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05/28/08 04:02 PM #109    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hi Maureen:
Sr. Edwardina had hairs coming out of her chin and she was about 400 years old, ugh! But she sure taught me my grammar. Maybe she's the reason why I was called to teach English! My favorite teacher was Mrs. Jenkins - she was way cool - do you remember her? 6th grade, I think.
And I have been praying for your friend - the energy from group prayer is very powerful indeed.

Hi Carol:
Yes, Ray has a dress code and it's really funny. He's part of what's called the "USA Band" (the band that backs the 4 original singers) and they have to wear dark jeans, a red collared shirt, and a flag tie. But that's not so bad. The 4 original members (the guys up front who sing) wear these red turtlenecks, blue jackets, white pants, and red boots. Can you imagine!
AND they still play "Only in America"!!! too funny...

Hi Elmer:
I want to reply to your post but I am rushing out the door to my night class. I have been thinking about your wise words and have been enjoying our conversations. I am working on my master's degree and have been attending class for the entire school year every Wed. night from 6-10. It's been a struggle but I'll have 15 credits when I'm done.

I have had so many thoughts about students and their place in this world; we are having an outstanding week and I am beginning to realize how much I am going to miss them all next year. I feel like a mother bird pushing her young out of the nest! We are finishing the year with a "Music as Poetry" project. Having completed Shakespeare's "Twelfth Night" and an intensive look at selected sonnets, I wanted them to make the leap from study to application. They can select a song of their choice that is special to them (with prior approval from me), play it for the class, and share why they consider it poetry and why the song has special meaning to them. You would be surprised at the variety of music the kids listen to. I have gotten everything from Frank Sinatra to Led Zeppelin. Also, it's great fun for all of us! English should be meaningful as well as exciting, uplifting, and sometimes depressing - they are learning to think by taking the themes from great works of literature and applying it to their personal lives. It is amazing to see how much they've grown over the course of a year. I have learned as much from them as they have from me.

I have also been ruminating about the Buddhist concept of staying in the present moment - it sounds so simple but in reality is so difficult and takes much meditation and practice. I thought about that after you mentioned your visit with H.H. The Dalai Lama. That must have been a very special and cherished moment for you. I try to remember to "be present" many times daily but the "human condition" and the banality of every day life can sometimes make me forget. I find that being alone with my dog in the woods makes for a very spiritual time when I can re-focus and re-assess where I'm at.

So much for a short post, sorry if it's a little jumbled; I've been typing in a hurry and sometimes my mind gets ahead of my fingers.

P.S. Sister Georgine was right!

Love to you all,
Marianne

05/28/08 07:47 PM #110    

Faith Zimmerman

Marianne,
We did something similar to your "Music as Poetry" at MCHS in Mr. Sullivan's English class. We could pick a song of our choice to share with the class, and then had to evaluate it as a poem. I remember doing "Aqualung" by Jethro Tull. I bet some of your students are even picking some of the same songs that we looked at!
Faith

05/28/08 09:20 PM #111    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Joanne,
Great picture of you and Sister Stanislaus. She looks pretty good for her age, and I wonder how old she is now. Joanne you look wonderful also. The picture from the football game is fantastic. I'm pretty sure I would have recognized everyone except for Ms. Heinl - sorry Marcia. And like someone else mentioned - where is Ms. Heinl????

How are the boys doing so far Joanne? Any care packages being sent that we could contribute to? Just let us know. They are a constant in my thoughts and prayers.

05/29/08 11:38 PM #112    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Hi Maureen,
I wanted to let you know that your friend is in my prayers as well, seems like a lot of young friends are ill in some way with cancer. It is so heartwrenching to see the person and family deal(or try to ) with it. My prayers go out to all of you!!

My sons are doing well. Its been 56 days for Matthew, he tells me after his shift is over, boredom sets in. I really hope he finds something to keep him occupied. He is the kind that needs to be busy doing something. They have started a flag football team there, so that should be good. My other son leaves for Arizona for the month of June for training. Then heads out sometime in early Sept. to Iraq. Its a killer for me, always wondering how they are doing, they can't tell you what they are doing, so its a guessing game for me.

Anyway, thanks so much for asking about them, it means alot to me. He doesn't need anything now, but will find out for future needs.

This is great to keep in touch with everyone, even though I don't respond much, I like to read and laugh at all of your repsonses, so keep'em coming!! Bucky in a speedo!! Carol is a hoot!! Man, don't you love it!!
See you all...

