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08/17/08 10:44 AM #409    

Lisa Coppola

Carol,
Did Spitz say something nasty?..I must have missed it. Obviously he said or did something because they sure shut him out! Oh well that's unfortunate. He had his time in the spotlight. Now Phelps gets to be the golden boy...and deservedly so!
xox Lisa

08/17/08 03:43 PM #410    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

I read in the paper that Mark Spitz wasn't invited although he said that he would have liked to be there to personally talk to Michael Phelps. Paper didn't mention any riff. Mark Spitz did say that he was a little offended that he wasn't asked to attend...butI say if he really wanted to go he could have gone himself. He(Mark S.)said that he was relived that someone did break his record and he genuily seemed happy for the boy wonder...glad its over though it was a bit much turning on the Olympics and only hearing about MP...I mean he is good athlete and all, but there are other athletes out there, fo instance the 41 year old women's O team swimmer that took 2 silvers now thats a story I tell ya good for her what an accomplishment.

Bucky do you need a golf cart driver or what! I can do that and I can hand you your clubs too, well if you tell me which is which I mean I know what a putter is, but anything else I am lost, but I could give it a try, lol

Kevin Barone....nice pic of you in Miami...you look fabulous and your dimples are grrrreat!Hope the upcoming party that you are throwing goes well.

Carol is it true what they say about Hoovers I mean Hooters???? oops!

08/17/08 11:16 PM #411    

William Casey

i'll do the judging for free (sorry greg and bucky).

08/18/08 02:12 AM #412    

Kevin Barone

ummmmm....

HELLO PEOPLE!!!!!

I told the story about Mark Spitz at least a week ago!!!!

Carol,
I don't know whether or not to thank you for posting a picture of me yet....I'll look at it after I finish this.

Why do you ask for Vern when you have ME....I am so insulted.But to tell you the truth,if I ran into David I would say I was a dentist or something & have him over for a "consultation"...boyfriend or no boyfriend!

Elmer,
Let me know if they break up!!
I never see him around Fort Lauderdale.When he was on Design Star he was living here but I guess he moved.
That story about the Morons....I mean Mormon's wedding was funny.I would have gone to the church in disguise and revealed myself at the reception.But,then again,if there was no booze or "stimulants" I don't think I'd R.S.V.P.!!!!!

Margaret-
I think your idea is great!!!!
Swimsuit contest and the winner's photo posted at Hooter's(AND Hoover's)!!!
Maybe we should just have the reunion at one of those 2 places with a "Bathing Suit Optional" theme...yeah...that's it!!

And I think I sould judge or at least be one of the judges!!!

Well,I guess I'll go to bed & read now...

Oh, & Mary Grace...thanks for the compliment...now I'll check out that picture that Carol posted.

Oh & also...Elmer you are so right about the under 22 computer wizzes!!!! It just seems to come naturally to them. Maybe we evolved from an ancient computer and now we're on our journey back???? I better go to bed,huh?

Peace/KGB

08/18/08 02:20 AM #413    

Kevin Barone

Carol,

I never would have guessed that you would have posted that picture.How the hell did you do that (or did Little Miss Haley Shae do it???LOL).
I thought it was going to be a beach shot in a Gucci...what did you guys call it?....meat sling or something.BTW,I'm not sporting that style any more...haven't for years.After turnin 45 I felt it was inappropriate even for a fag!!!
Mary Grace said Miami and all I could think was that you posted something from Miami or St.Thomas or the Jersey shore.
That was a good choice though...AND...still in Gucci!!!!

Later..................KGB

08/18/08 10:41 AM #414    

Faith Zimmerman

Regarding Mark Spitz: Mark Spitz & Michael Phelps were interviewed live (Mark was via satellite from Detroit) by Bob Costas) the night that Michael Phelps tied Mark's record. Mark was very impressive. He was quite gracious and well spoken and had only good things to say about both Michael and the Olympics. I don't know where you all got your information to the contrary, but I didn't see even a hint of bitterness or negativity from him. Plus, I thought he looked pretty darned good for his age (somewhere around 60). The dark hair is now gray & the moustache is gone, but he's definitely not gone down the tubes as many of you rumored.

