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05/25/08 10:11 PM #84    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hi Everybody! I hope you are enjoying the beautiful weather during our holiday weekend. This forum is so much fun that I am over here reading instead of writing my lesson plans like I should be, so tomorrow I will be cursing you all out as I struggle over my lessons!!! :)

For Elmer:
How was Bikhram class today? I recently attended my first workshop and I fell in love with the practice. It was a 2 hour workshop and after about 10 minutes I went to another plane in the universe. I ceased to struggle It was an enlightening experience as well as thoroughly cleansing - I removed tons of toxins from my system. The aftereffects were amazing as well. Overall, it felt like it was kind of an out of body experience. I just signed up for another workshop in the middle of June - right after I finish teaching for the summer.
Are you coming to the reunion? I would love to talk to you about the teachings of Joseph Campbell and the ideal of bliss. In my opinion, following ones' bliss is an ideal that defies conventional definition. It involves following the life path that brings us closest to union with our mind and soul, thus the connection to yoga. It is something we can continually strive towards but is rarely completely attainable, in the physical sense. For me, it embodies a sense of personal responsibility, not only to my loved ones but as a microcosm of the world in the larger sense. I also don't think bliss means total happiness in a selfish way. It involves struggle and sacrifice to get to the place we are meant to be in our lives. For me, I feel that I have come closer than ever before in my life to attaining bliss during this year of teaching. I have learned two important lessons this year: humility and gratitude. Each has served to give me a sense of contentment and acceptance (in the sense of accepting who we are), and that is amazingly blissful.

As far as my class goes, I would like to think it is interesting, but you'd have to ask my students what they think!!! The quest myth is applicable to almost all of the works we studied this year (American Lit - love it!) and segues nicely into their own sense of purpose and where they are headed as they prepare for the future. It also ties in nicely to the concept of the American Dream, and how it has evolved and changed over the decades, as well as if it really exists at all.

And yes, Morris Catholic laid the foundation for the way I see the world today. However, I don't think I was ready at the time to branch out and take it to a higher level of thinking. It took quite a few years for me to get to the place I needed to be to be open enough to accept what was laid before me for the taking. Also, your comments about the consciousness of today's students is an interesting one. I try to instill in them that they need to see themselves connected to the cosmos through their own personal choices and decisions, thus the element of responsibility again. Every selfish decision they choose to make has a negative effect on something in the larger sense, as well as the opposite with a purposeful decision.
Wow, I just saw how long my post was, sorry! You know these English people, we just keep writing and writing...
sorry about that!

For Maureen Bezold:
Boy, my father sure gets around, doesn't he? You never know where he'll turn up! Thanks for the offer to help with the pix; Carol Vallone sent me instructions, so I'll have to see if I can work it out. If not, I'll call for an SOS!

So much fun to read these stories! Gotta go - heavy eyelids need sleep.
Love to all,
Marianne

05/25/08 11:39 PM #85    

Lisa Coppola

Okay. I think I'm having a memory breakthrough..sound like, sound like...begins with a "P" Sister Perpetua??? Was that homeroom? Maybe it was she who taught German. C'mon Elmer. I need help!
By the way, does anyone besides me ever have dreams of being back in high school and not being able to remember your schedule...or realizing you haven't been to a certain class in months (in my case always math)? Sometimes I can't find the rooms and I usually end up trying to find the office to see if they can help me? I'm open to any and all interpretations.
xoxo Lisa

05/26/08 12:38 AM #86    

Carol Vallone

ewwwwww!!! you actually LIVED on MY BLOCK and never said "hello" liz??? that would have actually bothered me at one time!! :o)

Joanne... You and Sr. Stanislaus!!! You both look the exact same as you did 30 yrs ago! How Cute!

05/26/08 01:35 AM #87    

Marlene Stager

Hey! It is 1;30am, I'm unable to sleep and decided to check the msg board.

Lisa: Sister Perpetua taught German. I did poorly but can still recite the Hail Mary as it was daily practice. Much like the daffodil poem.

Sister Stanislaus...was she the guidance nun approx. 6'3" 260 lbs and moved like an "O" Lineman? She asked me to pray for the calling...put the fear of God in me and I immediately began to pray/beg not to be called.

It is so great to see and hear what everyone is doing.

JoAnn, how did you get that group together for the photo op? Awesome! How are the boys?

Happy Memorial Day to you all...it has clearly become more significant to us at this age.

05/26/08 01:38 AM #88    

Marlene Stager

OK my bad. Who was that gigantic guidance nun if not Sr. Stanislaus?