05/30/08 09:10 PM #113    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Sorry Cheryl, but I just wanted to let everyone know that you just celebrated your birthday (on May 28th).

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHERYL!!! :-)

Love to you and thanks for setting up this great site.

Maureen

05/30/08 10:08 PM #114    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Happy Birthday Cheryl.......thought you could get away w/ it ay???? NOT!!!! This is a grreat site and we all owe it to you and John or just you or just THANKS!!!!!!!!

05/31/08 01:08 PM #115    

Elmer Dante


Bill,

Glad to see you enjoying the "new" China. When my mother sent me on the grand tour to find myself (26 years ago), everyone in China was dressed like Chairman Mao and foreigners, particularly young ones, were "observed" to make certain that they didn't poison the proletariat with their bourgeois sensibilities.

My travel mates and I were also told that if any of us smoked or used any illegal substance, under Chinese law we would be executed. We could, however, drink as much as we wanted. I remember a particularly strong Mongolian liquor that we became very drunk on while staying in a Yurt encampment at an ancient Mongolian Buddhist shrine. The group of us became so loud, a contingent of the People's Army came into our tent with guns pointed at us. We were told to be quiet or be taken to jail (we decided to be quiet).

I remember being pulled out of a temple in Shanghai by my "keeper" because I lit incense and bowed before a image of Shakyamuni in the Jade Buddha Temple. My "keeper"/"guide" screamed "...you are setting a very bad example for the people...religion is poison..." Keep in mind that I received credit for being there for an independent study in which I was studying Buddhist art.

Those were the days--a world in which Communism had no intention of competing with capitalism. What did we ever do without all that the "new" China has given us? Loss of jobs and all that great stuff (lol) in dollar stores (and who can forget the excitment of a recall of something every few months).

The truth is, China was a wonderful place to visit. The scenery is as beautiful as a scroll painting and the people were very welcoming (at least they were back then). They, like the Western world once did, are currently experiencing the growing pains of an industrial revolution. Hopefully, once they sort things out (and the sorting out will be the result of new found wealth), there will be a new regard for human rights and a regard for the environment.

Marianne,

I think that dogs are great spiritual teachers. In mythology, they seem to dwell on the threashold between the worlds. One need only think of Cerberus who, in Classical mythology guarded the gates of the underworld as well as a plethora of divine canines in the Tibetan, Egyptian and European traditions who are associated with the transition between life and death. Dogs are believed to be able to sense spirits. In England, I've often walked country paths said to be haunted by black dogs.

Dogs live in the eternal now instead of worrying about the future or obcessing over the past. This is the goal of many styles of meditation and yoga. It comes naturally to them, but not to us.

In the Anglican world, there is a story that has circulated from parish to parish (although it is believed to have originated in a C of E parish in Cornwall) that recounts the story of God's creating and naming the animals (this story takes some liberties, if you remember the account of creation in Genesis, it is Adam who provides the names) and that while doing so, the primordial dog followed him/her. When God was finished creating and naming the animals, the little dog said "I guess you are now out of names and, as a result, I shall go unnamed.." God said, "I saved the best name for you: My name spelled backwords. Furthermore, you shall be a friend and teacher to this humankind to remind them of my unconditional love for them. That is to say, you shall be an image of how I am."

The point of this story is that there is a revival throughout the Christian world of pre-Cartesian understandings of the cosmos and our relationship with other creatures. The story is also, in some ways, a critique of human/species bias and reflects some current theologial trends. The theological community, although revering Thomas Aquinas, is abandoning many of his pejoritive opinions regarding non-human animals (it is increasingly difficult to maintain this bias particularly as the world looks on at Hiasl, an ape who paints and does most of the things we do, who may soon be declared a legal "person" under Viennese law).

While some would argue that humankind is the image of God, I would respond that it does not automatically follow that humankind is the only image of god.

I wish we could have had these conversations with Sister Georgine. I'm certain that if we did, Harold wouldn't have been the only one she assaulted.

Keep in mind also, in the oldest stories of St. Christopher, he was said to be a dog. In fact, the oldest icons of St. Christoper show him with the face of a dog.

Speak to you soon.

Elmer


05/31/08 10:11 PM #116    

Lisa Coppola

Hi Elmer,
I had to read your latest post a couple of times before I actually got it, but when I did, I found it so thought provoking. Wouldn't any animal lover? If you characterize dogs as great spiritual teachers than cats must be spiritual professors. I guess you now know what kind of animals I have(LOL).I am going to research a little about the Saint Christopher image with the face of the dog.I have one friend in particular who I'm sure would like to know more about that.
...and by the way, I wish I'd known so many years ago what a complete scholar you were going to become!
Stay well!
Lisa

06/01/08 08:28 PM #117    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Happy Birthday Cheryl! Thanks for getting me addicted to this message forum!