Regarding older athletes participating in the Olympics: Did you see the women's gymnastics? A 33 year-old Russian woman, competing for Germany, got a silver medal in vaulting. She was twice the age of many of he competitors! Quite impressive.

08/18/08 05:00 PM #415    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Well Faith I wasn't saying anything negative about Mark Spitz and I am aware that he had a conversation via phone w/Phelps and Bob Costas. The information that I shared earlier was what i read in the newspaper....and regarding the 33 yr old gymnasist was unaware of that I don't know maybe it was discussed on late night when I was sleeping or prehaps I wasn't tuned in at that moment...yikes this is suppose to be a fun way to communicate not a tit for tat.

Kevin you are welcome!

Carol your secret is out about Haley helping you through this web site lol! So ez a 5 year old can do it...just kidding!

Maureen if you are out there I hope that you are having a fun and relaxing time and I hope that tropical storm Fay doesn't interfere too much or at all w/ your vacation. I am waiting to hear from my parents to see if they have to evacuate or not beings that they live on the West coast of Florida outside of Tampa.

Ta ta for now :0

08/18/08 07:07 PM #416    

Lisa Coppola

Hi Faith,
...and did you see the winner of the women's marathon? I think she is 38???...maybe younger by a year or two but she was sure impressive...and she couldn't stop running even after she won! All I can say is I'd better get serious about getting my lard arse in shape again...I exercise regularly but the only gains I'm making are on the scale!

Mary Grace...having said the above...I am also out of the reunion swim suit competition. I say we declare Shade the clear winner and leave it at that.
xoxo Lisa

08/18/08 08:32 PM #417    

Deborah Kozak (Martin)

Lisa- The marathon winner had quite an impressive run, didn't she! Did you see the three Jamaican women sweep all three medals in the 100 meter? I agree that Michael Phelps has the spotlight right now but he has every right to all of the pr he is receiving. Dana Torres,the 41 year old swimmer, now has 12 Olympic medals for her career total (don't quote me I might be having an Alzheimer moment) and has set a milestone of her own which I feel NBC gave her the rightful praise and glory for her achievements. She, along with Phelps, will go down in history as being heroes of a caliber we don't often see in today's society. I personally found them both to be sincere, honest and of the highest integrity, two leaders who have no doubt left a lasting impression on future Olympians.

MaryGrace and Lisa- I'm with you, no bathing suit contest for me!

Kevin- How was your party? Details! (Are you getting rained on right now by T.S. Fay?)



08/18/08 10:48 PM #418    

Faith Zimmerman

MaryGrace, I was surprised you seemed to be offended by my last post. So surprised that I went back and reread it to see what exactly I had said that made you think that it was in any way judgmental or even directed explicitly at you. I'm not sure why you took offense, but I am genuinely sorry you felt that way. Many had posted opinions on Mark Spitz, and when I subsequently saw that interview, I was struck by how different he was from my expectation. That was all.

As far as the older gymnast, I was just agreeing with you that there are other athletes (some a bit older than the "typical" athlete in their sport) with impressive stories. I wasn't trying to one-up you, and didn't expect that you (or anyone) would see ALL of the coverage that's been aired. Hope this clears up any misunderstanding.
Faith

08/18/08 11:04 PM #419    

Kevin Barone

Mary Grace-

Thank You for saying the "tit for tat" thing...I didn't think any one was being negative or superlative either.
Carol was joking when she called him a "hater" and I assumed that everybody knew that...oh well....

Alright already!!! I'm sorry that I said that Mark Spitz didn't look so great too! I didn't realize he was 60,but I know a lot of 60 year old people that look a lot better.It was just a superficial comment anyway...maybe the picture I saw just wasn't flattering...

Lisa-
I can't wait to see you...you always are so sweet and pleasant...but,then again,as I remember,you always were!



Debbie-

Madonna's Birthday party was so much fun!
The DJ was a great addition and we pumped music outside too! We had a great time!!
Don't believe all the hype about the "storm"...I don't know why the media always tries to make everyone feel threatened,it's not even raining right now and the people that evacuated Key West (in miles and miles and miles of traffic) are so pissed off!!!

Did any one forego the Olympics to watch the forum with Obama & McCain???

