Roy Rosenberg

So sad to hear about Judy's passing. Like so many of us who knew her from way back when, I had story after story in which she was involved. Always a good classmate and always a good friend. I felt somewhat badly around reunion time because I literally harrassed her in a # of telephone calls about joining us and she finally relented. Now, I am glad I did so friends including myself had one last time with her to catch up while reliving the good old days.

This is also a reminder to all of us. Life is short & no one knows what's around the next turn. If there is someone you want to get in touch with, don't delay - do it today. If you're wondering about a person from your past, use the Internet today to track down that person and then call.

At this time, stay safe & stay healthy my friends.

Wendy Frank (Franklin)

I am so very sorry to hear of Judy's passing. She was one of my very early friends when my family lived on Diane Street and I was so glad I got to visit with her at the 50th reunion. Condolences to her family. 

Stephen Migden

This is very sad to hear.  Judy was my neighbor and classmate both at Dutch Broadway and, of course, at EMHS.  Then, when I was at Columbia she was at Barnard, across the street, so we occasionally saw each other during college.  She even let me sublet with her in an apartment she had on the Upper West Side one summer.  I had a summer job as a yellow cab driver, driving the overnight shift, and I needed a place to stay (of course, I got mugged early one morning, as I was leaving work - I think it was the summer of 1970, and how could you drive a cab in NYC in the middle of the night back then and not get mugged?).  When I got back to the apartment after the mugging, Judy took it in stride.  I remember running into her by the fountain at Lincoln Center many years later.  I think she was living in Westchester and we had a nice chat.  Sad news.   

Virginia Theroux (Heacox)

Hello, friends. My original post to honor Judi is on the In Memory page but my attempt to put it here hit some snags. Here is a similar version. 

I received the news of Judy's passing with enormous sadness.  At home with her twenty year old twin sons what was likely a massive heart attack took her life last Thursday.

Judith Iris Bach and her sister Ilene lived across the street when we were growing up in Elmont. We filled our days jump roping, flying kites, playing jacks, and doing all kinds of day to day stuff in the years when you just showed up outside, and took it from there. So many happy memories from our young years at Dutch Broadway all the way through Elmont Memorial. Her younger sister Ilene (Ilene Bach Amar) is on facebook some, so I have had the opportunity to stay in touch with her more often. There were even some times celebrated together on Long Island in adult years, when Al and I visited New York. As others have gratefully mentioned, Judy  attending the 50th Class of 1968 Reunion (October 2018) is a treasured memory we hold on to even more now. Clearly, they both succeeded in carrying forth the traditions and love their parents instilled in them. To read Ilene's post, (now available on this page) it is clear what a dynamic relationship they shared. Judy, a vibrant, loving Mom and sister, as well as a thoughtful friend to all who knew her (describes Ilene, as well) was just the type of person this world is in such need of. Please keep her sons and Ilene (and family) in your thoughts and prayers.  She will continue to be in my heart, always.  ~ Ginger

from: Ginger     

Susan Baum (Schloss)

I am sorry to learn of the passing of Judy Bach. We were friends for many years, and always in homeroom together. So sad!

Robert Ciaccio

It is very sad to hear of any of our classmates passing

 hopefully everyone stays safe and healthy during this crisis … if you havent seen this please watch it … it does give hope to all

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=huTUOek4LgU

Carrie Czajkowski (Hogan)

Very sad to hear about another classmate passing.

Hope you are all well.

Ilene Bach (Amar)

