**Karen's Updates***

SEPTEMBER 2022

 

Can you believe we are celebrating September? I, for one, don't feel I've had a wonderful summer to relinquish moving into Fall. What with the extreme heat, my life was spent mostly indoors. That's going to make the long Winter months seem even longer. I will alert you that most of this Update will be devoted to reunion info. This may bore those who attended but I hope it brings warm hearts to those who are celebrating our 60th vicariously through words. Just know you were missed.

 

ANOTHER CLASSMATE DEATH (for snail mail recipients).

 

Costin Funeral Chapel and Rick Blunk informed me of the death on August 5, 2022, of LARRY LAMBERT. Larry graduated with us. He signed up for the US Marine Corps after graduation and served proudly during Vietnam. He then transferred to the US Air Force and retired proudly after 20 years of service. Larry was one who was always laughing and enjoyed being around his friends of the American Legion. He also enjoyed watching his UFC fights and had a love for Monte Carlos. Larry was a simple man who enjoyed simple things. He is survived by sisters, Carol Henry and Kym Lambert, and numerous nieces, nephews and grands. He was preceded in death by his parents, Cecil and Frances, and one sister, Linda Coffman. Per Larry's wishes, no services will be held. Therefore, our memorial basket will not accompany Larry's final journey since there is no indication where to send it or even of his burial location.

 

So sad for yet another loss from our band.

 

UPCOMING PURGING OF CONTACT INFO:

 

Please keep in mind that, as of Sept., I will begin the count-down clock on another two-year purging event for our contact list. I know that those of you who are active in the group, either physically or with electronic communication, probably think this is unnecessary. Yet, I cannot make verified decisions to delete or retain your connection unless you tell me. So, if you wish to remain connected, just send a brief e-mail (klssas740@att.net) or text (765 341 9549) or call to land line (765 315 0397) or note to 740 E. Washington St., Mart. 46151, as to your wishesA one-word message of “yes” or “no” is sufficient. If you do not reply, it must be assumed you are either disinterested or have different contact info and aren't receiving our contacts. However, if in your reply you wish to furnish new contact info or change your communication preference, just tell me how you want to stay connected. I can snail-mail anyone if I have the address. Some I am told have problems with vision that preclude using technical devices, in which case the written word might be more suitable. But, this purged list will go into effect as of the December 1 Update, so please begin contacting me between now and Dec. 1. Thanks for your help with this endeavor.

 

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

 

Judy's Wolff's old e-mail of judywolff@bellsouth.net is no longer in service. Change that contact info for Judy to judywolff16@gmail.com.

 

At the reunion, Wayne Haase announced his engagement to Sandy Ruehlow. Sandy has attended many WBBs with Wayne and is a charming addition to the group. They will go to Palo Alto, CA, in October to the Stanford University Chapel to say their vows. Wayne received his PhD at that school, which gives him a special privilege of using this marvelous facility. We all wish them wonderful happiness and success in this next chapter of life.

 

Sonnie (Myers) Gano recently experienced severe gastronomic issues a was admitted to the hospital. She also developed pneumonia and a rash. She was given Prednisone, which caused bleeding that required a blood transfusion. She didn't know of her allergy to Prednisone. Sonnie is now home and is very sorry she missed the 60th festivities. Just focus on getting well, Sonnie.

 

Marvin and Deanna Henderson called to say Deanna, their designated driver, lost mobility on her left side. Doctors cannot find the cause. Next step is a neurological exam. Both were disappointed their plans to join us were foiled. Just focus on getting well and keep us advised of Deanna's findings.

 

Harry Maginity is facing some sort of surgery and I think it was hip or knee. I apologize that I didn't take very good notes from his voice mail message. I will get more info and update you next month.

 

Karen (Wilson) and Bud Brummett were quarantined with Covid, as were Henry Gray and Terry and Janie Fleener. I didn't hear from others as to reason they did not come. Suffice it to say, just get well quick and rejoin us at WBB.

 

AUGUST WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Great crowd during August, consisting of Linda and Don Burleigh, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Marty (Akard) Short, Tish (Scherer) Hartley, Terry and Janie Fleener, Sharon (Tutterow) Quakenbush, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger, Janet (Brummett) Britton, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Bill Fulford, Rick Anderson-Decina, Harry Maginity, Tura (Crone) Lamar, Charlie Vogus, Jim Brunnemer, Sue (Weddle) Myers, and me.

 

The next WBB will be Monday, Sept. 12, 11:00, Texas Corral. We welcome all comers.

 

REUNION RECAP:

 

I'll begin by stating that as of the week before August 27, we had 70 reservations. Sadly, several of those, for various reasons, could not join us. Many wrote to say it was medical issues which kept them away. We ended with 54 attendees, 37 of which were classmates. Even though in a perfect world I would have wanted more to reconnect, I think that is a great showing considering the passage of 60 years and 104 deaths to date.

 

We began partying about 11:00, eating at noon (furnished by Whisky River Bar-B-Q), and taking group photo about 1:30. Speaking of which, if any of you who didn't attend and would like a photo, let me know by any of the ways mentioned above in the “purging section” if you would like to receive one. These will be mailed later in September after printing. The cost is $10. Be certain I have your correct mailing address so I can get them to you.

 

Rick Anderson-Decina was our terrific photographer. He took many candid shots of the crowd as well as the 8x10. I may be able to bring those to a WBB. I have seen prints and believe they are great. A huge thanks to Rick, who refused to take any remuneration from the class funds for his time, efforts, or supplies. You're a dear, Rick.

 

In addition to the photo, if anyone wants one of the beautiful mugs Stony had made, let me know. Cost is $10 plus postage to your address, which varies depending on locations. About 35 folks bought one at the reunion and we have about that many left. It is something that should bring a smile to your morning beverage. I swear coffee tastes better in my mug. A huge thanks to Stony for all his efforts on our behalf in that endeavor.

 

Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner brought huge poster boards on which they have meticulously affixed a myriad of photographs from our past. I also brought many of the Class archives I house. We had an area set up to display all this memorabilia. I saw many perusing the area and laughing. Thanks Curt and Mary.

 

We also had left a few copies of the booklet Kay Selch and Doug Bass had done to honor Steve Carrell. These are free if you let me know you want one. They did a fantastic job on the publication and their hard work is appreciated. Steve was so talented and left us way too soon (2003). He will always be remembered with a smile.

 

A huge thanks, as always, to Bob and Catherine and their boys for providing the wonderful picnic setting. We are so spoiled that for over 15 years we have had this available to us. We can never thank them enough for their generosity and hospitality.

 

If my geography is better than my math, I believe Steve and Linda McIlwain would have received a prize for coming the farthest--Albuquerque, New Mexico. (Sorry about the absence of your gift, Steve and Linda.) In addition to Steve, we had others who went to great effort to join us from far away: Rick and Marsha Blunk from Missouri, Marcia (Short) Schweitzer from Ohio, Steve Koons and Stony and Carol Pearcy from Tennessee, Ruth (Woolbright) and Lloyd Dunigan from Georgia, and Bob and Amy Riffel from Alabama. A huge shout-out to all of them for their dedication to join us in spite of travel stress. However, whether you came from far away or the surrounding area, those of us locals appreciate your efforts because we have stayed behind to preserve and protect our foundational traditions. We are all heroes for attending.

 

I also want to mention that Stony and Carol Pearcy, Linda and Don Burleigh, and I had a visit with Joyce and Jim Branham Thurs. afternoon because they couldn't attend. We took their mug and carried in appetizers and wine. Everyone had a great visit. Joyce and Jim were very grateful for the contact and seemed to really enjoy our company. They asked us to relay to everyone how much they wanted to join our activities. We all wanted to include them in the 60th festivities even though their health wouldn't allow their attendance. It was a success.

 

I certainly hope I haven't omitted any salient points of this adventure. But I would be remiss if I didn't thank those who came early and stayed late for the less-than-glamorous set-up and tear-down duties. They are my unsung heroes and include the Burleighs, the Pearcys, Steve Koons, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger, the Boners, and the Etters. Made my job so much easier. Thank you all very much.

 

And last but not least, Don Burleigh presented me with a huge grapevine wreath encircled with red/blue carnations to brighten my home. He said some very nice words and I received applause. The card was signed: “For all you've done and do for the Class of l962. You're the BEST. Your 1962 Classmates.” I was very humbled and appreciative. As I often say, your acknowledgment of the value I try to add is more than enough payment.

 

I am hurrying to get this in the mail on Sept. 1 but have not yet done the treasury reconciliation. I promise to open the books to you in October. Suffice it to say, we have lots of money left for our treasury thanks to all of your generosity.

 

I will also include a complete list of those classmates who attended in the Oct. Update. I need the 8x10 photo from which to work so I don't leave anyone out.

 

No room for the giggles and smiles section this month. Just giggle and smile thinking of how lucky we all are to have grown up when we did and that we are still granted life.

 

Hugs to all --- karen

 

 

 

 

 

FEBRUARY 2022

 

Hello to all from the 'Ville in February. Not a lot of us left here, but, fear not, we hearty ones are holding the fort until your return, whenever that is. I am bored beyond words. All around me are dropping from Covid and now my TV has gone out. That is what keeps me going almost all day, even if it's just on in the background. I swear I can hear the blood swishing in my ears because it's so silent. Won't bother you further with that useless info. Weather, while cold (teens), is mild for end of Jan. in IN. No snow but lots of wind which drives way down the windchill. I hibernate except for weekly trips for liquor and tobacco. Can't even visit friends and family. Probably a good thing since my attitude stinks, and I might alienate all who come within talking distance. Actually, I'm typing this update on Jan. 24—a good six days before I would normally do it. (I work better under pressure so put it off until the last minute.) Doesn't mean quality of it will improve.

 

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Nancy Alexander Foley, Janet Sue Brummett Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Frank Ennis, Bob Etter, Terry Fleener, Steve Koons, Me, Kathryn Sue Mason Hill, Marcie Murphy Bolin, Stony Pearcy, Judy Wolff Parret, and Ruth Woolbright Dunigan. A fine group of celebrees for February. (As a personal note, while I cherish and appreciate any gift voluntarily bestowed upon me, a new F-150 would be at the top of my wish list, just in case you are wondering.)

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY LOSS:

 

Jim Rusie wrote to report his beloved mom, Ruth Rusie, passed away in early January. As he said, Ruth was a true example for all of us, and I know you all revered and loved her as much as I did. She was rather like Betty White. I didn't think either of them were susceptible to death. Ruth was 103. You know, Jim, you were extremely lucky to have had her so long. Jim said there was no service but would be planned later. So very sorry Jim to you and yours for your loss. The entirety of Martinsville share in your loss.

 

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

 

Charlie Vogus wrote that even though he and his wife, Janice, had all three Covid vaccinations, they caught it. Janice had a lighter case but Charlie was hospitalized for Covid pneumonia. The experience was scary and bad but he got great care and lots of prayers. I don't know for sure if Charlie is in or out of the hospital. He mentioned Janice was home but didn't speak of himself. Wherever you are, Charlie, now you have lots more prayers on your behalf. Please let me have an updated report when you can.

 

As usual, Stony calls regularly with his TN weather and golf report. Some days I want to strangle him. He is pure evil!! I'll somehow get even with him eventually. Perhaps a call to ATF to report his illegal basement alcohol production would do the trick.

 

Bob Etter called from FL. I think he was flaunting their weather but at least he was nice about it. He said Catherine was using his wheelchair so much he couldn't get out and about. Her back is giving her fits. Bob said he was feeling as well as possible and was enjoying the sunshine. Good for you, Bob. You go!!

 

Also talked with Rick Blunk during Jan. He has recently been through testing for some heart issues. He was relieved to find, at least at this time, no surgical intervention is required. Just watch and wait. Seems to be the way of medicine in these times. He had a great attitude and I could hear the smiles in his voice. Way to go, Rick.

 

Literally ran into Karen Arnold Pottorff's cart in Kroger last week. The cast is off her broken arm and she was radiant that all residual effects of her recent hospitalizations were gone. She is still attempting to find a small, well behaved dog as a companion. Has been unable to replace the one lost last summer, and her heart has a huge hole in it which can only be healed by the companionship of another canine family member. Great luck, Karen. I've alerted all my friends and hope someone can help.

 

This is really trivial banter, but the other day Sarah and I watched Grease again. It had been many decades since I watched it in my younger years. Do you know, in spite of those decades, the show took me back to MHS in our era. The music, dress, hair, dancing, make-up, language, cars, all made me feel right at home with the drama. When I told her that was my life sixty years ago her eyes widened in amazement. She couldn't believe it. She wants to live that life. I assured her it was the best of days.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH (WBB):

 

Those attending in January were Bill Fulford, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Harry Maginity, Austin and Chyrl Gray, Tura Crone Lamar, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, and me. We really had an enjoyable visit. Several called to say because of Covid they were staying away from public places but would return asap. They were missed. Next WBB will be at Texas Corral at 11:00 on February 14. Join us if possible.

 

REUNION DISCUSSION:

 

I have learned the Etters and Stony (of course), and perhaps others, are already planning Fall events and would like to know our plans. At least they are considering our reunion first and will work other less important events around that.

 

There was some discussion last Sept. that we might want to consider another type of celebration for the Big 60 and a different date (it has thus far been the second Sat. in Sept.). Everyone was sent home to consider those thoughts. Well, believe it or not, it's time to make two decisions: where will we gather and on what date. As I see it, it's either another picnic type affair at Etters or a restaurant gathering, preferably locally since I don't see well after dark. The date problem arises because those coming from out of town found last year there were no hotel rooms in the 'Ville or Bloomington because IU played at home, so they had to drive to Indy to spend the night. Stony has ferreted out that IU has home games this year on Sept. 3, 10 and 17. The 10th would be our standardized date. (How dare IU usurp our yearly event!!) Do we want to stay close to early Sept.--i.e., August 27 or Sept. 24, or do we get wild and try a different time of year?

 

Please consider these two burning questions and send thoughts. Majority of opinions will rule. If you don't express any thoughts, you will just have to accept the verdict and forfeit the right to complain. By doing this, folks will be able to make other plans and avoid complications.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (compliments of Lila Pruett White)

 

Random thoughts for the New Year –

 

Every box of raisins is a tragic tale of grapes that could have been wine.

 

I know it's time to clean out my purse when my car assumes it's an extra passenger who isn't wearing a seat belt.

 

Someone posted that they had just made synonym buns. I replied, “You mean just like the ones that grammar used to make?” I am now blocked!

 

The more I get to know people, the more I realize why Noah only let animals on the ark.

 

Facial recognition software can pick a person out of a crowd but the vending machine at work can't recognize a dollar bill with a bent corner.

 

In the 1980's, I fell off my bike and hurt my knee. I'm telling you this now because we didn't have social media then.

 

Someone just honked to get me out of my parking space faster, so now I just have to sit here until both of us are dead.

Love you all. Karen

 

 

 

JANUARY 2021

 

Happy October dear friends. That makes me both happy and sad. Happy because I want 2020 to end and sad because we had no summertime fun and frivolity to carry us through the winter months. However, if we all stick together in friendship, we will overcome the challenges of winter to enjoy a better new year.

OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS:Lorraine Dunn Richardson, Beverly Parker Smith, Becky Pratt Bock, and Harry Joe Maginity. HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS, DEAR FRIENDS. WE ALL WISH YOU HAPPINESS.

ANOTHER CLASSMATE DEATH: FOR SNAIL-MAIL ONLY --The following message was sent to e-mail participants on September 23:

Unfortunately, it falls to me, as the social secretary, to always be the bearer of bad news about our own, but in that capacity I'll get right to the point.

On Tuesday the 22nd of Sept. about 9:00 PM we lost our effervescent and generous prankster, JOHN STEWART, at Community Hospital in Indy.  John has struggled and overcome many illnesses in the last few years, including stroke, heart problems, and cancer.  This last struggle with chemo/radiation was too high a hill for him in spite of his valiant spirit to beat the cancer.  John's obit can be found on the Neal & Summers website should you want to read all of it or should you wish to send a personal message to the family.  It reads like the obit of a very famous person (which he was to his loved ones including us) because of his many community contributions and accomplishments.  John leaves behind in a huge void his devoted wife of 56 years, Karen, a son, Mark, and five sisters.

Family and friends are invited to visit on Sunday, Sept. 27th, from 3:00 to 6:00 at Neal & Summers Funeral Home.  There will be a private funeral service for John's family and closest friends on Monday, Sept. 28, in New South Park Cemetery in the 'Ville.  Having talked with Karen, I know all classmates are considered his closest friends and will be welcome at the funeral service.  I know Karen would appreciate our paying homage in that way.  Of course, our floral memorial will rest right beside his casket so he'll know our spirits join him.

 

John asked that any contributions given in his honor be sent to Churches in Mission, 60 West Pike St., Martinsville 46151, or through Neal & Summers.  Also, be advised that all attendees will be required to bring and wear face coverings for either service.

 

Folks, John is the 87th loss to our little band of warriors and the 7th this year alone.  Let's cherish every opportunity to touch souls with each other before time catches up to us.  I know John was crushed he missed our last reunion and promised me he would be there for the 59th in 2021.  We'll be sure his spirit is celebrated at that occasion. Love to all, karen

 

I received so many notes from John's Class friends that were heartwarming. So, I cut and pasted each of them and put them into a packet to share with John's wife, Karen. I know they will make her smile. She knows all of us because she was an adopted classmate.

 

The Class of '62 will never be the same with John's passing. He was a huge supporter in every way of our little band of warriors. RIP, John.

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY DEATH:

 

Also, very sorry to report Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush's husband, Perry Quakenbush (82), passed with Covid on September 26 at St. Frances in Mooresville. I had been in contact with Sharon about his condition, but nevertheless wasn't prepared to hear he didn't make it. Both Perry and Sharon were quarantined because of exposure. Thankfully, Sharon didn't contract the virus. Isn't it a strange syndrome?? He and Sharon were parents to three children and they presented them with many offspring. Please keep Sharon and her family in your prayers. It's bad enough to lose a mate of sixty years. Yet, because of Covid, Sharon and the kids had very little personal contact with Perry as he suffered. That makes his passing even harder. God bless you, Sharon. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Sonnie Gano tells me her brother-in-law, Richard (Butch) Cramer, is very ill. We haven't touched souls with Dick for many years but I, for one, still remember him well. Butch married Sonnie's sister, Kay, so Sonnie has maintained contact and reported on him to me on occasion. It just makes me very sad we couldn't have reconnected with him long ago. He is a member of our fold. He can be reached at brcramer@att.net. God bless Butch and family.

 

Marcia Short Schweitzer wrote that she has undergone a pacemaker procedure to correct her irregular heart beats. She says she is fine but can't wait to be cleared to drive again. She closed her note saying she was so sorry to miss our 58th reunion and a promise to be at the 59th. You get well quick and completely, Marcia.

 

At the reunion, Judy Caldwell Hamilton and I got to sit and chat for the first time in a long time. Judy shared she is struggling with Parkinsons but is medicated and hopes to slow its progression. Aside from a bit of trembling hands, she looked and acted fine. Sharp as ever. She has also had knee surgery, as have many in our group. Her positive attitude (and Leon) will pull her up this hill and she'll overcome. Bless you, Judy.

 

 

Also had a nice chat with Lila Pruett White.  Lila is incredibly busy raising two small children.  How she does that I will never know.  I'm tired just caring for myself.  I was thrilled she was able to find a caregiver for the children so she could drive from Lafayette to join us.  Lila, keep your faith and energy level high.  Wish I were closer so as to assist you in your generous, unselfish act of love.  God bless.,

Received a call from Danny St. John. If you recall, Danny has left our area for Paris, TN, to be closer to children and grandchildren. He had been such a loyal supporter and attended all our activities. That makes his absence felt even more. I just hope I get occasional contact with him to pass along. We want him to stay connected. Dan says he feels isolated in that area and he misses activities around the 'Ville. I told him to pack up and move back. Dan has a special needs grandson whose father has begun a franchise called “Sweet Jordan's Treats.” Special people work the establishment and receive pay for their efforts. Quite an undertaking but it's being very well received in TN and is spreading the love to other cities. It's motto is “Focusing on Abilities, Not Disabilities.” As you all know, this is an endeavor very close to my heart, and I pray it is very successful.

 

I got a chance to briefly talk with Rick Blunk at John's calling. Rick's mother-in-law is struggling with health issues, so he and Marsha are trying to help with her care. At least that brings him home a bit more often than usual. I sure hope Marsha's mother surmounts these challenges. Earlier in the month Rick sent me this comment which I have to share: “Since hand sanitizers kill the virus and since hand sanitizers are mostly alcohol, has anybody thought about getting drunk for a couple of days and letting the alcohol in the bloodstream do its thing?” He even suggested Stony try to fortify his wine to help in the fight. Ingenious idea, Rick.

 

Judy Wolff Parret called from FL upon learning of John's death. She was devastated and reiterated that she hated her absence from the 'Ville to participate in these occasions. I assured her we would keep her connected and she wouldn't miss much. Funerals during Covid have been cold and impersonal, in my opinion, and almost a waste of time in terms of consoling loved ones. Maybe just showing up is enough at this time. Judy and Jeff are fine but isolated. She sends her love to all.

 

As I was closing up this edition of the Update, received a nice note from Janet Brummett Britton. Haven't heard from her in some time and am glad to learn she is still involved with us. She was commenting on her shock and dismay at John's passing. To close she said, “Because of your big heart, I believe that our classmates are not just classmates—instead we are one big family. Thank you for all you do.” I hear that a lot and appreciate every one of those thoughts and hope that continues to be the case. It is my pleasure to serve such a worthy group of human beings.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

I was discussing the WBB location situation with Linda Burleigh. Next day she texted that Texas Corral had an area for larger parties we might consider. The rest of the story is they open at 11:00 (not 10:30, our usual convening time) and they don't serve breakfast. Failing to find any suitable alternatives, I have reserved a separate area in Texas Corral for Monday, October 12, at 11:00. Thus far, eight folks have positively responded their attendance. We really need ten to reserve this space but I'm hoping more will show up on the 12th to attend. If this works for all, I can reserve it on a monthly basis. Come try it out and let's see if we can get back into a monthly routine.

 

REUNION WRAP-UP:

 

At final count, 13 classmates and 6 guests were at this event. Rick Blunk, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Marty Akard Short, and Henry Gray had to cancel at the last minute. It was a small group but to a person it was an enjoyable time. We just all hope our 59th will be a big crowd. Those attending were: Bill Fulford, Stony Pearcy, Bob Etter, Harry Maginity, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Lila Pruett White, Karen Wilson Brummett, DeeAnn Evans Little, Johnie Boles, Steve Koons, Tura Crone Lamar, Sonnie Myers Gano, and me. We all applauded Bob and Catherine for allowing us the use of their magnificent facilities. So many people have told me how fortunate we are to have that benefit, and I assure them we don't take it for granted. Thanks again, Bob and Catherine, for your generosity to this motley crew. However, as I told Bob, he is grossly overpaid for its use.

 

Thanks to all the “extra” money included in the meal checks and money handed me at the reunion, our treasury is right at $1,000. Folks, we are very solvent. In case you wonder, I disbursed $791 for expenses. I collected for reservations $650 and took $141 from the treasury for the slight shortfall. However, somehow manna fell from heaven and we ended up with several hundred dollars more than we should have. Thanks to all of you for your loyalty, generosity, and trust. All books are open if ever you want to decipher my bookkeeping system. Remember, however, Matilda McKrill failed me in algebra, so your trust in my mathematical ability is somewhat dubious.

 

There are a couple of extra photo albums on order. If you might one, let me know and I'll mail it to you. I'm certain it will bring smiles and laughter to see all your old friends. Karen Smith, 765 315 0397, klssas740@att.net, 740 E. Washington St., Mart. 46151.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (WORDS OF WISDOM)

 

When one door closes and another one opens, you are probably in prison.

 

To me, “drink responsibly” means don't spill it.

 

Age 60 might be the new 40, but 9:00 PM is the new midnight.

 

It's the start of a brand new day, and I'm off like a herd of turtles.

 

The older I get, the earlier it gets late.

 

When I say, “The other day,” I could be referring too any time between yesterday and 15 years ago.

 

I remember being able to get up without making sound effects.

 

I had my patience tested. I'm negative.

 

If you're sitting in public and a stranger takes the seat next to you, just stare straight ahead and say, “Did you bring the money?”

 

I finally got eight hours of sleep. It took me three days, but whatever.

 

I hate when a couple argues in public and I missed the beginning so don't know whose side I'm on.

 

When someone asks what I did over the weekend, I squint and ask, “Why, what did you hear?”

 

When I ask for directions, please don't use words like “east” or “north.”

 

Don't bother walking a mile in my shoes. That would be boring. Spend 30 seconds in my head. That'll freak you right out.

 

I don't mean to interrupt people. I just randomly remember things and get really excited.

 

Sometimes, someone unexpected comes into your life out of nowhere, makes your heart race, and changes you forever. We call those people cops.

 

Love to all, karen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

JUNE 2020

It's finally beginning to act like Spring. For the past few days, IN has enjoyed warm weather. However, we have also enjoyed lots of rain, clouds, wind, and humidity. The showers that were supposed to visit in April hit us over the head in May. Not only that, we had a hard freeze in very early May which some plants won't overcome until next Spring. It stunted their growth so we haven't had the beautiful colors of May. But, of course, our confinement has been our worst punishment. At this writing, IN is still very slowly coming to life. I predict it will be some time before we feel things are “back to normal.” Some are predicting a “new normal” is in our future. Let's continue to praise critical workers, pray for those afflicted, and stay safe. It's not over yet.

JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

Curt Boner, Jim Branham, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Cora Capshaw, Dick Elmore, Bob Ely Brown, and Bill Fulford. HAPPIEST OF SPECIAL DAYS TO EACH OF YOU. Be blessed all year.

CLASSMATE DEATH:

Mike O'Neal called a few days ago to tell me we lost Sheila Kay Duckworth Branam. Like so many others lately, they didn't print an obituary that I could find so I have no details. I do know she lived in Jasonville, IN, and had at least one daughter, who ironically passed five days prior to Sheila. So very sad that people leave us with no fanfare or even respectful words. It's like they drop into a black hole. Sheila was No. 84 for our little group. God bless Sheila and her family. I'm very sorry our memorial bouquet couldn't be with her on her last journey.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

Had a nice conversation with Sarah Stafford, Gary's wife, during May. She is living with her children and will be selling her home. She just can't face living there with all the memories without Gary. She did ask if we could include her on our snail mail because she and Gary always enjoyed reading them together. She feels like she knows us. I am thrilled to have her with us. Welcome back, Sarah. God bless you.

 

Talked with Marvin Henderson during May, also. It was great to hear his calming voice. He reported that his wife, Deanna, was home from hospital after having a cardiac procedure. She has four stints but is feeling better than ever now. She attributes much of that to “Marvin's wonderful care of her.” Since Marvin, too, is doing fine, they are both rejoicing. They still hope to attend our September reunion, and I will be thrilled to hug them again. It's been too long.

 

Bill Fulford received great results on his CAT scan and recent labs. The aneurism in the artery leading away from his heart is less than 5 centimeters. So long as his BP is under control, they predict no problems. That is wonderful news, Bill. It's about time you felt better physically and mentally.

 

Our dear friend Frank Ennis (and Georgeanne, of course) sent the Class account a generous contribution during May. I told him we had $400, which should be enough, but with the way memorial bouquets are flying off the shelf, I would graciously accept. A huge thanks, folks, for your generosity.

 

Marcia Short Schweitzer sent a humorous e-mail to us. She didn't mean it to be funny but it still tickled me. She commented on my quarantine diary in May's Update. She added, “You know I live with my daughter and her family – so I really got a chuckle out of the “old folks sneaking out of the house and the kids yelling for them to stay indoors.” Today I was allowed to go to the pharmacy for a prescription – but only through the drive thru.” She, like so many of us, feels like we are behind bars and will be shot if we scale the walls. Hopefully, by the July Update all of us will have experienced fresh air and sunshine again. We're too old to keep confined. If things don't change, there may be an AARP Revolt soon. They truly don't want to experience that!! This bunch either fought or had relatives fight in wars. We are no strangers to violence.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Here's the deal, friends. Forkey's won't reopen until either June 24 or July 4. They are trying to comply with state and county regulations, which they say are convoluted, and it will be easier and cheaper for them to just stay closed until all regulations are cleared and things are back to normal. I'll keep checking as to our July 13 WBB and let you in the next Update.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

Yet another, and I hope the last, quarantine diary to share. We must laugh to keep our sanity.

 

Day 1. I can do this. Got enough food and wine to last a month.

Day 2. Opening my 8th bottle of wine. I fear wine supplies might not last.

Day 3. Some strawberries have 210 seeds and some have 235 seeds. Who knew??

Day 4. 8:00 PM—removed my day pajamas and put on my night pajamas.

Day 5. Today, I tried to make hand sanitizer. It came out as Jello shots.

Day 6. I get to take the garbage out. I'm so excited, I can't decide what to wear.

Day 7. Laughing way too much at my own jokes!

Day 8. Went to a new restaurant called “The Kitchen.” You have to gather all the ingredients and make your own meal. I have no clue how this place is still in business.

Day 9. I put liquor bottles in every room. Tonight, I'm getting all dressed up and going bar hopping.

Day 10. Struck up a conversation with a spider today. Seems nice enough. He's a Web designer.

Day 11. Isolation is hard. I swear my fridge just said, “What the heck do you want now?”

Day 12. I realized why dogs get so excited about something moving outside, going for walks or car rides. I think I just barked at a squirrel.

Day 13. If you keep a glass of wine in each hand, you can't accidentally touch your face.

Day 14. Watched the birds fight over a worm. The Cardinals lead the Blue Jays 3-1.

Day 15. Anybody else feel like they've cooked dinner about 395 times this month??

 

Love to all from the 'Ville karen

 

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MAY 2020

Yet another month when Covid-19 overshadows this Update. Except to laugh about it at the end in my Smiles for the Month, I hope to mention it only briefly, albeit in the most tragic way. Let's lighten our hearts momentarily to celebrate the May birthday honorees:

MAY BIRTHDAYS

Don Billings, Jerry Collier, Irene Cure Conte, Connie Denny Martin, Linda Sue Fisher Phillips, Norris Griffin, Roy McGuffey, Jim Morgan, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, and Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush. HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS TO EACH OF YOU. May you be as blessed as you bring blessings to others.

CLASS DEATHS: (FOR SNAIL MAIL ONLY)

It is with heavy heart I tell you, if you haven't already heard, we lost two classmates during April. The first notice came from Norris Griffin who learned Eddie Kent passed in a nursing home. I knew nothing of it and thank Norris, and all of you, for helping keep me updated on current events. In Ed's case, there was no notice or obituary from which to learn of our loss. Norris talked with Ed's son, Tony, which is how he learned of the tragedy. Tura Crone learned there would be no service or obit. Ed wrote me frequently via Facebook and was a staunch supporter of our Class. His humor will be missed. Don't know which disease took Ed, although I do know respiratory illness had been his weakness for a long time. Norris shared some very funny escapades in which he and Ed were involved in our younger and bolder years. Most involved liquor. I had no idea they were such vigilantes.

Tura also shared that we lost Nancy Sue Collins Smith in April. Nancy's niece shared this info with Tura. I later was sent a copy of her obit. We had lost track of Nancy but through the obit I learned she was a graduate of Indy Univ. School of Nursing. Her husband, Larry, and two sons survive. She was buried in a private service in Centerton Cemetery. The obit featured her photo. If you are interested, you can find that at www.bussellfamilyfunerals.com of Carmel-Westfield.

Well, folks, Nancy is number 85 on our loss list. When is this going to stop?!! God bless both Eddie and Nancy and their families.

ANOTHER CLASS LOSS:

While not a registered Class of '62 member, we also lost our strongest non-member supporter. Our beloved Joyce Griffin Hamilton (Richard's wife) passed from Corona on April 8 in the hospital. She fought valiantly to beat this horrible epidemic but unfortunately lost the battle. Martinsville and Morgan County has lost a tireless worker and historian. Her loss will be felt for years to come. There was only a private family service, and she was laid to rest with Richard in New South Park where they will spend eternity together. God bless her daughter and son and twin brother, Jerry Griffin, and her huge family and following of friends and admirers. Thanks to all of you who sent notes/cards to me personally about her loss. She was one of my best friends and because of that her death will be hard to accept for a very long time.

ADDITIONS TO OUR DISTRIBUTION LIST:

Was very pleased to once again add Dewayne White to our umbilical cord. He has been away from us for about a year but asked to be reinstated. Welcome back Dewayne. We are always thrilled to add names rather than erase them.

CLASS MISCELLANEOUS:

Last month I mentioned the tornados that ravaged TN and IN and reported that Steve Koons was hit hard but that Stony was missed. I asked Russell Knapp to report on his situation in TN. Luckily, he let us know the storm missed them. They are 46 miles south west of Nashville, the epicenter. He closed his note by telling me they were opening their pool. At that time IN was experiencing a cold period. I love it when my “friends” send weather reports from their respective locations just to make me miserable. Steve Koons sent photos of the mangled woods surrounding their homestead. It was so horrible I suggested he turn it into a wildlife habitat rather than try to clean it up. He said that after many hours of cleaning/clearing, that is exactly what they will do. Steve is no dummy.

Also heard from Judy Wolff Parrett. She commented on how homesick she gets, especially when she reads about our gatherings when she can't join us. She asked if we could use some phone media to allow her to participate. I informed her I barely know how to dial a number and anything more techy than that is beyond my capabilities. However, perhaps some phone-saavy person can assist in this endeavor when next we gather. She, of course, is house-bound and is going crazy with the rest of us. Keep the faith, Judy. This, too,will pass.

Jane Reese Thompson wrote that we don't have to drop our website, as reported in April. She found a free option, so we don't pay the $165 a year. All we owe is the $20 for the domain name, and we've already paid that for 2020. The trade-off is that we will now encounter pop-up ads when using the site, but we are all used to that with other sites. Thanks, Janie, for your diligence in saving that line of communication.

Just an aside—Beside me in a clothes basket, as I type, is a tiny baby possom. I'm babysitting. My normally loving dog attacked two babies in the yard last night. Subsequently, they laid in the cold rain all night. This morning, I picked them up for disposal and one twitched its ears. I brought both in and placed them under a heat lamp. One survived; the other one didn't. This survivor has been very injured in his back and has to drag both back feet when moving. However, he can move his tail, so my guess is his back isn't broken. I doubt he can be saved, but I'm giving it a valiant effort. Will report next month on my success as a first responder.

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Noo report for May and won't be any for June. We won't be gathering in a group on May 11. However, let's look to June 8 if all materializes in our favor. Miss everyone.

IN CONCLUSION:

Since this edition is filled with sad news, I am closing with some of the wonderful quips friends have furnished me during our quarantine. We all need to laugh to keep spirits alive. Hope they make you laugh as they have me. I'll title this “Our Quarantine Diary”:

Day 7 of homeschool biology: Testing whether or not chloroform has a smell.he year 2020 brought to you by the letters “W, T, and F.

While we are all sitting at home, we should start calling random numbers in India asking if they want their ducts cleaned.

Tomorrow is the national home-school tornado drill. Lock your kids in the basement until you give the all clear. You're welcome.

 

I was so bored I called Jake from State Farm just to talk to someone. He asked me what I was wearing.

 

The world has turned upside down. Old folks are sneaking out of the house and their kids are yelling at them to stay indoors.

 

You think it's bad now? In 20 years our country will be run by people home-schooled by day drinkers.

 

This virus has done what no woman had been able to do...cancel all sports, shut down all bars, and keep men at home.

 

Day 7 at home and the dog is looking at me like, “See, this is why I chew furniture.”

 

Does anyone know if we can take showers yet or should we just keep washing our hands???

 

I swear my fridge just said, “What the hell do you want now?”

 

When this is over, what meeting do I attend first—Weight Watchers or AA?

 

I still haven't decided where to go for Easter—the living room or the bed room.

 

First time in human history we can save the human race by laying in front of the TV doing nothing. Let's not screw this up!

 

If you want to find out who your real friends are, just ask to borrow a roll of toilet paper.

 

My house got TP'd last night. It's now appraised at $875,000.

 

Day 8 of quarantine: Preparing to take out the garbage...so excited I can't decide what to wear.

 

Home invasions should decline. Everyone is home with guns and enough bleach and paper towels to clean up the scene.

 

Does anyone know how long toilet paper will last if you freeze it?

 

My body has absorbed so much soap and disinfectant lately that when I pee it cleans the toilet.

 

Homeschooling Day 8: They all graduaated. Done!

 

This is the longest something made in China has ever lasted.

 

Imagine surviving all that unprotected sex just to die from an unprotected hand shake.

 

Saw my neighbor out early this morning scraping the “my kid is a terrific student” sticker off her minivan. Guess the first week of homeschooling didn't go so well.

 

Police want you to know that running from them is not social distancing.

 

Returned from grocery store with hubby. Took masks off. Turns out it was the wrong hubby. Be alert!

 

It's like being 16 again. Gas is cheap and I'm grounded.

 

Four weeks of home schooling my 7, 9, and 12-year olds went surprisingly well! They all graduated high school and are now ready to move out and get jobs after quarantine.

 

We need to change who is in charge of this crisis. In three phone calls Radar could have had masks, gloves, ventilators, 12-year old Scotch, Rocky Road ice cream, and grape Nehi soda. Just saying!!

 

And just like that—having a mask, rubber gloves, duck tape, plastic sheeting, and rope in your trunk is okay.

 

The powerball is up to an 18-pack of Charmin.

 

Anyone else's car getting 3 weeks to the gallon at the moment?

 

Woman 1: Where's your husband? Woman 2: In the garden. Woman 1: I didn't see him. Woman 2: You need to dig a little.

 

Overslept this morning--was late getting to the living room.

 

I have the most loving wife. Last night I woke up while she was holding a pillow tightly over my face to protect me from Covid.

 

Remember when we were little and had underwear with the days of the week on them? Yeah—those would be helpful right now.

 

Turns out my top 3 hobbies are: eating at restaurants, shopping at nonessential businesses, and touching my face.

 

Glad I didn't waste my money buying a 2020 date planner.

 

Fact: In four weeks 88% of blondes will disappear from the earth.

 

FOOD FOR SERIOUS THOUGHT: Next time you hear anyone making a snide remark about truckers, just remember that right now the truckers are basically the cavalry bring life-saving supplies to those in need. This world runs on more than college degrees.

 

Healthcare workers, grocery store employees, and truck drivers are now more important than pro athletes, actors, and famous musicians...I find that refreshing.

 

Stay very safe . Love you all. karen

APRIL 2020

 

APRIL BIRTHDAYS:

 

Rick Blunk, Johnie Boles, Jerry Crismore, Tura Crone Lamar, Bob Elliott, Marvin Henderson, Steve Hiatt, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Eddie Underly.  Happiest of birthdays to this group who carry our birthday banner during April.  May you all be blessed as you bless others.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Thankfully, I have no Class deaths to report this month.  We've already had three this year alone (Gary Stafford, Marvin Grimes and Jim Bemis) and we need a long respite before we agonize over another.

 

Speaking of Gary, received a note from Harry Maginity in March.  He had talked with Gary's wife, Sarah, and she told him Gary was diagnosed with his leukemia just a month before his death.  That explains why there were no hints or rumors of his dire condition.  

 

Also received a note about Jim Bemis from Jim Brunnemer.  He and Dick Elmore ran into Todd Bemis, Larry Bemis' son, while on business in Franklin during February.  They reminisced about his uncle Jim (Bemis') induction into the fast-pitch softball Hall of Fame and how proud he was of that.  Wish we could have connected with Jim long ago and often wonder if he ever thought about us.  

 

Judy Caldwell Hamilton wrote to say she and Leon have moved from the “boonies” to the Big Town of Trafalgar (population 1,200).  Nothing has changed except their snail mail address.  Bless this new adventure, Judy.  I'm certain part of your motivation, like so many others, is for a smaller, simpler, and less physical lifestyle.

 

During a phone conversation with Stony about the privations of consumer items, he shared this interesting (and useless) information:  “The average person in the US uses about 100 rolls of toilet paper per year.  Therefore, five bundles of 36-roll packages would hold a family of two for a year.”  Well, as a family of two, I would dispute that calculation.  Have no idea how they arrive at these statistics.  Furthermore, he found that the US imports only 10% of its TP and that comes from China and India.  OK, that's three months of Class discussions of toilet paper and lots of research into invention, design, and use.  I promise never to mention TP again in this illustrious publication.

 

OK, while I said no MORE mention of Covid in this edition, I'm compelled to share Lu Brunnemer's insight on our isolation whining complaints:  “Your grandfathers were asked to go off to war.  You're just asked to sit on the couch.  You can do this!”  Way to bring us back to center, Lu.  Thanks.

 

Mary Frances (Pope) Boner asked that she and Curt be excused from the February WBB.  She said Curt had appointment to give blood, and because of her recent surgery she is staying away from crowds.  She mentioned her boredom from this isolation but felt it would aid in regaining her strength.  Of course, I excused their absence.  Keep getting better, Mary, and thanks Curt for your gift of life.  What a noble cause.

 

Probably many of you heard of the terrible storms and tornados in TN in early March.  I quickly wrote Stony in Piney Flats and Steve Koons in Lebanon inquiring of their situation.  Stony and Carol were out of state but found no damage on their return.  Steve, however, barely missed a full-blast hit from the tornado.  He sent photos of the woods surrounding his home.  He lost about 15 acres of woods.  Said if the tornado had been 100 meters to the North, they'd have nothing left.  Looked like a war zone, and yet only lost some shingles from home and barn.  I now realize after perusing the Class list that Russ Knapp is also in TN.  Russ, you might let me know how you fared.  My geography isn't good so I don't know whether Hohenwald, TN, was close to the damage.  Hope no one else suffered any damage.

 

Marcie Murphy Bolin has returned to the Class fold.  She somehow missed the purge notices.  Called to ask why she had not been receiving the Updates.  We had a great talk and I am very happy that she is, once again, attached by our umbilical cord.  Welcome back, Marcie.  I'm also including the March Update so you won't be far behind in news.

 

We have also re-added Tish Scherer Hartley.  She is receiving the March and April Updates and is now safely back enfolded in our arms.  Welcome back dear friends.

 

Received a delightful call from Don Donoho.  They call about every six months or so to touch base.  He just asked that I express to you their hopes that we all stay safe during this epidemic.  He sounded great and shared that Janet, too, was well.  Always happy to receive contact from classmates, especially those far away (the Donohos reside in CA).  He said they had planned to come home after Easter but now it will be later in summer.  He promised to let us know so we could plan a meal together to touch souls.  We all also wish the Donohos best wishes.

 

Cindy, Wayne Haase's wife, and Katherine, Bob Etter's wife, are both in chemo sessions.  Lets keep them in our prayers.  It isn't a fun time.  Bob and Catherine have returned from FL.  Bob still struggles with mobility but he's too mean to be defeated by it.  We are all glad they are back among family and friends.

 

Jim Brunnemer, in commenting on my classifying Gary Stafford and Don Cragen as class clowns, wanted to add these thoughts:  “I'd put Norris Griffin and Bob Sparks (Sparky) up there with Gary and Mitsu for comic relief.  Who can forget their classic “fake fights” or the time Sparky drove around M'Ville with Norris with the partially open trunk lid and his bloody ketchup arm dangling from inside?  Once, Norris was sitting on the aisle seat in front of me at the movie theater downtown.  I noticed there was a crunched up paper popcorn bag in the middle of the aisle.  A little kid was walking down the aisle when all of a sudden the paper bag moved on its own!  Terrified little kid went howling back to his mom.”  Jim, sorry to say I missed those capers but certainly believe their veracity.  I know several folks are on the hunt for Sparky.  Hope they bring him back to us.  

 

Jim Rusie sent me a photo of some high school event and asking for info on it.  It was a great photo of what I believe was the junior prom court, although I could be wrong.  Those pictured are:  Tish Sunderman and Ed Neal, Judy Wolff and Ron Allee, Joe Nutter and Sam Lasiter, me and Jim Branham, and Joy Favor and Jim Rusie.  What a beautiful group of naive childen, so unaware of what life had in store.  Wish I could share it with all of you but my computer skills are limited.  It went into our archives to share at the next reunion.  Thanks so much, Jim, for the walk down memory lane.

 

Bob Riffel wrote to comment on one of my “Thoughts for the Month.”  One struck a note with him:  “I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interaction.  The world will then have a generation of idiots.  Albert Einstein”  How right he was.  Even though he died in 1955 and didn't see how his prophecy played out, we all realize what he was saying.  Wish our grandchildren could see their world through our eyes.  As Bob pointed out, social network connection promotes aloneness.  How sad.  Also, thanks, Bob, for stating your appreciation for the Class connection.  Very glad you and so many others feel that way.  One of the many who have expressed that thought is quoted below:

 

I want to type verbatim a note received from Ed Underly:  “Karen, thank you so much for all your work in keeping me and others up to date with the Class updates each month.  I was saddened by our loss of Marvin Grimes.  I remember him when we all were at Central School and then the New Junior High.  After my 7th grade, during that summer, my paarents moved us away, but each and every one of you went with me in my memories just like it was yesterday.”  Ed went on to say that over all his health is good.  He loves to write, not for publication, and enjoys art.  Thanks so much Ed for your kind words.  I know everyone reading this feels the same about you.

 

MARCH WBB:

 

March was “return to the fold” month for our little group.  We all welcomed many who had been missing for many months.  Those attending in March were Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Linda and Don Burleigh, Terry and Janie Fleener (we were thrilled they joined us after a long absence), Bill Fulford, Kay and Kim Selch (also returning after long absence), Danny St. John, Bob Elliott (yet another joining us after a long absence), Harry Maginity, and me.  We hope next time we meet the Snow Birds will also join the group.  As you all know, there will be no April WBB because of the virus.  Let's hope by May we will all feel safe to venture out for hugs.  I'll let you know in the May Update.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

CHILDREN'S HUMOR AND LOGIC (there is no better):

 

A nursery school teacher was delivering a station wagon full of kids home one day when a fire truck zoomed past.  Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog.  The children started discussing the dog's duties.  They use them to keep crowds back, said one youngster.  No, said another, he's just for good luck.  A third child brought the argument to a close.  They use the dogs, she said firmly, to find the fire hydrant.

 

A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales.  The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small.  The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale.  Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human.  The little girl said, “When I get to heaven I will ask Jonah.”  The teacher asked, “What if Jonah went to hell?”  The little girl replied, “Then you ask him.”

 

A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds.  After explaining the commandment to “honor” they father and mother, she asked, “Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?”  Without missing a beat, one little boy answered, “Thou shall not kill.”

 

Love to all,                                         karen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm not even mentioning Covid-19 except in this beginning line of your April Update.  If you are like me, we are on overload with the tragedy.  Belaboring the facts will not help.  Suffice it to say, everyone stay as healthy as possible without forgetting to live.  As has been said, don't let the cure be worse than the disease.

 

APRIL BIRTHDAYS:

 

Rick Blunk, Johnie Boles, Jerry Crismore, Tura Crone Lamar, Bob Elliott, Marvin Henderson, Steve Hiatt, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Eddie Underly.  Happiest of birthdays to this group who carry our birthday banner during April.  May you all be blessed as you bless others.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Thankfully, I have no Class deaths to report this month.  We've already had three this year alone (Gary Stafford, Marvin Grimes and Jim Bemis) and we need a long respite before we agonize over another.

 

Speaking of Gary, received a note from Harry Maginity in March.  He had talked with Gary's wife, Sarah, and she told him Gary was diagnosed with his leukemia just a month before his death.  That explains why there were no hints or rumors of his dire condition.  

 

Also received a note about Jim Bemis from Jim Brunnemer.  He and Dick Elmore ran into Todd Bemis, Larry Bemis' son, while on business in Franklin during February.  They reminisced about his uncle Jim (Bemis') induction into the fast-pitch softball Hall of Fame and how proud he was of that.  Wish we could have connected with Jim long ago and often wonder if he ever thought about us.  

 

Judy Caldwell Hamilton wrote to say she and Leon have moved from the “boonies” to the Big Town of Trafalgar (population 1,200).  Nothing has changed except their snail mail address.  Bless this new adventure, Judy.  I'm certain part of your motivation, like so many others, is for a smaller, simpler, and less physical lifestyle.

 

During a phone conversation with Stony about the privations of consumer items, he shared this interesting (and useless) information:  “The average person in the US uses about 100 rolls of toilet paper per year.  Therefore, five bundles of 36-roll packages would hold a family of two for a year.”  Well, as a family of two, I would dispute that calculation.  Have no idea how they arrive at these statistics.  Furthermore, he found that the US imports only 10% of its TP and that comes from China and India.  OK, that's three months of Class discussions of toilet paper and lots of research into invention, design, and use.  I promise never to mention TP again in this illustrious publication.

 

OK, while I said no MORE mention of Covid in this edition, I'm compelled to share Lu Brunnemer's insight on our isolation whining complaints:  “Your grandfathers were asked to go off to war.  You're just asked to sit on the couch.  You can do this!”  Way to bring us back to center, Lu.  Thanks.

 

Mary Frances (Pope) Boner asked that she and Curt be excused from the February WBB.  She said Curt had appointment to give blood, and because of her recent surgery she is staying away from crowds.  She mentioned her boredom from this isolation but felt it would aid in regaining her strength.  Of course, I excused their absence.  Keep getting better, Mary, and thanks Curt for your gift of life.  What a noble cause.

 

Probably many of you heard of the terrible storms and tornados in TN in early March.  I quickly wrote Stony in Piney Flats and Steve Koons in Lebanon inquiring of their situation.  Stony and Carol were out of state but found no damage on their return.  Steve, however, barely missed a full-blast hit from the tornado.  He sent photos of the woods surrounding his home.  He lost about 15 acres of woods.  Said if the tornado had been 100 meters to the North, they'd have nothing left.  Looked like a war zone, and yet only lost some shingles from home and barn.  I now realize after perusing the Class list that Russ Knapp is also in TN.  Russ, you might let me know how you fared.  My geography isn't good so I don't know whether Hohenwald, TN, was close to the damage.  Hope no one else suffered any damage.

 

Marcie Murphy Bolin has returned to the Class fold.  She somehow missed the purge notices.  Called to ask why she had not been receiving the Updates.  We had a great talk and I am very happy that she is, once again, attached by our umbilical cord.  Welcome back, Marcie.  I'm also including the March Update so you won't be far behind in news.

 

We have also re-added Tish Scherer Hartley.  She is receiving the March and April Updates and is now safely back enfolded in our arms.  Welcome back dear friends.

 

Received a delightful call from Don Donoho.  They call about every six months or so to touch base.  He just asked that I express to you their hopes that we all stay safe during this epidemic.  He sounded great and shared that Janet, too, was well.  Always happy to receive contact from classmates, especially those far away (the Donohos reside in CA).  He said they had planned to come home after Easter but now it will be later in summer.  He promised to let us know so we could plan a meal together to touch souls.  We all also wish the Donohos best wishes.

 

Cindy, Wayne Haase's wife, and Katherine, Bob Etter's wife, are both in chemo sessions.  Lets keep them in our prayers.  It isn't a fun time.  Bob and Catherine have returned from FL.  Bob still struggles with mobility but he's too mean to be defeated by it.  We are all glad they are back among family and friends.

 

Jim Brunnemer, in commenting on my classifying Gary Stafford and Don Cragen as class clowns, wanted to add these thoughts:  “I'd put Norris Griffin and Bob Sparks (Sparky) up there with Gary and Mitsu for comic relief.  Who can forget their classic “fake fights” or the time Sparky drove around M'Ville with Norris with the partially open trunk lid and his bloody ketchup arm dangling from inside?  Once, Norris was sitting on the aisle seat in front of me at the movie theater downtown.  I noticed there was a crunched up paper popcorn bag in the middle of the aisle.  A little kid was walking down the aisle when all of a sudden the paper bag moved on its own!  Terrified little kid went howling back to his mom.”  Jim, sorry to say I missed those capers but certainly believe their veracity.  I know several folks are on the hunt for Sparky.  Hope they bring him back to us.  

 

Jim Rusie sent me a photo of some high school event and asking for info on it.  It was a great photo of what I believe was the junior prom court, although I could be wrong.  Those pictured are:  Tish Sunderman and Ed Neal, Judy Wolff and Ron Allee, Joe Nutter and Sam Lasiter, me and Jim Branham, and Joy Favor and Jim Rusie.  What a beautiful group of naive childen, so unaware of what life had in store.  Wish I could share it with all of you but my computer skills are limited.  It went into our archives to share at the next reunion.  Thanks so much, Jim, for the walk down memory lane.

 

Bob Riffel wrote to comment on one of my “Thoughts for the Month.”  One struck a note with him:  “I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interaction.  The world will then have a generation of idiots.  Albert Einstein”  How right he was.  Even though he died in 1955 and didn't see how his prophecy played out, we all realize what he was saying.  Wish our grandchildren could see their world through our eyes.  As Bob pointed out, social network connection promotes aloneness.  How sad.  Also, thanks, Bob, for stating your appreciation for the Class connection.  Very glad you and so many others feel that way.  One of the many who have expressed that thought is quoted below:

 

I want to type verbatim a note received from Ed Underly:  “Karen, thank you so much for all your work in keeping me and others up to date with the Class updates each month.  I was saddened by our loss of Marvin Grimes.  I remember him when we all were at Central School and then the New Junior High.  After my 7th grade, during that summer, my paarents moved us away, but each and every one of you went with me in my memories just like it was yesterday.”  Ed went on to say that over all his health is good.  He loves to write, not for publication, and enjoys art.  Thanks so much Ed for your kind words.  I know everyone reading this feels the same about you.

 

MARCH WBB:

 

March was “return to the fold” month for our little group.  We all welcomed many who had been missing for many months.  Those attending in March were Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Linda and Don Burleigh, Terry and Janie Fleener (we were thrilled they joined us after a long absence), Bill Fulford, Kay and Kim Selch (also returning after long absence), Danny St. John, Bob Elliott (yet another joining us after a long absence), Harry Maginity, and me.  We hope next time we meet the Snow Birds will also join the group.  As you all know, there will be no April WBB because of the virus.  Let's hope by May we will all feel safe to venture out for hugs.  I'll let you know in the May Update.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

CHILDREN'S HUMOR AND LOGIC (there is no better):

 

A nursery school teacher was delivering a station wagon full of kids home one day when a fire truck zoomed past.  Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog.  The children started discussing the dog's duties.  They use them to keep crowds back, said one youngster.  No, said another, he's just for good luck.  A third child brought the argument to a close.  They use the dogs, she said firmly, to find the fire hydrant.

 

A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales.  The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small.  The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale.  Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human.  The little girl said, “When I get to heaven I will ask Jonah.”  The teacher asked, “What if Jonah went to hell?”  The little girl replied, “Then you ask him.”

 

A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds.  After explaining the commandment to “honor” they father and mother, she asked, “Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?”  Without missing a beat, one little boy answered, “Thou shall not kill.”

 

Love to all,                                         karen

 

 

 

 

 

 

MARCH 2020

We have several notations for our calendars this month of March—Daylight Saving Time begins on the 8th, St. Patty's Day on the 17th, and SPRING SPRUNGS on the 19th.  While it's been a very mild winter in the 'Ville, with the possible exception of more than average rain, it has nevertheless NOT felt like Spring.  Let's begin the month acknowledging our March birthday honorees.

 

MARCH BIRTHDAYS:

 

Karen Arnold Pottorff and Mark James.  A small but mighty band of warriors to carry the flag for the illustrious Class of '62.  Happiest of special days, folks.  Kick up plenty of dust.

 

CLASSMATE DEATHS:  

 

I am so very saddened that this month I relay two classmate deaths—Nos. 82 and 83.  The first death I just learned this morning right before publication of this Update.  Johnny Russell sent me an e-mail to check the Indpls. Star obituaries for Feb. 16.  Sure enough, there was a small notice that we lost Marvin Eugene Grimes on that date.  There is no obituary as such but it indicates he had a son Craig and his family.  I suspected Marvin might have health problems because he didn't have any contact lately after years of personal visits and notes.  Knowing Marvin and his penchant for privacy, this doesn't surprise me.  However, he sent me a check for our memorial/snail mail fund in January with a sweet note requesting to remain connected to this group of friends.  There will be no calling or service but, not surprisingly, Marvin requested a Celebration of Life occasion at the American Legion Post #64, 601 South Holt Rd., Indy., on Sunday, March 1, from 2:00 to 5:00 PM.  I'm certain his motorcycle buddies and family will give him a rousing farewell in remembrance of all the good times they shared.  Marvin was a fun-loving hard worker and partier.  This service is a perfect way to memorialize Marvin.  God bless our Sally.  I have made the decision to send our memorial bouquet to the Legion for Marvin.  I realize that is unusual but want a visible display for his family and friends to know of our love and grief.

 

A couple of weeks ago I sent a very sad e-mail to the group regarding the death of classmate Gary Stafford on Feb. 12.  His wife, Sarah, had called to tell me he was in the hospital in FL (close to their winter home) with leukemia, but she down-played the severity.  I hung up the call believing they would return in April, so to say I was shocked by the news would be an understatement.  Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and I attended the visitation on Feb. 21, but it was so crowded with his admirers we never did talk personally with Sarah.  He was buried on the 22nd at Centerton Cemetery, very close to their long-time home on Stafford Lane.  

 

Gary and Sarah had been married for 56 blissful years.  Their union produced one daughter and two sons.  Gary also left behind two brothers and four sisters, ten grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren.  What a great legacy!! I'm certain some of you knew some of the large Stafford family from Centerton.  

 

Right next to Gary's coffin was our red/blue/white carnation memorial.  I know that made him smile.  Everyone who knew Gary knew of his pride in graduating with all of us in 1962.  He frequently called to remind me of that fact.  I always felt he and Mitsu held the “Class Clown” title together.  Few ever loved mankind more than Gary, and he was never too proud to show that love.  God bless his family.

 

Folks, we have to stop this trend.  We must stay well and keep the Grim Reaper away from our doors!!!

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Let me preface this section with the thought that I pray one month soon I can only include happy news about our group.  It seems the “medical/death update” sections get longer with each edition.  I am fully aware that is a “process of aging,” but I pray that will very soon become more of a sideline than a major portion of our Updates.

 

Mary Frances Pope Boner is finally home after a week's hospitalization for heart surgery.  I believe they replaced or repaired an artery to her heart—prolapsed mitrol valve.  She has had this since childhood but it only lately began bothering her to the extent that surgery was required.  Thankfully, I am reporting this news to you at the same time I can report total success for Mary's medical issues.  I can share that I spent a week truly worrying about her well-being.  Way to go, Mary.  

 

Cindy Haase, Wayne's wife, also had a bad February.  Cindy and Wayne have become very active with our local group and we are tickled to adopt Cindy into our ranks.  She was diagnosed with a cancerous uterine tumor.  The tumor was spreading into her abdominal cavity and was aggressive, so they rushed her to surgery.  However, after the surgery and lab tests were returned, they found no cancer in her lymph nodes.  I have been texting with Cindy and she seems to be recovering well and is upbeat about the future of her health.  Thank God, Cindy.  Chemo probably in her future so continuing with prayers would be in order.  (At WBB in Feb., Cindy shared that she e-mails President Trump often to comment on some national issue and tell him of her prayers for his leadership.  We all laughed but will have egg on our faces if he ever responds.  You go, girl)

 

Catherine Etter reports Bob was hospitalized for a couple of days in FL for water retention and difficulty breathing, causing him to fall frequently.  However, he is now home and at present has no intention of starting back earlier than the end of April.  Catherine has had three chemo treatments, each one causing her a few more symptoms, but she, too, seems to be weathering the medical hill well.  If anyone can, she will.  She's the energizer bunny when it comes to pushing herself to stay active.  You guys enjoy that warmth and sunshine as long as you can.  God speed you to wellness.  

 

Received word from Deanna that Marvin Henderson was in the hospital in Kalamazoo, MI, close to where they live.  That caused more worrying on my part because Marvin has a history with AFIB and TIA's, even though his heart arteries are fine.  Thankfully, a few days later she wrote that he was home.  He will be monitored for signs of a stroke or AFIB and is on medication and rehab program to prevent future incidents.  Deanna said by making some life changes he has lost 60 pounds and kept it off for a couple of years.  She thinks he's almost too thin.  His recent EKG was normal, as were his labs.  For these reasons, they aren't totally certain the issues but are treating for heart issues.  Stay strong, Marvin.  

 

Learned Rufus Simpson was in hospital.  When the occasion arose, I asked his wife, Danelle, what was going on.  Well, much to my surprise, he was in and out of hospital during Nov.-Dec. of last year for triple by-pass surgery and was placed on dialysis.  During Jan. he was in rehab but wasn't a stellar patient.  She reminded me how stubborn he could be.  Because he didn't work hard enough in rehab, his muscles atrophied so he is now bed-bound and she doesn't expect him to ever exit the nursing home.  So tragic.  Rufus has always been an active man who enjoyed his life and work.  I will continue to get updates on Rufus.  May God give both of them strength to weather this storm.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Stony Pearcy and Carol spent a week visiting friends in FL.  He was complaining about the weather.  He said at night it dropped to 40's and never got out of 50's during the day.  I sighed and told him he would receive no sympathy from me.  He went on to explain at that temperature the Iguanas fall from the trees on your head in an unconscious stupor.  He said they didn't play much golf but put away a great deal of beer, so the trip wasn't for naught.  

 

Received a note from Becky Pratt Bock.  She commented that Jim Bemis died in their town—Brooksville, FL.  She hadn't seen the notice in local paper.  Becky said their winter has been unusually cool.  “I'm personally sick of it!”  They called Bloomington one day and found it was two degrees warmer than Brooksville.  Once again, she received no sympathy from me.  I warned everyone who has flown South not to send weather reports anyway.  Becky closed with, “pass my love around to all.”  Thanks, Becky.  Maybe you can come for a 'Ville visit if things get too bad in FL. 

 

Judy Wolff Parret and Jeff are moving after twenty some years in their condo.  She is facing the obstacle of downsizing her priceless possessions to fit smaller spaces.  I just couldn't do it.  The auctioneer will just have to come in and sell things right out of cabinets and drawers because I'm not doing all that work for anyone.  They are moving into a small home about ten miles from Pompano Beach—can't remember name of town.  It's on one level, smaller, and in a quieter neighborhood.  I hope Judy and Jeff like these new environs now that they are fully retired and looking forward to doing only what they want.  Best of luck with your move, Judy.  BTW, she said to mention that they have a nice condo on the market if any of you are interested.  Just contact me for her contact info.

 

Norris Griffin occasionally writes to check in and tell me of his latest inspiration.  While I can't quote all of his note, he did say some great things about us.  I'll share some highlights:

 

“I'm thankful I had the opportunity to be a classmate that got to grow up with so many wonderful people who have a mysterious glue source that keeps us happily united for so long so we can grow old together.  And it seems to me that as long and as strong as our bond has lasted and is, all of us are maintaining our bond with glue we generate within ourselves ...”  Wonderful thoughts, Norris.  Thanks for sharing.

 

A personal thanks from yours truly for the cards, notes, calls, lunches, butterflies, visits, etc., from Class friends to celebrate my birthday.  I even was handed a beautiful card signed by the WBB attendees.  It overwhelms me to be thought of in such sincere loving ways.  I echo Norris's thoughts above about our bond and how thankful I am for that.  

 

Last but most importantly, we have solved and settled the toilet paper mystery forever.  After my comments in the Feb. Update, Wayne Haase, bless his heart, sent me a copy of Seth Wheeler's U.S. Patent Office Patent No. 459,516, dated September 15, 1891, for his “toilet paper roll.”  The diagram, which he filed and the photo of which I shall keep in our archives for those naysayers, demonstrates the paper being unrolled from the top—not the bottom.  Therefore, in spite of hateful words from Bob Etter, as quoted below, we will henceforth know the girls were smarter than the boys.

 

Bob wrote on Feb. 1:  “I think this toilet paper talk is a bunch of shit.  The Air Force says (I want to see proof of this source) the paper rolls from the bottom because you wipe your bottom from the bottom.  Love, your friend with all the answers, Bobby.”

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

It was a smaller crowd but nevertheless lively.  Those attending were special guests Johnie and ChiChi Boles, who haven't joined us for years, Charlie Vogus, Brent Boner, Curt and Mary Boner, Cindy and Wayne Haase, Dan St. John, Marty Akard, Harry Maginity, and me.  Had received calls requesting excused absences from Bill Fulford who had the flu and Marilyn Dyer Hornberger because of physical therapy.  We voted to excuse them.  At the women's end, we asked ChiChi where she graduated.  She said she lived just across the line demarcating the Martinsville/Mooresville school systems.  She even admitted she “married up” with Johnie because he moved her to Brooklyn from the bowels of Mooresville, where they still reside.  Doesn't matter, ChiChi, you have been honorably adopted into the illustrious Martinsville Class of '62.

 

Next WBB will be Monday, March 9, 10:30 at Forkey's.  Hope you can join the fun.

 

SMILES (or rather “THOUGHTS”) FOR THE MONTH:

 

Don't trust everything you see.  Even salt looks like sugar.

A ship is always safe at shore but that isn't what it's built for.  (Albert Einstein)

Don't blame a clown for acting like a clown.  Blame yourself for going to the circus.

“I don't trust anyone who's nice to me but rude to the waiter, because they would treat me the same way if I were in that position.”  (Muhammad Ali)

“Complaining about a problem without posing a solution is called whining.”  (Teddy Roosevelt)

In America we call it 'lobbying.'  Everywhere else in the world they call it 'bribery and corruption.'

Albert Einstein to Charlie Chaplin:  

Einstein:  “What I admire most about your art is its universality. You do not say a word and yet the world understands you.

Chaplin:  “That's true but your fame is even greater.  The world admires you when nobody understands you.”

“I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interactiion.  The world will then have a generation of idiots.”  (Albert Einstein)

Any fool can know.  The point is to understand.  (Albert Einstein)

A saint was asked--”What is anger?”  The saint replied, “It is a punishment we give to ourself for somebody else's mistake.”

A smart person knows what to say.  A wise person knows whether to say it or not.  (Dali Lama)

In life, it's important too know when to stop arguing with people and simply let them be wrong. (Dali Lama)

No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you believe you are, how you treat people ultimately tells all.

 

Many things to consider in these quips.  Perhaps a seed will be planted that will make each of us a bit better on our journey.

 

Hugs to all, karen

 

 

 

 

FEBRUARY 2020

Happy February to all.  This is the month for Lincoln's birthday, Valentine’s Day, Washington's Birthday (otherwise known as President's Day), and the beginning of the Easter celebrations with Ash Wednesday.  It is also the celebration of this Scribe's birthday—a momentous occasion to the world.  However, there are also other very special people who celebrate this month, so let's celebrate all of them together –

 

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Nancy Alexander Foley, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Janet Sue Brummett Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Frank Ennis, Bobby Etter, Terry Fleener, Steve Koons (yes, it really is his BD on the 29th, which he only gets to celebrate every four years), Kathryn Sue Mason Hill, Stony Pearcy, Gary Stafford, Judy Wolff Paretts, and Ruth Woolbright Dunigan.  HAPPIEST OF SPECIAL DAYS TO EACH OF YOU.  MAY YOU BE BLESSED IN EQUAL MEASURE TO THE BLESSINGS YOU GENERATE.

 

CLASS MISCELLANEOUS:

 

Had a call from Kay Selch reporting Kim is annoying him prancing around on a cane and pestering him to move more quickly.  His knees still don't want to work very well but physical therapy is helping.  Kim has some pain in her hip and they're searching for the cause.  He also relayed a call from Doug Bass sharing that Bill Lester, Carol Pearcy's ex-husband, and someone I'd bet most of you remember, is suffering dementia.  Had to give up driving.  Sorry to learn that.  It's becoming so prevalent in our age-group. 

 

Bobby Elliott stopped by to bring me current on his situation.  He struggles with trijeminal neuralgia (? spelling) for which he takes strong meds.  Surgery is possible but not likely in light of his COPD and strong meds.  He was very thin but still as sharp mentally as ever.  It was good to have a personal visit with him.  

 

Sam Lasiter wrote that Johnny Jones was out of the hospital and at that time in therapy.  He's probably back to work by now.  This is a strong group who can't be held down.  Hope you are back to tip-top, Johnny.

 

Those on snail mail don't know we have regained one of the lost sheep from our communication list.  Your letters were mailed the same day I received Marvin Grimes' Christmas card asking to remain connected.  In that note he also enclosed a snail-mail/memorial contribution.  Because he signed the card “Luv you,” I forgave him for his tardiness and re-admitted him to the Class alumnae list.  Glad to have Marvin back.  Since we never hear from him (like so many others), we had no idea if he was still at the end of our communication umbilical cord. 

 

After many silent years, I received a great update from Mark James during January.  I am going to quote his comments right here so all of you know, as Mark put it, “who I am.” 

 

“This has been long overdue.  I enjoy your monthly news letter and the humor.  I have used your humor on the website of a large Christian singles group that I lead here in New England.  I have been retired for 12 years and my wife, Joyce, was promoted to be with the Lord 16 years ago last month because of cancer.  I have 5 children, 15 grand-children, and 6 great-grand-children.  I spend all of my time doing mission work wherever I am called, and I also maintain a website for around 700 Christian singles here in New England.  Our website link is:  centralnewenglandchristiansingles.wordpress.com, if you are interested.  (There are some good photos of Mark on that website.)  This website keeps me quite busy.  The singles in our group range from 30's to 80's, and we have great fun together doing clean, safe, fun activities.  I have been a leader of this group since I retired.  I am blessed to be very healthy.  The missions I do are mostly construction and helping those in need.  I have wanted to attend one of your Class gatherings but have not found the time yet, but I will.  I live in New London, CT, on the ocean and love the area here in New England.  I attend a large church in Groton, CT, and am a youth leader there.  My life is very full with family, church, missions, and our Christian singles group.  So that is me.  Hope you have enjoyed getting caught up on my life, finally.  Keep up the good work you do for us in keeping us connected on what is happening since 1962.  God Bless.  Mark James”  Thanks, Mark!!

 

During January I received word that we lost yet another classmate—Jim Bemis.  Now, Jim left us after our sophomore year and we lost all track of him.  According to his obituary, he died in Brooksville, FL, at 75 years.  It said he was formerly of Indianapolis.  So close to us and yet so far.  He is survived by his wife, Christy, son, Ryan, daughters Shannon, Lisa, Mindy, and seven grand-children and three great grand-children.  He was buried in Indy.  Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and Jim were cousins.  She said she heard he was blind and had lots of ailments during his later life.  So sorry to learn that.  He was preceded in death by his parents and brothers, Bill, Larry and Mick.  Being inducted into the Softball Hall of Fame was one of his most cherished memories.  So very sorry we couldn't have been in contact with Jim before it was too late.  Thanks to Jim/Joyce Branham and Jim Brunnemer for pointing me to this information.  I would have missed it.  God bless Jim and family.

 

After this edition was completed and copies run for snail mail, received an upsetting call from Sarah Stafford, Gary's wife.  I'm including this info in the e-mail this month, but I'll need to repeat it in March for snail mail because their copies are on the way.  Sarah and Gary are in Winter Haven for a winter hiatus.  Gary hadn't been feeling well but they felt the warmth and sunshine would be a good place for him to recuperate.  Shortly after arriving, they had to take Gary to an ER.  They forwarded him to Orlando Advent Health where he has remained for two weeks.  He has been diagnosed with AML, Acute Myeloid Leukemia and is on chemo and oxygen.  His kidneys have quit working so they are struggling to remove the water accumulating in him so he can begin dialysis.  I asked about his blood pressure and Sarah said that was great.  At least he doesn't have to fight that, too.  Sarah says they aren't saying anything as to when he will be released or follow-up treatment.  She did say they would remain in FL until at least Spring and his strength returns.  You all know Gary was and still is our Class Clown and strives to keep our spirits up.  I personally love to tease him because he takes it so well and always dishes out as well as he gets.  Gary, please use all your powers to get back to the 'Ville.  That way we can keep better tabs on your progress and make certain you treat Sarah extremely well.  God bless all of you.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

For winter months, we had a good group during January.  Those joining us were Wayne and Cindy Haase, Catherine and Bob Etter, Joyce Griffin Hamilton (we were pleased to have her join us again after being absent several months), Charlie Vogus, Bill Fulford, Brent Boner, Curt Boner, Harry Mcginity, Marty Akard Short, and me.  We missed Mary Frances (Pope) Boner because of sciatica pain and sure do hope she is well and will rejoin us in February.  As you can tell, the ratio of male to female in this group has grown awkwardly toward the male side.  We need more women, so ladies please help us out.  We have rousing conversations and much laughter.  Last time the prime topic was whether or not the toilet paper should roll from the top or the bottom.  We even polled the men for their vote.  The response seems to be related to sex:  men roll from bottom, women from the top.  According to Catherine, Bob changes it all the time, much to her consternation.  See what you guys miss when you don't join us.  

 

During our session Jim Brunnemer handed me his retirement business card.  Very useful and thought-provoking.  He designates himself “The American Idle.”  He offers a “teaching seminar on 'How to Waste Time and Not Feel Guilty About It.'  It also says, 'Tuition waived for those who are overly motivated, stressed out, and generally way too serious about work.'  Start lining up at his door to participate.  Thanks for thinking of us, Jim.

 

Next WBB will be Tuesday, February 10, 10:30, Forkey's.  Hope to see many of you then.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

I know I promised no more T-Shirt humor, but forgive me for reneging.  I had several comments that folks enjoyed that, so I'm going to expose you one more month with my weird sense of humor:

 

(PS:  Send me some humor to share.)

 

I always talk to myself because I'm the only one to listen.

My Bucket List:  1.  Keep breathing.

As far as I know, I am just delightful.

I'm beginning to think that for some of you the wheels on your bus do not go round and round.

Being cremated is my last hope for a smoking hot body.

It is what it is (I say that a lot when frustrated).

I don't trip and fall—I do random gravity checks.

My husband thinks I'm crazy, but I'm not the one who married me.

So, apparently I have an attitude. 

Do I look like I 'Rise and Shine!'

The officer said, “You drinking?”  I said, “You buying?”  We just laughed and laughed.  (I need bail money, please.)

If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

Bacon is the answer!  What was the question?

You call them swear words; I call them sentence enhancers.

To me “drink responsibly” means don't spill it.

I'm great in bed.  I can sleep for days.

I survived the '60s—TWICE.

 

Love to all,                                                      karen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

JANUARY 2020

Happy January 2020 to you all.  Can you believe we parted ways as “kids” 58 years ago???  And yet, even though that computes to something like 75 years of age, (except for physical anomalies) my thoughts more resemble an 18 year old than an old lady.  Hope you can say the same.  We have to grow old but we don't have to grow up.  May all of us be blessed in this New Year as we bless others.

 

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Marty Akard Short, Virginia Fulford Watts, Frances Hatley Fisher, Connie Shields Lowry, John Henry Stewart, and Wayne Haase.  The happiest of birthdays to each of you.  Kick up lots of dust.

 

ANOTHER CLASS DEATH—NO. 80:

 

Those on snail mail may not know that we lost Charles “Chuck” Ritter to Parkinson's Disease on December 3.  He was being cared for in his home by his devoted wife of 44 years, Jeanne.  They had three children.  Chuck had been slowly fading from himself for many years.  Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and I visited his family at calling.  The little pamphlet they distributed with his photo reminded us of the boy we knew.  Chuck lead a fulfilling life:  US Navy for 4 years during Vietnam and 30 years as a reserve.  Earned a degree from IUPUI, Ivy Tech, and Indiana State Univ.  He also received his Inspector Pressure Vessel Commission.  He worked as a mechanical engineer at IPL for 15 years and at Allison Transmission for 19 years.  But, after fulfilling his duties of providing for his family, his passions were Harley-Davidson cycles, railroad history, and woodworking.  Chuck was laid to rest with military and Masonic honors at Nebo Memorial Park in Martinsville.  Chuck was a great supporter of the Class of '62 and, when health permitted, always attended activities and stayed in touch.  God bless Chuck and his family.

 

Since we are on the subject of classmate deaths, I have a follow-up report from the December update about Herb Brown.  I know some of you remember Herb from our elementary/middle school days.  Our Super Slooth, Steve Koons, found Herb's obituary on the internet.  Seems Herb, 73, passed in Allentown, PA, in a hospice facility on February 1, 2018.  Herb graduated from the University of Evansville, IN and received his MBA at Butler.  Says he spent 25 years at Day-timers in East Texas and Allentown.  He was an avid vintage car collector.  He and his wife had one daughter and one son and several grandchildren.  At the time of his death, his mother, Gladys Brown, and sister Janet were still living.  I'd say another of the Class of '62's own did well in life and made us proud.  I only regret we didn't find Herb years ago and rekindle our special bond.  Thanks, Steve, for filling in the blanks for us.

 

For your general information, during 2019 we lost 4 friends:  Greg Phillips, Glenn Sheeks, Dwight Arthur, and Chuck Ritter.  During 2018 we lost 5 friends:  Jim Barrack, Rhea Donna Forbes Fee, Carol Schell Maxwell, Richard Hamilton, and Camden Hacker.  As I look back at the loss list since we began keeping records (2003), it generally averages 5 a year.  All the more reason to stay in touch and in contact with one another.  There is no substitution for “long-term friendships.”

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

So many of you sent me Christmas greetings in one form or another and some even sent Santa with gifts.  I won't have room to name everyone, but just know how much your thoughtfulness means to me.  I have always known my Class friends are the best in the world, and I count myself so fortunate to have been born where and when I was so I had you.

 

One of the Christmas cards contained a note from Gordon and Linda (Fisher) Phillips acknowledging the Class recognition at Gregg's funeral.  You are so welcome Gordon and Linda.  It was our privilege to acknowledge Gregg's connection with our Class.  They also sent money for snail-mail.  Thank you!!

 

Marty Akard Short, Marvin Grimes, and Don Billings also contributed to the memorial/snail-mail fund.  We now have almost $600, which should mean I won't be asking for contributions for many months.  At least, let's pray that is the case.

 

Our Class Purge brought out many e-mails from far away.  For example, Steve McIlwain wrote that he and Linda have been cruising (poor baby).  He said Linda has a glass she brings out over the holidays which says:  “Wine, official sponsor of the naughty list.”  She also has a T-shirt for their cruises which reads:  “Blame it on the drink package.”  Great to hear from Steve.

 

Steve Hiatt also wrote to report he always enjoys the monthly news.  They will come home from FL in May.  He says their blood is too thin for winter weather.  

 

Russ Knapp reported he has had two knee surgeries but is now mended.  Still struggles with weight but otherwise healthy.  In his call we talked about a lot of things, one of those being Senior Cords.  He asked if he was dreaming about that phenomenon.  Said he had talked with so many others and none ever heard of that custom.  I assured him he wasn't dreaming and I had a wonderful Cord skirt upon which my girlfriends wrote—after graduation.  I think Mom, in one of her cleaning frenzies, disposed of it because it disappeared.  He also mentioned such things as Tish Scherer Hartley's theft of a stop sign and boys tieing up somebody in a graveyard in his skivvies.  I assured him I had nothing to do with either caper and was innocent until proven guilty.  Thanks for the call, Russ.

 

Also heard from Danny St. John.  Dan has a Down Syndrome grandson of whom he is extremely proud.  Christopher is 13 and works part time.  I'm sure you all know how proud I also am of Christopher because I can understand his struggles to accomplish most things.  Special people are God's way of reminding us of His love.  Dan also reported his mother-in-law passed at 98 in November.  She had never spent a night in the hospital and she had no serious health problems.  He said her body just finally shut down.  Christopher was very close to Bee and put a letter he had written in her casket.  How very sweet.  Thanks for sharing, Dan, and so sorry for your family's loss.

 

Judy Fraker Ford sent an e-mail which I want to share verbatim (and I sure hope she doesn't mind):  “Thought it was time to share my cancer diagnosis since it seems to be so prevalent in our Class.  Thought at age 75 I would be able to get out of this world without hearing the words “you have cancer.”  No such luck.  I was diagnosed on my birthday in August.  Since then, it's been a whirlwind with surgeries, CT scans, labs, doctor appointments, chemo and daily radiation sessions.  I had my last treatment on Nov. 6 and just last week was well enough to drive myself and get out of the house.  I saw Catherine had been diagnosed with colon cancer.  I will be praying for her and all who are experiencing or have had this dreaded disease.”  This was truly a shock to me, since Judy, more than most of us, hasn't shown her age and has always been the picture of health.  Yet, the silent, sneaky disease even got to her.  God bless your past and future journey, Judy.  All your Class of '62 will hold you in their thoughts and prayers.

 

As to Catherine Hacker Etter's progress, she had several inches of her colon removed and seemed to bounce back quickly.  Of course, I'm sure it wasn't as easy as she makes it look.  Anyway, they found one of her lymph notes was involved, so radiation/chemo is in her future.  Since they go to FL in January, they are hurriedly making arrangements for her medical treatments in FL.  Sitting in the sunshine rather than snow seems to her to be more therapeutic.  You go girl!  With your can-do attitude and strong work ethic, you will beat this.  God bless.

 

I think John Jones is still hospitalized.  All I hear is that it might be pneumonia.  He is so private we just need to keep him in our thoughts and prayers even though he remains in the shadows.  I know he will appreciate that.  Get well quickly, John.

 

Gini Fulford Watts is taking spinal shots (Cortisone, I think) for her leg/back pains and reports she once again feels alive.  That is wonderful news.  She had been house-bound for several weeks.  I plan to take her to lunch on her January 12 birthday and get an update on her condition.  Gini, expect my invitation soon.

 

Not one person offered thoughts on our website renewal.  Therefore, Jane Reese Thompson and I will make an executive decision.  As great as it has been having this service, the cost of approximately $500 for two years is a bit too much for our treasury.  So, unless I receive differing thoughts, we will no longer support this service.  If any of you use the site for obtaining Class Updates, please write me at klssas740@att.net or call at 765 315 0397 or write to 740 E. Washington St., Martinsville 46151, and request to obtain Class news in another form.  Sure don't want to leave anyone without a lifeline with old and dear friends.

 

DECEMBER WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Our group consisted of Wayne and Cindy Haase, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Brent Boner, John Stewart, Don Burleigh, Bill Fulford, Harry Maginity, Bob and Catherine Etter, Jim Brunnemer, Charles Vogus, Marty Akard Short and me.  Of that group, we will lose Don Burleigh, John Stewart, and Bob and Catherine to warmer climates until April or so.  Folks, be safe.  You will be missed.  The next WBB event will be Monday, January 13, 10:30 at Forkey's.  The group may be smaller but nonetheless hearty.  Do come join us if you are close.

 

PURGING UPDATE:

 

It has occurred to me that most of you don't know with whom you are connected through our distribution list.  While I recognize e-mail addresses because I deal with them frequently, those anonymous conglomerations of letters at the top of the Update probably don't tell you much.  Moreover, you have no idea who touches us through snail mail.  Therefore, in as succinct a form as possible, I will list those who remain with us after the purge and those we lost for failure of contact.  And thanks to everyone for participating in this endeavor.  Quite frankly, I thought we would lose more than we did (15 in all).  I feared there wasn't a great deal of interest by most in the monthly news or that some of my e-mail addresses were no longer valid, even though I frequently receive accolades from recipients.  You gave me courage to trudge forward as Class social secretary.

 

Snail Mail Recipients (27):  Bob Elliott, Jim Morgan, Ed Kent, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Ruth Woolbright Dunigan, Virginia Toon Woodall, Connie Shields Lowry, Gary Stafford, Mike O'Neal, DeeAnn Evans Little, Karen Wampler, Marvin Grimes, Linda Fisher Phillips, Karen Arnold Pottorff, Cora Capshaw, Frances Hatley Fisher, Ralph Berry, Ronald Asher, Brent Boner, Austin Gray, Don Billings, Janet Elmore Donoho, Don Donoho, Kay Selch, Linda Hamilton Stevens, Leroy Stevens, Frank Ennis, Gini Fulford Watts, and Nancy Alexander Foley.

 

Those Lost (7):  Sue Weddle Myers, Tish Scherer Hartley, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Marcie Murphy Bolin, Larry Lambert, Jenness Northerner Cortez Perlmutter, and Carol Stewart Davis.