No offense to any one,but in my (very strong) opinion, we are choosing between two candidates: an honest,open minded,intelligent uniter & a lying,self rightious war monger that would look perfectly authentic lying in a coffin!!!

McCain shot his answers back so quickly,it was as if they were rehearsed.He said everything that right winged ,tight-assed crowd wanted to hear.The dumbest thing was when he was questioned about evil.If I remember correctly,they were asked if evil exists (DUH???) & what should be done about it.The choices were-confront it,negotiate with it,ignore it or eliminate it.McCain IMMEDIATELY shot back "eliminate it".What does that mean & how on earth can any one but "God" relieve this world from evil??? Barack's answer was humble and practical.
Opinions any one, or am I the only one that feels that the U.S. is in dire need of a true leader?I don't even have children but I truely worry about how the next couple of generations are going to survive.And that's if this world even lasts that long...Yikes!!!

As you may have heard,he WAS NOT in a sound proof cone as announced.He was in his motorcade and then in the green room....hello... ever hear of a Blackberry????

***SIDE NOTE;1st off,Cheryl,where the hell have you been and can we PLEASE get spell check on this site???
Seems that my M.C. education wasn't 100% efficiant...LOL


Anywho,back to the forum...Oh,I guess I'll just leave it at that.Religion,Politics....Ya know?

I will say that if McCain is president,I will seriously consider leaving this country.
I CAN'T TAKE NO MO!!!!!

We Only Got 4 Minutes (To Save The World)

Be Well All/KGB


08/19/08 11:42 AM #420    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Thanks Faith, guess I did misunderstand your comment and I apologize too.
Maybe its true what they say about typing on the internet and thinking there is a tone that really isn't...anyway so sorry to all, maybe it was me.
Kevin I will be moving to Canada too if a certain politician(and I use that term loosely(sp?))gets voted in.
I hear Cananda has its perks and I always wanted to go there.
Kevin glad to hear that the storm is not as bad as the hype and I heard from my parents and they ar safe as well.

08/19/08 12:08 PM #421    

Margaret C. Shade (Hogan)

In Terms of our choices of Presidential Canidates, I feel neither one is so hot. I keep flipping back and forth. It's sad of all the great people we do have living in our country these two men are our only choices.
Enough Politics back to the bathing suit competition.
Myrtle,
we could judge the mens swimsuit competition. To hell with the golf outing Sandy Hook last beach on the Right. Swimsuits optional. This way no one has to worry about how they look in a swimsuit.
Later
margaret

08/19/08 02:08 PM #422    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

Hey Margaret I like the way you think...we can run a bus trip to Sandy Hook lol I am sure that Carol Vallone would go along w/ this lol.
Hey has anyone come up w/ a t shirt slogan yet for the reunion or is that off the table?

Okedokkee talk to you later....Myrtle

08/19/08 05:41 PM #423    

Elmer Dante


Kevin,

I have to have you come to one of my brother's parties. In the past, he's suggested dropping off Laura and Barbara Bush in the middle of Africa so that they can walk village to village teaching abstinence (because George is unconvinced of the need for condoms to fight AIDs). Since Barbara was so eloquent during the New Orleans disaster, I’m quite certain that she’ll do just fine.

I believe that it was Pastor Rick Warren, an Evangelical Christian, posed the question “Do you believe that evil exists?” From a traditional Christian philosophical point of view, the answer should be “no.’’ Evil is a privation (or absence) of the good. It has no inherent existence. An example that is often used is a torn shirt or a shirt without a button—it is bad or evil because something is missing. This platonic idea was pivotal to the thinking of St. Augustine and to St. Thomas Aquinas and through inheritance, to the whole of the Western and Eastern theological traditions. (Note: the term ‘Evangelical’ is misleading. When used by one of the Lutheran Communions, the Evangelical Lutheran Church, it has the opposite meaning of how I’m using it in this post. I am using this term to describe very conservative, literal approaches to the exegesis of scripture—literally, the type of Church where you leave your brain at the door. Usually these people believe that anybody who doesn’t believe as they do will be damned to eternal Hell. Of course, the question “What the hell kind of God are you worshipping?” should be posed to them.)

