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07/27/08 01:31 AM #309    

Lisa Coppola

Hey Marlene, That's an allstar cast of classmates...and I'm sorry I couldn't be there to join you and give everyone a big hug. You are so right. We are a lucky group. I feel emotional when I think of seeing everyone again...even people I barely knew. That's the beauty of the wisdom that comes with maturity.Now having said that, I'm wondering what you fine hotties gabbed about all night!!! I hope you had a million laughs...good medicine for all.
Stay well.
xoxo Lisa

07/27/08 08:56 AM #310    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Marianne
the party was the greatest, all the guests raved about the food, the room was done nicely and the staff was very accomadating. My mom and dad had the time of their lives and enjoyed the celebration..tell Bobby from the Van Sauns well done!
Margaret shade an empty nester who would have thunk it? I will just be beginning the whole looking for colleges and stuff like that this year w/ my son. He is going to be a junior in so I am sure this will be a busy year for the whole deciding on colleges and stuff...we shall see.
Gotta go be back later.

07/27/08 05:23 PM #311    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hi MaryGrace,
I'm really, really happy that the party went well for you... it will be a day your parents will never forget! I called my brother and read him your message and it made his day. Glad it was a success!
Love,
Mare

07/28/08 09:44 PM #312    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Where is everyone??????

07/28/08 09:49 PM #313    

Deborah Kozak (Martin)

Bez-

They must all be away! So how are you???? You look great! And I am jealous you still have long hair! Mine got chopped off when baby #1 came. By the way, I have to tell you your son looks just like my cousin's son. Do you have any relation to the Vacante family in Norristown, PA? I have to dig up some old pictures of him (he's in his 20s now) but I swear the resemblance between the 2 is incredible!

07/29/08 01:47 AM #314    

Lisa Coppola

Bill, just read about the awol 5 year old. I'm not sure if I'm more upset that he ended up at Hooters or that his town has a Mall called the Golden Triangle. Freud would have loved that one.

and Liz... be proud of me..I can now successfully copy and paste.(self taught I might add).
xoxo Lisa
Lights out for me now...Good night John Boy!

07/29/08 07:58 AM #315    

Margaret C. Shade (Hogan)

Hi All,
Marianne & Mary Grace
I know it will be hard. I thought last year when we dropped off my son I would be a mess. But surprisingly I was OK. Don't know if it will be the same way with my daughter. If I start to post pictures of a new puppy you'll know I'm having a hard time.
My daughter is going to Champlain College in Burlington VT. My son is at Rhode Island College.
Greg, The transition is easy If they are happy and like where they are.
Elmer,
Where have you been? With my new found freedom I may Have to start Yoga. Of course at my age the whole heated room thing might be a bit to much for my body to handle.
Bill, How did you find that article? Incredible story. I'm glad there's only been several violations.
Margaret

07/29/08 10:22 AM #316    

Charley Sabatino

WOW!!!!

I am already a mess just thinking about my my oldest starting high school this year!!!!! What am I going to be like in 4 years when college comes along.




07/29/08 11:16 AM #317    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

I know I'm going to be a total wreck next year with Michael being our only child!!!! BOO HOO!!!

07/29/08 04:36 PM #318    

Glenda Fidler (Gallagher)

Hi all:

For a non-partisan laugh, check this out:








07/30/08 01:43 PM #319    

Elmer Dante

Hello all. Hope you are enjoying the summer. Sorry about my not posting timely responses--I've been working on a massive tax return and putting together a Board presentation for my boss (or, I should say, one of my bosses).

At any rate, here are some specific responses...

Jean Marie: What a nice thing to say. I look forward to seeing you at the reunion as well. By the way, my brother lives in Longwood (near Lake Mary); my mother lives in the Sanford historic district; another brother and a sister live in Deland; and I have nieces in Miami and Fort Myers. I did live in Florida for about a year during the 1980s. I took my first accounting job as a staff accountant at SunBank of Volusia County in Daytona Beach.
Orlando is a great town--even better during the winter months. Until it closed, one of my favorite restaurants, Vivaldi's, was in Orlando.
I've spent a number of Christmases in Florida when it was very cold and I've also gone to Christmas lunch parties that took place outdoors.

Myrtle: I am attending the reunion. How could I not? I pass by the Parsippany Hilton everyday on the way to work (and everyday is not an exaggeration since I've been putting in seven days a week for some time). It will be great to see everyone after thirty years.

Margaret: I would highly recommend yoga—you either love it or you hate it , but you will feel the benefits rather quickly.