 

E-Mail Recipients (68):  Rich Blunk, Mary Pope Boner, Curt Boner, Jim Branham, Joyce Bowman Branham, Jim Brunnemer, Don Burleigh, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Jerry Collier, Tura Crone Lamar, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Larry Martin, Connie Denny Martin, Dan St. John, Dick Elmore, Bob Ely Brown, Bob Etter, Judy Fraker Ford, Bill Fulford, Judy Garrett Knose, Linda Gibbs Gehring, Henry Gray, Marvin Henderson, Steve Hiatt, Russ Knapp, Joy Favor Greenwalt, Becky Pratt Bock, Steve Koons, Betty Maners Wilson, Sondra Myers Gano, Stony Pearcy, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, John Russell, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Terry Fleener, John Stewart, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Richard Young, Karen Wilson Brummett, Judy Wolff Parret, Lila Pruett White, Carol Dow Teague, Barbara Hicks Richardson, Janet Brummett Britton, Jo Nutter Lasiter, Lorraine Dunn Richardson, Ellen Miller Little, Bob Riffel, Mark Cohen, Nick Zoller, Charles Vogus, Steve McIlwain, Jim Ham, John Jones, Eddie Underly, Beverly Parker Smith, Kathryn Mason Hill, Marty Akard Short, Richard Walters, Jerome Crismore, Sam Lasiter, Harry Maginity, Norris Griffin, Roy McGuffey, Wayne Haase, Johny Boles, Mark James and guest Charlie Gardner.  

 

Those Lost (8):  David Chandler, Bill Craven, Diana Hatter Tolley, Oren Flake, Judy Hacker Fraker, Irene Cure Conte, Sharon Robertson Anderson, and Dewayne White.

 

Our communication link totals 96 (counting me) after losing 15 for failure to respond.  I hope some who still want to be connected but for some reason didn't contact me will realize how much they miss us and ask to be reinstated.  I made it very easy this time for folks to comment, so must assume hearing nothing means no interest on their part.  They will be missed.  We begin 2020 with a clean slate for Class communication.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: 

 

 

JANUARY 2020

I'm in a hurry to get this into the mail and don't have time to search for clever quips.  You folks haven't sent much lately.  Therefore, you shall get more of my “T-Shirt Humor.”  I'll do better next month.

 

A little gray hair is a small price to pay for all this wisdom! 

I may be wrong, but I doubt it.  

Every once in a while someone amazing comes along—and here I am.

Some days the supply of curse words is insufficient to meet my demands.

I don't have ducks.  I don't have a row.  I have squirrels and they're drunk.

I only drink water that's been through a brewery first.

“Project Manager”--because Miracle Worker isn't an official job title.

I had my patience tested.  I'm negative.

So, when is this 'old enough to know better' supposed to kick in?

I do all my own stunts, but never intentionally.

I should be given an award for keeping my mouth shut when there's so much that needs to be said.

People think I go out of my way to piss them off.  Trust me, it's not out of my way at all.

I'm going to stop asking 'How dumb can you get?”  People seem to be taking it as a challenge!

Common sense is not a gift.  It's a punishment, because you have to deal with everyone who doesn't have it.

 

Love to all,                                                 kare

 

 

 

 

DECEMBER 2019

Merry Christmas to all. Let me also wish you a Happy 2020 New Year in case the January Update is a day or two late in arriving. I fervently hope the world has a blessed holiday season, especially all of you. As I type this Update, winds are gusting at 35 mph, it's cloudy and damp but 40 degrees, and generally anything but festive. Doesn't do much to motivate me to begin cheerful celebration activities. It's days like these I'm truly jealous of those in sunny climates. 

 

DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

 

DeeAnn Evans Little, Harry Russell Knapp, and Sue Weddle Myers. Small but celebrated group of birthday honorees. Have a blessed special day.

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Little medical changes for Bob Elliott and Mike O'Neal. Mike keeps me advised about Bob when we speak. Mike still suffers with lung and mobility problems but has a good attitude, as is the case for Bob. 

 

John Jones has been hospitalized but I have no info as to condition or cause. However, we need to keep him in our thoughts and prayers until we learn all is well. I talked with his daughter, Janae, at the beauty shop (second only to Walmart as a location for information). She said he is like a “fart in a whirlwind” and is busier than ever. She thinks that is what keeps Johnnie young. Get back to tip-top shape quickly, John.

 

Ed Kent sent a photo of his clean-shaven face. Quite a change from the “mountain man” image he used to project. Says he is confined to wheelchair but the facility is nice. He, too, has a great attitude in spite of his infirmities and limitations. Keep it up, Ed.

 

For those who didn't attend the November WBB, our adopted classmate Catherine Hacker Etter shared that she will have surgery for colon cancer in mid-December. She hopes this won't preclude them leaving for FL in early January. Katherine, we will all pray for your total and speedy recovery. I'm sure Bob will take good care of you. If not, we will black ball him from the '62 Roster.

 

Gini Fulford Watts is struggling with sciatic nerve problems. If you've experienced this ailment, you know how painful it is and how it literally stops any meaningful lifestyle. Her doctor appt. is early December to determine if is caused by leg, hip, knee or spine issues. We wish you good reports, Gini.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Received sweet note from Ruth Woolbright Dunigan, along with a much appreciated contribution to snail mail. In her highlights, she shared that she reads the monthly Update several times to digest all the names and let her memories wander back several decades. She also said she and Lloyd retired in August. They had pastored the same church in GA for 42 years and evangelized for 11 years prior to that. She rightly noted, “So you see it was time to step down and let someone else take the burden.” I couldn't be happier for you Ruth and Lloyd. No one deserves a restful retirement any more. She also said this freedom would allow them more frequent travel to IN to visit with their friends like us. Can't wait for that hug.

 

Charlie Vogus's wife, Janice, is mending from knee replacement. Said he's been the “nurse dude” and that under his watch she is doing really well, already off the walker onto a cane. I gave him a big birthday hug at the WBB. He looks younger than ever.

 

Doug Bass's brother, Phil, 1960 graduate, sent me a couple of photos along with a note. He and I grew up a few blocks apart in the Central School locality and have many memories. Doug was my first boyfriend—1st or 2nd grade I think. I know it was during the time period when he broke his leg sliding down the Park Hill and I was devastated. Because of all the missed school, he left our class after that and went with the class of 1963, even though we ALWAYS counted him as one of ours. One of the old photos was of Herb Brown, another of our lost classmates, Doug and Phil Bass, and Linda Smith. Cute little critters. He also sent a photo of his mother, Bernie. Many of you will remember Bernie Bass. She was a ball of fire. Phil wanted to know if I had contact info for Herb Brown. Sadly I have nothing. If any of you amateur detectives can track him down, please let Phil and me know. Would love to bring him back into the fold. Remember, his dad was Ward Brown, principal of the high school or middle school, I think. Because Phil, like Charlie Gardner, knows most of us from school, I have added him to our distribution list. Phil, if you don't want that information, just send me an e-mail and I'll opt you out.

 

Received more info on Jenness (Northener) Cortez activities. She exhibits through Perlmutter Gallery in New York. If you have never seen some of her work, go to perlmutter gallery.com and be amazed. Jenness has truly honed her talents since painting little horses and such in school. Very happy to have her back with her old friends.

 

As I have mentioned before, Jim Brunnemer's latest goal is to complete a treatise of his family history which he titles “Living the Life of the Damaged Child.” Jim said a couple of you had contacted him about this project and there seemed to be interest in the goal. Because he says things far more lucidly than I, I'm cutting and pasting his note to me in this Update to share with all of you (with his permission). Should any of you want to contact Jim directly, his e-mail is jimbrunnemer@gmail.com. He welcomes any conversation his situation might initiate:

 

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I was contacted by one of our classmates this week, asking about the family project I am currently putting on paper. If you think it appropriate, I would like to share the words below, if there is room in your next newsletter. You know I’ll accept your decision if it's not possible. I just thought a bit more information might be in order given they have received a hint at the project.

To my classmates of 1962:

Since Karen mentioned that I am currently writing a history of my biological family, I wish to add a brief addendum of explanation. I was one of 9 children—including two sets of twins—that Jay and Josephine Carpenter gave up as babies or young children to other family, friends, and strangers over a period of years during the 1940s and ‘50s. Josephine had her first child at age 15, and the last, which was me, when she was 24. My brothers and sisters and I grew up with some emotional baggage that carried well into adulthood. It took me into my 30s before self-evaluation and professional assistance enabled me to put behind me feelings of low self-esteem, fear of rejection, fear of failure, mistrust of others, and self-destructive behaviors. Growing up, I hid all of this behind a mask of a carefree, happy, confident person, to the point of arrogance. Fact was, I lived in dread that my friends and classmates would discover how worthless that I really was. Childhood abandonment really does a number on one’s psyche. Despite that, I’ve had a happy and eventful life. Everyone has challenges in life, and mine pales in comparison to the pain and suffering of many. However, the actions of those two people were reflected in the psychological damage each of us endured in life. The project, entitled Silent Pain, is a tribute to the determination of most of those children to rise above their daily doubts and fears to become productive citizens. God has blessed me richly in life, first by placing me with my eternal heroes—my adoptive parents, Ernie and Gladys, and my wife steadfast wife, Luella.

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Right on, Jim. Bless your efforts. Those following your footsteps will be the benefactors.

Don and Linda Burleigh and Bob and Catherine Etter will fly South in early January. Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush left during November. Others will quickly follow after Christmas. 

 

Bill Fulford doesn't fly south but helps hold things together in the 'Ville during winter. At the last WBB, he handed me money for the Class treasury. Thank you Bill. 

 

Don Burleigh, Dick Elmore, Jim Brunnemer, and Jim Branham were seen nestled into a back booth at Forkey's in November. Their expressions said the topic of conversation must have been serious—like some teen-age athletic prowess they possessed or a golf or football game, etc. All I know is women aren't invited into their inner-sanctum. Just thrilled Jim Branham ventures out to join them We all would love to visit with him.

 

Received a note from Jane Reese Thompson regarding our website. She relayed that the renewal fee for this service is due in the amount of $165. We pay this fee annually and the Domain name fee every other year (2020). This is not my money. It belongs to all of you so you have to help spend it. Currently we have about $500 and no expected expenditures soon. Please let me know if you use this site, if you want to continue it, if it is serving your purposes, if you want to continue renewal, or any other comments you wish to share on the topic. klssas740@att.net or 765 315 0397

 

Norris Griffin is continuing with his passion of recording. He has sent me some of his recent songs. I think he has talent and hope he pursues his goals. If you want to contact him about his activities or wish to hear some of his recordings, write him at syrgryph@gmail.com. Keep up the good work, Norris.

 

Thank you so much, Stony, for my Happy Thanksgiving voice mail wish. I hope everyone had a thankful and blessed Thanksgiving celebration.
 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

November attendees were: Bill Fulford, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Charlie Vogus, Wayne Haase, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Don and Linda Burleigh, Marty Akard Short, Bob and Catherine Etter, John Stewart, and me. Judging from the cacophony around the table, I'd say a good time was had by all. The December WBB will be held Monday, Dec. 9, 10:30, at Forkey's. Might be the last big group until warm weather, so come if you can and enjoy the frivolity.

 

PURGE TIME:

 

Can't believe it's been two years since we purged our distribution lists—both e-mail and snail mail. In an effort to only serve those of us who wish to be connected, I periodically purge from or add to the list. Many of those with whom I have regular contact, I know the desire to stay attached is present and the address is correct. However, many on our list never contact me, so I have no way of knowing if my mailings are beneficial or bothersome.

 

For those on snail mail, I've made it very easy for you this year. I have enclosed a pre-paid, pre-addressed post card with this Update. I have even printed your name and address on the reverse side of the card. All you have to do is write on the card under your name either “YES” or “NO” and drop it in the mail. If I don't receive back a post card from you, I will assume you no longer wish to receive the Updates or mailings from the Class of '62. 

 

Those on e-mail please send me a very short e-mail with either the word “YES” or “NO” to  klssas740@att.net. If I don't receive any communication from you, you will also be dropped from the list.

 

I truly hate to remove names from our list because we work very hard to add names to it. However, having a clean list is for the better. Thanks to all of you for your help with this.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

More of my own personal smiles gleaned from tee-shirts:

 

I have no idea why I'm out of bed.

I've had my coffee. You may now speak.

You had me at bacon.

Cupcakes are cheaper than therapy.

According to the BMI chart, my weight is fine...I'm just too short.

I'm perfect, you adjust.

Scientists say the universe is composed of protons, neutrons, and electrons. They forgot to mention morons. 

Everyone was thinking it. I just said it.

I meant to behave but there were too many other options.

Mr. Rogers did not adequately prepare me for the people in my neighborhood.

Nurses can't fix stupid but we can sedate it.

Wine improves with age—Iimprove with wine.

They're called “man-hours” because a woman would finish that shit in 20 minutes.

Sometimes it takes me all day to get nothing done.

My wife says I only have 2 faults—I don't listen and something else.

You know that little voice inside your head that keeps you from saying things you shouldn't? Yeah, I don't have one of those.

 

 

Laughter and love to all, karen

AUGUST 2019

Can you believe it's already August!! Seems incredulous to me. Part of that disbelief is manifested because we've had such a crappy spring and summer. We were marooned inside because of either heat, cold, fog, high humidity, wind, or torrential rain. I've had three pool all season. Oh, well, I should leave the commiseration to the farmers, whose livelihoods are truly affected by such natural phenomena. On to new news. Other than Back to School, which I doubt any of us would celebrate, I don't see any holidays to look forward to. So, let's celebrate August birthday honorees:

 

Ralph Berry, Don Burleigh. Dave Chandler, Judy Fraker Ford, Linda Gibbs Gehring, Henry Gray, John Jones, Sam Lasiter, Ellen Miller Little, Sonnie Myers Gano, Kay Selch, and Karen Wilson Brummett.

 

HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS TO EACH. BLESS YOU AS YOU BLESS OTHERS.

 

HEALTH UPDATES:

 

Don Burleigh completed his mandatory cardio classes during July. However, he is going to continue those to help him monitor his health and stay fit. Right on, Don. Congrats for the complete success of a scary situation. I know this was in large part because of your positive attitude and fortitude.

 

Don, like Stony, is in contact with some of the class guys and is good to report his findings to me for sharing. Jim Branham is undergoing a change in his meds. We all know how that can occasionally adversely impact our lives. Sure hope they get him stabilized soon. Jim (and Joyce) have struggled with his health issues for way tooooooo long. Keep fighting, folks!!

 

Don also reported that Kay Selch's bladder issues are improved since surgery. He still has pain but hopes, with time, his bladder will be operating properly. Kay, too, has suffered toooo long. He and Kim deserve some sunshine for a change.

 

At Walmart Social Center, ran into Tura Crone Lamar. She looked great. Never ages. She did share some sad news. She has learned Dwight Arthur's dementia has progressed to the point of lack of awareness and memory. Therefore, I am reluctantly removing him from snail mail. However, we can always pray for a miracle and the return to us of our Dwight.

 

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS:

 

At a Rural King register, I was surprised to stand behind our illusive class member, John Jones. He looked great. Said something about getting older. I told him I was grateful that only happened to others and not me. John is busier than ever and said he has no thought of slowing down. Wow, makes me feel old. I think about that all the time. Come see us sometime, John.

 

Stony called on his way from the course, of course. Said his shot was struggling so he went to shoot a couple of buckets to try to fix the problem. Didn't work. He and Carol walk about two miles daily. No wonder he has stamina.

 

Received several favorable comments on my Smile for the Month in July, “Parents who Drugged Us.” Glad that struck a good reaction/memory. Seems many of us received the same parenting style. Thank heavens.

 

Even heard from Ed Underly in Oregon. He commented, “Watching the youth of today, I thank my parents for every “drug” that I deserved back then. Where the future is headed scares me, and sometimes I can't wait to get the heck out of here. But, I suppose this is the way all previous generations felt about the next. Oh, well.” So true, Ed.

 

Lila Pruett White and hubby Dale are raising her two young grandsons (aged 2 and 9). She said they are using the “drug” method in their fear-and-awe-inspiring situation (my words, not hers). She asked for prayers from all that they can live long enough to get them to 18. You have my prayers, Lila.

 

Becky Pratt Bock reported in from FL to “let everyone know we are above ground and moving around-- slower than the old days but moving.” She said they had been in Indiana during June but sadly for two funerals. Had no time for visits with friends and fun. She even complained about Spring weather in FL. Guess it was nation-wide. She thanked me (as do so many) for the monthly update. Said it was their “monthly check with reality.” (Thanks to everyone who expresses their appreciation. Means more than you know.) People keep telling them they should be relocating closer, not farther, from family, but she told Frank, “when I pass away, just prop me up in the front seat, put a hot on me, and drive north--not ready to come back to cold, damp weather.” She stressed they have an extra bedroom and bath and their door is always open for old friends. “The welcome sign is out. Love to all. Becky.” Now we have no excuse not too vacation in FL.

 

Charlie Vogus and Janice went to Greenfield to see the traveling Vietnam “Wall that Heals.” He loved it and sent me wonderful photos. One was a close-up of Eddie's name. Said he took a tracing for our Class files. Thanks so much, Charlie. Sorry I missed that exhibit.

 

In some back-and-forth notes with Norris Griffin, we discussed old telephone numbers. (Shows how older minds can meander.) He remembered his four digit number. I did not. However, I have possession of, and finally found, a May, 1954, Martinsville Indiana Bell phone directory. Discovered my number was 1524. So funny to think about those times. Really get excited when I run across treasures lost in the mass of stuff I've stuffed in drawers.

 

At the last WBB, Joyce Griffin Hamilton shared that there will be a Fall Foliage Festival Fashion Show on August 24th at the Baptist Church. She and friends have accumulated, from attics and closet corners and salvage shops all over town, 60's clothing to model. (It is the 60th anniv. of the FFF.) It should bring lots of laughs from those present. Please come join us if you can. We can have a classmate table. If you happen to be harboring any '60's clothing and would share, please call Joyce at 765 318 7571. She would be thrilled to share your treasures.

 

Also heard from Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush that she had talked with Marvin Grimes. Wow, I was really glad to learn he is still young enough to ride his Harley. She had a selfie of them and he looked just as he did ten years ago. Guess all that fresh air keeps one vigorous. Hope Marvin will join us this year at the reunion. He's been missing a very long time.

 

FOR YOUR INFORMATION: Class account totals $316.59. Plenty to get through 2019. However, in January I may need to solicit a small contribution to replenish those funds. Right now, though, just want you to know we are liquid, fiscally sound, and living high on the hog.

 

JULY WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Once again a great crowd. That included Bob and Catherine Etter, Charlie Vogus, Wayne and Cindy Haase, John and Karen Stewart, Joyce Griffin Hamilton, Marty Akard Short, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Brent Boner, Tish Scherer Hartley, Harry Mcginity, Jim Brunnemer, and yours truly. You're missing a fun time if you don't attend. Please consider joining us on Monday, August 12, 10:30, at Forkey's.

 

REMINDER: Next WBB will be Monday, September 16 (not the 9th) to accommodate any who may remain after the reunion.

 

REUNION NEWS:

 

As you should already have marked on your calendar, we will meet on Saturday, September 14, 11:00 on, at Bob's home at 5009 Old Morgantown Road for our 57th reunion. If you need directions, call me at 765 315 0397. I'm assuming that by now everyone who wants to attend already knows the route.

 

Renda Trimble will cater the event and will deliver food at Noon. The menu will be a surprise, since we haven't planned it yet. Connie Etter will record the activities for posterity with Class group photo about 1:30. Booklets will once again be offered at an approximate cost of $35 or class 8x10 at about $10. Bring cash or check to prepay.

 

This year I will need $15 per person for attendance to cover food and photos. Please send those checks, payable to me, to: 740 E. Washington St., Martinsville, 46151, no later than August 31. I will need to notify Renda of headcount by September 1. If you have any questions or comments, call me at 765 315 0397. Certainly hope we have a great turnout. Remember that life is like a roll of toilet paper-- the closer we get to the end, the faster the paper disappears. I think you'll get that analogy.

 

Also, there will be no Class Update on September 1. All of that news will be included in the October Update.

 

SMILE FOR THE MONTH: (for all of us quasi-blonde folks)

 

An old, blind cowboy wanders into an all-girl biker bar by mistake. He finds his way to a bar stool and orders a shot of Jack Daniels. After sitting there for a while, he yells to the bartender, “Hey, you wanna hear a blonde joke?” The bar immediately falls absolutely silent. In a very deep, husky voice, the woman next to him says, “Before you tell that joke, cowboy, I think it is only fair, given your blindness, that you should know five things:

 

1. The bartender is a blonde girl with a baseball bat.

2. The bounder is a blonde girl with a billy-club.

3. I'm a 6-foot tall, 175 pound blonde woman with a black belt in karate.

4. The woman sitting next to me is a blonde professional weight lifter.

5. The lady to your right is blonde and a professional wrestler.

 

Now, think about it seriously, cowboy, do you still wanna tell that blonde joke?”

 

The cowboy thinks for a second, shakes his head and mutters, “Hell no….not if I'm gonna have to explain it five times.”

 

See many of you in September. Love, karen

 

MAY UPDATE - 2019

Welcome to May after the torrential April showers experienced by much of the country. Let's hope those droplets make for healthy trees and plants to beautify our world. This month we honor three very important events: Primary Election Day on the 7th, Mother's Day on the 12th, and Memorial Day on the 30th. God bless you mothers and all the Veterans. Maybe a tad less important but nonetheless worth honoring is Cinco de Mayo day on the 5th. Enjoy your favorite beverage in honor of the Class of '62. We are survivors!

 

MAY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Don Billings, Irene Cure Conte, Connie Denny Martin, Linda Sue Fisher Phillips, Oren Flake, Norris Griffin, Larry Lambert, Roy Joe McGuffey, Jim Morgan, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, and Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush. A HUGE HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF YOU. BE BLESSED AND BLESS OTHERS.

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Received a call from Judy Wolff Parret. The good news is she is driving and doing things on her own more and more. She takes several chemo pills a day which seem to be slowing her lymphoma. Her husband now works from home because Judy is his top priority. Thanks so much to him for caring for our dear friend. Judy sounds delightful when we speak, and she has her usual upbeat attitude. We all love you, Judy, and pray for continued improved health.

 

Don Burleigh is now home after his 6-hour triple bypass in early April. He sends his gratefulness to all Class friends for cards, visits, and prayers. When Linda updated me on the 26th, she said Don is really learning patience. He wants to rush to the next step in recovery which could be to his detriment. Doctor found some fluid in his chest cavity in his last visit, so they will do a needle aspiration on the 2nd of May. She said he isn't in any danger. Don walks and does limited home rehab. Chomping at the bit to get back on the golf course. They will miss the next WBB because he won't be cleared until the 13th. He needs to stay away from crowds and possible bugs while his body is compromised. Jim Brunnemer went to visit Don when he was still in the CCU. You know Jim--sweet-talked the nurse to let him in. Linda and Jim were great to let us know that Don had done very well and that he was adjusting like a champ. So many sighs of relief. Hurry back to us, Don.

 

Mike O'Neal reports his legs are better and no longer oozing water. However, his emphysema has been troublesome this Spring with all the pollen and moisture. Forces him to stay inside much more than he likes. Mike reports he is down from over 300 lbs. to 230 and feels much better. Much of that is attributed to getting his diabetes under control. Mike, like so many of us, also has a cheery attitude and refuses self-pity. 

 

Don Billings reports not much change in his health update. Still struggles with mobility and needs assistance. Don calls periodically and it is always a treat to hear from him. Just wish he were capable of coming to the 'Ville for visits. I know he would love to see all of us. Tells me how much he cares for the '62 kids (I use that term loosely). Keep improving, Don, so that wish can become reality.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Wayne and Cindy Haase are eager to complete their move back to the 'Ville. He says that thanks to keeping in touch through the Updates, he is feeling more like a part of our Class. Says he has 11 missing school years to catch up on. Wayne, we look forward to that process. You and Cindy are such a delightful addition to our little band of warriors. They plan to be living on their farm in May. Trusty helpers are working to improve the house before they arrive. I've been there and it will provide a charming home for them. I plan to visit again as soon as they are settled. Wayne commented on my commentary about wine drinking with this thought: “For my health, I've decided not to drink any more, but to maintain my sanity I've also decided not to drink any less.” We'll clink glasses when next we meet, Wayne.

 

Received a phone call on April 3 from Marvin Henderson. He had lots of news to share and I'll pass it along. He and Deanna have moved from FL to Michigan. They now live near South Haven and a couple of miles from Lake MI. Said it was beautiful country. He said they loved FL but it's not the place for them as they age and are far from family. Their son built them an apartment in his business and that is now their abode. They said it was small but all they need and comfortable. I'm glad because in 3-1/2 hours they can be in the 'Ville. He also shared that a week ago two “little old ladies” (wonder what his definition of “old” is?) broadsided them. Both he and Deanna were very bruised and banged up by the crash and the air bags but incredibly happy no one was seriously injured or worse. Being around their son's family (especially two granddaughters) is icing on the proverbial cake in their lives. Marvin asked for continued thoughts and prayers, especially for Deanna, to fully and quickly recuperate. In spite of the major changes in his life lately, he has the same loving and grateful attitude about life. 

 

Harry Maginity wrote that he and wife, Sue, have been traveling in Biloxi, New Orleans, Nachez, Vicksburg, Memphis and other points south. My favorite area of the country so I'm insanely jealous. Have a marvelous time, Harry. We'll see you upon your return.

 

Our Class Author is at it again. Jim Brunnemer was asked by his birth family—the Carpenters—to put to pen their early life story for future generations. To do this, Jim has had the wonderful opportunity to visit all living relatives in that family tree. He has three sisters still alive who have helped fill in some voids in his knowledge, being the youngest of the nine. However, over the years he has also become reacquainted with most of the other siblings, from whom he gained insight. He has completed three sections and allowed me to read those. I sincerely hope he will share the finished product with all who wish to gain an insight into the effects of early-childhood trauma in the form of psychological abuse. I can say that Jim wrote this from the deepest part of his soul and that shines through his words. The good news is he now seems to be on top of his mountain of acceptance and understanding. Keep on writing, Jim, and offer to all who care to overview your life's journey. There are so many others who will relate in some form or another.

 

SOME FOLKS CALLED TO ASK IF I SENT AN APRIL UPDATE. They eventually found them. Apparently, my mailings are being routed to their “junk files.” I'm insulted that my treatises should be considered junk. Anyway, if you don't receive a monthly report, check there.

 

57TH REUNION SEPTEMBER 14, 2019. MARK CALENDARS.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

We had a good crowd, even though some Snow Birds are still flying north. Those attending were Joyce Griffin Hamilton, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner, Bob and Catherine Etter, Don and Linda Burleigh, Tura Crone Lamar, Charlie Vogus, John and Karen Stewart, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Jim Brunnemer, Bill Fulford, Tish Scherer Hartley, and me.

 

Tish was in a cast, but I'm not sure the problem. Wonder if she and Mike have been fighting?

 

Brent Boner, who has struggled with various health issues for over a year, is seriously practicing a healthier lifestyle with diet and exercise and more rest. Says he is improving and suggests other should try it. If I did that I'd have to give up cigs and wine, so I guess my life chips will just have to fall where they may. Thanks, anyway, Brent for your advice. God bless the results for you.

 

Tura Crone Lamar returned after a long absence. She is super busy volunteering with Habitat for Humanity, church, and other community events. 

 

We all welcomed from FL John and Karen Stewart and Bob and Catherine Etter. We were also happy to welcome Joyce Hamilton's return to our group. (She is very much an adopted classmate.) She passed out pins honoring Richard's contribution to the Morgan Co. Fair and Antique Machinery Assoc. They were well received by all. Wonderful photo of a vibrant Richard on his beloved tractor when his life was carefree. Brings back so many good memories. 

 

Curt Boner had some issues after his cataract surgery. However, they “zapped” the film from around the lens and his sight is now great.

 

Join the WBB on Monday, May 13, 10:30 at Forkey's. See you then. 

 

HUMOR FOR THE MONTH: 

 

WIFE: There is trouble with the car. It has water in the carburetor.

HUSBAND: Water in the carburetor? That's ridiculous.

WIFE: I tell you the car has water in the carburetor.

HUSBAND: You don't even know what a carburetor is. I'll check it out. Where's the car?

WIFE: In the river.

 

25% of women in this country are on medication for mental illness. That's scary because it means 75% are running around untreated. 

 

I'm not sure if I washed the spider down the drain in my shower or if he took one look at me naked and leaped willingly to his death.

 

IN HONOR OF ALL MOTHERS FOR THEIR SPECIAL DAY: I was out walking with my 5-year-old daughter. She picked up something off the ground and started to put it into her mouth. I took the thing away from her and asked her not to do that. “Why?” she asked. “Because it's been on the ground, and you don't know where it's been. It's dirty and it probably has germs.” At this point, my daughter looked at me with absolute admiration and asked, “Mom, how do you know all this stuff? You are so smart.” I thought quickly and replied, “All moms know this stuff. It's on the Mom Test. You have to know it or they don't let you be a Mom.” We walked along in silence for two or three minutes, but she was obviously pondering this new information. “Oh, I get it!” she beamed. “So if you don't pass the test, you have to be the Dad.” “Exactly,” I said. 

 

Love, karen

 

MARCH UPDATE - 2019

Happy turn-the-corner-on winter in this March Update. This month we celebrate Ash Wednesday, Daylight Saving Time, St. Patrick's Day, and we officially welcome Spring. Much to look forward to. Next time I write, April showers will be bringing May flowers, and leaves, and grass. While I do enjoy the hum-drum winter months when I have no yard work beckoning me and I can unashamedly be a couch potato, by mid-March I'm ready to put that behind me and begin to get my hands dirty. The following fine folks will have another holiday in March as they clock yet another year in their life story.

 

MARCH BIRTHDAYS:

 

Karen Arnold Pottorff and DeWayne White. HAPPY, HAPPY SPECIAL DAY TO EACH OF YOU. 

 

And while we are thinking of birthdays, a huge thanks to all of you who either called, e-mailed, thought of me, or sent cards on my special February day. Bob Etter called to share a weather report from sunny and warm FL. Sounds just like him, doesn't it. Stony also called from the golf course to gloat over the 60 plus degrees and sun. He, too, can be despicable. Also heard from Judy Wolff (who graciously didn't mention her Fl weather). Also calling were Gini Fulford Watts and Don Billings, both of whom were suffering with the rest of us who stay behind. I feel very special. Thank you.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

In Stony's call, he shared that he and Carol have been to FL a couple of times thus far this winter, and he is about to embark on yet another warm weather golfing event in Whispering Pines, NC. He and some friends play 36 holes every day. His friends are ten years or so younger than him and do party some, but he said he crashed and burned at night. I'm not at all sure I believe that. Stony posted this on FB: “My wife's female intuition is so highly developed she knows I'm wrong before I even open my mouth.” Carol's got his number.

 

Heard from Bob Elliott after a long silence. He still struggles with emphysema but now is also going through skin cancer removal from his head and face. Just another medical hurdle to get across. Bob shared that Mike O'Neal's legs are filling with fluid and causing him distress. Mike also struggles with emphysema. Let's hope warmth and sun will allow both of them to feel better.

 

Judy Wolff said her numbers are still good on maintenance drugs. She sounded great, which supported what she reported earlier. It was terrific to learn she and Jeff are planning to attend our 57th reunion on September 14. 

 

Gini Fulford Watts, like so very many 'Ville residents, was recovering from a respiratory infection. I also had it and don't remember when I was more miserable. We mostly moaned and groaned about our symptoms. It was good to have someone with whom to share that type of thing. Most folks don't want to hear about it. 

 

Mary Frances (Pope) and Curt Boner celebrated their 55th anniversary in February. What a marvelous milestone for this loving couple. They make marriage look so easy. Congrats.

 

Wayne Haase wrote that he and Cindy are fully moved from Massachusetts to New Hampshire. He sent a photo of his back yard where three large moose were grazing. That would be a thrill. On the other hand, a black bear destroyed the umbrella on their hot tub, and coyotes are so prevalent they can't let pets outside unattended. That type of occurrence might deter me from enjoying life in the wild. However, they obviously enjoy it because they stay in the area. I believe their children have a lot to do with that decision. He did share, though, that he and Cindy will be back to the 'Ville for an extended stay in late summer. They own a farm just outside of town and love to come home in the summer. I've visited and it is an idyllic place. It will be good to have them close for the summer months. They are truly nice folks, but, then, he was raised here so what else would they be. 

 

Jo Nutter Lasiter wrote that she recently attended an art show of Jenness Cortez paintings in Naples. Unfortunately, Jenness wasn't at the show but Jo left a note and her number. Jenness called and they had a marvelous catch-up phone call. If any of you in FL are around Naples, her show will be at Harmon-Meek Gallery through March 8. I know she would welcome a visit. Wish it were possible for Jenness to come visit with all of us this year. If you follow her on Facebook, you can see that she has aged very well. Her artwork is truly superb and many prominent names own her paintings. Jo says she is delightful and hasn't changed much over the years.

 

Steve McIlwain, our class barrister, sent me an interesting e-mail in response to my disclosure of jury duty. He was stressing the importance of each citizen serving when called as a basic civic duty. I couldn't agree more. I was one of 80 other prospective jurors. Shockingly, I was chosen for the jury. It was a murder trial and the defendant was representing himself. Having many years as legal secretary/paralegal, I thought of the old adage that a man who represents himself has a fool for a client. In this case that was certainly true. The entire procedure was enlightening and I felt good about participating. Having watched every NCIS, CSE, FBI, and forensic show on TV, I felt fully prepared to serve. However, this trial was nothing like TV shows. No high tech devices or tricky cross-examinations. Actually, pretty cut-and-dried. We found him guilty without all the accoutrements of crime solving. Common sense goes a long way. 

 

Harry Maginity reminded me in an e-mail on Feb. 1 that he was just 22 days away from retirement. By now, he is probably fully acclimated to his new lifestyle. We kept telling him at our WBB sessions that he would love it. Can't wait to talk to him again as a retired senior citizen.

 

Treasury Update: I recently withdrew $200 as reimbursement for expenses from October 2018 through March 2019. We are still solvent with a balance of $450. 

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

I missed the February session because of jury duty. Bless Mary Boner's heart for sending me a list of attendees. Big group with some special guests. Bummer that I missed it. Those attending:

 

Curt, Mary and Brent Boner, Marty Akard Short, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Tura Crone Lamar, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Bill Fulford, Charles Vogus, Harry Maginity, Jim Brunnemer, John Stewart, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Steve Koons and his sister. Apparently, he made an unexpected trip to the 'Ville and surprised us. Marty also was welcomed as a long-absent attendee. John Stewart is back from FL early ostensibly for business and checked in to make sure we were all behaving. I think he missed us. I'm truly sorry I missed everyone. Hope our March 11 WBB will be as well attended.

 

Those attending signed a birthday card for me. It is so great to have such wonderful friends.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

I changed my car horn to gunshot sounds. People get out of the way much faster now.

 

Gone are the days when girls used to cook like their mothers. Now they drink like their fathers.

 

I didn't make it to the gym today. That makes five years in a row.

 

I decided to stop calling the bathroom the “John” and renamed it the “Jim.” I feel so much better saying I went to the Jim this morning.

 

The biggest lie I tell myself is, “I don't need to write that down, I'll remember it.”

 

If God wanted me to touch my toes, He would've put them on my knees.

 

Why do I have to press one for English when you're just going to transfer me to someone I can't understand anyway?

 

 

 

FEBRUARY UPDATE - 2019

 

Happy middle-of-winter February Class update. Next month I can joyfully state ending-of-winter update. This month we celebrate Lincoln's birthday (12th), Valentine's Day (14th), and Presidents' Day (18th). Those holidays are celebrated along with our own large group of February celebrants:

 

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Nancy Alexander Foley, Dwight Arthur, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Janet Sue Brummett Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Billy Jo Craven, Frank Ennis, Bob Etter, Terry Fleener, **Steve Koons, Kathryn Sue Mason Hill, Marcia Murphy Bolin, Stony Pearcy, Gary Stafford, Susan Traylor Fox, Judy Wolff Parretts, Ruth Woolbright Dunigan, and yours truly. 

(**Steve doesn't really get a birthday this year because there is no 29th in the month. He just gets younger and younger than us every four years.) 

 

What an illustrious group to represent the Class of '62. Happiest of birthdays to each. Be blessed until our next one.

 

CLASSMATE DEATHS:

 

I apologize if some of this information is confusing. When we have a classmate death mid-month, I send out a blast on e-mail. I try to remember to include the same info for snail-mail folks in the next update. I just hope I remember correctly who has and has not received information.

 

Those of you on snail mail need to know that we have now lost Camden Hacker. Cam was connected with us until two years ago on e-mail. However, because of blindness, he could no longer use e-mail, so his daughter asked that I send snail-mail to her so she could read them to him. He still cared greatly about his '62 Class friends. So very sorry Cam finally succumbed to the ravaging effects of dementia and other ailments. He was preceded in death by his nephew and our classmate, Kenny Hacker. A memorial bouquet was sent to accompany his final journey. Cam was the 76th Class of '62 loss. Cam's wife and daughters have asked to remain connected through e-mail because they care about Cam's loving connection with us. They sent a lovely thank-you note for the arrangement and commented Cam would have loved that gesture. God bless Cam's family in this loss. (Lynn, please confirm you are still receiving these e-mail missives. I will send snail-mail if preferred if you will furnish a proper address.)

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY LOSS:

 

Rick Blunk quite unexpectedly lost his younger brother, Shannon Stanger, during January. This follows the death of Rick's mother, father and brother within the last few years. That is quite enough to endure. Shannon was a 1971 MHS graduate and is survived by a wife, two daughters and two sons. He is also survived by Rick and another brother and sister. God bless you Rick and family. 

 

Judy Wolff Parretts also suffered a family loss during January. Thanks to Bill Fulford for calling my attention to the obituary of her brother, Mike, in the Indy Star. I know Judy and Mike were very close and he will be terribly missed. They both lived around Port St. Lucie. I know Mike has been support for Judy during her recent struggle with medical issues. Mike was an active real estate developer whose name is associated with, among many other parcels, Park Fletcher in Indy, and Prestwick and Fox Cliff golf courses. Mike leaves behind his sister, Judy, and brother, JL, along with wife and offspring. God bless Judy and family in this time of loss.

 

I look forward to receiving some “good news” from you folks to share next month. Lately seems all I can report are medical issues and death. We need more laughter.

 

That comment leads into the next section--

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Judy Wolff Parrets sent a newsy note the end of December stating she was critically ill during October. (Glad I didn't know that until after the good news, Judy.) She surprised everyone with her recovery. You go girl!! You probably remember Judy suffers with mantle cell non-Hodgkin lymphoma. However, her good news was her blood work is now normal. She is still on a maintenance program but she “is thrilled to be alive and enjoying her life with her loving husband, Jeff.” I ended up with an extra 8x10 of the 56th Class reunion and sent it to Judy. She said, “I loved the picture. We are all beginning to look alike.” Yes, Judy, we are, and I'm sure everyone reading this is as proud as I of the wrinkles, sagging everything, and gray hairs we are still allowed to present to the world. We are a noble and strong bunch. Keep your good notes coming, Judy. We all care very much.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Received a nice note from Liz Brummett Peterson acknowledging receipt of her 8x10 and album and enclosing a snail mail contribution. Thank you very much, Liz. Liz is already looking forward to our 57th reunion. Remember, all, that will be September 14th

 

Opening my door this past week presented a surprise appearance by John Stewart. His early-to-Indiana arrival was ostensibly because of business, but personally I think John just can't stay away from the 'Ville and all his great friends. He likes FL for a few weeks at a time but expressed nostalgia for being known by all he encounters “at home” and staying abreast of local happenings. Either way, John, we are glad you have rejoined us and hope for your appearance at the next Wild Bunch Brunch. You will, however, receive cultural shock with our weather. Dress warmly.

 

Also was shocked to answer the phone one morning and have the caller introduce himself as Don Donoho. I know I haven't personally heard his voice in 56 years. (He always was very soft-spoken and shy.) He told me he seldom talks on the phone, which made me doubly proud that he chose to make me one of his conversations. Don was seeking any info I could share on contacting Dick Reasoner. I did the best I could do to put them in contact, but a follow-up call from Janet indicted Dick wasn't answering at the phone number provided by Dick Elmore and me. Even though he still has an address in Indy, I strongly suspect he is in FL somewhere. During our call, Don said he has survived sepsis, double pneumonia, double knee replacement, diabetes, and hip surgery. He is truly our bionic man. Another of the strong Class of '62 members who will not admit defeat. Thanks for the contact, Don and Janet. It's always a pleasure.

 

Also received Jim Brunnemer's 2018 After-Holidays news letter. It is so filled with activities he and his family shared during the year that room won't permit inclusion here. Perhaps Jim could send it to our e-mail contact list for everyone to share—if he hasn't already. One notable tidbit was that he has replaced his much loved Goldwing motorcycle (which was left out west after his accident) with a safer 2007 Ford Mustang convertible. No more motorcycles, Jim, please. Can't wait to see the convertible. Jim and Lu are still happy members of the Brown County community. Thankfully, that is close to the 'Ville and allows us to enjoy their company on occasion.

 

Last but not least tidbit—Joyce Griffin Hamilton sent the Class a very thoughtful thank-you note for our support during Richard's trials and tribulations. She wrote, “Thank the classmates for their valued friendship for so many years.” She also would like to remain attached by our electronic umbilical cord. She was admitted to the Class years ago when she was tagging along with Richard, only to become a full-fledged adopted classmate in her own right. God bless Joyce as she learns to maneuver through life without her soul-mate.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

A surprisingly large group at January's festivities. Those attending were Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Bob and Catherine Etter, Sonnie Myers Gano, Mary, Curt and Brent Boner, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Bill Fulford, Tura Crone Lamar, Jim Brunnemer, Harry Joe Mcginity, and surprise guest DeeAnn Evans Little. Everyone was upbeat and, as usual, shared many giggles and smiles. Next chance to enjoy the fine Class of '62 members will be February 11, 10:30, Forkeys. Please join our group. 

 

(I just learned today that, for the first time in 75 years of county residency, Morgan County commands my appearance for jury voir dire. That day, Feb. 11, is my first appearance for questioning. I didn't think my pleas to forgo this obligation because of a monthly social function would be kindly received, so for once I kept my mouth shut. Therefore, I will miss this auspicious occasion and ask anyone attending to send me a list of attendees. Thanks.) 

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (Let's all laugh at ourselves.)

 

There are a few Important Facts To Remember As we Age:

 

At the root of every gray hair there is a dead brain cell. Explains a lot. (Thanks!) 

 

Kidnappers are not very interested in you, and in a hostage situation, you are likely to be first released.

 

Health nuts are going to feel stupid someday lying in the hospital dying of nothing.

 

There is nothing left to learn the hard way.

 

Things you buy now will never wear out.

 

You can live without sex but not your glasses.

 

Your secrets are safe with friends because they can't remember them either.

 

My personal favorite—Never, Never, Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night!!

 

Love to all,

 

karen

 

January 2019 Update

 

This is late because I have had no e-mail for three weeks. Sorry it's late.

 

Hello January 2019 and the beginning of what we hope will be a terrific year for all humankind. I sincerely hope each of you had a great holiday season and that your nerves and bank account aren't suffering. I enjoy the holidays in good part because of contact with many of you through various mediums, and, of course, my family togetherness. 

 

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Marty Akard Short, Gini Fulford Watts, Judy Hacker Fraker, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Frances Hatley Fisher, Diana Hatter Tolley, Connie Shields Lowry, John Stewart, and Wayne Haase.

 

WE ALL WISH EACH OF YOU A VERY SPECIAL DAY AND YEAR FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY!!

 

DEATH OF A CLASSMATE:

 

Snail mail folks won't get this note because their letters were mailed before the fact. I am devastated that I have to report yet another classmate death—Camden Hacker. He passed on December from a long-term medical problem. Cam was connected with us until two years ago. Because of blindness, he could no longer read the Updates. He asked me to send the Updates to his daughter and she would read them to him because he still cared about his '62 friends. A year ago she wrote to say his dementia prevented him from understanding the contents of the Updates so I should cease the contact. So very sorry he was finally overcome by a failing body. Cam was survived by two daughters and five siblings. He was preceded in death by his nephew and our classmate, Kenny Hacker. A memorial bouquet was sent to accompany his final journey. This makes 76 losses to date and five during 2018. Let's all fervently pray 2019 will bring no more departures from '62 classmates. God bless Cam and his family.

 

This next section is for snail-mail folks. If you are e-mail, you already know all of this info and can skip to the next section.

 

We lost our class Energizer Bunny, Richard Hamilton, on December 16, 2018, after years of uphill health battles. Most of you probably know of his health issues even if you didn't have the opportunity to visit with Richard over the years. He fought a valiant battle. Richard leaves his wife of 52 years (and our adopted classmate) Joyce Griffin Hamilton, a daughter Becky and son Tyler, and several grandchildren, all of whom adored him. Each of them spent innumerable time and energy making Richard's life bearable during his ailments. I hope each of you will access the website of Neal & Summers Mortuary to read Richard's obituary. You will be extremely proud to call him our classmate. “Passionate volunteer” was his middle name, especially to Morgan County Fair activities and the Antique Tractor/Machinery Association. Richard was a farmer at heart and just worked at other activities to pay the bills. 

 

He and Joyce planned his funeral during the last two weeks of his life. Never before would he entertain that conversation with Joyce. Apparently, however, he had a sense this time he wasn't going over the top of this medical hill. The memorial they planned was so very Richard and was heartwarming. His casket was loaded into an old open farm wagon, pulled by a classic International Harvester tractor, followed by five other tractors, and probably 40 cars to his resting place. Our own Nick Zoller drove one of the tractors. A very solemn procession. Connie Etter videotaped the procession and I sent it to e-mail folks. If any of you on snail mail have a way to view the video, just furnish me an e-mail address (klssas740@att.net) and I'll forward. (I am very proud to relay that Richard's final ride was in a wagon owned by my grandparents (circa 1940's) and later my parents which my siblings and I refurbished and donated to the Morgan County Antique Machinery Assoc. That it was used in such an honorable way sincerely touches the emotions of the Lesser family. Thank you, Joyce and Richard.)

 

Several hundred people, many of whom were classmates, paid their respects calling on Richard at home or in the hospital during hospice, during calling and/or funeral, and memorial banquet after the service. Joyce was overwhelmed with love and support for Richard and her. She said she was thankful they had the last two weeks together 24/7 to say all the things that sometimes we forget to say during hectic lives. They have no regrets that words or feelings were left unspoken. We should all be so lucky.

 

Richard was No. 75 on my Deceased Classmates list. As I look over that document, I noted we are averaging five such solemn occasions a year. I don't mean to be morbid, but I am constantly reminded to cherish friendships daily in case we aren't given another dawn. God bless Joyce and family as they learn how to exist without their lynchpin.

 

CLASS PHOTOS:

 

All albums and 8x10s have now been mailed. If you paid for one or the other and haven't received it, please contact me at 765 315 0397. I will immediately rectify that omission. Also, if you now believe you want a 56th reunion album for $34 or 8x10 for $10, let me know that also BEFORE JANUARY 10. Connie will send in one more order for any stragglers.

 

Eddie Underly received his photo and wrote how much he enjoyed it. I helped him put faces with names, and he said he remembered all except a couple. He said the photo brought all of them from a picture to life in his minds-eye. So very glad you enjoyed it, Eddie, and are still connected.

 

CHRISTMAS GREETINGS:

 

I received many cards, gifts, visits, letters, and e-mails with Christmas wishes. Makes me feel very special. Thanks so much to each of you who gifted me with your friendship. It makes the season all the brighter.

 

Received a newsy letter from Linda Fisher Phillips reporting she and Gordon proudly claim six great-grandchildren and they don't see an end in sight. What a blessing. Great to hear life is good for Linda and her large family.

 

Also had a visit with Karen Arnold Pottorff. She mentioned her Aunt Naomi Arnold, who will be 97 next month. She said the Green Township kids would remember her and Uncle Howard, who drove their bus for many years. Their son was Skip Arnold, a year or two older than us, but I remember him well. She also revealed that after the loss of her beloved dog a few months ago, she took the plunge and adopted a rescue Pomeranian. It was not very socialized but is coming around to love and attention. She was almost giddy talking of it. Dogs are family. I know. Maya is my second daughter.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

We actually had a larger crowd in December than expected in view of the Snow Bird Exodus. Those attending were Austin and Chyrel Gray, Bill Fulford, Bob and Catherine Etter, Charlie Vogus, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Don and Linda Burleigh, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Brent Boner, Curt and Mary Pope Boner, Tish Scherer Hartley, Jim Brunnemer, Harry McGinity, Sonnie Gano, and me. A good time was had by all. Next chance to enjoy the company of stimulating and beautiful people from the MHS Class of '62 is Monday, January 14, 10:30, Forkey's. Join us, even though I know of several who will be in warmer weather on that date. Cowards!!

 

ADDITION TO CLASS DISTRIBUTION:

 

While attending the WBB in December, all present were surprised to see Carol Stewart Davis walk through the door. Everyone went over and hugged her and had a brief catch-up talk. We encouraged her to join the WBB on a monthly basis. We also forced her to share her address so we could add her to snail mail. I told her if she didn't want to read it, she could deposit in the junk file and we would never know, but we at least wanted to expose her to all of us after so many years. Welcome aboard, Carol. We truly are a great group.

 

MISCELLANEOUS HEALTH UPDATES:

 

Ginny Toon Woodall is once again facing cancer treatments. Doctors have diagnosed Stage 3 diffuse large B-cell lymphoma. This requires six chemo treatments, assuming her body can adjust to that. Apparently this is an aggressive treatment. As always, Ginny's attitude amazes me. She said: “This is just another of life's storms to make me strong. When those come, you prepare for a hurricane and pray that it is only a spring shower. Most of all I am very thankful God is in control and I am sheltered safe within His arms. Love all u-guys.” God bless you, Ginny, in your journey. We all love you, too.

 

Kay Selch is now at The Springs in Mooresville doing rehab. His legs are doing well if they could defeat the infection. He is on a wound vac and IV antibiotics. His kidneys still aren't where they need to be but are improving greatly. His wife, Kim, is cautiously optimistic he will come home soon with antibiotics and regular doctor visits to keep him on track. Don Burleigh keeps in contact with Kim and he is terrific to relay all updates. Kay, we really hope that very soon we receive great news from Kim. We want you back with our group. God bless.

 

Irene Cure Conte reports she and Rich are doing a little better. They both have struggled during the year and could use improved health during this New Year. Keep us advised, 'Rene. 

 

Also talked with Don Billings who is still at home with the help of visiting nurses. He still has hopes he will regain mobility so he can participate with us at events. Is working with the VA on therapy. He still keeps an uplifting approach to his medical issues. Don, we are all pulling for your recovery. 

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

 

Steve Hiatt wrote he and Diane were coming to IN during December. I told him it was warming up here but not by FL standards. They were rushed this visit with family activities but promised that next time he would allow time for a 'Ville visit with old buddies. We will hold you to that, Steve. He also provided our Smiles for the Month included in this Update. Thanks, Steve, for sharing laughter.

 

A friend in FL, unrelated to the class but familiar with Sam Lasiter, sent me a photo she found while cleaning out drawers. I wish I had the ability to share it here. It is of a much younger and skinnier Sam, bare chested, holding a humongous snapping turtle by the tail. She had taken the photo while visiting Sam and Jo on their farm back in the sixties. Sam, you haven't changed one bit. I'd know you anywhere.

 

Received a surprise and pleasant call from Wayne and Cindy Haase, who are visiting for a week or so. They were hoping the WBB might be in session in the next week. I told them not until January 14, but I would love to share a meal and catch-up before they return. I will report in the February Update of our visit and of their lifestyle.

 

Good news to report. Received word from Canada during December that our own Gracie Cooper Beattie is still alive. She used to communicate with us via mail. Then her husband told me she had dementia, could no longer understand my news or know those mentioned, and that I should remove her from our distribution. After so long, I always assumed she had passed and he forgot to tell me. Well, turns out her husband died and Gracie's daughter sent me his obituary through FaceBook. I wrote back inquiring of Gracie's condition. She said Grace was still in a nursing facility and had lost all touch with reality. Bob visited her daily, fed her and read from the Bible. I asked her to keep us advised of Grace's condition. However, it was great to learn that, at the very least, Grace has not left us. God bless her.

 

Got a nice card and note from Janet (Elmore) and Don Donoho in CA. They are good and wished all of you Seasons Greetings. They also included a contribution to the treasury. Thanks so much for the note and money, Don and Janet. It's always great to hear from you. Next time, share some details about your lifestyles. 

 

As of this writing, there are 111 classmates connected via snail or e-mail. Pretty remarkable considering 56 years have passed since we left the honored halls of MHS. Makes me proud. 

 

I know it's early, but mark your calendars for SEPTEMBER 14, 2019, as the date for our 57th reunion. Believe it or not, that will be here in the blink of an eye, so marking our calendars is a good idea. Bob and Catherine, please keep your facility available on that date if possible--that is, if we haven't worn our welcome out with rowdy and raucous behavior. 

 

END-OF-YEAR FINANCIAL REPORT:

 

Thanks to the generosity of a classmate (Austin Gray), Richard's funeral spray was paid for. That left that expense money in our account. We began the year with $820.57. There are too many expenses to itemize in this Update, but I have records should anyone want a detailed accounting. Those expenses consisted of reunion, postage, supplies (paper, envelopes, labels, ribbons), and funeral memorials. This year the memorials totaled $107. Even though we had four deaths, two of those had no service and no offspring to which our remembrance could be sent. That leaves $664.76 in the account. That is more than enough for our expenses for the year, we hope.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (compliments of Steve Hiatt)

 

OLD IS WHEN …. 

 

your sweetie says, “Let's go upstairs and make love,” and you answer, “Pick one, I can't do both.”

 

your friends compliment you on your new alligator shoes and you're barefooted.

 

a sexy babe or hunk catches your fancy...and your pacemaker opens the garage door.

 

you don't care where your spouse goes, just so long as you don't have to go along.

 

getting lucky means you find your car in the parking lot.

 

an “all-nighter” means not getting up to use the bathroom.

 

you can't walk past a bathroom without thinking, “I might as well pee while I'm here.”

 

sometimes you laugh so hard the tears run down your leg.

 

LOVE TO ALL AND HAPPY NEW YEAR ------ karen

 

 

DECEMBER 2018 Update

 

WOW, it's already Christmas and New Year. I'm sure all of you realize how fast time is going. Let's all hope our little Band of Brothers/Sisters is granted the privilege of sharing 2019 together. This month I wish you all Happy Hanukkah, Pearl Harbor Day (1941), First Day of Winter, anniversary of Battle of the Bulge (1944), Christmas Day and New Years Eve. May God bless us and the USA in far greater portion than we deserve. And let me be the first to wish you HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

(This December Update will arrive early. I plan to be out-of-state on December 1--my regular mailing date.)

DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Dee Ann Evans Little, Russ Knapp, and Sue Weddle Myers. You are a small but mighty little army. Have a blessed special day and year. 

CLASSMATE DEATH:

For those of you on snail mail, you may not know we lost yet another Class friend—Carol Schell Maxwell. Carol had lived at The Waters for a couple of years and struggled with some form of dementia. Carol is survived by a daughter and son, as well as a brother and four sisters. Our Class floral tribute accompanied Carol during her memorial service and on her last journey. I'm certain you all remember Carol for her humor and laughter. She was a role model for making lemonade out of lemons. This represents our third Class death during 2018 and the 74th overall (to the best of our knowledge but I suspect that number should be much greater). God bless Carol and family.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Received a call from Judy Wolff Parret in FL. Disturbingly, she reported just completing a five-week hospitalization, returning home on Nov. 7 with oxygen and extra help. The bone cancer she is dealing with took over her kidneys requiring further treatment. When we spoke, she weighed 131 (she is gaining) and her numbers were improving. While I was devastated about her news, I was nevertheless happy to learn of her upbeat attitude and improvement. Add Judy to our long list of prayer requests during the next months. Judy, please send me updates so I can report to all your Class of '62 friends.

Gary Stafford called to report his wife and adopted classmate, Sarah, just had open heart surgery and rehab for a heart attack. They repaired a valve and she is improving. They might go to FL after Christmas if her health allows. Knowing Sarah's fortitude and attitude, they will make that trip. Gary bemoaned the fact she needs to hurry wellness because he has to brew and pour his own coffee and put on his own socks. He said it is imperative she pull through this because he has to get to the Pearly Gates before her or she will not allow him to enter. No matter what, Gary always maintains his sense of humor. Keep me posted, please, Gary. God bless Sarah (and poor Gary).

Our own Kay Selch suffered a setback from his knee surgery. He developed an infection which required another surgery and more rehab causing his hospitalization as I write. Don Burleigh has been marvelous to pass along info from Kay's wife and adopted classmate, Kim, so I can give this updated report. I know we all hope Kay gets home for the holidays in much better health. Another Class friend to add to our prayer and thought list. God bless you Kay and Kim.

Virginia Toon Woodall struggles yet again with her lymphoma. Facing lots of testing in preparation for further chemo. They won't decide on future course of action until early January. Ginny, like every Class friend with whom I speak, is always sharing humor and a positive attitude. This is a tough group!! I hope to share very good news early next year. God bless you, Ginny. 

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

Stony and Carol plan to escape to The Villages in FL in December to visit friends for three weeks. Stony plans many hours in shorts on the golf course. 

Had my monthly visit with Joyce and Jim Branham during November at Walmart. Jim is still undergoing blood treatment but forbid me to talk about his health. His comment was, “there are others far worse off than he is and wants me to report on them instead.” I told him every one, no matter the issues, needs thoughts and prayers from friends, but I would honor his request not to discuss his health status. Regardless, at least we can think about and pray for Jim and Joyce (Bowman), as well as all others mentioned or not.

Sent another note to Connie Etter inquiring about status of our reunion album. I certainly hope I can mail to purchasers during December. It will provide lots of laughs at family gatherings. I'll continue to monitor progress.

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Because of an unavoidable conflict, I could not attend the November WBB. So, Linda Burleigh informed me of happenings. She reported those attending were Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Brent Boner, Charles Vogus, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Austin and Chryl Gray, Bob and Catherine Etter, Jim Brunnemer, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Don and Linda Burleigh. For cold weather that's a respectable group. I hope to visit with many folks on Monday, December 10, 10:30, Forkey's. 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (provided by our Class winemaker, Stony)

Lord, give me coffee to change the things I can change and wine to accept the things I can't. 

I don't drink alcohol. I drink distilled spirits. So, I'm not an alcoholic...I'm spiritual.

I've got salad for dinner. Actually, fruit salad. Well, mostly grapes. OK, all fermented grapes. 

Sometimes when I reflect on the wine I drink I feel shame. Then, I look into the glass and think about the workers in the vineyards and of their hopes and dreams. If I don't drink this wine, they can't work and their dreams will be shattered. Then, I say to myself, better that I drink this wine and allow their dreams to come true than be selfish and worry about my liver. (I vote for this one, Stony.)

I only drink a little, but when I do, I turn into another person, and that person drinks a lot.

Did you know that 2 or 3 glasses of wine per day can reduce your risk of giving a shit.

Dear alcohol: We had a deal that you would make me prettier, funnier, and a better dancer. OK, I saw the video—we need to talk.

Love to all, karen

 

NOVEMBER 2018 Update

 

Happy November, dear friends. Everyone enjoy this last month before the dreaded “W” word. Also, be sure to turn clocks back on the 4th, vote on Election Day (the 6th), honor our saviors on Veterans Day (the 11th), and give thanks on Thanksgiving Day (the 22nd). I hope for all of you that this month will be superb in your lives. 

 

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

 

HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS TO—Mark Cohen, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Barbara Hicks Richardson, Larry Martin, Johnny Russell, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Charlie Vogus, Richard Walters, and Danny St. John. 

 

BLESS EACH OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY!!

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Early Oct. I heard from Terry Buster that Dwight Arthur was in a nursing home. I immediately sent Dwight a letter asking if I should change his address on snail mail. Thereafter, Dwight's sister called to ask we forward monthly Update to him at Grandview Nursing Center. She confirmed what I had heard that he has been there about three months and is experiencing early-onset dementia. Who doesn't have that ailment to some degree?? She said he still enjoys receiving our class news, and I promised he wouldn't miss any editions. Welcome, Dwight, from your new digs. Grandview's address is 1959 E. Columbus St. She said he still knows most people, even though he may not remember your visit when you leave, but that he would WELCOME visits and notes from friends. I hope to get down there soon for a visit. Bless you, Dwight.

 

Extremely sorry to report Johnny Russell is also in the valley of medical issues. When I inquired of him personally, he said I could share vague details but didn't want the point elaborated upon because he likes his privacy. He has been diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis. He said this is what Don Cragen struggled through. Johnny also divulged he has had two hip replacements. Johnny's private nature prevented any of us from knowing of his issues. At his request, enough said. John's e-mail address is johnr6776@att.net if you have time to send your love and concern. Private or not, I know folks enjoy knowing others share and care about this life's journey with them. Keep the faith, John, but please don't let your introverted nature (self-diagnosed) keep you from contact with your '62 classmates who love and care for you.

 

Visited with Richard Hamilton a couple weeks ago. He is busy with rehab in-home and building muscle strength. Richard's attitude is great. He tries hard through pain to regain some mobility. Bless him and Joyce as they keep on keeping on. He was crushed that he couldn't attend the 56th reunion in Sept. I don't think he has ever missed such an event. He was sorely missed.

 

CLASSMATE BEREAVEMENT:

 

In mid-Oct. Rick Blunk lost his step-father, Adrian Stanger. Adrian was as much a father to Rick as his biological father could have been (killed in WW II). Even though he was 96 and had good health most of that time, it's still tough to overcome the death of a parent. I visited with and hugged Rick and Marcia at the calling. I guess that is the rainbow in visiting a funeral home. Bless Rick and his family as they accept this new way of life.

 

Many of you will remember Stacy Shireman. Stacy dropped from school after our junior year because his mental problems got in the way of schooling. Remember, back then there were no “special classes” for “special” people. Any way, Stacy was living in a home in Franklin at the time of his death at 74 years of age. I remember Stacy very well and just wish I had been more aware of the trials he faced. Actually, I feel that way about so many in our class when they share the tribulations of the years they walked the MHS halls with us as a group. I regret I was so wrapped up in my little world that I didn't do more to walk in the shoes of others. Believe me, I am convicted by that thought and try every way possible to ameliorate my guilt. His sister, Sandy Coffey, told me Stacy always had a crush on me. I was too blind to see and feel horrible that I didn't acknowledge his feelings. After reading Stacy's obit in the paper, Mike O'Neal called to make sure I had seen it (I always appreciate help with class news so I don't miss something). He shared his memories of playing ball with Stacy in middle school and what a gentle person he was. Anyway, let's all remember Stacy and say a prayer for his safe passage to a happier life.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NEWS:

 

I noticed a dialogue between Richard Young (from FL) and several local friends about a photo posted of his mother. I remember her so very well. She could have been a movie queen. Anyway, by way of that FB interchange Richard wrote that they just sold their home in Spring Hill and were moving to Savannah, GA. That was a bit of a surprise, but he commented they may yet move further north. You're welcome back HOME anytime, Richard. Thanks so much for the update.

 

Was privileged to attend Ruth Rusie's 100th birthday party in Oct. She was absolutely stunning and brighter than most who talked with her. Remembered names and faces of many who had walked her path years ago. What an elegant and vibrant soul. Especially enjoyed hugging Cuz Jim and Becky. They were extremely proud of Ruth's accomplishments for mankind and of the 'Ville for taking time to let her know that. Wish each of you could have hugged her. Such a matriarch for all of us.

 

Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush have decided not to be Snow Birds this winter. Three of their grandchildren are marrying this winter and their youngest is a senior at MHS and on the basketball team. They may find a few weeks to visit FL later in the winter, but either way they are comfortable with their decision to withstand the cold weather with those of us who stay behind. We are thrilled to have you, Sharon. Family takes precedence over all else.

 

Wayne Haase wrote he and Cindy have been swamped moving from “Taxachusetts” to New Hampshire, which has prevented their usual summer visit to the 'Ville. Hurry back for a luncheon and hug-fest soon, folks.

 

CLASS REUNION ALBUM:

 

Connie and I met last week to do final layout of album for 2018. She promised you would each have one by end of November. She is incredibly busy with senior class photos for various county high schools and apologized the albums are a bit later than she would want. I assured her we could wait patiently to see a bunch of old people making fools of themselves. If any of you still want to order an album at a cost of $35, please call me at 765 315 0397 or write klssas740@att.net. Once they are in production, she can't order.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH: (lovingly referred to as the WBB)

 

Those attending in October were: John and Karen Stewart (left for FL mid-Oct.), Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Bill Fulford, Harry Maginity, Brent Boner, Bob Etter, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Jim Brunnemer, Carol Dow Teague, and me, with a short visit with Tish Scherer Hartley. A good time was had by all. Several asked me, again, why Tura Crone Lamar and Marty Akard Short had deserted our little group without a word. I vowed and promised to try to elicit an answer from them before this Update. My promise fulfilled, here are their verbatim responses:

 

Tura – “I forget about WBB until it is over but will try and put it on my calendar for Nov. I had a meeting out of town on reunion day and also a special birthday party. Hope to see you in Nov.”

 

Marty – “I have been extremely busy. Donald called and needed me at the White House asap. I was there for two months advising him on some very classified stuff. Then I was called to California because Tiger needed a golf partner in a very high profile match. Next, the Governor of IN needed some advice on remodeling the Governor's Mansion. What's a girl to do! I will try to clear my schedule for the next breakfast because I can see how much I am missed.”

 

Personally, I am inclined to give Tura an acceptable pass for her absences. However, Marty's explanation smells a bit fishy. I'll let the rest of you decide whether she gets an excused slip.

 

Next session of WBB will be Monday, Nov. 12. Hope you can join the group.

 

SMILE FOR THE MONTH: (provided by Johnny Russell)

 

MARINE CORPS EXERCISE REGIMEN FOR PEOPLE OVER 70

 

OCTOBER 2018 Update

Happy October Halloween. On my block that means welcoming about 650 Trick-or-Treaters with one piece of candy, lest I overspend my SS check. We do have a wonderful time, though!

 

BIRTHDAY ACKNOWLEDGMENTS:

 

My sincerest apologies to all our September honorees. Because we didn't have an official September Update, you folks were slid into a drawer and not honored (and this was big group, too). But, it's never too late for a belated wish and blessing. Here's your official belated Class wish:

 

SEPTEMBER HONOREES:

 

Ron Asher, Brent Boner, Joyce Bowman Branham, Carol Dow Teague, Janet Elmore Donoho, Joy Favour Greenwalt, Judy Garrett Knose, Austin Gray, Marvin Grimes, Steve McIlwain, Jo Nutter Lasiter, Bob Riffel, Chuck Ritter, Virginia Toon Woodall, Karen Wampler, and Nick Zoller. 

 

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF YOU.

 

OCTOBER HONOREES:

 

Lorraine Dunn Richardson, Richard Hamilton, Beverly Parker Smith, Becky Pratt Bock, Glenn Sheeks, Pat Sunderman Haskett, and Harry Maginity.

 

HAPPY CURRENT BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF YOU. 

 

MAY EVERY ONE OF YOU ENJOY A BLESSED YEAR. 

 

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

 

Extremely pleased to report Karen Stewart's cancer is in remission, so they are off to FL in mid-Oct. She now only needs re-checks every six months. John is doing very well, except, unfortunately, on reunion day he was under the weather and couldn't join us. Sorry, John. Congrats, Karen.

 

Bill Fulford stopped by to leave his reunion check and told of the recent excitement in his life. Seems he was followed and pulled over by local police because someone reported he was driving erratically. Long story short, they don't know what happened to cause his extreme confusion and loss of some mental faculties and motor functions. He is now and continues to be treated to discover what is going on. However, when we talked at the reunion, I noticed no issues with him. He has been cleared for all the serious possible causes and is hoping it turns out to be some innocuous issue with no residual effects or repeat performances. Bill has had his share of medical issues the past year and deserves a hiatus from doctors and hospitals.

 

Virginia Toon Woodall wrote that she had a set-back from her recent stomach surgery during August. Last communication indicated she was recovering, although regrettably it prevented her reunion attendance.

 

Judy Fraker Ford wrote that, after 32 years of running the Paragon Speedway, they have finally opted to rent it and absolve themselves of most of the stress and efforts involved in its life. I know very well how arduous it has been for her and Keith to grow that enterprise and couldn't be happier that they can now be truly semi-retired. She also expressed her appreciation for being connected with her Class of '62 friends through the Updates. What will you do with all that free time, Judy??

 

Kay Selch called to say they will finally perform a knee replacement for him. Kay mightily struggles with mobility issues and believes this will give him more freedom of movement. His surgery was scheduled for early Sept., and I hope to have good things to report in my November Update. We miss him and Kim at our WBB events. This also kept him away from the 56th reunion, which was a bummer. He asked that I express his chagrin at not being able to visit with his wonderful MHS Class friends.

 

Martinsville will soon honor our beloved Ruth Rusie on her 100th birthday—not only for her longevity but mostly for her community contributions. The newspaper article listed just some of her volunteer activities, and to list those would consume an entire Update. However, one of her passions, Habitat for Humanity, is designating its 49th house to her. Any money donated to the House that Ruth Built to honor Ruth can be mailed to HFH, 39 Pike St., Mart., marked “Ruth Rusie Campaign.” Some of Ruth's memorable quotes are: “Everybody needs help with something. It is easy to volunteer. Just look at what you are good at and go do it.” And, “Don't say I think I can--just say I will.” The latter has become the HFH volunteer campaign slogan for the Rusie Pledge. A community thank-you/birthday party open house will be held Sunday, Oct. 7, 2:00 to 4:00, at the First Presbyterian Church in Martinsville. All are encouraged to attend. God bless our Class matriarch (and our classmate, Jim Rusie's, mother), Ruth Rusie!!

 

Karen Wilson Brummett (who paid for a reunion reservation but was sick and couldn't attend) has returned from a nine-day cruise on the American Queen Steamboat on the Ohio and Mississippi Rivers. She said it was quite relaxing and so much fun. That does sound like quite the adventure, and I'm thrilled Karen and her sister Kathy enjoyed it together.

 

Richard Hamilton is finally enjoying his home after 30-plus days of hospitalization. He is doing rehab with home health care and has regular doctor visits to keep tabs on his on-going issues. Because he was confined to bed with other health problems and wasn't able to begin hip rehab for so long, they have told him recovery will be slowed. But, with hard work doctors hope he will at least be mobile with a walker and not confined to wheelchair. Richard very much regretted his immobility kept him from the 56th. However, I have every confidence he will rejoin the group at the 57th. Richard would much welcome friends to visit at 560 E. Columbus St. Keep on trucking, Richard. We are all rooting for you.

 

Received a check and note from Eddie Underly of Oregon reserving an 8x10 of the group reunion photo and including a Class-fund contribution. Eddie is an avid supporter of the Class of '62 and much regrets reading all about our local activities and not being able to join us. We would love for you to surprise us with a visit next year, Eddie. What a warm welcome you would receive. He reports his health is good for a 74-year-old man—says it all. That's great news, Eddie.

 

Once again, during my Wally World Wandering, I had the welcomed opportunity to hug Joyce and Jim Branham. This time, though, they were actually shopping and not just surreptitiously walking the aisles for exercise. Jim is gaining on his medical issues. If you remember, his red blood count was dangerously low meaning he could hardly function physically. After many infusions of iron, the number has risen to 10, and they hope a few more will get him back to around 12. In spite of everything, they both look great and have upbeat attitudes. Thank goodness for our sporadic visits. I always leave them with lighter steps. Just hope some day they will visit with us at a WBB or reunion.

 

That same day, I was approached by Jim Barrick's widow, Georgia. She was so good to keep us posted on Jim's health updates during his prolonged illness and she commented on missing our Class news. Georgia is a delightful person, and I am only sorry she couldn't have gotten to know us personally through Class contacts with Jim. It was obvious she is still struggling mightily with Jim's loss.

 

Charlie and Janice Vogus just returned from a trip across the pond to Edinburgh and environs. He reported it was a fantastic trip. You could tell by the gleam in his eyes he is still re-living the experience. Sadly for us, though, they missed the 56th.

 

CLASS FAMILY DEATHS:

 

I am very sorry to report yet another of our classmates has lost a parent. John Jones grieved the death of his mother, Velma, 93 years of age, in late August. Like Bonnie Ennis, Frank's mother, Velma's face was well known in our community. I know it is life's circle that we have to grieve the loss of parents, but that doesn't make it any easier. God bless John and his family as they turn the page in their family book.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

We had a great turnout for the September extravaganza, which was held the Monday following the Sat. reunion and allowed us to visit a bit longer with some of our out-of-state classmates—Steve Koons and Irene Cure Conte. Those attending were: Bob and Catherine Etter, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Don and Linda Burleigh, Steve Koons, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Brent Boner, Charlie Vogus, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Bill Fulford, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Irene Cure Conte, Jim Brunnemer, and me. Connie Etter, our official Class photographer, also attended to shoot some scenes from this raucus occasion. These shots will be included in the photo album she produces of the reunion. Thank you Connie for your efforts on our behalf. The next WBB will be Monday, October 8, Forkey's, 10:30. It's about time for the cowardly Snowbirds to head South, so it will be the last time until Spring for us to have a large (and somewhat unruly) group. Come if you can. BTW, I will gladly Xerox a copy of the group photo of our 56th and send to anyone on snail mail who requests same. Call me at 765 315 0397.

 

56TH REUNION RECAP:

 

Reunion activities began on Fri., Sept. 7, with the traditional golf game at the local links. I am told those playing were Don Burleigh, Curt Boner, and Stony Pearcy, plus a pick-up fourth. No one would commit to the winner of that tournament. They were all either embarrassed by their play or overly modest of their accomplishments. No matter—they all had a great time chipping in a sprinkle. (I'd bet course management took a beating on holes gouged in the grass.)

 

I'll try to give a blow-by-blow description of this exuberant event. First off, I have to set the scene with a weather report. The 'Ville experienced 5” of rain during our reunion with the temps in the high 60's—sweatshirts were appropriate. Yet, for those of you who have been at Bob Etter's facility, you will understand it didn't dampen our activities. Bob had a roaring fire in the fireplace, so folks rotated around the room taking turns before the flames. Boy, are we lucky to have Bob as a classmate willing to share his property. Many are envious of us. Our love of precious friendships and memories prevent anything from dampening the day. Thank you Bob and Catherine.

 

In addition to those mentioned above, other classmates communicated their regrets for a variety of reasons. However, each one sent greetings and regrets to all. Those were: Jim Brunnemer, John Stewart, Dee Ann Evans, Sharon Robertson Anderson, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Jim Rusie, Jane Reese Thompson, Sonnie Myers Gano, Brent Boner, and Dick Elmore. My apologies if I missed anyone. 

 

Connie Etter was present to record our festivities on film. She will pull together a great booklet to immortalize the activities. Renda Trimble served a wonderful lunch. A huge thanks to Linda Burleigh and Catherine Etter for jumping in to help guests so I could visit with friends.

 

Registration money received totaled $684; expenses totaled $865; the Class treasury picked up the difference ($181.00). Thanks again to a loyal class friend who paid for Connie's $150 fee, which saved our treasury money. During Sept., Jane Reese Thompson, our web master, paid $188 to maintain our domain site for another two years. I also drew down $146 for mailing expenses from June through Sept. (postage is now 50 cents per stamp). By deducting recent expenses from balance we now have $720. That is a manageable amount and we are solvent, thanks to all of you.

 

Those classmates attending were:

 

Curt Boner, Mary (Pope) Boner, Austin Gray, Don Burleigh, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Marcia Short Schweitzer (from Ohio), Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Bob Etter, Henry Gray, Stony Pearcy (from Tennessee), Rick Blunk (from Missouri), Steve Koons (from Tennessee), Terry Fleener, Carol Dow Teague, Becky Pratt Bock (from Florida), Lila Pruett White (from Lafayette), Linda Gibbs Gehring, Bill Fulford, Liz Brummett Peterson, Dan St John, Don Billings, Irene Cure Conte (from Virginia), Janet Brummett Britton, and me. A huge thanks to everyone for attending, especially those who came from distant states, to be with us. Their time and efforts are appreciated.

 

ONE LAST COMMENT:

 

Several folks said they “texted” me prior to the reunion with comments or questions. Some of those I learned about after the reunion. Please note I am still using a flip-top Trac phone and don't text. To reach me please call my land-line (765 315 0397) or send e-mail to “klssas740@att.net.” I am incredibly responsive to communication in that format. Apologies to those who weren't aware of my dinosaur communication preferences to their detriment.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:  This month I'm going for a subject that has to make you smile--never fails.

 

KIDS IN CHURCH

 

Our Father, who does art in heaven, Harold is His name.

 

A four-year old prayed, “And forgive us our trash baskets as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets.”

 

A mother was preparing pancakes for her sons, Kevin 5 and Ryan 3. The boys began to argue over who would get the first pancake. Their mother saw the opportunity for a moral lesson. “If Jesus were sitting here, He would say, 'Let my brother have the first pancake.' Kevin turned to his younger brother and said, Ryan, you be Jesus.”

 

Love to all, karen

 

AUGUST 2018 Update

 

This is a mid-August Class Update, as promised in the early August publication. It's primary purpose is to convey final details for the 56thReunion of our Class. However, since I will not publish a September Update, I'm including some other miscellaneous news received since the earlier publication.

 

CLASSMATE SADNESS:

 

I am very sorry to report Frank Ennis and all his siblings just lost their matriarch, Bonnie Maxine Ennis. She was 101 years old and up until just recently was at home with help. Her gentle and loving spirit has endeared so many friends to her. We all send our condolences, Frank and Georgeanne, for this loss. Yet, you have been so fortunate to have her presence for so long and I know that softens the pain. God bless you all.

 

MISCELLAEOUS TIDBITS:

 

Our community volunteer Tura Crone Lamar once again had her photo and words in the Reporter (even though she prefers to remain in the shadows). She presented keys to a new owner of a Habitat for Humanity home. Tura is on the HFH Board and devotes her life to those extremely worthy endeavors. Kudos to our caring and loving Tura and thanks for sharing the love.

 

Talked with and hugged Diana Hatter Tolley this week. She and Charles just returned from FL. They sold their home because it was too costly maintaining two abodes, but they still go and visit several weeks a year. Diana still struggles with respiratory problems but couldn't be more upbeat and positive. It seems our Class members all share that admirable trait—smiles in the frowns of adversity. As I've mentioned before, if I ever have a major health issue, I will expound on my misery ad nauseum. None of this brave front for me. I want sympathy. Anyway, great to see you Diana and you just keep your gentle and sweet countenance.

 

Linda Gibbs Gehring wrote that her heart issues are improving but she has slowed down some. I'm sure no one reading these words won't laugh at that thought. From what I hear, we are all slowing down. She is looking forward to the reunion after having missed last year because of health issues.

 

Harry Maginity thanked me for the kind words I expressed about him in the earlier Update. He wants me to share that the highway department does not have a conspiracy to obstruct traffic at every turn and reminded us that “patience is a virtue.” I think the pressures might be getting to him because he said he will finally retire the end of this year. It's about time, Harry!! Harry plays music in a band and hopes to have more time for that true passion. Enjoy retirement, Harry.

 

Judy Garrett Knose wrote of her appreciation for the monthly communication. (In fact, many express that thought, for which I am grateful and appreciative.) She did say she was “depressed you have to report so many health issues.” So am I, Judy. Sometimes when I re-read the Updates it seems there is nothing but bad news. Oh, well, at least we all can share concern for each other. She and Paul also have their health struggles but enjoy each day. 

 

Steve Koons wrote he hated to miss our fair visit with Stony. He would have enjoyed the old farm equipment and chatting with long-lost friends. Said those were his fondest memories of growing up. He said he “was not living in the past but enjoying it more every day.” Steve is looking forward to the reunion hug event.

 

Wish I could report definite news on Richard Hamilton. I only know he is still in Methodist Hospital and is awaiting transfer to The Springs rehab center in Mooresville as soon as they believe him strong enough for that transition. Whether or not he will be on permanent dialysis is still uncertain, depending on how much his good kidney rebounds. Richard has been touch-and-go all month. If anyone can pull off this miraculous healing, it's Richard. I know we are all thinking about and praying for him. Send notes to 560 E. Columbus St. in the 'Ville.

 

REUNION FACTS:

 

With the advice of a couple of classmates, we have planned the menu. After reading the Reporter articles on all the other local MHS reunions, I was convicted that my menu planning has cheated you folks. So, to rectify, this year we are upgrading our meal. Renda will serve:

 

Baked pork loin, garlic cheese mashed potatoes, BBQ green beans, slaw, sourdough bread, MHS English toffee, and brownies, along with iced tea of both varieties. The Class of '65 had this menu and are still raving about it. 

 

The cost will be a bit more than usual—up from $12 to $14 per person—but I think this group can afford that. If not, just let me know. We have plenty in the treasury to pay the bill. Don't ever let cost keep you away. This group wants friends and not money.

 

An anonymous classmate sent me, against my advice, $150 to cover cost of Connie Etter's photography. Thank you generous classmate. That means all the class funds will cover is $4 per person per meal. We need to lower our funds from $1,000 to something around $500. Think of ways we can do that while benefiting Martinsville. 

 

Don Burleigh asked me to inform you that only Curt, Stony and he are committed for golf. This PGA event will occur either Fri. or Sat., Sept. 7 or 8, depending on the vote of those playing. Please call Don at 317 502 0937 or write to furr1944@live.com to register to play with the group and vote on the date. It will be held at the Martinsville Country Club. He needs to know soon in order to reserve a tee time. Come join their fun. 

 

I need your checks in hand for head count no later than SEPTEMBER 1. We need to give Renda ample time to plan. Please send $10 per person attending to:

 

Karen Smith

740 E. Washington St.

Martinsville, IN 46151 

 

Some of us will arrive around 10:00 to set up but official start time will be 11:00 to ?. Eat between Noon and 12:30 with Class photo to follow that. Connie will be shooting impromptu shots throughout the day for the album. She hasn't yet given me prices, but she said cost would be much the same as last year. I remember the 8x10 was $10 but can't remember price of album. Seems like it was somewhere in the range of $25 to $30. Please come prepared to pre-pay for the photos you purchase so she doesn't have to up-front the cost.

 

Call me at 765 315 0397 if you have questions or need directions to Bob's. Most will know the way to 5009 Old Morgantown Road, Mart., but I sincerely hope we have some spanking new faces that need directions. I look forward to receiving lots of reservations BY SEPT

 

JULY 2018 UPDATE

Happy 4th of July and End of Korean War (1953) holidays this month. Also, remember the greatest show on earth begins on July 28 thru August 4—the Morgan County Fair. It truly is a highlight of my year (guess that is a good view of my life)—the livestock and manufacturers' tent, grandstand events, carnival, and, of course, food tents and “lions and tigers and bears, oh my!” (For those of you who, unlike me, aren't still inundated with Disney, that's a quote from the Wizard of Oz.) The state fair has nothing on our party. The best part is you can say hi to so many folks you know. Try that at the state fair. OK, enough for my Martinsville grand-standing. On to July birthdays—other memorial holidays during July.

 

JULY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Don Donoho, Betty Maners Wilson, Mary Frances Pope Boner, Lila Pruett White, Sharon Robertson Anderson, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, and Richard Young. HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS TO EACH OF YOU.

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

After receipt of the June Update, Dan St. John wrote with some comments about our group activities. He also mentioned his wife had fallen and hurt herself quite badly and that he also cares for his 90+ year old mom daily. Sue can't move her arms much, so she asked him to latch her bra. Dan said he was all thumbs, since he only had experience unlatching bras. With all that, his attempts to attend the WBB have faltered, but he promised to rectify that soon. We would love to hug you again, Dan. Sure hope your mom and Sue are back on top.

 

Also received a call from Vicki Toon Woodall. You may remember Vicki has had several health problems in the past couple of years. Just recently they located a blockage in her small intestine and a hernia. She was scheduled for surgery on June 21 at IU Med. Ctr., followed by a few weeks of rehab. I'll try to get a medical report on her progress by August updaate.

 

Learned at the WBB that Mary Pope Boner had been hospitalized for five days with pneumonia. While she is recovered, she still needs to regain stamina. Don't believe I have ever known Mary to be sick. She is such a strong person. Guess pneumonia doesn't care about that. 

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NEWS:

 

On June 23rd I attended the Morgan County Antique Machinery Show at the fairgrounds. I do love to walk around and touch all those old pieces of history. But even more, I enjoy watching the pride and joy in the faces of the “older gentlemen” who have lovingly restored them and shared them at the show. (That goes for you, too, Steve Koons.) You can tell that those old machines are loved second only to their families. I just pray their children and grand-children carry on the tradition when they are gone. One day these our mighty John Deere tractors will be relics enjoyed by our ancestors. But, I digress—again. My goal in mentioning this was to recognize Joyce and Richard Hamilton and Nick Zoller, among others, for making this show possible. They have expended hours in preparation for and participation in the event and deserve accolades. Keep doing it, folks. Many folks enjoy the fruits of your labor. I also used this social event to hug Frank and Georgeanne Ennis, only this time they were not selling food but fleas in the flea market. 

