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Cedric Parker

Profile Updated: July 11, 2020
Residing In:
Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa
Spouse/Partner:
Felicity-Ann
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Occupation:
Run small business: Cornerstone Couriers
Children:
Candice, born 1971; grandson Matthew 2004
Katherine, born 1981; grandson James 2012; grandson Benjamin More…2014; granddaughter Hannah 2016
Michael, born 1984
Military Service:
Not balloted
Comments:

I dropped out of school in standard 9, thinking I'd get a job with the Union Castle line as a cabin steward, see a bit of the world, and then come back and finish my schooling. This fantasy eventually led me to spending a number of years on the streets as a homeless petty thief.

In 1969 Christ intervened and helped me to pull myself together. I worked as a furniture salesman, then managed shoe stores, and then worked for Burlington Hosiery Mills as National Sales Manager.

After this I joined the Unilever group - looking after exports - and then became General Sales Manager at Lever Brothers. My colleagues with degrees were being posted overseas for further development - and so in an effort to get ahead I enrolled to do an MBA at UCT. We had to sell our house and cash my pension to fund this - as Unilever didn't approve of MBA's at that time. I was the first person without a matric to get an MBA at UCT.

I joined Appletiser as Export Manager after the MBA - spending a year in Melbourne with them before moving on. I subsequently worked for an engineering plastics company in Cape Town - helping them to internationalize their business. I left them in 1997 to work with a friend in the courier industry with Supaswift (now Fedex). After a contractual dispute I resigned and started Cornerstone Couriers in 2000. I now have 3 franchisees operating as Cornerstone Couriers in Cape Town, Durban and East London.

My life has been characterised by many highs and lows. I have been divorced twice (both times due to my misconduct), and have made some poor choices in life. The most important aspect of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ. It is His grace that has carried me through. I am now very happily married to Felicity who is an anaesthetist.

School Story:

I have many fond memories of my time at DHS. It was a difficult time for our family, and this impacted significantly on my decision to drop out in early 1965.

Denzil Andrews reminded me of an occasion when Wilfred Norisken asked class members to tell him where they were born (we were quite harsh in trying to take the Micky out of Wolfie). I piped up that I was born in the States - and when he responded with surprised interest I said "Yes - the Orange Free State".

On another occasion he asked the class for suggestions on objects that could be used for a game of charades. I said "How about a wolf? Or maybe even a little wolfie?" Amazing how puerile some of us were at that time!

Which teacher made the greatest impact on you in your time at DHS, and why do you say this?

Geoff Chater was a man who really loved history, and his passion for it was infectious. He was always kind and respectful to the boys in his class.

I believe that he is still alive and living in Durban North. He was an outstanding teacher.

Do you still see/talk to/hang out with any classmates? Who?

I've been in touch with Geoff Caruth for most of the time since I left DHS. He was incredibly supportive to me when I was on the streets.

Famous or interesting people you've met?

I've met Nelson Mandela when part of a Trade Mission to London. What an amazing man! My favourite memory of that trip was watching him jive with the Queen at a concert at the Royal Albert Hall.

How do you relax?

Felicity and I love music and the theatre. We took up bridge a few years ago - and we now play at clubs twice a week. We also play golf together every week.

We love the bush - and Felicity encouraged me to scuba dive and snow ski - which are really exciting. I'm a member of the worship team at our church - Life Christian Church in Ulverstone, Tasmania

I'm a passionate Sharks and Bok supporter, and we often go to watch them at Kings Park. We're hoping to get tickets for the World Cup final in the UK next year. I also love cricket - and we may get to Melbourne on the way to New Zealand in time for that World Cup final at the end of March 2015.

What are some of your favourite inspirational verses or quotes?

James 1 vs 2 - 3:
Helps me appreciate the benefit of adversity

Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy ideal (Earl Nightingale)

Failure can be the engine room of success - if you can own the mistakes you've made

There must be a better way! (Geddes Bain)

Romans 8 vs 28
Helps me appreciate God's love when challenged by life's travails

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Apr 02, 2024 at 3:33 AM

Thanks for this info, John. This means that the Gordon Smith who died must be the one who Geoff Caruth reported had died in the UK recently. Geoff - can I ask how you heard of the UK Gordon Smith's death - and do you know what he died of - and any of his family details? Gladys Botha, whose email address Gordon had been using for years, contacted me primarily to ask us to unsubscribe her from our Class list - and she only revealed that he had died when I asked her why.