Hi Faith,
That's too funny that you remember Mr. Sullivan's music project. I seem to remember him playing Art Garfunkel's "My Little Town" as a model. I bet you discovered many layers of meaning in "Aqualung"; that was a powerful song. I have received the gamut of songs from back in "our day"; everything ranging from Neil Young, The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Tom Petty, Bob Marley, Journey, and more. It's been quite a trip to have the youngsters interpreting lyrics I'm so familiar with, and to see the kids getting off on the same songs that we did. The thing that I've been most surprised about is the strength of Tupac Shakur's lyrics. They read exactly like poetry and are filled with beauty and depth. (I can't believe I'm even saying that!) We still have two more days of presentations left so I'll find out what turns up.

Hi Elmer,
I can't believe you mentioned Cerberus - the gatekeeper of Hades. That is the very myth we are learning about tomorrow in my 9th grade standard class! My 9th graders are my challenging class - filled mostly with male behavior problems (and not meaning that in a sexist way at all), but these kids are very difficult to engage and keep on task. I only have 3 girls in the entire class, and the boys feed off the attention of their peers. Most of them come from homes where there is little or no adult supervision, thus they have not acquired the skills necessary to participate in a postive manner in the classroom. Any attention they receive, be it negative or positive, is welcome to them. Unfortunately, through learned behaviors, they have found it easier to draw attention to themselves when it is negative. Changing behavior patterns at this point in the structure of our classroom setting has been difficult at best, but I keep trying. I made a huge breakthrough when we studied "Night" by Elie Wiesel. It was the first literary work that held their interest this year. We are finishing up the year with mythology, and that has worked well, too. They like the "short story" format and enjoy reading about heroic characters,fantastic creatures, and explanations for natural phenomena in the world in which they live.

But back to dogs, the original topic of this discussion, for a moment. Sorry to get so off track; I have a habit of doing that in case you haven't noticed already. I am reading a book entitled "Dog Body, Dog Mind" by Dr. Michael Fox. It explores the consciousness of the dog in relationship to man. Dr. Fox proposes the theory that dogs, and other animals, possess a connected state of awareness and resonance with other living beings through empathy; a state of being he names "the empathosphere". This directly connects to what you were discussing about dogs in a historical context. He asserts that dogs communicate with us through our emotional state with profound consequences in terms of our own mental and spiritual well-being. I believe that we, as humans, have the capacity to be psychically empathetic as dogs are, but, for whatever reason, we have shut off the part of the brain (and heart) that would serve to function as such. Thus, we have closed off "our doorways to perception" as Aldous Huxley stated so long ago in "Brave New World". I believe we have the ability to reopen the doors through mindfulness and presence, but it takes commitment and a willingness to expose ourselves to feeling deep emotion and pain as a result of our newfound openness. Many adults are reluctant to allow themselves to follow this path because they take the risk of being hurt, and/or reluctance to deal with religious and metaphysical issues. Dogs serve to remind us of the spiritual rewards associated with being emotionally conscious of others and responding to their needs.

As I write this, my faithful dog Sandy is lying under my feet keeping me company. We had a lovely hike in the woods by my house today up to the top of Drew Mtn., and I am getting ready to turn in for the evening. I hope you have a enlightening week; remember, there is something new to learn each day - all you have to do is look around you and it is yours for the taking!
To all:
Have a great week!
Love,
Marianne

06/03/08 08:57 PM #118    

Carol Vallone

Where the heck did everyone go??? This is very depressing.......

Bill, aren't you back from shanghai yet?? a story or two would be nice... how abou a new picture from your trip??

Marianne & Elmer.... I don't know what the hell you're talking about most of the time but I certainly enjoy reading your posts...


06/03/08 09:45 PM #119    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Carol, you must have been reading my mind - I was thinking the same thing - where did everyone go. I'm sure all the teachers are very busy gearing down and getting ready to get the hell out of school - lucky!

Bill, how about another picture of you and the YAK????

And sorry Marianne and Elmer I also have been having a difficult time grasping what you two are discussing. Lisa, I'm glad you finally got what they are talking about - please enlighten me!!! How's the weather in
AZ????

