|
Kathleen Gallagher (Murphy)
Elmer-
I agree! It's so sad to think that some children are raised to be prejudice. Children don't just learn this on their own. I believe that parents teach them.
Dylan had a similar situation at school. A classmate told him that he wasn't allowed to play with "brown" boys. Dylan was upset until I explained to him once again that God created each and every one of us and each and every one of us have a purpose in life that God intends for us. I gave him my permission to tell anyone who makes such a comment like that that "he is sorry they are ignorant" and walk away. He then said "but I'm not allowed to be mean". I told him that wasn't being mean, it was just being honest. He asked why there are "bad" people in our world. I told him there are no bad "people", God only created good people, and we have to realize that some people just make bad "choices".
I always believe that children never asked to be born. It is our responsiblity as adults, and our privilege as parents to teach them right from wrong and to raise them to be good citizens with kindness and love.
I can't tell you how many times Pat & I forget that Dylan is bi-racial. We don't see his color, just his spirit and his heart and personality. And it's a good one, I promise!
You really should think about adopting. It's a beautiful thing!
Kathleen
|