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Cedric Parker

Profile Updated: July 11, 2020
Residing In:
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa
Spouse/Partner:
Felicity-Ann
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Occupation:
Run small business: Cornerstone Couriers
Children:
Candice, born 1971; grandson Matthew 2004
Katherine, born 1981; grandson James 2012; grandson Benjamin More…2014; granddaughter Hannah 2016
Michael, born 1984
Military Service:
Not balloted
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I dropped out of school in standard 9, thinking I'd get a job with the Union Castle line as a cabin steward, see a bit of the world, and then come back and finish my schooling. This fantasy eventually led me to spending a number of years on the streets as a homeless petty thief.

In 1969 Christ intervened and helped me to pull myself together. I worked as a furniture salesman, then managed shoe stores, and then worked for Burlington Hosiery Mills as National Sales Manager.

After this I joined the Unilever group - looking after exports - and then became General Sales Manager at Lever Brothers. My colleagues with degrees were being posted overseas for further development - and so in an effort to get ahead I enrolled to do an MBA at UCT. We had to sell our house and cash my pension to fund this - as Unilever didn't approve of MBA's at that time. I was the first person without a matric to get an MBA at UCT.

I joined Appletiser as Export Manager after the MBA - spending a year in Melbourne with them before moving on. I subsequently worked for an engineering plastics company in Cape Town - helping them to internationalize their business. I left them in 1997 to work with a friend in the courier industry with Supaswift (now Fedex). After a contractual dispute I resigned and started Cornerstone Couriers in 2000. I now have 3 franchisees operating as Cornerstone Couriers in Cape Town, Durban and East London.

My life has been characterised by many highs and lows. I have been divorced twice (both times due to my misconduct), and have made some poor choices in life. The most important aspect of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ. It is His grace that has carried me through. I am now very happily married to Felicity who is an anaesthetist.

School Story:

I have many fond memories of my time at DHS. It was a difficult time for our family, and this impacted significantly on my decision to drop out in early 1965.

Denzil Andrews reminded me of an occasion when Wilfred Norisken asked class members to tell him where they were born (we were quite harsh in trying to take the Micky out of Wolfie). I piped up that I was born in the States - and when he responded with surprised interest I said "Yes - the Orange Free State".

On another occasion he asked the class for suggestions on objects that could be used for a game of charades. I said "How about a wolf? Or maybe even a little wolfie?" Amazing how puerile some of us were at that time!

Which teacher made the greatest impact on you in your time at DHS, and why do you say this?

Geoff Chater was a man who really loved history, and his passion for it was infectious. He was always kind and respectful to the boys in his class.

I believe that he is still alive and living in Durban North. He was an outstanding teacher.

Do you still see/talk to/hang out with any classmates? Who?

I've been in touch with Geoff Caruth for most of the time since I left DHS. He was incredibly supportive to me when I was on the streets.

Famous or interesting people you've met?

I've met Nelson Mandela when part of a Trade Mission to London. What an amazing man! My favourite memory of that trip was watching him jive with the Queen at a concert at the Royal Albert Hall.

How do you relax?

Felicity and I love music and the theatre. We took up bridge a few years ago - and we now play at clubs twice a week. We also play golf together every week.

We love the bush - and Felicity encouraged me to scuba dive and snow ski - which are really exciting. I'm a member of the worship team at our church - Life Christian Church in Ulverstone, Tasmania

I'm a passionate Sharks and Bok supporter, and we often go to watch them at Kings Park. We're hoping to get tickets for the World Cup final in the UK next year. I also love cricket - and we may get to Melbourne on the way to New Zealand in time for that World Cup final at the end of March 2015.

What are some of your favourite inspirational verses or quotes?

James 1 vs 2 - 3:
Helps me appreciate the benefit of adversity

Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy ideal (Earl Nightingale)

Failure can be the engine room of success - if you can own the mistakes you've made

There must be a better way! (Geddes Bain)

Romans 8 vs 28
Helps me appreciate God's love when challenged by life's travails

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Jan 29, 2025 at 2:16 AM

Below is a photo of Graham Raubenheimer (on the left) with the 50th Reunion organising team at a meeting at the Durban Club (compliments of Nigel Hollis). Others in the photo are Geoff Caruth (standing), Graham Morrison (back to camera) and Mike Buchanan.