06/04/08 10:22 AM #120    

Lisa Coppola

Carol and Maureen,
Glad to here from both of you...and yes, it's time to get back to important stuff like Bucky the Cabana boy and Casey the Yak rider! I miss seeing new photos of everyone...say for example...Faith and Hope or maybe Linda Ferguson...C'mon gals. Bez, Arizona is pretty darn hot right now, about 99 degrees today. But our mantra here is, " but it's a dry heat"...you know, kinda like an oven! Come for a visit any time!
xo Lisa


06/04/08 12:34 PM #121    

Marlene Stager

Lisa,
I have heard and experienced your dry heat...120 degrees in the shade is like spending an afternoon at the dry cleaners. My in-laws moved to Pheonix in '88. A favorite t-shirt my father-in-law would donn ocassionally had a picture of 2 skeletons leaning against a saguaro reporting..."Yeah, but it's dry heat!"

To everyone who signs on:
OK, I am soliciting some assistance. For some reason I have aquired reputation for comic relief in my department. Our staff mtgs can challenge even the most highly caffinated members....I have exhausted my supply over the course of the years and need some new material... Send anything you've got...and we'll all enjoy it.

I'll get you started;

Two businessmen are sharing a cab in NYC. They discuss business, leisure, travel then the conversation turns to family. One man says "OH, my wife, she is just an angel."

The other responds: "You are sooooo lucky, mine is still alive."

Have a great day.
Marlene

06/04/08 12:36 PM #122    

William Casey

pictures are coming... but if you want to see where we had the customer event, google "Zhangjiajie". it's a national park with the highest elevator in the world (i am petrified of heights!). there are some good youtube videos of the elevator.

06/04/08 03:49 PM #123    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Lisa,
I'd love to come for a visit but flying and me just don't get along. I haven't flown since 1987 - our honeymoon to be exact. If I did come out though I would love to meet "Sven".
Maureen (Bez)

06/04/08 04:00 PM #124    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

Hi everyone,

I hope everyone is doing well. My wife is in Switzerland for the week,so if you guys aren't doing anything come on over. I do have a joke for Marleen, so here it goes.
A guy goes into a bar and sits down next to drunk who is closely examining something held in his fingers. The guy watches the drunk for awhile until he finnally gets curious enough to ask what it is."Well" says the drunk "it looks like plastic but feels like rubber."
" let me have it" says the man. Taking it, he looks at it .rolls it around in his fingers and says"yes, it does look like plastic but feels like rubber. Where did you get it?"
"From my nose " the drunk replies.
Again, party at my house!!!
Buck


06/04/08 04:16 PM #125    

William Casey

here's one that's funny AND will get you fired (make sure you tell this joke at the big annual meeting in front of everyone AND make sure you have another job lined up): So, your boss (Bob), your boss's boss (Mary), and your boss's boss's boss (Tom) are in a car crash and all die. Bob wakes up in a small room with no doors/windows and sees a big, hairy, smelly orangutan in the corner. Over a loudspeaker, in a deep voice, Bob hears, "Bob, this is God. You have sinned and you will spend the rest of eternity with this orangutan". Mary wakes up in a similar type of room and sees a big, ugly, smelly donkey in the corner. Over a loudspeaker, in a deep voice, Mary hears, "Mary, this is God. You have sinned and you will spend the rest of eternity with this donkey". Tom wakes up in a small room with no doors/windows and sees Bo Derrick in the corner. Over a loudspeaker, in a deep voice, Tom hears, "Bo Derrick, you have sinned...".

06/04/08 04:47 PM #126    

William Casey

and Bucky's party is "BYOB" - bring your own boggie.

06/04/08 08:39 PM #127    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hi Everyone!
It's okay - I don't know what I'm talking about, either :)
but it sure is fun to write...
and yes, we are gearing up for finals at school - next week is heavy duty review week - I'm designing a Jeopardy-style review game this weekend
my kids are going to hate me - the final is 13 pages long!
Friday will be my first full day out of the classroom - I have to spend the day in Princeton at a conference...2 seminars, but we get 2 free meals! and I'm going down tomorrow night to spend the evening in a lovely Hampton Inn - I don't have to make the bed and can throw my towels on the bathroom floor!!! life is good...
love to all,
Marianne

06/04/08 10:07 PM #128    

Marlene Stager

Hey guys! Thanks for the jokes.
Buck,
Sorry to say...that snot that funny. gross though.
Hmmmm... the cat's away so the mouse will play? Have a great party. Bit too long of a drive what with gas prices and kids thinking their social life is more important than mine so I have to decline.