Hello All,

I am Judi's  younger sister Ilene - many of you know me from just knowing me.  I just wanted to add my comments in addition to Virginia Theroux already posting.  It seems Judi had a sudden, massive heart attack on Thursday April 9. She did not have the virus, she tested negative for it (I guess to be safe around her family she had herself tested, we got the results after she passed). One of her twin sons found her on the floor and tried to revive her, while the medics were on their way. They too could not revive her.  A valiant effort was made by both her son and the EMTs.  The weekend was long, sad and very difficult trying to make arrangements.  The funeral home she was at was AMAZING - so very helpful, kind, accomodating. I could not thank them enough. The first rabbi we called was not helpful and had me crying and upset and losing hope of giving Judi the proper Jewish funeral she deserved. Then I remembered the rabbi that I know (i don't "go" to synagogue on a regular basis, but I know the man).  He saved the day, saved my sanity and made me happy, calm, relaxed and assured that all would go well.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Today we buried my amazing, beautiful, brave, fun, interesting, smart sister.  I am happy to say we had a beautiful Jewish service no less than when we buried my parents. Only difference was we were not allowed to fill the grave by ourselves, only throw some dirt on top of the coffin and instead of perhaps 70 people, there were 8 (under the allowed number of 10).  My sister is buried next to my mother and father.                                                                                                                                                                                                   I do not seek to replace their mother, but I have promised my twin nephews Dean and Liam that I will always be there for them as a friend, an aunt, an advisor, a confidant and they will always have me and Judi's closest circle of friends as their family.  I am heartbroken, I am alone, I am still in shock but life goes on. Please keep Judi in your prayers and your memories of Elmont and EMHS.  When the world is back to normal, I will have a Celebration of her life and all who are local and/or would like to attend will be welcome.  I will post something here.                                                                                                                                               

Ilene Brand (Robeck)

i was so sad to hear about Judy'ssudden death. I frequently sat behind her in clsses as we used to sit in alphabetical order back then. I remember always catching up each day in one class or another because there would be at least one class a day that we were together.      We lost touch after high school but we sat next to each other at the 50th reunion. It was amazing how the previous 50 years melted away and we were catching up again. We caught up about the past decades as well as our hopes and dreams for the coming decade. Her twins are so lucky to have you and so much of what Judy shared with me revolved around them and her hopes and  plans for them. This will be such a great legacy to her. Please keep us updated about how things are going and how all of you are doing during this very challenging time, even the more so for your family. 

Angelo Amendolare

it is very difficult to hear the news that we have lost Judi Bach.  Like the rest of us, I have also lost touch with so many special people in my life. She was one of them.  I had a crush on her and she knew it.  i would run down the  hall to talk to her when i would see her.  i know that there are alot of little secrets we all keep to our self and this is one of mine.  She did not attend too many reunions .  There was one reunion that we were given buttons with our pic and name so we could know everyones name.    i have her button and i have kept it all this time. i dont remember if she was there or not  ...  i would see it from time to time and smile....the tears are starting to run down my cheeks as i wish we were closer.   She did attend the last one and we talked for a bit.....she took my phone and put her info in but i didnt know she put in under Iris and i didnt find it for some time....i should have call when i discovered it but time had passed and i didnt think she wanted to hear from me ....that was a mistake.... ive made a few of them ...we all have....i love to talk to her ....i loved her beautiful face and silky hair.   I know she had a fantastic personality ... but never the twain shall meet ....I have lost yet another love of my life and ....we all did .... and she will be missed but she will never be forgotten in my heart...she will remain with me until i can see her again....  

William Salmansohn

Love you 

Angelo I have to say that was probably one of the most beautiful tributes I may have ever read it

and opened my heart up so much to you and getting how sweet and kind you really are  underneath your big possibly intimidating body

you are a kind soul my friend and your love for Judy was felt to the moon and back

I am very happy and proud to call you my friend Angelo and I would kindly ask that you keep your words flowing for all of us

thank you for letting your heart speak openly thank you for being kind and expressive human being and as a friend of Judy's

I think she's being sent off with a Lotta ❤️ Love you Ang, love you Judy RIP❤

Ilene Bach (Amar)

To all of you who wrote about my sister Judy Bach.......I am so glad I asked to join this group.  Your comments and thoughts and prayers are so greatly appreciated.  She really was a special person - and you all seem to have known that way before I did.  I will check back in when I can. Reading memories about my sister makes me feel good. 

thank you all.

Ellen Deutsch (Riseman)

Hi Classmates - In keeping with Angelo's touching entry above, he sent us a photo of Judy's badge from our 40th reunion and asked that we post it:

Thank you for sharing Angelo.

Mitchell Gordon

I have been out of touch for a long time, but this post has touched my heart. Angelo, I, too had a crush on Judi. She was soft spoken and I thought the prettiest girl in high school. I am so sorry for her family. It is hard to find words after all this time. I just remember how kind Judi was. Peace.