 

Becky Pratt Bock, now of FL fame, wrote to thank me for the updates and said she especially looks forward to them since she is so far from home. She asked me to send her love to all reading this.

 

Rick Blunk also wrote: “Thought you might be interested to know that there will be slightly less of me in the future. I had a fight with my table saw and lost. Now I have two fingers that are just a bit shorter than they used to be. First accident in over 50 years of woodworking. Healing just fine, though.” So glad it wasn't worse, Rick. I shudder to think what you might have been reporting.

 

Jim and Lu Brunnemer just returned from DC following their grandson and his Fishers High teammates for a US Constitution competition. His group finished 8th out of 52 other states—quite a feat. He and Lu visited many sites while in DC and really enjoyed the visit. Never been there but it's on my bucket list—if someone else will drive.

 

Also received a call from Stoney. He reports he is playing 36 holes and doing fine—so long as he uses golf cart. Says this sport is not for exercise but rather to hone his eye sight and improve mental acuity. He does walk at the local high school and rides a stationary bike to build up strength in legs. He is interested in coming to town during fair. He will combine the trip with visit with Henry Gray and others. Henry might be talked into attending fair with us. Perhaps others will want to join us at the fair grounds for a nostalgic trip around the grounds.

 

Dick Elmore also wrote to thank me for his birthday greeting. He said he had a great summer day. He further mused: “At our stage in life, I am very thankful for health, mobility, and FRIENDS. Thank you for being one of them!” Thank you, Dick.

 

Last but not least, received a great note from Ed Underly. He commented on my mention of Danica Patrick and the Indy 500 the end of May. He shared that his mother always wanted to be the first lady to drive in Indy. According to Eddie, she was the best woman race driver he knew. She raced in Paragon and at other tracks. Guess Ed's father didn't share in her racing enthusiasm and threatened divorce if she didn't give it up. Being a devoted wife and mother, Emilee Ruth Underly never got to see her dreams of racing at Indy come true. Maybe that's for the best Ed. 

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Wonderful crowd at this event. Those attending during June were Katherine and Bob Etter, Karen and John Stewart, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Linda and Don Burleigh, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Jim Brunnemer, Kay and Kim Selch and their darling granddaughter, Ellie, Brent and Curt Boner (Mary was sick), Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Bill Fulford, Marty Akart Short, and me. With such a large group we had chairs pulled to every inch of the table. A great time was had by all. Next breakfast will be Monday, July 9, 10:30, Forkey's. Come if you can.

 

As I proof-read this document prior to mailing, I realize I took a few too many journalistic liberties with the info, which produced a longer-than-necessary document. I promise to be more concise in the August update. 

 

CHUCKLES FOR THE MONTH:

 

(Shared by Wayne Haase) 

My wild oats are mostly enjoyed with prunes and all-bran.

Some days you're the top dog; some days you're the lamp post.

It was a whole lot easier to get older than it was to get wiser.

I wish the buck really did stop here—I sure could use a few of them.

Kids in the back seat cause accidents. Accidents in the back seat cause kids.

It is hard to make a comeback when you haven't been anywhere.

The world only beats a path to your door when you're on the toilet.

If God wanted me to touch my toes, he would have put them on my knees.

When I'm finally holding all the right cards, everyone wants to play chess.

 

Love to all, karen

 

 

 

JUNE 2018 UPDATE

As I begin composition of this June Class Epistle, the Indy 500 Race is blaring on my radio. Don't misunderstand—I know little about the racers (except I am rooting for Danica Patrick to win, of course). Yet, I just can't imagine missing the pageantry, excitement and history of this event with which I grew up. I even attended one year, long ago, and am grateful for that experience. However, a pit crew member was killed right in front of my group on that occasion, which ruined any desire of mine to return. I much more enjoy following events in my comfortable family room. 

 

Happy Flag Day, Father's Day, and First Day of Summer this month. I hope all of you fathers and grand-fathers have a wonderful day on the 17th.

 

JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

 

Curt Boner, Jim Branham, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Cora Capshaw, Dick Elmore, Bob Ely Brown, Bill Fulford, and Eddie Kent. 

 

HAPPY, HAPPY BD TO EACH OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY.

 

CLASS MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Richard Hamilton had a worrisome month of May. He was hospitalized for kidney issues and dehydration. The wonderful health staff pulled him through, and the last time I hugged him he was so much better. We close to Richard call him the Energizer Bunny. He has overcome so many serious issues to bounce back. Even though his mobility is limited, thanks to his wife Joyce he doesn't allow that to keep him from going out. Thank God, he just keeps on keeping on.

 

Sue Hart, Mike O'Neal's SO, fell and received head and face injuries. Mike said she still thinks she's 20 and over-exceeds her mobility. Don't we all! While she was recovering, Mike was forced to stay indoors because his lung issues prevent his breathing outside. Both of you just take it easy and lean on each other. 

 

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

 

Kudos to Don Burleigh. He had the courage to join the Stoneheads, our cemetery search club, when we called for help. We were facing a very old and unkempt cemetery which required the use of weed-whips, saws, shovels, etc. Don brought his entire garage and tackled the underbrush so the gravestones could be recorded for Find-a-Grave. Thanks so much, Don. We will try not to make this need a regular occurrence.

 

Attended an estate sale at my neighbors not long ago. Who should I see serving hotdogs but Frank and Georgeanne Ennis. It was great to hug them both. Frank whispered in my ear that he felt I had said some harsh things about him in the past. I admitted I might have exaggerated his antics a bit and would endeavor to be kinder to him in the future. We love you, Frank.

 

While working in the yard, I received a pleasant visit from Karen Arnold Pottorff. She wouldn't stay but we did chat in the driveway. She shared that her hubby, Cam, had suffered a diabetic spell while driving and had a fender bender. Scared her to death but he is back out on the road and dismissing the event as insignificant. So glad for your good news, Karen.

 

Right before closing this Update for publication, I received a call from “Ray” Pearcy. I answered by asking if this was an obscene call, because I didn't know a “Ray” Pearcy. It was such a pleasant surprise that Stony didn't want anything except to say he was thinking of me and wanted to hug telepathically. He says he and Bob Ettertalk often just to stay connected. What a great idea for all of us to emulate. When I bitched over the heat/drought the 'Ville was suffering, he said to hold on because a tropical storm Alberto was on its way. Said they are floating away in TN and it's heading IN's way. Thank heavens. Stony is on the course three times a week and, although not totally pain free, he doesn't let that stop him. He also said if things worked right he would come home to attend the Great Morgan Co. Fair with me. I'm going to hold that to him! Thanks, Stony, for being such a wonderful friend.

 

Eddie Neal's Veteran Memorial Banner, which was purchased by the Class, is once again displayed on Morgan St. (These have to be renewed every two years.) I called to see if we needed to pay a fee for its reinstatement and was told his boys were the first to appear with the $100 for that purpose. My heart always beats a bit faster when I see the banner. It shows a sweet kid, sucking on a lolly-pop, that was the Eddie we passed in the hallowed halls of MHS, without the mustache. God bless his soul.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Because of a personal conflict, I could not attend this auspicious event in May. Bless Linda Burleigh for sending me a report. She said her health was threatened if she shared any of the gossip, but she did send attendees. (Actually, she said: “Not much news—just a lot of BS from the guys end of the table.) Those enjoying the company were Bob and Catherine Etter, Bill Fulford, Jim Brunnemer, Carol Dow Teague, Janet Brummett Britton, and Don and Linda Burleigh. Hope the June WBB will have a larger crowd. 

 

REMINDER FOR CALENDARS: Frequently I am asked to reiterate the date of our 56th mini-reunion. Here it is: Saturday, September 8, beginning anytime after 10:00 AM and ending when the Etters kick us out. It won't cost much to attend because the Class will cover most expenses. Be there or be square. 

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

 

(Shared by Russ Knapp

Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying about your age and start bragging about it.

You know you are getting old when everything either dries up or leaks.

Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth.

The easiest and quickest way to find something you lost in the house is to buy a replacement.

 

(Shared by Wayne Haase)

 

I started out with nothing and still have most of it.

My wild oats are mostly enjoyed with prunes and all-bran.

Some days you're the top dog; some days you're the lamp post.

It was a whole lot easier to get older than it was to get wiser.

 

Thanks to everyone who shares smiles with the group.

 

 

 

Love to all, karen

 

 

 

May 2018 UPDATE

Happy May Days to all! This month we celebrate Mothers Day as a tribute to the sainthood deserved by Mothers. Yes, Fathers are critical, too, in teaching the foundations of life, but what Mother hasn't surreptitiously interceded between child and Father to prevent homicide??? We also honor our Armed Forces with a special day and the dead with Memorial Day (and the running of the famed Indianapolis 500). Several auspicious holidays in May and I hope all of you honor and enjoy them all.

 

MAY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Don Billings, Jerry Collier, Irene Cure Conte, Connie Denny Martin, Linda Fisher Phillips, Oren Flake, Norris Griffin, Larry Lambert, Roy Joe McGuffey, Jim Morgan, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, Carol Schell Maxwell, and Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush.

 

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY. WE ARE ALL GLAD YOUR FORTUITOUS BIRTH LANDED YOU WITH THE MHS CLASS OF '62.

 

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Jim Brunnemer wrote that he underwent revision surgery on his right knee in March. The original surgery was 24 years ago with an estimated life of 12-15 years. He feels very fortunate he got so many years from his original investment. He noticed his knee got wobbly and he fell a couple of embarrassing times, so he consulted original surgeon. There were a myriad of possibilities but, fortunately, he only required a replacement of the lower cap. Jim's rehab has gone well. Lu hid his car keys for a couple of weeks but has since returned them. All is well in Jim's world. Great job, Jim!!

 

PS: He also said to relay to Stony that knee replacements don't improve a lousy golf game. As Jim's son tells him, “It isn't the bow and arrow—it's the Indian.” Sorry Stony!

 

Irene Cure Conte reports both she and Rick had a bad winter. Rick was hospitalized twice. She is concerned that he is less active and weaker now. Rick still tries to do things but needs to rest often. Irene still has breathing problems and generalized pain. She is going to try physical therapy again. She hopes both she and Rick can come to town in September for our 56th. Get well soon, folks.

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY UPDATES:

 

Sadly I report Curt and Brent Boner lost their older brother, Larry, in April. Larry was 78 and had been in ill health for several years. Still, you can imagine how hard that is on the family. We all send our sincere condolences to Curt, Brent, and Mary Pope Boner on their loss.

 

Sonnie Myers Gano is one of my eyes-and-ears-on-the-world reporters. She called my attention to the fact that Cora Capshawrecently lost her sister, Gloris. I'm so sorry I missed that, Cora. We all send our belated condolences on your sadness.

 

CLASSMATE MISCELLANEOUS:

 

Kay and Kim Selch seem to be improving. Regardless, Kay always maintains a sunny attitude. He sent this joke: “What did the egg say to the boiling pot of water?” “It might take me some time to get hard because I just got laid.” He then added that it would take the Class guys a while to get the punch line on this one. Kay and I reminisced briefly about the infamous Pool Room which his Dad bought and opened in 1946. Wow, had no idea it was so long in existence! Kay said Reuben got sick so Kay and Jim Adkins bought and continued operation a short while in 1972, but after his Dad's death sold it and got out of the business. While as a girl I wasn't allowed in that inter-sanctum, I've heard many stories by local guys about the fun and mischievousness that went on there. Thanks for the memory, Kay.

 

Steve Koons wrote that they lost Aggie the Airedale and Asti the Wire Haired Fox Terrior early this year. For the first time since returning from VietNam in 1973, the Koons house is void of pets. They miss them dearly but honestly don't want to go through losing another one again. How well I, as an animal lover, understand that. Yet, I'll take bets that by September Steve will be proudly flashing photos of their new “child.” Anyone want to take that bet?

 

One of my benevolent Class Wine Purveyors, Austin Gray, honored me with yet another bottle of Indiana wine. When he and Chyrel take a Sunday drive to visit wineries, I am the beneficiary of their largess. This one was blackberry and it was much enjoyed--purple tongue and all. Thanks so much dear friends. 

 

Our Class novelist and chronicler, James Brunnemer, is once again putting mind and pen to paper. I don't know if this work will be published. Rather, he is putting his memories and lifetime observations to paper in a journal for the benefit of his children and grandchildren and beyond. He shared a portion of that with me and, as always, Jim's erudite words were humorous and thoughtful. Here is a brief excerpt from that:

 

“Throughout my lifetime, nothing has lifted my spirits or provided me with such joy as a clever quip or a well-told tale. I've tried to be a conveyer of good feeling through humor. According to one source--

'Storytelling is the social and cultural activity of sharing stories, often with improvisation, theatrics, or embellishment. Stories or narratives have been shared in every culture as a means of entertainment, education, cultural preservation and instilling moral values.'”

 

“A good friend once said to me, “Jim is the consummate raconteur,” (a person who tells anecdotes in a skillful and amusing way.) If by that he meant that I liberally infuse my stories with exaggeration, irony, self-denigration, and embellishment in my intent to relate amusing and farcical observations, I plead guilty.” 

 

These are but two of the interesting observations Jim relayed in his chapter entitled “Liar Alert.” Wish I had more room to impart the rest, but perhaps Jim will share his journal when we are together. Proud of you, Jim, for following your dreams.

 

Steve Hiatt wrote that he and Diane will be heading back to IN in a couple of weeks from FL. They have a home in Indy in which they spend warm weather months. He said they are timing their return to the good weather promised us from mid-May on. Safe travels, folks.

 

CLASS TREASURY UPDATE:

 

We received an anonymous $50 contribution to the fund this month, bringing our total to $1,209.97. Thanks to our anonymous Class friend. We'll spend down some of that on our 56th Gala on SEPTEMBER 8, 2018, 11:00 AM, BOB ETTER'S SHELTER HOUSE. Mark your calendars in big letters for this red letter occasion. Remember, “You never get a second chance to make a new OLD friend.” Let's enjoy to the fullest what we have cultivated during our many years on life's path.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Good crowd at April's soiree, consisting of Linda and Don Burleigh (yes, Linda is out and about although still under watchful eyes of physicians for her head injuries reported last month), Austin and Chyrel Gray, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush (back from FL), Janet Brummett Britton (a wonderfully surprising new visitor), Catherine and Bob Etter (back from FL), Mary Pope and Curt Boner, Carol Dow Teague (another wonderfully surprising new visitor), Marty Akard Short (who was surprisingly well-behaved), and me (always well-behaved). Next Brunch will be May 14, 2018, 10:30 AM, Forkey's. Hope we have even a larger crowd attending. We do have such fun catching up. 

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (provided by Karen Wilson Brummett )

 

(Quips by Phyllis Diller) 

The reason women don't play football is because 11 of them would never wear the same outfit in public.

Most children threaten at times to run away from home. This is the only thing that keeps parents going.

I want my children to have all the things I couldn't afford. Then I want to move in with them.

We spend the first twelve months of our children's lives teaching them to walk and talk and the next twelve years telling them to sit down and shut up.

What I don't like about office Christmas parties is looking for a job the next day. 

Tranquilizers work only if you follow the advice on the bottle—keep away from children.

The reason the golf pro tells you to keep your head down is so you can't see him laughing.

 

HUGS TO ALL, karen

 

 

APRIL 2018 UPDATE

 

The daffodils and crocus are blooming in Morgan County, birds are chirping, and we have April Showers, so it's obviously Spring and you Snow Birds can return. (I'm watching a hopping Robin out my window as I type.) We look forward to having you back among your lifelong true friends. This Update will be mailed on Easter Sundayand April Fools' Day, so a very happy holidays to all of you. That is the good news. The bad news is April also brings the dreaded Tax Day (17th in case you forgot). Commiserations for that holiday celebration.

I have racked my brain (small as it is) to insert an April Fool's joke in this issue. Several years ago I inserted a paragraph about Jim Brunnemer's news that Lu was pregnant. It didn't fly then and it certainly wouldn't fly to 70-plus year olds reading this. No joke again this edition. Everything you read herein is the truth and nothing but the truth. 

APRIL BIRTHDAYS:

Rick Blunk, Johnie Boles, Jerry Crismore, Tura Crone Lamar, Bob Elliott, Marvin Henderson, Steve Hiatt, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Eddie Underly. A VERY HAPPY, HAPPY SPECIAL DAY TO EACH OF YOU. 

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Wonderful news from Linda Gibbs Gehring. March 1, 2017, was the date of her heart attack and March 1, 2018, was her first day off blood thinners since her attack. Still takes heart meds but says she is feeling good. She promised to come home for a visit when weather improved. You go girl!!

Unfortunately, Judy Wolff-Parretts writes that she is now having some issues with chemo. That isn't good to hear. She still says a possible trip home for the reunion is within the realm of possibility. Sure hope so, Judy. You can overcome all things with your steadfast spirit.

Received a welcomed note from Joyce Bowman Branham with update on their lives. Jim is having trouble with his back and was sent to surgeon. He ordered CT scan. That didn't explain his back problems but revealed the thoracic aortic aneurysm which had been found at his last scan. Great news is it isn't enlarging, but he is sending Jim to a specialist in this field. She promised to keep us advised. I hope to report good news in May. They both deserve some good news for a change. UPDATE: After writing that first part, Joyce just today sent another report. Aneurysm is still small so they just keep watching it. However, Jim had a spell at home where he couldn't breathe. Tests discovered his blood level was very low and basically contained no iron, which explained his low energy level. They gave two IV's of iron and meds to build his system back up. Now they think the back problems were related to this blood issue. She said it would take months before Jim will get back to full strength. They feel so blessed that the good Lord was looking out for them so the doctors could properly diagnose some of his problems. She will continue to update us. (Maybe low iron explains my lack of motivation and energy.) 

Stony Pearcy has completed physical therapy after second knee surgery. He says the strain placed on his other knee is now causing some problems, but he is regularly visiting fitness center to regain strength and coordination in both knees. He says he WILL BE on the golf course this month. As part of his rehab, he and Carol are heading to FL to visit friends and let the sun, water, and happy hour help his recuperation. Well, that's his reasoning anyway. I know we all look forward to learning Stony's golf game has benefited from these two painful surgeries.

Bill Fulford informed us that his CAT scan revealed a couple of kidney stones, but no plans for procedure until they get worse. He will re-scan every six months to keep track of situation. His colon surgery was a complete success. Bill is back to his more animated self and is still selling real estate. Some folks just don't know when to call it quits and grow old gracefully.

Marvin Henderson called with shocking news that Deanna had heart surgery for AFIB (erratic signals to heart). She was in Gainesville hospital for almost a week, but the condition was very treatable with her surgery and she is so much better. We are thrilled Deanna is mending. Marvin said Janet Brummett Britton and her husband had dined with them recently. He said they visited so long the restaurant almost closed around them. It's always fun to learn class friends visit when away from home.

Karen Wampler has finally been approved for cataract surgery in both eyes during April. She has waited a long time for them to “ripen” and allow insurance coverage for the procedure. She is thrilled that she will once again see things clearly.

And speaking of cataracts, Curt Boner just had both eyes operated on this week. Mary wrote to say he is doing well and hopes this will allow him to once again see. I can't see but they tell me mine aren't yet ready and may never be ready. I guess I'm just resigned to having limited vision. 

Unfortunately, Don Billings has not yet been approved for knee surgery. He said these things take a long time. I know mobility would be so welcomed by Don. 

CLASSMATE FAMILY UPDATES:

It is with great sadness to report that Jane Reese Thompson lost her husband, Earl, in early March. He had been battling liver disease for a long time. During the last eight months his kidneys also began to fail to the point they wouldn't sustain life. Sadly, Earl wanted to make it to July 13—their 50th wedding anniversary—so they could dance to Frank Sinatra's Time After Time. Jane, you have our heartfelt sympathy and prayers for God's peace.

Becky Pratt Bock recently said goodbye to her sister, Bettie Fletcher, 87. Bettie was one of seven children of Archie and Ruth Pratt, many of whom were in the hallowed halls of MHS in our era. Of course, Becky was our dear classmate. Becky and Frank now reside in Brooksville, FL, and we miss visiting with them around town. God bring you a lighter heart and brighter days soon, Becky.

Don's wife and our adopted classmate, Linda Burleigh, put us through a scare during March. She was at the Univ. of Indy observing her granddaughter participate in a track and field event. As she walked across the track before the activities had begun, she was hit by a runner practicing his sprints prior to performing. They didn't see each other and Linda suffered for that. Don sent me a photo of her after being released from hospitalization for concussion, black eyes, sprained shoulder, and road rash. Her face was so swollen I scarcely knew her. Stitches were removed mid-March and her vitals are now good. She is confined to a month of home rest but says Don is a great nurse and her daughters bring food regularly to compensate for Don's lack of culinary skills. Linda is always so positive that not even this freak accident will keep her down. She promises to join the WBB in April.

I am proud to report that Joyce Griffin Hamilton, Richard's wife and another adopted classmate, was recently recipient of the Spirit of Ruth Rusie honorarium. Every year the Chamber of Commerce acknowledges citizens who go above and beyond in serving Morgan County needs through volunteerism. No one deserves this more than Joyce. I typed her resume for consideration by the Chamber and it was three full pages of volunteer activities. I wrote to Jim Rusie and asked him to relay this info to his mother, Ruth. He informed me that she very much approved, having worked with Joyce for many years in various local endeavors. Actually, Ruth is being recognized in April at the United Way's 100 year celebration (at which she will also be celebrating her 100th birthday). What a beloved lady!! And no one more exemplifies Ruth's spirit than Joyce. Congrats. 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE TIDBITS:

Dan St. John wrote that his wife, Sue, is dragging him all around Florida as she attends work-related events. She forced him to lay around in Sarasota and New Smyrna Beach (temps in 80's) during March so all he could do was enjoy the sunshine. He said, “It's tough but I have to do it.” Hah, hah, Dan. Our tears fall for you. 

Also received a note from Wayne Haase. He and Cindy truly hope to be back in town during May to catch up with those available to share a meal and group hug. Sure hope it works out. He also hopes to meet up with Rick Blunk while he is near St. Louis. Hope they make contact. I received his note while we were struggling with a heavy snow fall (4”) and mentioned this to him in my e-mail. He wanted the last word and shared that during the last three weeks they have experienced four nor'easters which dropped 8, 18, and 16 inches, respectively, with another 13 plus on the way. In case you forgot, Wayne hails from Massachusetts. I promised never again to complain to him about our winter weather.

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush wrote to say she and Perry were to arrive home in mid-March and asked that I turn the heat up to around 75 degrees. I hope it's zero when all the Snow Birds arrive in the 'Ville. They deserve a bit of comeuppance for sending me weather updates from warm climes all winter. 

While attending a local event, stopped and talked with Mark and Vicki Cohen and we had a nice visit. They have a booth in the Art Sanctuary (old Methodist Church on Sycamore) where Vicky sells her crafts. Mark still dabbles in antiques. Both looked and seemed great. It had been probably a year since I last visited with them. Folks, sure wish you would grace us at a WBB some month. You would be very welcomed.

Bob and Catherine are expected in town by April 1. Really look forward to hugging Catherine and welcoming her home, but not so much Bob. My life has been hassle-free since he left for FL. I'm expecting much harassment upon his return. 

ADDITION TO CLASS SNAIL-MAIL:

I'm often reporting that we lose contact with class friends for various reasons, not the least of which is death. (I sometimes feel like the messenger of death.) That's the down side to my self-appointed Class Social Secretary role. Yet, occasionally I can happily report an addition to our little group. This month I am very happy to report we have added Jenness Northerner Perlmutter to our umbilical cord of contacts. Bob Riffel brought all of this about when he sent us her website and inquired if we had tried contacting her. Yes, I had sent her a couple of e-mails over the last few years through her website e-mail. However, she never responded so I assumed there was no interest. But, Bob tickled me to reach out once more with a snail-mail letter to her studio address. Much to my surprise, I received a lovely letter in early March in which she indicated she would love to be included on the monthly Update mailing list and back in contact with her 'Ville friends. While I had assumed the best way to reach her was electronically, she informed me that, despite the appearance of her website, she isn't at all tech savvy and doesn't do e-mail. She said it's embarrassing but true. If she only knew how many of her '62 friends struggle with that same malady. Anyway, she said: “Please send my best wishes to all.” She also said she enjoyed reading news of the familiar cast of characters written about. See, we never forget out roots, no matter where life takes us. Welcome aboard, Jenness. (PERSONAL NOTE: Some time when you have a minute, Jenness, could you send me your birth date so we can include you in monthly birthday wishes. Or, call me at 765 315 0397 with that info. Thanks.)

UPDATE ON OUR 56TH REUNION CELEBRATION:

Bob and Catherine have blocked their social calendar for Sat., Sept. 8, for our reunion. In addition, I have contracted with Renda Trimble, caterer, and Connie Etter, photographer, to be in attendance and provide us their usual great service. So, be sure your calendars are marked for this auspicious date. During July and August, I will need a head count, but the Class will pay most of the expenses of the event. I may need to ask for $10 per head to buffer Class funds for costs. However, I doubt $10 will adversely affect the welfare of any of us. If it does, Class will even handle that. What better way to use our money than to kick up our heals together and once again hobble down memory lane.

REMINDER: The September Wild Bunch Brunch happens to fall on Monday, September 10, so that anyone interested in extending visitation time can join that frolicking occasion before returning to parts far away. 

CLASS TREASURY UPDATE:

Thanks to all who responded to my request for guidance on Class/Snail-Mail funds. At least for those who responded, it was unanimous that I combine all monies into one and no longer segregate them. Thank you so much for your vote of confidence in my honesty and fiscal responsibility. However, I should remind you I failed Maggie's algebra, so you may rue that decision. In keeping with my promise to be more fiscally responsible under this new regime, here is your first bank accounting.

I began with a balance of $1,422.87 after commingling funds. I then reimbursed myself for snail-mail expenses (envelopes, labels, paper, ribbons, postage) for the period Sept. 2017, through April 2018, in the amount of $263. That leaves a balance in our funds of $1,159.87. Since snail mail averages $33 per month, we should be very liquid in that account for a long time. God forbid we have any memorial flowers for the next ten years. If things stretch too thin, I'll send out an SOS for financial help. 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

John and Karen Stewart came back home for the March WBB and we had a surprise visit from Dick and Angie Elmore. We were very glad to welcome those folks after a long absence. Others attending were Chuck Vogus, Curt Boner (Mary was sick), Brent Boner, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Kay Selch (Kim also sick), Bill Fulford, Don Burleigh (Linda also sick), and me. April's WBB will be Monday, April 9, 10:30 at Forkey's. Many Snow Birds should re-join us this date. Be there or be square.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

I am blessed with folks who send me funnies to share. This month I'm taking examples from some of those submitted and will try to include more in months to come. 

From Cora Capshaw: My people skills are just fine. It's my tolerance of idiots that needs work. 

Even duct tape can't fix stupid, but it can muffle the sound.

Getting lucky means walking into a room and remembering why I'm there.

The day the world runs out of wine is just too horrible to even think about.

 

From Harry (Russ) Knapp: Today I was in a store that sells sunglasses and ONLY sunglasses. A young lady walks over and asks, “What brings you in today” I looked at her and said, “I'm interested in buying a refrigerator.” She didn't know how to respond. (Don't mess with seniors!)

I've decided that old age is when you still have something on the ball, but you are just too tired to bounce it.

When people see a cat's litter box they always say, “Oh, have you got a cat?” Just once I want to say, “No, it's for company!”

Employment applications always ask who is to be called in an emergency. I think you should answer, “an ambulance.”

The older you get the tougher it is to lose weight because by then ;your body and your fat have gotten to be really good friends.

Hugs to all karen

 

MARCH 2018 UPDATE

 

As I look at the calendar for our MARCH Update, I realize that several momentous events are just around the corner--Daylight Saving Time Begins (11th), St. Patrick's Day (17th), FIRST DAY OF SPRING (YEAH!!) (20th), Palm Sunday and Good Friday the week of the 25th. I wish each of you more sunshine and warmth until the next Update.

 

MARCH BIRTHDAY HONOREES:

 

Karen Arnold Pottorff and DeWayne White.

 

Wow, a very small but select group. Wonder where our parents were in June 1943. They obviously weren't procreating. A very happy birthday Karen and DeWayne. Make it very special.

 

Let me usurp some space for a personal thanks to all who sent me birthday wishes. Thanks also to Karen Arnold Pottorff who enclosed a contribution to snail mail in her card. Jim Brunnemer wrote demanding I report he was only 43 on his February birthday and to state he welcomed the attention of “cougars”. He is such a whining cry-baby.

 

As Steve Koons shared in his note: May we all have as many more as we've already had. (Well, maybe half that many would be more appropriate.)

 

A SAD ANNIVERSARY:

 

On March 24, 1971, we lost our beloved Eddie Neal in Quang Tri Province, South Vietnam. Eddie was killed in a helicopter crash in that hostile territory on that date. Every time I drive by our Class memorial banner to Eddie on Main Street, my heart sheds a tear. He will never be forgotten to us.

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY DEATHS:

 

Dwight Arthur lost his son, Larry, in February. Larry was a 1989 MHS graduate. He left a wife and three children and a brother. Dwight also lost his wife, Dorothy, several years ago. Much sadness for our dear classmate. We all wish you brighter days and a lighter heart, Dwight.

 

Mark Dillender lost his sister-in-law, Joyce Haggard Wagoner, wife of Ronnie for those of you who remember him. Bill Fulford tells me Ronnie ran with several boys in our Class. Bless you Mark and, of course, your wife Carol, and Dwight and his family.

 

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

 

Cora Capshaw called to say she hibernates in her home in the woods with her chickens and birds until warmer weather. Still struggles with coughing, although they cannot determine the cause. Cora is faithful to remain connected with me.

 

Karen Wampler reports that except for mobility issues (lot of that going around), she is fine. Karen loves staying in touch with us through the Updates. Thanks, Karen.

 

Irene Cure Conte and her husband, Rick, have both been hospitalized with pneumonia. Rick also suffers with heart failure and neuropathy, but, in spite of some fearful days, he is now getting better. Both have spent the winter on antibiotics and steroids. Hopefully more sunshine and fresh outside air will be the best medicine for you both, Irene.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS UPDATES:

 

We received a sincere thanks from Georgia Barrick acknowledging our Class memorial which sat at the head of Jimbo's casket. It meant a great deal to her and Jim's family. She once again stressed how much Jim cherished the Updates because they were his few sources of friendship. Bless all of them. It was very sad when I had to remove Jim's name from snail mail labels.

 

Bob Riffel sent me a copy of Jenness Northerner Cortez's website at Perlmutter Gallery in NY. Bob drools over her art but says he'll never be able to pay for it. Several years ago I sent her a personal Class letter to that studio but never received a reply. Well, I have tried once again to reach her hoping she didn't receive my earlier communication and would, indeed, want to re-join us. I hope in April I can report a new addition to our contacts. Either way, it is obvious our Class artist is doing very well with her artistic passion. Thanks, Bob.

 

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush wrote with her vote for the 56th reunion agenda and had to mention she and Perry are having a great winter in sunny FL. She knows I requested no weather updates from the Snow Birds and just had to rub it in. Sharon always had a vengeful side.

 

Lila wrote to say she has finally fully retired after 31 years at Purdue. Congrats, Lila. Speaking for most of us, you will love this stage in our lives. She and Dale are moving closer to marriage. Maybe she will have good news by September when they attend the reunion. Great happiness in this new era in your life, Lila.

 

Received a note from Janet Brummett Britton. She said some very kind words about my contributions to the Updates which made me blush even though they warmed my heart. She also mentioned receiving a Christmas card from Betty Scherer. Now, for those of you ladies who don't remember, apparently she was our junior/senior gym teacher. (I knew Janet was memorable, but she must have made a lasting impression on Betty.) Janet said Betty lives in Los Vegas and will celebrate her 90th birthday this year. I had to admit to Janet that I had no memory of Betty but that was because I immensely disliked gym and blocked out all memories EXCEPT the horrid green one-piece suits cinched with a belt we were required to model. Thanks, Janet, for sharing the memories.

 

CLASS FINANCIAL MATTERS:

 

This segment will be wordy, but I want you to have all pertinent information so you can make a decision.

 

Our treasuries are secure. We have $767.07 in Class treasury and $655.69 in snail mail, for a grand total of $1,422.76. For reasons I have explained in earlier Updates, I now monitor both funds with no oversight. I work to keep funds allocated appropriately, pay expenses, and report to you periodically of balances and expenditures. In case you don't remember, we originally kept snail mail funds separate from Class monies because, as that cost grew, there was some fear expenditures from that fund would evade Class funds used for memorials, reunions, and other Class activities. Well, you folks have been so generous to both funds that I no longer fear we will run out of money. I receive funds when I don't even ask! Moreover, I am very certain if our funds dwindle to a danger point, all I have to do is ask for replenishment.

 

So, would there be any objection if I combine all our funds into one account and forget allocation? I have no problem with this—except that my activities will have little oversight. One person asked if my estate would know that some of my funds belonged to the Class, and that is a viable concern. I told them and tell you that my estate documents clearly denote account numbers of Class funds and my funds. In addition, I have told my executor(s) about Class funds and made note of the account numbers in my file.

 

A convenience to this is when we receive a bill, especially for memorial flowers, I merely make an on-line transfer from Class funds to my checking account and deliver the payment, keeping records of the transaction. No trudging to the bank to get a cashier's check and no cost.

 

If we go with one account with me as owner, I promise to report frequently on all expenditures and balance. Anyway, think about this and let me have your thoughts. We can always go back to one or two accounts in another bank with two signatories required, which would preclude any chance that Class funds are misplaced. Undoubtedly, that is the best business practice, so I would understand if you choose to do that. Please send me your ideas. I will not be insulted or unhappy. Let me know any questions you may have that I have not covered in this dissertation.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH (WBB).

 

Those attending in February were Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Curt and Mary Pope Boner, Harry McGinity, Jim Brunnemer, Bill Fulford, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Charlie Vogus and me, with Tish Scherer Hartley kibitzing from the next table. The Class presented me with a birthday card and bag of Thin Mints, which, of course, are long gone. Thanks to all of you for remembering me. Next WBB will be Monday, March 12, 10:30 at Forkey's. We should have a few Snow Birds rejoining us at that soiree. Hope to see many of you then.

 

56TH REUNION UPDATE:

 

Received unanimous vote to meet on September 8 (Labor Day weekend) at Etter's Paradise with same caterer. Now, we have to sit tight until Bob and Catherine give us the green light on date. They return in April so by May Update we can nail it down. We may need to tweak the date depending on their property calendar.

 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (from Stoney)

 

I talk to myself because there are times I need expert advice.

The biggest lie I tell myself is--I don't need to write that down because I'll remember.

I have days when my life is just a tent away from a circus

These days, “on time” is when I get there.

I don't need anger management. I need people to stop pissing me off.

Even duct tape can't fix stupid—but it sure does muffle the sound.

My people skills are just fine. It's my tolerance for idiots that needs work

Lately, I've noticed people my age are so much older than me.

Getting lucky” means walking into a room and remembering why I'm there.

Some days I have no idea what I'm doing out of bed.

I thought growing old would take a lot longer.

 

I believe this explains to all our Stoney and his aging progression.

 

LOVE, karen

 

 

FEBRUARY 2018 UPDATE

 

A cold February hello to all from the 'Ville. So many of you receiving this are not within the confines of that spot on the map, so I feel compelled to report we are all looking forward to warmth and sunshine in the March Update. We all are praying that Punxsutawney Phil does not see his shadow in Gobbler's Knob on Feb. 2, which would indicate an early Spring. Phil and his progeny have been helping forecasters with the weather prediction since 1887 and has had as much luck as NASA. If you saw Bill Murray in Groundhog Day, you believe in the validity of PP. In the meantime, let's find joy in Valentine's Day. (BTW, Feb. 16 is Chinese New Year of the Dog, in case you are interested.) Hug your loved ones a bit tighter and longer on that holiday. Make certain your life is in order when you repose at night, for tomorrow is uncertain.

 

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

 

Nancy Alexander Foley, Dwight Arthur, Liz Brummett Peterson, Janet Brummett Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Billy Joe Craven, Frank Ennis, Bob Etter, Terry Fleener, Steve Koons, Kathryn Mason Hill, Marcie Murphy Bolin, Stony Pearcy, Gary Stafford, Judy Wolff Parretts, Ruth Woolbright Dunigan, and me.

 

A stupendous birthday wish to all of you. May your year be blessed with contentment no matter what life throws at you.

 

CLASSMATE DEATHS:

 

It is with sorrow I announce we lost two more Class friends during January, bringing that total to 73 of which we are aware. Those on e-mail know Jim (Jimbo) Barrick passed on January 22 after several years of illness. His wife, Georgia, has been wonderful to keep me posted, even though the news I reported wasn't happy. Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and I visited with her and her two sons at calling. Georgia said Jim kept every Update in a pile and re-read them often. Some may remember Jim had four brothers and three sisters who grew up in town. I only remember beautiful red-headed Pam, who graduated in 1960. Steve Koons reminded me he played trombone in the Marching Artesians. God bless his family as they walk without Jim.

 

Sonnie Myers Gano wrote that we also lost Rhea Donna Forbes Fee. I could not find that in the paper but contacted my friend and funeral director of Neal & Summers seeking details. There was merely a blurb in reporter which stated “no service.” I wanted to send our Class tribute to her family anyway, but my contact reported she had no family at all. I had tried to reach Rhea by mail a couple of times but never received any word from her. I was crushed to realize one of us had walked this life fairly alone. Sadly, she must have preferred to live silently. God bless Rhea's soul.

 

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

 

Now, on to a less depressing topic.

 

Richard Hamilton is still more house-bound than not. He faces tremendous mobility issues but his mind is as sharp as ever. I call upon him when I need Martinsville history or familial relationships. As weather improves, I know Richard will once again be out and about. 

 

Don Billings reports he is still doing therapy and depends on in-home health care daily. However, you would sense no sign of pity when talking with him. He called me as this Update was compiled and expressed sadness at the news of Jim Barrick, saying he remembers many happy school days spent with him. Keep on keeping on, Don.

 

Stony wrote that after his Dec. 26 second knee surgery, he is “sore but OK.” This was his worst knee medically. He said the extent of the surgery made this knee harder to heal and caused more pain. His doctor told him he should “be more patient.” Obviously that doctor doesn't know his patient well. We all know Stony lacks patience. You'll be on the golf course in April, Stony. We all know your resolve. 

 

Once again had my Walmart visit with Joyce and Jim Branham in January. I always look forward to those hugs. They admitted they come to Wally World for winter exercise a couple times a week pushing a cart all around the huge building pretending to shop. Joyce said she had threatened Jim on that particular day that they would not spend a cent, since their home was overflowing with spontaneous purchases. 

 

Have been in contact with Gini Fulford Watts. She is excited to report her upcoming move to The Retreat in the 'Ville. This is a renovation of the old Martinsville Sanitarium. We will be glad to have her back home after many years of residing outside the county. In that call she also reported having been in the hospital for several days with what turned out to be a kidney stone which required removal. They also discovered gallstones with which she will someday need to deal. However, she said her relocation had to come before any further medical issues because she is truly excited to be moving into her new local apartment.

 

Also heard from Kay Selch. His leg is almost healed, although he still keeps it wrapped. Requires a bi-weekly visit to check condition but he is very close to being back to pre-hospitalization condition. That is marvelous news. Kay and Kim have not had a good year in terms of health but happily report there is light at the end of the tunnel.

 

Most of you will remember that last year upon Bob Etter's arrival for his winter hiatus in FL he ended up in hospital with sepsis. Well, he's done it again. Hadn't been in FL two days when he was admitted for double pneumonia and spent his first five days in hospital. When will he learn to stay in IN??? He said he knew things weren't good when they left, but he was determined to be in FL if he had to rehab. That way he can walk outside to his lawn chair and bask in the sun and warmth. When we talked, he was a bit breathless but seemed to be coping well. They are camped in Port Charlotte, about 30 miles from Ft. Myers. Plan to return in late March or early April, depending on weather. On their return trip, they hope to visit with Bill and Portia Craven, John and Karen Stewart, Marvin and Deanna Henderson, and Bev and Kenton Smith. Sure hope those plans come to fruition. Stay well, Bob.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NOTES:

 

Received a great note from Ed Underly. He still hopes to some day attend a Class reunion. Loves staying in touch with all of us. He said, “They say you can never go home again, and in some respects that is true. But, they didn't say you can't carry home with you in your heart and mind, as I have all these years for Martinsville.” He commented that his parents were friends with Jim Barrick's parents and he remembers well the times he and Jim spent together. Great to have you with us, Eddie, after so many years of absence. You are so right that home is where the heart is and where our story begins.

 

Jo Nutter Lasiter is back in FL until late April. She says things are fine with her with the exception of still suffering the recent loss of her sister, Jill. I have always felt the loss of a sibling is more painful than loss of parents. It closes a chapter in life. 

 

Bob Riffel wrote in early January wishing everyone a Happy New Year. He mentioned that not too many years ago the thought of being 74 was very far removed from his youthful reality. Now, it seems so young. Bob lives in AL where it's usually warm, but he said they just had 10 inches of snow and lost electricity for three days. Reminded him of his childhood in Morgan County. 

 

You might remember my report in January about the clandestine pornographic meeting in Forkey's attended by Don Burleigh, Jim Brunnemer, and Jim Branham. I asked for any info as to the nature of that gathering. Marty Akard Short wrote she had it on good authority they were looking at recent pictures of her in various cheerleader contortions and were astounded at how much younger she looked then they did and that she could still get her body into those positions. Marty, I'm sure you are right but they will never admit that. On the other hand, Jim Brunnemer wrote to say I had hurt his feelings. He said contrary to my unwarranted accusation that they were involved in some evil behavior, the truth was that he was providing much needed moral teachings and admonitions to the other two wicked sinners. His words, not mine. I welcome the “other side of the story” from Jim and Don to set the record straight. Jim and Marty can be less than trustworthy.

 

This is very important. Marcia Short Schweitzer wrote to say she was entering data into her 2018 calendar and wanted to block our 56th reunion activities. Wow, Marcia, you are smart to preplan, but I hadn't given it a thought. So, for those of us who do plan ahead, can we at least begin a conversation of the date and plans. For purposes of discussion, I'll throw out Sat., Sept. 8, 2018, which is the second Sat. in Sept., as we have always done, with a wonderful catered picnic at Bob's. That's just a suggestion. Please send me comments on ideas for different format, date, food, etc. I certainly don't want to be accused of bulldozing my ideas through the group on this important event. Speak now or forever hold your peace. Once we have a consensus, I'll block the date with a venue and food vendor of your choice. Probably should have this done by April 1. Thanks, Marcia, for keeping us on track. She also sent her best wishes for a Happy New Year to all and reminded us to “keep smiling.” 

 

As a miscellaneous note from me: I want to tell those of you who haven't been home for a year or so that you won't know your town. A group purchased 22 of the dilapidated buildings around the square for renovation. It is beginning to look great. There will be all variety of restaurants, apartments, businesses, and boutiques. When you add the new facades to the revived Martinsville City of Mineral Water sign overlooking the courthouse, it's almost picturesque. The improvements and new life and vitality will make you all proud. 

 

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

 

Because of a family issue, I couldn't attend the January WBB. However, I asked our trusty back-up reporter, Bob Etter, to send me info to share. He was short and sweet—“the Selches, the Greys, and the Etters were the only attendees.” My guess is they slandered those of us missing so he couldn't include conversations in his report. I'm sure that even though the crowd was slight, it was nevertheless rowdy and embarrassing to us all. Hopefully we will have a few more attendees on February 12 at 10:30 for the festivities.

 

SMILE FOR THE MONTH: (compliments of Stony) An Ode to His Wine

 

Wine is now cheaper than gas, so Drink Don't Drive.

Wine pairing in the Stone Age: If it tries to eat you, serve with red. If it runs away, serve with white.

A meal without wine is called breakfast.

Wine improves with age. The older I get, the better I like it.

The secret of enjoying a good wine: 1) Open bottle to allow it to breathe. 2) If it does not appear to be breathing, give it mouth-to-mouth.

In wine there is wisdom. In beer and liquor there is freedom. In water there is bacteria.

I tried cooking supper with wine tonight. Didn't go so well. After five glasses I forgot why I was even in the kitchen.

 

Love to all, karen

 

January 2018 UPDATE

The festivities are a memory as I begin to compose this January 2018 epistle. It was a great holiday for me celebrating with almost all my family. We even had snow on Christmas. On the downside, the Colts lost again. Next year is OURS. I'm actually praying for losses at this point so we get better draft picks. Enough. Happy 2018 to each of you. May we bless God this year and may He shine on our little group.

HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

JANUARY BIRTHDAY WISHES:

    

Marty Akard Short, Virginia Fulford Watts, Judy Hacker Fraker, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Frances Hatley Fisher, Diana Hatter Tolley, Connie Shields Lowry, and John Stewart.

 

CONGRATULATIONS on your special day to each of you. Make it count.

 

CLASSMATE MEDICAL INFO:

 

Judy Wolff-Parrets says she is getting healthier all the time. I'm so proud of her positive attitude and fighting spirit. Keep on keeping on, dear Judy. She thanks Charlie Gardner for his “laugh for the month” in December. Actually, I had several folks comment on how much that made them laugh. Great—laughter is the secret to a happy life.

 

Received a call from Jim Barrack's wife, Georgia. Jim has throat cancer and has been fitted with a permanent trach and feeding tube. Jim is also in a wheelchair from mobility issues. He began with sore throat before Thanksgiving, but was consistently misdiagnosed with a virus. Their continued search for an answer to his problems finally led to further tests and diagnosis. Not what they wanted but at least they know with what they are dealing. Jim has to be in nursing home because of needs for oxygen and feeding. Needless to say, Georgia and their two sons aren't happy with this decision but are dealing with it as best they can. When we spoke, Georgia didn't know where he would finally call home but promised to keep me posted on placement and progress. She said Jim's biggest gripe is that he wants his donuts and coffee. Georgia said Jim reads and re-reads the Updates to stay in touch because he hasn't been able to physically participate with us. Jim, we miss you but are here if we can do anything to help.

 

After some prodding, Linda Gibbs Gehring finally reported her cardiologist didn't change her meds and is happy with her progress. On March 1 she acknowledges the one-year anniversary of her heart attack. It changed her life greatly but, like so many other Class of '62 folks, has a great attitude and spirit. She sends her love to all. 

 

Bob Elliott chastised me because he didn't receive the December Update after calling to be reinstated. My fault. Forgot to add him to snail mail labels, but that error has been rectified and he did receive the Update a bit late. Bob is going through a series of stress tests. So far they show lesions on the lungs but not cancerous in nature. Bob will join the WBB as soon as his strength allows. Hope all tests come out benign.

 

CHRISTMAS COMMUNICATIONS:

 

I love the Christmas season because it is a time when we tend to communicate with others more than usual. My contact with classmates is no exception. Here are some greetings with which I was personally blessed. (PS: My Updates are my Christmas card greetings, so please don't think me unfriendly when you don't receive my card.)

 

I think my first card this year and in many previous years was from Curt and Mary Boner. They always send a new year calendar in conjunction with a Christmas greeting. I post that beside my computer and use it daily. Thanks C and M for including me on your list.

 

Linda Fisher Phillips always sends a yearly recap with her Christmas card. This year she says they are doing well and accept anything that comes their way. She feels blessed when she reads of other Class friends issues. Their family continues to grow with the addition of their 4th great-grandchild. At last count their family of five has evolved to 23 and counting. They are already shoveling snow and being blasted with winter. She said if this pattern continues, Santa will need chains on the sleigh.

 

Karen Arnold Pottorff appeared at my door with two goodie bags for Sarah and me. Among the gifts were beautiful, huge rooster mugs and rooster kitchen towel, which we have used often. She is aware of my fanaticism for all things chicken/rooster. She also included a scented candle and gloves. Thank you much, Karen, for always being so generous and thoughtful to us. 

 

Janet (Elmore) and Don Donoho sent a card thanking me for keeping us together and wishing a Merry holiday season. You're welcome to all. She also included a snail-mail contribution. Thank you both for staying close.

 

Stony will have his second knee surgery on December 26th. Stony and Carol and Henry Gray surprised the Wild Bunch on December 10 with a visit. We had a marvelous visit. It gave us a chance to really know Carol. I used to kid Stony that I didn't even believe he was married because Carol was a ghost. In reality, she is a charming, articulate, youthful, cheery lady who takes good care of our Stony. She is the one chauffeuring him around and waiting on him during his rehabilitation. She confided she wished he would wait longer for his second surgery because she is exhausted after the first. However, Stony won't even consider that because he wants to be on the golf course in April. Knowing Stony, I'm certain he will fulfill that goal. Thanks, Carol, for allowing us to make you feel welcome as an adopted Class member. Henry was his usual talkative self (Not!). Since we didn't sit close I didn't get to inquire of his lifestyle, but he looked great and appears to be fine. 

 

Also received a beautiful card from Don and Linda Burleigh and an e-mail from Judy Knose wishing me a wonderful holiday season. Marvin Henderson even called to send their best wishes. Marvin really enjoyed the December Laugh for the Month (which several seemed to enjoy). Remember the “Strip Down, Facing Me” NRA laugh? He said on first reading he thought I was relaying my true story. Marvin, that isn't so incredulous. At this time of life I might do anything and not realize it's inappropriate. He and Deanna send their love and an open invite to visit if you ever get to the Ocala area.

 

And last, but certainly not least, thanks to Austin and Chyrel Gray. They presented me with a bottle of blackberry wine from Friendship Winery and the best banana nut bread that has ever touched my tongue. (Chyrel, please bring recipe to next WBB.) Austin and Chyrel are generous with wine throughout the year, and I very much appreciate their thoughtfulness and friendship. 

 

Sure hope I didn't forget to mention anyone. Believe me, I appreciate every contact and good wish and thank everyone for remembering me.

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY LOSS:

 

Received a note from Jo Nutter Lasiter on December 24 that her sister, Jill, peacefully passed this day. I had corresponded with Jo earlier in the week, having heard Jill had taken a turn for the worse, and she shared that it would be only a few days. The family was with her to the end. Horrible way to spend Christmas Eve. Jill married Bob Keller many years ago. Bob has cared for her diligently during the many years she struggled with mental issues. That type of debilitation makes illness even harder to accept. God bless Jo and her family during this valley in life. Jo, please know you have many who love you and share some of your pain. Her e-mail address is jody944@sbcglobal.net or you can find her on FB.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE INFO:

 

First off, let me ask – do I owe anyone 8x10 photos of the reunion activities? My limited memory seems to remember someone telling me they didn't receive what they ordered. If so, please contact me because I now have those. Sent Eddie Underly his photos and hope he enjoys trying to figure out who is who after 60 years. I promised to assist him if he asked.

 

Another one of our own celebrated a 50th during 2017--Frank and Georgeann Ennis. A daughter posted on FB that “they have done a wonderful job with a crazy life.” She even posted a photo of their wedding day. You would not recognize them. Frank actually wore a white jacket with tie  and was all spiffed up.  Story goes that they met in a grocery store and the rest is history. Congrats, Frank and Georgeann. Personally, I think Georgeann is a saint for making it 50 years.

 

This wasn't a happy holiday for Dewayne White. I saw an “in memoriam” for his wife Diane, on FB. This is his second Christmas without his soul mate and it hasn't gotten easier. We are just glad he is finally back with us and connected. Thankfully, he has a big family to help bolster him as he walks alone—like several of us. 

 

A little birdie swooped down and whispered to me that there was a clandestine “man party” with three of our illustrious classmates during December. Seems Jim Brunnemer, Don Burleigh, and Jim Branham were seen in a back booth at Forkey's, purportedly sharing pornographic photos. Now, the aforementioned activity was not verified by independent sources, but knowing those three jocks, it makes sense there was some nefarious activity being conducted. If anyone has further info on this surreptitious meeting, please inform me so I can share with all.

 

Received a thanks from Wayne Haase for including him with all of us. He even called me a “treasure.” Many of you met Wayne again at the reunion. He now joins in our news and keeps in touch. He also included some “quips,” some of which I will share in future Updates. Thanks, Wayne, for your contact, for re-joining your OLD friends, and for making me smile.

 

This is a shout-out to Jim Barrack and Larry Lambert. Fellows, I notice that Morris Richardson supposedly lives at 88 Laveianan Court. We have never been able to contact him. Perhaps that's because he does not want to be connected. However, since he might be your neighbor, if either of you have the chance to ask him if he wants updates on his Class friends and if he says “yes,” would you let me know. I would like to have him back with us. Jerry Massey also lives close to you folks, but at the last purge he didn't express any interest in continuing contact.

 

WBB:

 

We had a great crowd during December. As I mentioned earlier, Stony and Carol Pearcy and Henry Gray were special guests. Others attending were Bill Fulford, Charles Vogus, Bob and Katherine Etter, John and Karen Stewart, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Don and Linda Burleigh, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Brent Boner, Sonnie Myers Gano, Jim Brunnemer, and me. Many of those folks will be evacuating town by the time you receive this Update. We all send them safe travel prayers and our promise to keep Hooterville in line until they return.

 

Next WBB will be Monday, January 8, 2018. (My apologies to Don and Linda Burleigh. Apparently I neglected to give them credit for attendance at the November WBB. I wondered why Don kept coming up to me and making certain I took note of his presence. Sorry folks. First mistake ever as you all know!!)

 

LAUGHS FOR THE MONTH: 

(Compliments of Marilyn Dyer Hornberger) Our life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely, in a well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting “holy shit what a ride.” 

 

(Compliments of Sonnie Myers Gano) GOD'S PLAN FOR AGING

 

Most seniors never get enough exercise. In His wisdom, God decreed that seniors become forgetful so they would have to search for their glasses, keys, and other things, thus ensuring more exercise.

 

Then God made seniors lose coordination so they would drop things, requiring them to bend, reach and stretch.

 

Then God considered the function of bladders and decided seniors would have additional calls of nature requiring more trips to the bathroom, thus providing more exercise.

 

So, if you find as you age you mutter about getting up and down more, remember it's God's will. It is all in your best interest.”

 

That perfectly explains everything so that even seniors understand the plan. Thanks, Sonnie.

 

Love and Happy New Year to all,

karen

DECEMBER 2017 UPDATE

As I begin to pull together this December Update, the Colts are playing behind me with the dome open (they lost AGAIN), the sun is shining, and it's 52 degrees in Hooterville (as Don Billings lovingly calls our home town). You all know that we are nearing the holiday season which ushers in a New Year. Let me be the first to wish you all Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. But, let's not forget that Dec. 7 is Pearl Harbor Day, an epoch event in our lives, and the 21st is Winter's Eve. May we all be blessed during 2018 with Peace on Earth and may it begin with US.

 

DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

 

Dee Ann Evans Little, Russell Knapp, and Sue Weddle Myers. You may be small in number but you are large in importance to us. Make this year very special.

 

CLASSMATE FAMILY GRIEF:

 

Jim and Sue Ham lost their son, Bradley, during November. I had the pleasure to know Brad and his wife, Teresa, and know how loved they are in the community. Brad's loss is felt deeply. Can't imagine the pain for Jim and Sue. Keep them in your prayers and thoughts. You can write Jim at j.ham44@yahoo.com. God bless and hold them.

 

As the WBB group arrived at Forkey's on Nov. 13, a beautiful lady sat at a nearby table and was talking with some classmates. I inquired of her identity and was told it was Marcie Murphy Bolin. I ran right over and hugged her. Hadn't had that pleasure for over 55 years. If you remember, I reported in July that she lost her step-father, Arthur Wigal. Marcie informed me she had also just lost her mother. Can't imagine her pain and struggle to pick up the pieces. God bless Marcie as she seeks brighter days and a lighter heart. I have no doubt her faith will allow that to happen. Come join the WBB this winter, Marcie. You and Wendy will be heartily welcomed.

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Prayers do work. Richard Hamilton pulled through his latest serious hospitalization and is now rehabbing at home and with three weekly trips to the St. Francis rehab center. He has far to go to regain his strength but is working hard to accomplish that. I do hope we get a personal visit at the December WBB.

 

Bill Fulford attended WBB in November and looks fantastic. He has received a clean bill of health from his tests and is already back to work as if nothing had ever bothered him. We are a tough group of old-timers.

 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

 

Since I have mentioned this soiree several times already, I'll give you a full report now. Those attending were Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, John and Karen Stewart, Charlie Vogus, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Bill Fulford, Jim Brunnemer, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Bob and Catherine Etter, Marty Akard Short, Harry Maginity, and me. If you add Tish Scherer Hartley and Marcie Murphy Bolin who sat close to our table and joined in the conversation, that made 16 enjoying the cold, gloomy November morning. 

 

John and Karen leave right after Christmas on a flight to FL; Sharon Tutterow and Perry Quakenbush have already left for FL; and Curt and Mary leave mid-December and return early January from FL. Curt said Brent is fine but has been spending most of his time on his farm in Madison. 

 

Next WBB will be Monday, Dec. 11, 10:30, at Forkey's. The size of the group will begin to dwindle but the camaraderie of those attending will be strong.

 

RETURN TO CLASS FOLD:

 

Received a call from Bob Elliott who asked to be reinstated to the distribution. He said he misunderstood instructions and thought no contact would mean he would automatically be continued. I had wondered why there had been no contact and was hoping it wasn't a medical issue. Bob shared he has lost 85 lbs. and is still having tests to determine why. He is facing an MRI and colon tests. Certainly hope they find the problem and get Bob back to his former spunk.

 

Also had a very nice telephone visit with Francis Hatley Fisher. She stated she didn't want to lose touch and was sorry she hadn't made contact. She explained she just lost her husband, Delbert, after an extended illness and that many things fell through the cracks. I was delighted to learn she didn't want to leave us. She is suffering mightily but has the support of their seven children. Now that Frances isn't confined to home by care-giving, she promised to join us again at WBB. 

 

Welcome back Bob and Francis.

 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS COMMENTS:

 

Elizabeth Brummett Peterson sent me a great photo of she and I at Bob's shelter house. Liz looks great and is as sweet as ever. Thanks, Liz, for remembering me.

 

Beverly Parker Smith wrote a nice note thanking me for keeping the '62 connection together. It was great to know she is connected by our long-distance umbilical cord. Thanks, Bev. My pleasure.

 

Upon sending a birthday greeting to Marcia Short Schweitzer, she wrote back her love and thanks and said she spent a happy day with kids/grandkids who baked her a special Coco Rice Krispies BD cake. Interesting, Marcia. Maybe I want that recipe. 

 

Mike O'Neal touched base to say he is fine although staying in much of the time because of his COPD. He says he keeps busy around the house and yard. Always good to hear from Mike.

 

Also heard from John Jones saying he enjoys reading the monthly news and thanking me for keeping him informed. You're welcome, John.

 

Charlie Vogus let me know he and Janice just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary and said he didn't want to be left out of the accolades. Congrats, Charlie. Janice is a saint.

 

Ed Underly wrote to order an 8x10 of the 55th reunion activities. (Those are on order, Ed.) I told him not to laugh at his classmates upon viewing. He said he would never laugh at us but might with us. Said he still thinks of us as when he left town in our much younger years.

 

If you folks will remember, a few years ago our Class donated funds to repair the “Martinsville City of Mineral Water” sign which sits above the Union Block Building on the square. It was re-lit to much pomp and circumstance but lasted only a few months and then no one came forward with funds to keep it going. There isn't a one of you who won't remember that landmark fondly. It is one of the few reminders of the city's history as a destination for visitors to the sanitariums (now all gone) that once dotted our town. In addition to renovations on the sign, the entire building will soon be revitalized to its original glory, including the leaded glass skylights. They believe the sign arrived sometime between 1929 and 1938 but no clear records exist. It has been dark for 14 years, much to the chagrin of we locals. Very happy to report an entrepreneur has once again refurbished the sign and we had another lighting celebration. Folks, be sure to see it. It will make you proud. BEAUTIFUL!! This benefactor has vowed to not let it be darkened again. Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Craig Fenneman.

 

SMILE FOR THE MONTH: (compliments of Charlie Gardner)

 

“Yesterday I got my permit to carry a concealed weapon. so today I went over to the local Bass Pro Shop to get a 9mm Glock for personal protection.

 

When I was ready to pay for the pistol and ammo, the cashier said, 'Strip down, facing me.' Making a mental note to complain to the NRA about the gun control wackos running amok, I did just as she had instructed. When the hysterical shrieking and alarms finally subsided, I found out she was referring to how I should place my credit card in the card reader?

 

As a senior citizen, I do not get flustered often, but this time it took me a while to get my pants back on. I've been asked to shop elsewhere in the future. They need to make their instructions to seniors a little clearer.”

 

NOVEMBER 2017 UPDATE

 

Happy November to all. Okay, it's a dreary, cold Sunday afternoon. I'm waiting for the Colts game and thought it best to begin composing the November Update. In two days our home will be inundated with, if history repeats, over 800 little gremlins in Halloween costumes. I have laid back $45 in candy and told Sarah, my emissary for the festivities, that when that is gone the lights go out. I know, heartless. Remember Daylight Saving Time changes, election day, Veterans Day, Armistice Day for WWI, and, of course, Thanksgiving. May we all bless God during this month of Thanksgiving for all we enjoy. Do you realize that the next time I write it will be to say Merry Christmas!!??

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Mark Cohen, Jim Ham, Barbara Hicks Richardson, Larry Martin, Johnny Russell, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Charlie Vogus, Richard Walters, and Danny St. John. HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH OF YOU. 

LOST SHEEP RETURN TO CLASS FOLD:

I'm happy to report we did reinstate three of those earlier purged, bringing our connection number to 119. Let's agree to lose no more classmates for any reason.

Received a call from Brenda Asher, Ron's wife, who said, “Ron really enjoys keeping in touch with his Class friends, so please don't delete him.” She went on to say they just returned from Hawaii. Wow, what a way to enjoy retirement. I also know from Facebook posts that Ron is really into fishing. Even though he never contacts us, he is out there thinking of us warmly. 

Also very glad to hear from DeWayne White. He said, “I am finally back in contact with the world. Had a couple of rough years since losing Diana.” He said his health was great and he is working part time to stay active. Welcome back, DeWayne. You were missed and your mental state was concerning. 

Surprised and happy to receive a warm letter from Marcie Murphy Bolin. We haven't heard from her for years. Guess I thought she didn't want Class contact. Yet, she said, “PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE don't take me off your list!! I get a cup of coffee and go to a quiet place to read and enjoy all about my classmates. It's a real highlight for me.” She thanked me for acknowledging the recent death of her stepfather. She now has her Mom, aged 90, living with her. Marcie sent a generous contribution to snail mail. Thanks and welcome back, Marcie!

In connection with the purging communications I received welcome comments from Richard and Connie Young from Spring Hill, FL. They like their new home and, thankfully, were unaffected by Irma. He did say, though, they went to Mississippi just in case.

have also learned that Bill and Portia Craven and Marvin and Deanna Henderson also came through the storm unscathed. Wonderful news. 

Equally glad to hear from Ed Underly. Ed commented, “I enjoy hearing about all my friends in Martinsville …. I have never forgotten any of you. I might not recognize you from photos of today because in my minds eye we are just like we were in the 7th grade together. Love Ed.”

CLASSMATE TIDBITS:

Frank and Becky Bock left for their new home in Brooksville, FL. They were filled with mixed emotions, but I'd bet by this writing they are already settled in and loving the new lifestyle. Becky said to share their new address is 4323 Andrew Lane, 34601, and encourages anyone travelling in their area to contact them. They would most certainly welcome any and all visitors. Stay in touch, Becky.

Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush will leave for Tampa after Thanksgiving. Their property too was spared serious issues, even though they spent many fearful hours to learn that. She always attends WBB and will be missed. Bless your trip, Sharon.

Sonnie Gano related that she and Walt will cruise to Europe in April for two weeks. She mentioned some destinations but, being unfamiliar with Europe, I can't remember. I just know they will have a marvelous experience. Just don't fall again, Sonnie!

Stony sent to e-mail recipients a number to call Anheuser-Busch direct in Missouri if you wish to comment on the NFL players kneeling during the anthem. A-B wants to know how the public feels as to whether they should continue supporting the NFL through advertisement dollars. It is legit because I called 800 342 5283 and gave my opinion. Respond as your conscience dictates if you have feelings about this issue. 

Steve and Diane Hiatt are off to FL for the winter. He asked me to “keep herding this group of cats up here.” I'll do my best, Steve. Enjoy your winter in FL as we fight ice, cold, snow, and clouds.

Joyce Hamilton was instrumental in organizing and effectuating a wonderful event at our FFF this year. The FFF Committee set out to honor Vietnam veterans--a long overdue endeavor. At least 80 conflict Vietnam vets attended and were honored in an emotional ceremony. I believe all who attended, many of whom I personally met when they registered, appreciated the salute to their sacrifice. That's our group and several of us are still suffering from that sacrifice. God bless you all.

Speaking of the FFF, two of our own were honored at the 50th wedding anniversary celebration. Marilyn (Dyer) and Richard Hornberger and Jim and Sue Ham. I am in awe of their accomplishment. Congratulations and may you be granted yet another 50 years of wedded bliss.

Heard that Janet Hart Kilty has passed. Janet graduated in 1960 and is known by several of you. Janet's sister, Sue, is Mike O'Neal's significant other and has attended several of our functions. So sorry about this loss, Sue and Mike. Janet was a terrific high school friend for years.

For reasons of friendship, Austin and Chyrel Grey appeared at my door during October carrying a bottle of Elderberry wine made in IN. They never forget me when visiting new wineries in the area. I had just completed all the wine Stony presented to me on his reunion visit home. Thanks so very much, dear and thoughtful friends. The gifts remind me of a little quip Stony sent for my use: “Every time I say a dirty word, I have to wash my mouth out with wine and chocolate.” You have no idea how much that applies to me.

REUNION RECAP:

All albums and 8x10's are in the mail. If you paid for a memory and haven't received same, please contact me immediately and Connie and I will make it right. Things got a bit confusing during our festivities and mistakes could have been made. If you did receive photos, hope you enjoy them asmuch as I did. Connie, as always, did a superb job for us. Folks have no idea how much time she spends at the computer to pull all that off, not to mention her time behind the camera. She is terrific to us and I know all of us appreciate her loyalty. 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Small group at October gathering. Those eleven attending were Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Bill Fulford, Don Burleigh, Austin and Chyrel Grey, Curt Boner, Sharon Quakenbush, Sonnie Gano, Charlie Vogus, Tish Scherer Hartley, and me. Other faithful attendees were MIA for one reason or another. Next breakfast will be at Forkey's on Monday, November 13, at 10:30. Be there if you haven't flown South.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

I saved the unhappy subject of health problems until last, so as to not begin with distressing subjects. Yet, here goes info for our prayer concerns:

Kay Selch was hospitalized for cellulitis. He struggles with this issue often but usually not so much that it requires hospitalization. Kay, so very sorry to learn of this. Please recover very quickly. We miss you at WBB.

Stony had knee surgery early in the month. To hear him tell it, he is ready to run a marathon. Yet, we all know he always thought he had the physical prowess of an NFL linebacker. In other words, he wouldn't tell us if he was struggling. He told me his other knee is scheduled for Jan. His goal is to be back on the course by Spring. You can do it, Stony. No doubt!!

John Stewart wrote that Karen had her last chemo and it looks like she will be ready to fly to FL on Dec. 28. They have both faced this challenge with aplomb and will continue so to do. God bless you, Karen. Hurry and regain your strength so you can enjoy the warm FL breezes.

Bill Fulford will have had a tumor removed from his kidney when you receive this (Oct. 30). I promise to determine how that turns out and report in Dec. All our thoughts are with you, Bill, during your recuperation. We know all will end well.

Just came from a party where I learned that Frank Ennis has also been hospitalized with pneumonia. Glad to learn you were home, though, Frank. We have had perfect weather for this type of respiratory condition—damp, up and down temps, gloomy, pollen, etc. Everyone be careful.

I saved the worst and yet best 'til last. Our great friend and Class supporter, Richard Hamilton, has been hospitalized for most of Oct. and now faces most of November in The Springs Rehab Facility in Mooresville. Some of us locally have known that he was literally “clinging to life” and have held our breaths. The good news is Richard once again beat the odds and surprised all with his Energizer Bunny performance. It would be easier to list things that haven't caused Richard concern. To summarize and not in chronological order: double pneumonia, high fever, A-fib, kidney and liver failure, dialysis, congestive heart failure from fluid retention, coma, etc. Yet, looking at that list, I am thrilled to write the good news of his miracle recovery. Yes, he has far to go, but Richard will overcome.

Thoughts and prayers for all our Classmate health issues—those known and unknown. 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

(Jim Brunnemer: Having survived the antics of two teenaged sons, Jim says he can sympathize and empathize with this vignette--

With a look of unease creasing his weary countenance, a man before a judge asked, “Your honor, how many years would I spend in the slammer for murdering my 16-year-old son?” The judge paused, then responded, “Sir, there's not a jury in America that would convict a father for killing his teenage son.”

(From Carol Dow Teague: Why I like Retirement)

When is a retiree's bedtime? Two hours after falling asleep on couch.

How many retiree's to change a light bulb? Only one, but it may take all day.

Biggest gripe of retirees? Not enough time to get everything done.

Formal attire for retirees? Tied shoes.

Why don't retirees clean out basement? As soon as they do, kids want to store stuff.

Love to all – karen

 

OCTOBER 2017 UPDATE

In the 'Ville, the weather is fall-ish, which means we are preparing for
Fall Foliage Festival activities and Halloween.  The summer has been great
here, and we hope that bodes for a mild and short winter with lots of
physically, emotionally, and mentally healing sunshine.   Seasonal affective
disorder (SAD) tries to defeat me during the winter months, so I am diligent
to defend against it.  Those of you in sunshine states wouldn't understand
that malady, but, trust me, it is real and it can be debilitating.  I offer
a toast to the Sun God!

CLASS BIRTHDAYS:

Jim Barrick
October 20
67 Laveianan Ct,
Mart. 46151

Lorraine Dunn Richardson
October 7
Rainrich@sbcglobal.net

Richard Hamilton
October 1
Chuckndi46151@yahoo.com

Alice Lehr Hornaday
October 30
14 E. Main St.
Mooresville 46158

Mike Myers
October 14
Mmyers001@ma.rr.com

Becky Pratt Bock
October 1
Obbk41@yahoo.com

Glenn Sheeks
October 10
Glennsheeks@sbcglobal.net

Tish Sunderman Haskett
October 6
Tishhaskett@gmail.com

Judy Tapp Sidebottom
October 9
Dad_mom_99@yahoo.com

           A very happy birthday to all of these Class friends on their
special day.

HAPPY OCCASIONS:

Judy Garrett and Paul Knose celebrated 50 years of wedded bliss in
September.  Congratulations honey-mooners.

HEALTH UPDATES:

Marvin Grimes stopped by in Sept.  He has some breathing issues but those
don't slow him down.  He was on his Harley, and he and his son were enjoying
a beautiful Sunday with the wind in their faces and bugs in their teeth.
Marvin seemed well.

DeWayne White also stopped briefly to ask if the reunion was a success.  He
and Diana were out of town with a grandson's sports team.  As a matter of
fact, many of those who responded they could not attend the reunion
indicated it was grandchildren activities that took priority.

Dan Broyer also stopped in.  He registered to attend the reunion but it
wasn't a good day for his energy level.  While he is no longer taking chemo,
it still lingers in his body and causes fatigue.  They tell him it might
take a year before he feels more like his old self.  Don't give up, Dan.

Talked with Mary Anderson, who was one who couldn't attend reunion.
She is seeing an orthopedist about arthritic knee issues.  She will not
have surgery at this time but will try intense therapy and exercise to keep
her more mobile.  This coupled with other health issues makes it hard for
her to make plans even a day ahead of time.  She said she will shoot for
next year's reunion.  Good luck, Mary.

CLASS BREAKFAST:

The Monday Morning Munch Bunch were pleased that some new faces were in the
group.  Bill Craven was in from Florida.  He and Portia drove to the 'Ville
on Sunday from Pigeon Forge to visit family.  While they couldn't make the
reunion, we were pleased Bill joined the breakfast group.  He arrived in his
fully restored 1939 Grassyfork Fisheries delivery truck.  (I'm sending a
photo to Jane for the website.)  Bill Fulford and Steve Koons also joined us
for the first time.  It was like a continuation of the reunion.

Remember to mark your calendar for the second Monday of every month,
Forkey's,
9:00, for this rowdy affair.  Next gathering will be October 14, which is
the day after the FFF Parade.  Come join us if you want to begin your week
with a smile.  We never know who will walk through the door.

MISCELLANEOUS NOTES:

My home is located at 740 E. Washington Street on the parade route.  I offer
an invitation to family friends to join me for the parade activities.  I
furnish chili (both chicken and hamburger), cheese & crackers, corn bread,
veggies, dessert, and iced tea.  Food contributions aren't requested or
necessary but would be consumed if added to the smorgasbord.  Please accept
this invitation to enjoy the parade with us on Sunday, Oct. 14, beginning at
1:00.

Bob Etter called in response to the reunion wrap-up letter soon to be
published in the local paper.  Bob said Kenny Lewis has passed, although he
doesn't remember exactly when. That makes 47 friends lost so far as we can
ascertain.  Bummer!

REUNION RECAP:

I am enclosing a copy of the group photo and post-reunion newspaper article
for all snail-mail recipients and earlier sent e-mail recipients the same
info. Wish more could have shared the love with us.  Six classmates who had
sent reservations didn't come, which was a disappointment.   Maybe next year
there won't be so many calendar conflicts.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

For the next few issues, I am closing with "Great Truths That Little
Children Have Learned."  I hope these make you smile.  Do not be embarrassed
if some of you adults are learning these for the first time.  It's never too
late for intellectual growth.

No matter how hard you try, you can't baptize cats.
When your Mom is mad at your Dad, don't let her brush your hair.
If your sibling hits you, don't hit back.  They always catch the second
person.
You can't trust dogs to watch your food.
Don't sneeze when someone is cutting your hair.

Love to everyone -- karen

 

SEPTEMBER 2017 UPDATE

 

This will be our 55th MHS Class of '62 reunion wrap-up. For those who attended, much of the info won't be news. However, there were many, many on our connection list who did not attend, so this info is for their edification. Let me state, before I forget, that if anyone out there still wants to order a 24-page hard-cover photo album of both events, including two group photos, you must call me at 765 315 0397 immediately. I will also need $38.50 quickly after placing the order. Connie, Bob (if I can drag him kicking and screaming into the process), and I will choose appropriate photos, Connie will send our design to publisher, and I will then mail to recipients. It could be end of September before you receive this work of art. Take my word that it contains views of many beautiful, talented, ageless and wonderful faces. First, let's not forget --

SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Julie Arney Crawford, Ronnie Asher, Brent Boner, Joyce Bowman Branham, Carol Dow Teague, Janet Elmore Donoho, Joyce Favour Greenwalt, Judy Garrett Knose, Austin Gray, Marvin Grimes, Jerry Massey, Steve McIlwain, Jo Nutter Lasiter, Mike O'Neal, Bob Riffel, Chuck Ritter, Virginia Toon Woodall, Karen Wampler, and, last but not least, Nick Zoller.

Wow, lots of special days celebrated during September. Honorees, all your classmates send you a blessing for the best year ever. Make it happen.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

One of the good things to come out of getting together was that I received health updates which otherwise would not have been shared. Here are a few that I can remember:

Irene Cure Conte just returned from a trip through Little Rock, AR, during which she visited with Kenny Hacker. Kenny received six heart stints. As you can imagine, he has a long recuperation ahead of him, but Irene reported he looked good and, now that blood flow has been restored to his brain, he is much more alert and talkative. Thanks so much, Irene, for sharing that good news with us. Hurry and get well quickly, Kenny. Irene is also having some medical testing and will let me know how that turns out. Great luck, Irene. 

Cora Capshaw called to say she is still a bit immobile and short of breath and not able to venture out much. Otherwise, she would have gladly joined us. Good news, though, all cancer is gone. Thanks for that good news, Cora. 

Linda Gehring Gibbs missed her first reunion in my memory. As you might remember, she has had a series of heart attacks and is on medicine and still under doctor's frequent care. She isn't able to sell much real estate but hopes to be back soon. She wants mightily to be removed from some of the blood thinners and heart pills because she believes she will feel better. Linda, please know your absence was noted. You just concentrate on full recovery so you can attend in 2018.

Sue Weddle Myers called to say she and Bill would attend. During the conversation she shared that she struggles with carpel tunnel, bursitis, and rotator cuff dysfunction. She will not let them inject or operate on spine but would rather depend on meds. Sue, I hope that works. 

Heard from Marvin and Deanna Henderson that they were returning from FL for our shindig. Learned that Marvin recently suffered a stroke. It affected his speech and balance. He was in hospital for a week and rehab a week. While in hospital they discovered one carotid artery was 90% blocked, so he had surgery to correct that in June. However, I am very happy to report he looked and acted like his normal jovial, loving self at the reunion. That was such a relief to see first-hand. Bless you, Marvin.

Received a note from Judy Wolff Parretts. If you recall, she is overcoming bone cancer treatments. At time of writing in early August, she reported that, aside from extreme lethargy, she is doing OK. A few more chemo treatments to endure and then, hopefully, this will be behind her. She exuded her usual upbeat and optimistic self and also said she would definitely miss visiting with her favorite people. You were missed, Judy.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NEWS:

Tish Sunderman Haskett wrote to say she was sorry to miss. Her husband's 55th Class reunion was the same weekend in Elwood, IN. Since he was unable to attend his 50th because of health issues, she felt it only fair to attend with him. She also sent her love and best wishes to all and said she was looking forward to next year's event. You were missed, Tish.

Dick and Angie Elmore are selling and moving to the north side of Indy to be closer to their grandsons in the Zionsville/Carmel areas. Thank heavens they aren't moving to FL or to Vermont, where their other grandson resides. We would miss them at our WBB soirees. 

Gini Fulford Watts and Mike O'Neal called to say severe allergies kept them from joining us. Eyes were so swollen they could barely see. You both were missed.

Lorraine Dunn Richardson shared that hubby Keith was diagnosed with metastatic prostate cancer and is undergoing treatment. She needs to stay home and close to him. He doesn't get out much, yet. Keith is one of many who are fighting fiercely against cancer. Keep them all in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Wilson Brummett had a brighter reason for missing a reunion (and she seldom misses). She and her sister had a two-week vacation planned down South. She and hubby Bud just returned from a three week vacation in the Northwest and CA. They drove over 6,600 miles plus took a seven-day cruise on the Snake and Columbia Rivers. It goes without saying they had an absolutely wonderful time but were tired and ready to return to the 'Ville. One of their highlights was a visit to Mt. St. Helens 37 years after the gigantic eruption and it was “an awesome sight, very interesting.” They also visited Sequoia and Yosemite National Parks and Lake Tahoe. Karen, I'm truly jealous. Now that is my idea of an idyllic vacation. She closed by saying, “Sorry I will miss seeing all '62 classmates but tell everyone hello for me.”

Lila and her significant other registered to attend, but at the last minute her son had health issues. She was heartbroken to miss the weekend but sent her love to all. We, too, were disappointed at your absence, Lila.

I noticed in the Reporter that Slug Wigal, 88, of Martinsville passed. In glancing through the article, I learned that he is the father of our classmate Marcie Murphy Bolin. Very sorry to learn of your heartache, Marcie. We all hope for brighter days and a lighter heart very soon.

Ran into Frank and Becky Pratt Bock at the Fair. They have had a sale of all unnecessary items and are awaiting sale of their home so they can begin life in FL. Those of us locally will miss them, but the smiling countenance they exhibited tells me of their excitement at this new venture. Good luck folks. You have loads of 'Ville friends to visit at your new FL home.

Soon Bill Fulford will have surgery to remove a tumor on his kidney. We wish him great luck in the outcome. He promised to keep me advised of his progress, and I'm holding him to that.

Stony also will be having double-knee surgery between now and end of year. He wants to be totally rehabilitated by golfing season next Spring. Given that motivation, I am sure he will obey doctors orders and fully rehab. Nothing stands between Stony and his golf clubs. Let us know, please, Stony as this process proceeds. 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Great crowd during August. This event was held Monday, August 28, to accommodate those who remained after the weekend events for one last chat and hug with friends. Those who joined from out of town were Steve Koons, Rick and Marcia Blunk, and Irene Cure Conte. We all appreciated spending more time with them. Others attending were Austin and Chyrel Gray, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Bill Fulford, Don and Linda Burleigh, Kay and Kim Selch, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Bob and Katherine Etter, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Tish Scherer Hartley, and me. REMINDER: No WBB during September. Next brunch will be at 10:30 AM, Monday, October 9. Be there or be square.

REUNION TIDBITS:

Where to begin. The Saturday dinner was attended by 66 people—38 of whom were classmates. The Sunday picnic hosted 43 attendees—27 classmates. Those traveling the farthest to join us were Steve Koons and Stony Pearcy from TN, Irene Cure Conte from VA, Bob Riffel from AL, Marcia Short Schweitzer from OH, Rick Blunk from MO, Marvin Henderson from FL, and Wayne Haase from MA. Many others came from outside the 'Ville. We all sincerely appreciate the effort these folks made to join us. It wouldn't have been the same without them. We did miss many of you locals, though.

If the name Wayne Haase throws some of you, here is the story cut from an e-mail sent to attendees prior to the reunion events:

“….Rick Blunk and I have found another lost Class friend—long story. For those of you in Marie Welch's first-grade class during 1950-51, you may remember Wayne Haase. He only attended with us that year, but we are so unforgettable he actually remembered us fondly. Rick and I have studied all the faces in Ms. Welch's class and discovered many of that group have left us—Alice Myers, Juetta Hamiton, Donna Townsend, Grace Cooper, Wilburn Trisler, Bobby Hicks, Danny Newman, and maybe others unidentified. The only other kids in that photo that we recognize are Jim Branham, Mike O'Neal, Ruth Woolbright, Diana McCloud, Irene Cure, Paul Goodnight, Larry Martin, Norris Griffin, Bill Cravens, Rick Blunk, and Cam Hacker. Only Rick and Irene are attending this year. If you were in Ms. Welch's class, let me know. Maybe you can identify other smiling cherubic faces. All of this history is to help you identify and make welcome the unknown faces at the events—Wayne and Cindy Haase. We welcome Wayne's homecoming after 55 years. He's lived an interesting life since we parted but still has family in the 'Ville and hasn't forgotten his roots. Should you wish to renew old friendships prior to the reunion, you can contact him at waynehaase@comcast.net.”

Wayne and Cindy were charming, warm folks who were enjoyed by all. We have added Wayne to our distribution list in hopes he will be inclined to join us again. His family owns a farm along White River behind the sawmill, so they return to their roots often. We hope to share time with them often now that we have reacquainted. 

Another highlight of the picnic was compliments of our own Stony. He donated two cases of his home brewed wine for sale at whatever price customer wished to pay. We collected, for the treasury, over $300 on that venture. A huge thanks to Stony for his generosity. I must also confess he left me personally with several bottles—only a couple of which I shared at the picnic. Selfish, I know.

All classmates attending one or all events over the weekend:

Jim Rusie, Curt Boner, Mary Pope Boner, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Steve Hiatt, Bob Etter, David Chandler, Steve Koons, Bill Fulford, Stony Pearcy, Marcia Schweitzer, Bob Riffel, Harry McGinity, Karen Arnold Pottorff, Terry Fleener, Kay Selch, Sharon Robertson Anderson, Janet Brummett Britton, Carol Dow Teague, Austin Gray, Charlie Vogus, Dick Elmore, Don Burleigh, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Marvin Henderson, Richard Hamilton, Dan St. John, Wayne Haase, Sue Weddle Myers, John Stewart, Sonnie Myers Gano, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Glenn Sheeks, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Don Billings, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Henry Gray, Jim Brunnemer, Tura Crone Lamar, Irene Cure Conte, Rick Blunk, Marty Akard, and me.

Update on the class financial condition. When I went to withdraw funds from Home Bank to pay for expenses, the remaining balance would have been about $489. She told me when that balance reached $350 we would be charged a monthly service charge. At about $55 per memorial tribute, we could pay for two more before paying service charge. So, I withdrew all the funds to hold until the final accounting from the reunion was available. Here it is in abbreviated form:

Home Bank funds withdrawn ($1,489), plus reservations, wine, free-will offerings totaled $2,343. Expenses totaling $1,518 were paid from that total, leaving a balance of $825. We were able to spend down $665 of our beginning balance. The $825 is a safe cushion for memorial floral tributes plus any other class venture we decide is appropriate. Judy Fraker Ford and I will discuss how best to handle those funds to provide smooth, cheap, and effective payment of class expenses. All records of the above amounts is available for any one to view at any time. I welcome oversight.