05/26/08 10:16 AM #89    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

Hey everyone,
The 6footer of a nun your thinking about was sister Casmier.I believe she taught a science class. I'm not sure because I probably wasn't paying attention. I have to say she was my favorite.She always would give me agood handshake after a game or a match.
I remember her always talking about her brother the machinist.
see ya, Buck
p.s.Elmer and Mariann, can you repeat that, I didn't get it.I always thought bliss was your team winning the super bowl or an Allmans Brothers concert.

05/26/08 10:47 AM #90    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Good Morning All -
What a beautiful day!

For Maureen Bezold:
When I wrote last night, I forgot to mention thanks for the kind words about Ray. Also, I had a memory of when we were young. In grammar school, we always had english muffin pizzas at your birthday parties. I loved that! You always had the best parties!

To everyone:
As the school year draws to a close, I think we should try to plan a get together for those of us who live in the area. Maybe late June? Cocktails and appetizers somewhere? Perhaps the Jefferson House or a place like that outdoors on the water? It has to be early, though, because I'm old and go to bed at 8!!! Just kidding, if I really stretch it, I can make it 'till 10ish.
Send feedback!!!
Love to all,
Marianne

05/26/08 10:51 AM #91    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hey Bucky -
You are too funny! I just read your post.
Bliss is whatever you want it to be; whatever makes you happy in your heart.
And yes, bliss is DEFINITELY an Allman Brothers concert and the GIANTS winning the Super Bowl (go Big Blue Wrecking Crew !!!).
Most nights, bliss for me is a big bag of chocolate!
Good to hear from you.
I miss you all and I feel like it was just yesterday we were all together, having the time of our lives. Where did the years go?
AND I still am not finishing my lesson plans. I keep coming back here to see what's new.
Love,
Marianne

05/26/08 11:42 AM #92    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

hey Scerbo, Myrtle here....my sisters and I booked a 50yh wedding anniversary party 4 my parents on july 26 2-6 will you be there that day?

05/26/08 11:58 AM #93    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

wow Hopatcong would never be the same if the 3 of us went out on this one horse town, but hey we could give the Hopatcong po-po a run for their money and have a few cocktails either @ the Tidal Wave or that pub across from the 7-11, that is after Carol does her hail mary's @ St. Judes(hey Carol I look 4 you @ mass haven't seen you, hmmmmm)I can't believe we have lived this close 2 each other....don't make me come and get you girls.
For Liz...thanks for the great comments you said about my sonny boy....at least people see outside the house his true personality...in the house he kinda reminds me of Bucky in the ape suit lol.
Carol I have only lived in Hopatcong for 8 years I am not aware of the sport of geese poop hopping and I think for me that would be a spectator sport...I will watch you. ok hope to come back on later...myrtle

05/26/08 01:43 PM #94    

William Casey

Sister casmier taught science. I had her freshman year (..."that's what she said"... I love the TV show the office). Anyway, Some kid asked me to let him see my answers during a test and I said no. Some big, blond-haired kid from dover, and I thought he was going to kill me. I forget his name (but since I was 5-foot tall freshman year, ALL kids looked big) years later, during my religious phase, I saw him at a prayer meeting. I think he went to
Dover HS after freshman year. Marianne, I just tried bikrim (sic) yoga a month ago with my daughter. My wife does it. I thought it was great. I just lnded in shanghai and I'm in the car to the hotel and here I am checking the messages - this is so addictive! Enjot the weekend.

05/26/08 02:33 PM #95    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

Hey MaryGrace! aka Myrtle the Turtle; aka Girly Girl (do you remember that one?)
How's it shakin' girl?
Are you having your parents' anniversary party at the Jef House? I don't know where I'll be that day! I can only plan a few days in advance, otherwise I get confused!!!

Hey Bill!
What are you doing in Shanghai? That's really exciting! You sure get around (at least that's what the girls always said about you!) How is the dollar holding up over there? Glad to hear you and your family are into yoga - it's really changed my life.
Who was that blond-haired kid? We will beat him up for you!

And yes, this message forum is VERY addicting. I just discovered it a couple of days ago and can't seem to get away from it. It's worse than addicting games.com!

