episcopalian) that the priest brought an infact girl beyond the altar screen (when the mother was being churched) and the grandmother fainted. The priest felt is was acceptable; however, the grandmother knew better???

There is, however, hope. The former Pope, H.H. John Paul II, was not a Thomistic theologian. Despite the fact that he was a Phenomenologist, he was opposed to female ordination. Obviously, his arguments against female ordination were based upon the precedents of tradition and scripture (we Anglicans were able to move beyond this phase of the argument because our arguments are based equally upon the precedents of tradition, scripture and reason). In other words, reason prevailed because we were able to conclude that women are, indeed, human and that the fact that they were not previously ordained (at least not since the triumph of one form of Christianity) was a circumstance ordained by historical circumstances, not God.

Although I love a good mystery, Dan Brown has done nothing to clairfy the issue. Unfortunately, I often hear people referring to The DaVinci Code. The sad thing about Brown's book is that after having read it, I am certain that he hadn't read a so-called Gnostic Gospel and that he took great liberties with history.

I do believe, however, that St. Mary Magdallen was as important as the male disciples of Jesus. He really did have more that twelve disciples. The significance of the number twelve in the Gospels was to indicate that Jesus ushered in a new Isreal. In the Eastern Church she is still referred to as "the Equal to the Apostles." Undoubtedly she presided at the Eucharist.

Keep in mind that early Christianity was very diverse and my previous paragraphs really do justice to that diversity.

I think that the issue of female ordination can be favorably resolved when the official theologians of the Vatican consider other facets of the tradition: the significance of Our Lady in sacred tradition and the tradition of emergency baptisms (a sacramental action that can be perfomed by laymen as well as laywomen). In particular, the fact that an emergency baptism can be performed by a woman is the clearest indication that women can, indeed, administer sacraments (particulary since Holy Baptism is, with the Holy Eucharist, the most important of the sacraments).

Unfortunately (or fortunately) we are living in what might be termed an axial age. Old institutions are dying and new institutions are being created. Politicians and fundamentalists play upon the anxieties of this age. For example, during the last election, gay marriage was one of the hottly debated issues. Now that it (or civil union) has been legalized in several states (and heterosexual marriage has not come to a screeching halt, as a result), the focus is certain to be on some other, but similar, issue. Similarly, there are many within the Church who fear such change because they perceive it as a break with Holy Tradition.

Rich,

When I would stay at the Marx, I usually went to Armory Square for dinner. Pasquales was my bosses favorite--he and I spent a lot of time eating and, well, more time drinking there.

I also spent a week at Suburban's Courtland location performing a SOX audit.

The next time I'm up there I'll send you an e-mail.

Lisa,

I'm not going to Wales until September. I'll let you know how it goes. It's a small group (about 8 of us). We're staying in a haunted hotel. I'll let you know if I run into a ghost.
I'm really into ghost stories as a result of family vacations in Haiti (my father loved to gamble in the casinos) when I was young and because my brother and I inherited a house that had some strange occurances.

Glenda,

Mead is honey wine. You can usually get it here at Ethiopian Restaurants (I know. I've heard all the jokes; however, Ethiopian food is great.) It is also still produced in Cornwall in the U.K.

Kevin,

I certainly agree with you that people have strange attitudes toward the body.

One of my theology professors did a seminar on "hooking up" at Fordham (just before she was asked to leave as a result of being too post-modern). The consensus was that young people (dispite the New Age movement, etc.) feel disconnected from their bodies and that they view their bodies as "plastic parts."

I think that any text that attempts to disuss or advise on human sexuality must be regarded as suspect (including religious texts). Because sexuality is so psychologically charged, when we talk about it, we convey more about ourselves that about it (i.e., sexuality).

I think that ideas of the body have been impacted as much by religion as by science. In the modern era, we saw ourselves as minds inhabiting bodies. In popular culture this manifested itself in such television shows as 'Lost in Space' (a Robot with feelings) and in The 'Six Million Dollar Man' (what is the body?).

If often think back to the Medieval woman mystics who expressed their piety through their bodies (i.e., bodies that bled the wounds of the stigmata and bodies that lived on the host alone). To these woman, who had no power in either Church or society, their bodies became a source of power.

This particular society sends mixed messages regarding sexuality to children. Hooters and Playboy turn women into commodites. And, yes, I know these women are "consenting adults." But are they really? Is this informed consent? How many wealthy young women would work at Hooters or pose nude in Playboy? (Paris Hilton aside; I'm talking about young women with a modicum of intelligence.) Often, these "choices" are made because of economic inequities. In theology we call this the "economics of human frailty)."

There was a seminal feminist article written in the 1960s that indicated that as Christians we have no right to ask women to be humble. I agree with this, society has done enough to humiliate women (objectifying them and not providing equal pay for equal work). There is a difference between asking a corporate executive to be humble and asking a single mother on welfare to be humble--I'm not so certain that clergy are alway sensitive to this (which is one of the reasons I believe that clergy should have as much schooling in psychology as in theology).

At any rate, I certainly agree with your thoughts on the human body.

Warm regards to all,

Elmer


08/10/08 05:06 PM #358    

Lisa Coppola

Hi Elmer,
I have a few good ghost stories to tell, but I think I'll save them till October...keep you hangin'

Hi Kevin,
Glad to see you're back on. How are the new showrooms going? Hope you enjoy your Madonna concert though I must admit, she's not big on my hit parade. I do imagine seeing her in concert would be fun or skanky or something in-between! The last musical concert I went to was Dwight Yokum...Now that's good music. I also saw Kathy Griffin who's comedy kills me! Who I'd really like to see is Amy Winehouse ( a mess of a human sadly) or Brandi Carlile who is less well known but has a great voice. See if you can listen to her singing "Hallelujah" a beautiful song by Leonard Cohen.She ends most of her concerts with that song. You won't be disappointed. I could listen to it over and over again without getting tired of it.
Stay well and don't work too hard!

Bye for now, Lisa

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