Ilene Bach (Amar)

I thought I would share with you all some photos I found today.  Actually my nephew found a BOX of photos.  I randomly picked an envelope and here is the very first pic I found of my sister Judy.   By the way, they are from 1986 - obviously taken in Paris.

this one taken by Judy.

I was surprised by those first 2.  Oooh la lah Judy!!!

Angelo Amendolare

Hi everybody !!!  i made it to the big 70    a new decade  wow   i thought i was a gonna a few times.

but im still standing !!!   and so are you guys.,...im happy  and i hope we can get that party going ...

i love seeing every one ...dont ever let go of your youth...it is what keeps us young..remembering the good time and all the fun we had...all the things we got away with back then....i have always treated every one i came in contac with formost in my  mind.... i have gotten away with pleanty back then and that is why i gave everyone a break.... everyone needs a big brother ... a father figure

a best friend .... someone they can talk to...i was there for everone   no if ands or butts....i did all these things  out of love....i was an old softee...tell me a story and your on your way....i have been retired for some time now and i miss helping people ...im sorry i got a little nostalgic there ...it must have been the birthday bash  lol.... i just want you to remember i love all you guys and i thank you all for being in my life....i hope we can get together without having to wait for another reunion

everyone please stay safe  love you always ..angelo

Virginia Theroux (Heacox)

Best wishes, Angelo! Here's hoping the 70's treat us all kindly. Hearing from classmates brightens the day. ~ Ginger

Bruce Linker

Angelo, Welcome to the 70's Club. It's fun seeing the names of EMHS 1968 as their birthdays come up. Soiunds like you are doing well. 

William Salmansohn

First of all Angelo, I really didn't know you were such a softy and I love it I love your kindness your softness your warmth thank you for being vulnerable and letting all of us know and letting me know just how kind you are

And I know everyone wants to know how Dennis Wolpert is doing...he is ok.  In the hospital having a pacemaker and defibrillator installed in his heart region. I'm speaking w him regularly, and will send him everyone's love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Bruce Glover

Good Day All ! Exciting Times to be alive! Hope you all are being careful and taking good good care of yourselves . I guess there will be NO 70th birthday party this year. Too Bad . Perhaps when things settle down we can have another gathering in the very near future . Love you all , Bruce

Ilene Brand (Robeck)

Maybe we should make it a zoom birthday party this year with a plan for a face to face once things are safer 

Frank Gervasi

Great idea Ilene - A Zoom birthday party is perfect for this year. We all provide our own cake and refreshments, figure out some party  games (I guess "spin the bottle" is out), and get to see one another without having to risk our lives to gather. I'm with a group of friends who've gone out for dinner monthly at different restaurants for the past dozen years. These last few months we've dined together via Zoom and it's actually an enjoyable substitute gathering. Let's try it!

Nancy Jacob (Belluscio)

11 of us from Leader Corps met via Zoom in the spring.  It was very interesting and fun, but I think getting the whole class on Zoom would be confusing.  Of course, I would be willing to try.

Frank...Playing spin the bottle was the "thing" in  6th grade at AT!!!  I am glad you realize that those days are long gone!

Ilene Brand (Robeck)

We are limited to 100 per call so it is going to be first 100 that get on the call. Also, I have a profesional account that allows for breakout rooms .We can put people in breakout rooms of 6-10 people to chat for 10-15 minutes during the party. i have done that with groups and it is a lot of fun

Frank Gervasi

  How about "Pin the Tail on the Donkey"? That might be a challenge to do virtually. Doing the "Limbo" might work for us.

  I love the idea of small groups. We talked about doing that at the reunion but did not have time to for it. This time though members of AT (thanks Nancy) GA, DBY as well as St. Boniface (and where ever else we cut our teeth) can have a chance to reminisce.  

  We also have a "committee" to organize these major social events and we all are welcome to participate. We had started working on setting up the actual 70th party back in January (I had tentatively booked  a different room at Danford's)but of course that went away with evry other gathering contemplated.

  Ilene, maybe we could have the committee meet at your zoom location sometime in the next week?