I should also make it known that those funds are separate from snail mail. That fund still has about $600 and all expenses have been paid through September. I hold those funds in my credit union clearly designated “Class Funds” and my executor is well aware that whatever is in there upon my mental or physical demise should be passed to a classmate. You will need to trust that all your monies are secure. And, all books are open to any one at any time for inspection and explanation. If I could figure a way to have dual treasurers without causing delays in mailings, I most certainly would do that. I run the expenses on a spread sheet and repay myself every quarter for funds expended for class purposes. You will be glad to know I won't need any more money in that account until early next year.

CLASS DISTRIBUTION LIST PURGING:

IT IS TIME AGAIN TO PURGE OUR DISTRIBUTION LIST. WE CURRENTLY HAVE 42 ON SNAIL MAIL AND 83 ON E-MAIL. OTHERS RECEIVE NEWS THROUGH THE WEBSITE. IF YOU ARE SNAIL MAIL AND WISH TO BE REMOVED, PLEASE LET ME KNOW. E-MAIL FOLKS WILL BE SENT A SPECIAL MESSAGE TO WHICH THEY CAN RESPOND. HOPE WE DON'T LOSE ANY CLASSMATES, BUT WE DO NOT WISH TO RETAIN YOU IF YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN CLASS NEWS AND BEING CONNECTED. SNAIL MAIL CAN CALL ME AT 765 315 0397 OR WRITE TO 740 E. WASHINGTON ST., MARTINSVILLE 46151, IF THEY WISH TO BE REMOVED. HEARING NOTHING, YOU WILL CONTINUE TO RECEIVE MONTHLY UPDATES VIA MAIL. THANK YOU.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

Of late I have become a serious student in the subject of psychological personality profiling by way of tee-shirt reading (OK, I get bored). Not only does the script tell a story of the wearer's (dys)function, but they can be extremely hilarious. I rush home, write down the memorable ones, and try to find ways to use them in speech. Here are just a few I think are worth sharing:

You matter...I mean, not to me, but to someone.

Remember back when Sarah Palin was the craziest person in politics—great times.

Physically I'm here but mentally I'm in a Galaxy far, far away.

I saw people through the window today. That's enough social interaction for me. 

I think I still have some unfinished procrastinating to do from yesterday.

I have neither the time nor the crayons to explain this to you.

After Monday and Tuesday, even the calendar says W.T.F.

I'd grow my own food if I could just find bacon seeds.

No, I don't need anger management--you just need to stop pissing me off!!

Love to all, karen

 

AUGUST 2017 UPDATE

 

Because some of this information requires quick attention, I am sending the August Update a few days early. Furthermore, let me comment that September's Update may be a few days later than usual, because of all the Class activities the end of August--(my apologies to the Sept. birthday honorees). Never fear, though, one will be sent which will give an overview of all reunion activities.

CLASS AUGUST BIRTHDAYS:

Mary Anderson, Ralph Berry, Don Burleigh, Dave Chandler, Richard Cramer, Judy Fraker Ford, Linda Gibbs Gehring, Henry Gray, Virginia Haviland Hamblen, John Jones, Sam Lasiter, Ellen Miller Little, Sonnie Myers Gano, Kay Selch, and Karen Wilson Brummett.

Happy Happy day and year to all of you. May you all be blessed.

ANOTHER CLASSMATE DEATH: 

For those on snail mail, below is a note sent to e-mail classmates on July 17 2017:

Extremely sad to report Melissa (“Missy”) Jane Swisher Thomas passed from our midst on Monday, July 17, 2017, at Franciscan Health Hospital in Indy.  Missy was to celebrate her 73rd birthday tomorrow, July 18.  Missy leaves behind her husband, Glenn Thomas, sons William, Bill, Jerry, and Tony, and daughters, Brenda and Mitzi.  She is also survived by a sister and many grandchildren and great-grandchildren.  I know all of you will remember Missy’s giggle and smile.  She was full of life and seemed to enjoy every minute God gave her, in spite of hardships.  For a couple of years she has suffered strokes, which, until recently, didn’t stop her from enjoying the group at the Wild Bunch Brunch.  We loved the laughter she always brought to the table.

Family and friends are invited to visit on Wednesday, July 19, from 5:00 to 8:00, and Thursday, July 20, from 9:00 to 10:00, prior to her celebration of life service.  She is resting at Neal & Summers Funeral & Cremation Center.  Missy will be greatly missed by us all.  She joins the known 69 other Class friends who have gone before.  What a party they must be sharing now that they are back together.  I have no doubt they sing the Artesian fight song prior to their gatherings. 

 Hugs.  Karen

Our class floral tribute sat next to Missy. Her husband, Glenn, commented on its beauty and his appreciation. I saw at least ten classmates at the calling and know that several attended the funeral. Missy would be very touched at the mutual love from her Class of '62 friends.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATE:

Kenny Hacker needs our thoughts and prayers. Since last writing, he has had 4 stints placed after suffering a heart attack, has had a UTI which developed into Sepsis, and had surgery for bed sores. He has been in the VA hospital for over a month and is preparing to be transferred to a rehab center for several more weeks. As most of you know, Kenny struggles with Parkinson's and is fighting to keep his legs from becoming paralyzed. Kenny and Melinda have been great to keep me advised of progress, so I will pass that info on to you. Kenny, keep on keeping on. Be blessed.

Judy Wolff Parrett wrote that she is getting better and hopes she is nearing cessation of her chemo treatments. Judy was diagnosed with lymphoma several months ago. Blessings to you, too, Judy. Keep on with the health reports. We all care mightily.

CLASSMATE FAMILY HEALTH UPDATES:

John Stewart stopped to chat in early July. His wife, Karen, has cancerous tumors in the abdomen and is undergoing chemo treatments. These came on and enlarged within a couple of weeks. John says she is in Simon Cancer Center in Indy and will be there until tumors shrink sufficiently to allow her to begin rehab. Surgery not an option for fear of rupturing bowels. Terrible way to spend a summer. John and Karen, we all pray the conclusion will be much improved health so you can head back to your Florida home for the winter. God bless.

CLASSMATE TRIVIA:

Becky Pratt Bock wrote to say they just listed their 'Ville home to join all the other classmates who now reside in FL. She said her love for her hometown and old home made it a difficult decision, but the love of FL weather won her over. You will be missed, Becky, but bless this new adventure. Based on other first-hand reports, you won't be sorry.

I have it on good authority, because you all know I would not stoop to gossip and innuendos, that our goody-two-shoes classmate, Donald Burleigh, got a bit inebriated while tasting wines at various wineries with is family. Apparently, he really got into the 4th of July celebrations. Thank goodness his wife, Linda, had the good sense to remain sober as the designated driver. I heard, however, the next morning was a bit rough for this old man. I will not judge Don for this indiscretion when he is asked to offer grace at our gatherings. God and the Class of '62 forgive missteps. 

Jim Brunnemer wrote to say he and Lu just returned from the West. Flew to Sacramento to be with his sister and then went to Nevada City, CA, for dinner with other family members. Spent four days on the shore of Lake Tahoe. Let me remind you that Jim had his life-altering motorcycle experience in OR a couple of years ago. He wanted to share the location with Lu, so they made a detour to Enterprise, OR. He actually had dinner with the guy who bought his Goldwing. Then he and Lu traveled thru OR, found the spot where he wrecked, headed through a slice of Washington State, on to Idaho, and then into Montana and down to Wyoming and Yellowstone. Also visited Colorado and stayed with Tom Bowman overnight in Lafayette, CO, near Denver. Flew home next day from Denver, which ended their Golden Anniversary adventure. Wow, Jim, I'm exhausted just typing about your trip but so envious of that marvelous adventure. Thanks for sharing your experience with us vicariously.

Stuck in my mailbox in July was a large envelope with a return address of “Sue Hill.” I'm so proud that I immediately knew that was none other than Kathryn Sue Mason of '62 fame. Couldn't imagine what Kathryn (sorry, Sue, you'll always be Kathryn to me) had sent. When opened, out dropped an Artesian Herald dated May 20, 1962, (with Steve McIlwain as valedictorian staring at me), a Baccalaureate program from our graduation dated May 20, 1962, a program from the Senior Class of '62 “Bull in a China Shop” performance of our class (directed by Roger Hunt, in case you forgot), a program of our Senior Honor Day Program dated May 17, 1962, our Commencement announcement dated May 24, 1962, and an Official Basketball Program of the January 27, 1962, Martinsville vs. Crispus Attucks extravaganza (surely you remember that). By the way, did we win that game? Wow, what a blast from the past. I read through all of them for a walk down memory lane. Thanks so much Kathryn for sharing those priceless mementos. I'll be sure to take them to our nostalgia table at the 55th reunion. Sure wish you could join us. Kathryn thanked me for the monthly info which she enjoys, even though she doesn't get home much. That makes me feel very good to know she still cares even though time and distance separate us—close always in spirit for all of us in the Class of '62.

Karen Wampler's great-grandson, Noah, is a participant in the Greatest Morgan County Fair Baby Contest in August. To say she is proud is an understatement. Great-grandma will have a front row seat as he aspires to win the cutest baby contest. Good luck, Noah, and Karen.

Here's a blast from the past. Remember Stacy Shireman? That is a name that hadn't been mentioned for almost sixty years and yet I immediately called him to mind. Stacy had a meek countenance and soulful eyes and was one of our Class friends (and there were several) who would have excelled with special education classes before there was such a thing. Ran into his sister at the beauty shop and asked of him and got this rundown. She reminded me that because he couldn't keep pace in normal classes, he began to “act out” as he aged. His parents finally removed him from school when we were entering our junior year. I always wondered what happened to him. She said after that he lived around town with various relatives until about ten years ago when he took up residence in a special facility in Franklin. She said he is thriving there at his own pace. I can think of several of our group whose lives might have been so much better had society realized the challenges special people faced and tailored education to fit their needs. OK, enough said and enough of my soap box.

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

July was well attended with Bob and Catherine Etter, Don and Linda Burleigh, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Sonnie Myers Gano, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Kay and Kim Selch, Tish Scherer and me. As always we had a great time just chatting—men at one end and ladies at the other. Seems to work better in that format.

REMINDER: Next WBB will be Monday, August 28, 10:30 at Forkeys, to accommodate anyone who can stay over from reunion activities to join us before departing for home. There will be NO SEPTEMBER WBB. Beginning on October 9 we will be back on schedule for the second Monday of each month. Join us and stay connected.

55TH REUNION UPDATE:

Ok, we are down to the wire and I need to begin gathering a head count for both the Sat., Aug. 26, and Sun, Aug. 27, events. PLEASE SEND ME AN E-MAIL (klssas740@att.net), OR SNAIL MAIL (740 EAST WASHINGTON ST., MART., 46151), OR TELEPHONE CALL (765 315 0397), WITH YOUR INTENTIONS FOR ATTENDANCE. If you are attending only the picnic, I will need in hand a check for $12 per head. If you are attending only the Sat. night event, all your expenses will be paid by the Class treasury, BUT I STILL NEED YOUR HEAD COUNT. So, no matter what you are attending, I need to know. I pay the caterer per head and cannot deal with her without the number of mouths she will feed. I sure hope many of you will attend both events. If you miss either of them, you will miss out on a chance to touch hearts with other Artesian Class friends. 

I NEED THIS HEADCOUNT NO LATER THAN FRIDAY, AUGUST 18, SO PLEASE TAKE ACTION SOON. 

Another thing, Stony wrote to inquire of the dress code. He wondered if he needed a tux or sport coat. I told him he could come in skivies if he wanted, to which he commented that that would be an event- killing occasion. In summary, come dressed for comfort, not to impress. We all know our limitations so don't try to fool us. 

REMINDER: Don Burleigh is coordinating the golf rally to be held Sat. morning, August 26. Please contact Don at furr1944@live.com or 317-502-0937 for details and to make reservations to play. From what I hear, that bunch always has loads of fun and laughs and giggles. 

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

Murphy's Other Fifteen Laws--

God gave you toes as a device for finding furniture in the dark.

If the shoe fits, get another one just like it.

Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach a man to fish and he will sit in a boat all day drinking beer.

Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine.

Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.

The 50-50-90 rule—Anytime you have a 50-50 chance of getting something right, there's a 90% probability you'll get it wrong.

It is said that if you line up all the cars in the world end-to-end, someone from California would be stupid enough to try to pass them. (Sorry Kathryn Mason and Don and Janet Donoho)

When you go into court, you are putting yourself in the hands of twelve people who weren't smart enough to get out of jury duty.

 

Love to all, karen

 

 

 

 

JULY 2017 UPDATE

 

Happy 4th of July. I will be sitting in the alley with Sarah and her SO, Tom, and lots of neighbors watching the event. Don't think I've missed a 4th fireworks display in the 'Ville ever, unless I wasn't in the vicinity. My father and his friends were instrumental in bringing this tradition to town, and I remember well how he spent his holiday on the Park Hill shooting off pyrotechnics. Can't believe ordinary businessmen handled this activity without anyone ever being seriously hurt or worse. They were, indeed, the Greatest Generation. And, if you are so inclined, you can also celebrate the great Morgan County Fair extravaganza beginning the last weekend of the month.

JULY BIRTHDAY WISHES TO –

Don Clay, Don Donoho, Linda Drake Davidson, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Cam Hacker, Betty Maners Wilson, Mary Pope Boner, Lila Pruett White, Sharon Robertson Anderson, Missy Swisher Thomas, and Richard Young.

Your Class friends send each of you the warmest birthday wishes possible. Remember, if you haven't grown up by age 50, you don't have to. Age has other advantages, too. For example, at our age when the brain says, “you probably shouldn't do/say that,” we can think, “what the hell, let's see what happens.”

CLASSMATE DEATH:

Sonnie Myers Gano called today to share that Rose Marie Sutton Phillips of CA passed June 26. She received the call from Rose's husband, Dave. Sonnie and Walter had spent many happy days with Rose and Dave on exciting vacations all over the world. Rose had suffered from asthma all her life which weakened her immune defenses. However, Sonnie said she always maintained her bright, sweet attitude and sharp wit. Rose left us after her junior year because of family dynamics and was transferred to a living center in Indy. She always regretted not being allowed to graduate with the MHS Class of '62. God bless Rose and her family. 

CLASS FAMILY DEATHS:

Right after sending the June Update, I read in the paper that Lisa Myntti (age 50, MHS 2007 graduate) had passed. That name meant nothing to me but for some reason I gleaned the obit. The name “Linda Drake Davidson” popped out at me and I realized that Lisa was Linda's daughter. My heart stopped for Linda and I sent her a personal note of condolence. However, I want all of you to know that Linda needs our thoughts and prayers because of this deep ravine she is traversing. God bless you, Linda. No parent should ever bury a child. It's not the natural order of life.

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush lost yet another sibling during June. Her brother, Jim Tutterow (aged 80, 1955 MHS graduate), passed after a long illness. I'd bet many of you remember Jim. Sharon said, “He was the last of the true gentlemen” and then explained he spit-shined his shoes every morning and clothed in dress pants and an ironed shirt—always showing pride. Sharon went on to say that out of nine kids, only four of the Tutterow clan remain. The sadness those siblings have faced! She asked for prayers for their family and especially Jim's widow, Louise, who was his devoted life companion. God bless you, too, Sharon.

While this isn't a death, it is about classmate family. Received a note from Rick Blunk saying his sister, Melissa Gladson, fell and broke her hip and is scheduled for surgery. He also said his step-dad, Adrain Stanger, is now in a nursing home recovering from his broken hip. Wow, two broken hips in one family. Rick said they should put them in side-by-side beds so they could bemoan their injuries. He closed by sending all of us his love and saying he would see us in August.

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATES:

First off, from FB and rumors, I believe Karen Stewart, wife of John, has some health issues. I don't know the nature of the problems, but we should keep John and Karen in our thoughts and prayers. Karen has been an adopted Class of '62 member for as long as I can remember. Get well very soon, Karen.

Judy Wolff Parrett called to tell me she is fighting lymphoma. She has had two chemo treatments and has four to go. These treatments are administered five days a week per month for six months. She was happy to say that the two treatments behind her have produced a great reduction of the cancer in her white cells. Judy received her diagnosis in August 2016 but, at first, didn't want to talk about it. She regrets that she wasn't receiving yearly blood work which might have given her more time to fight the cancer, especially since her family on both sides has a prevalent cancer history. Because of her dislike of a blood draw, she disregarded her doctors. Now she talks openly about her situation to encourage people to listen to their doctors and get regular thorough check-ups. She is working three days a week and rebuilding her stamina. Judy, if anyone can beat this, it's you. No one is more positive and uplifting than you. Please keep all of us advised of progress as you pass over this bump in the road.

Missy Swisher Thomas is back in Miller's Merry Manor in Mooresville. I don't know for sure the problem, but suspect it could be yet another stroke, since she is prone to this occurrence. I promise to keep all of you advised as I get information. Missy has pulled through so much medical adversity that I can't help but be positive she will get back to the top of the mountain again.

Bev Sheeks wrote to say Glenn is still having numerous problems. Currently they are awaiting a surgery date but she didn't say why. Glenn has a pace maker which helps his AFIB. He has some mobility and energy challenges--but don't we all. If you remember, Glenn had Guillian Barre in 1998 which exacerbated other issues. Bev said I could report whatever was appropriate about his health, but he was easily embarrassed about that because “he still wants everyone to think he is macho.” Glenn, never fear—you are still our big, huggable teddy bear who we always allowed to think he was macho. Thanks so much, Bev, for the update. We really appreciate that.

Don Billings called to report he is closer to a knee replacement. However, they are still trying meds and rehab to avoid that outcome. Don's outlook is always upbeat. He says God willing he will join us at the 55th reunion. I just hope he is mobile, but his son, Brandon, who has joined our group many times before, will get him there in his wheelchair, if necessary. Don shared that his interest is in mining investments out West, and he wants to get mobile so he can venture out there and be involved. I sure hope they produce great wealth for you, Don. 

Also had a call from Bob Elliott. He called mid-June to say he is now home after a four-day stay at the VA. He fell at home and they determined it was a result of some meds and his emphesema. Bob, along with Mike O'Neal, and probably others, struggle during the oppressive hot and humid weather because of compromised lungs so can't get out to enjoy life. Both are on continuous oxygen. Keep them in your thoughts and prayers.

While these are the only specific health concerns of which I have been made aware, I know there are many other Class friends, mentioned in previous Updates, and those who struggle but don't share. Keep every Class friend close to your heart because we don't know the burdens on their hearts. Just because your name isn't mentioned, you are still in our thoughts.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

Jane Reese Thompson sent a picture to those on e-mail of her latest prized possession. All of you remember, I'm sure, the Big Boy logo on our favorite cruising drive-in when we were so young and innocent. Seems a guy she worked with had one of these Big Boy replicas on his desk. She had long coveted it in her heart. One day he kindly offered it to her, so now this true Martinsville Memory moved to her desk. Way to go, Janie. Wish I could somehow share the photo with snail mail. Brought back so many happy memories.

Richard and Joyce Hamilton and Nick Zoller, along with others, completed yet another successful Antique Machinery Show during June at the Fairgrounds. They work so very hard bringing this nostalgia to the 'Ville. Since fewer and fewer folks care about the “old stuff,” it's harder to entice the public, participants, and helpers at the event. As grandfathers and fathers get too old to restore this antique machinery, their offspring don't share their passions. These three were instrumental in making it happen again this year. Congrats to you all. 

Karen Arnold Pottorff paid me a surprise visit in June. She came bearing gifts—a check for snail mail and a bag of my favorite snack, chocolate bark thins. She found a bag at Krogers and remembered my love for them. Thank you so much, Karen, for both gifts. 

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

We had eighteen at the June extravaganza. Our surprise visitors were Rick and Marsha Blunk. They were in town for a weekend family reunion and stayed over for a brief visit with us at WBB on Monday. Thanks, Rick. 

Others attending were Don and Linda Burleigh, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Marty Akard Short, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Bill Fulford, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Kay and Kim Selch (Kim looks marvelous thanks to her new kidney), Bob and Catherine Etter, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Tish Scherer Hartley, and me. Lots of laughs and conversation. 

I did overhear Marty, Curt, and Don planning their traditional golf outing prior to our reunion. Stony usually joins them, too. Anyone else interested in this activity should send Don Burleigh an e-mail at furr1944@live.com or call him at 317 502 0937. Don says they will tee off about 9:00 but he isn't sure if it will be Sat. or Sun. Needs to talk with those coming in from out of town to get their schedules. Let him know of your plans so he can get a tee time at the course. Surely most of you men won't miss the chance to play with (pun intended) our Class Cheerleader and Sex Goddess, Marty.

Speaking of golf, just yesterday someone sent me an e-mail titled “13,000 people go to the emergency room each year from the golf course.” It was so funny I sent it to the four duffers cited above. Of course, Stony had to make a smart reply. He started out saying, “There are a couple of activities shown in the video that I am old and smart enough not to try—especially the one lying on my back and letting some other hacker try to hit a ball off my balls.” He went on to say neither Don nor Curt would allow that trick either, but said he couldn't know Marty's perspective on the topic. I'm certain she will have a caustic comeback in this discussion. Stony closed his message with, “Fondly and with a glass of wine to us both, your aging and lifelong friend.” I hereby toast all of you with that thought.

55TH REUNION THOUGHTS: 

First, let me reiterate the pertinent information. We will meet on Saturday evening, August 26, at 5:00 at the REMC Community Room for dinner and catch-up. Then, on Sunday, August 27, beginning about 11:00, we will convene at Bob Etter's lake-front shelter house for lunch and continuing walks down memory lane.

I have determined that the Class funds can defray all the costs of the Sat. event, including the photographer. Unfortunately, we do not have enough funds to also pay for the meal on Sunday, so cost will be $10 per person. The food, furnished by our ever-helpful caterer, Renda Trimble, will be:

Saturday dinner --

Baked pork loin, garlic-cheesey mashed potatoes, California blend veggies, Caesar salad, homemade bread, tea/lemonade/coffee, and cheesecake with various toppings. She will furnish all this food for $12 a head.

Sunday picnic lunch -- 

BBQ sandwiches, hot baked potato salad, baked beans, slaw, chips, carrot cake and brownies, unsweet/sweet tea. She will also furnish all paper products and ice for $10 a head. 

I personally think her menu, cost, and service is terrific and hope you all agree. I'll ask for money and headcount for each event in my August 1 Update. I need to give her this info no later than August 21. As I've said before, I hope every one of you reading this will attend both events. At the very least, please attend one.

Steve Koons has already notified me that his tractor group will run the sawmill at the state fair the same weekend as our 55th. I have begged him to get enough cover for those activities to at least attend one event, if not both. No matter what weekend we picked, it wouldn't fit everyone's schedule. 

The September Wild Bunch Brunch, currently scheduled for Monday, Sept. 11, will be moved to Monday, August 28, to accommodate anyone who can stay over for breakfast with us.  

I'm still working with the photographer, Connie Etter, about the photo album. We have the added challenge of getting individual photos of every classmate from two events into one small $30 album. I'll report in August what we decide—either get a larger album at a higher cost OR just settle for two group photos—one from each event. If you have a vote, please let me know your wishes. 

LAUGHS FOR THE MONTH:

(from Karen Wilson Brummett) As a little boy stood waiting for his mother, a man approached him asking directions to the post office, to which request the little boy complied. The man thanked him kindly and said, “I'm the new pastor in town and I'd like you to come to church on Sunday so I can show you the way to Heaven.” The little boy pondered and then replied, “You're bull-shitting me, right? You don't even know how to get to the post office.”

(from Judy Wolff Parrett) Suggested remedies for good health from a 105-year-old woman. 

“For better digestion, I drink beer. In the case of appetite loss, I drink white wine. In the case of low blood pressure, I drink red wine. In the case of high blood pressure, I drink scotch. And when I have a cold, I drink Schnapps.” The friend asked, “When do you drink water?” Old lady replies, “I've never been that sick.”

If things and people get better with age, then we must be close to freakin' magnificent --- love karen

 

 

JUNE 2017 UPDATE

 

Welcome June!! On the 21st we will embrace the First Day of Summer. If we get through tornado season and the very moist Spring, we will all be happy about that special time. Also this month we celebrate you fathers and grands and great-grands out there. I hope all of you get to celebrate that special occasion with your off-spring. 

JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

Curt Boner, Jim Branham, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Cora Capshaw, Dick Elmore, Bob Ely Brown, Bill Fulford, Eddie Kent, Jean Szatkowski Morgan, and Sam Weaver.

We wish all of you a very special day and the best year you have ever had.

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATE:

Richard Hamilton keeps plugging along with his fight for mobility. Weekly chiropractic sessions have given his spine some relief. However, now he is looking at cataract surgery on both eyes. Richard, keep on keeping on. Things are bound to get easier.

On May 5 I received a much welcomed phone call from Ken Hacker. He said he wanted all his class friends to know he was still “alive and kicking.” (I pray all of us can share those three words for MANY years to come.) Kenny developed a UTI and was hospitalized in February, which put him in rehab for a bit. He is now making friends with a wheelchair. The VA has revamped his house to accommodate this change in lifestyle. Kenny hopes this is merely a temporary set-back in his health struggles and maintains a marvelous attitude in the face of his adversities. He said he and Melinda are planning on attending the 55th in August. That is great news.

Bill Fulford underwent the onerous colonoscopy for a possible blockage. Also had a CAT scan, but he felt these were merely preventative maintenance. He promised to keep me advised of progress and has a bright outlook on fixing whatever problems might be found. 

Eddie Kent posted on FB that the results from his recent blood work were that his A1C is in normal range and he feels good. All other tests were good. So long as he remains on meds, he gets a blue ribbon. Yippee, Ed.

Linda Gibbs Gehring finally sent me a medical report. She said, “Every day is a challenge but I am OK.” Sees cardiologist this month and has more lung x-rays. Her biggest complaint, after the heart attack, is, “I just don't have the energy I used to have.” But, her ending line was, “Tell everyone I'm just fine!” Sure hope Linda can join us in August. She hasn't missed a hugfest for years. 

During May I also received a wonderful call from Janet and Don Donoho. If you remember, the end of last year I heard rumors from Janet's cousin, Dick Elmore, that Don was having some health problems. However, I never received an update on that and often wondered about Don. Janet said he developed double pneumonia and then sepsis. He was on life support for ten days and in rehab seven but is now home and doing much better. (Actually, now I'm glad I didn't know all those facts because I would have worried even more.) She said Don really doesn't want folks to know his ailments and health struggles, but I know many of you will be glad to learn he is now doing fine. Janet and Don have five children and are expecting their 10th great-grandchild. Janet said their only complaint now is getting older. I assured her there are about 150 dear friends who also suffer that malady, so they are in good company. Yet, we are still “alive and kicking” and connected with one another, so how much better could we be. Janet also commented she was so glad to learn her very old friend, Brenda New Arnold, was doing well. Said she had been thinking of her and then a mention of her being back in our Class fold popped up in the May Update. Thanks a million, Janet, for taking time to call. It meant so much to me. 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NEWS:

Terry Fleener scared me to death during May when he reported the death of Willie Nelson. After exhaustive search of news sources, I discovered, as I'm sure did Terry, that this was “fake news.” Can't bear to lose one of the last great icons of my lifetime. Willie represents a better time in my youth. I'm certain Terry was as happy as me when he discovered Willie is still smokin', drinkin', and singin' as he traverses the US entertaining. And, speaking of Terry, he and Janie have sold their large property and are now happily ensconced in a condo in the 'Ville. Didn't think they would ever really make that step, but, according to my visit with Janie in Wally World, they love this life change. Congrats!

My apologies to Connie DENNY Martin who I incorrectly called Connie MARTIN Denny in last month's update. Bill Fulford caught my faux pas in the May birthday wishes. Connie, I really do know the correct placement of your name. Sorry.

Had a surprise and welcomed visit from Irene Cure Conte and her sister, Susan, just today. They chatted for about an hour before heading back to Virginia. Much of the conversation centered around genealogy, since they, like me, are really into that sort of thing and very few people want to talk about dead ancestors. Irene reports hubby Rick is doing OK considering only 35% of his heart muscles work. At least he is much better than six years ago when he had the heart attack and almost didn't make it. Irene and Susan will be at the 55th. Great news. 

Since confession is good for the soul, I have one to make. Frank Ennis publicly noted my absence from church services several times lately and inquired of my reasons. He said I'm always quick to condemn his missteps and, in the interest of fairness, should admit mine in public. If I don't admit my backsliding, Frank and Georgeanne will make me suffer. I promise to do better, folks. (ARE YOU HAPPY, FRANK??!!)

Dan St. John sent me an Internet connection leading to SweetJordans.com. Jordan is their grandson, and Dan's son and wife are opening a bakery and ice cream shop in Paris, TN, staffed mostly with Downs Syndrome people. You all know that is a subject dear to my heart. God's Special People can be such an asset to any community. So proud of your son, Dan.

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Great crowd in May—what with return of Snowbirds and warm weather. Those sharing time were Austin and Cheryl Gray, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Dick and Angie Elmore, John and Karen Stewart, Bob and Catherine Etter, Jim Brunnemer, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Marty Akard and granddaughter, Jordan, Tish Scherer Hartley, Bill Fulford, Don and Linda Burleigh, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Harry Joe Maginity, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Melissa Swisher Thomas, and me. 

Next WBB will be Monday, June 12, 10:30 at Forkeys. You will be glad you joined. 

And, speaking of WBB, I'm going to announce this now but will remind later. I have been asked by several classmates to move September's WBB to Monday, August 28, (rather than Monday, Sept. 11, as scheduled) to accommodate more visiting after the 55th activities weekend. I am unilaterally making the decision to make that switch. Mark calendars for WBB on August 28 and delete Sept. 11, 2017. While you're marking calendars, be certain the 55th activities on August 26 and 27 are clearly delineated. More on the 55th will be published in July Update. Several folks have indicated they will attend, so I think we will have a good turn-out.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (compliments of Judy Wolff Parretts)

I was taught to respect my elders. It's just getting harder to find them.

Someday we old folks will use cursive writing as a secret code.

When I'm an old lady, I'm going to leave snacks in little bags on the floor all over the house in case I fall down.

Age is merely the number of years the world has been enjoying you.

When I was a kid, I wanted to be older...This shit is not what I expected.

Think old and you'll be old. Think young and you'll be a delusional old fart.

At the age of 65 my grandma started walking five miles a day. She's 92 now and we have no idea where she is.


 

Love to all, karen 

 

MAY 2017 UPDATE

 

Happy, happy May to all my dearest friends. This month we remember our Mom's on Mother's Day, even though most of us no longer can personally hug and thank them. We also celebrate Armed Forces Day, honoring veterans past, present, and future. Hug a vet because they made it possible for us to live free. And, last but not least, honor Memorial Day by devoting a part of your day remembering those who no longer walk this path with us. God bless them all and us. And also celebrate our May birthday friends --

MAY BIRTHDAYS:

Don Billings, Jerry Collier, Irene Cure Conte, Connie Martin Denny, Linda Fisher Phillips, Oren Flake, Norris Griffin, Larry Lambert, Roy McGuffey, Jim Morgan, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, Rufus Simpson, and Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush.

After the April Update was mailed, I became re-connected with Brenda New Arnold through her daughter on Facebook. Brenda no longer has an e-mail and had changed addresses, so I lost contact. I am happy to announce she is now back with us on snail mail. Therefore, HAPPY BELATED APRIL BIRTHDAY, BRENDA. Welcome back. 

HAPPY, HAPPY SPECIAL DAY TO EACH OF YOU. Make this a very special year.

FOR SNAIL MAIL RECIPIENTS:

 

YET ANOTHER CLASSMATE LOSS:

Just this morning (March 31) I received word that Ilene Suter Terrell passed earlier in the week at Grandview Health Center in Martinsville. Marilyn Hornberger and I used to visit with Ilene when we visited Mabel Wise at Grandview. At that time, she was being transferred to another facility, so we lost communication with her. Apparently, she came back to her hometown but didn't contact me. Ilene married Donald “Woodie” Terrell in 1964 (died in 2009) and they raised three sons and a daughter. I'm sure you remember that Ilene and Ione Suter were twins, and both were '62 Classmates. Calling will be Saturday, April 1, 6:00 to 8:00 at Neal & Summers and funeral is Sunday, April 2, at 2:00. She will be laid to rest in New South Park with Woodie. Our Class tribute will accompany Ilene in this journey. May she rest in peace after years of physical challenges.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NEWS:

Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush have returned from FL and are back among their friends in the 'Ville. Sharon has had some heart concerns. She visited her doctor upon return, and he determined her heart is skipping a beat every 6th time. They have changed her blood pressure meds, but those take some time for adjustment. She says she can't abide “adjusting” because she is in a hurry and tired of taking pills. Yet, she counts her blessings daily and is thankful for the health she and Perry share. 

I wrote Marvin Henderson a happy birthday greeting in April and he called to thank me and chat. He wants me to remind all his '62 friends he often thinks of them fondly and makes an open offer to anyone who visits Ocala to visit with he and Deanna. I assured him I would accept their kind offer—if ever I make it to FL. They hope to return for the 55th reunion activities. This is appropriate timing because they also celebrate 55 years of marital bliss this year. Congrats to you both.

Received a note from Steve Hiatt in FL in response to my birthday wishes. They are fine and are looking forward to coming home for a visit soon. He also shared that this year they celebrate 50 years of marital bliss, even though he said they were much too young for that occasion. He sent his best to all his friends and hopes to see some of them this summer. Maybe at the reunion, Steve.

Don Billings left a voice mail saying his numbers are improving and he is doing better. He really called to see if the 'Ville was floating. We have had almost 4 inches of rain in the last couple of days, and remembering 2008 that is certainly a distinct possibility and a dire thought. Don, we haven't flooded yet. Maybe you will be well enough to attend the 55th reunion on August 26-27.

For those of you who aren't on e-mail, wanted to share with you yet another famous celebrity from our midst. Harry Maginity works with INDOT and in that capacity has been on local news updating the public on road building activities in central Indiana. I sent copies of the newscasts Harry made to e-mail folks but hope many more of you saw him on local TV channels. However, even Harry can't tell us Artesians the plans for I-69 as it relates to the 'Ville. We are hearing all sorts of rumors as to how this will affect our city. After years of back and forth discussions, we just want them to decide and get it done. Harry, use your influence to push progress in this matter. 

Another of our illustrious classmates, Jim Brunnemer, sent me one of his astute literary pieces, and I want to share it here with all of you. It's titled, “God's Painting.”

Driving home from the east one late afternoon I was treated to yet another of God's unmatchable paintings. There, as the sun slowly descended in the western firmament, was a vast canvas, priceless in its beauty, reverent as an affirmation of God's eminence.

Hiding slightly behind a bank of hazy clouds, the steadily falling sun reflected awe-inspiring beams of vivid hues on the cloud formations spread across the horizon. All colors of the rainbow in varying shades—red, violet, blue, yellow, green, orange, indigo—mesmerized the observer. The myriad contours of the clouds conveyed the glory of the Higher Power.

God is the original impressionist. His craftsmanship humbles even the perceived masters of art in the human race. And He creates a new masterpiece daily—for all eternity.” 

Beautiful, Jim. Very inspiring. Thanks for sharing.

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

Those attending the April soiree were John Stewart, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Brent Boner, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Bobby Elliott, Don and Linda Burleigh, Bob and Katherine, Sharon (Tutterow) Quakenbush, Jim Brunnemer, Tish (Scherer) Hartley, and me. A good time was had by all. The next event will be Monday, May 8, 10:30, Forkey's, and we hope for a large crowd. 

55TH REUNION UPDATE:

I realize we have a few months to prepare for this event, but I did want to book a location and set a firm date. This will confirm we will meet at the REMC Community Room on Saturday evening, August 26th, 2017, beginning at 5:00. Renda Trimble will cater our meal, and more about that will be shared at a later date. A group photo will be taken about 7:00. 

Then, on Sunday, August 27th, we will all meet at Bob's lake property about 11:00 AM for more meet-and-greet activities. Lunch will be served at Noon, catered by Renda Trimble, and a group photo will be taken about 1:30. 

I fervently hope you will attend both events. If you don't, you will miss visiting with some of your friends. I remember at the 50ththat some attended the dinner and some the picnic, and if you didn't attend both, you didn't get the full benefit of the opportunity to reminisce with everyone attending. Please mark your calendars for these dates and make plans to attend. We will discuss details in July. At that time I will have an idea of costs and can share with you how many of the expenses will be defrayed by the Class Treasury, pursuant to popular vote. 

LAUGHTER FOR THE MONTH:

I don't like to think before I speak. I like to be just as surprised as everyone else about what I say.

Be decisive. Right or wrong, make a decision. The road of life is paved with flat squirrels that couldn't make a decision.

If a woman says, “First of all...” during an argument, run away. That means she has done research and prepared data, charts, and Powerpoint presentations and will destroy you.

People say love is the best feeling. But I think finding a toilet when you desperately need it is better.

Yes, officer, I did see the speed limit sign. I just didn't see you.

 

Hugs to all. karen

 

 

APRIL 2017 UPDATE

Happy APRIL to all, and I include in that greeting a blessed Easter. That holiday always invokes my memories of white gloves and hat, shiny patton leather shoes with matching purse, and a frilly dress. My wonderful Mom did all she could to make a demur lady out of me. Unfortunately, you all know it didn't work. My idea of an appropriate Easter outfit is my rhinestone-studded blue jeans from Rural King and an equally sequined sweat shirt. Thankfully, my dear Mom doesn't know that I have become more red-neck as the years march on. 

YET ANOTHER CLASSMATE LOSS:

Just this morning I received word that Ilene Suter Terrell passed earlier in the week at Grandview Health Center in Martinsville. Marilyn Hornberger and I used to visit with Illene when we visited Mabel Wise at Grandview. At that time, she was being transferred to another facility, so we lost communication with her. Apparently, she came back to her hometown. Ilene married Donald “Woodie” Terrell in 1964 (died in 2009) and they raised three sons and a daughter. I'm sure you remember that Ilene and Ione Suter were twins, and both were '62 Classmates. Calling will be Saturday, April 1, 6:00 to 8:00 at Neal & Summers and funeral is Sunday, April 2, at 2:00. She will be laid to rest in New South Park with Woodie. Our Class tribute will accompany Ilene in this journey. May she rest in peace after years of physical challenges.

APRIL BIRTHDAYS: Let's all celebrate with –

Rick Blunk, Johnie Boles, Jerry Crismore, Tura Crone Lamar, Bob Elliott, Brenda New Arnold, Marvin Henderson, Steve Hiatt, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Eddie Underly.

May we all share many, many more special days together.

CLASSMATE FAMILY LOSSES:

Just learned that Glenn Sheeks lost his sister, Doris Gastineau. Doris was 79 but I'm sure many of you remember the large Sheeks family—David, Glenn, Erma (Scott), and Marlene (Ham), Fred, Duane, Robert, Janet (Harrison) and Janice. Glenn, we all send our condolences on your loss and pray that very soon you will be smiling at the happy memories you have of Doris.

FOUND CLASSMATE:

Several months ago I lost electronic and snail-mail contact with Brenda (New) Arnold (Cam). Then, a few days ago I was perusing Facebook and noticed their names mentioned, so I sent a message to the person mentioning them. Turns out it was their daughter, and she informed me her parents could no longer receive e-mail service. She gave me their new address and I have added them to our snail-mail mailings effective with this April Update. Welcome back Brenda. It saddens us when we can't reach out and touch all Class of '62 friends.

FUNERAL HOME VISITS:

Sad as it is, many of my visits with Class friends occur at funeral homes. Sharon Bales' service was no exception. While I didn't talk with those who attended calling, I noticed many of us were there. However, at the funeral I talked with Gini Watts, Judy Ford, Judy Hacker Fraker, Marilyn Hornberger, and Roy McGuffey. Besides those, the occasion afforded me a surprise. A distinguished gentleman tapped me on the shoulder and stared at me. I knew this was an embarrassing moment because I couldn't recall our connection. After an awkward silence, he introduced himself as Richard Walters. I don't recall seeing Richard for many, many years, although he and Jennifer are on our e-mail connection. It was nice to hug them both, even under the circumstances. 

As Lila so aptly pointed out in an e-mail, we all need to get our affairs in order because no one knows the time. Just live every day to its fullest and be prepared but mindful of our MANY blessings. 

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATE:

While I honor privacy requests from all, I can say that Lila Pruett White has some silent prayer requests concerning her personal and family health issues. However, she also has praises for healthy grandchildren and a blossoming relationship with a male friend. You go girl!! God bless all of you.

Shared a good phone conversation with Sue Weddle Myers. She and husband Bill are very active with grandsons' sports. We commiserated over our mutual age-related complaints (eyesight, joints, lack of motivation/mobility, incontinence, etc.) but were grateful we could still talk about those. She shared that Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham was doing well, except she just passed the anniversary of Bob's death and is still struggling with the loss of a daughter-in-law. Keep Emma Lou and her family in your prayers. 

Iren Cure Conte sent in a vote and with that a health update. She has struggled with persistent pneumonia, which really drug her down. Then she had reactions to morphine and fentanyl, which complicated the issue. At the time of writing, though, she was better. Looking forward to a Texas trip this summer and promised to stop in the 'Ville for a hug. Glad you are bouncing back, Irene.

Also received a newsy note from Dan St. John. To summarize that, he said he and his wife Sue are following the regime of a Wisconsin nutritionist with great success. His son had introduced them to this new doctrine consisting of a very restrictive diet. The loss of many pounds has made a huge difference for their son and for them. I suspect when we next visit with Dan he will be svelte and bouncy. If anyone is interested in learning more about this program, contact Dan at “saint381@gmail.com”. Because of the additional pounds I have accumulated this winter through inactivity and a diet rich in chocolate chips and chocolate-covered pretzels, I should take this advice to heart (but probably won't). Good luck, Dan and Sue. 

Visited with Kay Selch at Forkey's. Said Kim is doing very well, although she is restricted to home because of compromised immunity after surgery. When her immunity increases, she will join all of us at a WBB. Kay still struggles with his own health concerns, but said he and Kim are both on top of the world because of Kim's successful kidney replacement and renewed lifestyle.

Also ran into Melissa Swisher Thomas at Forkey's. (In case you didn't notice, Forkey's has become the meeting place of choice in the 'Ville, replacing Frisch's Big Boy of yonder years.) She is once again home and under Glenn's and Visiting Nurses' care and seemed to be happy and more mobile. Said they get out every day to dine and to keep moving. She still smiles and giggles much and expresses a love of life. You go girl!!

Received a distressing e-mail from Linda Gibbs Gehring in response to my March 1 notice of Sharon's death. She expressed sorrow that she couldn't attend the funeral because at that very moment she was in ICU awaiting tests for heart problems. During the next couple of days, she relayed that she did have a heart attack and received subsequent tests and meds to open blockages. I breathed a sigh of relief to learn they believe a change in lifestyle and use of blood thinners will ease her problems. She will continue with her cardiologist and on-going testing. She said, “Tell everyone I'm doing OK but just a little slower than usual.” Linda, we could use recurring progress reports so we don't unduly worry. God bless.

Also received a call from our own Gary Stafford reporting their return to the 'Ville. He said Sarah takes very good care of him. His big concern is that he couldn't pass his DOT physical and wants to lose weight and have stronger legs so he can pass it next year. For insurance reasons, Gary doesn't want to give up that permit, even though I can't see him heading over-the-road anytime soon. Said The War Department (Gary lovingly refers to Sarah as The War Department) is doing very well with her pacemaker and cancer survival. I would have to add “taking care of Gary for 53 years” to her list of problems. Gary attributes that marital record to his learning the correct response to any conversation is “yes dear.” Then, out of nowhere, Gary asked if I knew Linda Fisher was his first crush and kiss. Needless to say, to say, I didn't. He said they went to Judy Wolff's front porch and “smooched.” During his school years he “loved” every girl in the class and carried Gini Fulford Watts' band instrument home for her. Then he related that he and Bob Riffel had a duel in the middle of the football field. John Mann had to break up the fight. Gary says he would have won had it continued. Right, Gary??!! Talking with Gary is always a hoot. Either he has a marvelous memory or an exaggerated imagination.

Talked with Bob Etter from FL. Said Katherine was ready to come home (grandkids, you know) but he isn't. Will wait until mid-April when he is certain he returns to warmth. Bob shared they visited with Bev and Kenton Smith while in FL. Bev recently had knee surgery and is doing fine. When asked what he does every day in FL, he said Katherine keeps busy quilting and shopping and he stays home and eats. Actually, I believe that. Hurry home, friends. You are missed at the WBB. 

MARCH WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Those attending were Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Chuck Vogus, John and Karen Stewart (welcome home), Jim Brunnemer, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Bill Fulford, Don and Linda Burleigh, Roy McGuffey, Marty Akard Short (very late, as usual), Gini Fulford Watts, and me. Tish Scherer Hartley also dropped by the table and chatted, as well as Melissa Swisher Thomas. Mary, Curt and Brent Boner were granted an excused absence because of illness. 

Marty admitted her cheerleaders could not do what they to today—pyramids, choreographed shows, contortions, etc. She said they thought their purpose was to cheer the fans and team to win and not perform circus acts. Of course, she next admitted to running naked in Indy, so I'm not certain we should take her thoughts into serious consideration. Didn't fully understand the reason for her nudity display, but I'm sure if asked she could explain the entire situation. I tried not to listen so as not to sully the reputations of our Class of '62 cheerleaders.

Jim Brunnemer let all of us know he was still teaching a seminar for those too busy or tempted to get busy in their lives. The course is entitled, “How to Waste Time—and Not Feel Guilty.” It's a short course—the sum and total is writing the course title 125 times on an old blackboard from Tillie McKrill's algebra class (“Do you see what I mean!?). He'll waive tuition for '62 Classmates. Jim also brought one of his short essays jogging our collective walks down memory lane. It is too long to include in this note (have to keep it to four pages or pay additional postage). However, some of his “do you recalls” were Charlie's hamburger stand, outdoor movie theater, skating rink, south side Bucket Factory kids, Ike and Eva's, Red Root Beer Barrel's iced mugs of root beer, Red's Mission ruled over by Rev. John Stewart providing moral teachings and admonitions to his flock. Jim went on and on about Charlie's exquisite cuisine for the discriminating gourmand. Strange how I don't remember using those words to describe the greasy burgers and fries I consumed at that illustrious establishment. Ah, memories are so diverse?!

Next WBB will be Monday, April 10, 10:30 at Forkey's. Hope to see many of you there. It's a great way to begin your busy week of retirement.

55TH CLASS REUNION:

Thanks to all of you who responded to my call to action regarding plans for this stupendous occasion. By far the majority voted to have a dinner Sat. evening followed by picnic lunch at Bob's the following day. That vote allowed me to begin our search for a location and date. After careful consideration of several calendars, I have reserved the REMC Community Room beginning at 5:00 on SATURDAY, AUGUST 26, 2017. It will be catered by REMC's official caterer and our beloved caterer, Renda Trimble, who has always done our yearly picnics. She has also agreed to serve our casual picnic lunch on SUNDAY, AUGUST 27, NOON at Bob's lake. PLEASE MARK YOUR CALENDARS WITH THOSE DATES. Now, we can sit back and relax and not worry about details like menu, reservations, and money until July. 

And, speaking of money, Judy and I want to make a suggestion. We currently have $1,600 in our account at Home Bank. Judy Fraker Ford, our class treasurer, and I have talked and believe it is not a good idea at this point in our lives to keep that much money laying around. (Judy aptly said, “The money should be used while we can still walk and talk.”) We wondered if you would want us to spend down about $1,000 of that by defraying expenses for the 55th, leaving available $600 to cover funeral arrangements. Should additional money be required for the floral tribute fund, we know you all would pitch in, as needed. $1,000 will cover much of the cost of both events. Of course, donating the money to a worthy 'Ville cause is another suggestion, but nothing came to our minds that merited consideration. If you have any suggestions on that, let me know. Once again I ask that you think about this and send me your thoughts. Majority Rule will prevail.

I sincerely hope that those of you reading this who did not vote are nevertheless planning to attend. (Steve McIlwain, put this on your '17 Bucket List.) It would be glorious if all 136 Class friends could be together. Remember, we aren't getting any younger and very old friends are the best.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (compliments of Karen Wilson Brummett)

Every time you talk to your wife, your mind should remember that … this conversation will be recorded for training and quality purposes.

Some things are just better left unsaid--and I instantly realize that right after I say them.

Arguing with a woman is like reading the Software License Agreement. In the end you just to ignore everything and click “I agree.”

Never make a woman mad. They can remember stuff that hasn't even happened yet.

Remember, women always have the last word in an argument. Anything a man adds after that is the beginning of a new argument.

(My apologies to all men reading this who have absolutely no idea what they have done wrong!)

Hugs to all, karen

 

 

 

MARCH 2017 UPDATE

It's March and I'm receiving messages from our winter-coward Snow Friends that they are making plans for a trip North. However, you know it takes older folks longer to form, organize, and execute a plan, so it may be weeks yet before we see their faces. This winter in our area has been a breeze. It would have been cheaper for them to stay home. We get the last laugh.

Let's deal with our sadness first--

ANOTHER CLASSMATE LOSS—NO. 66:

Judy Fraker Ford just sent me a brief note stating Sharon Fraker Bales was found dead this morning in her home.  Apparently, whatever happened occurred around 10:00.  While I have not seen the obituary, I do know that Sharon had two boys and a girl and lots of grand and great-grandkids around whom her life revolved.  Sharon had suffered for several years with serious medical issues, including diabetes and heart problems.  However, she had visited at my home about a month ago and looked and acted as healthy as I had seen her for a while.  When she left I truly believed her health concerns were under control.  That makes this all the more shocking.  Calling will be Wednesday, March 1, 6:00 PM to 9:00, and funeral Thursday, March 2, at 1:00 PM, at Neal and Summers Funeral Chapel on Poston Road.  Judy asked me to spread the word because, “Sharon dearly loved her classmates.”  Thanks, Judy, for the sad notice.  Our Class memoriam of red and blue will be with Sharon on her last journey. 

MARCH BIRTHDAYS:

Hard to believe, but we have only three friends celebrating their special day this month: Karen Arnold Pottorff, Rose Marie Sutton Phillips, and DeWayne White.

HAPPY, HAPPY BD friends. You may be small in number but you are large in heart and importance.

Speaking of birthdays, thanks to those who sent me best wishes on my special day. It swelled my heart to realize so many took time to acknowledge that occasion. Karen Wampler also brought me a Sweet 16 card (said she picked up the wrong card!?) and a bag of chocolate covered pretzel bark. Best candy I ever had. Thanks, Karen. There was also a sweet card at my seat at the February WBB which read: “Thanks for all you do for the Class of '62!” Then, the flower shop delivered a beautiful planter from the Class (purchased by Don Billings). I promise to keep it alive for at least three months. Thanks, all of you, for your thoughtfulness on behalf of the Class. 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

Speaking of Don Billings, in a phone conversation he shared that he was anticipating a visit with a hypnotist to seek alleviation of his essential tremors. Sure hope that helps him. Don also struggles with eye problems and mobility issues, as well as high blood sugar. Yet, he is upbeat about his future. He said for me to convey his affection to all his Hooterville friends. 

The Branhams and I had our regular four-month Wally World Hugfest during February. They both look great!! I told them I almost doubted they had any health issues. Unfortunately, Jim does still struggle with anxiety and the doctors have told him there is nothing more they can do to correct his body's chemical imbalance. On the brighter side, he recently had a new pacemaker installed, and thus far it is working great. I'm sure that gives Jim some peace of mind. Joyce said they stay optimistic by getting out on good days and being thankful for every minute they have. I told them I speak for all of us when I encourage them to join us at one of our events because mutual hugs from very good friends are great medicine.

Received a “wish you were here” e-mail from Marvin Henderson on my birthday. He and Deanna are in good health and love living in Ocala, FL, but promised they will return for the 55th reunion. Thanks, Marvin, for sending an update on your lifestyle.

Also heard from Cora Capshaw in February. Doctors say she is cancer free and has been removed from all meds. Said osteoporosis is her only complaint. I assured her many of us share that malady. Cora's life centers on grandkids and church and regaining energy she lost during cancer treatment. Promised to come to WBB when strength allowed. 

Richard and Joyce Hamilton missed the January WBB because both were sick Dec. and January. Richard added 25 pounds of fluid, and you can imagine what that did to his quality of life. Meds are now adjusted and he is feeling much better. Great news.

While visiting at the last Wild Bunch Brunch, we all noticed Melissa Swisher Thomas and Glenn come in for lunch. That was a thrill because no one knew how she was doing after her last stroke and subsequent rehab. Melissa seemed to remember all of us and was happy to see us. She is frail and needs to regain her mental and physical capacities, but with Glenn's help and time she knows it will happen. It truly was wonderful to get hugs from her and know she is back home and out.

PS: After writing the above, I just received word that Missy is back in ICU. All I know is that she has C-Diff, among other problems. This is bad news when considering her compromised health. Keep Melissa in your prayers. 

Jim Rusie wrote to say he and Becky, Steve and Diane Hiatt, and Dick and Angie Elmore had a Wild Bunch Brunch in Florida in January. They all sent their “warmest” wishes from Florida and told us to stay warm. Some folks are just mean-spirited. What would you bet they included alcoholic beverage at their WBB?

Also received a nice note from Irene Cure Conte. She commented on the weird weather of late. She lives in Stafford, VA, and mentioned it had been 72 and sunny that day but snow was forecast for the next. She and Rick stay close to the fireplace. 

Karen Wampler finally found her forever feline companion. She is now mother to a four-year old sweetheart named Arnold Fluff-o-nator (renamed Bamie). Every human needs a cat to keep our ego in check. Dogs idolize us and we begin to believe our greatness. But cats let you know humans are nothing more than their minions. Congrats, Karen, on making this decision to adopt. 

Also received a nice note from Linda Fisher Phillips. They sent me a Christmas card with updates on their lives and I responded. In my note I asked if Gregg Phillips (Linda's brother-in-law) was still receiving snail mail updates and did he wish to stay connected. I never hear from Gregg and never want to intrude on anyone with unwanted mail. She said he is enjoying the updates and wishes to remain connected, even though he isn't much on communicating and never gets back to town. That was good news. Glad you feel that way, Gregg. Mail contact is infinitely better than no contact.

During the WBB I talked with Sonnie Myers Gano and learned she is serving as a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) volunteer for the local courts. She enjoys that activity and knows how worthwhile it is for children who have no one else to speak for them. I'm proud of and admire you, Sonnie, for your selfless heart. I have a hard enough time dealing with homeless pets at the Humane Society and could never stay sane doing so with children.

FEBRUARY WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

We were glad to welcome back Curt and Mary Boner after their return from FL. Besides them, we also welcomed Brent Boner, Harry McGinity, Sonnie Myers Gano, Rick Blunk (a terrific surprise visit), Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Marty Akard Short, and me. Tish Scherer Hartley also chatted with us and, as mentioned earlier, we had a visit with Melissa Thomas. All in all, a good crowd for February.

Conversation at this event turned to Brooklyn Elementary experiences. Mary, Brent and Harry remembered teachers smacking their knuckles with a ruler if they misbehaved. Sounded as if they received more than their share. Maybe only the “bad” kids remember these events. I expressed my gratitude that Mary Moore of Central never resorted to such corporal punishment. Rick Blunk interjected that neither did Marie Welch. But, then, Central did harbor the cream of the class crop.

Poor Harry. He works for INDOT, so every month he is quizzed about the plans for I-69 through the 'Ville. We are all eager to learn the final decision on Martinsville interchanges. Harry always pleads the 5th and swears he knows nothing. Oh, well, Harry, we love having you join us even if you don't bring secret information.

Mary Boner brought a bag of chocolate heart Valentine candy for our desert. Each heart was covered in a fortune-cookie style wrapper. We went around the table reading our fortunes. Marty Akard Short announced loudly that hers said, “Every person with whom you breakfast today will give you $20.” After the booing subsided, she slunk back to her seat and left broke.

Marty also mentioned a joke I made in the January update about the backwards stripper. She said shortly after she and hubby Dave drove to KY to visit family, some of whom she had never met. When they asked her what she did, she told them she was a pole dancer. She further explained she used to be a naked dancer until the crowd began to yell for her to redress. Now, she only works at senior centers because they can't see or don't care about clothes. The pay isn't great but it keeps her off the streets. She ended by emphatically stating I should not bring a pole to any future class event. That's our Marty.

REUNION DISCUSSION:

Believe it or not, I am getting questions about our rapidly approaching 55th reunion this year. Most of those revolve around when it will occur. Some folks want to plan trips home around the event. I don't even know where to begin. No matter what date we pick, it won't work with all schedules. One class friend has said he requests we pick something other than the second Sat. in Sept. because of a conflict with a military reunion. He wishes to remain anonymous because he does not want date planned around him. Of course, after picking a date, we must decide what we want to do. As I see it, here are choices:

1. Saturday late afternoon dinner at Art Sanctuary here in town.

2. Saturday late afternoon dinner at restaurant out of town.

3. Saturday dinner followed by Sunday picnic at Bob's.

4. Saturday picnic in the format of our regular yearly mini-reunions.

5. Any combination of the above or totally different suggestion.

Would you PLEASE send me your vote for this gala event. Let me know when and where you would like to meet. It is true that to book meeting facilities we should begin very soon, and it would help those coming home from far away. Please e-mail, snail mail, or call me with your ideas in the next two months: 740 E. Washington St., Martinsville 46151–765 315 0397—klssas740@att.net

SMILE FOR THE MONTH: (provided by Karen Wilson Brummett)

The fact that there's a highway to hell and a stairway to heaven says a lot about anticipated traffic patterns.

So, when is this “old enough to know better” supposed to kick in?

Have you ever listened to someone for a while and wondered...who ties your shoelaces?

Be careful when you follow the masses...sometimes the “M” is silent!

When you're dead, you don't know you're dead. It's the same way when you're stupid.

Love to all, karen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

FEBRUARY 2017 UPDATE

 

Well, in the 'Ville it's one of a long-line of days where the sun has refused to appear. All of us in this and surrounding areas spend much time peering into the horizon for assurance that the life-giving orb does, indeed, still exist. Yet, life goes on, albeit a bit in depression and lethargy. Hurry April Showers to bring May Flowers.

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Nancy Alexander Foley, Dwight Arthur, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Janet Brummett Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Billy Joe Craven, Frank Ennis, Bob Etter, Terry Fleener, Steve Koons, Kathryn Mason Hill, Marcia Murphy Bolin, Stony Pearcy, Gary Stafford, Judy Wolff Parretts, Ruth Woolbright Dunigan, and Yours Truly.

Happy, happy birthday to this large group of friends. I hope the entire group feels as young physically as they envision themselves mentally. As John Stewart said, “I am older but I am not dead.”

FOR SNAIL-MAIL ONLY:

I'll begin with bad news so we can end on a lighter note.

Most of you won’t be too surprised at this note.  Our cheerleader and bouncy blonde class friend, Carol Jane Pearcy, passed this morning (Jan. 1, 2017) at the nursing home.  Since her sister, Sharon, is my sister-in-law, I’m one of the first to know.  Wanted to share with you before it comes out in the news.  There will be no public service.  She requested that, as well as cremation and interment next to her parents, brother, and sister in Nebo Memorial Cemetery.  Carol began suffering dementia/Alzheimers about eight years ago and has steadily failed mentally and physically since then.  Her sister, Carol, and her brother, Bill, are all that is left of the Pearcy family we all remember.  She hasn’t even known Sharon for about a year.  So very sad.  God spare any of us that ending.  This is number 65 and awful that it occurred on New Year’s Day.  I prefer to think that means there will be no more announcements of this nature the rest of the year. 

CLASS MISCELLANEOUS NEWS:

Lots of tidbits this month.

Want to begin with wonderful news. Received a call last week from Kay Selch. I knew from the sound of his voice he was calling with good news. Kim finally received her new kidney and all is going well. She was up and walking the next day. He is hoping she will be home by Feb. 10. They and their families are ecstatic that this long-awaited and prayed-for event is behind them and Kim anticipates a normal life going forward. 

KAY DID NOT ASK ME TO SAY THE FOLLOWING. Hope he isn't mad. He mentioned it will be $10,000 a year for rejection meds for the rest of Kim's life. If you are so inclined and find unneeded money laying around, they are beginning now to pay those bills. You can send your check payable to Kay at 260 North Grant Street and he will deposit that into a dedicated on-going fund for this purpose. Can't think of a more worthy destination for my charitable contribution. 

Received a note from John Stewart. He told me he keeps playing the dogs but continues losing. John always had perseverance in spite of the obvious. He said he and Karen came home for Christmas, but it would probably be the last time for that trip. Said it was very taxing and he didn't like the cold weather. He said they will fly North in late March for Spring. 

I had written John on his birthday and in that note I asked about Melissa Swisher Thomas, knowing they stay in frequent contact. He said Missy is home and doing better with rehab. She is regaining speaking ability and mobility after her recent stroke. I'm hoping Melissa or Glenn will write or call me direct with an update on her progress. Even better, I hope to soon run into them at a local eatery so we can hug and catch up. 

Found Terry Fleener at Kroger looking for sales. He said Janie is retiring from the kennel business so they can sell their country home and downsize to town. I was glad he didn't announce they, too, were moving to FL. Terry still works part-time and loves that. No plans to retire for him.

Saw on Facebook that Tishy Scherer Hartley and ten close friends debarked in January for a Caribbean Cruise. Judging from the pictures, I'd say they gave the ship's crew a run for their money. It was obvious they were rowdy, raucus and rebellious. You go, ladies!!

Pursuant to Linda Hamilton Stevens' suggestion, I have added Julie Arney to our snail-mail distribution list. She lives with her sister here in town. Her sister said she has good and bad days with her mental agility, and that she would enjoy the Updates on her good days. Keep on fighting, Julie, to regain tip-top health. So glad you're back with us again after a long absence.

Mary and Curt Boner spent Dec. and January in FL at their condo. We missed them at the WBB in January but hope they will return in February. They are constants in that group. 

Johnny Russell caught an error in my last Update. I stated that Steve Carroll was buried in Hilldale Cemetery. I knew better. Steve is buried in Mt. Pleasant in Hall. According to John, Steve's parents owned a farm just East of the cemetery and that Steve loved that area. Thanks for keeping me on the journalistic straight-and-narrow, Johnny.

Jody Nutter Lasiter is also flourishing in FL during the winter months. She is in Cape Coral just across the bridge from Ft Myers and loves it. Who wouldn't!!

Linda and Don Burleigh also reside in FL. She gloated that they were happy, warm, and sober (ugh!!).

After church last week, Frank and Georgeanne Ennis invited me to join them and family for lunch at a local restaurant. While I was pondering my calendar, Frank hung his head out the window and mumbled, “I'll even pay,” For those reading this, you will be aware of two astonishing things: Frank goes to church and he isn't as cheap as we thought. Thanks, Frank, for mellowing into your current flower-child personage.

Virginia (Toon) Woodall lost her husband, Kenny, in late January. Just last month I asked for prayers for Kenny, who was facing surgery. Now I ask for prayers for Ginny as she faces her new reality without her soul mate. Bless you, Ginny. 

Received note from Gary Stafford asking that I begin sending snail mail to their FL place. Gary's two titanium knees have allowed him to enjoy their travels once again, even though he says he still waddles. He used to suffer great pain in mobility and thanks God for His gracious healing. Gary said he was planning to send me a page of Algebra problems to keep me from getting bored and rusty. Gary (like Matilda McKrill) knew how I mightily struggled with the algebraic concepts. You could have offered to help back then, Gary!!

WOW, as I type this I wonder who is left in town. This yearly evacuation from the 'Ville is becoming epidemic. Who will next report they too are with the rest of our classmates in the Sunshine State.

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

In January our numbers were down but that did not diminish our love. Those attending were Marty (Akard) Short, Bob Etter, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger, Bill Fulford, Tish (Scherer) Hartley, Gini (Fulford) Watts, and Roy McGuffey. The latter two were first-time attenders and quite a pleasant surprise for all of us. In fact, received a note from Roy after that occasion in which he said he truly enjoyed the gathering and would try to be a more frequent attender. (He still farms some so doesn't have much spare time during the good weather months.) He also sent a generous contribution to snail mail. Thanks so much, Roy, for your kind words and financial assistance to the Mail Fund. (I learned after the event that both Richard and Joyce Hamilton were too sick to attend.)

Marty kept us in stitches, as usual. We were dishing the current craze wherein life revolves around cell phones. You could tell all present were old and yearned for the personal contact of earlier times. Anyway, most felt that while they were useful they didn't have a place in the bed or bath rooms. That lead Marty to ask Bob which hand he wiped with. Unfazed, Bob responded that he used his right and asked which hand she used. Marty said, “Ugh, I use paper.” We all rolled at Bob's come-uppance. It's usually Bob who has the upper hand in one-liners. See the excitement you miss when not attending.

Next WBB will be Monday, February 13, 10:30 at Forkey's. Hope to see anyone who still lives in this area to join us.

ON A PERSONAL NOTE:

Not a month goes bye that I don't receive some expression of appreciation for compiling our monthly Update and supporting me and my efforts profusely. I don't mention all of those for fear of seeming boastful. Just know that not a one of them goes unremembered or unappreciated. You all know how to motivate my efforts by being the best cheer club to graduate from MHS. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

I've decided on my new career. I'm going to be a backwards stripper. I come out onto the stage naked and they pay me to put my clothes back on.

The scariest feeling in the world is the split second when you lose balance in the shower and think, “Oh, God, they're going to find me naked.”

And God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world Then, He made the earth round…..and laughed and laughed and laughed.

You have not lived today until you have done something for someone that can never repay you.

Love to all, karen

 

JANUARY 2017 UPDATE

 

Happy, happy New Year to each of you and yours. Thankfully there are still so many of us around and connected as we delve into a New Year's adventure. We pray it will be a better year than we probably deserve. God bless us each and every one on this planet, and help us all to remember that peace on earth begins with ME.

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Marty Akard Short, Virginia Fulford Watts, Judy Hacker Fraker, Kenny Hacker, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Frances Hatley Fisher, Diana Hatter Tolley, Connie Shields Lowry, and John Stewart.

Happy birthday to each from all your Class of '62 Friends. Remember, “We aren't getting older, we are flower children gone to seed.” (Compliments of Ginny Toon Woodall: She interpreted that to mean we still have life-producing moments laying dormant and ready to sprout into action when energy moves us. Thanks so much, Ginny, for that nascent reminder of our fertility.) 

CHRISTMAS THOUGHTS:

I sincerely appreciate the cards and notes received from some of you. A special thanks to Karen Arnold Pottorff and Austin/Chyrel Gray for the care packages they delivered. All of the remembrances make me feel shoddy, as I don't send gifts or cards. Just know my thoughts went to this group on more than one occasion over the happy holidays. I hoped that each of you was sharing a memorable time with someone you loved.

CLASSMATE FAMILY NEWS:

Irene Cure Conte sent a note stating her husband, Rick, who has attended some reunions with us, had been hospitalized. Pneumonia and a serious infection proved formidable for his body. She even indicated that they “almost lost him” at Thanksgiving. However, at the time of her note, she said, “He is better now...even though he takes lots of naps and is no longer the Energizer Bunny.” Irene and Rick have much to be thankful for as they celebrate the New Year. God bless you both.

CLASSMATE MISCELLANEOUS UPDATES:

Eddie Kent wrote, “I'm still plugging along. Happy New Year to all.”

Richard and Connie Young “have made the big leap and moved to Florida.” Don't yet have a permanent home but will send new contact info when that phase of the move is complete.

Steve and Diane Hiatt have also sold locally and now settle in Florida seven months out of the year. Guess they also live a few months in Indy close to their daughter. He said it was a chore to move from a home in which they lived for 43 years. I personally promised my family I would never make them move me again. Everything will be sold from the house as it sits. 

Steve also shared that he visited with Steve McIlwain last summer when they passed through New Mexico on vacation. He said they shared a great evening rehashing old times and debating lots of issues. Steve also said he enjoys debating views “but will never win an argument with McIlwain.” Knowing Steve M., that made me laugh. He always knew where he was going and was steadfast on his journey—witness, his bucket list. Thanks Steve H. for the wonderful newsy update on your life. It was great to hear from you.

Others who reported in that they had flown South are Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush, Gary and Sarah Stafford, Don and Linda Burleigh, and Bob and Catherine Etter. Sharon even sent a weather report from their new homes. I would earnestly entreat each of you to send me updates on your lives while away from us, BUT I equally entreat you not to include temp./weather information. I view that as gloating, and that is beneath any Class of '62 Friend.

Linda Fisher Phillips sent a warm update from cold PA. She said her health is improved but they don't do much travelling. When they do, they go to, of all places, colder Vermont to visit grandchildren. Linda and Gordon are now welcoming great-grandchildren. Thanks Gordon and Linda for your newsy card. I love the Christmas season, because many send life events in their greetings. It's hard going a year without information on each of us. Keep that in mind when the urge to report to all of us hits you. 

It was also great to hear from Ginny (Toon) Woodall. As reported in earlier Updates, Ginny faces major health issues. However, her card said she wanted prayers for husband Kenny, who faces arterial surgery early this year. While it is always dangerous to have surgery, she says clearing his carotid will add much quality of life for him. As for her, the PET scans for her come every four months now, as there is indication of cancer but not strong enough to locate the exact problem area. She said, “I just might begin glowing from all the radiation.” As all of you can see from her quote in the birthday segment above, her faith is strong and her spirit bright. God be with both of you, Ginny, during the New Year. (She also enclosed a snail mail contribution because she looks forward to the Update every month.)

Was also glad to hear from Don and Janet (Elmore) Donoho, although they didn't share any yearly updates with us. I did learn, however, from Dick Elmore at the WBB that Don has had some issues. I do hope one of them writes with a good report on their lives.

Another card was from Eddie Underly all the way from Oregon. He said, “Thank you Karen so much for letting me back into the flock of 1962 classmates.” Let me say, Eddie, thanks to you for seeking to come back. The pleasure is ours.

Russ and Connie Knapp from TN celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary during December with their two children. Actually, his note said they celebrated their “adversity.” I laughed because I don't know if that was a typo or intentional. I'm assuming it was the former in view of 50 years. Congratulations folks. And speaking of Russ, Jim Brunnemer said the two of them shared a telephone call during December wherein they caught up on their lives. Jim shared that Russ has lost over a hundred pounds—a marvelous achievement. Jim also wished all of us a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

Received a warm call from Marvin Henderson, another of us who, with wife Deanne, has also permanently relocated in FL. (You know, I wonder if FL is sinking a bit from the weight of all these extra bodies??) Marvin said they are healthy and happy in their new home and wish all of us could be with them. He read about the Heckman graves in Hilldale in last month's Update and wanted me to know that Steve Carroll is also buried there with his parents. I am glad to know that so I can be certain to find and record it next Spring when my cemetery group goes there for recordation. Thanks so much for your call, Marvin. Always love talking with you.

Don Billings is also hanging in. Awaiting leg surgery to give him more mobility but finds lots to keep him busy even though wheel-chair bound. Has a great attitude and looks for the silver lining.

Marcia Short Schweitzer did “put in her 2 cents” regarding an earlier comment about our 55th reunion this year. As you may remember, Rick Blunk made a suggestion we include other classes at this occasion, and I asked you all to think about and report back to me with your ideas. Paraphrased here is what she said: Perhaps a two-day event wherein Class only on one day and guests invited to the other. She said, “I wouldn't mind visiting with other classes, but I really want time to visit with my Class family, too.” Think about this because this milestone is approaching rapidly. 

Note from Me: I received MANY e-mails, cards, notes, etc., indicating your appreciation for my “keeping us together.” All of those encourage me to move forward until there is no longer interest—which I pray never happens. If I didn't receive those kind words occasionally, it would not be so easy for me to continue. My true reward is knowing my contribution is meaningful. THANK YOU!!

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

December attendance was great. I think I counted about twenty. Those attending were: Sonnie Myers Gano, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Don and Linda Burleigh, Brent Boner, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Bob and Catherine Etter, Kay Selch (Kim couldn't join him and she was missed), Dick and Angie Elmore (we hadn't seen them for a while and had a great visit), Bill Fulford, Tish Scherer Hartley, and SURPRISE, Harry Joe Maginity. Harry found us last year and is very happy to be reunited with his Class of '62 friends. He still works for INDOT and was besieged with questions from around the table on the I-69 Project. Unfortunately, he would share no secrets about plans for same, but we love him anyway and hope he again joins us on the second Monday of every month. If you count all the attendees who have become Snow Birds, you will realize that attendance during the winter months is depleted. Come join us on January 9, 2017, 10:30 at Forkey's and welcome in the New Year with the longest-tenured and best friends you will ever have. 

END-OF-YEAR HOUSECLEANING:

As is my custom, in January I always seek input as to individual desires regarding distribution of the monthly Update. If you no longer desire to receive same, now is your chance to speak up. On occasion I do receive requests to be dropped and, while that saddens me, your wishes are always honored. Either send e-mail (klssas740@att.net) or snail-mail (740 E. Washington St., Mart. 46151), or call me (765-315-0397) IF YOU WISH TO BE ELIMINATED FROM DISTRIBUTION. Hearing nothing from you, no changes will be made to your current situation. As always, I WELCOME ideas for changes, additions, deletions, etc., from the current format of the Update. I am not the dictator. I am your subject. I need to have ideas for improvement because, as a creature of habit, it won't change without nudging me.

We enter 2017 with 125 connections on our distribution list—78 on e-mail and 46 on snail-mail. For you math gurus who immediately know that totals 124, let me remind you I count me, too; hence, 125. Yet, even that figure is incorrect. It just occurred to me that some of us married classmates. When I re-figure, I come up with 130 connected. I am always hoping that number goes up and not down.

ONE FINAL COMMENT FOR SNAIL-MAIL ONLY:

During December, those on e-mail were made very aware that my comments supporting Trump in the election greatly offended some of you. In fact, one classmate requested to be eliminated from distribution because I allowed my political views to enter into the Update. Talk about “nudging me” to change, consider me nudged. I will never again allow that to happen and I apologize to any of you on snail-mail who were also offended. I have already done the same to the e-mail recipients. To quote my comments to them, here is the apology I have made:

“ Well, by now, most of you on the e-mail chain know what happened by virtue of my mention of Trump in the last Update.  Suffice it to say, the outcome was totally unintended and unexpected.  Undoubtedly I take some responsibility because I should have been more sensitive to the political divide of late.  Regardless, the damage is done and we have lost one of our classmates from connection.  My apology was not accepted.  This makes me sad, since we try so hard to add names to our connection and lose way too many to other causes.  Thanks to those who have sent me encouraging notes to soften my angst.  They truly are appreciated.  The good thing is that, at least to this point, no one else has dropped from our midst.  Let me say to any out there who are disheartened that I expressed my political stance in the Update that it will never happen again.  Let’s try to overlook the incident and continue on our friendships path with no hard feelings.  Love to all.  Karen”

ENOUGH SAID!!

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

The greatest use of a life is to spend it on something that will outlast that life. (Linda Burleigh)

I'm so glad friends don't come with price tags. I could never afford the wonderful friends I've got.

Show respect even to people who don't deserve it—not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours.

Growing old is hard work...The mind says “yes” but the body says “what the hell are you thinking.” 

Kids today don't know how easy they have it. When I was young, I had to walk 9 feet through shag carpeting to manually change the TV channel.

And my personal favorite: You know you're getting' old when you can't walk past a bathroom without thinking, “I may as well pee while I'm here.”

Love to all,

karen

DECEMBER   2016 UPDATE

As I begin to compose this month's Update, it is two days past Thanksgiving, one day since Black Friday, and the calendar is rushing toward Christmas. In case you don't know my pet peeves, one of them is heralding Christmas before December 1. I'm no Scrooge but am very opposed to so much Christmas before our Thanksgiving holiday. We should take time to digest the meaning of Thanksgiving. OK, off my soap box. Sarah is thrilled that very soon she can begin using all the Christmas words, play the Christmas albums (yes, black vinyl 33-1/3), and begin to discuss her wish list.

Hate to share that I broke my code just a bit this year. I purchased my Christmas present for myself the day before Thanksgiving. (I swear I have been a very good girl all year.) I have wanted a new up-dated TV for years but was too cheap to purchase it. However, after considerable mental gyrations and realizing the long winter months of confinement were fast approaching, I took the plunge and bought a 55 inch 4HD TV. Problem is, didn't have a clue how to sync it to my AT&T U-verse source. Therefore, I have spent literally hours on the phone with Samsung and AT&T trying to get a picture and sound. If you have ever had to problem-solve over the phone with folks from the other side of the world, you will understand my nervous and frustrated state. You hold the phone in one hand while operating two different remotes as instructed. At times the frustration is very obvious on both ends of the line. Well, I just now accomplished the task and PRAY it keeps working. Couldn't stand another minute on the phone discussing inputs, sources, cables, etc. God is good to me!!

DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

DeeAnn Evans Little, Harry (Russell) Knapp, and Sue Weddle Myers.

Their number isn't great but their special days are nevertheless monumental. I assume each of you will reach the 73 threshold on your day (although, I beg for forgiveness if you young ones are only now touching 72). As I always say, age is merely an insignificant number. It's mental attitude that really counts. Happy, happy birthday to each of you. Kick up lots of dust. You've earned that privilege.

ANOTHER CLASSMATE LOSS:

Thanks to Norris Griffin's detective work, we now know that Robbie Sparks has passed. Robbie left our group after our junior year, but we always counted him as one of us. Norris talked with Robbie's sister who informed him that Robbie died in Florida around Thanksgiving 2015. So sorry we didn't know. Norris tried to find an obit on line, but was unsuccessful in his search. Apparently, Robbie and his younger sister weren't close. Even she didn't seem to know much about his life. Regardless, I am pained to announce our loss of number 64 from the marvelous Class of '62. God rest Robbie's soul. I remember him as jovial and somewhat of a prankster. So sad that we lost contact with him long ago.

CLASSMATE FAMILY SADNESS:

Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham lost her daughter-in-law, Lauren, in November. She was the wife of Emma and Bob's son, Brian, and was only 39 years old. It has been yet another devastating loss for the Lanham family. We feel deeply for your loss.

Another family loss was for Jerry Crismore. Jerry's mother-in-law, Norma Jean Myers Siddons, also left us in November. Many of you will remember that Norma and Fred Myers provided us with hours of enjoyment through Frisch's Big Boy way back in the day.

Sorry to report Chuck Vogus also has sadness with the loss of his half-sister, Patricia Poe, of Mooresville. It has been a sad month for several of our dear friends. God bless you all.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Don Billings called to say he is keeping-on keeping-on. Don struggles with several physical restrictions but maintains his can-do attitude. Thanks for the call, Don. Stay in touch.

Wish I could tell you more, but Melissa Swisher Thomas suffered yet another stroke—at least that's what the grapevine says. All I can find out is that she is in rehab. We all know Melissa struggled mightily to overcome her other strokes and had made great progress. Just pray she can get back to her happy self very soon. Glenn and/or Melissa, call (765 315 0398) and let me know how things are going. No one seems to have contact with you. God bless you, Missy.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE NOTES:

In connection with a group of genealogists I work with, lovingly called the Stoneheads, we had occasion to record Hall (Mt. Pleasant) Cemetery during November. We came upon four graves and my breath practically stopped when I read the names. It said, “In Loving Memory of Chad, Rick, Jane and Bob Heckman.” I hadn't thought of those names for at least 50 years but I knew immediately my connection with them. The occasion of their deaths caused the loss of our innocent youth. I'm sure many of you remember when their dad, in order to save their souls from a wicked world, shot and killed the boys and his wife early one Sunday morning in 1956. Rick was 12 and Chad was 11. They attended Brooklyn Elem. School and would have been joining all of us in middle school that year. Some of you boys probably remember them well from sports. Don Burleigh said they played sports with them on occasion. I remember I was infatuated with Rick. He was such a sweet and handsome boy. Don said their father, Bob, served many years in prison, but no one knows what happened to him after that. I only offer this tidbit as a sad walk down our memory lane. More than likely Rick would have walked across the podium with us in 1962.

Rick Blunk asked for us to consider inviting the classes who graduated in 1960, 1961, 1963 and 1964 to our next reunion. He thinks we would enjoy their company since we did attend the same school. I told him I would be very willing to attempt to contact them if the Class decided to attempt that. We've got a year to think about our 55th. We have lots to decide—where, when, what, who, etc. It's never too early to begin thinking about this momentous activity.

Frank and Becky (Pratt) Bock have flown to FL. She said to wish us all a warm winter and said she would keep us in her prayers. Thanks, Becky. We need all the prayers we can get.

Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush also headed south during November. She will be missed at the Wild Bunch Buffet for the next few months.

Bill Fulford has moved to 1850 White Oak Lane in Martinsville after settling up Dottie's affairs. We all hope you like your new home, Bill, although without Dottie it will undoubtedly be a lonely place. Stay strong.

Received a great update from Barbara Hicks Richardson. She still works at Indiana Title Searching Service in Indy and has no desire to retire. She said she feels appreciated and can still contribute even at her age. She said they make her feel necessary. That's reason enough to work. However, she was traveling to Missouri over Thanksgiving to spend the holiday with her daughter and family. Family is extremely important to Barb, and she realizes the need to spend every possible minute enjoying them. God bless, Barb. If I ever need a title searched, I'll give you a call.

Austin Gray and I will publicly admit we are Trump supporters. Since the election is behind us, I don't mind mentioning that fact for I fear no recriminations. Anyway, I had a Trump sign in the yard and promised Austin he would be the proud owner after the election. Well, someone threw it in the street, where it got damaged. I resurrected and reattached it in the yard. Then, someone stole it. I dreaded telling Austin I would have to renege on our agreement. Luckily, my neighbor had two. Upon explaining to him my plight, he gave me one of his. Austin got the sign. He cut it in half so we each had a memento of the most insane election in my lifetime. He already has his framed, according to Chyrl, and hung in his house. We both hope DJT makes us proud.

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

Those attending in November were Don and Linda Burleigh, Bob and Catherine Etter, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Austin and Chyrl Gray, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Tura (Crone) Lamar, Sharon (Tutterow) Quakenbush, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger, and me. It was a lively group. Tish (Scherer) Hartley enjoyed her dessert (several bowls of chocolate pudding) at our table and joined in the laughter. Tish has a way of always trying to shame all of us for not joining her in the exercise classes at the YMCA. Sorry, Tishy, it isn't working. I'm not old enough to join the Silver Sneakers. But, you go right ahead and keep the group bending and stooping and gyrating. Our group will become progressively smaller as the Snow Birds leave us. A small group of us must hold the banner high and maintain the Class of '62 integrity in their absence. Be safe, all of you. Stay in touch.

Next WBB will be Monday, December 12, 10:30 at Forkey's. Join us if possible. You won't be sorry.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH: (shared by Lila Pruett White)

My goal for 2016 was to lose 10 pounds—only 15 to go.

Ate salad for dinner. Mostly croutons and tomatoes. Really, just one big round crouton covered with tomato sauce. Ok, cheese too. FINE, it was a pizza.

I just did a week's worth of cardio after walking into a spider web.

I don't mean to brag, but I finished my 14-day diet food in 3 hours and 20 minutes.

(Thanks, Lila, for the laughs. We need so many of those.)

 

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR TO MY FAVORITE PEOPLE. LOVE YOU ALL. MAY GOD BE GOOD TO EACH OF US AND OUR FAMILIES DURING 2017 AND MAY WE DESERVE HIS BLESSINGS.

karen

 

NOVEMBER UPDATE

Happy November to all. Enjoy celebrations of Daylight Saving Time ending, Election Day (yeah!!), Veterans Day, and Thanksgiving. I hope each of you have special plans for at least one holiday. God ESPECIALLY bless our patriots—past, present and future—for their sacrifices. 

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Mark Cohen, Jim Ham, Barbara Hicks Richardson, Larry Martin, John Russell, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Charlie Vogus, Richard Walters, and Danny St. John. HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH OF YOU. Make this year your best ever and kick up some dust.

CLASS FAMILY LOSSES:

I was distressed to learn that Chyrel Gray, Austin's wife, lost her mother, Erlene Sichting. Erlene's husband was Keith, and the Sichtings are a well-known name in the community. Sadly, Erlene was also the sister of another of our classmate family--Ruth Woolbright's husband, Lloyd Dunigan. Wow, what sadness in that family. We wish the Sichting family God speed in their healing.

Lorraine Dunn Richardson said goodbye to her brother, Tom, in Oct. Everyone in the 'Ville knew and loved Tom. He was a 1964 graduate of MHS. Tom had been fighting with mesothelioma for many years and, in spite of his struggles, had lived several years longer than had been projected because Tom refused to give up. God bless you, Lorraine, and Tom's wife, Karla Burleigh Dunn, and families, and all of Tom's friends.

For snail-mail only: At the end of September and included in the electronic Update was news that Judy Fraker Ford lost her mother Ruth. Ruth was 95 years of age but continued to amaze and amuse her family and friends to the end. Ruth was also Sharon Fraker Bales' aunt. Hope you will be smiling at happy memories very soon, Fraker family.

