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06/11/09 01:25 AM #19    

 

Wendy Klain (Gross)

I would like to go to a classmates only get-together. I haven't seen anyone since the 1995 reunion, which I remember as classmates only. Making the connections with people I once recognized will be interesting enough. I'm not really keen on visiting the building, however, especially at night. During the day might not be bad. We could walk around and tell stories about Heights years gone by.? Somewhere cheerful in the community would be nice. But we're talking about maybe 100+ people. How about a park, in the afternoon? I'm a devout tree-lover.

06/11/09 02:03 PM #20    

 

Marci Sherell Zabell

Ooooo - how about a picnic at Cain Park?

06/14/09 03:49 PM #21    

 

Lori Kaufman

As a result of this wonderful website, I am hearing from lots of people and having a great time. Does it go away after the reunion, or is this something that has a continuing life?
On a separate note, I also vote for trying to put something together for Friday.

06/14/09 11:57 PM #22    

 

Adrienne H. Greenberg (Monas)

This is better than comfort food...NO calories!!! I have the Cauldron right next to my computer.

06/17/09 08:01 AM #23    

H. Jay Spiegel

If the Reunion is limited to just a Saturday night event, out of towners like me will find it a less attractive event. Those of our classmates who remained in the Cleveland area see each other from time to time. It seems to me one purpose of a Reunion should be to maximize attendance by those classmates who live away from Cleveland. A Friday night event could be nothing more than agreeing to meet at a particular venue, restaurant or nightclub. A Saturday day event could be a rendezvous at the school or a picnic at a public park. Such events wouldn't require a budget, just an announcement. I encourage the reunion committee to plan Friday night & Saturday day events.

06/17/09 10:18 PM #24    

Carole Ferell (Kaufman)

i want to share as a committee member, some of the thots behind the decision to have a 1 nite only reunion, instead of the traditional fri. classmates only. many people elect to only attend the fri. nite event, feel thy've seen everyone they care to see, and pass on the reunion party. we want the reunion to be THAT party... u can always contact a particular set of friends and have time to make a small get together on your own...and fill in the spaces as u choose for the extended holiday weekend...but i also am very fond of the times spent at cain park, and personally like the idea of a picnic...maybe early fri. nite, up in the colonade above the amphitheater, sort of a B.Y.O.P.(PICNIC) and then people can dispurse with whatever plans they made for the rest of the eve.
what do people think?? and i'll bring it up to the committee. carole

06/18/09 12:01 AM #25    

Steven Feinberg

Thanks, Sylvia, this website is wonderful. Your efforts are greatly appreciated. I've spent way too much time on it the past few days.

I agree with you Jay but I understand the committee's reticence in scheduling other weekend events, Carole. Except for a couple of summers, I've been away from Cleveland since high school and rarely have the opportunity to reconnect with classmates. If there is another reunion sponsored event, I'll be there. Regardless, I look forward to the featured soiree on Saturday night. What a great way to spend the holiday weekend!

Where the hell have those four decades gone? It's been like a roller coaster ride - a lot of fun but way too short.

06/18/09 09:52 AM #26    

Barbara R. Glick

Perhaps to resolve the 1st night/2nd night dilemma, the reunion night should be the 1st party where everyone sees each other for the first time...as a follow-up get together, a brunch or picnic the next day should follow. That would make a nice weekend (especially for those travelling a long way). I feel bad for all those planning this wonderful occasion and having more show for the pre-party than the party itself...those of us who are just attending and not helping in the planning should be understanding of that...does anybody agree with me?

06/18/09 09:26 PM #27    

Susan G. Nesbit

I still vote for a Friday night gathering, especially for those travelling long distances. An event on Sunday (even in the morning) could be difficult to attend for those catching flights back to their homes. Having 3 choices - Friday night, Saturday night, and Sunday morning - might be ideal! Actually, Sunday is July 4th, and lots of folks might be with family...

06/19/09 01:36 PM #28    

 

Marci Sherell Zabell

I understand about people getting together on the Friday and then not wanting to attend the main event. Personally, I'm up for anything. And the out-of-towners might not have people to hang with on the 4th, so both Friday and Sunday could work - different venues, different times.

Of course, Saturday morning I expect to see many of you at the Shaker Square (farmer's) Market, where we also have lots of artists showing their work!

06/20/09 10:06 PM #29    

Jeff Klein

i think seeing everyone at one venue would be nice for the 1st time would bne nice.

traveling into to town for the event and maybe getting to gether informally might be great too.

Personnally from a religious perspective I could not do a friday night at all. A saturday night would work but I would probably have to get there late. Then again this probably doesnt affect too many people

06/21/09 01:32 AM #30    

Barbara Hughes

REGARDING THE CAULDRON PHOTOS... There is one photo of the Ad Club showing at least one student who was not in the class of 1970, and she is identified incorrectly. Her name (at the time) was Ellen Roberts, and she is actually second from the left (blond), and I believe she was in the class of 1972. We were huge friends during her last two years of Heights, but we drifted apart when I got married. DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW TO CONTACT ELLEN?