Later gators; enjoy the ride,
Scerbo


05/26/08 03:32 PM #96    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Hey Scerb...the party will be @ the exchange in Rockaway...do you still run da joint? and yes I do remember the girly girl thang....i am not aware of the place you are talking about...is that up here in hopatcong?? later....i am opening my pool, yup thats right i fired the cabana boy so its all me and the kids helped a little...just waiting for it to fill up and waiting for my neighbor to put the pieces of the filter and pump all together....ok i could type all day but work tomorrow so i have to get as much done as I can see ya! myrtle

05/26/08 03:49 PM #97    

Liz Kopf (Mazur)

Sorry Carol, but you know how it is on the circle .... you meet the people on "your quarter" and if you don't go walking or have kids bring someone home, you never know who the heck lives on the other side and I think I was there all of 1 year ..... I did lose a dear friend years ago who lived on the circle as well, Susan DeLong. I don't know if her husband and their 3 girls stayed or moved on.
As for Myrtle, Madison is my 4th, so I have had tons of highschool kids come through my houses over the years and very few stand out like Ryan does .... he is something special.
Bucky .... I remember ;). You look good sir ... beautiful family. I just got the female version of Duke, Molly, who is now 10 weeks old and eating anything that can fit in her mouth! If she will sit still long enough, I will post a picture.

05/26/08 04:23 PM #98    

Marianne Scerbo (Longchamp)

hey myrtle,
very cool that you are having the party at the exchange - i don't run the place anymore - i gave it up so i could make less money teaching - go figure - seriously, i wanted to finish my education and really love what i do
i hope my brother helped you out with the booking - mention my name - he'll throw you out - just kidding - please tell him that we were mchs friends - that was his alma mater as well
wow, you have a pool and no cabana boy - that's too bad; maybe bucky will volunteer to step up to the plate for you!
i have to go to work tomorrow, too, and i'm bumming out about it - i just finished my lessons so i'm going outside to play
enjoy
love,
mare

05/26/08 05:45 PM #99    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

Hey everyone,(again)
First of all I would love to Myrtles cabana boy. This time I'll be wearing only a speedo.I think you'll be more scared, I might be able to scare some geese away also.
Liz, how are you? I remember freshman year when we went to the dance together and my mom was there as the chapparon.I still haven't forgiven her.If this is your first lab be ready to by new furniture. Our first one Dallas ate a couch and Duke ate a kitchen table and 3 remotes.All in all they are the best dogs and are definatly part of the family. See you all pool side
Buck

05/26/08 08:57 PM #100    

Liz Kopf (Mazur)

And in answer to Marianne's question about Sean, he has dedicated his life to public service and is currently doing God's work, making sure men like Cheggie's sons come home alive.
He is career military and is now a colonel in the Army Special Forces. Last month he deployed once again for an extended tour to areas unknown.
He is married to a lovely woman he met while in Colombia and has 2 beautiful boys, about 5 and 11ish.
He is kept up to date regarding the reunion, and knows about this site. Hopefully he will be able to pop on every once in a while.

05/26/08 09:09 PM #101    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

ooooooo baby or should I say Bucky, you are too funny a speedo....I don't think I would be scared of that if my memory serves me correctly....thanks for the cabana boy offer,. feel free to come swim w/me if you are in the area.
Liz thanks again for the nice comments about my son Ryan, I am glad he can touch peoples lives like that, even though we are having our difficulties (him and I this year) I still think and know in my heart of hearts that he is a good kid w/ a huge heart and he would do anything for you.
Scerb as far as the reservation we made at the Exchange, 2 girls took the reservation and hey watch that stuff bout being thrown out...I came close a few times back in the day. okedokee thats it for the time being...gotta get psyched up for a 4 day school week and facing them there 4th graders for another 18 days!!!!!!!!!! ciao

05/27/08 02:17 PM #102    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

To all my MCHS classmates,

I have a huge request. A very, very dear friend of mine, Kim Whritenour, (our children are in school together at Mountain Lakes High School), has been battling cancer since February of this year. She has had one brain tumor removed (from the left side), undergoing radiation and chemo on the other 2 smaller tumors in her brain, she has been back in the hospital twice since then for surgery to place a metal rod where the cancer has affected her femur, and also for a staph infection. Unfortunately she landed back in the hospital this Sunday. The CT Scan showed another brain tumor but on the right side of her brain. She is only 46 years old and has 3 beautiful children. I am asking that you please keep Kim in your prayers.

Thanks and love to you all,
Maureen

05/27/08 04:12 PM #103    

Marlene Stager

Maureen,
It is a small request and an easy one to honor. My very best and daily prayers to Kim and her family.
Marlene


05/27/08 06:19 PM #104    

Elmer Dante

Hello everyone. Hopefully you had a nice holiday weekend and that each of us remembered the sacrifices made by so many. Reading your posts, in a sense, bridges the gap between now and thirty years ago. I don't know where the time went.