Wow, our family had lots of losses and sadness last month. Bless you all with a peaceful acceptance of your losses very soon.

CLASSMATE HEALTH:

Received a happy note from Bev Sheeks stating that Glenn returned home from the hospital/rehab three days before his Oct. birthday. Since there was some doubt that would happen, Glenn and family were thrilled at that present. She says he is doing pretty well with a walker. They will do all they can to keep him home. Bev, please keep us advised; Glenn, keep on keeping on!

Gini Fulford Watts underwent cataract surgery in Oct. As some know, Gini never does anything the easy way. There were complications so it took her two weeks to finally complete the procedure to a favorable end. Thankfully, all's well that ends well. My opthomologist says my cataracts are “half ripe.” Wouldn't you know. When I want something to go wrong, it doesn't. He says I'm probably not going to outlive the insurance timetable that allows me to have great vision again. Oh, well, just thankful that's my greatest concern.

CLASSMATE TIDBITS:

John and Karen Stewart will head for Florida in a week and may not return until the weather warms to their liking. Linda and Don Burleigh will follow the end of December. They will be missed at our Wild Bunch Brunches. Good luck to all of you Snow Birds in your winter hiatus. We look forward to your return to the 'Ville.

Had a welcomed call from Linda Drake Davidson. She called to order a reunion album. She said, and I quote, “You should take some of the money and buy yourself a big bottle of wine for all your Class work.” I thanked her profusely but reminded her that we were going to be sending Updates until we were 90 and would need all the funds available. Thanks, though, Linda for your thoughts and contribution.

I mentioned last month that Irene Cure Conte was seeking info on Julie Arney. Well, Linda Hamilton Stevenson had some info which she shared through her sister, Marie Dake. Linda says Julie is living with and being cared for by her sister, Lana Arney Gadd, who lives in town. She gave me Lana's cell number, and I plan to call to get more info. Julie struggles with MS, Lupus, and Dementia. How awful. Julie was always so social. She smiled all the time and loved her family and friends. God be with Julie as she walks this tragic path.

Speaking of our Classmates Linda Hamilton and Leroy Stevenson, they have moved closer to Sister Marie Hamilton Dake. I have changed Class records to make certain they remain connected. Marie is celebrating being closer to Linda. I know together they can't stay out of trouble. Thanks, ladies, for this update information.

Those who have attended a reunion will remember Mike O'Neal's SO, Sue Hart Jarrett—whom we have adopted as a classmate. Mike tells me Sue took a bad tumble and now is great friends with neurologists and orthopedic specialists. We all hope Sue totally overcomes her injuries and is back with us very soon.

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Shamefully, I have to admit my absence at the October WBB. However, my efficient secretarial back-up, Mary Pope Boner, took notes so I could share with you. Those attending were Curt and Mary Boner, Catherine and Bob Etter, Sonnie Myers Gano, Jim Brunnemer, Dee Ann Evens Little, Dick and Angie Elmore, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Missy Swisher Thomas, and Tish Scherer Hartley. What a great crowd. Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and I were sad to miss the auspicious occasion with this star-packed crowd. Next WBB will be Monday, November 14, 10:30, Forkey's. Be there or be square.

REUNION WRAP-UP:

As promised, those on snail mail will find a class photo attached to this Update. Hope you enjoy. Those on e-mail should have received an electronic copy from Connie Etter and me. However, if for some reason you didn't, let me know and I'll resend.

All albums and photos should have arrived at the appropriate addresses by now. (Ed Underly and Linda Davidson, your order was submitted late but they will be here soon, I am promised.) If you paid for an album and/or 8x10 photo and haven't received it, please contact me immediately. I am always terrified I will make mistakes in the order and fail to deliver as promised. You can either write me at klssas740@att.net or 740 E. Washington St. 46151, or call me at 765 315 0397

Many have requested I try to put faces with names of the 37 classmates on the photo. I'll do my best. Here goes –

 

Wheelchair: Kenny Hacker

First row left to right (also includes those standing immediately behind first row): Karen Lesser Smith, Rick Blunk, Lila Pruett White, DeeAnn Evans Little, Marty Akard Short, Karen Wilson Brummett, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Melissa Swisher Thomas, Linda Gibbs Gehring, Gini Fulford Watts, Mary Frances Pope Boner, Marcia Short Schwitzer, Curt Boner, Richard Hamilton, Marvin Henderson, Liz Brummett Peterson, Brent Boner, Janet Brummett Britton, Don Burleigh, Sharon Robertson Anderson, Tura Crone, Bob Etter.

Top row left to right: Charlie Vogus, Austin Gray, Steve Koons, John Stewart, Danny St. John, Kay Selch, Carol Dow Teague, Stony Pearcy, Henry Gray, Jim Brunnemer, Bobby Elliott, Mike O'Neal, Bill Fulford, Terry Fleener.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

The best thing about the Good Old Days is that I wasn't GOOD and I wasn't OLD.

My memory's not as sharp as it used to be. Also, my memory's not as sharp as it used to be.

It's scary when you start making the same noises as the coffee maker.

These days, about half the stuff in my shopping cart says, “for fast relief.”

God, grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to tell the difference.

Love to all, karen

 

OCTOBER  2016 UPDATE

Happy October to all. I hope all of you have a wonderful Columbus Day, United Nations Day, and Halloween. Because I have lots of news this month, I'll get right to the class update.

OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS:

Jim Barrick, Lorraine Dunn Richardson, Richard Hamilton, Beverly Parker Smith, Becky Pratt Bock, Glenn Sheeks, and Patricia Sunderman Haskett. Happy, happy birthday to each of you. Make it count!

CLASS FAMILY LOSS:

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush lost her brother, Randy, in early Sept. This prevented Sharon and Perry from attending the reunion and Wild Bunch Brunch. Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and I visited with Sharon at calling. She has buried two brothers in very close proximity. Yet, Sharon's faith carries her through with grace. God bless you, Sharon, in your grief.

It just came out in today's paper that Judy Fraker Ford lost her 95-year-old mother, Ruth, on Sept. 29. Judy and her brothers, David, Bill, Tim and Dan, are struggling with grief as I type. Calling will be Tuesday, Oct. 4, 4:00 to 7:00 with services at 7:00, at Costin Funeral Chapel on East Washington St. in Martinsville. Most all of us have experienced the loss of a parent, so we understand the book that has been closed for the Frakers. God bless them. 

CLASS MEMBER LOSS:

Those on snail mail might not know that we lost our 63rd Class friend during September—Jack Lee Hammack. About a month ago, Jack stopped in to give me snail mail money and his change of address to Indy. When I quizzed him about his health issues, he was very vague and obviously didn't want to discuss it and didn't want it published. However, he was so upbeat I certainly didn't think it was deathly serious. He insinuated that, in addition to his health problems, he was very concerned about Kathy's mental health. So very sad that such an ardent supporter of our Class is no longer connected. Curt and Mary Boner went to calling in Indy on behalf of our Class and talked with his wife, Kathy. It would appear that she may have some mental issues because there was no recognition of Jack's class friends. So very sad. God bless the Hammack family.

CLASS MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

Sadly, I received a note from David Boys asking to be removed from the distribution list. He offered no reason. I'm sorry we have lost that contact.

Irene Cure Conte called this month. She was actually seeking information on Julie Arney, with which I couldn't help her, but we talked about her life. She still struggles with weight control and the incumbent side effects of being heavy. Since her dad's death, she doesn't get back to town very often. However, she promised to make contact when she did come home to see her brother, Tony.

Received a call from Russ Knapp. He was so upset about Jack's death, as they were best friends in school. Russ is diabetic and struggles with weight, although he has lost 50 pounds which helped lower colesterol. He is active in senior citizens in Hohenwald, TN, and writes and produces for their performance. He is also active in Trivia Contests and wins often. Since I can't remember what I had for breakfast, I envy his agile mind. Way to go, Russ. 

Sharon (Robertson) and Don Anderson have sold in FL and moved to Columbus, IN. Their daughter is not well, so they have come home to care for her and her family. While we are not happy about the circumstances, we are very glad they are closer to home now and perhaps can hug us more frequently. Attendees were thrilled to have them join the reunion activities. (Thanks so much for the Mary Kay lotion, Sharon.) 

At church I personally thanked Frank Ennis for his generous snail-mail contribution (yes, you read that right—Frank does attend church). He retorted, “Well, what else could we do. You were begging.” I want to adamantly state I did not beg, I simply sniveled about the state of our treasury. It worked. Your generosity will be shown below in the contribution reconciliation. 

Received a note from Eddie Underly ordering an album and group photo. However, he reminded me that those of us who have been together over the years have an advantage in identification, so he wondered if I could help him identify faces. He said that he remembers us in junior high and can't identify the present-day versions. I'll try to help him. I sent to the e-mail list photos of Eddie from elementary through today. In the last photo taken recently, he's holding a sign saying, “Hello to my Class of '62 friends.” He's right. The changes are great. He went from my chubby, shy friend to a distinguished gentleman of unknown identity. Thanks, Eddie, for sharing an update.

On Sept. 23, Martinsville celebrated the Indiana Bi-Centennial anniversary with torch ceremonies on the square. In conjunction, several classmates were allowed to meet and greet each other. Those meeting at Los Reyes were Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Kay and Kim Selch, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, and me. After gorging on Mexican we made a stop at the Candy Kitchen for sweets and then walked to the Veterans' Memorial where we heard Ruth Rusie, honorary torch bearer, remember Martinsville. There we met Larry and Connie (Peggy Denny) Martin, Tura Crone, Richard Hamilton, and Jim Rusie. It was a very enjoyable way to spend Friday afternoon. Wish more could have joined us.

I always host an open house during the Fall Foliage Festival Parade on Sunday, October 9. I have available red and white chili and coney hot dogs, tea and coffee. Everyone brings a covered dish, lawn chairs, and drink of their choice if tea/coffee doesn't fit their palate. Please join me on that day from Noon (parade begins about 1:30) until late afternoon. It's very informal and lots of fun sharing time with all ages of visitors. Another highlight is that BIGG COUNTRY BAND sets up and plays two yards down. If you aren't familiar with them, you are missing a terrific performance of country sounds. Hope several of you will join me at that Fall event. 

WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Great and rowdy crowd during September. Those attending were Bob Elliott and his son, Rob, Don and Linda Burleigh, Rick and Marsha Blunk, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Bob and Catherine Etter, Austin and Chyrl Gray, Steve Koons, Dick and Angie Elmore, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Bill Fulford, Jim Brunnemer, and me. In addition, Tish (Scherer) Hartley, Diana (Hatter) Tolley, and Melissa (Swisher) Thomas were with other groups and stopped at the table to hug friends. We were pleased that Steve Koons and the Blunks could delay their return home after the reunion to join our breakfast groove. Next Brunch will be Monday, October 10, 2016. Hope to see you there.

REUNION NOTES:

Sixty-five people attended this event. I am attaching to this e-mail a copy of the article which went into the Reporter. I am also enclosing a hard copy for snail-mail. Connie Etter has sent to e-mail subscribers information on how to access the photo yourself. In fact, you can view all shots taken that day on her website. In November I will send a copy of the group photo to snail mail. We had many attend who haven't been with us for some time and some every-timers who couldn't make it. I did get messages from several of those sending their love and regrets.

While the article will give you the bones of the event, here are a few tidbits to flesh out those bones.

Harry Maginity had registered to join us at the reunion. That was a nice surprise after having lost Harry to us in the 9th grade. However, his band, Convergence, scheduled a performance on reunion day in Indy, so he wrote to say he would have to see us next year. We'll hold you to that, Harry.

Karen Wampler called to say her birthday celebration with family fell on reunion day. Some day her schedule will accommodate a Class function.

Don Billings had registered but called the day before saying he was too ill to attend. I did talk with Don on the 18th and he informed he is now fine. He ordered an album to see if he could identify his age-progressed friends. Please note his new e-mail address: don@billings.ws

Janie (Reese) Thompson sent a snail mail donation and stated a visit from out-of-state guests prevented them from attending. I told her to bring them with her but guess she didn't think that would be appropriate entertainment. 

A huge thanks to Linda Burleigh and Joyce Hamilton for their hands-on help at the reunion. They shoved me away from the serving table with an admonition to visit while they set up and tore down from the lunch. I want to also acknowledge Brent Boner on the clean-up team. He pitched in and proved he knows his way around kitchen messes. Thanks to them, after all had left there was nothing for me to do but bid farewell.

Stony produced several bottles of his home-made wine. He shared with me after quizzing that he and Carol have a wine cellar with about 2,000 bottles of wine. I definitely want to visit them soon. Stony walked the crowd offering samples. He also sold bottles from his trunk. Money for those he donated to snail mail. Since I received four bottles, I also contributed to the kitty. Money very well spent. I've had Stony's home brew before and can vouch that it is top drawer. Thanks, Stony, for your hospitality and generosity to the coffers.

Many of you know that Marty (Akard) Short often arrives late and claims directional challenges. Happily, this year she got it right and arrived on time. In fact, she had played golf with Curt, Stony, and Don Burleigh the day before at the local country club. I am told she swings a mighty club. Next year they want to enlist more classmates to join them in 18 holes.

Every year we all wonder in what form of transport Karen (Wilson) and Bud Brummett will arrive. This year, according to Bob, it was a shiny bright lipstick-red 1950 modified Ford convertible. Needless to say, many were seen coveting it. 

We had several folks attend that haven't been with us for some time. One of those was Emma Lou (Hamilton) Lanham. While her attendance reminded us of Bob's passing, it was great to know she is coping and moving on with her life. It's what Bob would have dictated. 

Received a sweet note from Janet and Don Donoho in California, which included a contribution to snail mail. She loves receiving all the Class news and wishes they could be more involved. Janet and Don, be assured that even though you are a world away, we love and miss you and are still tied by the bonds of very old friendships.

Just want to comment that even after 54 years, I find it extremely easy to carry on a conversation with each classmate. It's as if we were just together yesterday. What a warm feeling to be so comfortable with very long-tenured friends. I sincerely hope every attendee feels the same comfort level. As I walked the crowd eaves-dropping, that certainly seemed to be the case. 

 

If you would like to order an album of photos that chronicled our 54th reunion, let me know ASAP at 765 315 0397 or by e-mail. It isn't too late to order. Cost is $35 which includes postage. Or, if you want an 8x10 color photo, cost is $11 which includes postage. Albums should be delivered by early November.

I am gratified to report that not one soul: got lost in the woods, fell in the lake, broke any bones, used drugs, participated in heated arguments, dressed indecently—and no police calls were necessary. In other words, every person heeded my earlier publication of reunion etiquette. Bob says no claims have been filed on his liability insurance. I'm extremely proud of my Class of '62 friends. 

AND LAST BUT CERTAINLY NOT LEAST: A huge thanks to Bob and Catherine for being such wonderful and gracious hosts at their perfect lake-front shelter house. Every year they allow us to enjoy the beauty and seclusion--an experience which so many others covet. Thanks friends.

SNAIL-MAIL FUND RECONCILIATION:

Almost everyone added extra to their registration checks. Those that didn't register delivered contributions to my door or mailbox. You folks are just awe-inspiring. I know of no other class which is financially sound and yet still contributes to community and Class endeavors. I will not need to “whine” for funds for two years.

Income: $2,525 (includes photo and postage collection)

Expenses: $ 715 caterer

$ 636 albums and/or photos 

$ 100 Connie's fee for time/expenses 

35 postage/envelopes 

$1,486

SNAIL-MAIL CONTRIBUTION: $1,039

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

I want to close out 2016 reunion news with this appropriate comment:

“I hate it when I see an old person and then realize I went to high school with them.” (Sound familiar?) 

Love to all, karen

ANOTHER CLASS LOSS

 

Earlier this week, while working on reunion paperwork, I realized that we had been extremely fortunate that the Class hadn’t sent any memoriam flowers for almost a year (Oct. 2015 for Danny Broyer—No. 63).   Well, that thought cursed us.  Judy Knose just sent me a note saying that today’s Reporter printed an obituary for Jack Lee Hammack of Indy.  She wondered if that was our Jack.  Sadly, it is.  About a month ago, Jack stopped in to give me snail mail money and his change of address to Indy.  He shared that both he and Kathy were having some health problems and were downsizing to Indy.  When I quizzed him about his health issues, he was very vague and obviously didn’t want to discuss it.  However, he was so upbeat I certainly didn’t think it was deathly serious.  So very sad that such an ardent supporter of our Class is no longer on our distribution list.  Since the service is tomorrow, I cannot get a floral arrangement delivered before the service.  That saddens me greatly.  I will, though, write a sympathy note from our Class to Kathy.  She had joined us on many occasions and was very much an adopted classmate.  Here is what the obituary said:

 

“Jack Lee Hammack passed away Saturday, August 27, 2016.  He is survived by his wife, Katherine; daughter, Sandra; sons Michael and David; eight grandchildren; and one great-grandchild.  Jack was proud to have served his country as a sergeant in the United States Marine Corps.  Services will be held at Daniel F. O’Riley Funeral Home, 6107 S. East St., Indianapolis, on Friday, September 2, 2016, at 11:00 am with visitation from 10:00 AM until time of service.  Online condolences may be shared with the family at orileyfuneralhome.com.”

 

This is very sad news coming on the eve or our 54th reunion.  Yet, I know Jack would want us to live every day and every experience to the fullest.  

 

Sadly, karen

 

REUNION UPDATE - 54th

This really isn't an Update but rather a recap on some reunion information. I mostly want to share some very good news. In the last Update, I mentioned that attendance seemed to be down at this year's 54th reunion, which was a bit discouraging. I also requested some money to refresh the snail-mail fund. WOW, guess I should whine more often. You all came through with flying colors on both accounts. We have money to pay all our obligations with enough left to continue snail mail for over a year. (In fact, had our funds not been so generously replenished, I would not have felt free to mail this additional update.) Moreover, 33 classmates and 17 guests have registered. That's the biggest crowd we've had since the 50th, if memory serves me correctly. I don't yet have an official financial accounting to report but will share that in the October Update. I don't often mention donors and amounts, but you know who you are. THANK YOU FROM ALL OF US. 

MISCELLANEOUS HEALTH NEWS:

Melissa Swisher Thomas was rushed to the hospital by her husband, Glenn, and great friend John Stewart. She was too weak to walk and they didn't know why. Turns out tests detected internal bleeding and doctors are attempting to determine the source. That is a real downer because it probably prevents her from joining us. Get well very quickly, Melissa. You will be missed. If you feel like coming out briefly to join the photo op and wave hello, even if you can't stay, please do that. I hope to have a good report for you in the October Update.

Marilyn Dyer Hornberger underwent surgical varicose vein removal. That has slowed her down some, although not much. We aren't certain if she will join us or not. Either way, Marilyn, get well soon. It's important you keep Richard working on his to-do list. Don't want him getting lazy.

Not great news on Glenn Sheeks. He didn't return home after his multiple surgical procedures in late July. Rather, he is in the Willow Springs rehab center in Indy. You probably remember that Glenn has been faced with a multitude of medical issues for years, not the least of which is diabetes. For that reason, he hasn't bounced back as fast as we all wish he had. His devoted wife, Bev, keeps me posted. Here again I hope to have much better news about his health improvement in October. Glenn, we sure wish you and Bev could be with us, but we will think of you and the many others who are missing from our flock.

REUNION REGISTRATION UPDATES:

Don Burleigh talked with Marty Akard Short. She has a wedding scheduled for reunion day. It's family so, although a tough decision, she opted to miss our stupendous gala. So sorry, Marty. I still think they could reschedule the wedding in view of our conflict. After all, what is most important—a few hours with much loved Age Progressed Friends or a lifetime of marital bliss. No contest!!

When Austin Gray brought me his check and contribution to snail mail, he also handed me a bottle of Brown County Red Port nerve relaxer. He vouched from personal experience it works. Can't wait to try it. Thanks friends.

Along with his money, Harry Maginity sent along his business card for CONVERGENCE, a group playing jazz, bop, blues, ballads, Latin swing, and all requests. Music is Harry's true enjoyment; his job with INDOT pays the bills. Between the two, he is very busy. This will be Harry's first reunion ever. He was reintroduced to our class list in June of this year, after he found us on our Web Site. Welcome Harry. You will find we are the same sweet, naive, marvelous humans you knew when you left us in middle school. Very happy to be re-acquainted with Harry after so many years.

Other great news is that Marvin and Deanna Henderson will once again join us from FL. It's always wonderful to hug them after a year's absence. Deanna recently received a clean bill of health from her doctors, so the days are now much brighter for them. Wonderful news, Deanna.

Sharon Robertson Anderson and her husband Don are also in from FL and will join us. It will be terrific to see them after a long hiatus. In addition, Dan St. John is making a return appearance. Guess we didn't scare him off last year. Elizabeth Brummett Peterson will also be with us this year after many years of absence. She will be joined by her sister, Mary. 

Sonnie Gano wrote to say she was so sorry she couldn't join us this year. She doesn't miss many Class functions. Seems her family's 100th year reunion will be held on the 10th. She said it was truly a special day for her mother's family, as many don't get to experience such a milestone. She hopes to join a Monday Wild Brunch Bunch affair soon. 

Also heard from Eddie Underly. Eddie said, “Karen, I wish I could be there, but since the loss of my wife, it took the wind out of my sails. Maybe one day I will drop in. I miss the greatest bunch of folks ever in my life.” We, too, wish you could “drop in” soon, Eddie.

I am really looking forward to a terrific rekindling of old friendships. 

UPDATED REGISTRATION LIST:

Bob and Catherine Etter, Don and Linda Burleigh, Rick and Marsha Blunk, Bill Fulford, Charles and Janice Vogus, John and Karen Stewart, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Brent Boner, Stony Pearcy, DeeAnn Evans Little, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Steve Koons, Karen (Wilson) and Bud Brummett, Marvin and Deanna Henderson, Lila Pruett White and guest, Dan St. John, Judy (Caldwell) and Leon Hamilton, Henry Gray, Austin and Chryl Gray, Jim Brunnemer, Sharon Bales, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Roy Elliott and friend Donna, Harry Maginity, Frank and Georgeann Ennis, Sharon (Robertson) and Don Anderson, Karen Arnold Pottorff, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson and sister Mary, Carol (Dow) and Jim Teague, Terry and Janie Fleener, Linda Gibbs Gehring, and me. 

A few others have given verbal acknowledgment of attendance, but I don't count heads until I am certain of attendance. It isn't too late. Show up for the fun, and only pay for the meal if you enjoy the luncheon buffet. Don't forget photo money (about $32 plus postage). You will be surprised if some show up as late registrations and not on this list. I dare not wait any longer to place this important missive in the hands of the USPS.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST—RULES OF REUNION ETIQUETTE:

In order to maintain order and decorum, please memorize these few simple rules for civilized classmates;

A modest dress code is mandated, which means –-- 

No skin visible above knees and below chin (this also applies to the male members present). It applies regardless of the sex with which you have chosen to identify. 

Shoes should be orthodic, flat, rubber soled, laced securely to top of foot, to prevent trips and falls and a claim on the Etters' liability insurance.

EVERYONE MUST WEAR UNDERGARMENTS for purposes of sanitation and odor control.

No flashy jewelry permitted which might reflect sun rays into weak, cataract- and glaucoma-riddled eyes. 

Hair will be suitably coiffed for women. Men are requested to oil balding pates to prevent blinding. 

No skin-tight garments of any kind. It is no excuse that you have gained weight and outgrown your wardrobe. To prevent prurient re-actions, wear a toga sheet, if necessary.

Makeup will be subdued and modest. Sweating does not do well with paste cosmetics, and we tend to sweat a lot from the exertion of sitting and talking.

Absolutely no weed or hard drugs will be allowed on premises—except cigarettes, of course. This does not preclude prescribed opioid drugs for purposes of keeping body parts functioning, moving, and pain free. However, Bob and Catherine have blessed wine and/or beer in moderation. 

There will be NO DISCUSSIONS involving:

politics (the names Trump and/or Clinton will not be uttered), religion, alternate lifestyles, birth control, gun control, sexual prowess then or now, youth-promoting cosmetic surgery or bottled hair color, teenage standards of this period versus the angels with whom we walked the hallowed halls of MHS, State of the Union, NFL/NBA/ABA/PGA teams, and/or any other topic which could give birth to volatile reactions. Volatility tends to incite increased blood pressure--not to mention brain farts. REMEMBER: Morgan County first responders are always accompanied by the crack Distorter reporter Keith Rhoades, which could spell disaster for what small amount of credulity our reputations carry in the community at this time. 

No attendees will leave sight of the group for nature walks. We cannot risk anyone getting lost or pregnant during officially sanctioned reunion events.

No high diving from the board into the lake and no climbing the Park Slide and zooming to the bottom. Remember the Distorter admonition.

Boat rides are permitted so long as life jackets are snugly and appropriately secured and the water craft remains tied to the dock at all times.

Fishing is also permitted if the fisher person remains at least 20 feet from water's edge and no barbed hooks are attached to the pole. We will not have adequate first-aid equipment to treat blood loss from any orifice.

These rules are being published and served upon all classmates. They will be presented in any court action in which one of these rules was violated, We must eliminate any possibility that the MHS Class of '62 could be disparaged or considered an accessory after the fact. Be advised--we have no funds for court costs and legal counsel. Consider yourself WARNED. 

 

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

(Russell Knapp) There is more money being spent on breast implants and Viagra today than on Alzheimer's research. This means that by 2025 there should be a large elderly population with perky boobs, huge erections, and absolutely no recollection of what to do with either.

(Karen Wilson Brummett) 

--My wife's female intuition is so highly developed that she often knows I'm wrong before I've even opened my mouth.

--My boss said, “Dress for the job you want, not the job you have. No I'm sitting in a disciplinary meeting dressed as Batman.”

--Some things are better left unsaid--which I generally realize right after I have said them.

--I might wake up early and go running. Then again, I might wake up and win the lottery. The odds are about the same either way.

See some of you soon. Really wish that applied to everyone receiving this Update. 

Hugs to all. karen

 

 

SEPTEMBER UPDATE - 2016

 

Because I want to reiterate and add to some 54th reunion details, this will be the September Update early. Happy Labor Day, Patriots Day, POW/MIA Recognition Day, Grandparents Day, and Autumn Begins celebrations (ugh!!). And, happy special day to --

SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Ronnie Asher, Brent Boner, Joyce Branham Bowman, Carol Dow Teague, Janet Elmore Donoho, Joyce Favour Greenwalt, Judy Garrett Knose, Austin Gray, Marvin Grimes, Jerry Massey, Steve McIlwain, Jo Nutter Lasiter, Mike O'Neal, Bob Riffel, Chuck Ritter, Virginia Toon Woodall, Karen Wampler, and Nick Zoller.

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF OUR SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAY HONOREES. We all wish for you the best day and year ever. 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Had a great telephone conversation with Mary Anderson. She has been silent for several months as she struggles with some health issues. However, when we talked, she said things were brighter for her in terms of mobility (neuropathy) and cancer remission. She said her cat Sam, like Karen Wampler's dog Webster, was so smart and helpful that Mary has all the assistance she needs. They spend a lot of time in teaching/learning new tricks. She is always so positive and gives me the usual line--”I'm not as bad off as most, so I don't want to bore others with my issues.” 

I'm putting all of you on notice right now that I do not subscribe to the theory that we suffer in silence. When I have an illness, you will know the what, why, when, how--plus all the gory details. I will want attention, sympathy, flowers, and candy from all. Just be prepared for the updates wherein you learn of all the agony in my medical malady. 'Nuff said.

Snail mail went out in July a day before I received this news. Received a note from Bev Sheeks telling us that Glenn was to have open heart surgery. They did an aortic valve replacement, two bypasses, and inserted a pacemaker. It was a 5-6 hour surgery at St. Francis on Emerson in Indy. This was very serious and he was in induced coma for many days. I was very concerned. But, Bev wrote several days later to say he was showing signs of recognition and moving some. She couldn't believe his progress. Since I haven't heard anything to the contrary, I am assuming he has continued to improve and will be home soon feeling better than ever with this new-found strength. Send Glenn a note at glennsheeks@sbcglobal.net. Bev is wonderful to relay all notes. Remember Glenn and Bev as you go about your day. God bless them as they traverse this bumpy road.

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

While attending the magnificent Morgan County Fair, I noticed a Cub Cadet tractor in the parade line which was registered to Nick and Edwana Zoller. I hung around in an attempt to catch them but somehow we missed each other. However, when I got home, I sent Nick an e-mail telling him how regal he looked atop his tractor. He responded with a nice note saying he was sorry we didn't get to meet after 54 years. He mentioned he also ran into Jim Ham. I'm bummed that I missed both of them. I'll probably have to await the 2017 fair to attempt another contact—unless they surprise us with an appearance at the September event. It is clear Steve Koons and Nick Zoller have much in common with their love of tractors. Way to go, Nick, for participating in the first ever MCF Antique Machinery Parade. I loved it.

By the way, hats off to Richard and Joyce Hamilton, who are largely responsible for the antique machinery events at our Fair (as well as a lot of other Fair activities). They work tirelessly to make certain the events go smoothly. Thanks so much, Joyce and Richard.

Gini Fulford Watts has left the 'Ville for Bargersville—of all places. No slam intended for Mary and Curt, who also call that beautiful burg home. She lives on a county road in Johnson county that she says can't be found on GPS. Can't wait to try to find her for a lunch date. She promised she would join us in September. Kay Selch shamed her into attending. Way to go, Kay.

Learned that Karen Wilson Brummett has been in NY with her sister for two weeks. I swear, she has been on vacation all year. Now I know why she doesn't feel the need to retire. You go, girl! 

SNAIL-MAIL RECONCILIATION:

I seldom discuss the specifics of snail-mail costs. However, it occurs to me that, before I ask for money, you should have some idea of how I spend your donations. I'll try to give you a snapshot of how those expenses accrue. You can extrapolate the yearly expenses from there. 

For the months of May 1 through September 30, I spent:

Postage $120.32

500 sheets of paper $ 5.00

Envelopes $ 11.68

labels $ 8.84

black ribbon $ 34.00

$179.84

During the months of November 2015 through April 2016 I transferred from the fund to me $175.00 to cover costs of the same itemized expenses. So, on average it costs about $35.50 a month. I wish I could offer to pay the approximate $425 yearly cost out of my own pocket, but sadly the Retirement God won't let that happen. 

This is all by way of telling you that our snail-mail balance at present is $44.68. That's enough to cover the October Update costs. If you are on snail-mail and enjoy staying in contact, if you haven't contributed in the past, if you want to continue the snail-mail function, AND if you can afford to do so, could you see your way clear to send me a small donation to 740 E. Washington St., Martinsville, IN 46151? Any amount will help but you won't be dropped if you don't contribute. 

OK, I hate this part of my job and don't like to ask for money. I fully expect donations to be offered without further requests because this group has always been extremely generous. Thanks for any help you can give.

WILD BRUNCH BUNCH:

I deeply apologize that in the last update I had the wrong date for our next Wild Brunch gathering. I skipped August and went right to the September 12 occasion. Don Burleigh quickly rubbed my face in this error, even though Don is the classmate who frequently forgets to show up at Wild Brunch. I tried to notify everyone who usually attends of this change and hope this didn't cause anyone to miss this stupendous occasion. Those attending the August 8 gathering were Mary and Curt Boner, Linda and Don Burleigh, Catherine and Bob Etter, John and Karen Stewart, Kay and Kim Selch, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Brent Boner, Sharon Quakenbush, Marilyn Hornberger (I apologize that I inadvertently left her name off the attendance roster for the June occasion), CharlieVogus, and me. Marty Akard Short must have gotten lost on her way because she didn't make this brunch and she was missed. Melissa Swisher Thomas and Tish Scherer Hartley also stopped by the table to chat. If I've counted correctly, that makes 19. Summer attendance at our monthly gatherings is great, but come Fall, the Metamucil Migration will deplete our number. Enjoy the happy times while you can. 

Don't forget the next Wild Brunch Bunch will be Monday, September 12, 10:30, at Forkey's as usual—the Monday after our Saturday reunion.

REUNION TIDBITS:

We aren't showing a very big turn-out this year, which is sad. With our age and health conditions, we need to take advantage of every opportunity to join souls. I hope I hear from several more of you that you can come. Just call me at the number below and make your reservation. You can pay me at the reunion if you don't have time to render a check. Here is the agenda: 

Meet and greet 11:00 AM at Bob Etter's shelterhouse located at 5009 OLD Morgantown Road. Here are Bob's directions:

Go about ¾ mile from the 37 Bypass east on St.. Rd. 252 toward Morgantown. At that point Old Morgantown Road angles off to the left (at Eastview Christian Church). Go about 3 miles east on Old Morgantown Road to the first crossroad—St. John Rd. goes North or left and Bob's driveway goes south or right. That is 5009 Old Morgantown Road. If you get lost, call my cell at 765 346 9346(MARTY AKARD SHORT SHOULD PRINT THIS OFF FOR HER TRIP. SHE GETS LOST EVERY YEAR AND AMBLES IN LATE.)

We will enjoy BBQ sandwiches, baked beans, hot baked potato salad, slaw, chips, carrot cake, brownies, and sweet and un-sweet iced tea.

Here are the expenses: $11 per person to Renda; $100 to Connie Etter for trolling the crowd for great photo opportunities and putting together the photo albums; table covers and small decorations; and $32 class expense for Bob and Catherine's headcount. Bob and Catherine have persuaded me they do not want and will not accept any money for use of their facility. Thanks so much, Class friends, for your kindnesses. If you can afford $16 per person to attend and if we have a minimum of 35 people attending, we will pay all expenses.

If you want to order a photo album, Connie says an 8x8, 20-page hardcover booklet, which will contain the large class photo, will run $30 plus tax. An individual 8x10 class photo will cost $10. Stick some money in your pocket for your order if you are so inclined. Connie needs money before placing order for photo albums. 

If you have a photo album mailed to your home, please pay ME an additional $2.50. If you order just the 8x10 class photo, pay ME $1.00. That money goes to me for postage, as I mail them to you. The $30 plus tax album cost goes to Connie for her expenses. If you are local and want to have them delivered or retrieved at my home, no additional cost is required. 

I need to furnish Renda with a firm headcount and have money in hand no later than Monday, September 1. If you can attend, please send to me your check in the amount of $16 per person to: 

Karen Smith

740 East Washington Street

Martinsville, IN 46151

765 315 0397

klssas740@att.net

As always, if you cannot afford to pay to attend, please let me know in any manner shown above. You can be assured your cost will be paid anonymously. Many of our classmates generously send me extra money to cover the cost of anyone needing assistance. (You know who you are and thank you so much for your kindnesses.) As I always say, we need YOU much more than we need your money. 

It's not too late to attend. Just call me at above number so I can add your headcount. You can pay me at the reunion.

Those who have registered to attend are:

Bob and Catherine Etter, Don and Linda Burleigh, Rick and Marsha Blunk, Bill Fulford, Charles and Janice Vogus, John and Karen Stewart, Mary and Curt Boner, Brent Boner, Stony Pearcy, Gini Fulford Watts, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, DeeAnn Evans Little, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Steve Koons, and Karen Wilson and Bud Brummett. A few others have stated they will attend and that the “check is in the mail,” but I can't count heads until money is in hand.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH: (Compliments of Hazel) 

“I know you have been laying awake at night wondering why baby diapers have brand names like “Luvs,” “Huggies,” and “Pampers,” while undergarments for old people are called “Depends.”

Well, here is the low down on the whole issue.

When babies crap in their pants, people will still Luv'em, Hug'em, and Pamper'em. When old people crap their pants, it Depends on who's in the will.

Glad I got that straightened out so you can rest your mind.”

SEE SOME OF YOU IN SEPTEMBER!!

HUGS, karen

 

August  2016 Update

 I'M SENDING THIS OUT A COUPLE OF DAYS EARLY BECAUSE IT CONTAINS TIME-SENSITIVE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SEPTEMBER 10 REUNION

 

Hello August—the month of no holidays—unless you count the RNC and DNC extravaganzas. Therefore, I hereby declare this “Celebrate Ourselves Month.” We've made it 70 plus years and lived through tears and laughter. We have fought a valiant fight to leave a decent life for our offspring. We aren't perfect and we have made mistakes, but we have survived with dignity and pride in our contributions. Over sixty of us can't celebrate this occasion. The mere fact that we each made a conscious decision to be connected to each other after decades is testimony that our memories and special connections are strong. A toast to each of us! And, we can celebrate our August birthday celebrities –

 

AUGUST BIRTHDAYS:

 

Mary Anderson, Ralph Berry, Don Burleigh, Dave Chandler, Richard (Butch) Cramer, Judy Fraker Ford, Linda Gibbs Gehring, Henry Gray, Virginia Haviland Hamblen, John Jones, Sam Lasiter, Ellen Miller Little, Sondra Myers Gano, Kay Selch, and, last but not least, Karen Wilson Brummett.

 

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to each of these special friends.

 

MEDICAL UPDATES:

 

Received a call from Cora Capshaw. She, like several others, received too late her invitation to visit with Ellen Miller Little and wished she could have joined our group. I apologize that several expressed distress that they received the notice in Wednesday's mail—after our Wednesday noon gathering. Ellen, just know that more would have greeted you had they received proper communication. Anyway, Cora struggles with arthritis and the manifestations of scar tissue in her chest. Yet, she is, like everyone in our group, positive and hopeful about many more years to enjoy the good life.

 

I saw a photo on Facebook of Ed Kent decked out in his oxygen mask. He told me he has had it about four years but is still “hanging in there.” He, like Cora and others, said “it could be a whole lot worse.” He also asked that I relay to all his classmates his well wishes.

 

Mike O'Neal and Bob Elliott also need oxygen on occasion. This hot, humid weather is adding pressure to their labored breathing and keeping them inside. However, Mike did join the Wild Brunch in July and looked and acted better than I had seen him lately. Thanks for joining us, Mike, and please come often.

 

Kenny and Melinda Hacker joined the July Wild Brunch on a trip home from Arkansas. Everyone was pleased they could do that. Kenny is holding his own and both he and Melinda face life's mountains with aplomb. Come back very soon, Kenny.

 

Catherine Etter told me Bob did very well with his colon cancer surgery. There was no cancer in lymph nodes so radiation is not necessary. Doctors feel all cancer cells were removed and, except for periodic check-ups with blood work, he can get back to harassing me.

 

Kim Selch shared that she is expecting a kidney yet this year. She can't be more than a six-hour wait from IU Med. Center in case she gets the call. Kim, all of us are cheering for the way you have handled this serious illness and are praying soon you will enjoy a better life.

 

Don Billings called to say he is out of the rehab facility and at home with RN and TP help. Many of his problems began when, a couple of years ago, he fell and broke his foot and damaged lower spine. After that incident, insurance wouldn't cover extensive rehab so he sat around too much and muscles atrophied from disuse. This time around he does have ancillary help so we can hope the result will be better. He wanted me to ask Stony to bring him more wine at our reunion because it was the best he ever had and he will pay for that. Well, Stony, I, too, appreciate your gifts but I am poor and cannot pay.

 

Snail mail went out today (July 28), so those folks won't get this info until next Update. Just received a note from Bev Sheeks. Glenn goes in July 29 for open heart surgery. They are doing an aortic valve replacement, two bypasses, and inserting a pacemaker. It will be a 5-6 hour surgery at St. Francis on Emerson in Indy She has faith that all is well but said extra prayers and thoughts couldn't hurt. Remember Glenn and Bev as you go about your day. I'll send news as soon as I hear from Bev on his progress. God bless them as they traverse this road bump.

 

Several other class friends have shared with me health issues which they don't want published. They always say that their problems are no worse than any others and no big deal. Just remember to think of the unknown folks who struggle silently.

 

CLASSMATE CELEBRATIONS:

 

Beverly and Glenn Sheeks celebrated 54 years in July.

 

Jim Brunnemer said Lu is considering the signing of a one-year marriage contract for the 49th consecutive year. Good luck, Jim. We all hope Lu will take pity on you and be your life guide until the 50th contract comes around.

 

Karen (Wilson) and Bud Brummett celebrated their aniversary on a cruise. I met Karen in the Clerk's office when she came to my rescue in a title search. She looks rested and relaxed in spite of a 40-hour work week schedule. Karen is not ready to retire. My personal opinion is she and Bud don't think it's safe for their marriage to spend 24-7 together.

 

FOR SNAIL-MAIL READERS ONLY:

 

After I mailed the update for July, this news came in and was shared with e-mail recipients:

 

A HAPPY AND SHOCKING BIT OF NEWS:

 

You folks aren't going to believe me, but I just received a call from Judy Wolff PARRETTS. Yes, she finally took the plunge and married her ten-year live-in male friend, Jeff Parretts. I have met Jeff on a couple of occasions and knew immediately he was a great match for Judy. However, she rejected any entreaty that she make it permanent and that worked for a long time. Don't know what he did to overcome her reticence, but I suspect the six-island Southern Caribbean cruise for a honeymoon might have sweetened the pot. Judy always loved traveling. She said photos of the wedding are on her Facebook page and I intend to visit that soon. She also wrote a poem which is shared on FB. She and Jeff remain in Pompano Beach. They both work full time and have a very active lifestyle. She sounded over the moon happy, and it made me very happy, too. I did ask about her brothers, JL and Mike, whom many of you will remember. They both live close to Pompano Beach and have provided her with 8 nieces/nephews and 13 great-nieces/nephews. If you would like to send Judy best wishes, send those to judywolff@bellsouth.net. Bless your new adventure, Judy. Just come home to visit soon so we can walk down memory lane.

 

JULY WILD BRUNCH:

 

We had another good turn-out and several surprise guests. As I stated earlier, Kenny and Melinda Hacker and Mike O'Neal supped with us. Also there were Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Bob and Catherine Etter, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Kay and Kim Selch, Brent Boner, Tura Crone Lamar, Marty Akard Short, and me. Also swinging by the table to hug were Melissa Swisher Thomas, Tish Scherer Hartley and Don and Linda Burleigh. As seems to happen frequently, Don and Linda strolled in for lunch, saw our full table, and gasped. They forgot about us—again. Henceforth, I'm calling them the morning of the event to make sure their aging memories are engaged. The next Wild Brunch will occur the Monday after our 54th reunion—Monday, September 12th. This provides those out-of-town guests attending the Saturday reunion to continue visiting if their schedules will allow.

 

MISCELLANEOUS TIDBITS:

 

Jack Hammack made a generous snail-mail contribution. Thank you so much, Jack, for your thoughtfulness. We pray for health for you and Cathy.

 

While attending a graduation celebration for the granddaughter of Frank and Georgeanne Ennis, I had occasion to enjoy sitting with them. Frank still runs his food cart at selective events, but says he loves staying home and doing nothing. I reminded him that was not new information to share.

 

Facebook is wonderful for keeping me abreast of friends. Just happened to see a post by Richard Young to the effect he and Connie sold RoJe Hill, the old family farm on Maple Turn Road, and are moving. They are heading to the Tampa-Clear Water-Spring Hill area. Big chickens. Can't take the winters and will become, like so many others of our group, FL residents. I wish them all the luck in the world, and hope they can make at least one more Wild Brunch gathering and perhaps the reunion before leaving. DICK, be certain to send me your new contact info so you don't get lost.

 

54th REUNION PLANS:

 

I received fewer than ten comments on my request for input on our reunion, and all of those voted to keep the format casual and much like our last three gatherings. Based on that, I am proceeding to arrange caterer (Renda Trimble) and photographer (Connie Etter). The event will happen on SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 10. Here is what I suggest:

 

Meet and greet 11:00 AM at Bob Etter's shelterhouse located at 5009 Morgantown Road. (If anyone needs further directions, call me at 765 315 0397.) Bob says we can stay until time for bed and/or medication. Lunch will be served at Noon and will include--

 

BBQ sandwiches, baked beans, hot baked potato salad, slaw, chips, carrot cake, brownies, and sweet and un-sweet iced tea.

 

I have asked Renda to provide, in addition to the above food, all paper products, ice, table service, and incidentals. I have purchased, out of pocket, our traditional red/blue table covers and a couple of table decorations in keeping with the Arty theme. I plan to use those purchases as a quid pro quo for my $16 meal. Renda will make it incredibly easy for me by taking care of almost everything so I can show up and just talk—which, you all know, is what I do best.

 

Here are the expenses: $11 per person to Renda; $100 to Connie Etter for trolling the crowd for great photo opportunities and putting together the photo albums; $32 class expense for Bob and Catherine's headcount; and $50 to Bob and Catherine to help defray miscellaneous expenses for our visit. (He doesn't want this but I feel this is the appropriate thing to do.) If you can afford $16 per person to attend and if we have a minimum of 35 people attending, we will pay all expenses.

 

The winner of the prize for “first reservation received” is Don Burleigh. I earlier mentioned to Don the price and next thing I knew he was at my door, check in hand. Thanks so much, Don.

 

If you want to order a photo album, Connie says an 8x8, 20-page hardcover booklet, which will contain the large class photo, will run $30 plus tax. An individual 8x10 class photo will cost $10. Stick some money in your pocket for your order if you are so inclined. Connie needs money before placing order for photo albums.

 

 

I need to furnish Renda with a firm headcount and have money in hand no later than Monday, September 1. If you can attend, please send to me your check in the amount of $16 per person to:

 

Karen Smith

740 East Washington Street

Martinsville, IN 46151

 

765 315 0397

klssas740@att.net

 

As always, if you cannot afford to pay to attend, please let me know in any manner shown above. You can be assured your cost will be paid anonymously. As I always say, we need YOU much more than we need your money.

 

Hope to receive many registrations for the 54th reunion.

 

SMILE FOR THE MONTH:

 

Our smiles for this month are compliments of Karen Wilson Brummett. It was labeled, “How to maintain a healthy level of insanity in retirement.” I intend to start with the first and work through the list before our 55th reunion. Thanks, Karen.

 

At lunch, sit in your parked car with sunglasses on, point a hair dryer at passing cars and watch them slow down.

On all your check stubs, write “for marijuana.”

With a serious face, order a Diet Water with your meal.

When money comes out of the ATM, jump and shout “I won! I won!”

When leaving the Zoo, start running towards the car yelling, “Run for your lives--they're loose.”

Tell your children over dinner, “Due to the economy, we are going to have to let one of you go …”

Pick up a box of condoms at the pharmacy, go to the clerk and ask where the fitting room is. (Well, I probably can't pull this one off.)

Go to a large department store's fitting room, drop your drawers to your ankles, and yell, “There's no toilet paper in here!”

 

 

Hugs. karen

 

 

 

JULY 2016 UPDATE

Happy July 4th to all. That is the only holiday during the month, so enjoy it to the hilt. Remember, the stupendous Morgan County Fair begins July 29. You all know I'm a big fan of both the County and State fairs. Maybe we'll run into each other on the midway. Look for me at the food booths or in the livestock barns.

JULY BIRTHDAYS:

Judy Brummett Cross, Don Clay, Don Donoho, Linda Drake Davidson, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Sharon Fraker Bales, Cam Hacker, Betty Maners Wilson, Mary Frances Pope Boner, Lila Pruett White, Sharon Robertson Anderson, Melissa Swisher Thomas, and Richard Young. A very happy birthday to all of you. Let's all hope for at least another ten.

ADOPTED CLASSMATE LOSS:

Our class always makes honorary classmates of spouses or significant others who join with classmates. One of those who has been loyal and very enjoyed is Bill Fulford's soulmate, Dottie Stapleton.

Dottie entered the hospital in early June with possible stroke or seizure. Bill was optimistic they could stabilize her and she would go home. Tragically, they discovered cancer had spread to her brain. They tried chemo again, but she was too weak for many of those treatments. I am very sorry to relay that Dottie passed on Sunday, June 26. Bill tells me a memorial service will be held at Jones Funeral Center, 4161 E. Allison Road, just north of Mooresville on 67, on Thursday, July 7, at 7:00 PM. Calling is from 4:00 to 7:00 on that day. I know he would appreciate some of us attending to pay our respects and bring a little light into his life. If you want to extend thoughts to Bill, his e-mail is bill_fulford@hotmail.com.

A HAPPY AND SHOCKING BIT OF NEWS:

Let's follow that sad news with some happy info. You folks aren't going to believe me, but I just received a call from Judy Wolff PARRETTS. Yes, she finally took the plunge and married her ten-year live-in male friend, Jeff Parretts. I have met Jeff on a couple of occasions and knew immediately he was a great match for Judy. However, she rejected any entreaty that she make it permanent and that worked for a long time. Don't know what he did to overcome her reticence, but I suspect the six-island Southern Caribbean cruise for a honeymoon might have sweetened the pot. Judy always loved traveling. She said photos of the wedding are on her Facebook page and I intend to visit that soon. She also wrote a poem which is shared on FB. She and Jeff remain in Pompano Beach. They both work full time and have a very active lifestyle. She sounded over the moon happy, and it made me very happy, too. I did ask about her brothers, JL and Mike, whom many of you will remember. They both live close to Pompano Beach and have provided her with 8 nieces/nephews and 13 great-nieces/nephews. If you would like to send Judy best wishes, send those tojudywolff@bellsouth.net. Bless your new adventure, Judy. Just come home to visit soon so we can walk down memory lane.

LOST CLASSMATES:

Not much luck on our search to round up missing classmates, even though many of you sent me tips. I did, however, get an e-mail from Bob Haskett by way of a tip from Steve McIlwain. Bob says he isn't much interested in his youth at this point but did ask me to say “hi” to all regardless and he hopes all are well. At least we know he is well.

For those of you on snail mail, I found out after your letters were in the mail last month that we also found Harry Joe Maginity. He found us by way of our website and reached out for contact. (A huge thanks to our Website Angel Janie Reese Thompson for making the website available to those looking to reattach. We also found Dan St. John on that site.) Harry attended Brooklyn Elementary and middle school with us but moved about 12 years of age. Harry still works for INDOT and travels a lot. In his spare time he plays bass in a jazz band. He has five children, 18 grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren and lives in Greencastle. Like Eddie Underly, Harry says that even though he graduated from Greencastle, he always considered Martinsville his real school home. I am so glad he is now on the e-mail distribution list, and I hope he and his wife can join our 54th reunion on September 10 (more on that event will come in August).

Bill Fulford sent a couple of tips but none of those panned out. Jim Brunnemer said a couple of years ago he ran into Julie Arney. He said she was a bit aloof when he tried to breach a conversation. He pointed us to Jenness Northerner Cortez by way of her website, but Jo Nutter Lasiter and I have both reached out to her several times that way to no avail. At Tom Bowman's reception, Jim also asked Mike Kelly about his sister and our classmate, Janet, but Mike didn't share much info. Jim also pondered whether Robbie Sparks had passed. Anyone know? Hey, David Boys, you are connected with us. Any chance you have contact info for Marla Stanley? Do you know if she is still alive and, if so, where she is located? I know it might not be proper etiquette to ask ex's for info, but I'm fearless.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Harry Russell Knapp received a new left knee in early June. He is home rehabbing and in very little pain. Way to go, Russ.

Don Billings is in Manor Care Rehab Center in Greenwood with complications from liver problems. He asked me to say hello to all in this Update. Too much ammonia built up in his blood and pretty much shut him down. Said he should be home by July 1. You can write Don at don@billingsinc.com. We hope you will be able to walk into our September Bash, Don.

Our class troublemaker, Bob Etter, underwent colon cancer surgery on June 28. Catherine tells me he came home on the 30th and is doing well. They will learn more next week at after-surgery visit with surgeon. I do know doctors were relatively unconcerned about this surgery and indicated it is one cancer that is easy to correct. I chided him that this small bump in the road would not excuse him from hosting our Sept. 10th extravaganza. You can write Bob at rdetter5009@yahoo.com. Get back into tip-top shape very quickly, Bob.

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS:

Jim and Joyce (Bowman) Branham celebrated their 47th anniversary in June. Their daughter posted a wonderful photo of them with four grandkids on Facebook. Both looked marvelous. We all know Jim struggles with health issues. Sure wish they would surprise us with a visit in September.

Gary Stafford is once again back home in Indiana. Gary struggles to control his blood pressure, panic attacks, weight control, and heart palpitations. Doctors changed his meds and took away his coffee, so when we spoke he was a bit testy. He also has hereditary diarrhea—it runs in his jeans. He said he wasn't sleeping very well because he had to lay next to a 70-year-old woman. According to Gary, his wife, Sarah (who is an angel to live with him), is “meaner than a junkyard dog.” She has a pacemaker, is a breast cancer survivor, and “lives with hemorrhoid problems--named Gary.” Talking with Gary is laugh after laugh. He is always so light-hearted. He closed by saying, “Karen, if you ever need anything, call me, but if you ever need money, call Bob Etter.” For your info, Gary--Bob Etter wouldn't give me the time of day.

Lila Pruett White wanted to share her great news—her son Mike and wife Melissa are expecting their fourth baby and her daughter Janet and hubby are finally expecting a first child after many years of fertility efforts. Lila is haunting yard sales for baby items and loving every minute. She also shared that she is working full time at a Purdue residence hall but hopes to attend a Wild Bunch Brunch gathering before summer's end.

Eddie Underly wrote to let us know all is well in Oregon. He mentioned the Indy 500 and shared that he drove super modifieds in North Dakota while stationed there in the Air Force. He even came close to buying a Novi in the 60's. I'm glad that didn't work out, Eddie. Like Steve McIlwain, you seem to be an unnecessary risk-taker. Eddie told me he really enjoyed my joke last month—Senior Trying to Set Password.” He could relate.

Curt and Mary Boner visited Mackinac Island on a group tour and loved it. Unfortunately, they had to miss the June Wild Bunch Brunch.

Dick and Angie Elmore spent several days in the Boyne-Charlevoix-Petoskey, Michigan, area doing some hiking, shopping, and sleeping. They often attend Wild Bunch and he says “it is so nice that we can all mature (or grow older, whichever applies) together.” Dick, I can think of many to which the word “mature” will never apply.

Karen Wilson Brummett and hubby, Bud, are visiting New York City and enjoying a cruise on the Queen Mary 2. Bud's new knees allow more trips now.

Earlier I mentioned that Ruth Rusie had relocated to Bloomington, but Jim corrected my information. He said Ruth is in a “retirement apartment” and not an “assisted living facility” and that Ruth would be insulted if folks thought she couldn't take care of herself. That's our proud teacher.

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush responded to the tidbit shared last month about her and brother Bill chucking rocks into the city water meter reservoirs. To my shock, she said the entire story was true. She said back then they had to make their own entertainment. They did receive punishment, however. Sharon forbid me from talking with her sister-in-law, Sharon, ever again. Our Sharon also recently had cataract surgery. I haven't received a report but certainly hope all is well with her. Because of that she too had to miss the June Wild Brunch.

Judy (Garrett) and Paul Knose have returned from Booth Bay, Maine. From photos on Facebook, I'd say they had a marvelous time at Seanook. Glad you're safely home, Judy.

Karen Wampler is a grandmother to Webster, a baby Yorkie about 2 months old. She has been seeking a small companion baby for months (since the loss of her former companion) and couldn't be happier that it finally came to pass. She named him Webster because he is the smartest dog to ever live. Congrats, Karen.

Stoney called to say they sold their house boat but kept the pontoon for lake outings. He sounds exhausted from his wine and soap making, golfing, and napping. Poor Stoney!! Says Carol won't allow him to mow the yard because she doesn't like the way it looks. He admitted he intentionally did a poor job knowing her obsessive/compulsive personality would preclude him from doing the job. No one ever said Stoney wasn't cagey. We saw that tendency in grade and high school.

JUNE WILD BUNCH BRUNCH:

Even though several regulars were missing, we still had a great crowd. Those attending were Carol Dow Teague, Kay and Kim Selch, Bob and Catherine Etter, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Marty Akard Short, Linda and Don Burleigh, Dick Elomore, Jim Brunnemer, and me. Melissa Swisher Thomas and Tish Scherer Hartley also briefly visited with us. It truly is great that, as Dick Elmore said, we are all maturing together. Marty Akard Short had us all laughing when she said that a recent study found women who carry a little extra weight live longer than men who mention it. Next event will be the second Monday of July—July 11, 10:30 at Forkeys. You will leave with a warm heart if you join us.

SEPTEMBER 54TH REUNION:

Does anyone have suggestions for our menu? I was thinking of doing what we always do—arrival about 11:00, catered meal by Renda Trimble to be served about Noon, class photo following at 1:30 by Connie Etter. If anyone has other suggestions, please let me know by August 1. I am guessing the cost will be around $16 per person. This allows payment to caterer and photographer plus paper products. I think it would also be appropriate to give Bob some reimbursement money for the mower gas and preparation time. Send comments, please. Let's try for 100 people at the 54th reunion. As always, the Class will cover costs for anyone who needs financial assistance. Just let me know for anonymous assistance. We don't need money—we need everyone present.

CLASSMATE WELCOME-HOME VISIT:

Ellen Miller Little visited Martinsville with her family on June 29. Ellen resides in Phoenix, AZ, has four children, ten grandchildren, and four great-grands. A pizza open house was held at the American Legion. Elaine Roe Hacker planned the event and asked me to notify Ellen's classmates. I sent an e-mail and also snail mail to local folks I thought might be able to attend. Those available were Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, John and Karen Stewart, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Becky Bock, Ellen and me, as well as various other local friends and family. All the classmates sat at a table with Ellen and shared memories for over an hour as we enjoyed pizza. It truly was a wonderful visit with all. I took photocopies of Ellen in our 1958-1960 annuals. While her Class friends remembered the Ellen in the photos, her grandchildren were fascinated at their grandma so many years ago. Ellen looks great and is the same sweet, soft-spoken soul she always was. Just sorry we had such short notice to rally the troops so more could attend.

SMILES FOR THE MONTH:

Jim Brunnemer closed a note by telling me he is finally beginning to understand the full meaning of what his Grandpa Millis used to say when Jim asked him how he was feeling. Grandpa's reply was-- “Not so good, Jimmy. I think 'bout one more clean shirt'll do me.” (I sure hope Jim doesn't really feel this way.)

Pearls from Charlie Gardner:

Since the snow came, all the wife does is look through the window. If it gets any worse, I'll have to let her in.

After years of research, scientists have discovered what makes women happy—nothing.

Wife gets naked and asks hubby, “What turns you on more, my pretty face or my sexy body?” Hubby looks her up and down and replies, “Your sense of humor,”

Love to all, karen

JUNE 2016 UPDATE

As I settle in at the computer to write this June Update, it's Sunday afternoon, May 29, and I just wiped my eyes with joy that a 24-year old rookie American, Alex Rossi, has won the 100th running of the Indy 500. It's also the first time I've actually watched the race since the mid-1950s when the intolerable blackout of our area was instituted.

It's a beautiful day in the 'Ville to celebrate Memorial Day. This morning I took a few minutes to reflect on the fact that our freedom to celebrate isn't free, and I thanked God and all servicemen and women who have served during the last 200 years to protect that freedom. I now pray our Country is up to the task of preserving that hard-won freedom.

CLASS JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

Curt Boner, Jim Branham, Judy Caldwell Hamilton, Cora Capshaw, Dick Elmore, Bob Ely Brown, Bill Fulford, Eddie Kent, Jean Szatkowski Morgan, and Sam Weaver.

A very happy birthday to each of you on your special day. May this be a terrific year for you. You are loved by many.

MISSING CLASSMATES SEARCH:

As I ran through our class list for birthdays, I realized several folks are still missing from our realm of knowledge. Please allow me to run that list by all of you to see if, perhaps, anyone might have some information on any of these 37 missing class friends:

Julie Arney Crawford, Philip Asher, Mike Brock, Lee Anna Brummett Sturgeon, Mary Ann Clodfelder Ennis, Richard Cohen, Nancy Sue Collins Smith, Phil Cramer, Sheila Duckworth Branam, Rhea Donna Forbes Fee, Paul Goodnight, Jim Leroy Hamilton, Robert William Haskett, Jim Holden, Mark James, Janet Kelly Ramsey, Jerry Kindred, Denny Lind, Shirley Littell Ferrand, Ron Marsh, Cheryl Mitchell Allen, Kathleen Morris Cramer, Brenda New Arnold, Linda Norman Scroggins, Jenness Northener Cortez, Janice Parmerlee Sloan, Marilyn Quakenbush Gano, Morris Richardson, Bobby Sparks, Marla Stanley Reed, Carol Stewart Davis, Ilene Suter Terrell, Karen Swenchi Seegers, Judy Tapp Sidebottom, Sheila Thacker Ferrand, Susan Traylor Fox, and Marilyn Yutmeyer Curtis.

At various times we have had contact with some of these folks but, for some reason, lost that contact. If you happen to be acquainted with anyone on this list, please take any opportunity to get their contact information and pass it along to me. This is far too many class friends about which we know absolutely nothing. I hope some day we can rectify some of these absences by realigning them with the remainder of us.

ANOTHER LOST SHEEP BACK IN OUR CLASS FOLDS:

Today I received a call from Harry Joe Maginity. He had seen the name Karen with a phone number on the Class website and thought he would try to reach someone from the Class of '62. (A huge thanks to our Class Website Fairy, Janie Reese, for making us visible and bringing many friends back to us.) He asked who I was and I introduced myself as Karen Lesser, to which he responded that he remembered me. We had a great conversation. Said he went to Brooklyn, Bethany, and middle school for two years but moved when he was around 12. While he graduated from Greencastle, he, like Eddie Underly, said Martinsville was always his school home. After much traveling around, he and Sue are back in Greencastle to settle down. I promised he would be added to our list and would receive all the updates. I also asked him to come to the next reunion or a breakfast and he said he would. Problem is, he still works for the State of IN in the DOT and travels a lot. I told him that we found Danny St. John after years of absence and he remembered Danny. Maybe they will both see us in September. It was fun catching up with Harry. He has five children, 18 grandchildren, and 4 great-grandchildren. He plays bass in a jaz band for fun. In case you want to touch base, his e-mail address is maginity@usa.com. Always great to bring more of us together.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

Irene Cure Conte is back on e-mail, after a year or so on snail mail. Her address is: irenecc1944@gmail.com. Thanks for sharing that info, Irene.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Diana Hatter Tolley still suffers with asthma. She is back on steroids, which she hates because it makes her hold water and gain weight. Yet, better to be bloated than not breathing. In spite of her health challenges, she has a wonderful attitude and never complains. Hope your health takes a turn for the better very soon, Diana. (PS: Love my chickens lovingly hand-painted by you, my friend.)

Received an e-mail from Russ Knapp just today in time to include in this month's review. He is facing a left-knee replacement on June 8. I told him I have heard from others that it isn't fun but well worth the effort in terms of unfettered mobility. Good luck, Russ.

Bill and Dottie couldn't make the May Wild Brunch because Dottie was weak and nauseated. She still struggles with the aftermath of chemo. We all hope she can rejoin the group at the June breakfast. Bill asked for continued prayers for her. Get your strength back soon, Dottie.

Jim Rusie wrote to say his mom, Ruth Rusie, is doing fine in her assisted living facility in Bloomington. She has been there six months and has adjusted very well. Martinsville celebrated Ruth's lifetime community achievements at a ceremony in April. She was honored with a Sagamore of the Wabash award. No one deserves it more. Jim also took the opportunity to tell us his son, Andy, and family are moving back to the US after years overseas. Jim and Becky are very happy about having them closer.

MARK THE DATE:

Please mark your calendars for Saturday, September 10, 11:00 to nap time for our 54th reunion activities. Bob and Catherine have once again invited us to share and enjoy their beautiful property for our party. Unless anyone has other ideas, we will use the same format as the past several years. We'll arrive about 11:00, have lunch served about noon, coordinate class photo at 1:00, with visiting before and after those agenda items. Really hope we have a great turnout again this year.

WILD BRUNCH GATHERING:

May saw a goodly number of friends gather to touch souls. Those attending were Marty Akard Short, Bob Etter, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger (she is now retired and looks forward to being a regular attendee), Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Don and Linda Burleigh, Tura Crone Lamar, Curt and Mary Boner, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, John Stewart, Tish Scherer Hartley, and me. Jim Brunnemer, like Bill and Dottie, sent apologies. Jim had a very bad cold and didn't want to share it with “old people.” Isn't he thoughtful!!

The topics were all over the board but I do remember hearing Bob and Catherine celebrated 50 years of marital bliss during May. God bless Catherine. My notes say we also discussed guns, the lack of proper husband training, and Marty's purse. I mistakenly thought by jotting down a word or two I would be reminded of the meat around the words. Sadly, I was mistaken. I'm certain, though, they were scintillating conversations regardless of the contents. Join us on Monday, June 13, 10:30 at Forkey's for a wild time.

MISCELLANEOUS COMMENTS:

Marcia Short Schweitzer wrote to say she was thinking of me. I get worried when she doesn't check in every three months or so, so I was glad to learn she has just been busy. For Mother's Day, her daughter and family took her to Columbus, Ohio, to visit with her son, Scott, and family. She was very happy to spend the special day with both children and grandkids. Marcia was coming home in late May for a reunion with her sister, brother, and cousins. She hasn't seen her brother for two years and cousins for many. You can guess she was very much looking forward to that reunion. Marcia still works three to five shifts a week at a movie theater. Says it keeps her in pocket change and out of trouble. She closed by saying she was looking forward to our September get-together. She sends Happy Spring greetings to all of you. Thanks, Marcia!

Jim Brunnemer wanted me to mention that he received, for the Class of '62, a classy note from Tom Bowman regarding his Hall of Fame recognition. Tom wrote “...the week of March 23, 2016, was one of the most memorable weeks of my life...” The Class of '62 played a role in those sentiments. I know you are all proud we contributed to Tom's thrill and memories.

My off-the-cuff remarks about the loss of Merle Haggard and statement that, except for Willy, he was the last of the oldie-but-goodie Country genre. I was surprised to learn I'm not the only one who enjoys their style and swagger. Terry Fleener wrote to tell me Merle died on his birthday. Jo Nutter Lasiter sent me a link from the Internet (Old Farts & Jackasses) of clips of many of the greats: Buck Owens, Merle, Willy, Porter, Johnny, and several others. I watched all of the clips more than once because I so enjoyed the music. However, a couple of folks reminded me I didn't mention Patsy Cline, Dolly, Reba, etc. How could I, of all people, forget about the female country legends. Karen Wampler also made me aware that legend Kris Kristofferson is still alive (my bad, I thought he had passed). Their accomplishments will never be matched by those who follow. It thrilled me to learn that many in this group have refined tastes to match mine.

I sent Sharon McDaniel Raymond a happy birthday and received a thanks from her. In that note she lamented that, since the death of her mother, she doesn't get back to town as often. She said her time is consumed caring for two adorable grandchildren. However, she still has a brother in town and promised to plan a visit with him during our September reunion. Certainly hope that works out. We would love to spend an afternoon with her.

In a conversation I had with Bill Tutterow's wife, she shared some shocking history on one of our own. She said that Bill and Sharon (yes, our sweet, kind, reserved Christian classmate, Sharon) used to throw gravel and rocks into the water meter cavities so the reader couldn't see the usage. He had to get down on his knees and scrape out the debris in order to properly do his job. Sharon didn't know if law enforcement was ever involved in a resolution to this juvenile delinquent activity. I was incredulous that two such upstanding citizens could stoop to this level of depravity. Can't wait to hear Sharon's rebuttal at the June breakfast.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

I receive wonderful jokes and sayings from many of you on occasion and try to use all of them eventually. Thanks for sharing. This month I received a thought-provoking story from outside this group which so fit my experiences that I have to share it with you. If you've seen this before, just conclude reading, and we'll talk again on July 1.

Senior Trying to Set Password –

Windows: Please enter your new password

User: cabbage

Windows: Sorry, the password must be more than 8 characters

User: boiled cabbage

Windows: Sorry, the password cannot have blank spaces

User: 50DAMNboiledcabbages

Windows: Sorry, the password cannot use more than one upper case character consecutively

User: 50damnBoiledCabbagesShovedUpYourAssIfYou Don'tGiveMeAccessNow!

Windows: Sorry, the password cannot contain punctuation

User: ReallyPissedOff50DamnBoiledCabbagesShovedUpYourAssIfYouDontGiveMeAccessNow

Windows: Sorry, that password is already in use.

I have laughed so hard as I typed my eyes are filled with tears. Haven't you found yourself in this same situation? If not, you probably won't enjoy the outright indignant humor of this scenario.

Love to all for June,

karen

APRIL 2016 UPDATE

 

April has arrived and it must be Spring. The election signs are popping up in literally every yard. Didn't realize we elected so many officials. Besides the election-year signage, we also have tornadic winds and torrential rain. Yes, Spring has Sprung. It's an exhilarating and unsettling feeling all rolled into one emotion. We look forward to warmth and sunshine and also grass and weeds. We also look forward to celebrating April Fool's Day, Earth Day and Passover this month. I'm certain we all hope Summer is as kind to us as was Winter in our area. 

APRIL BIRTHDAYS:

Rick Blunk, Johnie Boles, Jerry Crismore, Tura Crone Lamar, Bob Elliott, Marvin Henderson, Steve Hiatt, Tish Scherer Hartley, and Eddie Underly.

All of your Class of '62 friends wish you a happy and blessed special day this month. Make it count by helping someone in need.

SPECIAL SECTION:

Somewhere in the classmate ranks is a sneaky financial coordinator. All of a sudden I began receiving money in the mail from many of you to help defray the cost of my new computer. I fought mightily against contributions because you all bought my first computer set-up, which was so above and beyond. This time around I felt it was my responsibility to fund my own equipment. However, people are shoving money into my pockets and mailbox so much so that I can no longer refuse it, and I don't want my protestations to be confused with ingratitude. I spent about $700 for upgrades, and the many contributions nearly covered the entire amount. God bless you all for your generosity. What a marvelous group of friends. I have to say, though, that the notes that came with the checks were far more valuable to me than the money. They told me in so many ways you appreciate my contributions to our Class. I love you all for wanting to stay connected after 53 years. (While I love my new Dell computer and keyboard, I hate Windows 10!!)

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATE:

At church two weeks ago I learned through a prayer request that Frank Ennis had been hospitalized twice with pneumonia and bronchitis. I'm so glad that as I write this Update I have a current good report. I got to hug Frank at church this morning and can report he is still warm and smiling. He is having another CT scan in April to make sure infection has cleared, but everything looks bright now. He and his wife, Georgeann, thanked all his Class friends for their concern and prayers.

Dewayne White wrote to tell us he is “doing pretty good.” He has begun working part time to help him work through the devastating loss of his wife, Diana, last year. He promised to stop by some time to catch up. We have several class friends who have lost their soul mates and are struggling to even put one foot in front of the other. Let's keep all of them in our prayers.

Last month I reported Melissa Swisher Thomas was finally enjoying better heart health. Yet, that good report was followed just yesterday with a call from Missy saying she will once again enter the hospital in mid-April. She began to experience dizziness and weakness, which sent her back to the cardiologist. He diagnosed that the top and bottom halves of her heart are out of sync. So, he will stop her heart and then restart it in the hopes of putting it back in sync. Melissa is well aware that this type of medical procedure is “old hat” these days, but she also is mildly terrified because it is her heart. If all goes well, she will be out of the hospital in a day or two and I'll report next month on her progress. Keep Melissa in your thoughts and prayers.

I also know there are many of our group who struggle with issues they don't wish to share with others. Please pray for their speedy road back to emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual wellness.

TOM BOWMAN HALL OF FAME ACTIVITIES:

Tom's induction into the Indiana Basketball Hall of Fame occurred on Thurs., March 24. Mayor Kohl made a proclamation and friends gathered to re-acquaint with Tom and friends. It was a joyous occasion. Our Class received the following note from Joyce (Bowman) and Jim Branham regarding our contribution to Tom's special honor:

“On behalf of Tom, Jim and I would like to thank the Class of '62 and Jim Brunnemer for supporting Tom's induction into the Basketball Hall of Fame. We know Jim put in a lot of time and effort into making this happen. Tom was so honored to be selected for this award. All of Tom's family, which includes four daughters and eleven grandchildren, attended the banquet. I'm sure it is bitter-sweet for Tom that his wife couldn't be there to share this special time with him. He lost her two years ago to cancer. However, this is the first time in many years that all of our families will have the opportunity to get together. Again, please convey our thanks for the Class support. We are honored to be a member of the Class of 1962. Love, Jim and Joyce”

Several classmates wrote me and/or Jim Brunnemer to express appreciation that the Class honored Tom and Eddie Neal—noteworthy Artesians. I still can't report Eddie's banner is displayed, but I have it on good authority it will be hanging very soon along Morgan Street. 

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

Steve and Diane Hiatt wrote to say they are still in Bonita Springs, FL, and won't return until June. The grapevine tells me they will be permanently settling there very soon. Florida's gain will be our loss.

John and Karen Stewart have also returned. Maybe they will rejoin the Wild Bunch soon. 

Ron and Brenda Asher celebrated their 32nd anniversary in March. Congrats Ashers. Based on his Facebook posts, I'd say Ron's second love is fishing. He has posted photographs with some large catches.

Just efore the publication deadline of this famous news epistle, Karen (Wilson) Brummett wrote with good news—and we always want to publish praise notes. Bud finally got a new right knee for his March 15th birthday—on his third try to accomplish this feat. Both previous appointments last year were foiled by the discovery of blood clots. Thank heavens the surgery went well and was successful. She did ask that we keep them both in our prayers during his rehabilitation. I suspect Karen needs the prayers more than Bud. Thanks for the cheery note, Karen. 

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

We had a great crowd once again. So many have returned home to roost for the summer. Those enjoying the camaraderie were Jim Brunnemer, Bob Elliott, accompanied by his daughter Nikki Helton, Kay Selch (Kim wasn't feeling well enough to accompany Kay and she was missed), Dick and Angie Elmore, Tura Crone Lamar, Bill Fulford and Dottie, Charlie Vogus (Janice, please join Charlie next meeting), Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Bob and Catherine Etter, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Brent Boner, Tish (Scherer) Hartley, and me.

Don and Linda Burleigh also “sort of attended.” Yes, they are back from the South, BUT they didn't show up. Seems as they entered Forkey's dining room for lunch that day and saw our group filling the center section, they realized they FORGOT. I told them I couldn't let this faux pas slide unmentioned. Shame on the Burleighs.

Conversations are all over the place at these events. With twenty plus folks all talking at once, it is hard to hear all that is said. I did, however, hear Kay Selch tell a story about a time when a trailer caught on fire and Crafty, not knowing if the children were at home, dashed into the burning unit to save any victims. Fortunately, it was devoid of humans and Crafty was not hurt. Then Kay equated Crafty to the Class of '62 Fonzie. Astute analogy, Kay. He certainly was unique.

Come meet us at Forkey's at 10:30 on Monday, April 11. You won't be sorry.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

More of Stony's Truths for Seniors:

Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blu-Ray? I don't want to have to restart my collection...again. I still have cassettes and 8-tracks in the drawer.

I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of a Word document and it asks me if I want to save any changes made to my ten-page technical report that I swear I did not make any changes to. 

I'm still trying to figure out how to save contacts to this darn smart phone, just so I will know not to answer when they call.

I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Light than Kay. A couple shots of Jose Cuervo helps a whole lot more.

 

Love to all, karen

 

MARCH 2016 UPDATE

Let me begin by telling you this is not March 1, when the usual update 
should arrive.  Your calendar isn't wrong and you have not lost the last 
week in February.  My beloved computer, which you all generously purchased 
for me back in 2008, has finally given up the ghost.  In spite of my many 
entreaties on its behalf and band aids along the way, it is giving out.  A 
new one is on the way, expected to arrive sometime the first week of March. 
In fear that it will totally crash before then, I'm sending this while it 
has a breath left.  Hopefully, I will have learned my new system by April 
and can get back to my timely monthly news letter.

MARCH BIRTHDAYS:

First off, let's honor our March birthday celebrants.

Karen Arnold Pottorff, Rose Marie Sutton Phillips, and Dewayne White.

Though few in number, they are mighty in deserving of our best wishes for a 
wonderful special day and the best year ever.  Be sure to tell them that.

As we speak of birthdays, thanks to all those who sent me e-mails and cards 
on my special day.  I am grateful for your best wishes.  I also received, 
from a local florist, a beautiful planter from Don Billings on behalf of the 
Class of '62.  Thanks, Don, for such a thoughtful gesture from all our class 
friends.

In a birthday card, Karen Pottorff also included a snail-mail contribution. 
Thanks for that, Karen.  Because folks often voluntarily send contributions, 
our account is solvent through this year.

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATES:

Received a call from Melissa Swisher Thomas.  You will remember that she has 
struggled with heart issues for several years.  However, she reported her 
heart is now the best it has been since 2001 when she started having issues. 
The stints and medication are doing as they should, and I could tell in her 
voice that she truly is enjoying better health.  Only scheduled for yearly 
check-ups.  Way to go, Melissa.

Karen Arnold Pottorff's husbnd, Cam, whom many of you know, is in a rehab 
center following open heart surgery in January.  It has been a trying time 
for both of them, but things were looking up when we talked mid-February. 
As you can imagine, Cam isn't taking well to the confinement of a rehab 
facility.  Please remember them in your thoughts and prayers.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS NEWS:

I didn't hear it from her but from a reliable source--Tura Crone Lamar has 
finally retired.  I hope to talk with her soon to determine what she is 
doing with all her free time.  It is a well-deserved rest.

Received a nice note from Ruth Woolbright Dunigan thanking me for 
remembering her birthday in the February update.  She said her husband, 
Lloyd, prepared her a great supper and cleaned up the kitchen while she 
propped up her feet and watched TV.  She knows she is very spoiled and doesn't 
take that for granted.  They live in Georgia and, although they miss "home," 
they love GA and being around many of their children and grand-children. 
She said she envies the Wild Bunch Buffet gathering and thinks nostalgically 
when she pictures the gathering.  Hopefully, they will get back for another 
reunion very soon.

Linda and Don Burleigh and Bob and Catherine Etter are expected home 
mid-March.  I expect all the Snow Birds to begin flying north very soon.

Curt and Mary Boner celebrated 52 years of marital bliss in February.  They 
became a couple in our senior year.  What an accomplishment.  And they said 
it would never last.  We were very happy to have them back with us at the 
February Wild Bunch.

The Reporter printed a neat feel-good article in a February edition.  It was 
a story of two local graduates--Art Sullivan and Donna Sowders--both of whom 
attended Green Township School in the mid-fifties and later MHS.  Art gave 
Janet a ring in his eighth-grade and her sixth-grade year, but when he was 
shipped to high school, they lost track.  Time flowed by (63 years), both 
married, raised families, lost spouses, and then circled back to reconnect 
at a class reunion.  Donna says they visited Green Township School on a 
date, and Art asked her to "go steady" again, with the same ring she had 
received in grade school.  Warmed my heart and I wish them much happiness.

Now, as I think about our group, I wouldn't suggest this plan.  As Dick 
Elmore pointed out in a recent e-mail, his line is related through family 
lines of many prominent names in the county; i.e., Janet Elmore, Tura Crone, 
Linda Fisher, Steve Koons, Larry Dilley and Tommie Ann Neidigh, to mention a 
few.  I personally have discovered a familial connection to Jim Rusie and 
Don Billings.  Who knows how far this ancestry reaches.  Small world.  Dick 
ended with this comment:  "The days are lengthening, the sun is getting 
warmer, and the mushrooms will come."  Meet you in the woods, Dick.

EDDIE NEAL BANNER:

I received overwhelmingly positive responses on this class funds 
expenditure.  The banner has been finalized and should be displayed soon. 
Before I approached the sign maker, I thought to call Eddie's much younger 
half-brother, Doug Arthur, to confirm their family had no plans to honor 
Eddie thusly.  As it turned out, they were discussing the project.  He asked 
if we minded if the banner could be sponsored by them and our class.  I told 
him we already had the money allocated and would be happy to add them as a 
sponsor.  After several phone calls, he asked that the sponsor be listed as 
follows;  "Eddie's Kids and Class of '62."  He said Eddie's three children 
were overwhelmed that we wanted to do this.  He also said he wished we could 
meet them and them us, because he said they were fine human beings and very 
proud of their dad's legacy.  I hope all of you can see the banner soon. 
The photo we used, furnished by Eddie's half-brothers, is "our Eddie" in 
fatigues in Nam.  He looks so young and vibrant and mischievous.  Makes my 
heart ache.  Doug and Don want to meet some time with any of us who are 
available to toast and commemorate the banner and honor Eddie's memory. 
Perhaps we can invite them to our September reunion.  They are wonderful 
people and would make Eddie very proud.

TOM BOWMAN HALL OF FAME RECOGNITION:

Jim Brunnemer has shepherded this project to fruition.  He will share the 
final product at an upcoming Wild Bunch Buffet and reunion, so you can see 
your class funds at work for a great cause.  Thanks, Jim, for making this 
happen.

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

Crowds are swelling with the return of warmer weather.  Those attending in 
February were Bill and Dottie Fulford (she looks and acts great considering 
her continuing chemo treatments), Curt and Mary Boner, Richard and Joyce 
Hamilton, Marty Akard Short (yes, she was there at the correct time for a 
change), Jim Brunnemer, Bob Elliott (glad he could join us after a long 
absence), and me.  Jim shared a mock-up of the Bowman ad.  You will be 
proud.  I apologize to all for my faux pas in the February update by stating 
the wrong date for this group to meet in February.  Thankfully, some caught 
it and called to confirm we were, indeed, meeting on February 8 and not 
March, as I had typed.  I would love to blame my computer issues for this 
problem, but you are smart enough to know that didn't happen.  Join us next 
on Tuesday, March 14, 10:30 at Forkey's.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Your friendship has planted a little garden in my heart.  My life is full of 
its blossoms now.  (Karen Wampler)

Don't have kids unless you can deal with your heart running around outside 
your body.  (Jim Brunnemer)

Of course I talk to myself--sometimes I need expert advice.
Lord grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage 
to change the things I can, and the friends to post my bail when I finally 
snap.
                                             (Stoney Pearcy)
Love to all, Karen

 

 

FEBRUARY 2016 UPDATE

Welcome to February, friends.  We have much to celebrate this month, such as
Ash Wednesday, Valentine's Day, and President's Day.  Here in Indiana it has
been cold, snowy, and gloomy.  I know many of you reading this will chuckle
as you enjoy warmth and sunshine.  However, I ask that you cease sending me
notes to this effect, under the guise of keeping in touch.  I feel the mirth
in your words.  I wouldn't have believed any of my '62 classmates would
stoop to such cruelty.  OK, enough soap box.

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:  (Many of us celebrate this month.  May 1943 was a busy
month for our parents.)

Nancy Alexander Foley, Dwight Arthur, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Janet
Brummett
Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Billy Joe Craven, Frankie Ennis, Bobby Etter, Terry
Fleener, Stevie Koons, Karen Lesser Smith (please note that Feb. 15 on the
calendar is, and rightly should be, a national holiday), Kathryn Sue Mason
Hill, Marcia Murphy, Stony Pearcy, Gary Stafford, Judy Wolff, and Ruth
Woolbright Dunigan.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ONE AND ALL.  Kick up lots of dust.  Make our Class proud.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS NEWS:

Jerry and Janice Massey celebrated their 50th anniversary in January.  Quite
an accomplishment.  Congratulations.

Had a great visit with Jim and Joyce Branham in Wally World.  Wish it could
have been longer, but we take what we can get.  Jim looked great.  However,
he said it was the first time he had been in a crowd for some time.  He
usually sits in the car while Joyce runs the errands.  As most of you know,
Jim suffers from extreme anxiety exacerbated by heart problems.  No
medications thus far have been effective in helping him achieve his
youthful, outgoing, Class President self.  God bless both of them as they
struggle with daily stresses.

Kenny Hacker called to wish me a Happy New Year.  It was great to hear from
him and Melinda.  Kenny is doing as well as can be expected with his
Parkinsons.  He and Melinda have custodial custody of three grandchildren,
which keeps them both fit, trim, and mentally sharp.  Can you imagine
raising teenagers at this point in our lives???  God bless you both for your
sacrifices.

Karen Wampler is a very proud great-grandmother.  Karen is great to call
occasionally to say "hi" and let me know she is still upright.  This new
addition will give her lots to keep mind and body busy.

Snail mail received a nice contribution from Elizabeth Brummett Peterson.
She sent it along with a Happy New Year card wishing all of us a great New
Year.  Thank you, Elizabeth.

Bob Elliott suffers from COPD and is down from 210 to 150 lbs. but they 
don't
know why this is happening in spite of many tests.  At least they haven't
found a serious reason this his weight loss.  He said he misses the buffet
with friends and hopes to attend soon.

Bob tells me Mike O'Neal also suffers with COPD and, like Bob, is somewhat
housebound.   They stay in contact.  Bob says Mike's knees cause problems
with mobility.  Maybe both of them can lean on each other and come to a
buffet soon.

Received a nice "thinking-of-you" e-mail from Steve Koons which included
great photos of--guess what--his tractors.  He's preparing for a trip to a
Cubfest in Sneads, FL--poor baby.  He also included some shots of him with
his grandson, Brady, working on those vehicles.  So cute.  Steve looks as
young and fit as ever.  I told him when we are all attending a reunion in
our motorized devices, he would be bounding around caring for our needs.  I
suggested his busy schedule and passion for life are his secrets.  Keep on
keeping on, Steve.