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Apr 07, 2024 at 5:37 AM

Posted on: Feb 22, 2024 at 1:44 AM

Hi Paddy. Just tried calling you to say that Felicity and I won't be able to get up to see you in Broadbeach this time. We'd love to connect with you both when you're back in Aus again, and perhaps you could consider visiting Sydney then, as you'd be very welcome to stay with us in our retirement village in Waitara. I hope that the rest of your stay goes well and that Kathleen's trip on 7 March is enjoyable. Also hope your time with your son is a blessing. Thanks again for making the effort to connect with us. Hope we can connect next time you visit Aus. Kind regards, Cedric

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Feb 27, 2023 at 7:07 AM

Thank you for your excellent tribute Jonathan. I also believe that Theobald was one of the top three teachers I encountered at school. The other two were Geoff Chater, who brought history alive in a very special way, and Mrs Lonsdale, who taught English (and good manners) at Underberg boarding school. She was such a legend, and one of the most caring people I've had the privilege of knowing.

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Cedric, have you moved from Tassie to Sydney? Coming over to Brissie for 2-3 months in November. All my 3 kids and their families have all recently moved from Melbourne, Sydney and Geelong.

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May 24, 2021 at 10:02 AM

Ian Tayfield kindly sent me this information:

"I only recently became aware that Peter passed away during 2020. He had been living in Brisbane Australia for quite some years. I believe his passing was a result of brain cancer. Regards all. Ian."

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May 24, 2021 at 8:08 AM

Thanks Rob. I will forward your tribute on to Les' wife Rosemary

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May 23, 2021 at 1:58 PM

Thanks John. I will forward your lovely tribute on to Les' wife Rose

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Posted on: Oct 15, 2020 at 2:35 PM

Happy birthday Mike!

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Posted on: Jul 11, 2020 at 11:12 AM

Paddy Farrell sent me the following excerpt - which a friend had sent to him. Fascinating:

"At 3 P.M., May 6th, the ship slowed down, off the land, and thoughtfully and cautiously picked her way into the snug harbor of Durban, South Africa.
Royal Hotel. Comfortable, good table, good service of natives and Madrasis. Curious jumble of modern and ancient city and village, primitiveness and the other thing. Electric bells, but they don't ring. Asked why they didn't, the watchman in the office said he thought they must be out of order; he thought so because some of them rang, but most of them didn't. Wouldn't it be a good idea to put them in order? He hesitated—like one who isn't quite sure—then conceded the point.

May 7. A bang on the door at 6. Did I want my boots cleaned? Fifteen minutes later another bang. Did we want coffee? Fifteen later, bang again, my wife's bath ready; 15 later, my bath ready. Two other bangs; I forget what they were about. Then lots of shouting back and forth, among the servants just as in an Indian hotel.

Evening. At 4 P.M. it was unpleasantly warm. Half-hour after sunset one needed a spring overcoat; by 8 a winter one.

Durban is a neat and clean town. One notices that without having his attention called to it.

Rickshaws drawn by splendidly built black Zulus, so overflowing with strength, seemingly, that it is a pleasure, not a pain, to see them snatch a rickshaw along. They smile and laugh and show their teeth—a good-natured lot. Not allowed to drink; 2s per hour for one person; 3s for two; 3d for a course—one person.

The chameleon in the hotel court. He is fat and indolent and contemplative; but is business-like and capable when a fly comes about—reaches out a tongue like a teaspoon and takes him in. He gums his tongue first. He is always pious, in his looks. And pious and thankful both, when Providence or one of us sends him a fly. He has a froggy head, and a back like a new grave—for shape; and hands like a bird's toes that have been frostbitten. But his eyes are his exhibition feature. A couple of skinny cones project from the sides of his head, with a wee shiny bead of an eye set in the apex of each; and these cones turn bodily like pivot-guns and point every-which-way, and they are independent of each other; each has its own exclusive machinery. When I am behind him and C. in front of him, he whirls one eye rearwards and the other forwards—which gives him a most Congressional expression (one eye on the constituency and one on the swag); and then if something happens above and below him he shoots out one eye upward like a telescope and the other downward—and this changes his expression, but does not improve it.

Natives must not be out after the curfew bell without a pass. In Natal there are ten blacks to one white.

Sturdy plump creatures are the women. They comb their wool up to a peak and keep it in position by stiffening it with brown-red clay—half of this tower colored, denotes engagement; the whole of it colored denotes marriage.