Lisa,

Sister Mary Perpetua definitely taught German and I believe we both had her as a homeroom teacher in sophomore year. I had her as a German teacher; I can still receit the "Hail Mary" in German. I remember the building as red brick. I'll have to take a ride by the building to see if there's been a facelift of the old ediface.

By the way, I have had dreams in which I haven't gone to class in weeks (something I would never be caught doing) and have to take an exam. I read in a dream interpretation book that it is your subconscious telling you that you have left something undone.

Marianne,

I am coming to the reunion. I am impressed that you liked your first Bikhram class. I have to admit that it is addictive and it is a great way to say in shape; however, when the final breathing excercise is done, I'm ready to get out of the heat--I only lie in "shavasana" until the instructor leaves the room and then I make a dash for the door. (I became dizzy and almost passed out the first time I went to class.)

I told a friend that goes with me that I'm afraid I'll fall asleep and be found dead from the heat. But I do feel cleansed of toxins (which is why I practice at least four times a week).

After reading your e-mail, I'm convinced that you will challenge your students to think. The good thing about Morris Catholic was that we were challenged by many good teachers. The bad thing was that most of those teachers were limited by a Cartesian view of the world (i.e., I am a mind trapped in a body instead of I am a body/mind continuum). Although the non-Cartesian worldview was something I accepted intellectually, yoga permitted me to experience it.

When we meet at the reunion, I'll have to tell you about a conversation I once had with H.H. the Dalai Lama. Although I am not a Buddhist, he did have what I would refer to as "presence." When he spoke to me, it was as if I was the only person in the universe at that moment.

You are correct that humility and gratitude are great lessons. The Tibetan Buddhists say that you cannot be enlightened unless you honor all of your previous teachers. In one story, they say that someone did not reach enlightenment because he neglected to honor the nun who taught him the alphabet.

From my own perspective, I think back to the piety of Sister Georgine (the Harold Cody incident aside). For example, when her statement that "when you receive the blessed sacrament, something good happens to all on earth, all in heaven and all in purgatory" was a statement filled with a wisdom all its own. Some would say this is naive piety. I would say that this was a type of folk wisdom that in its own way pointed to the inherent connections that underly the cosmos. When something good happens or something good is done by one member of the human race, the whole of the human race is somehow positively impacted (you should read The One Hundreth Monkey).

Elmer

05/27/08 07:03 PM #105    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Marlene,

Thanks so much for keeping Kim in your prayers. Prayer is very powerful and I truly believe in it. I hope all is well with you and I was so happy to read that you are cancer free for 10 years now. God Bless.

Maureen

05/28/08 06:56 AM #106    

Carol Vallone

Maureen.... We all did a pretty good job for Cheryl and her karate belt (with a little help from Cheryl too....) I think our prayer circle here is a pretty strong one! I will certainly keep her in my prayers...

MaryGrace.... As far as the sport of geese poop hopping... I had taken my daughter to the state park to practice her bike riding a few weeks ago. I swear to you, there was not one spot on the grass or beach where I wasn't trying to avoid stepping in crap and I had to watch closely in the actual parking lot!! It was disgusting. I had the same issue at Modick Park!! Hence, my need for a landscape architect!! I need some friggin flat land for my girl to play and have her own swingset!! No Geese Allowed!!!

Marianne.... I saw Jay and the Americans IN CONCERT at CCM back in the day!!! "Only in America"!!! I remember they were all in some matching white bell bottomed outfits with somw sort of sunburst or something all over one leg of the pants..... Does your husband have a dress code???!!! :o)

Liz, I'm sorry to hear about your friend on Marne Rd. So right about the "zoning" though. And of course I don't walk around the block....

05/28/08 10:39 AM #107    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Maureen you can count on me for prayers 4 your friend and carol i gotta say in 8 years in this town i have been to the state park 4 tubing, fireworks and watching the speed boat races. Can't help you w/ the landscaping good luck w/ that....Bez love the new pic you put on your profile....ciao

05/28/08 01:49 PM #108    

Maureen Bezold (Como)

Carol,
Thanks for the prayers for Kim.

Marianne,
I also remember seeing Jay and the Americans with Michael. I want to say it was either CCM as Carol said or it may have been Dover HS. I will have to check with the husband.

I also can't believe that you remembered the english muffin pizzas. They were a specialty of Mom's, God rest her soul. You certainly are dating us - grammar school. Okay, here's one - who was your favorite grammar school teacher - Sister Edwardina - right????

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