Also received a New Year's call from Don Billings.  He keeps busy working on
genealogy for his family tree, as well as helping me with mine.  Seems we
are somehow related, details to be disclosed later.  Thus far I seem to be
related to Rick Blunk, Jim Rusie, and Don.  I have a feeling if others dug
deep into their family tree, they would discover many of us are
inter-related.  I remember Mary Lynn Wise Wright used to name off all the
classmates she was related to, and I often wondered if all of us were
border-line incestuously connected.

Don Burleigh's wife, Linda, who is an adopted Class of '62 member,
celebrated her birthday in Florida in January.  Her two daughters and close
friend drove through ice all night to surprise her.  They stayed for four
days, and Don bemoaned that it was like having a high school slumber party.
He lost lots of sleep and relaxation.  Linda said she feels like one special
lady.

Bill Fulford's significant other, Dottie, who often attends events with us,
has received news that most of her cancer is cleared up.  Unfortunately,
they found one spot on her lung and one on her liver.  She has started a
different chemo treatment which they pray zaps this problem.  Dottie shares
the same oncologist that Dan Broyer used, and they all believe he is
excellent.  Bill and Dottie thank everyone for keeping them in our prayers.

Received a nice New Years e-mail from Steve McIlwain.  I had inquired of his
"2016 Bucket List" plans for the New Year.  He responded that he wanted at
least one more skiing adventure and then zip lining and will keep us posted.
Even though his diabetes usurps some of his energy these days, he said he is
willing to try almost anything.  I expressed my admiration for his courage
and bravado.  A real test for him would be another trip Home very soon to
hug OLD and less adventuresome friends.  In his note, Steve said it saddened
him to read of our deceased classmates but he always is reminded of a
quotation attributed to Oscar Wilde which keeps him optimistic--"Life is too
important to be taken seriously."  He said many of his friends tell him it
is an "inappropriate" comment to make to those in grief, but Steve said "who
ever said I was normal anyway".  He went on to explain that moments of
sadness and grief should be acknowledged, but he is uplifted by Wilde's
words because it puts life in perspective.  Couldn't agree more, Steve.

Terry Fleener, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Jim Rusie, Steve McIlwain, and Bill
Fulford send their best wishes for the New Year to all Class friends.


TOM BOWMAN HALL OF FAME CONTRIBUTION:

Jim Brunnemer is single-handedly spearheading the solicitation of ads to
honor Tom in the publication distributed at the March HOF ceremony.  What a
great endeavor!  Most of you will remember that Tom graduated MHS in 1959 by
leaving his legacy as a fine human being and sports star, holding the MHS
banner high.  As I reported in the January Update, our Class was considering
the placement of a full-page ad in this booklet sharing our pride with Tom
at his induction into the Indiana Basketball Hall of Fame.  I received
several e-mails indicating support for this project from Class funds in the
amount of $200.  I also solicited input at the Wild Bunch Buffet.  While
that isn't representative of all 126 of us connected, I received NO negative
feedback.  Therefore, Jim and I are moving forward to make this happen.  We
will include our 50th reunion photo and verbiage of appreciation and
congratulation to Tom and acknowledging that two of our classmates (Joyce
and Jim Branham) are family members.  I'll scan our ad and include it in
some future update.  Thanks for your generosity in this worthwhile cause.

SNAIL-MAIL FINANCIAL ACCOUNTING:

As of this writing, snail mail has a balance of $384.  An approximate
monthly cost of snail mail is $35.  That means we have enough funds to
continue the activity until the end of this year.  I'd say we are very
solvent, thanks to generous contributions from class members.  Wish our
government could balance funds as well.  Thank you.


WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

Very slim crowd at January buffet, as was expected.  Those attending were
Jim Brunnemer with special guest, Lu, his wife, Brent Boner, Tish Hartley,
Bob and Catherine Etter, Marty Akard Short (yes, she got the time right this
month), and me.  We all enjoyed the time together and snubbed our noses at
those deserting us.  Next buffet will be March 14, 10:30, Forkey's.  I know
there are others still around the 'Ville and hope they will join us, too.

The highlight of the conversation was a story shared by Brent.  Seems when
he was in Green Township elementary, he had some problems with "refrains
from disturbing others."  On one occasion, the teacher left the room and
told the class there was to be total silence until her return.  Brent
apparently didn't listen and began talking.  When the teacher returned, she
asked if all behaved.  What a surprise that Frankie Ennis and Mitsu Cragen
"ratted" (Brent's word) on him, which was followed by appropriate
disciplinary action.  I'd guess this betrayal is still festering within
Brent's breast.  For what it's worth, Brent, I am shocked at the betrayers
and am sorrowful for your pain.

WHAT DO YOU THINK??:

You can blame me totally for this idea.  But, again, it isn't the first time
I've been accused of pushing the envelope (pun intended as you read on).

Local county veterans are sponsoring a show-your-Veteran pride event in
Martinsville.  This program places very tasteful banners of vets, including
a photo, rank, branch of service, and sponsor, on light poles along Main and
Morgan Streets beginning at Garfield
Street and ending, depending upon response, about Hill Dale Cemetery on
Morgan.  The banners will be displayed for a year, with the possibility of
extending for an additional year for a fee.  My family proudly purchased a
banner to honor our father, Major Albert E. Lesser.

While in the shower yesterday morning (I do my best work in the shower), it
occurred to me highly decorated Spec. 4th Class William Edward (Eddie) Neal,
who gave his all at the age of 27 in 1971, should be sponsored by the Class
of '62.  Thus, this insert into the February Update.

Cost to produce and display a banner is $250 yearly.  I have checked with
Home Bank and determined that after the $200 withdrawal for Tom Bowman and
the $250 for Eddie, we would still have $1,650.  Would this be a worthy use
of some of that money?  We have always said it was to be used for
community/school causes.  Please think about this and let me know.  I will
personally handle all details and shepherd his banner to completion.  Bear
in mind that these funds can always be replaced should some dire emergency
withdrawal be necessary.  As I've always said, our Class members are
extremely generous.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:  (more truisms for seniors compliments of Stony)

     You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment when you
know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of
the day.
     Map Quest and Google Maps really need to begin their directions on #5.
I'm pretty damned sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
     Why do bad decisions always make great stories?
      I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was
younger.

Love to all, karen

 

JANUARY 2016 UPDATE

Welcome to the New Year, dear Old friends.  I sincerely hope your holiday
season was the best ever.  For me personally, the hustle and bustle bothers
me a bit more than it used to, and I'm a little happier when all the
decorations, cooking and shopping are completed.   Best part is being with
family at such a joyous time.  Hope each of you were with family, too.

Before we move on to lighter topics, please take a minute to reflect on our
losses during 2015:  Portia Dalton Samuels, Patsy Lavender Durbin, Linda
Worland Summerlot, and Dan Broyer.  May they each remember the Class of '62
kindly.

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS

Marty Akard Short, Gini Fulford Watts, Judy Hacker Fraker, Kenny Hacker,
Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Frances Hatley Fisher, Diana Hatter Tolley, Connie
Shields Lowry, and John Stewart.

Happy, happy special day.  Make this year your most fun by doing something
out-of-the-ordinary and exhilarating.

CLASSMATE FAMILY DEATH:

Those on snail mail may not know that Rick Blunk lost his brother, Tom
Stanger, during December.  Tom graduated in 1964 and is survived by five
children, his father, Adrian, and five siblings.  Marilyn Dyer Hornberger
and I (along with other classmates) met Rick at the funeral home to pass
along our condolences.  Rick said Tom had been ill for some time and died
from pulmonary fibrosis and pneumonia.  Rick's mother, Vivian, has also
passed and his father is 94 years old. Rick's e-mail address is
Richard_blunk@yahoo.com or his address is 4442 Bristol Bend, High Ridge, MO
63049.  Keep Rick and his family in your thoughts as they cope with their
loss.  Not many of us still have parents to grieve.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Marvin Henderson wrote from Florida to wish me a Merry Christmas.
Unfortunately, he has been diagnosed with shingles and was very
uncomfortable at time of writing.  His wife, Deanna, is struggling to keep
her thyroid under control but otherwise is good.  They continue to love
living in Florida, so I guess we won't be getting them back home.  Florida's
gain is our loss.

Gary and Sarah Stafford are back in their Winter Haven home until Spring.
Sarah is a breast cancer survivor and also has a pacemaker.  However, Gary
said she is so vibrant and active that her health condition is giving him
heart problems.  She never gives up.  Gary, on the other hand, is a wimp.
Said his knees are bad and he struggles with mobility.  When I asked if he
was considering surgery, he said, in only Gary's style, "If God had wanted
me to have aluminum knees, they would have been part of the original mold."
He never changes and I always laugh loads when he calls.  Stay healthy,
friends, and stay in touch.

Eddie Kent said he is hanging in and is better than he expected to be after
the life he has led.  Eddie gave up has home and lives in KenMar Apartments
and seems to be very settled and content there with few responsibilities.
He has a walker and gets out regularly to visit with friends.

Carol Dow Teague had breast surgery in early December and just received the
pathology report stating there is no more cancer.  She thanked all of you
for the prayers you sent up for her.  What a wonderful Christmas present for
Carol.

Jim Brunnemer, on top of all his other surgeries following his motorcycle
wreck, also just had cataract surgery.  However, he said it was the best
thing he had ever done and highly recommended anyone who struggled with
sight to have it done.  He commented that colors are very vivid, things
clearer, and that he no longer needs glasses.

Virginia Toon Woodall wrote saying her latest PET scan showed more cancer in
left lung.  BUT, because it is small, they are doing nothing now.  She is
uncomfortable with that diagnosis and will seek another opinion.  Good for
you, Vicky.  She also asked for prayers for her daughter, who is also
suffering with cancer.  Boy, I can't wait until they cure that dreaded
disease.

Prayers and thoughts to all our friends who enter the New Year with health
concerns--those mentioned and those about whom we are unaware.

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

Sixteen folks gathered at the December get-together.  Those were Richard and
Joyce Hamilton, Bob and Catherine Etter, Kay and Kim Selch, Mary Frances and
Curt Boner, Don and Linda Burleigh, Charles and Janice Vogus, Richard
Yhoung, Jim Brunnemer, Marty Akard, and me.  Tish Scherer Hartley also
stopped by the table to say hello when she saw our gathering.  Jim Brunnemer
had been to visit Joyce and Jim Branham.  Said Jim is still somewhat
house-bound but he sent is best wishes to all of us.  We will lose several
attendees for the next few months as they become Snow Birds, but those
remaining will uphold the honor of the Class of '62 in their absence.  Next
buffet is 10:30 AM, Forkey's Restaurant, Monday, January 11, 2016.  Please
join us if you can.

I cannot miss the opportunity to poke Marty Akard Short.  She is one of the
folks who said she would benefit if we moved the meeting time from 9:00 to
10:30, to give her more time for travel.  Well, what does Marty do?  She
shows up at the restaurant at 9:00 and had to await our arrival for over an
hour.  Marty isn't the sharpest pin in the cushion.  (Just kidding, Marty.
We love you.)

MISCELLANEOUS THOUGHTS:

Jim Brunnemer has been in contact with me regarding the fact that Tom
Bowman, brother of our beloved classmate, Joyce Bowman Branham, will soon be
inducted into the Indiana Basketball Hall of Fame.  I'll bet there isn't one
of you who didn't see Tom make our basketball program look good during his
years at MHS.  Well, they are compiling a book for the occasion and Jim is
looking into a special page honoring Tom.  One way to do this is to sell
"advertising space" in the book.  Bottom line is our Class would pay to put
a message in the booklet to honor Tom.  Jim wondered if our Class might
consider doing that, and I told him I thought that would be well received,
especially since our treasury could afford a small contribution.  Stay tuned
for details.  Once I know more, I will share details with you.

CHRISTMAS THOUGHTS:

I want to thank every one of you who sent cards, e-mails, candy, wine,
candles, jewelry, telephone calls, cookies, etc.  I felt very blessed by
Santa.  Almost to a person they each asked that I also share their Christmas
and New Year's best wishes with everyone in this Update.  Here is a list of
those folks:

Austin Gray, Karen Arnold Pottorff, Mary Anderson, Marty Akard Short, Don
and Janet Elmore Donoho (they also sent a contribution to snail-mail
fund--thanks so much!), Sharon Robertson Anderson, Virginia Toon Woodall,
Beverly Parker Smith, Don Billings, and Janet Brummett Britton.  I sure hope
I didn't forget anyone.

Thanks for all the kind words to me regarding our communication network.
That makes it all worthwhile.  However, time spent keeping us together is my
gift of love to the best class that ever graced the hallowed halls of MHS.
I was so lucky to share my youth with this entire group of wonderful people.
Thanks for validating my contribution.

I hope I don't seem presumptuous, but just in case you are already compiling
your 2016 gift list, I would surely love a 2016 fully-loaded,
top-of-the-line F150 Ford truck.  Color at your discretion.  No obligation,
of course.  I merely aim to make your holiday gifting easier.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Stony sent me a Merry Christmas and happy New Year e-mail with truths for
seniors.  I felt sharing these with this particular group would be a public
service--------
 Sometimes I'll look at my watch 3 consecutive times and still not know what
time it is.
 Nothing sucks more than that instant during an argument when you realize
you're wrong.  (Or worse yet, when you have a vapor-lock in midst of winning
that argument.)
 There is great need for a computer sarcasm font.
(More exciting truisms next month.)

Luv, karen

DECEMBER 2015 UPDATE

I am sitting down to draft this update at 4:00 PM on Thanksgiving Day after
consuming way too much turkey day food and wine.  Who knows what the fingers
will type based on what the brain feeds them.  If something makes no sense,
consider my drowsy and totally relaxed condition.  Sincerely hope all of you
spent some time this day with family and friends and that you are blessed
with good health and love.  Now we move on to December and the Christmas
holidays.  Let me be the first to wish you a very merry Christmas and the
happiest of New Years.  Also, don't forget that Dec. 7 we honor Pearl Harbor
Day from 1941.  Take a moment to reflect on that auspicious event in terms
of our lives over the past 75 years.  God bless our soldiers past, present,
and future.

DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

DeeAnn Evans Little, Russell Knapp, Carol Jane Pearcy, and Sue Weddle Myers.

Happy, happy special day to each of you.  Make your birthday something
memorable.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Last month I reported the good news that Becky (Pratt) and Frank Bock had
purchased a winter home in Brooksville, FL, and were excited to begin this
new adventure.  Unfortunately, their first few weeks in the new home didn't
go as planned.  In mid-November Becky fell, hitting her head causing a brain
hematoma.  She was rushed to the hospital where she recuperated for many
days.  It was scary during that time because until she regained full
cognition they wouldn't know how severe or long-lasting the brain damage
would be.  I am thrilled to report she went home a few days ago after a
miraculously (doctors' words) speedy recovery.  It appears Becky will not
suffer any long-term mental issues as soon as all the swelling has subsided.
In case you would like to write Becky, her e-mail address is
obbk41@yahoo.com.  She would be thrilled to learn you are thinking of and
praying for her.  Her strong faith, bright spirit, and loving family and
friends will be her salvation.  God bless, Becky.

Karen Wampler called to report a conversation with Mary Anderson.  It seems
both ladies are doing well, all things considered.  They each share their
home with a lively and cuddly kitten, which helps ward off depression.  As I
reported earlier, Mary is back in her home after a long rehabilitation.  I
was very glad to hear from Karen and happy to receive an update on her and
Mary.  Call again ladies to keep us advised.

Bill Fulford sent a note saying he and Dottie were soaking up the sun of
Cancun for a week before Dottie commits to her eighth chemo treatment.  We
all pray this will eliminate all cancer so that she can put that ordeal
behind her.  God bless you, Dottie.  Hurry back to a Wild Bunch Buffet.

Carol Dow Teague reported she, too, is fighting breast cancer.  (We have way
too much of this scourge in our group.)  It is stage 1 but still requires
surgery before the New Year.  As soon as Carol completed all the pre-surgery
testing, she and Jim joined her brother and his wife for a trip to Branson,
MO.  It had been planned for months and nothing would stop Carol from
enjoying that adventure.  She asked for any and all prayers and promised to
keep me posted of progress so I could pass that good news on to all her
Class of '62 friends.  God bless, Carol.

Some really good news is that a heart problem detected by Sharon Tutterow
Quakenbush's doctors turned out to be nothing serious.  In fact, her doctors
told her to proceed with their winter-in-Florida plans and see him when they
return in the Spring to keep a check on the anomaly.  Thank God it wasn't
anything serious.  I love it when some good news comes our way.  Sharon is a
regular at our Wild Bunch sessions and will be missed during the winter
months, as will all our Snow Bird friends.

Dewayne White's wife, Diana, passed away on Nov. 29 of cancer she had been
battling for over a year.  Even though I knew she was very ill, it is still
a shock to learn of her passing.  God bless Dewayne and his family during
this terrible time of loss.

At last month's Wild Bunch get-together, someone asked me about Jim
Brunnemer.  I said I had no news about him since his July motorcycle
accident but would seek out information.  I came home and sent Jim an e-mail
inquiring of his health.  He wrote that his fractured rib and fibula were
mostly healed.  However, his shoulder separation around the collarbone
produced a protruding bone and drooping shoulder which won't get much
better, although there is little pain at this point.  He was fortunate to
regain almost a normal range of motion in his shoulder.  He ended his
explanation by saying, "long story short--I'm fine."  I think that's a bit
cavalier of him but not unexpected from our Jim.  We sincerely hope to visit
him at a buffet soon.

Charlie Vogus wrote to thank me for my birthday wish last month.  He said to
celebrate, he, his wife, and two grandsons drove his Olds 442 to Brown
County for lunch in Nashville.  They were having a great time until his
wife, Janice, tripped on the sidewalk and fell on her face.  Thankfully, she
was given a clean bill of health after the cuts, abrasions, and bruises
healed.  Great news!

Rick Blunk wrote to say his brother, Tom, who has attended many of our
reunions with Rick, was in Bloomington hospital.  He broke his hip and went
there for surgery but he has since contracted pneumonia.  He also suffers
with heart problems.  Oxygen level is so low they may start a feeding tube.
Rick asked for prayers.  If you wish to send him a good wishes card, mail to
289 S. Lincoln, Martinsville, where he shares a home with his father.

MISCELLANEOUS NEWS:

Jim Rusie wrote with some bitter-sweet news.  He and his brothers moved our
beloved "Class Mom," Ruth Rusie, to Belle Trace assisted living in
Bloomington.  She is now 97 and realizes she shouldn't live alone any
longer.  Jim said he has no doubt that after a month or so, as soon as Ruth
is settled in, she will be running the organization and organizing all sorts
of entertainment for the residents.  If you know Ruth, you will agree with
his synopsis.  Mighty powerful lady.  God gave her the ability to make
others happy, and that gift will be fully realized at Belle Trace.  We pray
she likes her new home and finds lots to fill her heart with happiness.

If you have ever been to my home, you know I collect roosters and chickens
of all shapes, sizes, and kinds.  Well, Diana Tolley knew this and surprised
me one day with a gift to two chickens she had painted in her ceramics
class.  Diana does fantastic work and they are beautiful.  They sit in a
place of honor in our family room and remind me of a dear friend.  During
her visit she mentioned she copes with COPD and asthma.  The steroids bother
her almost as much as the COPD, but said it's a minor price to pay to have
better breath capacity.  She and Chuck will head for Florida after Christmas
for a few weeks.  She has an unfailingly positive attitude and counts her
blessings all the time.  Enjoy warm weather, Diana.

Received a surprise call from Linda Drake Davidson.  Linda has been on our
snail-mail list for years but I hadn't actually spoken to her in 53 years.
She relayed her new address  in Legendary Hills so that she could stay
connected to us.  In our conversation, she shared that she, too, has had
breast cancer, a knee replacement, and also fights diabetes.  In spite of
that, her attitude is bright and she laughs and giggles a lot.  It was great
to talk with her, and I appreciate that she gave me her new contact info.

Also received a note from Janet Brummett Britton.  It's been too long since
she has joined us for a Class event.  However, she said she thinks of her
classmates often and was sorry she missed our 53rd reunion.  Apparently,
something happened to change her plans to attend, but she will try to get to
a Wild Bunch event soon.  She said she enjoys the updates and thanked me for
my efforts to keep us together.  I get those comments a lot, which
encourages me that the updates are enjoyed and appreciated.  Makes my
efforts worthwhile and enjoyable.

Barbara Hicks Richardson sent a lovely note thanking me for her birthday
wish.  She said her special day was filled with family and friends and that
she is, indeed, blessed.  However, no matter when Barb writes, she always
considers herself blessed and exudes the confidence of her faith.  She, too,
shared some appreciative thoughts on her monthly update which made me feel
very special.  Thanks, Barb and Janet, and all the others of you who never
miss a chance to tell me of your appreciation.  I feel, in some small way,
important to your lives.

Don Billings called to say he has purchased a home in town and is coming
home to live.  He is looking forward to being able to join his local friends
in some activities.  His sons live fairly close so they will be available to
assist, when needed.  I told him we would look for his attendance at our
buffet as soon as he gets settled in.  Sure hope Don enjoys this new
adventure.

Last but not least under "Miscellaneous"  is to report on a wonderful visit
I had last month with Kathryn Sue Mason Hill.  She was visiting family from
California and her cousin, Sue Etchison, arranged for the three of us to
meet for breakfast during her stay.  She is delightful and not much
different than she was 53 years ago.  Still smiles a lot and is as gracious
as always.  We picked up right where we left off all those many years ago
with no awkwardness.  We laughed a lot at nothing in particular and each
shared a recap of our lives since we walked the hallowed halls.  It is
wonderful to have found Kathryn and now include her in our fold.  She
promised for more advance notice in the Spring when she comes home so that
we can arrange for more friends to join the party.  Thanks for contacting
me, Kathryn.

WILD BUNCH BUFFET:

Since we meet at 10:30 now, I have to change from "breakfast" to "buffet."
We must be grammatically correct.  November's bunch consisted of Don and
Linda Burleigh, Lila Pruitt White, John Stewart, Kay and Kim, Mary and Curt
Boner, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Tish Scherer, and me.  We were thrilled
to have some new faces in Lila, John, and Kay.  Hope they will make their
appearance a regular event.  Jim Brunnemer tells me he will join us on
December 14 at Forkeys.  This may be our last large-crowd hoorah since so
many folks are leaving town after Christmas.  It won't be the same without
them.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

Jim Brunnemer shared this monthly thought with me a long time ago and I
would like to share some of it in each month's update.  Thanks, Jim.

"September 1961--When we, as eager teenagers, returned to begin our final
year at MHS together, here is what the world offered:

John Kennedy was in his ninth month as our president.  Barely two years
would pass before the young and dynamic leader would be cut down.

The Cuban missile crisis, which brought us to the brink of a 3rd world war,
was still a year away.

The US advisers were in a small inconsequential country called Vietnam, and
in a matter of months we all knew about Nam and the war that took lives of
thousands of young Americans, including Eddie Neal.

Gunsmoke, Wagon Train, and The Ed Sullivan Show were among our TV favorites,
far behind Huckleberry Hound, of course."

More of this walk down memory lane next month.  This is truly relevant
history for all of us.

Love, karen

November 2015 Update

 

Happy November to all you pilgrims.  It's the month when many of our Snow
Birds head south.  It's also the month when we celebrate the end of Daylight
Saving Time, Election Day, Thanksgiving Day, and most importantly, Veterans
Day.  The older I get, the more I understand that Freedom isn't Free.  God
bless our past, present, and future Veterans.

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Mark Cohen, Jim Ham, Jack Hammack, Barbara Hicks Richardson, Larry Martin,
John Russell, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Charlie Vogus, Richard Walters, and
Danny St. John.
HAPPY, HAPPY SPECIAL DAY TO EACH OF YOU THIS MONTH.  May it be the best day
and year ever.

LOST CLASS FRIEND:

For those on snail-mail, we sadly lost one of our biggest supporters
mid-November.  Danny Broyer passed at home on the 15th surrounded by his
children.  He joined our other 61 classmates in the heavenly MHS cheering
section.  When Dan had good days, he stopped in to chat and was so
enthusiastic about MHS--past, present and future.  He always said he was
improving and would soon be well.  That's why his passing shocked me.  His
daughter, Deb, told me he didn't want anyone to know his health status
because he didn't want to worry his friends. You may remember he lost the
love his life, Marti, in 2011 after 43 years of marriage.  He was buried
beside her in Nebo Memorial Park.  His children told me he couldn't wait to
join Marti and that now he was happy.  Their marriage greeted two sons and a
daughter and five grandchildren, which were the joy of his life.  Dan was
still serving as Jackson Township Trustee at the time of his death.  Besides
his children, Dan is survived by two brothers, Jack and George, and a
sister, Karen Hayden.  Our Class floral arrangement sat proudly at the head
of his casket.  God bless Dan's family as they face life without both
parents.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Received a much anticipated call from Mary Anderson stating she was finally
home after months in the hospital/rehab.  She has been a true trooper in her
struggle to once again walk.  Upon returning home, she wrote to say the boot
should be removed soon.  She also relayed that a rescued Siamese kitty now
shared her life.  Being an animal lover, especially the rescued kind, I know
how much joy her new housemate will bring.  Thanks so much, Mary, for
keeping us informed of your progress.  Maybe soon you can join a Wild Bunch
Breakfast.

Received a note from Beverly Sheeks about Glenn.  She apologized they don't
stay in touch more, but said there never seems anything positive to report.
Glenn, doesn't want friends to worry about him.  She did tell us he now
struggles with an aortic valve problem which cannot be repaired at this time
due to his numerous other health issues.  She said it wasn't the kind of
retirement they had planned or expected but said they weren't complaining.
She said they vowed 53 years ago that it was a journey for better or for
worse and they meant it.  Thanks, Bev, for sharing Glenn's situation with us
and bless you both in your daily struggles.

On July 31, Kay Selch was taken to St. Francis with cellulitis (not
gangrene, as I erroneously report last month), which is an inflammatory
infectious disease.  As many of you know, Kay suffers with diabetes, which
complicates everything.  He has a three-inch hole in his right leg which
just doesn't want to heal.  He was in the hospital for 20 days, went to
rehab for 20 days, came home for a week, went back to hospital for a week
and then another week of rehab.  He finally came home on October 3.  As you
can tell, the last two months have not been good for Kay.  He hopes another
month or two will make a huge improvement in his lifestyle.  Keep fighting,
Kay, and share good news with us soon.

Was talking with Mike O'Neal's significant other, Sue, during the FFF.  She
gave me happy news about Mike.  He has lost lots of weight, which has
relieved some breathing issues for him and given him more energy to cope.
She said he gets out more now and is enjoying a better quality of life.
Maybe they too can soon join a Wild Bunch Breakfast for some personal
contact.  Keep on keeping on, Mike.

OCTOBER WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

Unfortunately, I was unable to attend this auspicious event, so Mary Frances
Boner sent me the information to include in this update.  Those attending
were Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner, Bob and Catherine Etter, Jim and
Carol (Dow) Teague (they had just returned from vacation), Austin and Chyrel
Gray, and Dick and Angie Elmore (who were heading for beautiful Brown County
for the day).  Mary said the new format for the breakfast seemed well
accepted by the group.  If you remember, we now meet the second Monday of
each month at 10:30AM at Forkey's.  This gives a bit more time for old
people to rise and shine.  I know regulars Don and Linda Burleigh were in
Florida and Joyce and Richard Hamilton had an appointment.  Maybe we will
have a full house on November 9.  Join us if you can.

CLASSMATE TRAVEL:

Talked with Becky (Pratt) and Frank Bock at the Fall Festival.  They are
preparing to leave for Florida (somewhere around Tampa) in early November.
They have purchased property and plan to spend six months every year in
warmth and sunshine.  They both beamed as they discussed their winter plans.
Good travel, folks.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

I always say that nothing can surprise me at this point in life.  But this
month I did get a surprise--a call from Sam Lasiter with an e-mail address
and request to be included in our class information chain.  His contact is
salasiter@hotmail.com.  Welcome, Sam!

MISCELLANEOUS INFO:

Received an e-mail from Danny St. John.  He said, "Thank you and the rest of
the class for inviting me and accepting me at the reunion.  I was very
nervous as I had not seen or talked with anyone since I was 16.  Everyone
made me feel welcome."  He went on to say that after the reunion, some of
his amnesia subsided and his memory brought folks into better focus.  He
said there are many things over the years he wishes he had done differently,
and at the top of the list is staying in touch with his old school friends
after moving.  He noted that as we get older, family and friends become more
important.  Right on, Danny.  We all hope you will no longer be a stranger
and that we can share more time together.

Four classmates joined me at the Fall Foliage Festival Parade.  Linda Gibbs
Gehring, Lila Pruett White, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, and Karen Arnold
Pottorff kicked back for the festivities, although I must confess the four
of us talked more than we watched.  So much to catch up on and so little
time.  The Bigg Country Band was set up two doors down which allowed us to
drink even more beverage after the Parade.  Thanks, ladies, for making my
parade day especially enjoyable.

Received a telephone call from David Chandler.  He says he is still doing
construction and maintenance work around town and has no desire to retire.
David tells me in sorting through old boxes he discovered an old Reporter
which he wondered if I wanted for the Class archives.  Remember when the
paper used to picture every MHS senior graduate with a short summary of
their high school accomplishments?  Well, he has the one for the illustrious
class of '62.  David will get it to me some time to share when we are all
together.  Good thing each photo will be identified by a name!  Thanks,
David, for salvaging that slice of time for us 53 years later.

FINANCIAL UPDATE:

I sent Jane Thompson a check for $247 to pay for three more years of website
privileges and additional space and $38 for use of our domain name.  Judy
Fraker Ford, our treasurer, withdraw $54 for Danny's memorial basket.  These
funds came from the class account.  That leaves a balance of $2,100 in the
account.  That is more than adequate to cover class expenses, since our
reunions pay for themselves.

I spent $37 on postage for the reunion photo booklet albums.  That leaves a
balance in the snail-mail account of about $320, which is more than enough
to cover several months of snail mail.  Once again, thanks to all of you for
your generosity in keeping these accounts financially sound.

Even though not one person has ever asked Judy Fraker Ford or me (both
signatories on the class account) for an accounting, we want to keep you
advised of how we handle your funds.  Here is that explanation:

We have always had a savings account at Home Bank and are required to pay
for cashier's checks ($5) when paying bills.  To eliminate the $5 check
charge, we would withdraw cash and then pay with our personal checks.  That
works but it means more paperwork for us to substantiate the
withdrawals/payments from our personal accounts.

We are considering opening a new free personal checking account and
transferring the savings account into that.  We certainly don't earn much
interest.  It would mean we could write checks ourselves to pay whatever
bills are accumulated at no charge, which eliminates going to the bank and
arguing with them about the $5 check charge (we never win that argument).
The down side to this arrangement is that we have to open it in our
individual names and not "class of 1962," which denotes a business account
and not personal checking.  Unless there are any objections, Judy and I will
look further into this change and make a decision for the class.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Karen Wilson Brummett sent me the cutest e-mail, and I think it qualifies as
a thought for this month.  It says, "it's not just us getting old, it is
happening to everyone."  Consider these important folks in our lives who are
aging along with us:

Tom and Jerry    Born 1940   75 years old
Road Runner & Wile E. Coyote Born 1949   66 years old
Goofy     Born 1932   83 years old
Donald Duck    Born 1934   81 years old
Tweety & Sylvester   Born 1942   73 years old
Bugs & Lola Bunny   Born 1938   77 years old
Daisy Duck    Born 1940   75 years old
Porky Pig    Born1935   80 years old
And, last but not least,
Mickey & Minnie Mouse  Born 1928   87 years old

Now, don't you feel better.  If they're still going strong and making folks
laugh and feel good, we are in great company and still have loads to share
to make others happy.

Until December (can't believe I'm typing that),        Luv, karen

 

 

 

 

 

 

October 2015 UPDATE

Let me be the first to wish you happy Columbus Day and Halloween.  Fall is

here!  Here locally we also celebrate the Morgan County Fall Foliage
Festival--Oct. 9-11--culminating in a parade on Sunday, the 11th.  Since I
live on the parade route, I always have an open house pitch-in at my home.
All of you are invited and would be welcomed with open arms.  You might
bring your chairs (and blankets, if appropriate) and drinks and a covered
dish.  There will be lots of food, friendship, frivolity, and fellowship for
all.  Come to 740 E. Washington Street for a day of fun.

So this Update won't be too unwieldy, let's get right to friends' October
birthdays.  This month we celebrate the special day for the following:

OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS:

Jim Barrick, Lorraine Dunn Richardson, Richard Hamilton, Beverly Parker
Smith, Becky Pratt Bock, Glenn Sheeks, and Patricia Sunderman Haskett.

A very wonderful birthday wish to each of you from your Class friends.

CLASSMATE FAMILY LOST LOVED ONES:

On Sept. 12, as we celebrated our 53rd mini-event, I couldn't quit thinking
of one of our own who was spending that day in sorrow.  Our class friend,
Becky Pratt Bock, and her siblings (David, Betty, Vivian, Donna, and Patty)
were mourning the loss of their youngest brother, Philip Pratt, 62, a
graduate of the 1971 Class of MHS.  In fact, I've thought of the Pratt
family almost daily since Phil's death from a motorcycle accident on
September 3.  In that accident, his wife Linda was severely injured and has
many months of rehab facing her.  Please keep the Pratt family in your
thoughts and prayers.  You can send Becky a thinking-of-you note at
obbk41@yahoo.com.  May God bring you brighter days soon, Becky.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Mary Anderson continues to improve at Wellsprings Rehab facility.  She has
been wonderful to call and keep me posted on her situation.  The last
message I received a couple of weeks ago indicated she was hoping to go home
in early October.  I certainly hope the November Update relays that she is
home and in great shape.  Great job, Mary, working through this adversity.

I received info that Camden Hacker is back in a rehab.  Bless Rufus Simpson
for providing me a phone number for Cam's daughter, whom I called to inquire
of Cam.  She confirmed he has had a couple of TIAs in the last few months
which have impeded his mobility.  On top of that, he is diabetic and suffers
maladies associated with that disease, including being totally blind.  Lynn
told me he hopes to be released to home in early October.  She and her
sister, Lisa, care for Cam.  Lynn gave me her e-mail address so I could
continue to stay connected with Cam.  They read all his mail to him.  God
bless Cam in his many health struggles.

Don Burleigh tells me that Kay Selch has been struggling with his diabetes
and the ramifications of that awful disease.  Kay developed gangrene in a
leg and it took a while for the antibiotics to kick in.  Kay was in the
hospital for some time.  That's all I can glean from the grapevine.  Kay,
when you read this, please send me an e-mail or call me or Don to bring your
Class friends current.  Keep up the good fight.  I hope Kim is taking good
care of you, as you are her.  Love you both.

CLASSMATE FAMILY HEALTH UPDATES:

Received a note from Johnie Boles.  He had somewhat abruptly dropped out of
our earshot of late and folks were really wondering why.  Johnie tells us he
and ChiChi went to Oregon in July for a family wedding.  ChiChi developed a
UTI, among other things, and spent several days in the hospital.  Johnie
said they had hoped to attend the reunion, but it was not to be.  Johnie and
ChiChi, please hurry back to the Wild Bunch Breakfasts as soon as possible.
You are missed.  Get well very soon, ChiChi.

CLASSMATE DISTRIBUTION LIST PURGING:

Unfortunately, we seem to have lost three Class friends from our
communication chain.  I never heard from Judy Tapp Sidebottom, Mark
Dillender, and Dewayne White.  If they read this and wish to be reinstated
to our group, I hope they will send me proper info to:  Karen Smith, 740 E.
Washington St., Mart. 46151, klssas740@att.net765 315 0397.  Hearing
nothing, they will be dropped from e-mail.

In connection with this purging project, I did receive some nice notes from
several out-of-town friends, stating they wished to be closer to home so
they could hug friends.  It is always great to hear that our contacts among
each other bring smiles to cheeks and warmth to hearts.  Thanks to everyone
who never fails to thank me for keeping our past close to our presdent.
That ignites me to do even better at adding a small amount of value to our
lives.

NEW FOUND CLASS FRIEND:

Happily, we gained a new e-mail contact during September.  Dan St. John
fortuitously ran across the Class of '62 Website and from that contacted
Steve Koons.  (Turns out they are cousins.  But then, who isn't Steve's
relative!)  Seems Steve was in Dan's wedding in 1966 and then life got in
the way of their contacts.  When he told Dan about our Class communication
chain, Dan wrote me and asked to be added.

He and I exchanged info over e-mail.  I apologized that I didn't remember
him UNTIL I went to our junior year annual and looked at his photo.  That
brought him into focus for me.  When I apologized for not remembering him,
he graciously got me off the hook by saying:

"I'm not surprised you don't remember me.  I was never part of the popular
crowd and was quiet and shy and blended into the background (still me).
Since I went to Green Township school grades 1, 2, 3, 7 and 8, I knew
everyone from there, like Brent and Curt Boner, Rufus Simpson, Frank Ennis,
Nick Zoller, Cora Capshaw, Karen Arnold, Judy Garrett, Don Cragen, Bobbie
Barger, Ronnie Rhude, Joe Plummer, etc.  Then I went to school at Brooklyn,
my 4th and 5th grades.  The teacher would read to the class from Black
Beauty books and Jenny Northerner would draw horse pictures while she read
and then the teacher would share them with the class.  During our freshman
year, when I came with the Green Township group to MHS, I ran with VocAg
kids"  He also remembered Bob Etter and Stony (who could forget either) and
Stony is also a distant cousin.  This is taxing my memory, so I will move
along."

He tells me his family moved from Martinsville mid-junior year to Fillmore,
IN.  He married Sue and they will celebrate 50 years next June.  They have 2
sons, 8 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren.  Dan retired from the
corporate world (computer technology) and now enjoys his free time
publishing books for his wife.

Everyone was thrilled that Dan joined our 53rd reunion festivities.  We all
enjoyed getting re-acquainted with all attendees, especially our newest
addition Dan.  If you would like to contact him, send e-mail to
saint381@gmail.com or write him at 5379 Carnoustie Circle, Avon, IN, 46123.
Once again, Dan, from all of your classmates, welcome back to your MHS
foundations.  Fillmore can't have a thing over us and MHS.

SEPTEMBER WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

Nice group this month.  Those attending were Bill Fulford and Dottie
Stapleton, Don Burleigh and Linda, Mary and Curt Boner, Sharon Quakenbush,
Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Rick Blunk and Marsha, Sonnie Myers Gano, Marty
Akard Short and me.  Everyone of those had attended the 53rd reunion and
enjoyed continuing the fun on this day.

At the close of this gathering, folks were sitting around chatting and a few
said they knew of other out-of-town classmates who might attend if we held
our breakfasts a bit later in the day to allow travel time for those old
people who can't rise early.  So, it was decided we would try a new format
for a while to see how it works.  We can always go back to the 9:00 start
time if this doesn't fit schedules.  Therefore, beginning with the October
12th breakfast, we will meet at Forkeys at 10:30 rather than 9:00.  This way
we can have either breakfast or lunch.  Reservations have been made with
Forkeys for the second Monday of October, November, and December beginning
at 10:30.  We hope more of us will be able to enjoy this monthly group hug.


53RD MINI-REUNION INFO:

The reunion event began on Friday evening, Sept. 11, when about twenty
classmates held an impromptu dinner together at the American Legion,
organized by Stony.  It was just a way to jump-start the weekend.  Very
sorry more couldn't be with us.  I'll bet this first annual Friday kickoff
will become an annual event.  Next year I'll try to publicize the info in
advance,

For snail-mail folks, I am enclosing a copy of the article which appeared in
the Martinsville Reporter on Friday, September 25.  I'm also attaching this
article for e-mail recipients.  This will let you know who attended and a
few basics of the event.  There was a very good photo along with this
article in the Reporter if you care to get a copy from the newspaper's
office.  Many attendees ordered an album from Connie Etter during the
reunion so they could have the group photo (shown in the paper) as well as
many impromptu shots of the crowd during the afternoon.  (For e-mail
recipients, I have attached a jpg photo of the class.  Beautiful group.)

The reunion was well attended by 36 classmates and 18 guests.  Those coming
the farthest were Marvin Henderson (Ocala, FL), Stony Pearcy (Piney Flats,
TN), Steve Koons (Lebanon, TN), and Rick Blunk (High Ridge, MO), as well as
many from Indiana sites outside Martinsville.  Truly, everyone very much
enjoyed being together on a beautiful Fall day at Bob and Catherine's
gorgeous facility and walking down memory lane.  Just wish there had been
more time to visit.  Too much to say in too little time.

Here is a financial accounting of funds for this event:

Collected  $880; spent so far $625; expense to mail albums to purchasers
estimated to be about $50.  That means I will be depositing into our snail
mail account about $200.  While I did build in a bit extra this year for
tickets, a good chunk of that $200 came from those who sent more than they
owed for tickets.  Thanks to those excess payments our mail account should
be liquid through mid-2016.  Of course, if anyone wants specifics about use
of funds, I will gladly provide a full accounting.

MHS KEYSTONE MOVING FROM MY FRONT PORCH:

As you may remember, our class friend Dan Broyer, who grudgingly
participated in the destruction of MHS (boo-hiss!), generously brought me a
Keystone from our beloved high school and it sits proudly on my front porch.
I have had the pleasure of its company now for over a year.  Well, at the
reunion, I noticed all the memorabilia  Bob has incorporated into his
lifestyle from that same institution, including but not limited to the
bricks which built his house, lighting, wood, etc.  Bob tactfully hinted the
Keystone would fit in nicely with those other beloved items.  I knew
immediately he was right.  He has the perfect home for this wonderful piece
of history.  Therefore, Bob and his sons will soon retrieve the Keystone and
place it an honorable spot at his home.  If he respects it as much as I do
(and I'm sure he will), it will be very happy there for many years to come.

Until November, love to all, karen

 
 
 
 
September 2015 Update
 
I remember stating that there would be no September Update.  However, it is
my prerogative as a woman and Class recorder to change my mind.  There is
some important reunion information to share before September 12, and this
Update is the best way to communicate with all of you.  But first, let's
celebrate our September birthday honorees:

CLASS SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAYS:
Ron Asher, Joyce Bowman Branham, Brent Boner, Carol Dow Teague, Janet Elmore
Donoho, Joyce Favour Greenwalt, Judy Garrett Knose, Austin Gray, Marvin
Grimes, Jerry Massey, Steve McIlwain, Joe Nutter Lasiter, Mike O'Neal, Bob
Riffel, Chuck Ritter, Virginia Toon Woodall, Karen Wampler, and Nick Zoller.

A special wish this month to each of you.  Make it a very special occasion
and celebrate life to its fullest.  HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

CLASSMATE DEATH:
Those of you on snail mail may not know that we lost from our group Linda
Worland Summerlot during August.  Linda had suffered through three strokes,
the last one so severe she did not survive.  Her husband, Ron, called a few
days after the funeral and tearfully told me how astonished and grateful he
and his children were at the outpouring of support from Linda's Class of '62
friends.  I don't know who all called at the funeral home/funeral, but you
know who you are.  Ron specifically asked me to share his appreciation to
all those who personally came to see Linda one last time or expressed
condolences in any way.  He also mentioned our memorial bouquet, which sat
under a photo of Linda taken around graduation.  We never know when our
small acts of humanness will make another's walk easier.  I told him how
proud I was to be part of this unique MHS Class.  God bless Linda and her
family who must now walk without her at their sides.

CLASSMATE EXTENDED FAMILY LOSS:
Sadly, Steve Hiatt lost his 95-year-old mother, Treva, during August.  Many
of you will remember Treva and Lloyd, who were active in educational
pursuits in Martinsville.  So very sorry for your loss, Steve.

Shirley Littell Ferrand lost her brother, Warren, during August.  Warren
graduated with the class of 1961, and I'm certain many of you remember his
huge smile and soft mannerisms.  So very sorry for your loss, too, Shirley.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:
As a result of our bi-yearly distribution list purge I discovered Sharon
Robertson Anderson's new contact address is:  shar44don3846@yahoo.com.  She
wrote to say she is doing better after being hospitalized with a bacterial
infection and then pneumonia.  Both she and Don have struggled with health
issues lately.  It was great to learn both of them are so much better.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:
Last month I reported on Dick Cramer's health issues and reported he was
mending and on the good road.  Then, this month, his sister-in-law, Sonnie
Myers Gano, told me he was back in the hospital with further heart issues.
Thankfully, before sending this note, she confirmed and I can report he now
has a pacemaker which has greatly improved his well-being.  She commented on
how much more color he has now and that for the first time in many years he
doesn't live with heart flutters.  Great job, Richard.  Just get well enough
to let us visit at the reunion.  It's been way too long since that has been
possible.

Lorraine Dunn Richardson had a heart cath.  She was having anxiety attacks,
among other problems, and they determined it was because of the heart.  Do
so hope this allows Lorraine to once again be her exuberant, positive self.
On top of her problems, Keith has also been sick, but he, too, seems to be
improving.

Mary Anderson is still in a rehab facility but has her sights set on once
again being independent in her own home.  If anyone can accomplish that, it
is Mary.  If you wish to call Mary, her room number is 317-600-3932.  She is
working very hard to regain mobility.  I know we all wish her success in her
efforts to rejoin our activities.

I know there are many more of us who struggle daily with health concerns
about whom I have no information.  Let's just each of us pray for all of us
that we will be healthy and independent and still connected and going strong
for twenty more years.

CLASS PURGING UPDATE:
As of this writing, we may have lost four of our group from our
communication chain.  In spite of two e-mails and a personal letter, I have
not received any confirmation of connection from these four folks:  Judy
Tapp Sidebottom, Mark Dillender, Dewayne White, and Cam Hacker.  I certainly
don't want to lose their connection and can only hope they will contact me
in the future to be re-connected with us.  They can call me at 765 315 0397,
use e-mail at klssas740@att.net, or mail contact info to 740 E. Washington
St., Mart., 46151.  I look forward to getting them back and perhaps even
finding missing Class friends in the coming months.  There is strength in
numbers and we need as many of us as possible caring for each other.

AUGUST WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:
Small group in August--Linda and Don Burleigh, Curt and Mary Boner, Bill
Fulford and Dottie Singleton, Bob and Catherine Etter, and me.  Diana Hatter
Tolley also stopped by the table, just as we were adjourning, to say hello.
The next breakfast will be Monday, Sept. 14, 9:00 at Forkeys.  That is the
Monday after our reunion on the 12th, and I'm hoping we will have a big
group to close out the reunion activities.  Be there or be square!

CLASS 53RD REUNION WEEKEND ACTIVITIES:
I'm continuing to receive checks and/or calls saying the checks are in the
mail.  So far, about 40 people are expected to join together at Bob Etter's
home at 5009 Morgantown Road beginning at 11:00 on September 12 to renew old
friendships.  I laughed when I received Dick Elmore's check along with a
note saying, "Angie and I are looking forward to sharing aches and pains
with other elderly people."  Speak for yourself, Dick.  I am thrilled to
report that Marvin and Deanna Henderson are visiting from Florida to join
us.  That was wonderful news to receive.  We haven't seen them since they
deserted us for a full-time living arrangement in FL several years ago.

For those who might need directions to Bob's wonderful facility, go about
one mile from the 37 bypass east on St. Rd. 252 and veer left onto
Morgantown Road.  Take that road almost three miles until you see St. John
Road to the left.  Bob's driveway is directly across from that road.  At the
end of Bob's lane, you will see the shelter house on a hill off to the
right.  Park behind the shelter house for easy access.  Call my cell at 765
341 4116 should you get lost.  Don't want you wasting time wandering around
the country trying to find us.

If you haven't yet registered, the price is $15 per person for a wonderful
home-cooked meal.  Mail or bring to 740 E. Washington St., Mart. 46151.
Looking forward to receiving several more registrations before the deadline
of September 7.  Lunch will be served about Noon.  Class photo will be taken
around 1:00.  If you are interested in purchasing a photo album of the day's
events, bring about $25, which includes postage to mail to you upon
completion.

Don Burleigh and Stony Pearcy are arranging a golf outing at the
Martinsville Country Club Friday morning, Sept. 11, between 8:00 and 9:00,
and would love to have as many interested golfers as possible join them.
Stony said he caught so much grief last year from Marty Akard Short about
not inviting women to join the festivities (which he adamantly denied) that
he wanted me to specifically invite all female classmates to join in.  Of
course, non-Class spouses or significant others are certainly included in
this and all other Class activities.  If you can play with the group, TEXT
Don at 317 502 0937.

ALSO, as those on e-mail know, we are also arranging a casual dinner for any
interested Class member on Friday evening, September 11, 6:00 at the
American Legion, 701 East Morgan St.  Thus far, about 18 people have
responded favorably to attending this event.  I have reserved several tables
in close proximity so that we can combine friendship, food, frivolity, and
libations in a raucous celebration of our reunion weekend.  If you can join
us, please contact me in any of the modes of communication I mentioned
earlier so that I can alert the Legion to an approximate head count.  Hope
many of us can use this opportunity for further visiting during the
too-short weekend.

Sure hope I have covered all the important facts for September.  Really
looking forward to personal visits with many of us at one or all of the
planned events.  I encourage all to join us if possible.  Feel free to
contact me for any information.

Love to all.                       karen
 
August 2015 Update
 
Can you believe the kiddies are returning to school, county fairs are
bustling, and the summer is ebbing?!  We all know what that portends.
Depresses me already.  I must drink more wine and cheer up.   This month of
August brings no national holidays but two momentous occasions--Morgan
County Fair and first COLTS game.  I have my Colts blue shirt and nail
polish to match and am ready for another season of the greatest team in the
NFL.  Well, I have lots of news this month so I best move forward quickly.

AUGUST BIRTHDAYS:

Mary Anderson, Ralph Berry, Don Burleigh, David Chandler, Richard Cramer,
Judy Fraker Ford, Linda Gibbs Gehring, Henry Gray, Virginia Haviland
Hamblen, John Jones, Ellen Miller Little, Sonnie Myers Gano, Kay Selch, and
Karen Wilson Brummett.

Happy belated birthday also to Sharon Robertson Anderson.  I tried to think
of a good excuse for why I neglected to report that in the July update but
came up with nothing.  First mistake I ever made.  So sorry, Sharon, you are
getting this wish late but it is nonetheless sincere.

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY.

CLASS FAMILY INFO:

Karen Wampler lost her brother, 91 years of age, during July.  He lived
out-of-state, so there were no local calling.  Very sorry for yet another
sibling loss, Karen.

John Jones' mother, Velma Jones, celebrated her 90th birthday in July with
fanfare from family and friends.  Her children honored her for this
auspicious occasion with an open house and pitch-in.  John is one of the few
of us who can still honor a living parent.  Glad for him.

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATES:

Ran into Joyce Bowman Branham at Walmart a week ago and inquired of the
health of her and Jim.  She looks younger every6 time I see her.
Unfortunately, Jim is not responding to any medications to aid his phobia of
being out of his known environment or being with people.  Joyce says they
both talk of their class friends often and appreciate the updates, even
though they can't take part in any of the activities.  We can all pray that
medicine will find something to aid Jim in returning to our super athlete,
class president, and ever-present friend.  God bless you both.

Lorraine Dunn Richardson dropped by for a chat last month.  She and Keith
have been under the weather.  She actually was diagnosed with whopping
cough.  I wasn't aware that malady was still around.  I had it as an infant
and was told it's a dangerous ailment.  She did look great and said all is
now well.  Unfortunately, Keith's heart problems still plague him and he
severely cut some fingers on a table saw.  Was in hospital to stench
bleeding because he takes Cumoudin.  She did say he is now better on both
counts.

Received a note from Sharon Robertson Anderson sharing that she has also
been in the hospital.  She was diagnosed with a bacterial lung infection.
After medication she got worse.  Doctor changed meds but she is scared
because her lungs "do not look good" and she may be facing hospitalization.
She asked for our prayers that they will heal.  You've got those, Sharon.
Please send  an update soon that I can share with all your class friends.

Mary Anderson remains at Wellbrooke in Avon rehabbing from foot and leg
surgery.  She suffered some serious breaks which left her with no
weight-bearing ability.  However, she thinks a return to home might be just
over the hill.  I hope she is there by the Sept. Update.  We will miss you
at our reunion, Mary.

(Kenny Hacker and Irene Cure Conte medical updates are below)

CLASSMATE MISCELLANEOUS:

This is somewhat a medical update and also a miscellaneous tidbit.  Received
a note from our class published author, Jim Brunnemer.  It seems Jim set out
on July 11 for his annual solo Goldwing bike trip.  This year he headed for
the northeast and toured Indiana, Illinois, Iowa, Minnesota, North Dakota,
Montana, Idaho, headed for his destination, the Wallawa Valley in Oregon.
Jim loves the Rockies of Montana and the Bitterroot Mountains of Idaho.  He
said neither words nor photos can do them justice.  Jim promised his wife,
Lu, before leaving that this would be his last motorcycle adventure.  At 70
he is less confident in his ability to handle the 850-lb Goldwing cruiser.
He planned to pass it to his sons to enjoy upon his return.  As bad luck
would have it, on July 17, as he neared his hotel in Wallawa Valley, OR, pea
gravel (which he describes as small ball bearings) threw him and the bike.
He made it to an ER where they diagnosed a fractured rib, severely bruised
shoulder, and a fracture of the fibula at the ankle joint.  He was forced to
sell his bike in Oregon and catch a flight for home, since he could no
longer ride the cycle, and arrived home on July 19.  Jim is philosophical
about his misadventure and is thrilled he will one day be good as new
without the necessity of surgery.  He says he will always cherish the
memories he made on the Goldwing.  Maybe another book is lurking in the back
of his mind.  We are proud of you, Adventurer Jim.

Received a much appreciated and enjoyed note from Bob Ely Brown.  I had
wished him a happy birthday in June and he responded with a note.  Don't
hear much from Bob but am always glad to learn that he is still attached and
enjoys our class news.  He just recently retired after working 59 years and
said, "I am doing fine and really embracing this thing they call
'retirement.'"  He said if he ever gets to town to visit his brother,
Richard, he would call for a cup of coffee.  I threatened him that if I ever
learned he was this close and didn't at least call that I would hunt him
down and break golfing arm.  It's been 53 years since hearing his contagious
laugh and seeing those twinkling (mischievous) eyes.  Thanks for the note,
Bob.

FOR SNAIL-MAIL ONLY:

On the last day of June, prior to mailing the July e-mail update but after
mailing your letters, I received a call from Sonnie Myers Gano.  I shared
this info in the July update but want to now share it with you
snail-mailers.

Sonnie and her husband, Walter, and another of our classmates, Rose Sutton
Phillips, and her husband shared a cruise in May from LA along the West
coast toward Vancouver for Sonnie's 52nd anniversary.  They had a great
escapade.  Unfortunately, toward the end of the Vancouver stay Sonnie fell
face down on an escalator and broke her arm.  She then proclaimed to find
the Canadian health system is horrendous.  Luckily, they had purchased
travel insurance, which covered thousands of dollars in medical, hotel, and
flight expenses.  She eventually made it back to the States where they
inserted a plate in her arm to repair the damage.  As of the last Wild Bunch
breakfast, Sonnie looked great and said that continuing rehab is allowing
her to regain full use of her arm.  In spite of all of this, she said the
cruise was worth the problems.  What a positive attitude in the face of
adversity.

As another medical update, she shared that her brother-in-law and our
classmate, Dick (Buth) Cramer, had been in the hospital for congestive heart
failure.  They removed 52 lbs. of water from his body.  He should be home
now and we all hope he is doing well.

Early in July I got a call from Roger Coffin saying his cousin and our
classmate, Jean Szatkowski, was coming to town and wanted to visit with as
many friends as possible during her visit.  I was thrilled to send out a
local bulletin asking for those available to meet with Jean at Bynum's
Steakhouse for dinner and a chat during her stay.  That event came about and
was attended by Jean, Roger Coffin, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Sharon Fraker
Bales, Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Tura Crone LaMar, Sue Weddle Myers, and me.
We all laughed, talked, ate, and talked more, and a great time was had by
all.  Jean looks wonderful (didn't she always!).  She lives in Port St.
Lucie, FL, and has had a significant other for many years.  Her children are
close by.  She struggles with fibromyalgia but still works in interior
design/sales and care-giving to elders.  Jean finally remembered to share
with me that her birthday is June 11, so we all owe her a belated Happy
Birthday.  She will be included next year during her special month.  She
hasn't changed much from the blonde, smiling, vivacious lady we remember and
loved 53 years ago.  Thanks, Jean, for giving us a chance to touch souls.

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

The July session was extremely well attended, in part because of visits from
out-of-town visiting classmates.  We were joined by Kenny Hacker and his
wife Melinda and Irene Cure and her sister Susan.  Kenny shared that he
still struggles with Parkinson's but with physical therapy and by
controlling his diabetes he is doing well.  He looked good.  Irene, Marilyn
and I spent an evening together while her sister, Susan, attended her 40th
class reunion.  It was terrific to have a few hours to touch base with
Irene.  She has fallen several times and broken bones but doesn't let that
stop her, even if she is a bit slower than she would like.

The regulars attending were Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Austin and Chyrel
Gray, Bob and Catherine Etter, Sonnie Myers Gano, Mary Pope and Curt Boner,
John Stewart and Karen, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Brent Boner, Linda
Burleigh and me.  Don Burleigh stopped by the table to give his condolences
that he couldn't attend this breakfast.  Seems a golf outing was more
important than breakfast with Class friends.    Guess we found out which
member of that couple is our strongest advocate.  I told Linda we liked her
better anyway, since he deserted us to chase a small ball.   Next session
will be August 10, 9:00, at Forkey's.  If you miss you lose.

Also, if any of you come in from out of town for our September 12
mini-reunion, try to stay one more night and attend our Wild Bunch Breakfast
on Monday, September 13--extend your time to visit with great friends.

CLASS DISTRIBUTION LIST PURGING:

Every couple of years I send out an e-mail to our distribution list asking
recipients to confirm that they are still receiving class info and that they
wish to continue receiving that mail.  Through this snail-mail letter I'm
asking for the same confirmation from recipients by mail.  If you are
receiving these updates by either e-mail or snail mail at the correct
address and wish to continue that format, you need do nothing.  If you wish
to be moved to e-mail, please send me (klssas740@att.net) your new e-mail
address.  If you wish not to receive these updates, please send me a note to
740 E. Washington St., Mart., 46151, or call me at 765 315 0397 so you can
be removed.  I certainly don't want to lose any of the 133 of us who are
connected, but neither do I wish to inundate you with e-mails or letters you
don't wish to receive.  I'll let you know next month if we lose any
classmates through this purging or if we have new contact info to share.
Thanks to all of you for your cooperation in this project.  At latest count
we have 81 on e-mail and 51 on snail mail and me.

53rd CLASS GET-TOGETHER:

Here is final information on our upcoming mini-reunion:

September 12, 11:00, Bob Etter's campground at 5009 Morgantown Road,
Martinsville.  Should you get lost, call my cell that day at 765 341 4116
for help.  Last year a few got lost and drove for a long while trying to
find us.

Here is the menu Renda Trimble and I have arranged:  BBQ pork, hot baked
potato salad, baked beans, slaw, chips, buns and condiments, sweet & unsweet
tea, and Renda's special carrot cake with creamed cheese icing.  We will
plan to eat shortly after noon.

As in the past, Bob's daughter-in-law, Connie Etter, will troll the premises
snapping photos for an album to be produced after the event.  Class photo
will be taken at 1:00.  Connie will produce an 8x8 soft cover 21-photo album
with the class photo as front page for a cost of $25 (which includes postage
fee to mail to you).  An 8x10 class photo will cost only $5.00.  If you wish
to order either or both of these items, please bring your money and be
prepared to pre-pay.  Connie can't be expected to up-front her costs on our
behalf.

Our cost per head for the meal is $15 each.  This amount includes a small
amount to help pay for incidental expenses of the event plus Connie Etter's
fee for spending the afternoon photographing us.  Believe me she is working
cheaply for us, and, thanks to the generosity and kindness of Bob Etter, we
have no expense for use of the beautiful lake-front facility.  I hope you
will find that the $15 cost per ticket to be entirely fair.  However, if any
of you cannot afford to purchase a $15 ticket, just let me know and the
Class treasury will happily pay the tab.  We would far rather have you with
us than have your money.  Moreover, no one but you and I will ever know of
this transaction.  Also, bring lawn chairs for lake-side sitting and a cold
drink if you don't want iced tea or water.  Bob does allow alcohol but will
check ID's for appropriate age consumption.  Of course, you need not eat the
food provided.  If you prefer, bring your picnic lunch and join us at meal
time.  Park around the shelter house, as we did last year, but be sure to
park in such a way to make room for as many cars as possible.

Okay, I think I have covered all the details except to ask you to mail your
check for $15 per attendee to me at 740 E. Washington St., Martinsville, IN,
46151, or drop it by my house (come to alley-side door under carport).   I
will need to confirm attendance to Renda for headcount no later than
September 4.  I sincerely hope we have a great crowd again this year.  I
know you won't regret attending.  I look forward to receiving many checks.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

My thought for the month in July was that half the stuff in my shopping cart
said 'for fast relief.'  Steve Koons noted:  "Heck, who needs drugs and
alcohol when I can get the same effect just standing up too fast!!"  Well
stated, Steve.

I apologize for the small print this month.  I realize this is a visual
challenge for many of us.  However, I tried to keep snail mail to 5 pages
and one stamp.  Also, because of the reunion on Sept. 12, there will be no
September 1 Update.  Rather, the October Update will recap the reunion plus
include all new information.

Love to all,

karen
 
 
July 2015 Update
The only holiday greeting I can send you this month is "Happy 4th of July."
I don't know if it can be counted as a holiday, but we also acknowledge the
end of the Korean War (1953).  That occasion affected most of us in one way
or another.  We were around nine but we knew men who fought in that
conflict.  July is another opportunity to thank all Veterans from 1776
through our great-grandsons serving today.  America, Bless God!!

JULY BIRTHDAYS:

David Boys, Judy Brummett Cross, Don Clay, Don Donoho, Linda Drake Davidson,
Marilyn Dyer Hornberger, Sharon Fraker Bales, Cam Hacker, Betty Maners
Wilson, Mary Pope Boner, Lila Pruett White, Melissa Swisher Thomas, and
Richard Young.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR FIRECRACKERS.  May each of you enjoy your best year
yet.

HEALTH UPDATES:

Mary Anderson is sill in rehab in Indy recovering from several foot
surgeries.  Her spirits are high, considering her prolonged issues.  Mary is
a trooper and doesn't give in to medical infirmities.  She promised to keep
me advised of her progress.  No return-home date yet.

For Snail Mail folks, Bill Fulford sent an e-mail to Class friends stating
that Dottie has cancer for the fifth time and hasn't been feeling her best.
She started chemo again in early June.  If these treatments work as well as
the ones she had last round, she may beat this monster yet again.  They ask
for prayers for Dottie.  Thanks so much, Bill, for keeping us advised.

Dan Broyer called the end of June to say "I feel like 100 but want to feel
like 30."  Know that feeling.  He said he was in an induced coma from Jan.
20 to end of Feb.  Routine tumor removal surgery gone awry.  Came home on
Memorial Day weekend on walker and with help.  He is back on bi-weekly chemo
treatments.  Keeps him sluggish.  He is fighting with all he has to beat
this.

Karen Arnold Pottorff stopped by to report she is free and clear of breast
cancer pursuant to her last test.  She truly looks radiant and has a huge
smile.  How wonderful to get that kind of report.  We need more of those.
Congrats, Karen.

The last post I saw on Face Book from Dewayne White was encouraging.  Diana
seems to be improving daily.  What a blessing that is.  Dewayne is good to
post updates so their friends can be updated.  Thanks, Dewayne.

Kay Selch's wife, Kim, if you remember, has been struggling with chronic
kidney disease for many years.  She was just recently placed back on the
kidney donation list after receiving a clean bill of health for other
issues.  She needs a new kidney, but this costs lots of money.  She has
partnered with the Great Lakes Kidney Transplant Fund, HelpHOPELive, to help
raise the necessary matching grants.  For those of us who don't know how or
want to donate on the internet, I chose to send Kay and Kim a blank personal
check for their use as deemed appropriate.  They can either forward to the
fund or use for expenses.  I couldn't send nearly as much as I would have
liked, but every little contribution gets her closer to a normal life.  If
you would like, send your checks or notes to Kim at 260 North Grant St.,
Mart., 46151.  While they certainly didn't ask me to include this request in
the Update, I know they will appreciate any financial assistance or kind
thoughts.

After snail mail was already sent, I received a call from Sonnie Myers Gano
with news I'm including in e-mail but will need to mention in snail mail
next month.  Sonnie and her husband, Walter, shared a cruise in early May
with Rose Sutton Phillips and her husband.  For Sonnie's 52nd anniversary,
they went to Vancouver from LA along the West coast and thoroughly enjoyed
the escapade.  Unfortunately, at the end of the trip, Sonnie fell face down
on an escalator in Vancouver and broke her arm in two.  She explained the
Canadian health system as horrendous.  She should write a book on that
experience.  Suffice it to say, they had purchased travel insurance which
covered thousands of dollars in medical, hotel, flight expenses.  She came
back to the states and had a plate inserted in her arm to repair the damage.
As of end of June, thankfully she is recovered with only therapy facing her.
She said the cruise was worth the hassle.  I am amazed at her positive
attitude in the face of problems.

Sonnie also shared that her brother-in-law and our classmate Dick (Butch)
Cramer is in the hospital for congestive heart failure.  They have removed
52 lbs. of water from his body.  He hopes to return home within a few days.
Dick would love to hear from his friends at brcramer@att.net or 8515
Stonewall Dr., Indy 46231.

Each of these and many more unmentioned need our thoughts and prayers and
notes/cards.  There are so many of our Class friends who are struggling with
health concerns and huge medical bills when they should be enjoying
retirement time and funds in some other way.  I pray miracles happen to give
these folks peace of mind and a lessened load.

MISCELLANEOUS TRIVIA:

I have no idea where to include this little gem of information.  Somehow I
became privy to some notes between Jim Brunnemer and Rick Blunk.  Right
there you should realize where this is going.  Apparently they have had
serious discussions from their youth about killing, singeing, plucking, and
cleaning chickens.  Their exchanges provided all the gory details as to how
to carry out this feat.  (I'm really not unfamiliar with the technique since
I observed this ritual from my grandmother on many occasions.)  But, the
difference is I was appalled and they seemed to enjoy recounting the morbid
deed.  Will be eager to learn where this line of thought leads them.
Another book, perhaps?!

THE JUNE WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

You aren't going to believe this--I can't find my notes about the event.
The sad thing is, I can't even remember those in attendance and whether or
not there were any raunchy discussions.  "My memory's not as sharp as it
used to be.  Also, my memory's not as sharp as it used to be."  I apologize
for my faux pas.  However, I do know the July breakfast will be held on
Monday, July 13, 9:00 at Forkey's.  Please join us.  No matter who comes, we
have a great time for an hour or so a month.

REUNION:

Moving along with plans.  Have reserved Bob's facility, the caterer, and the
photographer.  Be sure your calendars are marked for Sept.12 from 11:00 to
?.  More details to follow.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

I feel like my body has gotten totally out of shape, so I got my doctor's
permission to join a fitness club and start exercising.  I decided to start
with an aerobics class for seniors.  I bent, twisted, gyrated, jumped up and
down, and perspired for an hour.  But, by the time I got my leotards on, the
class was over.

These days about half the stuff in my shopping cart says, "For Fast Relief."

Love and best wishes to all --
karen
 
 
June 2015 Update
Happy June.  Sorry this Update is later than usual.  As mentioned in last 
month's report, I did take a week away from the 'Ville for vacation. 
Traveled to KY, WVA, and VA, ultimately reaching Virginia Beach.  Scratched 
from my bucket list "boating on the Atlantic."  Visited Williamsburg 
(another of my long-time desires), Yorktown, and Jamestown.  It was fun and 
I'm glad I did it but decided no more large tourist areas for me.  Traffic 
was horrendous.  Give me Indy traffic congestion any day.  Next year I think 
I'll camp in the mountains.  Enough about me.

This month we celebrate Flag Day, Father's Day, and Summer Begins.  Happy 
Fathers Day to all you dads out there.  We also honor the following special 
days:

JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

Curt Boner, Jim Branham, Danny Broyer, Judy Caldwell, Cora Capshaw, Dick 
Elmore, Bob Ely, Bill Fulford, Eddie Kent, Sammy Weaver, and Linda Worland 
Summerlot.  HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY.  May 
this be the best year ever for you.

ARTIE FEST:

Don't yet have any details on this event, except to mark your calendars for 
July 10-12 if you want to participate.  Once they publish the schedule, I'll 
share it with you.  If anyone intends to participate, let me know so we can 
try to pull together a Class group.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

I'm happy to report I don't have many medical issues to share.

Don Billings called to say he has been down for several weeks with a brown 
recluse bite.  Guess this is excruciatingly painful.  He can't put pressure 
on his foot and leg and the wound has to be cleaned daily by removing dead 
skin and applying antibiotics.  He hope to be through this in another week 
or so and then he would like to join the gang at breakfast and the reunion. 
Keep healing, Don.

Received a call from Irene Cure Conte last week.  She said she is coming 
home for Artie Fest this year because she will attend her sister's 40th high 
school reunion.  Said those who are available will try to meet for lunch 
during her stay.  She will let me know closer to time her plans so we can 
discuss a quick visit.  She probably won't be back again in Sept.  Bad 
timing.  She also shared several medical issues for her of late caused by 
some falls with fractured bones.  Glad to learn, though, she is progressing 
and hopes to be back to normal by her visit home in July.  God speed 
recovery, Irene.  Look forward to your visit.

Just this morning Kay Selch called to say he and Kim missed today's Wild 
Bunch Breakfast because he has diabetic sores on his feet and can't walk 
much.  Has been treating with doctor and believes the worst is over.  I told 
him their absence was noticed.  He said Kim has learned she has to raise 
$9,400 out-of-pocket before she can be considered for a kidney donation. 
Said they were looking to do some fund raising to help with that.  He said 
it was horrible to be in a position of "begging" at this point in their 
lives, but medical insurance has lots of strings attached.  I told him to 
let me know how our Class could help with fund raisers, etc., when those had 
been finalized.  No one we would rather help than dear friends.

Great news on Duane White's wife, Diana.  All her cancer numbers are good. 
She will continue Chemo for a bit longer and then a CT scan to evaluate. 
Duane says her appetite is good and she can walk better daily.  She now sees 
light at the end of this long tunnel.  God bless your continued recovery, 
Diana.  Duane, thanks for keeping us updated on Facebook.  It's great to 
read good news.  We all need that.

For those who aren't local and may not know, last month Bob Etter's son, 
Patrick, was involved in a serious auto accident which landed him in the 
hospital and has him laid up at home for weeks.  Pat is an IN state trooper 
whose car was rear-ended, seriously injuring his neck and back.  Not clear 
yet whether or not Pat will be cleared to work or when.  We all pray for his 
total improvement and return to his normal lifestyle.  God is so good that 
he wasn't killed in the accident.  It could have been much worse.

WILD BUNCH REPORT:

I missed the May breakfast, but Linda Burleigh kept minutes.  Those 
attending were Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner, Bob and Catherine Etter, 
Kim and Kay Selch, Joyce and Richard, Don and Linda Burleigh, and Tura 
Crone.  She said there was no stimulating conversation involving sex, 
affairs, trysts, etc.  Guess when I miss they clean up their conversation.

I did attend today the June breakfast.  Very light crowd--Linda and Don 
Burleigh, Bob and Catherine Etter, Sharon Quakenbush Tutterow, Mary and Curt 
Boner, and me.  Even though we all would easily have fit at one table, the 
males quickly leapt to a separate table, far from the females.  We just can't 
understand why they always fly away.

Next breakfast at Forkey's will be Monday, July 14, 9:00.  Hope more will 
join the fun group.

CLASS OF '62 53RD REUNION:

As I reported earlier, we will gather again at Bob and Catherine Etter's on 
Sat., Sept. 12, 11:00 for a catch-up session.   Hugs, laughs, talk, food, 
frivolity, friends, and many more fun events will be the order of the day. 
Only three people responded to my request for input, and all three said they 
liked the arrangements we had last year and would repeat those.  As a 
reminder, we were catered by Renda Trimble.  We ate at noon and then spent 
the PM sitting by the lake lying about our school exploits.  Group photo at6 
1:30.  Cost will probably be around $15 per person (factoring in the rising 
cost of living), but I will know for sure when we set the menu (choices to 
be provided later) and the caterer shares that info with me.  I will need a 
definite commitment for lunch by mid-August.  Please mark your calendars and 
plan to come home for this important occasion.  Lost lots of friends in the 
last few years.  Let's enjoy every minute together we can.  Friends are the 
sugar of life.

Slow month on the news desk.  That's all folks.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Definition of Old .

I very quietly confided to my best friend that I was having an affair.  She 
turned to me and asked, "Are you having it catered?"  And that, my friends, 
is the definition of OLD.

Reporters were interviewing a 104-year-old woman.  "And what do you think is 
the best thing about being 104?--the reporter asked.  She simply replied, 
"No peer pressure."

An elderly woman decided to prepare her will and make final arrangements and 
told her preacher she had two final requests.  First, she wanted to be 
cremated, and, second, she wanted her ashes scattered over Wal-Mart. 
"Wal-Mart" the preacher exclaimed.  "Why Wal-Mart?"  "Then I'll be sure my 
daughters visit me twice a week."

Love to all --
karen
 
 
 
 
May 2015 Update
 
Happy Mother's Day, Armed Forces Day, Cinco de Mayo Day (for the partiers
among us), and Memorial Day during May.  Hope all of you have fun-filled
holidays this month.  For me, it's still too cold and windy to seriously
work outside, but before the next time I write I hope to have all my plants
pruned, planted, and primed for a summer season of beauty.  That might make
you think I have a green thumb, but don't be led astray.  While I seldom
succeed in my botany attempts, it's not for lack of trying.

MAY BIRTHDAYS:

Don Billings, Jerry Collier, Irene Cure Conte, Mark Dillender, Connie Denny
Martin, Linda Fisher Phillips, Oren Flake, Larry Lambert, Sharon McDaniel
Raymond, Roy McGuffey, Jim Morgan, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, Carol
Schell Maxwell, Rufus Simpson, and Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush.

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to all of you this month.  Kick up some dust--you have
earned that privilege.

FOR SNAIL-MAIL RECIPIENTS ONLY:

Those on e-mail already received the sad news that we lost yet another two
classmates during April.  Portia Dalton Samuels passed peacefully in her
Brooklyn home on April 2.  She is survived by three children and lots of
grand- and great-grandchildren.  The obit said Portia was a nurturer and
caregiver and always encouraged others to laugh despite circumstances.  We
had lost contact with Portia several years ago, but I always hoped she would
some day be connected with us again.

Then, on the 6th, we lost Patsy Lavender Durbin.  Patsy is survived by her
husband, Ralph, and four children and lots of grand- and
great-grandchildren.  Patsy rejoined our connection via snail mail many
years ago and occasionally wrote to say she enjoyed being in touch.  These
deaths bring our losses to at least sixty.

I'm going to quit looking at obits in The Reporter.  Too many names I
recognize.  God be with Portia's and Patsy's families as they learn to cope
with the huge voids in their lives.

SNOW BIRD UPDATE:

Those who have reported to be roosting at home now are Judy and Paul Knose,
Sharon and Perry Quakenbush, Jim and Becky Rusie, and Dick and Angie Elmore.
There are probably others who didn't report to me their new nesting
location.  The 'Ville is once again buzzing with activity as the
white-haired crowd returns.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS INFO:

Betty Wilson wrote to tell me her son-in-law is critically ill and needs a
double transplant.  His name is Adam Ward and he and his wife have five
children.  Betty shared a website to visit for updates on his health and to
donate toward expenses, should you be so
inclined--http://e.gofund,me/AdamWard.  She asks for us to join many other
friends in praying for his successful transplants. What a strain this is on
Betty's family.

Russ Knapp tells me he is now a playwright for his Senior Citizens Center,
of which group he is a founding member.  He wrote a comedy/mystery play to
be performed in May. I wish we could all enjoy the fruits of his labor with
him. When he gets a square on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, we can say we knew
him when.  Good luck, Russ, on opening night.  Break a leg!

Duane White's wife, Diana, is almost through her chemo treatments.  Duane
said her numbers are improving and she has gained a few pounds.  Her bone
marrow is producing white blood cells now, which improves her resistance to
disease.  He said she is eating him out of house and home.  He is grateful
for all the prayers and financial support that have come her way and shares
that they are working.  His comment was, "I never knew there were so many
swell people out there.  There is no way I could thank everyone in person
but you know who you are."

Rick and Marcia Blunk celebrated their 35th anniversary during April.
Congratulations.  That's quite an accomplishment, Marcia.  Rick was so
fortunate to find you for love.

Speaking of Rick, he called to say his brother, Bob, has been in the VA
Hospital in Indy in isolation with possible renal failure.  He asked for
prayers that it is only the flu or anything other than renal failure.  I'll
report on progress in the June Update.  Sure hope Bob gets through this with
no long-lasting problems.  Bob has attended several of our reunions with
Rick, and we always enjoy his company.

NEW CONTACT INFO:

Jerry Crismore's new e-mail address is jeromecrismore@gmail.com.  Please
change that in your records.

APRIL WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

What a nice group we had in April (22 guests).  Those attending were Frances
Hatley Fisher, Jim Brunnemer, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Jim Rusie, Don and
Linda Burleigh, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Tura Crone Lamar, Sonnie Myers
Gano, Lila Pruett White, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Richard Young, Rick
Blunk and his brother Tom, Tish Scherer Hartley (thanks so much, Tishy, for
the contribution to our snail mail fund), Joy (Favour) and Larry Greenwalt,
Dick and Angie Elmore and me.  We filled several tables.  Wish we could have
that many or more every month.

I sent two pages of color photos of this illustrious group by e-mail.  I
wish I could copy those and enclose with this snail mail, but it is very
costly and slow to run 100 colored copies on my old system.  However, if any
of you want those, just call me at 765 315 0397 and I'll send them.

I received an e-mail from Ellen Miller Little in AZ after receipt of these
photos.  She asked me to identify those in the group because she was certain
she didn't know any of these old folks.  Ellen hasn't been with us since
graduation, so you can imagine she might have difficulty identifying her OLD
friends.  However, I thought it was a bit snarky of her to blatantly say it
(just kidding, Ellen).

Next soiree is Monday, May 11, 9:00 at Forkey's.  Please come.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Becky Pratt Bock had two basal cell carcinomas cut from her face.  If tests
show cancer, she will need them removed and plastic surgery.  She said,
"Wish they would pull up, pleat over, and tuck my extra chins behind my
ears.  Of course, it might make the ears stick out like wing nuts.  But, at
least Frank would have something to lead me around with!"  That's
Becky--always cheerful even in a shadow.  Good luck, Becky, with whatever
the result.

Danny Broyer had additional cancer surgery in January, which I knew nothing
about. They removed a growth from his liver.  There were complications so he
is back in rehab at Aspen Trace, 3154 S. SR 135, Renaissance Way, Room 408,
Greenwood, IN 46143.  He would love to receive cards and notes.  No
projected date for discharge, but he told me probably mid-May.  Get well
soon, Danny.  Prayers coming your way.

Vicki Toon Woodall broke her wrist and now takes therapy to regain use.
Vicki has had a series of medical problems and can use our thoughts and
prayers.  Don't lose faith, Vicki.

Mary Anderson had surgery in April and is still in rehab.  Doesn't know when
she can return home.  Keep the faith, Mary.

I received word that our friend Carol Schell Maxwell has joined our friend
Carol Pearcy in the Alzheimer's unit at The Waters Nursing Home in
Martinsville.  Both Carols reached a point when that was the only option for
their safety.  God bless them both.

God bless all our classmates, either known or unknown, who are struggling
with health issues (and who of us isn't).  Keep our little group in your
thoughts and prayers.

YOU SHOULD KNOW:

The June Update will arrive during the second week of June.  I will be on
vacation from the last week in May through the first week in June.  But, the
Update will be published, so please send me news to report.  I need the
good, the bad, and the ugly events in our lives.  Also, remember that in
just three months from June's Update (September 12) we will celebrate our
53rd Class of '62 yearly picnic at Bob Etter's home.  Be thinking about what
you want to be served for lunch.  This is a wonderful opportunity to get
re-acquainted with precious friends.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:  (once again compliments of Sharon Tutterow
Quakenbush)

Old age is having a choice of two temptations and choosing the one that will
get you in bed earlier.
A person has reached old age when they are cautioned to slow down by the
doctor rather than the police.
Hummm.and yet another day has passed and I did not use Algebra once.very
interesting.
Why does toilet paper need a commercial?  Who is not buying this stuff?

Love to all,
karen
 
APRIL 2015 Update
Happy Mother's Day, Armed Forces Day, Cinco de Mayo Day (for the partiers
among us), and Memorial Day during May.  Hope all of you have fun-filled
holidays this month.  For me, it's still too cold and windy to seriously
work outside, but before the next time I write I hope to have all my plants
pruned, planted, and primed for a summer season of beauty.  That might make
you think I have a green thumb, but don't be led astray.  While I seldom
succeed in my botany attempts, it's not for lack of trying.

MAY BIRTHDAYS:

Don Billings, Jerry Collier, Irene Cure Conte, Mark Dillender, Connie Denny
Martin, Linda Fisher Phillips, Oren Flake, Larry Lambert, Sharon McDaniel
Raymond, Roy McGuffey, Jim Morgan, Jane Reese Thompson, Jim Rusie, Carol
Schell Maxwell, Rufus Simpson, and Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush.

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to all of you this month.  Kick up some dust--you have
earned that privilege.

FOR SNAIL-MAIL RECIPIENTS ONLY:

Those on e-mail already received the sad news that we lost yet another two
classmates during April.  Portia Dalton Samuels passed peacefully in her
Brooklyn home on April 2.  She is survived by three children and lots of
grand- and great-grandchildren.  The obit said Portia was a nurturer and
caregiver and always encouraged others to laugh despite circumstances.  We
had lost contact with Portia several years ago, but I always hoped she would
some day be connected with us again.

Then, on the 6th, we lost Patsy Lavender Durbin.  Patsy is survived by her
husband, Ralph, and four children and lots of grand- and
great-grandchildren.  Patsy rejoined our connection via snail mail many
years ago and occasionally wrote to say she enjoyed being in touch.  These
deaths bring our losses to at least sixty.

I'm going to quit looking at obits in The Reporter.  Too many names I
recognize.  God be with Portia's and Patsy's families as they learn to cope
with the huge voids in their lives.

SNOW BIRD UPDATE:

Those who have reported to be roosting at home now are Judy and Paul Knose,
Sharon and Perry Quakenbush, Jim and Becky Rusie, and Dick and Angie Elmore.
There are probably others who didn't report to me their new nesting
location.  The 'Ville is once again buzzing with activity as the
white-haired crowd returns.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS INFO:

Betty Wilson wrote to tell me her son-in-law is critically ill and needs a
double transplant.  His name is Adam Ward and he and his wife have five
children.  Betty shared a website to visit for updates on his health and to
donate toward expenses, should you be so
inclined--http://e.gofund,me/AdamWard.  She asks for us to join many other
friends in praying for his successful transplants. What a strain this is on
Betty's family.

Russ Knapp tells me he is now a playwright for his Senior Citizens Center,
of which group he is a founding member.  He wrote a comedy/mystery play to
be performed in May. I wish we could all enjoy the fruits of his labor with
him. When he gets a square on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, we can say we knew
him when.  Good luck, Russ, on opening night.  Break a leg!

Duane White's wife, Diana, is almost through her chemo treatments.  Duane
said her numbers are improving and she has gained a few pounds.  Her bone
marrow is producing white blood cells now, which improves her resistance to
disease.  He said she is eating him out of house and home.  He is grateful
for all the prayers and financial support that have come her way and shares
that they are working.  His comment was, "I never knew there were so many
swell people out there.  There is no way I could thank everyone in person
but you know who you are."

Rick and Marcia Blunk celebrated their 35th anniversary during April.
Congratulations.  That's quite an accomplishment, Marcia.  Rick was so
fortunate to find you for love.

Speaking of Rick, he called to say his brother, Bob, has been in the VA
Hospital in Indy in isolation with possible renal failure.  He asked for
prayers that it is only the flu or anything other than renal failure.  I'll
report on progress in the June Update.  Sure hope Bob gets through this with
no long-lasting problems.  Bob has attended several of our reunions with
Rick, and we always enjoy his company.

