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MAIDEN -- Brenda passed away December 29, 2007 at her home surrounded by her family. She was born February 11, 1961 in Rockville, CT. Brenda graduated from East Gaston High School, Mt. Holly NC, where she was 1979 Carousel Princess. Brenda went on to UNCC to get her BS degree in Nursing and was a nursing supervisor at Emerald Care for 20 years until she was diagnosed in May 2006 with ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease). Brenda's courage and strength during her valiant fight with ALS was an inspiration to everyone she came in contact with. Through all her pain and suffering she remained in good faith in her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Brenda is survived by her husband, Ricky Lowe who loved her like no other; 2 sons, Kyle Steven Lowe of the home, and James Aaron Lowe and wife Anna of Charlotte; one daughter, Alyssa Nicole Lowe of the home; her mother, Joyce Ellis and father Hershel Ellis of Mt. Holly; sister, Cheryl Waters and husband Chris of GA; and brothers, Bruce Ellis, Craig Ellis and wife Denise of GA. The Lowe family will receive friends 6:00 to 8:00 PM Monday at Carothers Funeral Home in Stanley. A Celebration of Brenda's Life will be 2:00 PM Tuesday at First Baptist Church in Stanley with Rev. Surratt officiating. Burial will follow in Iron Station Cemetery at Iron Station, NC. Pallbearers will be Kyle Baker, Spanky Davidson, Kirk Wells, Rob Hannifin, Jeff Boughman and Mark Lackey. Memorials are requested to Lowe's Children College Fund, 4385 Frank Dellinger Lane Maiden, NC 28650, or Brenda Lowe Nursing Scholarship, 3866 Hwy. 16 North Denver, NC 28037. The Family would like to thank Hospice Palliative Care of Lincoln County, Wake Forest Medical Center 'ALS' Center, Tammy Bynum, Eileen Klimkowski, Mom and Dad , friends and loved ones for all the love and support for Brenda through her difficult time. 'Bren, I'll love you forever. Love, Ricky.' Email condolences to carothersfh@aol.com The Brenda Lowe Family Published in the Charlotte Observer on 12/31/2007.
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Ricky Lowe
"Brenda's Buddies" at Walk to Defeat ALS - Spring 2009
Ricky and the kids: Alyssa, Jamie, and Kyle
With Tracy Skidmore - Mt. Holly Junior High 9th Grade
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Ricky Lowe
Hey guys... words can never tell you all what your outgoing show of love meant to Brenda in her time of sickness and the time of passing. I was a senior when you all were sophomores. Brenda loved you all so much. I knew then that this was a special class.After high school Brenda went to UNC and UNC at Char. and recieved her BS in Nursing. We were blessed with three lovely children: Jamie, 25; Kyle 23 and Alyssa 21 (she is just like Bren.) Brenda was a nursing supervisor for Emerial Care of Gaston County for 18 years until Jan. 2005 when she started to become ill.
I took her to Wake Forest Hosp. in Nov. 05 - she was getting worse. They ran all kinds of test, but still was not sure what was wrong. Brenda knew. She told the Doctors she thought it was ALS. So in May of 2006 they diagnosed her with ALS which is terminal. We were praying for Gods healing in her life . Brenda was so strong she kept her faith all the way until the very end. She passed away three days after our 26th wedding anniversary. I was holding her hand and told her "I love you," and she said "I love you more" and looked at me and the kids and took her last breath. She was at home.
Thanks to Russell, Scott, Alan, Beth,Scott L, Melissa, and all of you for your cards and love that you showed to Brenda, me and the kids. She loved you all. Please keep me and the kids in your prayers.
Ricky
Russell Randolph
Ricky, I know I speak for everyone by saying that we are so sorry for your loss. We all loved Brenda, too. She was such a bright spot in our class. She was beautiful inside and out. And who can forget her smile and crazy antics. Brenda and her family lived very near me growing up in Mt. Holly, and I have very fond summertime memories of our days at the Mt. Holly pool. From junior high through high school, Brenda certainly made her mark and was a positive influence on everyone she came in contact with. I know she was a great Mom and wife, too. We will, for sure, keep you and your family in our prayers. We are delighted that you are participating with us in Brenda's absence here on our class website.Sincerely,
Russell Randolph
Beth McConnell (Foster)
Ricky and family,You know that Brenda and I were close in junior high and high school. I wish that I could have seen her more through the years, because she was a special person. I wish that you and she did not have to suffer such a tragic loss, but I know that Brenda is now with our Lord. I know that she loved you dearly, and she leaves behind a legacy of love and faith. I will always cherish my memories of Brenda at school and at the pool. She was a true friend.
Love,
Beth M. Foster
Sonya Hunter (Johnson)
Ricky and Family,I'm sorry to hear of your loss of Brenda and a dear classmate. I remember Brenda as being pretty and active in sports. She had a very nice personality too. I know you will always have sweet memories of her. I became teary eyed when you said that you were holding her hand, you told her you loved her and she said "I love you more" and looked around to her family and took her last breathe. That was heart felt.
I know memories of her will always be sweet. I'm glad she had the Lord in her life, because you know where she is and you'll see her again. Stay strong you all and keep the faith!
Sonya Hunter Johnson
Sharon Miskelly (Dillard)
Ricky,I was very sad about Brenda's death and happy for her at the same time. I do not know why God did not heal Brenda on earth but I know she is healed now.
Brenda was one of the hardest working people I ever knew. We rode together to UNCC and she went at everything she did 100%. She was never lazy and did everything well. I wish I had made more opportunity to see her and talk with her before she could not speak...Brenda always taught me something.
Brenda is missed and always will be and you and the kids are forever in our prayers.
Always, Sharon Miskelly Dillard
Shawn Devinney
Rick, no words can describe the feeling that I felt when I heard the news, it was after the services. You two were a special couple with many years of happiness, and were fortuate to have raised those wonderful kids together. I am truly sorry for your loss, she was truly a wonderful person. Stay in touch, and hope to see you soon.Shawn Devinney