To say that Evil exists as a “thing,” in and of itself, is the same as admitting that God created it. Since God is all good and pronounced all things that he created as “very good,” it stands to reason that evil was not created. If one takes the position that evil pre-existed creation, one is faced with an ontological dualism: only God is uncreated and exists; it evil is uncreated and exists, it is a God, as well. That is not to say, conventionally, that the affects of the "unsown herb," as the patristic writers so poetically referred to evil, are not painfully felt throughout creation.

The point I’m trying to make is that I find the wording of the question completely bizarre, but not unexpected from a pastor of the Evangelical tradition which devalues reason (and anything philosophical suggests the use of reason). His question does, however, suggest that Pastor Warren lives in a world of absolutes: Now I would be the first to suggest that what happened on 9/11/01 was the result of human iniquity and iniquity of that magnitude requires a response. And I will admit that there are certain people with whom dialogue is possible and profitable and others with whom it will not be possible and profitable. I can count on Pastor Warren as being in the group with which I couldn’t have a profitable dialogue.

Although I am a Democrat, I can’t forget that Abraham Lincoln, a great man, was a Republican. It’s sad to see (for the Republican Party that is) that Evangelicals feel so at home there (particularly since the Southern Baptists have finally, within the last five years, admitted that slavery is wrong).

Some of the questions posed to Obama are indicative of ideas that most listeners are incapable of understanding (i.e., they don’t have the proper training)—I don’t believe that either candidate precisely understood the questions. In Pastor Warren’s world view (which comes to us from the writings of St. Augustine), the fall of Adam and Eve (which Pastor Warren views as historical) caused humans to loose their capacities (in other words, humanity experienced an ontological change as a result of the fall). These capacities that were lost can only be restored through baptismal regeneration (in some traditions) and, in the Pastor’s viewpoint, through having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

Keep in mind that people like this believe that Moslems and other, non-Christians (and some of them would say that about me, an Episcopalian) do not have restored capacities and, therefore, cannot be engaged in dialogue. In some of his speeches, President Bush has suggested this, in not so many words.

When working on a paper on the ‘filioque’ (Latin for “and the Holy Spirit”) clause of the Nicene Creed, I found that Evangelicals generally believe that this clause, although a later addition to the Creed, is absolutely requisite and that Orthodox Christians are neo-pagans for excluding this clause. The reason that Evangelicals make this argument is because they believe that it leaves open the possibility of the Holy Spirit working through the symbols and rituals of other religions.

Thankfully Pastor Warren’s worldview is not shared by most mainstream denominations. Although incarnational Christians (those who see the world as a sacrament of the divine),Roman Catholics, Orthodox, Episcopalians and Lutherans, take seriously the doctrine of Baptismal Regeneration, these groups have other ways of dealing with the dilemma of other religions (usually, at least in modern theology, in constructive manners).

When people live in a world of absolutes (we "the good" against "the other" who is regarded as evil), it doesn't suprise me that some fundamentalists engage in gay bashing, anti-semitism, etc.

I just thought I’d point out why Evangelicals are often anti-dialogue and view politics as an exercise in absolutes.

Best regards,

Elmer

08/19/08 06:00 PM #424    

Elmer Dante

I promise this won't be another long one...

At any rate, I didn't proof my previous post until after I posted it. "Filioque" means "and the son." Sorry about the error.

Carol,

I forgot to respond to your post. I remember my mother watching that damned "Donny and Marie Show." As my brother would say, "he was only kidding himself."

Elmer

08/19/08 06:43 PM #425    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

You guys convinced me, I'm voting for Mc Cain!
Shade I thought that was you at Sandy Hook, you don't have to send a picture now for the contest.
Buck

08/19/08 07:21 PM #426    

Margaret C. Shade (Hogan)

I Have also decided whom I'm voting for. I'm doing a write in vote. It's Elmer Dante. Elmer you be the man. I like the way you think. I've done write in votes before. You never know ELmer, It could be a new movement.
Bucky ,
It Was me! It must be the new blond hair. Is that how you recognized me?
Elmer Dante for President.
CArol, how;s the BAthroom?
As my kids would say
Peace Out.
M. Ho
That's my street name.