NEW CONTACT INFO:

Jerry Crismore's new e-mail address is jeromecrismore@gmail.com.  Please
change that in your records.

APRIL WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

What a nice group we had in April (22 guests).  Those attending were Frances
Hatley Fisher, Jim Brunnemer, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Jim Rusie, Don and
Linda Burleigh, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner, Tura Crone Lamar, Sonnie Myers
Gano, Lila Pruett White, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush, Richard Young, Rick
Blunk and his brother Tom, Tish Scherer Hartley (thanks so much, Tishy, for
the contribution to our snail mail fund), Joy (Favour) and Larry Greenwalt,
Dick and Angie Elmore and me.  We filled several tables.  Wish we could have
that many or more every month.

I sent two pages of color photos of this illustrious group by e-mail.  I
wish I could copy those and enclose with this snail mail, but it is very
costly and slow to run 100 colored copies on my old system.  However, if any
of you want those, just call me at 765 315 0397 and I'll send them.

I received an e-mail from Ellen Miller Little in AZ after receipt of these
photos.  She asked me to identify those in the group because she was certain
she didn't know any of these old folks.  Ellen hasn't been with us since
graduation, so you can imagine she might have difficulty identifying her OLD
friends.  However, I thought it was a bit snarky of her to blatantly say it
(just kidding, Ellen).

Next soiree is Monday, May 11, 9:00 at Forkey's.  Please come.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Becky Pratt Bock had two basal cell carcinomas cut from her face.  If tests
show cancer, she will need them removed and plastic surgery.  She said,
"Wish they would pull up, pleat over, and tuck my extra chins behind my
ears.  Of course, it might make the ears stick out like wing nuts.  But, at
least Frank would have something to lead me around with!"  That's
Becky--always cheerful even in a shadow.  Good luck, Becky, with whatever
the result.

Danny Broyer had additional cancer surgery in January, which I knew nothing
about. They removed a growth from his liver.  There were complications so he
is back in rehab at Aspen Trace, 3154 S. SR 135, Renaissance Way, Room 408,
Greenwood, IN 46143.  He would love to receive cards and notes.  No
projected date for discharge, but he told me probably mid-May.  Get well
soon, Danny.  Prayers coming your way.

Vicki Toon Woodall broke her wrist and now takes therapy to regain use.
Vicki has had a series of medical problems and can use our thoughts and
prayers.  Don't lose faith, Vicki.

Mary Anderson had surgery in April and is still in rehab.  Doesn't know when
she can return home.  Keep the faith, Mary.

I received word that our friend Carol Schell Maxwell has joined our friend
Carol Pearcy in the Alzheimer's unit at The Waters Nursing Home in
Martinsville.  Both Carols reached a point when that was the only option for
their safety.  God bless them both.

God bless all our classmates, either known or unknown, who are struggling
with health issues (and who of us isn't).  Keep our little group in your
thoughts and prayers.

YOU SHOULD KNOW:

The June Update will arrive during the second week of June.  I will be on
vacation from the last week in May through the first week in June.  But, the
Update will be published, so please send me news to report.  I need the
good, the bad, and the ugly events in our lives.  Also, remember that in
just three months from June's Update (September 12) we will celebrate our
53rd Class of '62 yearly picnic at Bob Etter's home.  Be thinking about what
you want to be served for lunch.  This is a wonderful opportunity to get
re-acquainted with precious friends.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:  (once again compliments of Sharon Tutterow
Quakenbush)

Old age is having a choice of two temptations and choosing the one that will
get you in bed earlier.
A person has reached old age when they are cautioned to slow down by the
doctor rather than the police.
Hummm.and yet another day has passed and I did not use Algebra once.very
interesting.
Why does toilet paper need a commercial?  Who is not buying this stuff?

Love to all,
karen
 
 
 
MARCH  2015 Update
 
Welcome March, which brings Daylight Saving Time, St. Patty's Day, SPRING
BEGINS, and Palm Sunday.  It's a good month when spirits lift even if
weather throws us a few curves.  Snow birds begin traveling home, and
everyone ventures out to clean winter debris from the yard, trim bushes,
wash grime from surfaces, and all the other spruce up activities.  Maybe
when I next affix fingers to keys to talk with you there will be buds and
birds in my yard.

Classmate Birthdays for March:

Karen Arnold Pottorff, Rose Marie Sutton Phillips, and DeWayne White

Happy birthday to each of you.  May the year be your best ever.
(Let me take just a small amount of space to thank all of you that
acknowledged my special day in February with cards, letters, phone calls, or
e-mails.  You made me feel very special and it is appreciated.)

Class Travels:

Bill Fulford and Dottie were in Cancun during early February and met with
Dottie's sister for  a reunion.  They love to travel to celebrate Dottie's
recent fourth defeat of cancer.  You go kids!!

Becky (Pratt) Bock and Frank spent several days in Florida.  They visited
their son and had a wonderful time.  Guess he kept them very busy because
Becky said, upon return, that her body felt very entertained.

Tish (Scherer) Hartley has been globe trotting yet again--this time to
Puerto Rico, St. Thomas, etc.  They came back through Florida and visited a
few days with friends.  Tish loves to travel and takes advantage of every
"budget" deal she can find.

Linda and Don Burleigh have spent a month in Florida.  Linda and I are
members of the Stoneheads and pursue our passion for Find-A-Grave
activities.  She wrote several times on FAG business but never missed a
chance to share their weather and activities on the beach.  (Linda can be
very hateful.)  Sounds like they will be repeating this Snowbird hiatus in
future years.

Bob and Catherine Etter have also been in Florida visiting with many other
local Snowbirds.  I hear from Bob weekly.  He seems to be feeling very well
and enjoying the social life in warm climes.

Received an e-mail from Steve Hiatt.  I hadn't heard from Steve for months
and was a bit worried.  He tells me they now spend half a year in Bonita
Springs, Florida, and may soon move there on a more permanent basis.  They
have a daughter in this area so want to keep a presence in Indiana, but I
read between the lines that we may lose them to all the other Morgan County
folks in Florida.

I'm certain I will have lots more travel news to report in the April Update
as the Snowbirds flock home.  I'm very happy this lifestyle makes them so
happy.

Class Medical Updates:

In Cora Capshaw's birthday card to me (thank you, Cora), she said mostly she
is fine and in God's light.  She struggles with shortness of breath and
weakness and has a low immune system but she is thankful no more chemo.  Her
faith and optimism will serve her well.  Good for you, Cora.

Dewayne White puts regular updates on Diana's health on Face Book (thanks
Dewayne).  Last one was Feb. 20, wherein he reported they were doing more
chemo.  The last series of chemo left her very depleted, so they dread this
new series even more.  However, Dewayne says her appetite is returning and
her attitude is marvelous.  God bless you both as you traverse this valley.

February Wild Bunch Breakfast:

Very small crowd but what we lacked in quantity we made up for with quality.
Those attending were Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Curt and Mary (Pope) Boner,
Brent Boner, and me.  Because of the limited number of attendees, the men
were forced to sit at the ladies' table.  While I'm sure their conversation
was stunted by our presence, they behaved like perfect gentlemen.  Hope to
see many more on March 9 at 9:00 at Forkey's.  It's really great to begin a
month in the company of wonderful long-time friends.

Classmate Family Deaths:

Those on e-mail already have this information, so you can skip to the next
sub-section.  I share this for those on snail-mail.

Bob Riffel lost his mother, Gladys, during February.  She was 94 years old
and in Grandview Rehabilitation Center at the time of her passing.  Gladys
and Harold were parents to six living children--three sons and three
daughters--plus three children who have passed.  Their legacy, besides the
six remaining children, includes 22 grandchildren, 72 great-grandchildren,
and 39 Great-great grandchildren.  Harold passed in 1954, so Gladys was both
mother and father to the children.  Anyone who knew her knew what a loving,
determined, and hard-working woman she was for the benefit of her children.
God bless those she leaves behind with this great void.

Another of our parents joining God during February was Mary Lynn (Wise)
Wright's mother, Mabel.  Mabel was 101 and also died at Grandview
Rehabilitation Center, where she has lived for the past three years.  Mabel
possessed a very sound mind but failing body.  She and her husband, Bill,
were parents to Mary Lynn and a son, Mike, who survives.  They also have
seven grandchildren, nine great-grandchildren and three great-great
grandchildren, all of whom Mabel was extremely proud.

Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger and I made a promise to Mary Lynn on her death
bed, pursuant to her entreaty, that we would adopt Mabel as our Mom and care
for her the way Mary was denied.  It was our privilege to honor that promise
by visiting Mabel weekly for the past five years and right up to her last
breath.  She knew many of you in your youth and adopted each of  Mary's
friends as her own.  We reported all Class news during our weekly visits, as
that always interested her.  Mabel will be sadly missed but remembered with
smiles for her spunk and positive attitude.  God rest her soul and bless her
family in their personal loss.

Miscellaneous Class News:

Karen (Arnold) Pottorff brought me money for snail-mail, along with a
beautiful birthday card.  Thank you, Karen, for both.  Thankfully Karen is
doing very well following her breast cancer chemo treatments, and it appears
she has smooth sailing ahead.  God is good!

Lila (Pruett) White tells me she likes her new full-time job at Purdue and
appreciates the paycheck even more.  She is Assistant to Director of Purdue's
Homeland Security Program.  She shares that Purdue is the leading university
working with government agencies in training people to work with all types
of emergency situations.  She says the job is actually fun and stimulating
and she is thankful to have been chosen for it.  Good luck, Lila.  I have no
doubt you will succeed.

It was good to hear from Ruth (Woolbright) Dunigan that she and Lloyd are
truly enjoying life in Georgia surrounded by two of their children and many
grandchildren.  However, two daughters live in Indiana, and it is hard being
away from them.  She hinted that Georgia weather plays a big part in their
staying put. Ruth and Lloyd are surrounded by many church friends and family
and are full of love for life in God's hands.

Henry Gray ran into Ron Asher and scouted out Ron's new address in the huge
metropolis of Gosport.  We lost Ron for many years, so I was thrilled not to
lose him again.  Thanks, Henry.  Ron, you can run but you can't hide from
your Class friends.

Curt and Mary Boner celebrated 51 happy years of marriage during February.
They quietly celebrated surrounded by good friends, family, and food.  As
most of you know, Curt and Mary have ALWAYS been huge supporters of our
Class and never fail to pitch in at all events.  Mary also helps me keep
track of our departed Class friends and houses a huge assortment of Class
memorabilia, which she shares at reunions for our reminiscing joys.
Congrats, wonderful friends.

Thoughts for the Month of March:  (once again compliments of Stony)

The biggest lie I tell myself is . "I don't need to write that down because
I'll remember it."
If God wanted me to touch my toes, he would have put them on my knees.
Even duct tape can't fix stupid . but it can muffle the sound.
Why do I have to press one for English when you're just gonna transfer me to
someone I can't understand anyway.
I don't have gray hair.  I have wisdom highlights.  And, my people skills
are just fine.  It's my tolerance to idiots that needs work.

Love to all,
karen
 
 
FEBRUARY 2015 UPDATE

Welcome to February, dearest Class friends.  This month we celebrate
President's Day, Ash Wednesday, Valentine's Day and, most importantly, the
February birthdays of our Class friends, not the least of which is yours
truly.  Having said that, however, I for one would just as soon never
celebrate again.  Reaching 70 was bad enough but adding to that number is
unthinkable.  I want to live to one-hundred but forego the reminders of how
fleeting are the years between celebrations.  Enough.  Let's highlight all
those February celebrants who deserve accolades.

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Nancy Alexander Foley, Dwight Arthur, Elizabeth Brummett Peterson, Janet
Brummett Britton, Jim Brunnemer, Billy Joe Craven, Frank Ennis, Bob Etter,
Terry Fleener, Steve Koons (well sort of for this Leap Year Kid), Karen
Lesser Smith, Kathryn Mason Hill, Marcia Murphy Bolin, Stony Pearcy, Gary
Stafford, Judy Wolff, and Ruth Woolbright Dunigan.

A very happy special day to each of us.  May we share many more as we walk
together down this life's path.

CLASS BREAKFAST:

Once again we had a small group.  I think our attendance problem is a direct
result of the cowardly Snow Birds fleeing the 'Ville for warmer climes.  I
refer to this exodus as "THE METAMUCIL MIGRATION."  Be that as it may, we
wish them well and hope they will return to the Wild Bunch Breakfast soon.
Those joining together on January 12 were Joyce and Richard Hamilton,
Catherine and Bob Etter, Don and Linda Burleigh, Tura Crone Lamar, and me.
Diana Hatter Tolley came in with her husband and stayed to talk with us
before leaving.  Even though one table would have accommodated our small
group, the men chose to sit isolated far away from the ladies.  I knew this
would become a custom once they tried it.  As usual, a good time was had by
all, even with our segregation.  Our next session will convene on Monday,
February 9, 9:00 at Forky's.  Hope to see many more of you then.

CLASS FAMILY NEWS:

I am sincerely sorry to report that our classmate, Sharon Tutterow
Quakenbush, lost her brother, Bill Tutterow, on Jan. 26.  I'd bet all of you
remember Coach Tutterow, who earned many awards during his career, including
being inducted into the IHSAA Coaches Hall of Fame, the U of I Athletic Hall
of Fame, and the MHS Hall of Fame.  He also received numerous "Coach of the
Year" awards.  Bill was a 1965 MHS graduate who made our hallowed halls very
proud.  He played sports with many of you and was loved by all.  Bill had
struggled with mental deterioration for many years, but even though
thousands of prayers from his beloved friends were said, God's will was
done.  God bless his wife, two children, grandchildren, and our classmate
Sharon during this horrible grief.  Sharon wrote to say they have come home
from Florida for the funeral.  You can contact Sharon at
sharonquakenbush@yahoo.com.


Pursuant to a call from Gary Stafford, I learned his wife, Sarah, who has
joined us on many occasions, was diagnosed with breast cancer.  She has had
the lump removed and had one radiation treatment.  Unfortunately, doctors
found more cancer cells in another lymph node, so she may be facing more
radiation.  This development prevented them from fleeing to their beloved
Florida.  They need our prayers and thoughts.  You can write Gary and Sarah
at 7356 North Stafford Lane, Martinsville, to let them know of your concern.

Frank Ennis lost his sister-in-law, Judy Riggs Ennis, during January.  Judy
was the wife of George.  I'm certain many of you knew the Ennis family.  I'm
certain this has been a blow to Frank and his wife, Georgeanne.  You can
send Frank your notes of encouragement to 5095 Cragen Road, Martinsville.
On behalf of all your Class friends, Frank and Georgeanne, we are very sorry
for your loss.

Linda Worland Summerlot lost her father-in-law, Roland Summerlot.  Many of
you knew Linda's husband, Ronald.  Linda and Ron, we send our sincere
sympathies on your loss.  You can write them at 6650 North Gray Road,
Mooresville 46158.

Those on e-mail already know that Jim Brunnemer lost his brother, Jack,
during the month.  Jim and his wife Lu drove to Valdosta, GA, for the
funeral combined with a reunion of Jim's living siblings.  As many of you
know, Jim's large family was broken up when they were very young, so his
siblings are scattered across the nation.  They have in recent years become
reacquainted and very much enjoy a chance for reunion.  There were nine
Carpenter children originally, and three sisters remain with Jim.  God bless
you and your family, Jim and Lu.

Dewayne White posted on Face Book that his wife, Diana, is doing better.
She had her third chemo treatment mid-month but is home recuperating.  She
is facing more treatments before a CT scan will show progress and direct her
future medical needs.  This is a bad time for the Whites and they need our
thoughts and prayers.  They, too, have a wonderfully bright attitude and
won't
give into this.  They thank everyone for the support they have received.
You can write Dewayne and Diana at 6435 Herath Lane, Martinsville 46151.

CLASSMATE HEALTH UPDATES:

Mary Anderson still suffers constricting blood vessels in her legs which
causes mobility problems for her.  She is under good medical supervision,
but there isn't a lot that can be done to aid her distress.  In spite of
that, she maintains a very positive attitude and refuses to allow this
infirmity to attack her spirits.

Received a note from Johnie Boles excusing himself from the January Wild
Bunch Breakfast because of an impending medical treatment.  He said doctors
would address kidney stones which are causing him a great deal of distress.
He didn't let me know how that went.  Sure hope he and ChiChi will be with
us at the February breakfast and that he is back in tip-top shape.

Received word from Gordon Phillips, Linda Fisher Phillips' husband, that
Linda is struggling again with mental health issues.  Linda has faced these
trials since the 1970's with on and off bouts of serious depression.  Gordon
said she was in the hospital for three weeks the latter part of 2014, came
home, but then went back in January.  They, too, need our thoughts and
prayers.  Linda would love to hear from us.  You can write to Linda at 721
Columbia Avenue, Lansdale, PA 19446.

CLASSMATE DEATH:

Sharon Bales reminded me that I didn't mention in the January Update the
December death of our classmate, Judy Darlene Albertson Carpenter.  I
apologize that snail mail folks are only now receiving this information.  I
try to remember to include information in the monthly updates that is passed
by e-mail mid-month.  Thanks Sharon for reminding me I missed this one so I
can now pass this sad news along.  Judy is survived by her husband, Charles,
three children, and many grand and great-grandchildren.  She was the 8th
classmate death during 2014 and the 58th lost classmate.  I pray that 2015
is not so sad for our group.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS NEWS:

For a change, this is good classmate news.  Sam Lasiter has remarried.  He
and Jan (?) have been in a relationship for I'd bet twenty years, so I
didn't
think he would ever take the marital plunge.  Very happy they did and
congratulations to them both.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:  (compliments of Stony)

The day the world runs out of wine is just too terrible to think about!
I don't trip over things, I do random gravity checks!
Old age is coming at a really bad time!
I don't need anger management.  I need people to stop pissing me off!

Love to all, karen

January 2014 UPDATE

Happy New Year to all 133 of us connected by this missive.  I pray I can
give that same salutation on January 1, 2016--with at least the 133 and
maybe a few more.  I also pray 2015 will bless our group and the world in a
proportion more generous than humankind probably deserves.

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Marty Akard Short, Gini Fulford Watts, Judy Hacker Fraker, Kenny Hacker,
Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Frances Hatley Fisher, Diana Hatter Tolley, Connie
Shields Lowry, and John Stewart.

Happy birthday to each of you on your special day. Do something
unforgettable!  Mark off another milestone on your Bucket List.  If you
don't
have a BL, start one.  Steve McIlwain highly recommends that form of
activity to stay young.

CLASSMATE FAMILY UPDATES:

I am very sorry to report Jerry Vogel lost his wife, Lisa, in December.
Lisa and Jerry were married for 38 years and were the proud parents of two
children and many grandchildren. The love of music brought Jerry and Lisa
into this long and happy union, which probably doesn't surprise anyone,
knowing Jerry.  I extend sympathy, Jerry, from all your '62 friends and pray
God will soon bring you some degree of healing with brighter days and a
lighter heart.

Received a wonderful telephone call from Marvin Henderson in Ocala, FL.  It
was great to hear Marvin's voice.  They have been gone over a year and are
missed at our events.  Marvin said they loved their Florida lifestyle. On
the day we spoke, it was 70 degrees and sunny.  Deanna has had heart
problems which required hospitalizations and stints but thankfully is now
almost back to her exuberant self.  In spite of my jealousy of their FL
existence, I am thrilled to learn they are well and happy.

I reported last month that Dewayne White's wife, Diana, was struggling with
pancreatic cancer.  Dewayne posted a note on Facebook which read as follows:
"Just had Christmas morning with the whole family.  Great presents for all.
My greatest present was having Diana here to enjoy the grandkids.  Lots of
laughs and good food.  A lot of this was made possible by the friends who
came to the Benefit for Diana which helped with medical bills.  There is no
way to thank everyone enough.  Just hope you all have the merriest Christmas
ever.  THANK YOU, THANK YOU, LOVE YOU ALL.  Dewayne and Diana White."  God
bless you all, Dewayne, through this valley.  We will continue to pray for
Diana.

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATES:

Received this note from Rick Blunk.

"Hate to add news like this.  Would rather it be positive but it could be
worse --

I suffered a small stroke the day before Thanksgiving.  Results so far are
reduced vision in right eye and some 'wooziness' but no loss of balance.
Stroke was so small the CAT scans missed it but MRI picked it up.  Going to
wait for vision to stabilize and then see about some new glasses.  Added
Plavix to my medicine, upped the aspirin dosage, modified my diet, and added
some exercise."

That is really good news, Rick.  I always feel these small incidents alert
us to problems which can be addressed prior to becoming large incidents.
Keep in touch with your doctors and continue lifestyle changes.  I know
Marcia will assist in your wellness. We want you with us for many more
years.

CLASSMATE ENTERTAINMENT ACTIVITIES:

Jim and Becky Rusie are probably already in Florida for the winter.  They
are among the many Snowbirds who forsake Indiana when weather becomes a bit
chilly.  Such wimps!

Karen (Wilson) and Bud Brummett took a Mississippi River cruise aboard the
American Queen Steamboat for Karen's 70th birthday, following which they
visited a few days in Mississippi with Karen's sister.  They had a wonderful
time and she highly recommends
that trip to all of us.  She said it provided relaxation, wonderful food,
and beautiful sights from Memphis to New Orleans.  What is the next
destination on your Bucket List, Karen?

We all have been apprised of Steve McIlwain's Bucket List activities this
past year.  His next goal is to take a trip to Jackson, New Jersey, to ride
Kanga Ka--the highest roller coaster in the world and fastest in the US
(second only to one in Abu Dahbi, which may take him a little longer to
achieve).  Steve truly has encouraged me to think about my own Bucket List,
although my items would be much less risky than his.  If any of you are
marking off BL items, please share with me so I can share with your Class
friends.

John and Karen Stewart were in town for about ten days over Christmas.  They
scurried back to FL on December 27.  Couldn't take the "cold" temps (in the
40's). I shouldn't make fun of John.  He presented me with 12 bottles of Bud
Light Lime for Christmas.  They were exactly the right size and color and
will help me celebrate the New Year.  Of course, I'll have to begin drinking
them about 5:00 on the 31st because I have to be in bed by 9:00.  Won't see
the ball drop again this year.  Thanks, John, for thinking of me.

CHRISTMAS COMMENTS:

As you all know from my December Update, an anonymous donor offered $100 to
any Class member needing a "lift" for Christmas.  I did, indeed, learn of a
Class friend who could greatly use this generous gift and made sure that
person received a $100 check.  The recipient was extremely grateful and
asked that I share those thoughts with the donor.  I have reached out to the
donor with a personal message.  All of this has been done anonymously, as
requested.  Thanks again for the act of kindness on behalf of our Class.

I must state that I struggled with my choice of deserving Class friends,
since two people reached out for consideration.  I'm sorry I couldn't choose
Marty Akard Short and do hope that decision didn't too adversely affect her
holiday spirit.  Marty wrote me this sad note in an effort to be considered:
"I saw the note about the anonymous donor.  I see he wants to help those in
need.  I had to throw away 16 old Coach purses, so I am in need of a new
one.  Please give him my info for consideration."  My heart ached for
Marty's
plight, but I was charged with a huge responsibility to choose the most
deserving recipient.  Maybe next year, Marty.

I received many beautiful Christmas cards, notes, and telephone calls from
Class friends expressing appreciation for my journalistic efforts on behalf
of the Class.  What wonderful holiday gifts those thoughts are for me.
You're
all very welcome. Janet and Don Donoho and Austin and Chyrel Gray also
enclosed checks for the Class accounts.  (Austin and Chyrel also feted me
with delicious cookies--which are already gone--hint, hint). Thank you
folks.  I always add donations to the snail-mail account but would, of
course, transfer to the regular account should that ever be necessary.
However, we have sufficient funds to insure Class memorial tributes will
accompany all those who leave us so they don't make their last journey
alone.  God rest their souls.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASSMATE INFO:

The Class of '62 has yet another published author in our group.  I believe
this says a great deal about the education we received in the hallowed halls
of MHS.  Lorraine Dunn Richardson presented me with a book entitled "Stories
from the Heartland" published by Heartland Christian Writers. Three of her
short stories.  The paperback is full of inspirational short stories by
local authors and I have thoroughly enjoyed the reading.  Congrats Lorraine.
What's next--a movie?

WILDBUNCH BREAKFAST:

Nineteen friends gathered at the December Christmas breakfast.  Happily the
group seems slowly to increase in number and enthusiasm.  Those attending
were:  ChiChi and Johnie Boles, Dottie Stapleton and Bill Fulford, Austin
and Chyrel Gray, Linda and Don Burleigh, Joyce and Richard Hamilton, Mary
and Curt Boner, Angie and Dick Elmore, Bob and Catherine Etter, Karen Arnold
Pottorff, Brent Boner, and me.  The group was so large it required that the
men sit at one table and the ladies at another.  Actually, based on the
joyful expressions of those at the men's table, I would almost bet this
becomes the norm.  For some reason the men frown on the topics put forward
by the female contingent and vice versa.  Our New Year breakfast will be
held on January 12, 2015, 9:00, Forkey's.  Please come join us.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

For the ladies:  I decided to change calling the bathroom the John and
renamed it the Jim.  I feel so much better saying "I went to the Jim this
morning."

For the men:  Whatever you do in life, surround yourself with smart women
who'll argue with you.

For all of us:  Know how to prevent sagging?  Just eat 'til the wrinkles
fill out.

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL.
GO COLTS!!!

Hugs -- karen

 

 

December 2014 UPDATE

Well, as usual, I have lots to cover this month so I will get right to
business.  We all know the holidays to celebrate in December--Christmas and
New Years, the official beginning of Winter, and Hanukkah.  But you should
also know we celebrate more important occasions--Pearl Harbor and Battle of
the Bulge remembrances and the Official End of WWII.  These battles affected
all of us directly, as our relatives were instrumental in their success. God
bless our veterans and their sacrifices.  May we be worthy of their valor.

I have vowed to keep these Updates shorter and was so proud last month that
I only covered three pages.  Then, to my horror, I realized I had eliminated
honoring the November birthday celebrants.  Duh!!  My pride was misplaced.
Please forgive my  Senior moment.  So, this month I will honor both November
and December birthdays.  However, I am henceforth changing the format to
save space.  I will merely list the monthly birthday celebrations.  It
doesn't
matter what day they celebrate--it only matters that we honor them.  And,
even a belated wish is worth its weight in gold, so contact the November
folks, too, to let them know you care.

November Birthdays
Mark Cohen, Jim Ham, Jack Hammack, Barbara Hicks Richardson, Larry Martin,
John Russell, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Charlie Vogus, and Richard Walters,

December Birthdays
Dee Ann Evans Little, Russell Knapp, and Sue Weddle Myers.

Happy belated and current birthday to all of you.

LOST CLASSMATES:

Those on e-mail know we lost yet another classmate during November.
Following is the information I sent to them:  "Eva Brummett Daniels passed
on the 19th at Grandview Health.  Eva worked at Walmart, Harman-Becker, and
the Clothes Depot for many years and was a familiar face around town.  She
is survived by her husband, four children, and many grandchildren and
siblings.  Our Class floral tribute accompanied Eva in her last journey.
Eva was the 56th classmate to leave us.  I know it's part of the Circle of
Life, but this is happening much too frequently to comprehend.  God bless
Eva's family and us all."

We also said goodbye to Michael David Myers on November 23.  Mike has fought
cancer bravely and mightily for years.  He is now pain free.  I received a
call from his wife of 34 years, Katherine, to personally inform me.  She
said Mike would have wanted that--he loved his Class friends.  Mike and
Katherine have four daughters and several  grandchildren.  He also leaves
one sister and two brothers.  Mike's family was the highlight of his life.
Mike was a proud Vietnam War Marine Corps vet.  He will be laid to rest on
Saturday, November 29, in Terre Haute, IN.  Our class floral tribute will
accompany him on his final journey.  God bless his family.

You all know we lost Alice Lehr Hornaday during October.  What you might not
know is Alice's legacy in and around the county.  A local reporter, Amy
Hillenburg, honored Alice in a newspaper column titled "Missing Biff's
Counter Lady."  Kay Selch saw the article and was kind enough to have that
article copied for all you snail mail folks and it is enclosed.  I have
scanned and attached the article to this Update for e-mail recipients.
Thank you Kay.  We are all proud of Alice's quiet love of mankind.  God rest
her soul.

COMMUNICATION UPDATES:

Ilene Suter has moved from Grandview to an assisted living center out of
town.  She hasn't yet furnished a forwarding address, so we have lost her
connection.  I hope she sends me new contact information.

Marty Akard Short has been moved from snail back to e-mail.  Marty promises
me she has now mastered her computer skills and can get our Updates
electronically.  Knowing Marty, I am nervous about our connection. Her
e-mail address is marty11190@yahoo.com.

Nancy Alexander Foley called me in early November to say she has a new
address for snail-mail.  That is:  Country View Apartments, 396 Country View
Court, Apt. 8, Martinsville.  Nancy is very much struggling with her new
lifestyle since the death of her husband, Marvin, in February.  She had to
sell their home and is adjusting to apartment living.  She would love to
hear from all her Class friends and would welcome personal contact.  Call
her to reconnect--765 346 0915.  I'm so glad Nancy reached out to me with
her new contact info.  We certainly don't want to lose any Class friends
from our communication chain.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Karen Wampler has dealt with double pneumonia, rheumatoid arthritis, and the
flu.  When we spoke in early November, she was feeling a bit better.

Kay Selch's wife, Kim, has been in the hospital for renal infection.  As I
reported earlier, Kim is trying to get well enough to be a kidney transplant
recipient.  Kay told me she is now home but still struggles with pain and
lethargy.  She needs to recoup her health so the transplant can proceed.

Vicki Toon Woodall still struggles with colon cancer but is holding on to
hopes of complete remission.

DeWayne White's wife, Diana, has been hospitalized with pancreatic cancer.
She had surgery for that but then displayed spots on her liver.  She is now
on chemo and doing as well as possible.  DeWayne, Diana, and their family
need our prayers and thoughts.  Diana is an "adopted" member of our Class.
I will let you know more in the next Update, and I pray that is good news.
DeWayne asked me to share with you his wishes for a happy holidays.

Kay Selch tells me he ran into Glenn Sheeks at the doctor's office.  (Kay
says this location is his constant source of contact with friends.)  Glenn
will have open heart surgery soon.  I will stay in touch with his wife,
Beverly, another adopted class member, and let everyone know Glenn's
outcome. He has fought so many medical emergencies and deserves a better
life.

So many of us have serious medical problems.  God bless each and every one
of those mentioned and all those who may have health issues of which we are
not aware.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS NEWS:

Marilyn Dyer Hornberger and I provided lunch for the Habitat for Humanity
Build, on behalf of the MHS Class of '62, on November 1, pursuant to
permission and encouragement many of you sent about this Class cause.  As
reported last month, I didn't spend the $150 authorized, so I told Ruth
Rusie (Jim's mom, as most of you know) to call me again when help is needed.
Pursuant to that offer, Ruth needed a small amount of assistance at the
November 22 build.  I spent an additional $15 on items and delivered the
lunch to them.  That is a total expenditure for H4H of $75.  That still
leaves me with enough authorized funds to help again when the need arrives.
If you folks could see first-hand the good this cause does, you would be
very proud that we are helping in a small way.  Affordable housing for those
having none is a marvelous gift of love.  Thanks Class friends for making me
so proud to represent you.

As an aside, Jim Rusie warned me that Ruth could be a scam artist and that I
should be careful in my dealings with her.  I ignored him and find Ruth to
be one of the most sensitive and passionate people ever known.  Shame on you
Jim!!

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

The November breakfast was very well attended, after an extremely small
group in October.  Those attending were:  Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, Sue
Weddle Myers, Marty Akard Short, Bob Elliott and his sister, Pat, Richard
and Joyce Hamilton, Linda Burleigh (proxy for Don who was in California,
even though she is another adopted Class member in her own right), Bill
Fulford and Dottie Stapleton, Mary (Pope) and Curt Boner, Brent Boner, Jim
Brunnemer, Tura Crone LaMar, Sharon Tutterow, Tish Scherer, Bob and
Catherine Etter and me.  If our little band continues to enlarge, we are
going to need a bigger facility--and, we would welcome that problem, so
please join us if you can.  Next breakfast and last one for 2014 will be
Monday, Dec. 8, 9:00 at Forkey's.

Dottie Stapleton sent me photos she took of this illustrious group, which I
forwarded to the e-mail group.  Unfortunately, to make colored copies for
the fifty folks on snail-mail would be very expensive, so I'm not including
that photo with this Update.  However, if anyone requests a copy, I will
gladly furnish one.  Just let me know by calling 765 315 0397.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS TIDBITS:

Those who use the website probably saw photos of Steve McIlwain daring fate
when he drove a car at Bondurant to celebrate his birthday.  Wish all of you
had access to a computer so you could see everything that is shared by your
friends.  I just hope the next item on Steve's Bucket List is less dangerous
than some of his earlier feats have been.  He isn't getting any younger and
he isn't as agile as he thinks he is.

Rick Blunk is looking to find a photo of his 4th grade Central class.  He
has photographic evidence of his education for every year but that.  He
thinks it was the class of either Alma Smith, Sylvia Smith, Marie Oldham,
Ida Blunk, or Pearl Slaven.  If any of you were with Steve in the 4th grade
and can furnish authenticity of his attendance in that educational venture
(which I doubt), please contact him at Richard_blunk@yahoo.com.

Speaking of Class photographic archives, Don Billings asked about all the
Class materials (especially of North School) that Ione Suter had
accumulated.  I contacted her daughter and asked if she would allow us to
copy Ione's memorabilia for our archives.  She is more than willing to
furnish those and will contact me when she finds them.  She knows of Ione's
love of her Class friends and wants to support what she knows would be
Ione's
wishes.

After the Update had been mailed to snail-mail folks, Kay Selch sent me a
great letter, which is self-explanatory.  I have attached it to this update.
Thanks, Kay, for the funny story.  I had no idea you guys were so awful, but
considering those involved I shouldn't be that shocked.  God bless Bobby and
Steve!!  Kay's idea about including more "fun stuff" is great.  I will
always make room for memories.  We need more of that.  I will make copies of
Kay's letter and include it in the January Update for snail-mail.

A classmate who wishes to remain anonymous has sent me $100 in honor of the
Christmas Season.  He said he tries to help those less fortunate all the
time but especially around the holidays.  This year he wants to help any
Class of '62 friend in need.  He trusted me to pass along this donation
anonymously for both giver and receiver.  If any of you are struggling with
holiday financial woes and could be helped by this classmate's largesse,
please let me know (765 315 0397, klssas740@att.net).  You and I will work
out details in private.  A huge thank-you to this generous and kind class
friend.

Well, I see I'm on page 4.  Better wrap up our monthly Update quickly with
the Thoughts for the Month.  However, let me take space to wish each and
every one of you a marvelous holiday season.  As I always say, I hope next
year will be your best ever.  Tell your family and friends how you
feel--life is fleeting.  God bless us all.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:  (We need a little laughter)

You can tell a lot about a woman's mood just by her hands.
If they are holding a gun, she's probably angry.

Gone are the days when girls cooked like their mothers.
Now they drink like their fathers.
Love you all, karen

November 2014 UPDATE

November brings more important events in our lives:  Daylight Saving Time
Ends (ugh!), we vote on Election Day, we honor our veterans, and we
celebrate Thanksgiving.   Let me wish all of you a wonderful Thanksgiving
holiday filled with faith, family, fun, and fabulous food.  Let's all pray
that God blesses our nation in much greater proportion than we deserve and
that he gives us courage to make the changes necessary to get back to His
teachings.

I promise, now that the reunion is only a memory, my Updates will shorten.

CLASSMATE DEATHS:  We'll begin with the bad news first.  Those on snail-mail
may only now learn that we lost Alice Lehr Hornaday during October.  As I
reported in earlier Updates, she has been battling cancer for over a year
and never gave up hope.  She passed on Oct. 16 at St. Francis in Greenwood.
I visited her on the 11th in the hopes of finding her in recovery but that
was not to be.  Our Class tribute floral arrangement accompanied her on her
final journey.  God rest her soul.  She was our 55th departed Class friend.

52nd REUNION HIGHLIGHTS:  All of you should have a photo of attendees and a
summary of events.  Twenty-eight of us gathered at Bob Etter's shelter house
on a gloomy day.  It wasn't a big crowd but those attending left overflowing
with loving friendship.  We have plenty of memories to provide constant
conversation and sincere hugs and huge smiles.  If any of you want a booklet
of photos of this event, write me a note or call 765 315 0397.  Cost would
be about $20.

CLASSMATE FAMILY DEATHS:  Our classmates, Linda (Hamilton) and Leroy
Stevenson lost their brother-in-law, Doug Dake, at the age of 75.  Doug was
married to Linda's sister, Marie, whom many of you may remember.  God bless
their family in this time of grief.

CLASS MISCELLANEOUS:  Bill Fulford wrote to say he and Dottie were traveling
to Punta Cana, DR, for a vacation.  Can't wait to talk with them about their
experiences.  They have become quite the travelers.

Jim and Becky Rusie are in China for a month visiting their son and family.
Wow, what an opportunity for an exciting destination.

ERRATA:  I reported about a year ago that, through genealogy, Jim Rusie and
I discovered we are related about five or six times removed.  We got a lot
of laughs about that and still call each other "Cuz."  Well, now I am
advised by Jim and Rick Blunk (both of whom are accomplished genealogists)
that all of us are cousins several times removed through the Hadley lineage.
Oh, brother, what other skeletons are in my closet and how many other black
sheep will rear their ugly heads.

Jim Brunnemer sent me information on some excitement in his life.  His book,
The Hoosier Game, inspired Charles Rosin, a TV writer, to visit with Jim and
Lu to discuss Jim's experiences in small-town basketball for his (Mr. 
Rosin's)
research on a new screenplay.   Jim is excited to be even a small part in a
possible future TV series or documentary.  Jim would be thrilled to see
Indiana basketball highlighted in a TV program.  Wouldn't we all!

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:  October was a very small group.  Some absences were
attributable to Fall Break in the schools and other travels.  Those
attending were Mary and Curt Boner, Kay Selch, Frances Hatley Fisher, Tish
(Scherer) Hartley, me, and a new attendee, Emma Lou (Hamilton) Lanham.  We
were so glad to see Emma.  Since Bobby's death, she has struggled not only
with emotional pain but with knee surgery and other physical ailments.  She
did say, though, that things were looking up and she hoped to return to next
month's breakfast to a full complement of Class friends.  If you can join
us, come to Forkey's on Monday, November 10, at 9:00, and enjoy lively
conversations and warm smiles.

FINANCIAL COMMENTS:  A huge thanks to Eddie Kent and Stony Pearcy for
unsolicited contributions to the snail-mail fund.  We are very solvent in
that account and in the Class treasury--thanks to the unparalleled
generosity of this group of friends.

CLASS COMMUNITY OUTREACH:  I received a call from Ruth Rusie mid-October
asking if our Class would, once again, furnish a lunch for the Habitat for
Humanity build in November.  I immediately sent out an SOS to the e-mail
group asking if they approved spending $50 or so out of Class funds for this
worthwhile cause.  The response was overwhelmingly in favor of getting
involved with this wonderful endeavor.  Therefore, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger
and I will take lunch, on behalf of the MHS Class of l962, to the build on
November 1.  Thanks so much for offers to help but two of us can handle it
easily.  I'm so proud, as I said above, of how generous this group is with
their love and money.  In fact, we didn't spend all the money authorized by
the response, so I will tell Ruth our Class will serve another lunch
whenever needed.  What a wonderful cause for us support!

CLASS MEDICAL UPDATES:

Brent Boner had a hip replacement in mid-October.  Mary wrote to say he is
doing very well and won't let this slow him down.  Hope to see him at the
November Wild Bunch breakfast.  You go, Brent.

Karen (Arnold) Pottorff stopped by to say she had completed her thirty-plus
radiation treatments for breast cancer and was very glad to have that ordeal
behind her.  She looks great and none the worse for wear.  She regretted
missing the reunion because of her treatments but promised to join us in
Sept. 2015.

Received a newsy note from Barbara (Hicks) Richardson.  She now lives in
Franklin and still works at Indiana Title Searching Service.  She relayed
that 2014 has been a trying year for her.  She fell and crushed a bone in
her left arm and fractured her shoulder and is still in physical therapy to
regain full mobility.  She gives all the glory for her improvement to God
and a wonderful orthopedic doctor.  She minimized her issues and said they
pale in light of the difficult journeys of many of her Class friends.  That
personality trait permeates every one of us connected through this Class.
Without exception, no one knows the meaning of pity and every one is
optimistic, caring for others, and grateful.

Also received a note from Steve McIlwain.  I sent him a birthday greeting
chiding him about his advanced age.  In retort, he informed me his children
gave him a day of open wheel race car driving at Bondurant driving school in
Phoenix--something he always wanted to do.  He shared it was one more thing
off his bucket list.  After telling me of this exciting birthday present, he
said he has experienced a heart attack and other cardiac events, insertion
of arterial stents, cataract removal from both eyes, and prostate cancer.
The good thing is he said all of these health events have made his bucket
list longer (and attending another reunion is on the list).  So long as he
has a full list, he will be around.  What a wonderful attitude!

Ran into Jim and Joyce Branham at Wally World.  They apologized for not
attending the reunion and Wild Bunch breakfasts.  Jim still struggles with
panic attacks in public which impinge upon his social activities.  I told
them how much they are missed and expressed our hope for their quick return
to the fold.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

I'm not saying to kill all the stupid people.  I'm just suggesting we remove
all warning labels and let the problem work itself out.

I changed my car horn to gunshot sounds.  People move out of the way much
faster now.

You can tell a lot about a woman's mood just by her hands.  If they are
holding a gun, she's probably angry.
 

October 2014 UPDATE

Fall is upon us.  In celebration of that, we honor several holidays:  Yom
Kippur, Columbus Day, anniversary of the Cuban Missile Crisis (I remember
this well), and Halloween.  Here locally we also celebrate the Morgan County
Fall Foliage Festival--Oct. 10-12--culminating in a parade on Sunday, the
12th.  Since I live on the parade route, I always have an open house
pitch-in at my home.  All of you are invited and would be welcomed with open
arms.  You might bring your chairs (and blankets, if appropriate) and drinks
and a covered dish.  There will be lots of food, friendship, frivolity, and
fellowship for all.

OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS:

Jim Barrack
Oct. 20
67 Laveianan Court, Mart. 46151

Lorraine Dunn Richardson
Oct. 7
Rainrich@sbcglobal.net

Richard Hamilton
Oct. 1
Chuckndi46151@yahoo.com

Alice Lehr Hornaday
Oct. 30
53 E. Main St., Mooresville, 46158

Mike Myers
Oct. 14
Mmyers001@ma.rr.com

Bev Parker Smith
Oct. 1
Bsflgram@gmail.com

Becky Pratt Bock
Oct. 1
Obbk41@yahoo.com

Glenn Sheeks
Oct. 10
Glennsheeks@sbcglobal.net

Tish Sunderman Haskett
October 6
13790 Driftwood Drive, Carmel, 46033

Judy Tapp Sidebottom
Oct. 9
Dad_mom_99@yahoo.com

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OUR FRIENDS CELEBRATING IN OCTOBER.  MAY THEIR
SPECIAL DAY AND ENTIRE YEAR BE THE VERY BEST EVER.

CLASSMATE DEATH:

Those on e-mail already know that we lost number 55 during September with
the passing of Ione Suter Thacker, who succumbed to cancer.  Ione had
valiantly fought this disease for years and always with a huge heart for
others and a positive attitude.  Even those of us who knew of her struggles
were shocked at her passing--it's impossible to prepare for that news.  Ione
lost her husband, Kenny, two years ago and always talked of her joy when
they could be reunited.  God bless her family, especially her twin sister
and classmate, Ilene, during their time of grief.  Of course, our
traditional bouquet accompanied Ione on her last journey.

CLASS MEDICAL UPDATES:

Cora Capshaw (4695 Cragen Road, Mart. 46151) called to apologize for missing
the reunion.  She very much wanted to attend but only recently completed the
last of 33 radiation treatments for breast cancer.  She is doing well and
swears she will be with us next Fall for the 53rd.  Her attitude is
wonderfully healing.

Mike Myers (mmyers001@ma.rr.com) also wrote to say he was thinking of us.
He is now on daily chemo pills rather than infusion type.  He has lost lots
of weight but hopes now to begin to rebuild that for more energy.  Cancer
has not grown or spread.  Praise God!  He sends love and best wishes to all
of us.

As those who attended the reunion know, Don Billings (don@billingsinc.com)
is out of the hospital and joined us in the 52nd celebration.  For those on
snail mail, he was hospitalized for anemia but didn't know what the problem
was.  After treatment, he bounced back and he enjoyed sharing good times
with us at the reunion.  His son was kind enough to bring him and sat
through all the "remember when" conversations without batting an eye.
Thanks, Brandon.

Karen Arnold Pottorff also missed because of her on-going chemo treatments
for breast cancer.  She is facing many such treatments but has a strong
sense of victory and is a fighter.  If you want to contact Karen, write her
at 889 E. Pike St., Mart. 46151.  Karen is a strong class supporter and
hopes to visit with many of us at the 53rd reunion when she is free of the
cancer.

Mary Anderson (jelliebaby@hotmail.com) was released by her neurosurgeon
because of her marvelous recovery from brain surgery.  She also regretted
not being with us but had only been released a few days before the 6th.
Mary, too, is strong in her resolve to return to normalcy very soon. We chat
frequently about life in general, and she always has interesting tidbits to
share.

Dan Broyer (jacksonmorganco@phenxt.com) attended church yesterday and looks
good.  His chemo treatments ended about four weeks ago and he is slowly
regaining strength and mobility.  He lost his hair during the treatments,
and I love rubbing his head for good luck.  It's returning even better than
before, he says, but I like his new look.

Many of the above friends had registered to attend the reunion but were
thwarted by illness.  Believe me, all of you were missed and your absence
noted.  Maybe next year many more of us can join together in laughter.  God
bless you all and bless the wonderful attitudes every one of you projects.
Mental tenacity is 75% of the battle for survival, so all of you have no
problem overcoming.

CLASSMATES' FAMILY DEATHS:

Sept. was a month for deaths in our little group.  Carol Schell Maxwell lost
her brother, Melvin, 78.  Kathryn Sue Mason Hill (ksh1944@sbcglobal.net)
lost her mother at 91.  Sharon McDaniel Raymond also lost her mother at 93.
Thankfully, those class friends have longevity in their genes.  I know I
speak for the entire class when I extend to these friends our condolences on
their losses and our wish that soon their grief will fade to fond memories.
It's so very hard to lose a parent or sibling.  Yet, the book of our lives
is now on the last chapter.  So goes the Circle of Life.

MISCELLANEOUS CLASS NEWS:

I received a much appreciated e-mail from Ed Underly
(elunderlys44@live.com).  Ed wanted to let me know he is still connected and
enjoying the updates even though he doesn't write much.  He thanked us for
not giving up on him as a lost classmate even though he left us before
graduation.  He lamented that learning to exist without his better half,
Janiece, is hard emotionally, mentally, and physically.  He had to learn
about running the house and finances, among many other tasks, and he regrets
he didn't appreciate all she did long ago.  He regrets missing the 52nd but
hopes next year he can pull together a trip to the 'Ville.  How fun it would
be to hug him again after so many years of absence.  He must be of sound
mind because he signed off with -- Go Hoosiers. Just wish he had also added
Go Colts.  He said to share that his thoughts are often with all his '62
friends.

Marvin Grimes (2004 N. Auburn, Indy 46224) sent condolences for his absence.
Marvin still works part-time and worked that weekend.  I suspect he has to
pay for the huge and beautiful Harley Hog he occasionally rides to my back
door.  He sure enjoys that form of adventure and it seems to fit him.  His
health is good. I sent him a photo of the Wild Bunch breakfast in Aug.  He
asked me to tell the group that we looked like we needed prune juice.  Shame
on you, Marvin.

Ed Kent has finally moved from Grand View to his own assisted living
apartment at KenMar, 210 W. Pike St., Apt. 309N, Mart. 46151.  Ed suffers
with COPD and is on oxygen and a walker, but he is thrilled to once again
have his own place.  Good luck, Ed.  Maybe next year you can join us at the
53rd.

Chuck Ritter also called to say fate conspired to prevent his attendance
with us at the reunion.  Chuck's son developed blood poisoning and was
hospitalized in Indy for many days.  When I finally found out why he was
AWOL, his son was back home and improving.  It was a scary time for Chuck
and his family.  So glad it had a happy ending.

Joy Favour Greenwalt (thegreenwalts@indy.rr.com) sent reunion regrets
because they were with family in North Carolina. She sent Hugs to all.

Your scribe has once again committed a journalistic faux pas.  I stated that
Bill Fulford's friend, Dottie "Singleton", took the great photos of the Wild
Bunch breakfast.  Bill reminds me her name is "Stapleton."  Dottie, please
forgive me if I promise never to make that mistake again.

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

We had a good group at the September party.  Many of the regulars were there
but some faces that we haven't seen before--Jerry Massey, and a first-time
attendee Francis Hatley Fisher.  She has been a stranger since graduation,
as life got in the way of her participation in any of the reunions.  Yet,
she still enjoys contact with us through the Update and hopefully the
breakfasts.  Her husband is house-bound so she finds it difficult to leave.
We were also blessed with a visit from Steve Koons, who had been at the
reunion but stayed over for brunch before returning to Tennessee.  Others
attending the breakfast were:  Bob and Catherine Etter, Don and Linda
Burleigh, Johnie and ChieChie Boles, Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner,
Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Steve Koons, Austin and Chyrel Gray, Tish
Scherer Hartley, and Tura Crone LaMar.  Next brunch will be Monday, Oct.13.
Hope for another great turn-out.

REUNION UPDATE:

Earlier I sent to e-mail recipients a photo of the reunion group and a copy
of the newspaper article.  I am enclosing herewith for snail mail a copy of
that photo (not the greatest quality print), and the newspaper article is
copied at the end of this Update.  Maybe the names listed in the article
will help you attach faces with names.  After all, none of us have changed
much in 52 years.

I do want to add that I believe everyone who attended had a wonderful time.
We are all so grateful to Bob and Catherine for helping make our events such
a success.

The only thing left to do to close up the 52nd reunion is an accounting for
funds.  I hope you approve of my stewardship of the funds provided and
spent.  Here it goes:

I received $765.00 for reservations and gifts to the class funds.
I spent for the reunion $680.90 (paper products, extra postage, cashiers'
checks, class paid meals, caterer, class archives album and 8x10 photo,
photographer, envelopes and postage for album mailing).

This left $84.10 for the snail-mail fund.  I did not need to take a cent
from the Class treasury to pay for any part of the reunion, plus I have
additional funds for snail mail.  Thanks to everyone for contributing for
the Class coffers.  We have very generous members.  Makes my job much easier
to not have to beg for funds to keep on keeping on.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Several months ago I started a series of thoughts titled "Pages of
Time--1944."  I will finish those memories of the era of our birth in this
Update.

French tanks lead allies into Paris
D-Day begins with large force landing on Normandy
U.S. Air Force announces production of the first jet fighter
Roosevelt signs the G.I. Bill of Rights
Generals Eisenhower, Macarthur, Arnold, and Marshall earn the 5-Star General
Rank
Hollywood stars were Bing Crosby in Going My Way and Ingrid Bergman for
Gaslight
Favorite music:  Swinging On a star, AC-Cent-Tuate the Positive, Don't Fence
Me In

Do you feel old yet??!!

Love to all, karen

 

September 2014 UPDATE

I am sending the September Update early because it contains reunion related
information which I want you to have sooner rather than later.

We will celebrate many patriotic holidays this month, beginning with Labor
Day.  That is patriotic because it honors all of those who have, or still
do, worked for a living.  How much more American can one be??  I hope it is
a joyous day for all.  On the 2nd we celebrate V-J Day; on the 11th we will
celebrate Patriot Day; the 19th brings a reminder of POW/MIA recognition;
Autumn begins on the 23rd.  If you are of the Jewish faith, you will
celebrate Rosh Hashanah on the 24th.  And, finally, on the 28th,  we honor
Gold Star Mother's Day.   Many patriotic days to remind us of less joyous
times and to foster our spirits of thankfulness for those who are now and
have for hundreds of years served to allow our freedom.  May we never
forget!!  And, of course, we also honor our classmates' September birthdays.

SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Ron Asher
September 3
1000 E. Bryants Creek Road
Mart. 46151

Brent Boner
September 14
Donboner95@yahoo.com

Joyce Bowman Branham
September 1
Jim.branham44@gmail.com

Carol Dow Teague
September 5
d.c.Teague@comcast.net

Joyce Favour Greenwalt
September 17
Thegreenwalts@indy.rr.com

Judy Garrett Knose
September 1
Knose2002@aol.com

Austin Gray
September 19
840 E. Morgan St.
Mart. 46151

Marvin Grimes
September 18
2004 N. Auburn
Indy 46224

Jerry Massey
September 19
91 Laveianan Ct.
Mart. 46151

Steve McIlwain
September 27
Mcilwainstephen@gmail.com

Jo Nutter Lasiter
September 7
Jody944@sbcglobal.net

Mike O'Neal
September 2
219 W. Pike St., Apt. 205
Mart. 46151

Bob Riffel
September 14
Rifraft2@aol.com

Chuck Ritter
September 18
Crittercove940@aol.com

Virginia Toon Woodall
September 24
3269 Clary Circle, N. Drive
Greenwood 46143

Karen Wampler
September 10
216 S. Marion St., Apt. 1
Mart. 46151

Nick Zoller
September 13
wzoller@yahoo.com

Wow, many of our parents were busy in January of 1944.  Must have been a
cold, home-bound month conducive to love.   A very happy birthday to our
celebrants during the month.

VERY SAD CLASS NEWS:  (If you are on e-mail, you can skip to the next
section.)

For snail mail only:  On August 19 I sent the following e-mail to the class
e-mail recipients:

Donald Joe Plummer passed on Sunday, August 17, 2014, at IU Health
Bloomington.  I gasped when I read those words in the Reporter today.  I was
aware that Don had been in failing health but had no idea what or how
serious his issues were.

Don was a very private person and wouldn't want this to be known because of
his humility.  However, I would be remiss if I didn't share that over the
years Don has quietly contributed $700 to our snail mail fund.  I insisted
he wouldn't live long enough to use that amount in stamps, but he sent a
short note stating he was paying for those who couldn't.  I have begged him
to come to a reunion or at least allow some of us to visit him in is home,
but that wasn't his style.

I do remember him as shy and quiet but with a sweet smile.  Wish he would
have shared more of himself with us these past few years.  Anyway, obituary
says he is survived by a brother, Robert, of Martinsville and three sisters.
The family will have a private memorial service at a later date.  So typical
of Don!  God rest his soul.

Don was the 54th classmate death. I hope not to have to send any more of
these messages for a very long time.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Dan Broyer completed his last course of chemo mid-August.  While he is
feeling less than perfect at this point, eliminating these treatments should
allow his body to rebuild its strength and energy.  It will be good to see
Dan perky for a change.  He does plan to attend the 52nd.  Contact Dan at
jacksonmorganco@phenxt.com.

Ken Hacker called on August 4 to say he was in town a few days for family
matters.  Said his health is pretty good except his testosterone level is
too low so he, like Dan, lacks energy.  Ken stayed in town long enough to
say hello at the Wild Bunch Breakfast before heading home to Cabot, AR.  It
was great to see Ken and Melinda, even though it was a brief visit.  They
won't be driving back for the reunion and he sends his regrets but a hearty
hello to his class friends.  We will miss you, Kenny.  You can write Ken at
kennethhacker@centurytel.net.

Karen Arnold Pottorff has received a diagnosis of breast cancer and is
looking to 25 radiation treatments with the hopes of shrinking the tumor.
She had hoped to attend the reunion but doubts she will feel good enough for
that.  You can tell Karen you are thinking of her by mail to 889 E. Pike
St., Mart. 46151.  God speed your recovery, Karen.

Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham had knee replacement in August.  I talked with her
the day she left rehab and she couldn't wait to get home.  She is confident
this operation will give her much needed mobility without pain, so she can
get back to enjoying her kids and grandkids in typical Emma Lou fashion. Way
to go, Emma Lou!  Emma's address is 1040 S. Ohio St., Mart. 46151.

Virginia Toon Woodall, as I have reported in earlier Updates, has struggled
with many health issues.  However, she said this summer is the first since
2008 she has felt like doing anything.  Her colon and liver cancer are in
remission, and I know we all pray we will continue to get that report.  She
promised to keep me advised of future PET scans.  She also sends regrets for
the reunion but asked that I relay her best to all. Virginia sent me a photo
of Mr. Clairsey's 6th grade class ('56-'57).  I will bring it to the reunion
to share and will add it to the website.  I am enclosing for snail mail a
copy of that photo.  Who are these cherubic smiling faces demurely posing
for the camera??  Oh, how cute!!  Thank you Virginia for sharing this
nostalgia.  Virginia can be reached at 3269 Clary Circle, N. Drive,
Greenwood 46143.

Bill Fulford wrote to say Dottie Singleton had her last chemo treatment
during August.  They have been joining the Wild Bunch Breakfast group when
Dottie felt like it.  It was wonderful to see her looking great at the
August gathering.  Because her treatments intruded on their summer vacation
time, they now will be out West during our reunion and can't join us.  They
both expressed regret that schedules didn't cooperate and they, too, send
their best to the group.  Dottie took photos of the Wild Bunch.  Jane will
add them to the website.  I am enclosing a group shot in snail mail and am
attaching a copy to this e-mail. Thanks, Dottie.

Mary Anderson called me in early August from Methodist Hospital.  She has
experienced occasional falls of late, and on this occasion received a
serious subdural hematoma which sent her to the hospital. They did surgery
to correct the problem but she faced several weeks of rehab.  She was
released on Aug. 22 and is now home.  The falls are caused by bad knees,
which Mary now acknowledges she must get fixed. That is next on her agenda.
Mary's positive, cheerful attitude and concern for others is heart-warming.
She sends regrets that she will once again miss a reunion, but she won't be
cleared to drive for several weeks and can't arrange transportation to the
Ville.  You will be missed, Mary.  Contact Mary at jelliebaby@hotmail.com.

Alice Lehr Hornaday struggles with cancer and the treatments, as many of you
know, are draining.  Her daughter, Kristina, keeps me informed of progress.
She intended to join us at the August breakfast and the runion, but her
health wouldn't permit.  I am still hoping at the last minute she will come
to the reunion, even if it is just for a brief time.  She really wants to
reconnect.  God bless your struggles, Alice.  Alice's address for cards is
53 E. Main St., Mooresville 46158.

May each and every one of our classmates who suffers a health issue, whether
known or unknown, have God's blessing for complete and speedy recovery.  I
sincerely hope some day soon I can send an Update with NO medical issues to
report.

RETRACTION OF ERRONEOUS INFO:

Last month I reported that "Linda" Haviland Hamblen celebrated her birthday.
I have no idea why I wrote "Linda" because I know very well her name is
"Virginia."  Brain blip, Virginia, and I hope you will forgive me just this
once.

SNAIL MAIL UPDATE:

Several generous folks sent extra money and asked that I add it to snail
mail.  Thanks to these folks for their contributions:  Marty Short, Steve
Koons, Stony Pearcy, Karen Pottorff, Henry Gray, Virginia Woodall, Don
Billings, and Jim Brunnemer.  I did apply some of that money to help defray
registration costs of a couple of classmates who requested it and paid for
Bob and Catherine's meals.  I knew you would approve of that use of funds.
I promise a complete financial accounting of that fund in January, when I
reconcile my info.  However, the fund is very solvent, and I should not need
to request an infusion of funds until next year some time.  Believe it or
not, the approximate cost of the monthly mailing is $35.

WILDBUNCH BREAKFAST:

This illustrious group called the meeting to order on August 11 with 18
people in attendance.  Those attending were:  Bill Fulford and Dottie
Singleton, Richard Young, Bob and Catherine Etter, Richard and Joyce
Hamilton, Don and Linda Burleigh, Jim Brunnemer, Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush,
Mary and Curt Boner, and your humble social secretary.  We also had a
surprise visit from Dick and Angie Elmore and Ken and Melinda Hacker.  It
was a fun time for all.  Jane will put photos on the website.  I am
attempting to attach one of the photos to this e-mail, but I claim computer
challenges if it doesn't come out correctly.  I am enclosing a copy for
snail mail.  We WILL have our Sept. breakfast on September 8--two days after
reunion--with the hopes that any out-of-town guests might use the occasion
to continue their visit with the locals.  We will meet at Forkey's on the
8th at 9:00 at our designated table.  Hope many of you can join us.

UPDATE ON 52ND REUNION:

Wow, this is a long Update and I apologize.  Lots of news came my way during
August.  Now, here is the info you are all awaiting.  Thirty-four classmates
and thirteen guests have registered to attend.  Many local names are missing
from the list and that is disappointing.  If anything changes in your plans
and you now want to attend, call me at 765 315 0397.  Renda can always add
more beans and potatoes to the pot.  Here is a complete list of those
attending:

Lila White, Bob and Catherine Etter, Marty Short, Jim Brunnemer, Steve
Koons, Mary and Curt Boner, Marcia Schweitzer, Stony Pearcy, Henry Gray, Don
and Linda Burleigh, Marilyn Hornberger, John and Karen Stewart, Karen and
Bud  Brummett, Terry and Martha Fleener, Rick Blunk and guest, Brent Boner,
Dick and Connie Young, Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Dick and Angie Elmore,
Jim and Joyce Branham, Don Billings, Jane and Earl Thompson , Sharon Bales,
Bob Elliott and guest, Linda Gehring, Tura LaMar, Judy and Leon Hamilton,
Dan Broyer, Carol Teague, John Jones, Johnie and ChieChie Boles, and me.

Reminder:  Reunion to be held on Saturday, Sept. 6, 11:00 to ?, at 5009 Old
Morgantown Road.  Here are directions to refresh your memory --
From the Court House, take East Morgan Street to Hospital Drive and turn
right.  Hospital Drive runs into IN-252 at the light.  Go about 0.8 miles
and veer left onto Old Morgantown Road.  Go about 3 miles and Bob's lane is
on the right.  His lane is directly across from St. John Road and there is
an "ETTER" sign at the entrance.  Bob says to drive right up past the
shelter house to park.  If we run out of room up there, we will run golf
carts from the open field parking to the shelter house.

Those sending regrets with wishes for a great and happy reunion are:  Judy
Wolff from Florida, Kathryn Sue Mason Hill from California, Sharon Robertson
Anderson from Florida, Bill Fulford, Becky Pratt Bock, Jim Rusie, Judy
Fraker Ford, and Judy Garrett Knose.

Don't forget that Don and Stony will host a 9-hole "class celebrity golf
tournament" early the morning of the 6th at Martinsville Country Club.  To
register or get more information, contact Don Burleigh at
(furr1944@live.com) or text him at 317 502 0937.  Don will handle this
event.  He and Stony hope several of you will join them for this first
annual event.

We plan to eat by Noon and the group photo will be taken at 1:00.  Please
don't be late for the photo even if you don't plan to eat with the group.
We don't know the cost of a group photo and/or a booklet of photos, but
please bring money to pay Connie Etter, our wonderful photographer, if you
plan to order any of them.

I hope I haven't forgotten anything.  If you do have questions, call me at
765 315 0397.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

John Wooden--"Talent is God-given--be humble.  Fame is man-given--be
grateful.  Conceit is self-given--be careful."                     Hugs from

August 2014 UPDATE

 

I just realized there are no holidays in August to celebrate.  How awful.
Can't imagine what I'll do to muddle through the month.  But, there are
always the county and state fairs to enjoy.  I'm certain I'll participate in
both of those "holiday" events.  At least our August birthday celebrants
have a party to anticipate during the month.

AUGUST BIRTHDAYS:

Mary Anderson
August 5
Jelliebaby@hotmail.com

Ralph Berry
August 12
4855 Little Hurricane Road
Mart. 46151

Don Burleigh
August 30
Furr1944@live.com

Dave Chandler
August 17
Jac49@att.net

Barry Cramer
August 23
Brcramer@att.net

Judy Fraker Ford
August 23
Jford1260@att.net

Linda Gibbs Gehring
August 4
Lgehring@talktotucker.com

Henry Gray
August 2
Henrygray1645@yahoo.com

Linda Haviland Hamblen
August 4
4180 Canatsey Rd.
Mart. 46151

John Jones
August 1
Mgoss@jwjonescompany.com

Ellen Miller Little
August 19
Relittle44@gmail.com

Sondra Myers Gano
August 28
Sondra.gano@comcast.net

Kay Selch
August 22
260 N. Grant St.
Mart. 46151

Karen Wilson Brummett
August 27
Kbrummett@morgancounty.in.gov

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR FRIENDS!!

NEW CLASS CONTACT INFO:

Kay Selch called to tell me he ran into Ralph Berry in a local nursing home
and enjoyed a "remember when" conversation.  Ralph still works construction
but had broken hip and was rehabbing in the home.  Ralph wants to be
reconnected with our group and gave us the following contact info:  4855
Little Hurricane Road, Mart. 46151.  Welcome back to your friendship
connection, Ralph.  Please give us a chance to meet and greet with you at
the Wild Bunch Breakfasts and/or the reunion.  You've been missing a very
long time.  Thanks so much Kay for reconnecting us.

Carol Dow Teague's new e-mail address is jr.dc.Teague@gmail.com.  After many
years living around Bargersville, she and Jim have downsized to Franklin.  I
know that may be a reality for all of us as time marches on.  Hope you love
this new chapter in your life, Carol.

I am thrilled to once again be connected with Kathryn Sue Mason Hill.
Kathryn lives in Riverside, California, has been married 44 years to the
same man (Gary), has 5 children, 10 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.
She works three days a week doing teen clinics as an RN for the county
family planning program, is a Master Gardener and a flying nurse with the
San Diego Honor Flight team.  After giving me a brief update on her last 50
years, she said "that's all there is to me."  I'd say Kathryn has kept busy
and productive during that time and continues that lifestyle.  I reported
earlier that she attended the May Wild Bunch Breakfast.  Her e-mail address
is:  ksh1944@sbcglobal.net.  Welcome back with us Kathryn.

Nick and Edwana Zoller have changed their e-mail address to:
wzoller@yahoo.com.

HEALTH UPDATES:

Mary Anderson has talked with Ione Suter Thacker and gives this update.  She
has been told that with treatment for stage four lung cancer she could
extend her time to well over a year or two.  I can't express to Ione how
much I am pulling for her to beat all the odds and set a record in the
annals of cancer remission history.  She is living with her daughter, Jennie
Middleton, off Chapel Lane in Mart. Jennie tells me Ione doesn't use e-mail
much but you can snail-mail her at:  4262 N. Chapel Lane, Mart. 46151.  She
also welcomes telephone calls at 765 342 3184.  Let her know of our support
for her battle.

Alice Lehr Hornaday is looking and feeling better than when last reported in
July.  She has a very attractive wig and looks years younger.  She smiles
widely for her Facebook photos.  Keep improving, Alice.

On July 25 I got distressing news from my brother-in-law, Gary Etter, that
Bob was in the hospital in Indy and had been diagnosed and operated on for a
ruptured appendix.  Had he waited another few hours to go to the hospital,
things might have gone terribly wrong.  Bob was hospitalized for four days,
returning home on July 27.  I know we all wish Bob a speedy and complete
recovery.  If this was his way to avoid hosting us in September, it doesn't
work.  Hospitalization is not sufficient to get him a pink slip.  Hurry and
get well, Bob.

In my conversation with Kay Selch, he also shared that his wife Kim, whom
many of you know, has been removed from the kidney transplant list.  Kim
developed some heart issues and required three stints.  She has to be fully
recovered from that before they will add her name once again to the kidney
wish list.  Kim, we all pray that will be very soon.

CLASSMATE FAMILY DEATHS:

Last month I sadly reported John Jones lost his sister, Judy.  Well, not two
weeks later he lost his brother-in-law (his sister Jennifer's husband)
Stanley Sadler.  I know most of you will remember Stan who graduated with
the class of 1966.  John, we are extremely sorry for your family losses and
hope your days will be brighter very soon.

52nd REUNION INFORMATION:

MARY AND CURT BONER get the prize for being the first to register for the
reunion. Their generous award for this accomplishment is a free cookie at
the reunion.  Way to go Boners.

Thus far fifteen classmates and two guests have sent money and declared
their attendance.  I certainly hope that is not an indication that this will
be a very small reunion gathering.   Please sign up before August 15 so you
will be included for the catered lunch.  That lunch will include:  baked ham
sandwiches, baked beans, hot baked potato salad, chips, pickles, cookies,
and iced tea.  You can't enjoy that menu anywhere else for $10.  ($2 of your
registration fee goes toward paper goods, trash bags, and other
miscellaneous class purchased items)  Send checks to me at 740 E. Washington
Street, Martinsville 46151 by August 15, 2014.

Those registered are:  Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner, Joyce and Jim
Branham, Marcia Short Schweitzer, Lila Pruett, Bill Fulford and Dottie,
Stony Pearcy, Henry Gray, Don and Linda Burleigh, Marilyn Dyer Hornberger,
Bob and Catherine Etter, Jim Brunnemer, and me.

Those sending regrets with wishes for a great and happy reunion are:  Judy
Wolff from Florida, Kathryn Sue Mason Hill from California, Sharon Robertson
Anderson from Florida.

Don Burleigh (furr1944@live.com) and Stony Pearcy are planning a 9-hole
golf-outing for the guys (DISCRIMINATION!!) the morning of the picnic at
Martinsville Country Club.  Don will handle this event.  If you are
interested in meeting them about 7:30 the morning of the 6th, write Don at
the above e-mail or text him a 317 502 0937.  He and Stony hope several of
you will join them for this first annual event.

We plan to eat by Noon and the group photo will be taken at 1:00.  Please
don't be late for the photo even if you don't plan to eat with the group.

There is another item involving our reunions that needs to be considered.
Charlie Gardner of the Class of '61 (they're old folks) has made our class a
proposal for thought.  He proposes our class and their class consider
joining respective reunions next year.  Be thinking about whether or not
this is something we might consider.  This would be a good  way to expand
our MHS friendships beyond the '62 group.  We don't propose doing this until
next year (if at all), but we need to be thinking about it.  I'll poll the
class in a later Update for thoughts.  Charlie would love to hear from his
many class friends at cgardner1961@aol.com or 352 430 1973.  At his request,
he is now cc'd on our monthly Update to help him keep track of his many
friends in our group and share that with the Class of '61.

CLASS TRAVELS AND MISCELLANEOUS:

Joyce and Jim Branham just returned from a trip to Florida with their
daughter and family.  Joyce told me Jim did very well, and she thinks they
may be getting his medications adjusted to the point where Jim feels more
like his old self.  I told Joyce to tell Jim all his old friends hope he
continues on this road to better health and that we look forward to seeing
this improvement at the reunion.

And speaking of the Boners, they recently spent a week in Las Vegas partying
and doing heaven knows what with a large group of old friends.  I do hope
they didn't embarrass our Class with any wild antics.

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

Some newer faces at this event.  Richard and Connie Young joined us, as did
Bill Fulford and his SO Dottie.  Sharon Fraker Bales, Bobby Elliott, and
Brent Boner also joined the group for the first time in a while.  Others
attending were Don Burleigh, Bob and Catherine Etter, Richard and Joyce
Hamilton, Marty Akard Short, Tura Crone Lamar, Jim Brunnemer, and me.  Mary
Anderson called me early Monday morning to say she had planned to drive down
for the breakfast, but health issues would not permit that.  She asked that
I relay her regrets and best wishes to the group, which I did.  Maybe Mary
can be with us in August or September.  It's always a mystery who will arise
early and manage to clean up in time to attend.  For that hour in the
morning, the attendees are very  presentable.  Join us on August 11 for an
hour of friendly faces and exhilarating conversations.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

I'm going to forego my monthly thoughts from the special year of 1944 to
include the following contribution from Jim Brunnemer.  It is just too
appropriate for our upcoming reunion not to include in this month's Update.
Thanks, Jim.

We will meet again my friend,
A hundred years from today.
Far away from where we lived,
And where we used to play.

We will know each others' eyes,
And wonder where we met.
Your laugh will sound familiar,
Your heart, I won't forget.

We will meet again, I am sure of this,
But let's not wait till then.
Let's take a walk beneath the stars,
And share "this" world again.

Let's Not Wait

Hugs to all.      karen

 

July 2014 UPDATE

Happy Fourth of July!  God bless all those over time who made that
celebration possible.  On the 4th, I sit on my back porch swing with a beer
and chips and watch the display at the Jimmy Nash City Park.  Love that
occasion.  Hope you do something fun, too.

JULY BIRTHDAYS:

David Boys
July 25
5939 Red Day Road
Martinsville  46151

Judy Brummett Cross
July 28
781 Timber Drive
Martinsville 46151

Don Clay
July 18
Donlinda3000@yahoo.com

Don Donoho
July 22
43018 Lesina Dr.
Lake Elizabeth, CA 93532

Linda Drake Davidson
July 2
2810 Old St. Rd. 37 N
Martinsville 46151

Marilyn Dyer Hornberger
July 5
Hornberger9@comcast.net

Sharon Fraker Bales
July 15
1140 E. Morgan St.
Martinsville 46151

Cam Hacker
July 16
Chacker62@comcast.net

Betty Maners Wilson
July 24
potteryme@aol.com

Mary Frances Pope Boner
July 28
Squirtb635@aol.com

Lila Pruett White
July 7
Lilapruettwhite7744@gmail.com

Sharon Robertson Anderson
July 29
Shar44don38@yahoo.com

Melissa Swisher Thomas
July 18
Thom1gc@rnetinc.net

Richard Young
July 11
Richardconnieyoung@gmail.com

Special Birthday Wish:     Smokey the Bear turns 70 in July.  Go, Smokey!

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR JULY CELEBRANTS!
KICK UP SOME DUST.

Happy UN-BIRTHDAY to Jerry Massey.  Jerry approached me after last month's
Update to say his birthday is in September--not June.  My records are wrong.
Jerry will receive two birthday wishes this year.

VERY SAD CLASS NEWS TO SNAIL-MAIL RECIPIENTS:

Very sorry to tell you that our beloved gentle spirit Bob Barger passed on
June 17.  Bob has struggled with heart issues for a long time, but when last
we spoke he convinced me he was improving.  I now believe he didn't want
others to know his true condition.  Anyway, this is Lost Friend No. 53 (of
which we have info).  Bob will be greatly missed as a valued member of our
special group.  Our Class red/blue carnation basket with one white carnation
in the center sat beside Bob at the service to let him know of our love.
Mike Myers wrote--"SEMPER FI, BOB!"

CLASSMATE MEDICAL UPDATE:

Ione Suter Thacker is receiving chemo for lung cancer.  Ione has already
defeated breast cancer many years ago.  I am confident she will beat this
beast, too.  We are all praying for you, Ione.  Get well before the reunion.
We want you to attend.  I don't have contact information for Ione yet but
will furnish it as soon as I hear from her or her daughter.

Ilene Suter Terrell told me she will be moving to an assisted living
facility in Greensburg in July.  She said it is a very nice
home-away-from-home and she views it as another chapter in her life.  When I
saw her at Grand View she looked great and seemed ready to make this next
step.  Great luck to you, Ilene, in this new adventure.

Alice Lehr Hornaday is still in rehab for her Stage 4 colon cancer which has
spread to her throat, but plans to return home in early July.  Doctors hope
to begin chemo soon, if her overall health will cooperate. Alice attended
Mooresville's Relay for Life Celebration in early June.  Pictures on
Facebook of Alice in her purple attire were regal.  Alice said she will not
let this cancer defeat her.  Knowing her, I believe she is stronger than the
disease.  She would welcome contact with all her many friends.  Write Alice
at 53 E. Main St., Mooresville 46158.  Befriend her daughter on FB at
Kristina May Hornaday-Alberts so you can receive regular updates and photos
of Alice during her climb up this health mountain.

Irene Cure Conte is scheduled for cataract surgery in both eyes soon. She
hopes this will again bring her good vision.  Good luck, Irene.

Dan Broyer is on chemo treatment three of eight.  He has been off those for
over a year,  but his numbers were a bit elevated so they thought it safer
to do the chemo out of precaution.  Dan says the medication saps his energy.
His attitude is one of confidence and optimism.  Dan, like so many others,
is going to beat this disease.

Don Billings will soon have extensive dental surgery.  He looks forward to
having this behind him with the result that he can once again enjoy eating.
He said he wants to enjoy the 52nd reunion picnic meal.

May God's hands be on all our classmates suffering afflictions.

CLASSMATE MISCELLANEOUS:

Received an e-mail from Jim Brunnemer, our Class sojourner.  It was a photo
of Jim standing on a high butte near Sheridan, WY, with the snow-capped Big
Horn Mountains in the rear.  Jim was on his yearly motorcycle trek across
country and has visited or will visit ten western states before returning
home--3,300 miles on his Honda Goldwing.  He said it was "a truly thrilling
trek!" Good for you, Jim.

Speaking of Jim, I heard rumors that he was visited in Brown County by none
other than Bob and Amy Riffel.  I'm sure they had a wonderful time
reminiscing about and embellishing upon their many  "glorious MHS sports
victories."  Feel sorry for Amy and Lu who had to sit through those
conversations.

On June 29 Ruth Woolbright married her high school sweetheart and best
friend, Lloyd Dunigan.  She said they have traveled thru many seasons in
that journey, but God has seen them thru all.  Congratulations Ruth and
Lloyd!  And they said it wouldn't last.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

ChiChi Boles has been graciously receiving and sharing our Updates with
Johnie, because he didn't have his own e-mail address.  That has changed.
Johnie has been moved to:  johnieb1819@yahoo.com.  Thanks, ChiChi, for
shepherding this change for Johnie.

Marty Akard Short asked me to move her to snail mail.  She is struggling
with her computer--wouldn't share whether the problem is mechanical or age
related.  Doesn't matter, Marty.  You join a large group of others who don't
like the e-mail communications.

Larry and Connie Denny Martin have a new e-mail address:
lpmartin3590@gmail.com.  They switched because of recent problems with
Comcast.

Roy McGuffey also has computer problems and has asked to be moved to
snail-mail.  He will let us know as soon as he gets a new e-mail address.

Another new e-mail address:  Lilapruettwhite7744@gmail.com.  Please change
your Class distribution list to reflect this new contact information for
classmates.

Speaking of e-mails, many of us received an urgent message from Roy McGuffey
requesting monetary help.  I'm certain none of us at this point would fall
for that scam.  However, Roy called to ask me to thank those of you who were
concerned about his well-being and to assure us he isn't stuck in a foreign
country without funds.

FAMILY DEATHS:

After mailing the June Update, Don Burleigh called my attention to the fact
that Dick Elmore lost his younger brother, Robert, in late May.  I'm so very
sorry for this belated notification and for the tardiness of our condolences
to you, Dick.  Many of you may remember Robert, who was born in 1947.  You
can contact Dick at arelmore@hotmail.com.  Hope your days are brighter very
soon, Dick and Angie.

I also learned that Stony lost his cousin, Bill Kent.  Stony was in town for
the services and generously bought my breakfast before returning to Piney
Flats.  We had a good visit. So sorry about your loss, Stony, and we hope
your days will quickly be brighter.  He came bearing a gift of wine and
home-made soap, which was much appreciated by the recipient.  Stony looks
great and is planning to attend the 52nd picnic. You can contact Stony at
spearcy643@aol.com.

Rick Blunk was in Indy the middle of June for the funeral of his wife's
father.  Marcia has attended some reunions with us, so many of you will
remember her.  He didn't make it to town but called to say he will be back
for the picnic.

Another classmate family death is John Jones' sister, Judy Jones Lowry.
Many of you remember Judy, who graduated with the Class of l964.  She was
beautiful within and without.  She is also survived by sisters, Jennifer
Jones Sadler and Jill Jones Finney, husband John, two children, and her
mother, Velma.  We are so very sorry for your loss, John, and pray God will
soon bring you and your family brighter days and lighter hearts.

And, let us not forget Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham, who lost her life-long soul
mate, Bob, last March.  I know she is mightily struggling with life as only
one of a team.  Keep her in your thoughts and prayers, too.

So sorry for their family losses.

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

The group was smaller this month (15) but more elite because of first-time
attendees.  Marty Akard Short came from Fishers to pick up Linda Worland
Summerlot to join us.  We were thrilled to see both of them.  Linda had
another stroke late last year and can't drive.  Linda looks very well and
said she is feeling good.  She is just frustrated that she can't handle the
busy schedule she once did with her animals, 4-H, yard work, etc.  We
assured her that was an ailment that all shared.  Thanks, ladies, for
joining us.  Come again often.

Other special guests were Dick and Angie Elmore.  As you read above, Dick
recently lost his brother.  They were in town to deal with some family
matters and made it a point to join us first.  They both look terrific.

Others attending were:  Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner (it's been quite a
while since he has joined us--welcome back), Don and Linda Burleigh, Richard
and Joyce Hamilton, Bob and Catherine Etter, Tura Crone Lamar, and me.

Next breakfast will be July 14.  Come if you can.

ARTIE FEST:

This huge MHS event will be celebrated July 11 thru July 13.  Many
activities are planned.  I won't include details in this very long Update,
but if you might attend and want to know the schedule, either write me at
klssas740@att.net or call at 765 315 0397.  I can share those with you.

REUNION PICNIC:

Received about ten responses for suggestions for our next gathering.  Survey
says -- Reunion will be held Saturday, September 6, beginning around 11:00
until Bob kicks us off his property.  Everyone liked the catered meal last
year, so I have enlisted the same caterer and somewhat the same menu.  If
any of you have a stack CD player, please bring it.  I have the '50s and
'60s music but no player.  You need bring nothing except your eagerness to
enjoy the day, lawn chairs, and drinks. (Iced tea will be served with meal.)
Cost will be $12 per person.

Connie Etter will once again be taking impromptu photos of the day and will
offer a booklet for sale if you want to purchase it.  You will pay her for
it at the reunion but I won't know how much until later.  She will also be
offering a large group photo of the group, in addition to the booklet.
Bring your wallet.

Please send me your reservation check for $12 per attendee so I can buy
paper products, pay the caterer, and give her a headcount no later than
AUGUST 15.  Send the money and names of attendees to 740 E. Washington St.,
Martinsville, IN 46151.  Of course, you certainly can attend at no charge if
you choose not to eat at the buffet.  If you've never attended a picnic, you
need to know it's tons of fun, very relaxed and enjoyed by all.

I do not want to be morbid or depressing.  However, I can't help realizing
that we have lost three class friends (Bob Lanham, Charlotte Neal, Bob
Barger) since last year's reunion picnic and 53 since 1962.  Don't miss any
opportunity you have to reconnect and reaffirm your friendships.  (I
promise, no more of those comments.)

One other thing.  Don Burleigh and Stony Pearcy want to get some class guys
together Saturday morning, Sept. 6, before the picnic, for golf.  Since the
snail-mail was already in the mail before I learned this today, I will have
to defer telling them until the August 1 Update.  Anyway, if you are
interested in joining this group of misfits, contact Don as follows:  Text
317 502 0937 or e-mail at furr1944@live.com.  They hope there will be a big
turnout for this event.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:
(More "Pages of Time--1944")

President  Franklin Roosevelt
Vice President  Henry Wallace
Dow Jones Average 143
Minimum Wage $0.30
Life Expectancy 62.9 years (Wow, I'm glad we outlived that prediction.)

Love, karen

 

 

CLASS OF '62 JUNE UPDATE

Happy June to '62 Classmates.  This month we celebrate two special
occasions--Father's Day and Summer Begins.  Happy Father's Day to all of you
fathers reading this.  Sincerely hope your special day is filled with love
and happiness, even if you can't spend the day with your children who might
be far and wide at this point in our lives.  Mothers and Fathers know full
well it hasn't been an easy trip to their offspring maturity, but the
rewards more than offset the roller coaster of nurturing them.  As to the
second special occasion, I'm quite sure every one receiving this is happy to
welcome Summer to our lives.

JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

Curt Boner
June 23
Squirtb635@aol.com

Jim Branham
June 13
Jim.branham44@gmail.com

Danny Broyer
June 30
Jacksonmorganco@phenxt.com

Judy Caldwell Hamilton
June 16
Judithhmltn1@gmail.com

Cora Capshaw
June 2
4695 Cragen Road
Martinsville 46151

Dick Elmore
June 4
Arelmore@hotmail.com

Bill Fulford
June 13
Bill_fulford@hotmail.com

Eddie Kent
June 1
Grandview Rehab. Center
East Columbus Street
Martinsville 46151

Jerry Massey
June ?
91 Laveianan Ct.
Martinsville 46151

Sam Weaver
June 6
P.O. Box 709
Eminence 46125

Linda Worland Summerlot
June 6
6650 N. Gray Road
Mooresville 46158

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR JUNE HONOREES!!