Marianne: Hope you are well. I’m trying to keep up with summer reading. This summer I’m focusing on the mysteries of Dorothy Sayers and P.D. James. Both of them wrote (well P.D. James is still active) mysteries that incorporate Anglican theology.

Lisa: I’m leaving for the UK during the first week of September. I’m going to make a concerted effort to go to several boot sales (boot is the British term for trunk). A boot sale is the English version of a flea market at which people sell items out of the boot of their cars. I’ll see what bargains can be found (although with the current dollar/pound exchange rate, it’s highly doubtful).

Best regards to everyone,

Elmer

07/30/08 02:44 PM #320    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hi Elmer,
Glad to hear you're keeping up with your reading, especially since you're working so much. Be prepared for an essay exam at the reunion! Right now, I am reading "Siddhartha" by Hermann Hesse. It was a watershed book for me in high school; it had a huge impact on my way of thinking and I wanted to see if it held up over the test of time. Upon revisiting it, I'm glad to report that it is just as good and thought-provoking the second time around. It's been reprinted 52 times! Have you ever read it? It incoporates Eastern and Western philosophical schools of thought, and challenges us to transcend our humanness to achieve enlightenment and salvation. But herein lies the conundrum - in order to seek Nirvana one must discover the true self, which involves first losing the self and dropping the ego. Difficult, no? Especially since as humans, we have wants and desires that are difficult to supress. Hesse asserts, through the character of Siddhartha, that what we can only learn so much from others and then have to forge ahead on our own quest to discover the truth about who we are. I would love to teach this book; there is no one right or wrong answer or path to the truth, and could lead to hours of discussion with the students but another teacher has dibs on it with the seniors!
Okay, that's it for now; my brain is starting to hurt.
Peace and love,
Marianne

07/30/08 03:22 PM #321    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Glad to hear that Elmer, I can't wait and I think its going to be one heck of a reunion!

07/30/08 08:49 PM #322    

Elmer Dante

Marianne,

Your mention of "Siddhartha" brings back many happy memories. I remember reading it for sophomore English class. I think that you were in that class and I believe that we received a homework assignment that involved writing a haiku in response to the book.

I think that the book is great because it has made an impression on so many. I can say that it put me on the path to understanding Western culture and Christianity through "Eastern" eyes. The practice of looking at ourselves and our culture (including religion) through the eyes of what post-modern thinkers refer to as the "other" is the pathway to self-understanding.

I recall that Hesse connected Siddhartha's ultimate realization with his meditation on the movement of the river--its movement serving as a metaphor for cause and effect (i.e., karma) and impermanence as well as the interconnectedness of all things in the universe.

It took me a long time to understand why Buddhists regard impermanence and the concept of an-atma (no self) as positive metaphysical concepts. I remember having repeated conversations with various Lamas at the Tibetan Buddhist Learning Center on this particular topic. Obviously, to a Western Christian schooled in the Western tradition, by Sister Georgine, the concept was threatening to all of my cherished beliefs.

For example, Western Medieval theology (excluding the Nominalists) placed great emphasis on the philosophical concept of substance (or essence). Indeed, the doctrine of Transubstantiation depends upon this philosophical concept. In other words, in the Western Medieval view,the prince who is changed into a frog is still a prince; in the Buddhist view, the prince who is changed into a frog is a frog (In the words of the Heart Sutra: "Form is Substance and Substance is Form"). I believe that I learned more about the Eucharist from those Lamas (because of the questions that they raised and that I raised as a result of our conversations). than I ever learned from Sister Georgine.

This is a great subject. Talk with you soon.

My best,

Elmer


07/31/08 08:03 AM #323    

William Casey

Elmer, now that makes sense and expains why eating the host after consecration is not canibalism. We now are Episcopal (Catholic-lite), but weave alot of buddist thinking into our lives. With having lived in Thailand for 2 years, do lots of work in Asia, and practice yoga, there's lots to be learned from both western and eastern thinking.

07/31/08 08:14 AM #324    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Good Morning everyone...
Just leaving for work, am glad cause its going to be a hot one today I think already. Wanted to let you know I posted some pics of old friends on my profile. Marcie(Marcia Heinl) had some good buddies of mine over for a celebration for Karen. Karen was coming into the area to look at colleges for her eldest boy, so we thought we would all get together. I surprised her with a visit from an old friend MaryEllen Fiore! She came up all the way from Florida to see her. MaryEllen is still and always is the sweetest person. Look her up in the freshman or sophomore yearbooks.
We also saw Marlene Stager, whom I haven't seen in a long time. It was soo great to see her. Loved listening to her stories. She is a blast!! Linda Ferguson, Cheryl it was soo great to see you also. I am so blessed to have such sweet people in my life.