08/19/08 11:40 PM #427    

Kevin Barone

Faith & all-

Apparently,I was editing my post regarding the "tit for tat" thing while Faith was explaining herself.That's why I asked if we could get spell check!So,though it seems that I posted AFTER Faith did,I actually was proof-reading and her post beat me in.I'm not trying to ruffle anyone's feathers.

I miss that Damn beach at Sandy Hook!!!
Perfect,very casual place to hang out & catch up.No suits,dresses,etc. just bathing suits or skin.


Elmer,

I get your explanation about evil.I was approaching it from a more....general human interprtation of evil.
I respect you & every one else's religous or spiritual beliefs.As far as the references that you use in your explanations,some of them are actually historic,but others like the bible are open to individual interprtation and contain opinions,metaphors and inacuracies.

My personal belief is that if God/Spirit/The One/Goddess/The Light,etc.,etc.,what ever you what to call it...created it,it is here for a reason.When you consider things like war,rape,slavery,genocide,child abuse,etc.,most people DO tend to caractorize those things as bad or evil.It is hard to think of such things as part of God's plan or not evil.
Most things can be interpreted differently by many people.You used the metaphor of the ripped shirt.There are many,many things that exist where there is conflict amoungst humankind's opinion of what is good or evil.

Since neither of the candidates are theologians,my point was that I think that they took the meaning of evil on a more general level,as I think most people would.

In that context,I think John McCain's answer was absurd.
What most consider evil is very hard to "fight".
There is way too much "evil" in the world to even think that it would be possible for any one person to be able to put an end to it.We can only try to put an end to something we consider evil if you are in the presense of a rape,for example,and step in & try to help the victim of the crime.Note that most surveys show that most people turn the other way & do absolutely nothing when they witness a crime.

I personally interpreted McCain's answer as egotistical and authoritive,as if he is the judge of what IS good or evil.Hence my referance to him as a war monger.I just see him as a person that wants to fight everything that he doesn't believe in."Thow shall not judge" is a message that I feel is very relavent.To witness this in some one that is running for the presidency is scarey to me.

Though God is a mystery,while we are in our bodies as human beings,I think that there is a moral code that most of us do our best to adhear to.I'm sorry but I just cannot imagine that beating some one,raping them,holding them in your basement in isolation for 10 years and then killing them could be a "good" thing.

So,this is the Mystery of Spirit that our souls will understand when we pass to the next level of existance.
Again,this is totally my personal opinion/belief/asessment.

*** where is that G.D. spell check!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Marygrace,

Though I would hate the weather,Canada is one place I would consider.I've also considered Austalia,Bermuda & Holland.


Bucky,

Are you voting for McCain because you want to get rid of us?
I would seriously like to know if you're serious and why...if you feel like it...

Adios,Peace/KGB

08/20/08 07:53 AM #428    

Elmer Dante

Kevin,

Sorry...This is another long one.

I agree with you that any text, including the Bible, requires interpretation. When we interpret a text, the interpretation often tells us more about the interpreter than the text--this is inescapably human. All texts, including the Bible, must be approached with some degree of suspicion because such texts are timebound. That is to say, if you want to approach a text from a feminist perspective, for example, you must keep in mind that everything contained in the Bible was written by persons who were the products of male biased cultures (this is why God is referred to using the metaphor of 'father' rather than 'mother).

In reality, the Bible is comprised of a number of texts, many of which attempt to explain evil (or the theodicy problem) differently. One of the authors of the Book of Job (Job consists of two redacted texts) concludes that evil is a mystery (i.e., when God responds out of the whirlwind)beyond human understanding.

The thing about evil is that it is insidious. You can't point to it as a 'thing,' but you can readily see it affects. We live in a world permeated by violence. Even the food on our plates is the product of violence. Have you ever seen a slaughterhouse? Sometimes the fabrics we wear have been produced in sweatshops by child labor.

The one thing that seems to stand out in the Gospels, when reading the miracle stories of Jesus, is that whatever the occurance, the event seemed to speak of a synergy between God and the person who was healed "by your faith you have been healed." I don't think that the miracle stories are stories of the sudden intervention of God in history; instead, I see them as examples of the co-operation or "synergy" between our humanity and the "divinity" in each of us.

