Lorrie Olesak (Bookbinder)
Marianne ... just a suggestion or two ... so Bob indicated a few things that bothered him about you, big deal, nobody is perfect ... the fact that he noticed a "few things" and "never" mentioned them before suggests to me that he loved the daylights out of you, and didn't think it was worth it to mention a "flaw or two" that bothered him in lieu of hurting your feelings, a rather wonderful trait for a husband to have ... don't be so hard on yourself ... Bob sounds like a class act whose mom probably said "treat that girl right, you're lucky to have her" ...
Emotions run SO high with the loss of a loved one ... you are strong and will get through it ... just don't let a few negatives be the top thing on your mind and how you forever remember him ...
When I think of what you went through the last six, or so, months of 2020 it would seem life's negatives were overwhelming ... I'm sorry this happened to someone that I have a great deal of respect for and know to be "a real SPARK " to her community ... "as we used to say at SHS, knockers up ole bean" ...
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