So check them out, you will even get to see the cake Cheryl made, it was sure tasty.

Hope everyone is enjoying their summer so far. It is sure going by fast. My sons tour in Iraq is half over, so he tells me. It can't go fast enough for me. My other son, Dan, who is training in North Carolina this week, will be heading to the "theater" soon. Check out what he is learning to drive now. Google this.... MRAP truck. This thing is huge. For a young man, who hardly drove at home, is now driving these monster trucks!

Well, I better get going, hope to see more good stuf on here. Elmer, I am soo impressed, I love reading all your posts, I honestly can say, I always thought in h/s you were soo quiet!! Everytime you write on here, I am enlightned. Keep them rolling!!

Have a great day all.....JoAnn

07/31/08 08:15 AM #325    

John M O'Connell

Who kidnapped Bill Casey and who is the stranger who posted in his name? From Dance Fever to Hoovers to Hooters to transubstantion? One of these things is not like the other.

07/31/08 08:36 AM #326    

William Casey

squeaky fromme.

07/31/08 05:43 PM #327    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Ok, John and Bill are at it again!!

07/31/08 05:51 PM #328    

Hope Zimmerman

Where's Kelleher?

07/31/08 07:36 PM #329    

Elmer Dante

Bill,

I didn't know that you're an Episcopalian, as well. The strength of the Prayerbook is that it accommodates different points of view on the Holy Eucharist. Although most Anglicans don't (and didn't) embrace the Aristotelian language of Transubstantiation, the concept of the Real Presence has been, for the most part, universally embraced by Anglicans since the Elizabethan settlement.

Most contemporary theologians (many of whom have come to adopt theological positions similar, in many ways, to those of the Orthodox East), have come to describe various modes of the Real Presence: ecclesial, sacramental and universal. In other words, incarnation is far more than the historical incarnation in the person of the man Jesus (this is not to denigrate the significance of the historical even; rather, it is to assert that incarnation is not limited to the historical event). In the act of creation, the Logos (or the Christ) (I prefer using the Greek term ‘Logos’ because of the richness of meanings contained in that particular term) assumed the universe as a body or dwelling place. In that sense, the Real Presence is universal. In other ways, the Logos is present in the gathered community and in the Word (although the Bible is an expression of that Word, undoubtedly the presence of the Logos is made known in the sacred texts of other religions). And, undoubtedly, the Real Presence of the Logos is made known in the sacred elements consecrated on the altar. Because it is the self-offering of the Divine to the creation, it is a sacrifice because love is self-offering or sacrifice. In creating the cosmos and intimately engaging the cosmos as a lover, the Divine Logos dies to its own nature. This self-offering of the Divine is also expressed in the life of the historical Jesus—the pattern of whose life was raised to the level of myth and became a pattern of living and dying for generations of Christians.

The Mass is, therefore, a ritual corollary to this great mystery of incarnation. Additionally, it articulates, liturgically, the great mystery of the incarnation of the Divine in each of us (when we receive the consecrated elements, we recognize this presence within our depths). This is why it is important that the Mass, as liturgy (or the work of the people) be celebrated with the very best of things of this world (gold chalices, incense, beautiful music) because it is a celebration of the Divine in each of us and in the cosmos and that the things of this world are destined for divine transfiguration (or Resurrection). St. Augustine wrote that “the mystery that is celebrated upon the altar is the mystery of yourself.”

Sorry to be so prosaic. This is a subject for which I am passionate.

JoAnn,

I’ll make certain your sons are remembered during the prayers of the people at my church. I’m leaving for Florida tomorrow to see my nephew who is leaving for basic training in the Navy in a few weeks.

I’ll be away for about a week and will respond to any posts in a week.

Best regards to everyone,

Elmer



07/31/08 09:56 PM #330    

William Casey

Wow. As much as I'd like to continue that thread with Elmer, I might have exhausted the depth of my knowledge with my previous posts. So it might be wiser to get my head back above water and return to previous subjects. How about those Hooters wings, eh?

08/01/08 01:56 AM #331    

 

Greg Marion

They have wings?

08/01/08 08:31 AM #332    

Richard Kagan

Only when the dirkn Red Bull.

08/01/08 11:58 AM #333    

William Casey

Truth be told, I don't go to Hooters or those types of places. With 2 daughters and as I've gotten older, I find them degrading to women. My 17 year old wanted to go there a year ago with her friends for dinner and i told her no... big fight, but i explained my reasoning. they ended up going somewhere else. Also, one of the big selling points for the Episcopal church for me is that they have women leaders, which are great role models for my kids.

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