Sue Alexander (Sonley)
With a heavy heart, I'm sharing the loss of one of our well known and loved classmates, Bill Wagner. On Monday night, September 25, in Boynton Beach, FL, his home of many years, Bill lost his battle with a rare and aggressive type of blood cancer. He was diagnosed just a year ago and accepted the diagnosis with courage and grace, making sure to see as many of his long time friends as possible before he couldn't.
Those of us who saw him knew he was in pain but he didn't let it stop him. He told me several times that if he couldn't live life the way he wanted, it wasn't worth living and he stuck with that. A few weeks ago, he told me more chemo wouldn't change the outcome of his disease so he was done with it, that seeing his old friends was more important. He got that done.
He visited Rehoboth in August and we spent an afternoon on one of the beaches he so loved, enjoying the sun and gorgeous weather, laughing and remembering the fun we had (which we always did when we got together). He even made it to dinner in Dewey at the Lighthouse, where we had shared some great times over the years.
Joanne and Sandy, Bill's wonderful sisters, were with him at the end and Joanne shared that he was not in pain when they told him he could go, not to worry, they had it covered for him.
To say I'll miss Bill, his laugh and pragmatic outlook, his curiousity and energetic love of life and so much else, is an understatement, and I know I'm not alone in that.
As we say goodbye to too many of our loved ones in this, our 70th year, let's hold the wonderful and so precious memories we've shared in our hearts as a tribute to their lives well lived. I won't soon forget the cheer Bill brought to mine.
When I hear more about a Celebration of life for Bill, I'll post it here but if you know of it, please do the same.
Rest in peace, Bill. Your 2:00 Club pals won't throw rocks at your window anymore to wake you to take us to Montgomery Donuts. You were and are loved.
Sue
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