None but heathen Zulus on the police; Christian ones not allowed.

May 9. A drive yesterday with friends over the Berea. Very fine roads and lofty, overlooking the whole town, the harbor, and the sea-beautiful views. Residences all along, set in the midst of green lawns with shrubs and generally one or two intensely red outbursts of poinsettia—the flaming splotch of blinding red a stunning contrast with the world of surrounding green. The cactus tree—candelabrum-like; and one twisted like gray writhing serpents. The "flat-crown" (should be flat-roof)—half a dozen naked branches full of elbows, slant upward like artificial supports, and fling a roof of delicate foliage out in a horizontal platform as flat as a floor; and you look up through this thin floor as through a green cobweb or veil. The branches are japanesich. All about you is a bewildering variety of unfamiliar and beautiful trees; one sort wonderfully dense foliage and very dark green—so dark that you notice it at once, notwithstanding there are so many orange trees. The "flamboyant"—not in flower, now, but when in flower lives up to its name, we are told. Another tree with a lovely upright tassel scattered among its rich greenery, red and glowing as a firecoal. Here and there a gum-tree; half a dozen lofty Norfolk Island pines lifting their fronded arms skyward. Groups of tall bamboo.

Saw one bird. Not many birds here, and they have no music—and the flowers not much smell, they grow so fast. Everything neat and trim and clean like the town. The loveliest trees and the greatest variety I have ever seen anywhere, except approaching Darjeeling. Have not heard anyone call Natal the garden of South Africa, but that is what it probably is.

It was when Bishop of Natal that Colenso raised such a storm in the religious world. The concerns of religion are a vital matter here yet. A vigilant eye is kept upon Sunday. Museums and other dangerous resorts are not allowed to be open. You may sail on the Bay, but it is wicked to play cricket. For a while a Sunday concert was tolerated, upon condition that it must be admission free and the money taken by collection. But the collection was alarmingly large and that stopped the matter. They are particular about babies. A clergyman would not bury a child according to the sacred rites because it had not been baptized. The Hindoo is more liberal. He burns no child under three, holding that it does not need purifying.

The King of the Zulus, a fine fellow of 30, was banished six years ago for a term of seven years. He is occupying Napoleon's old stand—St. Helena. The people are a little nervous about having him come back, and they may well be, for Zulu kings have been terrible people sometimes—like Tchaka, Dingaan, and Cetewayo.

There is a large Trappist monastery two hours from Durban, over the country roads, and in company with Mr. Milligan and Mr. Hunter, general manager of the Natal government railways, who knew the heads of it, we went out to see it.

There it all was, just as one reads about it in books and cannot believe that it is so—I mean the rough, hard work, the impossible hours, the scanty food, the coarse raiment, the Maryborough beds, the tabu of human speech, of social intercourse, of relaxation, of amusement, of entertainment, of the presence of woman in the men's establishment. There it all was. It was not a dream, it was not a lie. And yet with the fact before one's face it was still incredible. It is such a sweeping suppression of human instincts, such an extinction of the man as an individual.

- from Mark Twain's travels to Durban in 1896."

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Jul 10, 2020 at 5:36 AM

Posted on: Jul 09, 2020 at 7:46 AM

Greetings to you all from Sulphur Creek in Tasmania!

Our site has been down for weeks because Class Creator moved their platform to the cloud - which required me to make some adjustments. I wasn't able to do so because my email address changed in 2017 - and so the domain registry wouldn't accept my authority to make the amendments until my mates on the reunion organising committee confirmed I initiated the site.

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Jul 10, 2020 at 6:49 AM

Posted on: Jul 09, 2020 at 7:46 AM

Greetings to you all from Sulphur Creek in Tasmania!

Our site has been down for weeks because Class Creator moved their platform to the cloud - which required me to make some adjustments. I wasn't able to do so because my email address changed in 2017 - and so the domain registry wouldn't accept my authority to make the amendments until my mates on the reunion organising committee confirmed I initiated the site.

By the way, if you hear of any of our cohort who are not receiving notifications from our site it may be because they have either changed their email address - or their email address is 'bouncing' for some reason. Please ask them to email me at cedric@cornerstonecouriers.co.za and I'll help them to fix the problem.

I've added a page LOCKDOWN JOURNAL - and I encourage you to share your thoughts there on the impact that the pandemic has had on you

Cheers

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