If you do, please send a private message. Thank you!

06/23/09 01:22 AM #31    

 

Wendy Klain (Gross)

This website has been fun, except someone is taking advantage and has been sending me nasty messages. Has anyone else gotten negative responses?
I totally identify with "spending too much time on this website". I have spent a few evenings reading profiles and matching the names and faces with Cauldron pictures. But when I tell people my graduating class had around 950 people, they're stunned.
About get-togethers, yeah, the committee is putting lots of time and energy into a planned event---it seems only considerate to try to attend that event. But I think "alternatives" might be a Heights tradition. I spent many happy hours at Cain Park and it would be fun to visit there.

06/28/09 11:36 AM #32    

 

Marci Sherell Zabell

Who was at the Doo Wops concert on the 14th? It was a blast! The music - and the guys - were oldies but goodies! And we filled the ampitheater up to and onto the lawn. Good times.

So many fond Cain Park memories - especially camp, attending plays at the Alma (Remember the kid who played the clown with the puppet who always popped up in different - high - places around the theater?), eating lunch in the terrace, and performing on the main stage!

In a full circle moment, my son played vibes on the main stage with the house band (teaching staff) of the Roberto Ocasio Latin Jazz Band Camp, where he studied Afro-Cuban and Latin jazz with Bobby Sanabria, among others. Can't even say how totally proud I was!

07/08/09 10:36 AM #33    

 

Nadine Meclovsky (Lader)

The class of "69" have had a lot of complaints because they were ONLY offering a Saturday night afair for their class reunion instead of a Friday night get together and a Saturday night Reunion party. The reunion committee has taken their classmates complaints into consideration and have now changed their plan. They are now offering a Friday night and Saturday night package for $100, or just the Reunion for $80, or just the Friday night get together for $40 w/out receiving a Memory book. Sounds like a good plan to me. Hope the class of "70" will follow and do the same. I would like to stretch our week-end out as long as possible. It isn't often that we get to see each other. Nadine Meclovsky Lader

07/22/09 06:59 AM #34    

 

Jack Perry (Perry)

In reading through the comments on what plans should take place, I'm glad to see there will be a broader schedule offered. Although I'm not coming from far, it is a strong consideration that out-of-towners who are traveling in have already decided on spending the holiday weekend for this purpose. The bigger the event choices in this regard, the better. I'd also love to see a Sunday morning breakfast set up somewhere...as an option for some to say some final good-byes. Sure there will be some who's flights don't allow it, but I'm sure there will be several who can.

I'm also getting a "bang" out of the site. I've been so out of touch with classmates since college days, it is fascinating reading profiles and learning what we've accomplished in the last 40 years. I encourage everyone not to be shy and expand their profiles accordingly. Sharing experiences of ALL kinds is a marvelous thing.

Thanks to the committee for a wonderful effort!

07/28/09 11:30 PM #35    

Lynne Peters (Paderewski)

I agree that the website is great - you did an excellent job getting it together. What a trip down memory lane. I agree too with those favoring a Friday night gathering, something more casual - wherever.

07/29/09 11:46 AM #36    

Gail E. Uhrman (Johnson)

This website is addictive.I am having the best time with it.Thank for the time and energy.

08/11/09 06:43 PM #37    

 

Janice Semko (Ross)

I hate to admit it, but in reviewing the list of classmate profiles I seriously do not remember most of the names. Could be an extended 'senior moment' or the result of too many major surgeries over the years. Anesthesia will do that, I've been told. Seems there are much more fun ways to loose a few brain cells! Is anyone else looking at names saying, "If you gave me a million bucks, I couldn't remember who this is"?

08/12/09 05:34 PM #38    

 

Carole L. Giannantonio (Turley)

This entire thing is Great! It has certainly been a hoot hearing from people from 'back in the day' and taking so many trips down memory lane!

I have been contacted by my 1st boyfriend from the 6th grade who happens to live only 300 miles from me now (I am in Phx. area and he is in Vegas); as well as my 'boyfriend for a week' when we were in 7th grade who now lives in the Mt. Shasta area of the Northwest. I am staying in touch with them both, in addition to numerous others who have contacted me.

I would not be able to make a commitment at this time to attend because it is just too far from now. I actually had planned to attend the 30th but cancer got in the way of that plan... now here it is 9 yrs. later.

I can say that my older sister has attended numerous of her reunions and they always have a get-together on the night before. She raves about that more informal night every time!

Unlike the poster ahead of me... I remember most of the names. What freaks me out is seeing some of the names of our classmates who have passed on.

The format of this website is great... very easy to navigate and post to... touche!