Graham was a true legend. Despite his many outstanding achievements, he was always thoughtful, considerate and humble. We met socially on occasion, and he was always delightful company. He dealt with life's many challenges in a dignified and positive manner. May he rest in peace.

Me, Graham and Richard Dent in 2017

Graham with a bunch of DHS Old Boys (Mike Bolstridge, Mike Mun-Gavin, Mike Buchanan, Nigel Hollis, Don Atkinson, Stan Coffey and Denzil Andrews in 2016

Graham looking mischievous - together with Geoff Caruth and Stan Coffee in 2016

Graham - looking somewhat startled - with Gerry Haynes - at a braai at our home on the Berea in 2015

Our German Shepherd, Saxon, pleading with Graham for another piece of biltong (we always had to bribe Saxon not to bite our guests :))

Graham looking more relaxed - with Gerry Haynes (anyone know how Gerry is doing?)

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Dec 17, 2024 at 4:01 AM

Francois Everson directed me to a post made by John van der Linde's wife, Elenora, on 5 October 2024. She was sadly announcing his recent death. This was what she posted:

It is with much shock and deep grief I have tell you that my beloved husband and brave Hero passed away 4th August.
It was very sudden and due to him being in hospital for tests for weakness in legs. It took the "specialists" a week to discover he had blocked arteries in his legs. The strain of blood supply led to heart arrest.
He had recently had a pet scan and was totally cancer free and all his body organs in excellent condition.
Such a tragic way to die.
Kind regards
Ellenora Van Der Linde

Oct 05, 2024 at 12:58 PM

Can I request that all those who knew John post their tributes here as soon as possible

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Dec 17, 2024 at 4:01 AM

Francois Everson directed me to a post made by John van der Linde's wife, Ellenora, on 5 October 2024. She was sadly announcing his recent death. This was what she posted:

It is with much shock and deep grief I have tell you that my beloved husband and brave Hero passed away 4th August.
It was very sudden and due to him being in hospital for tests for weakness in legs. It took the "specialists" a week to discover he had blocked arteries in his legs. The strain of blood supply led to heart arrest.
He had recently had a pet scan and was totally cancer free and all his body organs in excellent condition.
Such a tragic way to die.
Kind regards
Ellenora Van Der Linde

Oct 05, 2024 at 12:58 PM

Can I request that all those who knew John post their tributes here as soon as possible? Thank you.

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Jul 29, 2024 at 10:16 AM

The previous link I posted for Jonnie's Memorial Service missed the start. This is another link which contains the whole service:

https://www.facebook.com/watch/live/?ref=watch_permalink&v=1129870581449693&rdid=YkCydMNbLthK4ibo

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Apr 02, 2024 at 3:33 AM

Thanks for this info, John. This means that the Gordon Smith who died must be the one who Geoff Caruth reported had died in the UK recently. Geoff - can I ask how you heard of the UK Gordon Smith's death - and do you know what he died of - and any of his family details? Gladys Botha, whose email address Gordon had been using for years, contacted me primarily to ask us to unsubscribe her from our Class list - and she only revealed that he had died when I asked her why.

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Posted on: Feb 22, 2024 at 1:44 AM

Hi Paddy. Just tried calling you to say that Felicity and I won't be able to get up to see you in Broadbeach this time. We'd love to connect with you both when you're back in Aus again, and perhaps you could consider visiting Sydney then, as you'd be very welcome to stay with us in our retirement village in Waitara. I hope that the rest of your stay goes well and that Kathleen's trip on 7 March is enjoyable. Also hope your time with your son is a blessing. Thanks again for making the effort to connect with us. Hope we can connect next time you visit Aus. Kind regards, Cedric

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Feb 27, 2023 at 7:07 AM

Thank you for your excellent tribute Jonathan. I also believe that Theobald was one of the top three teachers I encountered at school. The other two were Geoff Chater, who brought history alive in a very special way, and Mrs Lonsdale, who taught English (and good manners) at Underberg boarding school. She was such a legend, and one of the most caring people I've had the privilege of knowing.

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Cedric, have you moved from Tassie to Sydney? Coming over to Brissie for 2-3 months in November. All my 3 kids and their families have all recently moved from Melbourne, Sydney and Geelong.

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May 24, 2021 at 10:02 AM

Ian Tayfield kindly sent me this information:

"I only recently became aware that Peter passed away during 2020. He had been living in Brisbane Australia for quite some years. I believe his passing was a result of brain cancer. Regards all. Ian."

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