Now before I conclude this post by telling one story from personal experience, I do want to put forth that I am a liberal. However, I think that both liberals and conservatives both have reasonable positions and that we must listen to each other. I for one believe that in some cases, assisted suicide is permissible. However, I am greatly disturbed that studies have shown that in countries in which assisted suicide of the terminally ill is permissible, the overwhelming percentage of people who choose this option are elderly women who live alone and have no family. As a thinking person, I have to ask the question: "What does this mean?"

Now, it is typically Anglican of me to take the middle way and state that sometimes it is permissible and sometimes it is not. At any rate, here is the story with which a priest friend of mine had a personal experience:

One of my friend's parishioners had indicated that he had obtained a vile of poison and that if he ever became terminally ill, he would use it to take his own life. This gentleman had been a salesman for many years; he had a great personality; and many of his clients were counted among his friends. He had a large extended family with whom he was very close. Low and behold, he became terminally ill and the disease that was in the process of taking his life was sometimes painful.

My friend would visit him in the hospital daily. On one occasion she asked him, "do you have the vile"? He responded, "yes, I do; but I'm not ready." The one thing that my friend noticed was that this gentleman had constant visitors: family and friends that he made over his many years as a salesman. To make a long story short, he didn't use the vile and expired naturally. My question is, if it hadn't been for community, might he have used the vile? I would conclude that a miracle did take place in that the gentleman was healed (healing is not necessarily synonymous with 'cure').

I also remember reading the story of a Protestant minister in the Midwest who was rector of a very well-to-do parish who was well-known for listening to his parishioners and and being there for them when they needed him. He was once asked, why aren't you working in a poor parish to help people who "really" need help. The minister's response was: "There are always people everywhere who "really" need help. When one of my parishioners needs a shoulder to cry on, I'm there for him or her. How might the world have been a different place if a young and confused Adolph Hitler had met a similarly sympathetic clergyman? Perhaps the Holocaust would not have occured."

I guess my point is that evil works its way into relationships, but relationship is also the manner by which evil can be conquered. This is why dialogue is important. For example, the means by which people most often overcome homophobia is to have gay friends. When you meet gay people, you know that the crapp that you've heard isn't true. It's also much more difficult to assert that gay people are damned to eternal hell when they are your friends (instead of some abstract, distant "other").

Two of my brother's closest friends are straight men who wanted to play softball and couldn't find a straight team in Orlando for men in their late 40's. Although these two individuals, based upon their backgounds, are not what I would consider typical gay-friendly, straight men; the reason that they are now part of the gay world (but not gay) is through relationship (or community).

Did you ever thing back in school that thirty years latter we'd be grappling with these issues?

By the way, for spellcheck. Type the e-mail in Word and then copy it into this website.

My best,

Elmer


08/20/08 07:57 AM #429    

Elmer Dante

Margaret,

Thanks for the kind words. However, I think that politicians are now treated like Britney Spears, without all the cash (better know as "all the flash, without the cash").

My best,

Elmer

08/20/08 08:12 AM #430    

Harold Cody

I'm voting for Paris Hilton.

See more Paris Hilton videos at Funny or Die

08/20/08 11:07 AM #431    

HaroldBuck Riedinger

KGB
What disturbs me about what you said about John McCain being a war mongour and that you would rather see him dead in a cofin,is first you have no freaking idea what he went through as a POW. He didn't run away to Canada to hide like all of the other cowards.You live your life they way you want to because of men like him ,like my father, like my brother like Sean M. like Jo Anns Sons like all the other alive and dead veterans of this country!!Do you have any idea how many humanatory things his wife does.With all her money she dose'nt want one bit of publicity.And yet you want to see him "dead in a cofin" Give me a freakin break! I not even going into the abortion issues,too personal but I think you know were I stand on that one.
Myrtle, you can always be my driver!And Shade I think you looked better then Paris in that same suit the two of you were wearing.
Feeling much better now
Buck

08/20/08 12:10 PM #432    

 

MaryGrace Van Saun (Tiersch)

ok Bucky you can count on me to be your driver, toot toot off we will go! Myrtle

08/20/08 01:12 PM #433    

Liz Kopf (Mazur)

....SWING!!!! HOME RUN!!!! ; )

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