Brenda Kasprzak (Schelski)
Hey thanks Jenny. My husband has tried to get this settled and every time he tries to talk to her she claims she is busy. New info... I just found out that Dave's sisters husband is giving her a surprise birthday party this Sunday. He called to invite Dave and Alyssa. Dave said he never said anything about me or Codi. I have to get used to spelling my sons name like this even though I have always spelled it with a y. My ex-husband took care of the birth certificate. I should have changed it but I never did. Now my son wants to spell it with an i so this is not a misspelling of his name. Sorry I fell off track. Back to the other... Her husband did say that he knows its a sticky situation. I forgot to tell everyone that the wk before I had my SATC party Dave's family had him a birthday party at his parents house. I didn't go because I felt like that was Dave's day and I did not want anything to ruin his special time. He did not want to go but his sister called him to tell him she spent over $60 for a cake and food. This is were I differ from her. I would NEVER tell someone how much I spent on them. It is the thought that counts not the price. He feels obligated to attend her party but he told me he really doesn't want to go. I know why they did not invite me but why take it out on my son and not ask him to come? That's just wrong. Codi said he would not go if he was invited. I told him that's not the point he still should have been invited. He said " mom I would prefer to stay home with you and not get caught up in her mess" I love my son!!!
Everyone on here has been so nice to take time out and post a response for my dilemma. Thanks to all of you... Big Smiles Becky- I'm praying for your grandma.
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