Take care all and have a Magical Day!

08/15/09 06:20 PM #39    

 

Marci Sherell Zabell

Janice - I remember you!

08/18/09 07:54 AM #40    

Barbara Hughes

Janice, I also have no idea who most of the names in our class are. But then again, I didn't know most of you THEN, either.

I also agree with Jack, who said, "I encourage everyone not to be shy and expand their profiles accordingly." Yes, people... I was probably THE shyest and most socially inept person in the whole class, but mine is one of the longest profiles! So c'mon, open up, we won't bite! (That runs entirely contrary to my mode of being in high school, when I thought everyone WOULD bite me, but I'm much better now, thank you.)

I have been contacted by two people who didn't know me then but would like to know me now, and one person from all the way back in elementary school in East Cleveland. So unlike 40 years ago, this has been a positive experience for me!

I've posted the following poem on my profile, and I'd like to post it here, too. I just heard this poem for the first time on Sunday, 8-16, and I felt deeply moved and comforted by it. I'd like to offer it up in honor of this class, for all our experiences--past, present, and future.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

WILD GEESE
by Mary Oliver

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miiles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.

Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes, over the prairies,
and the deep trees, the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese,
high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.

Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting --
over and over announcing your place in the family of things.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

08/18/09 10:43 AM #41    

Susan G. Nesbit

Thanks, Barbara Hughes, for your recent submission. I, too, was very shy in high school, and I, too, submitted a long profile. In my journey after graduation, the extrovert in me surfaced and I gained the confidence I didn't have at Heights. I love the poem that Barbara included, and after living on the Canadian prairies, I'm visualizing the March/April return of the geese to Winnipeg, Manitoba. On the cold and windy prairies, the return of the geese symbolizes the end of a long cold winter with January temperatures averaging minus 16 degrees Celsius (plus 3 degrees Fahrenheit), and these chilly temperatures do not include the pervasive windchill factor. The return of the geese also symbolizes going from a dark place to a light place. January days average 8 hours of light and June days average 16 hours of light. Thanks, Barbara, for the visualizations, and of course, I also appreciate interpreting the poem regardless of the personal visualizations that I add to it.

Yesterday, while driving in the Sonoran Desert that defines Phoenix (I've gone from one temperature extreme to another), I heard "Crimson and Clover" and "Crystal Blue Persuasion" on my car radio. I'm reminiscent of the Tigers' Den. I love nostalgia.

I'll be updating my profile page soon; I'm moving back to New York City in about 1.5 weeks. I prefer the cold over the heat, and I miss the concrete jungle. I thank Heights for my appreciation of populous environments. I loved the choices available to us. Didn't we have the choice of 8 foreign languages? I studied French from grade 4 - grade 12. And we certainly had many options for science, English, gym, art, and so on. In another example of a populous environment, the Ohio State University offered me many degree options. And in NYC, thanks to the extensive grid system, I'll soon be choosing from a multitude of walking paths. I like to commute by subway, leaving time to get off one or two stops from my destination so I can enjoy a walk while I people watch.

I'm reminded of one of Robert Frost's poem, "The Road Not Taken," published in 1915. We interpreted this poem in English. Was it 10th-grade English? Anyhow, I see individualism in the ending lines, which read:

"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."

I value my education at Heights. Although I was shy in my high-school years, my education influenced the person that I became; actually, I'm still becoming. I'm glad to have crossed paths with so many of you, even if the encounters were brief.

Okay, I've also become syrupy. Cancer has a way of changing a person, especially after dealing with four months of possible stage-4 cancer. There's nothing better than being able to say, "My breast cancer was 'only' stage 3."

I'd love to hear about other journeys after Heights. What roads did you travel?

08/20/09 03:05 PM #42    

 

Carole L. Giannantonio (Turley)

Sue I relate to much of what you have to say. I had no idea you lived here in the Phx. area... I have been here for 25 years; and like yourself I LOVE COLD Weather. I hate the heat and always have, but I came here because I knew I would need to care for my folks one day... which I did through their passings.

Now it is too horrible of a market to even think about selling my condo & moving anywhere else.

I also did Breast Cancer in 1999-2000. I blogged a bit about that on my myspace page at http://www.myspace.com/carmacoproductions

Good Luck to you in NY!
Take Care.

08/21/09 03:37 AM #43    

 

Jack Perry (Perry)

Glad to see so much activity on the site. It really has allowed me to touch base with a few names of my past I hadn't thought about in years. That being said, what I see is mostly conversation from the lady-folk in the class. Come on, guys...we can't always let them get the last word in! :-)

One last thing: I've been watching for updates from some names I do remember, and don't see them "getting in." If anyone knows where people are who haven't added profiles (because I know I just don't), please contact them and encourage them to get on. I really would like to be able to reach out to a few more and see what they've been doing with their lives, even if they're not going to come to the reunion.

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