Bill,
My colleagues are social workers and counselors. Most are women, perhaps I could modify your joke with..."George Clooney, you have sinned...." might draw a more intense reaction and a wish that perhaps one of us could be the punishment.

Are you going to the olympics? How often are you in China?


06/04/08 10:10 PM #129    

JoAnn Chegwidden (Rosica)

Hi Guys,
You are too funny!:) I too was thinking, what the heck are the two of them talking about! Well, it makes for good reading and pretending you understand it.
Lisa,
wanted to tell you that my son got to Yuma and said its as hot as hell, you were right. But as you say, its a dry heat...sure....100 or soo...is still 100 or soo...
he sent me a pic from his phone...all I see is mountains in the background, big huge green trucks and lots of sand!! Oh my gosh...I told him my friend lives there and says to drink lots of water. I am sure they are told that anyway.
Marianne....have fun on your big trip and sleep well in that big bed with those fluffy pillows!!
Soo when are we all going to party at Bucky's house??? The weekend is coming up soo lets gooo....
Carol...you haven't changed a bit, your sense of humor as I remember it, is still going strong...keep it up....love to see what you have to say next. I do come on to see what you all are saying, want to chime in, but heck, am not as funny as you all!!
Bill....I hope you keep a diary...pics of all your trips, sounds like you take a lot of them....but I bet you get tired from all the traveling, no??

Well, hope to talk or see your posts up again soon....

06/05/08 01:26 AM #130    

Cheryl Knapp (Carbini)

Hi Gang!

You are all so very funny, and the philosophy...well, it is a bit late, so Ill have to ponder it at a later moment! I wish we had a week for a reunion and lots of wine!

I dont even know where to begin, but I just had to interject that when I do get a sec to read your notes, you all make me smile and I can just imagine the laughter between you all. Good medicine.

Thanks for the birthday wishesI guess we all have to turn 48 one day this year.

Maureen, I just wanted to ask about your friend Kim, I dont know anything...

Please tell me when we talk.

Jo, keep us posted with Matt and Daniel. they have been on my mind. Sean is in Afganistan now too. I know their paths would probably not cross, but I did tell him that Matt was there.

Love you all! Good night!

Also, I am trying to find Signora Cicero. I called a number in kParsippany for her dad who was/is a doctor? No luck, wrong listing. I found a JoAnn Cicero in NJ-toward the shore-called the office, but no response.
Any idea where she might be?

Ellen Crane left me a message in response to my call, so I hope to talk to her soon.

David Werder finally wrote me after many notes to him. He may not be interested in a reunion, but I sure hope he takes a minute to see our website-especially the message forum!

Ciao!

06/05/08 07:27 AM #131    

Carol Vallone

JoAnn..... ROCKy Rosica from ROCKaway?!?!? What's the chance?!? That's cute!! :o)

Lisa..... Maybe you should start "hiring" Sven out!! Forget the 40's crowd!! Go hit some of those retirement communities!! You guys would probably make a killing!!! :o)

Maureen.... How are you ever going to make the 40th reunion at Greg's house??? Hook up with my "BF" Andrew Shayne!!

Am I the only one in this group that's started some diet and/or exercise regime for the next 4 months OR am I the only jackass to admit me!!! Anyway, since I hate exercising I wanted to try something new.... i got this rebounder (mini trampoline thing) and i put on the video... i bounced along for about 3 minutes and damn near stroked out (God forbid) AND pulled something in my neck and shoulder!!! NEXT!!!!!!!!



06/05/08 08:23 AM #132    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Cheryl, finally received a return phone call from Vicki Pryzborowski's brother, Ed. I left a message for Vicki but have not heard back yet; have also spoken with Anthony Carmagnola twice - he says he is quite busy with the pizzeria and has not had the chance to sign in on the website but says that he will.

As far as any jokes, I hear them and then I forget them - must be the alzheimers setting in. I'll have to get some from my son - he is quite the comedian.

Bucky - The party sounds great, but I'll have to agree with Marlene as far as the drive and the price of gas, but if you lived closer you know we would all be crashing.

Marianne, have a great time this weekend and thanks again for the directions to "your" high school. Not looking forward to being up at the crack of dawn on the 14th, but you do what you have to do for your children.

Must sign off for now and get to work. Miss you all and my love to you all,

Maureen :)

06/05/08 12:31 PM #133    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

Hi everyone,

I have a couple of quick jokes for you.
What do you call a guy with no arms and no legs in a swimming pool? Bob
What do you call a guy with no arms and no legs in a hole? Phil
What has four legs and one arm? A happy pit bull
Buck

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