MEDICAL UPDATES:

ALICE LEHR HORNADAY, with whom we finally reconnected over a year ago, had a
large segment of her colon removed to treat cancer.  Moreover, she is
fighting lung cancer.  She is in lots of pain at this writing.  No word on
prognosis or when she can go home.  Some of you know that Alice managed
Bif's
Bakery/Restaurant in Mooresville for many years and through that endeavor
has befriended many, many people in this area.  All of them are praying for
Alice.  Alice would love to receive cards from you to help her through this
tunnel.  Send them to 53 East Main St., Mooresville, IN 46158.  In a visit
we had early in May, she was looking forward to attending our 52nd reunion
picnic.  Sure hope she will do that.  Get well quickly, Alice, and stay in
touch through your daughter, Kristina's, Facebook page.  Hugs.

ED KENT called to say he is now in Grandview Rehabilitation Center awaiting
an opening at KenMar Assisted Living Center.  Ed suffers from COPD and
requires oxygen 24/7, among other ailments.  At some point he had a negative
reaction to some medication, which is what sent him to Grandview.  That
seems to be clearing and he is feeling good enough to move to an apartment.
He will obtain a computer when he gets moved and let us know how to reach
him through cyberspace.  In the meantime, send notes to Ed at Grandview,
East Columbus St., Martinsville 46151.

ILENE SUTER TERRELL has been in Grandview since March.  She told me
yesterday she hopes to go home the end of June.  Ilene has several ailments
but mostly is bothered with vertigo and Crohn's disease.  Now that doctors
have her meds straightened out, she thinks she can go back home.  Please
send notes to Ilene at 52 Sunset Manor Dr., Martinsville 46151.

GRACE COOPER BEATTIE:  Received a note from Bob Beattie, Grace Cooper's
husband, with this message:

"Thank you so much Karen for your faithfulness and love in the past several
years for sending your class newsletters to Grace.  You can stop sending
them now as Grace has really lost contact with her school friends.  Grace is
doing quite well.  She is more alert in the Bible study group, contributes
more and asks questions.  She is more receptive now to a hug and kiss and an
'I love you' when I leave.  The Lord is indeed at work." Therefore, I have
sadly removed Grace from snail mail.  It's very sad when the chain loses a
link.  God bless you Grace, Bob and family.

FAMILY DEATH:

Janet Brummett Britton lost her sister, Geraldine, in mid-May.  She was 76
and had resided in FL for over thirty years.  So very sorry for your loss,
Janet.  Losing siblings hurts as much as losing parents, in my humble
opinion.  If you would like to send Janet a thinking-of-you note, her e-mail
address is:  jbritton@bluemarble.net.

THE WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

Regrettably, I was unable to attend the May breakfast, but my faithful and
efficient fill-in, Linda Burleigh, sent me a report on activities.  I have
only missed two of these occasions since they began and, wouldn't you know,
on the last occasion of my absence (May) they had a very special
guest--Kathryn Sue Mason Hill from California.  She was accompanied by Sue
Etchison.  (Kathryn, a personal note from me as to how sorry I am we weren't
able to connect personally while you were in town.  I truly am
disappointed.)  Maybe you and Gary can see your way clear to come back in
Sept. for the picnic.  You won't be disappointed.

On top of that, Bob Barger attended.  He has been AWOL for months because of
health issues.  Hope he gives the group another chance to enjoy is improved
health at the June breakfast on Monday, June 9, 9:00 at Forkey's.

Others attending the May group were Tura Crone LaMar, Mary and Curt Boner,
Richard and Joyce Hamilton, Sharon Quakenbush, Bob and Catherine Etter,
Richard Young, and Don and Linda Burleigh.

SEPTEMBER 52ND REUNION PICNIC:

I received three responses to my request for input in the May Update about
the picnic.  All three favored the first Sat. or Sun. in Sept.  Steve Koons
mentioned that if we had it on Sunday, maybe those coming from out-of-town
could stay over to attend the Wild Bunch Breakfast on Monday, Sept. 8.  It's
a thought.  One person voted for 50's songs on CD and a stripper if it was
male (shame on you Marcia Short Schweitzer).  I need more input to make such
big decisions.  Do you want the same caterer and food as we had last year
for a cost of about $10 per person or do you want to try something
different?  Do you like Sat. or Sun.?  Please send me your comments.  Those
who scream the loudest will win the day.  We must commit to Bob and a
caterer by July 1.  If you don't send me your comments, you can't complain
about the event planning.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:
(For a couple of editions, I'm going to include here some interesting info
from a pamphlet entitled "Pages of Time, Your Special Year 1944".  Hope some
of these facts make you smile and yearn for the good old days.

Average Income  $2,378
New car cost   $   975
Loaf of bread cost  $         .10
Gallon of gas cost  $         .15
Pound of coffee cost  $         .48
Gold per ounce  $     35
New house cost  $3,475

Hugs to all.

May 2014

April showers bring May flowers--and around my area the floral display is
bountiful.  My how the color and diversity of flora brings a cheery mindset.
Even the nascent leafing of the trees and bushes are striking after staring
out windows and seeing dark days and white grass.  This month we celebrate
two very important occasions--Mother's Day and Armed Forces Day (Memorial
Day).  Let me be the first to wish all mothers and veterans a special time
to celebrate their sacrifices and accomplishments.

MAY CLASS BIRTHDAYS:

Don Billings
May 21
Don@billingsinc.com

Jerry Collier
May 6
j-bcollier@cfl.rr.com

Irene Cure Conte
May 19
Irenecc27@hotmail.com

Connie Denny Martin
May 6
Lpmartin3590@comcast.net

Mark Dillender
May 12
Caroledillender@yahoo.com

Linda Fisher Phillips
May 23
721 Columbia Ave.
Lansdale, PA  19446

Oren Flake
May 5
bettyflake@att.net

Larry Lambert
May 12
45 Laveianan Ct.
Martinsville 46151

Sharon McDaniel Raymond
May 1
Sharon@simpleshoemaking.com

Roy McGuffey
May 11
Rjmcguffey@att.net

Jim Morgan
May 30
8930 W. Pocket Hollow Rd.
Gosport 47433

Jane Reese Thompson
May 12
Thompson@thompsonkerr.com

Jim Rusie
May 13
Jfrusie@yahoo.com

Carol Schell Maxwell
May 11
159 S. Jefferson St.
Martinsville 46151

Rufus Simpson
May 14
Rufussimpson71@msn.com

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush
May 22
Sharonquakenbush@yahoo.com

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR MAY HONOREES.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

We happily connected with Cam Hacker on our snail mail list earlier this
year.  Now, his daughter Lisa has established an e-mail account for him,
which she will monitor and share with Cam.  Cam is blind but is well cared
for by Lisa.  If you wish to contact Cam, send to chacker62@comcast.net.
Welcome to the e-mail list, Cam.  We are so happy to have finally closed the
loop with you.

CLASS MILESTONES:

Keith and Lorraine (Dunn) Richardson celebrated 53 years of wedded bliss
during April.  Congratulations, friends.

CLASSMATE TRAVELS:

Sharon (Tutterow) and Perry Quakenbush have returned from their Florida
winter hiatus.  I believe all of our snow birds are now back nesting in the
Ville.

Sonnie (Myers) and Walter Gano left April 1 for a 15-day cruise to the
Panama Canal and surrounding countries.  Sonnie said it was a marvelous
experience.

Stony wrote me on April 1 from, of all places, St. Maarten.  He was "sitting
in the sun, drinking Mudslides, reading, drinking Pina Coladas, reading,
drinking beer, reading, drinking wine."  Poor baby.  I thought it was
hateful that he shared his trip with me in such an egregious way.

Becky (Pratt) and Frank Bock cruised the Cayman Islands and Cozumel, Mexico.
On their way to the cruise, they visited with family in Springhill, FL.
After the cruise, they visited Chapel Hill, NC, and Virginia to visit with
other family and friends.  Wow, what an adventure.

Welcome back folks!!

MISCELLANEOUS INFO:

I received a very nice note and snail-mail check from Linda (Drake)
Davidson.  She was gracious in telling me she enjoyed staying in touch with
the monthly newsletter.  Thanks for both the vote of confidence and the
money, Linda.

I also received a beautiful Easter blessing from Virginia (Haviland)
Hamblen.  I had asked for her vital information for the class archives and
she sent that along with her note.  She said she and  Ron have 5 kids, 10
grandkids, and 5 great grandkids.  She also shared that she has had too many
medical problems and is currently awaiting more cancer surgery.  God bless
you, Virginia.  Please send me an update on your physical progress when you
are up to it.  We want good news from you soon!

I haven't received any medical update info from anyone since my last Update.
I hope this means everyone is doing better.  I did find out, however, that
Ilene (Suter) Terrell is spending time at Grandview Center for rehab.
Marilyn Hornberger and I were at that facility visiting Mabel Wise (Mary
Lynn's mother) and saw her in a wheelchair speeding down a hall.  She looks
great and hopes to be back home during May.  She was experiencing dizziness
and falling, so they felt a couple of months of rehab would be to her
advantage.  We'll keep a check on that situation and report next month.

I heard by the grapevine (it's a small town) that Marvin Henderson lost his
brother in Arizona during April.  I didn't see that in the paper and don't
know specifics, but a thinking-of-you note to Marvin in Ocala, FL, would be
in order.  Write him at mmmarvbaby@msn.com. So very sorry for your loss,
Marvin.

52ND REUNION INFO:

Starting with the June Update, I will be seeking input on our next classic
get-together.  You will need to be thinking about when (first or second
Saturday in September), menu (picnic food like last year or other), special
entertainment (DJ with music, strip tease (checking to see if you really are
reading this)).  It's already set that we have a picnic at Bob Etter's
through 2016 (assuming Bob invites us).  In 2017, when we reach the 55th
reunion, we voted to have a more formal event.  In the meantime, be ready to
write me with ideas for date, food, entertainment, etc.  I need to schedule
the shelter house and caterer by early July.

WILD BUNCH APRIL BREAKFAST:

Wow, you can tell its warm weather and the hibernation is ending.  We had
21at Forkey's on the second Monday of April for our monthly get-together.
Those attending were:  Bob Elliott and son Rob, Sharon Bales, Bob and
Catherine Etter, Mary and Curt Boner, Jim Brunnemer, Johnie and ChiChi
Boles, John Stewart, Marilyn (Dyer) Hornberger, Irene (Cure) Conte, Jim and
Joyce (Bowman) Branham, Don and Linda Burleigh, Tura (Crone) Lamar, Joyce
and Richard Hamilton, and me.  It was great to have such a big group.   Just
too bad we have such a short time to visit with so many great friends.  Next
Wild Bunch Breakfast will be on May 12.  Be there or be square.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Here are more of Russ Knapp's dog philosophy to be applied to our lives:

Dogs laugh, but they laugh with their tails which they wag with their
hearts.
Inside every large dog is a puppy longing to climb onto your lap.
Some of our greatest historical and artistic treasures we place with
museums--others we take for walks.

Love to all,  karen

 

April 2014

You are receiving this dispatch on All Fools Day, but I promise not to
include any false info to fool you.  Instead, I wish you a happy Palm
Sunday, Passover, Good Friday, Easter and Earth Day during April. I hope
Spring is smiling on you, wherever you are.  It has been a much-too-long
winter in Indiana, and I know I speak for all of us when I praise its
appearance.  Enjoy every minute of it.  In only five months (can that be
possible?) we will be together again for our 52nd anniversary and it will be
Fall.

APRIL BIRTHDAYS:

Judy Albertson Carpenter
April 29
Jccc9999@cinergymetro.net

Ricky Blunk
April 7
Richard_blunk@yahoo.com

Johnie Boles
April 2
315 N. Church St.
Mooresville 46158

Tura Crone Lamar
April 29
Tlrlmar@sbcglobal.net

Bob Elliott
April 21
47 Sunset Manor Dr.
Martinsville 46151

Marvin Henderson
April 17
Mmmarvbaby@msn.com

Steve Hiatt
April 20
Stephenjhiatt@gmail.com

Patsy Lavender Durbin
April 4
1833 E. Shady Lane
Martinsville 46151

Tish Scherer Hartley
April 13
P.O.Box 1266
Martinsville 46151

Ilene Suter
April 4
52 Sunset Manor Drive
Martinsville 46151

Ione Suter Thacker
April 4
Thackerione@yahoo.com

Eddie Underly
April 1
Elunderlys44@live.com

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OUR APRIL HONOREES ON THEIR SPECIAL DAYS!!

DISTRIBUTION LIST CHANGES:

We have moved Johnie Boles from snail to e-mail.  His wife, ChiChi says she
will print the Updates and see that Johnie gets them.  Write to him at
cboles5279@att.net.

We have found Bev Parker Smith in Bonita Springs, FL, and added her to
e-mail.  Bob and Catherine secured her contact information while they
visited in Florida.  Welcome back, Bev.  You can write her at
bsflgram@gmail.com.

I am moving Bob Barger from e-mail to snail mail.  You can write him at 17
Lakewood Drive, Trafalgar 46181.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Received a welcomed call from Bob Barger.  If you remember, I reported
earlier that he had a heart attack.  Bob tells me he had congestive heart
failure and was in the hospital many times until they diagnosed and
stabilized him because he developed pneumonia and other issues.  He has lost
30 pounds and is on a very restrictive food/liquid intake regimen, but he
still preaches and does what he can around the house.  In spite of that, his
attitude is wonderful because of his faith in God's plan for him.  Bob's
final remark was that he intends to live forever, in faith, and in his
current body.  Great going, Bob.  Come join the Wild Bunch Breakfast again
very soon.  That group has a healing quality.

Mike Myers tells us he is still doing chemo and is very happy to report his
cancer has not spread from his lungs.  Every time he goes to the cancer
center, he sees others in far worse shape than he and he thanks God for His
blessings.  Mike sends his love to all of you.

For those of you on snail mail who don't receive e-mail updates, Bill
Fulford shared that his significant other, Dottie, has cancer for the fourth
time.  Those attending the 51st reunion picnic will remember Dottie's
sparkling smile and contagious laughter.  Bill says she is a fighter and
appreciates all the prayers she can get.  Keep on fighting, Dottie.  You
will win.

CLASSMATE TRAVELS:

Gary and Sarah Stafford and John and Karen Stewart are heading home from
Florida.  Martinsville will be overflowing with Snow Birds very soon.

Bob and Catherine Etter recently returned from Florida.  While there they
visited many friends, including Billy Joe and Portia Craven and Bev (Parker)
and Kenton Smith.  They had a wonderful time.

Don and Linda Burleigh spent several weeks in North Carolina and adjoining
territories.  He golfed and she shopped.  Since they kept extending their
stay from week to week, I have to assume they had a great time and were
trying to escape the weather awaiting them in the 'Ville.

Mary Frances and Curt Boner returned from a cruise celebrating their 50th
anniversary.  They went with twenty couples and had a great time.

THE WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

Irene Cure Conte said she will attend the April 14 breakfast with the group.
And, I have it on good authority that John Stewart and Marilyn Dyer
Hornberger
will also be with us.  We will be very happy to have all of them join us for
the first time.  Those attending the March
affair were Curt and Mary Boner, Brent Boner, Richard and Joyce Hamilton,
Johnie and ChiChi Boles (first-time attendees), Richard Young, Jim
Brunnemer, Sonnie Gano, Bob Elliott, Chuck Ritter, and me.  It was a good
weather day on March 10 so more folks showed up.  It was either that or
folks learned Don Burleigh was out of state, so they took advantage of his
absence.   Come meet us on Monday, April 14, 9:00 at Forkeys.  They reserve
a table for us.

JOURNALISTIC RETRACTIONS:

I really muffed some news I reported in the March Update and I apologize.  I
reported that Karen Wampler lost her mother.  Karen called to say it was her
older sister, Frances, who passed.  Sorry for my error, Karen.  I know,
however, that Frances was almost like a mother to you in many ways and her
loss causes you great grief.

CLASSMATE DEATHS:

Those on e-mail need not read this section, since you are aware of this
information.  I include it here for those on snail mail.

The Class lost two friends during March.  Bob Lanham could not overcome his
brain hemorrhage (reported in the March Update) and died on March 9.
Charlotte Neal Everroad left us on March 15, after long-term failing health.

The traditional red/blue bouquet from the Class of '62 sat beside both at
the funerals.  It's such a small thing to do to mark their passing, but we
hope it will tell their families how important their lives were to all our
Class.  To our best knowledge, this brings our Class loss to 52.  God forbid
I have to report any more deaths for a very long time.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:  (More of Russ Knapp's Dog Quotes to apply to your
lives.)

If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see
yourself through your dog's eyes.  Only then would you realize how special
you are.

I think dogs are the most amazing creatures; they give unconditional love.
They are the role model for being alive.  Gilda Radner

Dogs teach us many things about being a better person.that people don't
teach.

Hugs to all,

karen

MARCH 2014 UPDATE

Happy March.  This month we celebrate Ash Wednesday, Daylight Saving Time
Begins (yeah!!), St. Patrick's Day, and SPRING SPRUNGS.  For those of us in
the Midwest, the Spring announcement is much anticipated.  Even those of you
receiving this in far away places must know that Indiana suffered mightily
during the winter of 2014.  Yet, we hardy Midwesterners survived to fight
another battle with Mother Nature in the future.  Hope everyone reading this
is well and content with their path in life in spite of the bumps on that
path.

MARCH BIRTHDAYS:  (Wow, March is a light birthday month for our group.)

Karen Arnold Pottorff
March 31
889 E. Pike St.
Mart.

Rose Marie Sutton Phillips
March 5
10255 Tisha Circle
San Diego, CA 92126

DeWayne White
March 10
Dwhite7754@gmail.com

Take a minute to send your friends a birthday wish on or around their
special day.  You can use e-mail, snail-mail, or the Website if you have
enrolled in that.  I speak personally when I say those thoughts remembrances
brighten a day.  Thanks to all of you who sent me birthday wishes and kind
words on my special day.  I truly appreciate your thoughtfulness.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Mary Anderson sent me a birthday note and she included some health updates.
Here good news is that subsequent tests have been clear of cancer and that
there was no metastasis from her earlier oral problems.  That was much
appreciated good news for a change.  Yeah for Mary.  She is going to try,
when the weather cooperates, to come to a Wild Bunch Breakfast soon.  I told
her she wouldn't be sorry because they really were a fun way to stay
connected on a monthly basis.

Seems I always have to include not-so-good news in these missives.  Received
a note from Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush that our Bobby Lanham had a massive
stroke and is in Bloomington Hospital.  She said a large blood clot had
formed on top of his head.  No prognosis is being given.  Both Bobby and
Emma Lou struggle with diabetes, so this stress doesn't do either of them
any good.  Sharon updated me on the 27th by saying they have moved him from
ICU, after which he will go to The Waters Rehab. Center to regain the
ability to walk and talk.  As soon as I hear anything else, I'll send out a
special note.  Please send them a note at 1040 South Ohio Street,
Martinsville 46151.  I know they will appreciate knowing their Class friends
are concerned and praying for a total recovery.  God bless Bobby in his
struggles.

FAMILY DEATH:

Melissa Swisher Thomas lost her mother, Mildred, on February 14.  Melissa
told me she was 93 and had been relatively healthy until the last few
months.  A stroke finally took her life.  If you remember, Melissa has had
at least two strokes and has had some hills to climb to overcome the effects
of those.  Melissa is lucky to be aware of her and her family history in
this regard and visits a doctor often.  Keep that up, Melissa. You can send
Melissa a message at thom1gc@rnetinc.net.

Karen Wampler also lost her mother, Frances Wampler Zimmerman, 87, on Feb.
25.  Boy, our parents are passing quickly from our books of life.  Now, we
are the generation to carry the family banner.  You can write Karen at 216
S. Marion St., Apt. 1, Mart. 46151.

Joyce and Jim sent me an e-mail this morning that was a shock.  Nancy
Alexander Foley lost her husband, Marvin, on Feb. 26.  They were married in
1989.  Marvin (78) passed away suddenly.  Needless to say, Nancy is in that
all-too-familiar fog that accompanies death of a loved one.  Marvin's
funeral will be at the First Church of the Nazarene, 1609 John Wooden Drive,
Mart., at 1:00 on Monday, March 3.  Visitation will be at 11:00 that day.
Let's hold Nancy in our arms of support to help her through this ordeal.
You can write Nancy at 1675 West Shore Drive, Lake Edgewood, Mart.
(Unfortunately, snail mail Updates were sent to 50 plus Class friends
yesterday, so they aren't getting this info.  I'll include it in the April
Update, so they know of Nancy's grief.)

God bless Nancy, Melissa and Karen during their sorrow and may He soon bring
them
brighter days and lighter hearts.  There are very few of us who haven't been
through the ordeal of death  and we know the pain.

E-MAIL LIST CHANGE:

Melissa Swisher Thomas's new e-mail address is:   thom1gc@rnetinc.net.

WILD BUNCH BREAKFAST:

Unfortunately, I missed the last get-together because my daughter, Sarah,
was hospitalized.  However, Linda Burleigh was great to let me know what
happened so I could relay it to you.  The group has been rather small during
our bad winter months, but Februarys attendees were the Branhams, Boners,
Burleighs, Jim Brunnemer and Dan Broyer.

I was told the group planned to celebrate my February birthday and brought a
card and cookies to celebrate.  Mary Frances had to fight the men to save
some of the cookies for me.  Thanks so much for honoring my birthday, even
though the card was a bit snarky with a huge 70th on the front.  However,
the message inside the card was so sweet I forgave the mention of the number
of birthdays behind me.  I keep telling myself it's only a number, and I
can't
possibly be on the 4th Over-the-Hill.  (Don't tell anyone my true age.  Most
believe I'm 50 but running with you older friends.)

Hope more can join the March 10th Wild Bunch Breakfast at Forkey's at 9:00.

MISCELLANEOUS:

I was scanning the Reporter and saw an obituary that caught my eye--mostly
because the deceased's photo looked vaguely familiar.  The name was Cynthia
Cradick, 70, which meant nothing to me so I almost hit the back button.
Then, a name popped out.  It said she was the sister of Rita Mathis
Quick--yes, our Rita Mathis who passed in 1993.  Many of you may remember
Rita's older sister, Cynthia.  I certainly do. Rest in Peace, Cynthia--I
know your reunion with Rita will be joyous.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

(For the next few months, I'm going to be using quotes from an e-mail Russ
Knapp sent me entitled "Dog Quotes."  I believe they are uplifting and that
we Human Dogs can extrapolate from their love and apply it to our lives.)

No matter how little money and how few possessions you have, having a dog
makes you rich.

Dogs share with us the privilege of having a soul.

Dogs do not ruin their sleep worrying about how to keep the objects they
have or to obtain the objects they have not.  There is nothing of value they
have to bequeath except their undying love.

Hugs, karen

FEBRUARY 2014 UPDATE

Well, this is usually the worst month of winter (February) for those of us
who didn't fly south.  I say bring it on so we can begin to dream of Spring
green, sunshine, and warmth.  I've had all the snow and minus zero temps to
last a lifetime.  It's so bad I have to drag my dog outside for bodily
relief and, even then, she never leaves the patio.  My Canadian goose even
uses her hay-filled dog house, and that has never happened before.  Tells me
even geese know the Farmer's Almanac was spot-on.  Enough of my gloomy
complaints and on to happier things.

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Dwight Arthur
February 1
Dearthur5141@sbcglobal.net

Elizabeth Brummett Peterson
February 26
354 S. Webster Ave.
Indy 46219

Janet Sue Brummett, Britton
February 10
Jbritton@bluemarble.net

Jim Brunnemer
February 1
Jimbrunnemer@gmail.com

Billy Joe Craven
February 3
Pecrav@aol.com

Frank Ennis
February 13
F43g48@aol.com

Robert Etter
February 5
Rdetter5009@yahoo.com

Terry Fleener
February 7
Mjfleener47@gmail.com

Steve Koons
February 29
col_steve_koons@yahoo.com   (Note this new e-mail address for Steve)

Karen Lesser Smith
February 15
Klssas740@att.net

Marcia Murphy Bolin
February 13
460 E. Pike St.
Mart. 46151

Stoney Pearcy
February 10
Spearcy643@aol.com

Gary Stafford
February 9
7356 N. Stafford Lane
Mart. 46151

Judy Wolff
February 6
JudyWolff@bellsouth.net

Ruth Woolbright Dunigan
February 3
d.ruthie@yahoo.com

MEDICAL UPDATE:

Bob Barger had a heart attack mid-January and was hospitalized for several
days.  It was a serious attack and not his first.  I received news through
his daughter that he is improving at home.  You can contact Bob at
robertebarger@hotmail.com.  I know he would like to hear from you and know
we are all thinking about and praying for his speedy and total recovery.
Bob, please send me an e-mail at klssas740@att.net or put an update on
Facebook to keep us informed.  We worry.

Richard Hamilton was hospitalized twice last month.  Turns out his flu had
an adverse affect on his lungs and heart and caused dehydration.
Complications of that flu might have caused his pacemaker to malfunction,
but they have that recalibrated and all is well as I type this report.  You
can contact Richard at chuckndi46151@yahoo.com.

Carol Schell Maxwell has gone to live with her daughter in Indy.  Carol
suffers early-stage dementia, and it was decided she could no longer stay
alone.  Dwight Arthur has helped care for Carol and still visits her
regularly.  They enjoy dining out and, in the summer, attending car shows.
Dwight will continue to share our Class news with Carol.  She remembers her
old friends.

Ed Kent's son, Tony, wrote to report Ed is in Grandview Convalescent Center
for physical therapy.  I don't have any further details about his admission,
but we need to think about Ed's issues.  You can write him at Grandview,
East Columbus St. Ext., Martinsville, IN 46151

Bob, Ed, and Richard, please allow me to report in the March Update that all
of you are better than ever.  Carol, know that you, too, are in our thoughts
and prayers for your new life with Lisa and family.

FAMILY DEATH:

Camden Hacker lost his brother, John (75), in January.  Many of you may
remember John and his other brother, Darrell.  We are very sorry for your
loss, Cam.  I talked with Cam's daughter who tells me Cam is blind but lives
alone here in town and does pretty well.  His Updates are going to her so
she can share them with Cam.  Thanks, Lisa, for helping Cam stay connected
with us.  Keep your chin up, Cam.  May God very soon bring you a lighter
heart and brighter days.

BREAKFAST WILD BUNCH:

Ten classmates and five guests attended the January 13 breakfast.  Bob
Elliott's step-brother, Bud Tackett, sat with us and the men swapped lies at
one end of the table.  Come join us if you can the second Monday of every
month.  Next gathering will be February 10.

MISCELLANEOUS INFO:

Our Class lovebirds, Mary Frances (Pope) and Curt Boner celebrate 50 years
of wedded bliss on February 1.  They had their first date at our senior prom
and the rest is history.  They have three children, 12 grandchildren, and
four great-grandchildren.  Curt and Mary celebrated this auspicious occasion
in July 2013 with an Alaskan cruise vacation, spending several days in
Seattle (boo Seahawks).  Congrats, Mary and Curt.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

"If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind,
of what, then, is an empty desk a sign?"
Albert Einstein

Love to all,
karen

JANUARY 2014 UPDATE

Happy, happy New Year to you all.  May 2014 bring you health and contentment
and may it keep steadfast friends together.

First off, thanks to those of you who sent me Christmas wishes by card or
e-mail.  And thanks, also, to those who included money for the snail-mail
fund.  I am flattered and appreciative that you include me on your card
list.  It says you are thinking of me.  I count you among my very best
friends.  Thanks, also, for the kind words from many of you about my role as
MHS Class of '62 Social Secretary.  It is an honor for me to serve in that
capacity.

In a note I received from Jody Nutter Lasiter, she mentioned youthful
memories.  I thought her ending statement was very on-point:  "Some good
memories and some bad but thank God for all of them!"  I hope each of you
feel this way about your road.

HAPPY JANUARY BIRTHDAY WISHES:

Marty Akard Short
Jan. 12
Marty11190@yahoo.com

Ginny Fulford Watts
Jan. 12
449 S. Graham
Mart. 46151

Judy Hacker Fraker
Jan. 14
gaminggrandma@yahoo.com

Kenny Hacker
Jan. 9
Kennethhacker@centurytel.net

Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham
Jan. 9
1040 S. Ohio St.
Mart. 46151

Frances Hatley
Jan. ?
1398 Shiloh Rd.
Mart. 46151

Diana Hatter Tolley
Jan. 3
Dtolley@indy.net

Bob Lanham
Jan. 30
1040 S. Ohio St.
Mart. 46151

Don Plummer
Jan. 4
42 Sunset Manor Dr.
Mart. 46151

Connie Shields Lowry
Jan. 16
9348 E. Southport Rd.
Indy 46259

John Stewart
Jan. 22
Kjstew@scican.net

Happy birthday to you.  Happy birthday to you.  Happy birthday, may God
bless you.  Happy birthday to you.

HEALTH UPDATES:

GLENN SHEEKS -- had some problems in Dec.  Bev and the kids thought he had a
stroke, but IU Health said it was a bacterial blood infection in his lung.
He still has to go for antibiotic infusions to get his white blood cell
count down.  They also found some heart issues and he needs to see a
cardiologist.  Bev promises to keep me advised so I can do the same for all
you.

As if that wasn't enough, this all transpired a day after he learned of his
brother's death.  He wasn't even allowed to attend his service.  Robert
Sheeks was 78 years old and was a 1954 graduate of MHS.  His wife Gloria and
two children survive.  If you remember, Glenn lost his sister Janet several
months ago.  Beverly said "when it rains it pours," but she maintains a
positive attitude toward Glenn's physical and mental health.  With her
support and the support of his children, I know Glenn will weather the
storms.  Put Glenn on your prayer list.

GRACE COOPER BEATTIE -- I sent e-mail folks an update on Grace Cooper
Beattie earlier in Dec.  For those of you on snail mail, here is what I sent
to the Class.

"Dear friends:  I am cutting and pasting part of Bob Beattie's (Grace
Cooper's husband) year-end update below.  Bob stays in touch with me for
Gracie.  Thank you so much, Bob, for keeping Grace connected with us.  As
you can see, Grace's Alzheimer's is worsening, yet she maintains her spirit
and spirituality.  There are others of us suffering from this disease and
other afflictions.  Pray for them all.  God bless our friends far and wide
struggling today with any of life's tribulations.  If we keep each other
close to our hearts, the pain may be lessened for us all.  karen

**********************************************************************

Hi Karen
Hope you are well. When I asked Grace what I should email to you she
replied: She appreciates the staff at the Ellington, has made friends there,
she participates in everything to keep moving and socializing, attends both
exercise classes per week.
I missed sending our letter last year mainly due to stress during the months
prior to the end of Jan'13 when Grace moved to a retirement home. I realized
then that I could not cope; the Alzheimer's disease was taking its toll. She
settled into the Ellington within about 2 months appreciating the caring
staff, good meals and much social interaction. I phone daily to ensure she
is up for breakfast, at which time we pray for healing from asthma as the
choking is frightening for her. We are hoping to start a prayer group there
to pray for each other, not relying solely on ministry staff.  Our focus now
is on our grandchildren. Grace has 4 natural grandchildren and in total we
have 18..."

VIRGINIA TOON WOODALL -- Ginny tells me her hernia surgery was a great
success and, as a result, she now has a waistline.  Her colon cancer is in
remission.  Her next PET scan will be in April, so let's pray it is clear
for her.  Good news all around, Ginny.  We need to hear good things to
counter-balance some of the not-so-good I report.

JOHN STEWART -- was home for Christmas.  He stopped by to visit and I am
pleased to report he is doing so much better in every way.  The insertion of
a pace maker and clearing clogged carotid arteries made all the difference.
Now that his brain gets oxygen, his memory and speech are back to almost
normal.  Way to go, John.

FAMILY DEATH:

Mary Frances Pope Boner lost her sister-in-law on Christmas Eve.  Many of
you will remember her brother, Ernie Pope, who graduated in 1959.  Curt and
Mary had just arrived in Florida when they got  word and will fly home on
New Year's Day.  Our thoughts and prayers are with Ernie and Mary and the
entire family.  Deaths are always devastating but I believe worsened when
they occur at a holiday.

CLASS DISTRIBUTION LIST UPDATES:

It appears we have lost Missy Swisher Thomas, as I have  received mail
failure notices for the past two months.   I hope she will miss receiving
our communications and call me with updated contact info.

Roger Coffin, Jean Szatkowski Morgan's cousin, shared Jean's home address
with me and asked that I send her snail-mail.  She is in Port St. Lucie, FL.
Jean, that explains why you are getting this Update out of the blue.  If you
(or any of you) don't wish to be connected for any reason, just call me at
765 315 0397 or write to klssas740@att.net or 740 E. Washington St., Mart.
46151, to let me know that.  The last thing I want to do is annoy anyone
with unwanted spam.

And speaking of Updates, I asked last month for comments about format,
length, content, improvement, change, etc., of these monthly notes.  I also
asked to be notified if you are receiving the class info but wish not to be
included or if you wish to change the format in which you receive the info
(from or to snail/e-mail).  Not one comment was received.  I can't believe
there are no suggestions for change.  However, hearing nothing from you in
the future, my mailings will remain unchanged.

BREAKFAST BUNCH:

Your next chance to touch souls will be Monday, Jan. 13, 9:00, at Forkeys.
Unfortunately, because of family illness, I missed the December brunch, as
did a few other regulars.  However, Linda Burleigh told me there were about
ten attendees and that Austin Gray and his wife, Chyrel, and Sonnie Myers
Gano attended for the first time.  I am truly sorry I missed them and hope
they will join us again in January.  Laughing with long-time friends will be
a good way to begin the New Year, so try to share an hour of your time on
the 13th.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

A conscience is what hurts when all other parts feel good.
Ambition is a poor excuse for not having enough sense to be lazy.
If at first you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried.

Love you all,                      karen

 

 

DECEMBER 2013 UPDATE

I wait all year to open with these words:  MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW
YEAR to all of you.  I love this season and all its glitter and tinsel.  I
just wish everyone in the world were as blessed as I am.  I pray you all can
say the same thing--in spite of any problems in your life.  I mustn't forget
to also wish you a thoughtfully reverent Pearl Harbor Day.  Ours is the last
generation for whom that notation on the calendar will really be meaningful.
Living through something like that is different than hearing about its
horrors from family.  No, we weren't yet living, but our parents and
grandparents were leading the charge, and because of their courage we share
great freedom.  God bless that entire generation--it was the greatest!!
And, as an afterthought, welcome to Winter on the 21st.  We may not joyously
celebrate that event, but we should at least acknowledge it.  At least after
the 21st we can begin counting down to Spring.

DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Grace Cooper Beattie
Dec. 14
10 Brady Lane, Guelph
Ontario, Canada N1L1A3

DeeAnn Evans Little
Dec. 28
9530 E. 300 N.
Whitestown, IN  46075

Russell Knapp
Dec. 3
Hrussknapp@yahoo.com

Sue Weddle Myers
Dec. 8
180 N. Second St.
Martinsville 46151

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH OF OUR DECEMBER HONOREES!!

CLASSMATE MILESTONES:

Betty and Paul Wilson celebrated 51 years in November and profess they are
still in love.  Way to go.

I mentioned last month that Connie and Larry Martin celebrated their 50th in
Hawaii with children and had a marvelous time.  They also held an open house
for friends on Nov. 30.

Congratulations to all our Class friends who are hovering around the 50th
mark.  What a privilege to celebrate such an auspicious occasion.

CLASS GREETINGS:

Marvin and Deanna Henderson are now snuggled into their Ocala, FL, home and
report the weather has been great.  (Who cares!)  They said they miss the
Breakfast Club meetings and hope some day to get back home and visit us
again.  While I miss knowing they are close, I am very happy for their
change in direction.  Their new address is 5564 Northwest 64th St., Ocala
34482, and they invite any of the Snow Birds to contact them if in the area.

SPEAKING OF BREAKFAST BUNCH --

Fifteen people attended the November session.  Those were Don/Linda
Burleigh, Jim/Joyce Branham, Bob/Catherine Etter, Curt/Mary Boner,
Joyce/Richard Hamilton, Tura LaMar, Dan Broyer, Sharon Quakenbush, Jim
Brunnemer and me.  It was Sharon's last day with us for a while, as she and
Perry sprout wings and head for FL after Thanksgiving.  Join our fun group
the second Monday of every month at 9:00 at Forkeys.  You won't be sorry.

OTHER SNOW BIRD DEPARTURES:

Curt and Mary will head for Florida the end of December.  They only stay a
few weeks, but at least they can replenish their tans.  Otherwise, though,
they promised to spend the cold winter months here in Indiana with me.  Made
me feel better to know I won't be alone.

Also, Jim and Becky Rusie will fly away in early January for the duration of
cold days.

Safe travels to everyone who is migrating.  I'm sure there are more who are
leaving but too embarrassed to admit they can't take winter's adversity any
more.

HEALTH UPDATES:

John Stewart successfully completed heart surgery and is feeling much
better.  John is very private and didn't want us to know anything until it
was over and he could report good  things.  John, we are all thrilled you
are feeling better.  Come home soon to visit at the Breakfast Bunch.

Mike Myers called to say he is still on chemo and probably always will be
because cessation of that allows his lung tumor to grow.  He seems to be
faring well with his treatments and, as always, has a marvelous attitude.
His wife, Cathy, also recently received treatment for cervical cancer, but
he reports she is CLEAR now.

 Jim Branham came to the Nov. Breakfast Bunch for the first time in too
long.  They are changing his medication, and it seems to be helping
according to Jim and Joyce and what I observed at breakfast.  Keep on
trucking, Jim.

Many of us, named and otherwise, are struggling with health issues.  Keep
them in mind and in your prayers.  We should always pray one for the other.

CLASSMATE'S FAMILY LOSS:

I learned too late to announce that Bobby Elliott lost his mother, Maxine
Tackett, on November 22.  By the time I learned of it, services were passed.
Bob had two brothers and a cousin raised as his sister.  Maxine also had
nine grandchildren and twenty great grandchildren.  Bob, please accept this
condolence from all of your Class friends.  May God soon bring you and your
family lighter hearts and brighter days.

DISTRIBUTION LIST PURGING:

Every year I ask for commitments from e-mail and snail-mail recipients of
Class info (135 of you) to "renew" their yearly subscription.  This year,
beginning now, I'm going to do something different.  Instead of asking for
personal commitments, I will merely ask for notification if you WISH TO BE
DROPPED FROM THE LIST.  Therefore, if you don't let me know you want to be
dropped, you will continue to receive our spam.  Thanks for helping keep our
list current and active and delivered to only those who want it.

Not only do I want commitments for receipt, I would welcome suggestions for
improvement, additions, deletions, content, format, length, frequency, etc.
Please send me a brief message of any comments you have about our
communications.  I don't get paid for this except the privilege of adding
value for our Class coherence.  I most assuredly want the communication to
be in a format that pleases most, if not all, of you.  Speak now or forever
hold your peace.

FUNNY MEMORIES:

Jim Brunnemer shared these stories:  Seeing Rocky Cohen's name in the BD
list brought back a happy memory.  Remember when Mark, Norris Griffin, and
Robby Sparks drove around town, with Norris in the trunk with his
arm--covered with ketchup dripping off--hanging out of the closed trunk?
Jim seems to remember a M'Ville gendarme--possibly Dingbat
Lingle--red-lighted them.

Jim also remembers the fake fights Norris, Robby and Mark used to stage.  He
also remembers when they went to the big theater on the square, crumpled a
popcorn sack into a ball, attached an almost invisible string to it, and
threw it in the middle of the aisle.  When little children approached, they
jerked the string and bag and scared the crap out of the little ones.

Seems to me as if Norris, Robby and Mark (and possibly Jim was more than the
professed bystander) were Class ignominious delinquents of whom we should
not be proud.  Boys, I sincerely hope you have reformed.

(Speaking of Robby, I have a lead on his whereabouts and hope to report next
month
that he is reconnected with all of us.  He's been missing since he left us
after our
junior year.  I remember how funny he was.)

Please share your funny memories with me for the Update.  We all need to
laugh.

MORE GREAT TRUTHS THAT WE HAVE LEARNED:

Raising teenagers is like nailing jelly to a tree;
Families are like fudge--mostly sweet with a few nuts;
Wrinkles don't hurt;
Today's mighty oak is just yesterday's nut that held its ground;
Laughing is good exercise--it's like jogging on the inside;

Four stages of life:

You believe in Santa; you don't believe in Santa; you are Santa; you look
like Santa.

Love to all,               karen

 

 

NOVEMBER 2013 UPDATE

Happy Veterans Day, Election Day, Daylight-Saving-Time-Ends Day, and

Thanksgiving Day to all of you during November.  (I'm not mentioning the
not-so-happy property tax  collection day.)  I sincerely hope each of you
have a month full of faith, family, fun and festivities in whatever form you
enjoy.  Richard Young pointed out that many in our Class flock are now
spreading wings for their Snow-Bird migration, and he reminded me to wish
all of those travelers a safe trip and happy winter in warmer climes.  Your
devoted Class Social Secretary will remain in cold Martinsville so as to
keep you informed of local news and keep us connected.  I just pray all of
my news is good.  I've had to report the loss of eight of our Class friends
since the 50th reunion--which means we have lost 50 friends who walked the
hallowed halls of MHS.  That is terribly depressing.  Please share with me
good news, no matter how small it may seem, so that I can pass along.  We
need some sunshine to brighten the cloudy days.

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Mark Cohen
November 17
Artesianborn@yahoo.com

Jim Ham
November 1
j.ham44@yahoo.com

Jack Hammack
November 30
P.O. Box 1055
Martinsville 46151

Barbara Hicks Richardson
November 10
Indianatitle_searchingservice_829@comcast.net

Larry Martin
November 30
Lpmartin3590@comcast.net

John Russell
November 10
Johnr6776@att.net

Marcia Short Schweitzer
November 26
Marciaschweitzer@hotmail.com

Charles Vogus
November 3
Charlesvo@ymail.com

Richard Walters
November 23
Richjenwalters@sbcglobal.net

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OUR NOVEMBER CELEBRANTS!!

FOUND CLASSMATES:

Several of you read the newspaper article submitted after our 51st reunion,
which included a list of those friends we had lost track of or from whom we
had not had any contact.  Thanks so much to those folks who are helping us
pull our "lost sheep" back into our fold.

Becky Bock gave me addresses for Virginia Haviland Hamblen and Frances
Hatley Fisher.  Kay Selch brought us Austin Gray and Ronnie Asher.  Linda
Fisher Phillips brought Greg Phillips back to our monthly update list.  That
brings our snail mail distribution list to 50 and our e-mail list to 85 for
a total class distribution of 135.

We are adding Cam Hacker to our snail-mail list this month for the first
time and hope he enjoys being reconnected with us.  Sue Etchison, from the
Class of 1961, brought him back to us.  Sue tells me Cam has lost his sight
so misses out on many of life's activities.  If anyone here in town has
extra time, stop in to visit with Cam at 739 North Mulberry Street.  I am
told he is very lonely.  God bless your struggles, Cam.  She also gave me
info on Sue Mason Hill.


Karen's Editorial Comment to All:

If you have been added to e-mail or snail mail without your permission and
wish NOT to be receiving our Class news, please contact me in any of these
ways and let me know that fact.  I promise I will remove you from any
further contact.  The last thing I want to do is bother anyone with unwanted
"spam."

Karen Smith
740 E. Washington St.
Martinsville 46151
765 315 0397
Klssas740@att.net

LOST CLASSMATES:

Pursuant to the newspaper article looking for missing friends, I got three
sad reports.  Linda Fisher Phillips called to report that she is a distant
cousin of Delbert Means and that she is certain he has passed but didn't
know when.  Our Class historian, Steve Koons, checked the Army death website
and found a Delbert L. Means who passed in May 1993 in Kansas.  This person
enlisted in the Army in 1961, and Delbert left the hallowed halls that year
to enlist.  Pretty sure this is our Delbert.

Kay Selch reported that George Watkins was also deceased.  I checked out
this info with George's step-brother, and he confirmed George passed two
years ago.

I have added those souls to our poster of deceased Class friends, which now
numbers 50 of which we are aware.  So sorry to report that.

Those on the e-mail distribution list know that we lost David Mason on
October 16.  For those on snail mail, I am enclosing my e-mail obituary in
the event you missed it in the local paper.  David attended the 50th reunion
and seemed pretty good considering he has been struggling with Parkinson's
for almost twenty years.  Our Class bouquet was sent to
Carlisle-Branson--red/blue carnations tied in red/blue ribbon with one white
carnation in the center to honor David's spirit.  Several people attended
the calling on behalf of the Class of 1962.  So sad!!

HAPPY CELEBRATIONS:

Linda and Don Burleigh celebrated their 47th anniversary in Oct.  Gary and
Sarah Stafford celebrated 50 in Sept. Larry and Peggy (Denny) Martin will
have their Golden on Nov. 27.  However, they already celebrated for eight
days in Hawaii with their three children and compliments of their children.
Wow, what a great anniversary present.  Larry said it was a "blessed" event.
He also noted he will turn 70 on Nov. 30 and his voice had a tone of
incredulity as he mentioned that.  Join the rest of us Larry as we have
passed or soon will pass this mark on life's calendar.

Way to go, folks.  Congratulations to all our happily married Class friends.

ILLNESS UPDATES:

Rick Blunk's son, Ricky, suffered a stroke in Oct.  He is facing many months
of rehabilitation.  We all pray Ricky comes out of this with no permanent
damage.  God bless Rick and his family during this time of worry and
concern.  Rick can be reached at Richard_blunk@yahoo.com.

Linda Fisher Phillips' MS is at least not worse since I last reported.
Linda stays active with family and church and has a marvelous attitude about
her aches and pains.  She attended the 50th and looked great.  We were all
so glad to see her after 50 years.

Ed Kent was in the hospital I early Oct. with bronchitis.  He is now home
and said he would like to be more involved with our Class activities, but
said "father time has not been good to this old body."  Ed, many of us can
say that but we cannot give into that.

Mary Anderson seems a bit better.  Docs are fiddling with her meds to
achieve maximum efficacy.  Mary struggles with breathing problems, among
other things.  Mary stays in touch with me and has a marvelous attitude
toward life and her health frailties.

To all of these folks and everyone else reading this, keep on keeping on.
Don't give in to Father Time's and Mother Nature's attempts to melt us down.

MISCELLANEOUS CONTACTS:

Eddie Underly wrote me in October to say: "I am looking forward to a long
time of contacts with all my classmate friends from Martinsville.  My heart
has always been there with all of you.  They always say, 'You can't go
home,'
but I have never left."  We just hope Ed will join us for our 52nd reunion.
His address is 15402 SW Pioneer Drive, Willamina, OR 97396.  Ed has
registered on our website (http://www.martinsvillein1962.com/) and updated
his profile if you want to learn more about his life since he left the
'Ville.  Many of us have active updates on the site.

WEBSITE:

I want to take a paragraph to remind you to register, if you haven't, on the
website or, if you have, check it regularly for updates.  More photos have
been added, more profiles updated, more information on Class friends shared.
Just this week I handed Jane several new photos to include, so be watching
for those.  They are of Central School's illustrious Class of '62 students.
As of this writing, 61 Class friends have completed profile information.  If
you have a computer, you should register and enjoy this Class communicator.
Thanks again, Jane, for making this possible!!

REUNION WRAP-UP:

All reunion photo orders have been filled.  If you paid for but didn't
receive your correct order, contact me immediately so we can put a tracer on
your pictures.

MORE GREAT TRUTHS THAT CHILDREN HAVE LEARNED:

Never hold a dust-buster and a cat at the same time.
You can't hide broccoli in a glass of milk.
Don't wear polka-dot underwear under white shorts.
The best place to be when you're sad is grandma(pa)'s lap.

Love to everyone.  karen

 

 

OCTOBER 2013 - Class Update

In the 'Ville, the weather is fall-ish, which means we are preparing for

Fall Foliage Festival activities and Halloween.  The summer has been great
here, and we hope that bodes for a mild and short winter with lots of
physically, emotionally, and mentally healing sunshine.   Seasonal affective
disorder (SAD) tries to defeat me during the winter months, so I am diligent
to defend against it.  Those of you in sunshine states wouldn't understand
that malady, but, trust me, it is real and it can be debilitating.  I offer
a toast to the Sun God!

CLASS BIRTHDAYS:

Jim Barrick
October 20
67 Laveianan Ct,
Mart. 46151

Lorraine Dunn Richardson
October 7
Rainrich@sbcglobal.net

Richard Hamilton
October 1
Chuckndi46151@yahoo.com

Alice Lehr Hornaday
October 30
14 E. Main St.
Mooresville 46158

Mike Myers
October 14
Mmyers001@ma.rr.com

Becky Pratt Bock
October 1
Obbk41@yahoo.com

Glenn Sheeks
October 10
Glennsheeks@sbcglobal.net

Tish Sunderman Haskett
October 6
Tishhaskett@gmail.com

Judy Tapp Sidebottom
October 9
Dad_mom_99@yahoo.com

           A very happy birthday to all of these Class friends on their
special day.

HAPPY OCCASIONS:

Judy Garrett and Paul Knose celebrated 50 years of wedded bliss in
September.  Congratulations honey-mooners.

HEALTH UPDATES:

Marvin Grimes stopped by in Sept.  He has some breathing issues but those
don't slow him down.  He was on his Harley, and he and his son were enjoying
a beautiful Sunday with the wind in their faces and bugs in their teeth.
Marvin seemed well.

DeWayne White also stopped briefly to ask if the reunion was a success.  He
and Diana were out of town with a grandson's sports team.  As a matter of
fact, many of those who responded they could not attend the reunion
indicated it was grandchildren activities that took priority.

Dan Broyer also stopped in.  He registered to attend the reunion but it
wasn't a good day for his energy level.  While he is no longer taking chemo,
it still lingers in his body and causes fatigue.  They tell him it might
take a year before he feels more like his old self.  Don't give up, Dan.

Talked with Mary Anderson, who was one who couldn't attend reunion.
She is seeing an orthopedist about arthritic knee issues.  She will not
have surgery at this time but will try intense therapy and exercise to keep
her more mobile.  This coupled with other health issues makes it hard for
her to make plans even a day ahead of time.  She said she will shoot for
next year's reunion.  Good luck, Mary.

CLASS BREAKFAST:

The Monday Morning Munch Bunch were pleased that some new faces were in the
group.  Bill Craven was in from Florida.  He and Portia drove to the 'Ville
on Sunday from Pigeon Forge to visit family.  While they couldn't make the
reunion, we were pleased Bill joined the breakfast group.  He arrived in his
fully restored 1939 Grassyfork Fisheries delivery truck.  (I'm sending a
photo to Jane for the website.)  Bill Fulford and Steve Koons also joined us
for the first time.  It was like a continuation of the reunion.

Remember to mark your calendar for the second Monday of every month,
Forkey's,
9:00, for this rowdy affair.  Next gathering will be October 14, which is
the day after the FFF Parade.  Come join us if you want to begin your week
with a smile.  We never know who will walk through the door.

MISCELLANEOUS NOTES:

My home is located at 740 E. Washington Street on the parade route.  I offer
an invitation to family friends to join me for the parade activities.  I
furnish chili (both chicken and hamburger), cheese & crackers, corn bread,
veggies, dessert, and iced tea.  Food contributions aren't requested or
necessary but would be consumed if added to the smorgasbord.  Please accept
this invitation to enjoy the parade with us on Sunday, Oct. 14, beginning at
1:00.

Bob Etter called in response to the reunion wrap-up letter soon to be
published in the local paper.  Bob said Kenny Lewis has passed, although he
doesn't remember exactly when. That makes 47 friends lost so far as we can
ascertain.  Bummer!

REUNION RECAP:

I am enclosing a copy of the group photo and post-reunion newspaper article
for all snail-mail recipients and earlier sent e-mail recipients the same
info. Wish more could have shared the love with us.  Six classmates who had
sent reservations didn't come, which was a disappointment.   Maybe next year
there won't be so many calendar conflicts.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

For the next few issues, I am closing with "Great Truths That Little
Children Have Learned."  I hope these make you smile.  Do not be embarrassed
if some of you adults are learning these for the first time.  It's never too
late for intellectual growth.

No matter how hard you try, you can't baptize cats.
When your Mom is mad at your Dad, don't let her brush your hair.
If your sibling hits you, don't hit back.  They always catch the second
person.
You can't trust dogs to watch your food.
Don't sneeze when someone is cutting your hair.

Love to everyone -- karen


 

AUGUST/SEPTEMBER  2013 - CLASS UPDATE - KAREN

 

It's county fair time, so it must be time for the August Update.  That event
is our only holiday for the month.  I'll be there with bells on and hope to
run into many of you locals.  Some of this month's Update will be devoted to
the soon-to-be-enjoyed 51st reunion.  In fact, for you snail mail folks, a
registration is enclosed.  For e-mail participants, it is included as an
attachment to your copy.  I WILL NEED TO RECEIVE THIS FORM AND YOUR CHECK BY
AUGUST 26 IN ORDER TO SUBMIT A PROPER LUNCH HEADCOUNT TO THE CATERER.  I
would be thrilled if all 129 of us who are connected could attend, although
I know that can't happen.  Too much geographical distance separates some of
us.  But, if you possibly can, please join in the festivities.

Also, I am including the September birthday list with this August Update.  I
will not send a September Update.  Rather, the October Update will include
info on the reunion and all other catch-up news.

BIRTHDAY HONOREES FOR AUGUST AND SEPTEMBER:

Mary Anderson
August 5
Jelliebaby@hotmail.com

Bob Barger
August 19
Robertebarger@hotmail.com

Don Burleigh
August 30
Furr1944@live.com

Dave Chandler
August 17
Jac49@att.net

Richard Cramer
August 23
Brcramer@att.net

Judy Fraker Ford
August 23
Jford1260@att.net

Linda Gibbs Gehring
August 4
Lgehring@talktotucker.com

John Jones
August 1
Mgoss@jwjonescompany.com

Dave Mason
August 21
Judijammer@aol.com

Ellen Miller Little
August 19
Relittle44@gmail.com

Sonnie Myers Gano
August 28
Sondra.gano@comcast.net

Kay Selch
August 22
260 N. Grant St.
Martinsville 46151

Karen Wilson Brummett
August 27
Kbrummett@morgancounty.in.gov

SEPTEMBER BIRTHDAYS:

Brent Boner
September 14
Donboner95@yahoo.com

Joyce Bowman Branham
September 1
Jim.branham44@gmail.com

Carol Dow Teague
September 5
d.c.Teague@comcast.net

Janet Elmore Donoho
September 3
Donohos7@verizon.net

Joyce Favour Greenwalt
September 17
Thegreenwalts@indy.rr.com

Judy Garrett Knose
September 1
Knose2002@aol.com

Marvin Grimes
September 18
2004 N. Auburn
Indy 46224

Steve McIlwain
September 27
Mcilwainstephen@gmail.com

Jody Nutter Lasiter
September 7
Jody944@sbcglobal.net

Mike O'Neal
September 2
219 W. Pike St., Apt. 205
Martinsville 46151

Bob Riffel
September 14
Rifraft2@aol.com

Chuck Ritter
September 18
Crittercove940@aol.com

Virginia Toon Woodall
September 24
3269 Clary Circle, N. Drive
Greenwood 46143

Karen Wampler
September 10
216 S. Marion St., Apt. 1
Martinsville 46151

Nick Zoller
September 13
Wnz@netzero.com

Wow, a lot of us entered this world in August and September, 1943 or 1944.
I wonder why so many of our parents were amorous in the previous nine
months?  I'm positive it had something to do with the WW II Baby Boomer
Syndrome.  Mark your calendars with these birth dates so you can contact
your friend on their special day.  HAPPY, HAPPY UPCOMING BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF
YOU!

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

Jim Rusie's new e-mail address is jfrusie@yahoo.com.

GET-WELL WISH:

Glenn Sheeks' wife, Beverly, who is an adopted Class of '62 member, had
surgery mid-July for breast cancer.  I believe she is doing well and hope
she and Glenn will join us on the 7th.  Doctors believe they got all cancer.
Our prayers are with you, Glenn and Bev.  If you would like to send Bev a
thinking-of-you note, write to glennsheeks@sbcglobal.net.  God bless your
total and lasting recovery, Bev.

Received a welcomed call from Mike Myers on Monday last.  Mike said he is
back on chemo for three treatments of very strong medication because the
tumor in his lung continues to grow.  However, his PET scan shows the cancer
hasn't spread to any other body part, which is great.  Mike cannot join our
reunion because he will be attending his grandson's graduation from boot
camp, and Mike promised him he would attend if at all physically possible.
He asked me to send his regrets to our group and hopes everyone understands
his priorities.  As always, Mike's attitude is upbeat and he won't give in
to the cancer.  Way to go, Mike.  God bless you.  You are loved by all your
class friends.
TRAVEL NEWS:

By the time you receive this update, Mary Frances and Curt Boner will be
home from a 14-day Alaskan cruise, plus a trip to Seattle to end the
vacation.  I'm positive they will mention it at the reunion.  What a
wonderful gift to give each other.

Linda and Gordon Phillips spent the July 4 weekend camping in West Virginia
for a family reunion.  Linda said 31 plus people attended and they had a
wonderful time reconnecting.  How fun!!

MONDAY MORNING BREAKFAST BUNCH:

Received a note from Portia Craven.  She and Bill will be attending a car
show in Pigeon Forge during our reunion, so regrettably can't attend, But,
they will come home on the 8th and hope to meet with our breakfast bunch on
Monday, September 9, 9:00 at Forkey's Restaurant on East Morgan St.  It
would be wonderful to visit with them on that day, and I hope that comes to
fruition.  We haven't seen them since they moved to Florida many years ago.
REMINDER:  Put the second Monday of every month on your calendars for this
impromptu Class event.  It really is a great way to spend an hour or so
every month.  Next one will be Monday, August 12.

ELEMENTARY PHOTO ID:

Thanks to Rick Blunk, Linda Fisher Phillips, Kay Selch, Gini Fulford Cragen,
Sharon Fraker Bales, and Bob Elliott for helping to identify our mystery
class.  Unfortunately, no one was positive about some of the kids.  I'm
bringing the photo and all the guesses to the reunion for group discussion.
I don't suppose we will ever be certain about all of them, but it would be
nice to have a close idea for the website.  We can't even come to consensus
on the teacher.  Rick Blunk said "I'm pretty damned sure I'm No. 23."
Thanks to all of you for helping with this project.

REUNION INFO:

As mentioned, your registrations are included in this Update.  Directions to
Bob's Park are on the registration.  I sincerely hope by now I have made you
all aware of pertinent facts.  Come prepared to have a great time with
wonderful OLD FRIENDS.
    Renda Trimble, our caterer for last year's picnic, will once again
provide our lunch.  That will be served between noon and 1:00 but will be
available for "grazing" during the afternoon.  She will bring
all-you-can-eat pulled pork sandwiches, baked beans, potato salad, chips,
dessert, and iced tea.  Renda is a great cook and I know you won't be
disappointed with her meal.  She will receive $9 of your $10 fee and the
other $1 will purchase ice, table service, and decorations.  I don't think
you can eat home-made food very many places for $10.  (Make checks payable
to "Class of 1962.")
    But, as always, if money is a factor in your decision to attend, PLEASE
tell me (anonymous, of course) so the Class treasury can pay your meal.  We
need your attendance much more than we need your $10.  Just call me at the
above number, send an e-mail to klssas740@att.net, or write me at 740 E.
Washington St. to request financial assistance.
    Connie Etter, Bob's daughter-in-law, has graciously agreed to be our
on-site photographer again this year.  She will shoot the group photo and
impromptu group shots.  She will provide the photos in a booklet as a
birthday gift to Bob.  She  promises that will be cheap to us.  The one she
did last year was superb.  But, if you only want the group photo, you can
buy that one without the booklet.  How neat to have our very own
professional photographer spend the day recording our memories.

Please call me at 765 315 0397 if you have any questions about the reunion.

JIM'S BOOK SIGNING:

About 30 people joined Jim for his book signing on the 27th.   Honored
guests and Jim's long-time friends were Sam Alford, retired coach and member
of IN Basketball Hall of Fame, and Garry Donna, publisher of Hoosier
Basketball Magazine and member of IN Basketball Hall of Fame.  Hope each of
you can read "The Hoosier Game."

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

Provided by John Wooden via Jim Brunnemer:  "If they start arresting
Christians, I hope there is enough evidence to convict me."  Amen.

Love to all,                    karen
 

 

July 2013 Class Update - Karen

 

Happy Fourth of July!  Thank you from the bottom of our hearts to you

Veterans.  Thankfully, Eddie Neal is the only one of us who paid the
ultimate price for our freedom, although many of you suffer various issues
brought about by your service.  God bless you all.  Everyone, please have a
fun and safe 4th holiday, fly the flag, and remember our veterans.

JULY BIRTHDAYS

Judy Brummett Cross
July 28
781 Timber Dr.
Martinsville

Don Clay
July 18
Donlinda3000@yahoo.com

Don Donoho
July 22
43-18 Lesina Dr.
Lake Elizabeth, CA 93532

Linda Drake Davidson
July 2
2810 Old St. Rd. 37 N.
Martinsville

Marilyn Dyer Hornberger
July 5
hornberger9@comcast.net

Sharon Fraker Bales
July 15
1140 E. Morgan St.
Martinsville

Betty Maners Wilson
July 24
potteryme@aol.com

Mary Pope Boner
July 28
Squirtb635@aol.com

Lila Pruett White
July 7
Lilapruettwhite@comcast.net

Sharon Robertson Anderson
July 29
Shar44don38@yahoo.com

Melissa Swisher Thomas
July 18
Thom1gc@phenxt.com

Richard Young
July 11
Richardconnieyoung@gmail.com

A WONDERFULLY HAPPY SPECIAL DAY TO ALL OUR HONOREES.

BREAKFAST CLUB

Those of you who could attend our monthly breakfasts but don't are missing
an enjoyable event.  We generally have between 12-15 folks show up.  Some
are regulars but almost every month someone new joins us.   Mark your
calendars for the second Monday of every month at 9:00 at Forkey's.

REUNION

Speaking of calendar dates, remember Saturday, September 7, 2013, 11:00 to
?, Bob Etter's Park for our 51st reunion.  The same lady who catered last
year's picnic will once again furnish a picnic lunch for us.  Class will
furnish iced tea and bottled water; any other liquid you will want to bring.
Might want to bring yard chairs, too.  Sitting in the yard looking over the
lake is a wonderful way to spend a day with dear friends.  In the August
Update, I will ask for reservation commitments for the meal.  Of course, you
don't have to eat--you can bring munchies.  The important thing is to be
there or be square.

MISCELLANEOUS INFO

Received a call from Janet and Don Donoho in early June.  Janet relayed they
were evacuated from their home on June 1 (didn't return until June 5)
because of horrendous wild fires around their home.  Thanks to firemen,
volunteers, and forest service folks, their home was spared, even though
houses just down the block were destroyed.  Thank you Janet and Don for
sharing good news with us.  Hope by this time you are back to a semblance of
normalcy.

Not so good news is that Marvin and Deanna Henderson plan a permanent move
to Florida in the near future.  Marvin joins us at breakfast club.  We will
miss him.

(THIS PARAGRAPH IS FOR CENTRAL SCHOOL GRADUATES, ONLY.  THE REST OF YOU CAN
SKIP ON DOWN.)  Last time Marvin brought a photo of a Central School
elementary class in which he was pictured.  We had a great time trying to
identify those in the class, including the teacher.  For snail-mail folks,
I'm
enclosing a copy of that photo.  For computer users, it is on the website
and Mary Frances Pope Boner sent it to you  electronically.  Please send me
your ideas of the identities of the little tykes.  What I did was start on
the top row far left as you face the photo and numbered 1 (Ruth Ann Linville
(?)) -- 38 (Steve Carrell).  (This doesn't count the teacher in middle--who
is she?  Rick Blunk's money is on Mrs. Snyder.)  If you do that, you can
send me the number and corresponding identification.  Once we have
identified all we can, Jane will post names with the photo on the website.
Some (Dick Elmore, Rick Blunk, Stony, Bill Price, Sammy Weaver, Marcia
Short, to name a few) were readily obvious to me.  Some of the others are a
mystery.  Help us, please.

Carol Dow Teague tells me she and Janet Brummett Britton and husbands will
travel to Gatlinburg, TN, over the July 4th weekend to spend a week of fun
and frivolity.  Have a wonderful trip, folks.

Sonnie (Myers) and Walter Gano celebrate their 50th this month.  Way to go!
To honor this milestone, they are flying to Montreal and then cruising the
St. Lawrence Seaway on Holland America (thank heavens not Carnival) and
visiting other parts of Canada.  Coming home they will route through Maine
and Boston.  I'm so jealous.  Have a wonderful trip, Sonnie.

MEDICAL UPDATES

Having received no medical updates in June, I am assuming what I have
reported in earlier updates is still current news.  That's good news!  I
have been forced to relay not-so-good news for months, so it is nice to have
a reprieve.

I did talk with Karen Wampler's son-in-law, who told me all of Karen's tests
came out good.  We had feared the worst based on some of her symptoms, but
he told me whatever it was (he wasn't sure) was treatable with antibiotics
and that she is now feeling much better mentally and physically.  Good job,
Karen.

FOURTH ARTIE FEST

July 12-14 is the next Artie Fest.  It will be much the same format as years
before--food of all kinds, live music, movie on square, classic car show, 5K
walk/run, motorcycle ride, golf outing, Bigg Country concert at Cedar Creek
Winery (I'll be there!), swim and picnic at Jimmy Nash Park, craft fair,
farmers' market, etc.  Vendors will include Tomato Pie Pizza, Kiwanis,
Sertoma, Lions, and Gather Around Barbecue.  I hope some of you can attend.
If you do plan to attend any of the activities, please let me know.  I can
make that info known among us and perhaps we can share the fun together.
You can send me an e-mail or call me at 765 315 0397.  If you let me know of
your interest in more details, I'll send you the entire itinerary.  I just
don't want to take three pages of this Update sharing info that only applies
to a few of us.

WALKING DOWN MEMORY LANE

All of you should know by now that I am a sentimental slob for the old MHS.
Therefore, it makes me very happy that Dan Broyer has given me a wonderful
gift--a capstone from our beloved alma mater.  For those of you who don't
know what I'm talking about, a capstone is the "doo-dad" at the very top of
the corners of a building.  If you look at a photo of MHS, you will see
these.  Dan was in the group (the Broyer Boys) who tore down the beloved
institution and managed to obtain a couple of the stones.  He kept one but
asked if I wanted the other.  I am thrilled to be the current owner.  It is
proudly displayed on my front porch, and I welcome you to drive by for a bit
of nostalgia.  I am now the proud owner of a board from the old school and a
wooden swinging door from the girls' restroom in the basement of the school
(thanks to Bob Etter), and the capstone. My home will always be a shrine to
the hallowed halls of MHS.

ABOUT OUR CLASS AUTHOR

I mentioned last month that Jim Brunnemer has published a new book--The
Hoosier Game--and explained a bit about it.  Perhaps you will purchase a
copy and read it for yourself.  You can also go to his
website--www.thehoosiergame.com--for all the facts.  The bio says "the theme
of the story is the impact of the game of basketball on Indiana culture, as
told by two best friends growing up in the '50s and '60s in Indiana."  You
can purchase it at www.amazon.com for about $25, including S/H.  See if you
find any of us in the characters or any of the locations in this area.  Jim
will host a book signing for his local friends at Martinsville Public
Library on Saturday, July 27, 1:00 to 3:00.  Tea and cookies will be served.
Jim will be on site to sign copies of his book and greet his friends.  He
might even talk about the book if you coax him.  Please circle this date on
your calendar and join Jim and friends at this special occasion.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH  (my new credo)
If walking is good for your health, the postman would be immortal.
A whale swims all day, eats only fish and drinks only water--yet is fat.
A rabbit runs and hops all the time and only lives 10 or so years.
A tortoise doesn't run or hop and basically does nothing, yet it lives over
400 years.

It's the tortoise life for me.  I'm retired--go around me.

Love to all, karen

 

JUNE CLASS UPDATE 2013

By the end of this month, we will usher in Summer.  That is a statement I

have wanted to type for months.  Just hope the 2013 Summer isn't a repeat of
the 2012 event.  Thus far it is following last year's path--lots of rain and
winds.  Also this month we celebrate Flag Day and Father's Day.  Happy
Father's Day to all you dads and granddads.  For Gracie Cooper Beatty in
Canada, a special wish for a happy St. John the Baptist Day.  Some of you
may also be celebrating graduation events for extended family.  Be sure to
warn them that their next 50 years will speed by, and they should enjoy and
make good use of every year.

Let me also remind you that in just three months--Saturday, September 7--we
will join together for our 51st Class reunion at Bob Etter's Park.  Sure
hope everyone receiving this Update will be able to join the crowd.   More
details will come later, but mark your calendars and make your travel plans.

JUNE BIRTHDAYS:

Curt Boner
June 23
Squirtb635@aol.com

Jim Branham
June 13
Jim.branham44@gmail.com

Danny Broyer
June 30
Jacksonmorganco@phenxt.com

Judy Caldwell Hamilton
June 16
Judithhmltn1@gmail.com

Cora Capshaw
4695 Cragen Road
Martinsville, IN 46151
June 2

Dick Elmore
June 4
Arelmore@hotmail.com

Bill Fulford
June 13
Bill_fulford@hotmail.com

Ed Kent
June 1
Jonednjo@comcast.net

Jerry Massey
June ? (sorry Jerry, my records don't reflect a date--whatever day it is,
have a happy day)
91 Laveianan Ct.
Martinsville, IN 46151

Sam Weaver
June 6
P.O. Box 709
Eminence, IN 46125

Linda Worland
June 6
6650 North Gray Road
Mooresville, IN 46158

Happy, happy birthday to all of you.  Make your day very special.  If you
are registered on our Class website, you should also be receiving notices of
birthdays weekly through e-mail.  That is very helpful in acknowledging
friends' celebrations.

WEBSITE:

Jane has put more photos on the site.  Hope all of you are signed up and
enjoying the trivia of yesteryears.  She has done a superb job for us, and I
know she spends much time in this endeavor because she cares about our
special group.  I just hope you show your appreciation by using it to
communicate within our group.  Thanks, Jane.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESSES:

For several years I have tried to get Richard Cramer to join our
communication connection, to no avail.  Then, out of the blue last month, he
completed a profile on the Website.  I contacted him asking if he would like
to be permanently joined with us, and he said  "I would be thankful to be
able to be updated of what is happening to the folks in the class of 1962."
WELCOME BACK WITH US, RICHARD.  His contact address is:  brcramer@att.net.

Marilyn Dyer Hornberger found us another lost soul.  She ran into Jim
Barrick's wife, Georgia, and asked for contact info for Jim.  He is now
attached to us by snail-mail.  Georgia said Jim has some health issues, like
all of us, but that he would enjoy being connected with us.  Welcome back,
Jim.

Ione Suter Thacker's new e-mail address is:  Thackerione@yahoo.com.


SAD NEWS:

Those of you on e-mail know that Sam Weaver lost his brother John, a Class
of '61 graduate, on May 8.  I'd bet many of you remember John Weaver.  Sorry
to the folks on snail mail this info is late getting to you, but I didn't
get the service information in time to get a note mailed before the service.
If you would like to contact Sam, his address is:  P.O. Box 709, Eminence
46125).  Bless you and your family, Sam.

All of you have received notice of Crafty's Celebration of Life which was
held on May 18, so I won't elaborate on that.  However, I do want to remind
you of the auction of his personal estate to be held Sat., June 1, 9:00, at
the Morgan County Fairgrounds.  Even if you aren't shopping, perhaps you can
use the occasion to visit with friends.

Don Burleigh informed me Ed Underly's wife passed in late April.  Don's
brother-in-law is Ed's younger brother, Steve.  Janiece had heart problems
for some time but it was still a shock to receive word she had passed.  We
were friends on Facebook, and I so enjoyed seeing photos she posted of her
family.

I sent Ed a note expressing our collective sympathy.  He responded with a
thanks for the contact and expressed a desire to be re-connected through
snail-mail.  As you can imagine, Ed is floundering to find his footing.
They had planned retirement in July of this year and a visit trip home.  I
just hope Ed will find a way to come even though Janiece can't join him and
we are deprived of the privilege of meeting and knowing her.  If you would
like to contact Ed, his address is:  1402 SW Pioneer Drive, Willamina, OR
97396.  God bless Ed and his family during this time of grief.

MEDICAL UPDATE:

Good news.  Mike Myers wrote to say he has completed chemo and it has held
the size of the cancer in his right lung.  He said this should buy him more
time.  Unfortunately, he also spent ten days in the hospital in May for an
infection in his lungs.  However, when he wrote, he was in Washington, DC,
visiting his daughter.  Mike promised to keep us posted on his medical
progress.  God bless you, Mike.  I know your positive attitude will also buy
you additional time.

Joyce tells me that after five years of treatment from a doctor with
insignificant improvement for Jim's extreme anxiety issues, they have
changed physicians.  She thinks she can already see a slight improvement.
Pray that Jim can overcome his mental and physical problems very soon.

WINNER OF APRIL'S "NAME THE VOCALIST" CONTEST:

Steve Koons wrote to say he thought it was Lesley Gore who used the phrase
"sunshine, lollipops and rainbows."  Congratulations Steve.  Sorry, no prize
except your personal satisfaction of a sharp memory.

REALLY EXCITING NEWS:

I won't give a lot of details, yet, but our own Jim Brunnemer is about to
publish yet another book.  This one is titled The Hoosier Game, and follows
publication of his earlier book Distinction Without Pretension:  The Little
School That Could.  A couple of years ago, Jim sought from us memories of
our years at MHS for use in his fictional novel.  Who knows, perhaps
something you shared will be included in the book.

Jim will send all information to Jane for the Website, and he will also send
me details to share with our contact list.  There will be a book signing
event at the Glenn Curtis Gym in late June.  Hope many of us can be present
to share this proud moment with Jim.  I'm positive he will sign your copy of
the book at that event.  You will also be able to purchase the book on
Amazon.com for about $25, which includes taxes, shipping and handling.

He tells me the theme of the book, which is fiction based on reality, is the
impact of the game of basketball on Indiana culture, as told by two best
friends growing up in the 1950s-60s in small-town Indiana.  Who better to
write about Hoosier Hysteria than Jim, who lived and still lives it!!

You have made us very proud, Jim.

THANKS TO GENEROUS CLASSMATES:

The response to my SOS for snail-mail funds was overwhelming.  Thanks to the
generosity of many (both those who receive snail-mail and some that don't),
I won't beg for funds for a long time.  Every donation, no matter the size,
is greatly appreciated and helpful.  But, I would be remiss not to mention
that Donald Joe Plummer and Jody Lasiter were EXTREMELY generous in their
gifts.  Because of all the donations, I will have enough money to keep
snail-mail coming for about three more years.  Thanks to all contributors
for saying our friendship connection is important.

WARPED PHILOSOPHICAL THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked
something.
Borrow money from pessimists--they don't expect to be paid back.
Half the people you know are below average.
If everything is coming your way, you're probably in the wrong lane.

Love to all, karen

MAY CLASS UPDATE -2013

Welcome to May, which means happy Mother's Day, Armed Forces Day, and

Memorial Day to all.  Wherever you are, I hope there is sunshine and
contentment.  The 'Ville has had an on-again, off-again Spring start.  We
hope it finally warms up this month so outside activities can begin in
earnest.

MAY BIRTHDAYS:

Don Billings
May 21
Don@billingsinc.com

Jerry Collier
May 6
j-bcollier@cfl.rr.com

Irene Cure Conte
May 19
Irenecc27@hotmail.com

Connie Martin Denny
May 6
Lpmartin3590@comcast.net

Mark Dillender
May 12
Caroledillender@yahoo.com

Linda Fisher Phillips
May 23
721 Columbia Avenue
Lansdale, PA 19446

Oren Flake
May 5
bettyflake@att.net

Larry Lambert
May 12
45 Laveianan Court
Mart. 46151

Sharon McDaniel Raymond
May 1
Sharon@simpleshoemaking.com

Roy Joe McGuffey
May 11
Rjmcguffey@att.net

Jim Morgan
May 30
8930 W. Pocket Hollow Rd.
Gosport, IN 47433

Jane Reese Thompson
May 12
Thompson@thompsonkerr.com

Jim Rusie
May 13
Jfrusie@comcast.net

Carol Schell Maxwell
May 11
159 S. Jefferson St.
Mart. 46151

Rufus Simpson
May 14
Rufussimpson71@msn.com

Sharon Tutterow Quakenbush
May 22
Sharonquakenbush@yahoo.com

A very happy birthday to all our May honorees.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Good report from Mary Anderson (jelliebaby@hotmail.com).  Her surgery went
very well and she reports a good outcome.  No more surgeries on her horizon.

Richard Hamilton (chuckndi46151@yahoo.com) had a procedure to "fix" the
dialysis port in his arm and it seems to be functional now.  As soon as that
totally heals, Richard will begin regular dialysis.  We all hope that will
allow Richard improved health.

Jim Branham (jim.branham44@gmail.com) came through his scare last month when
his defib activated.  Joyce wrote that the cath didn't find any serious
heart issue and doctors believe an electrical instability in the heart
caused the activation.  He is taking medication to address that issue.  Jim
is home resting and looking forward to "sunshine, lollipops and rainbows".
(This is a test--do you remember who sang that song?")

Jim Brunnemer (jimbrunnemer@gmail.com) completed surgery on his neck.  He
had crushed discs replaced and stabilized.  He believes time and rehab will
bring back feeling in his right hand.

For those of you on snail mail, you probably don't know that Richard Young
(richardconnieyoung@gmail.com) has also been hospitalized since I last
wrote.  Richard was in Community North Heart Hospital with atrial fib
problems.  For two years his heart has thumped away with no direction.  Now,
because of the surgery, it is returning to a normal rhythm and he no longer
needs blood thinners.  He is elated with his improved health.  In fact, the
hospital asked him to address a group of those considering this surgery to
encourage them of the wonderful outcome.  Way to go, Dick.

One new concern brought to my attention is Karen Wampler (216 S. Marion St.,
Mart., 46151).  She is undergoing a series of tests to isolate cause for
several health problems.  Naturally, this is scary.  I certainly hope I can
report in the June Update that they find nothing in the tests that can't be
"fixed."

Each one of the above folks down-play their issues.  Each of them feels that
their problems pale in comparison to what their friends are experiencing.  I
know that isn't the case.  All health problems take a toll either physically
or emotionally.  Let's keep all classmates in our thoughts, even those who
don't share their individual problems.  And I know each and every one of us
has some health concern, whether big or small.  We can never settle for a
less-than-vibrant attitude on life.

ANOTHER CLASSMATE DEATH:

This info is for our snail-mail folks who don't have access to computer
generated information dissemination.  Crafty Hacker passed on April 3,
following Don Cragen's death.  No one is certain what took Crafty, but I am
told he had been ill for several months.  Both he and Juetta were cremated
and neither had any service or public obituary.  Neal & Summers did post
some info on their website:  Crafty was born on September 29, 1943.  He and
Juetta were married in 1963 and she passed in 2010.  They had no children.
He was preceded in death by a brother, Bobby Hacker. As I said before, this
has got to stop.  No more deaths for the Class of '62--at least for a very
long time.  Both Don and Crafty were our "clowns," and their sunshine will
be greatly missed in our family.

Speaking of Don's death, the Class received the following note from the
family:  "The family of Don Cragen thanks you for your gift of flowers.  We
appreciate your kindness and concern for our family.  Please thank those who
were kind enough to send their sympathy."  I personally spoke with Don's
daughters, who told me our red/blue carnation bouquet graced the center of
their dining table for over a week.  They said Don loved all of us and was
very proud to be a classmate with the Class of '62.

GOOD NEWS:

One classmate took me up on my request for good news to share.  Sharon
McDaniel Raymond wrote of the birth of her first grandchild--Millie.  She
said that each time she leaves Millie, she feels a depletion of "feel good"
hormones drain from her body.  She is fascinated to watch someone learn
about the world from square one.  Sharon stays with Millie three times a
week, so she reports her neuron connections are usually good.  So happy for
you, Sharon.

I hope others will send good news to pass along.  We need to focus on the
happy things.

A NOTE TO SNAIL MAIL FOLKS:

If you haven't contributed to the cost of snail mail in the past, think it
is a worthwhile expense, and can afford to do so, the mail fund is getting
low.  I have enough left for the June mailing.  It costs about $25 a month
for envelopes, paper, ribbon, and stamps for our 42 snail-mail
correspondents.  We do not take this from class funds, because it only
benefits those who receive snail mail and, thus far, those folks have paid
their own way.  I began the year with $165 in the account and have used $125
of that through May.  So, if you would like to help maintain our mailings,
please send a small amount to:  Karen Smith, 740 E. Washington St.,
Martinsville 46151.  Thanks in advance for your participation in this
funding request.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Friendship is like a book.  It takes few seconds to burn but years to write.
(We have been writing our book for over sixty years!)

Auntie Acid shares her housekeeping tip:  Always keep several get-well cards
on prominent display in the house.  That way, if guests arrive, they will
think you have been sick and unable to clean.  (I think I'll try this one.)

Whenever God closes one door, he always opens another--even though sometimes
it's hell in the hallway.  (Remember this dear friends who are now in that
hallway.)

Love to all, karen

APRIL CLASS UPDATE - 2013

Happy April 1--and I promise there will be no April Fools' Day jokes in thisupdate.   (I think last year I reported that Jim Brunnemer and his wife were

expecting a baby.)  Some of our snow birds are heading home--John Stewart is
already here.  Maybe our breakfast club, the Monday Morning Marvels, will
benefit from their attendance.  Remember, those are every second Monday of
the month at 9:00 at Forkey's.

I wish I could send happy news in this missive but seems all I hear is the
not-so-happy kind.  Let me apologize up front to those of you who are on
e-mail.  I will report some news in this that you will already know, but I
want to make certain our 42 snail-mail friends are current on events, too

HAPPY APRIL BIRTHDAY --

Judy Albertson Carpenter
April 29
Jccc9999@cinergymetro.net

Rick Blunk
April 7
Richard_blunk@yahoo.com

Johnnie Boles
April 2
315 North Church St.
Mooresville 46158

Tura Crone Lamar
April 29
Tlrlmar@sbcglobal.net

Bob Elliott
April 21
47 Sunset Manor Drive
Mart. 46151

Marvin Henderson
April 17
Mmmarvbaby@msn.com

Steve Hiatt
April 30
Stephenjhiatt@gmail.com

Patsy Lavender Durbin
April 4
1833 Shady Lane
Mart. 46151

Tish Scherer
April 13
350 S. Jefferson St.
Mart. 46151

Ilene Suter Terrell
April 4
52 Sunset Manor Drive
Mart. 46151

Ione Suter Thacker
April 4
Kthacker2@cfl.rr.com

A VERY HAPPY SPECIAL DAY TO OUR APRIL BIRTHDAY CELEBRANTS.

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

Marilyn Dyer Hornberger's new address is:  hornberger9@comcast.net

FOUND CLASSMATES:

Was at dinner the other night at Indy's and ran into Nancy Alexander Foley.
I now have her correct address and she is re-connected with us on
snail-mail.  So glad to have you back with us, Nancy, and hope you enjoy
receiving a monthly update about your Class of '62 friends.

Received a much appreciated call from Chuck Ritter.  We lost him in the
purging and I kept thinking about him and wondering why.  Turns out they
have been in Florida all winter and couldn't get a good connection on their
laptop.  He found all my letters inquiring about him when he got home and
called to ask to be reinstated.  Welcome back Chuck.  We missed you but are
glad you and Jeanne had a restful winter in warmth.

MISCELLANEOUS:

I have placed the Class on a list to furnish lunch to a Habitat for Humanity
build later this summer.  It might cost us about $125, but anyone who works
with HfH knows what a worthwhile cause it is.  I will let you all know when
we perform this community function on behalf of the Class of '62.

Alice Lehr Hornaday, who joined our snail-mail list just a few months ago,
has called to say she really enjoys being connected again.  Alice can be
found at Biff's Bakery in Mooresville pretty much 24/7, so if you are in the
area stop in and say hello.  In fact, Alice would love for the Monday
Morning Marvels to choose Biff's for a monthly breakfast so she could visit
with us.  I promised her I would recommend this.  Alice has rotator cuff
problems but has thus far refused surgery.  She has provided leads to find
Portia Dalton Samuels, Janice Parmerlee, and Wanda Ellis.  Alice grew up in
the Brooklyn  area and sees these folks when they get to Mooresville.  I
hope I can soon report that all three want to re-connect with us.  Alice has
become a great supporter of the Class of '62 connection.

Jane Thompson came to town in March.  This was a perfect excuse for a
spontaneous party.  Those who dined together at Chili's were Jane, Tish
Hartley, Tura LaMar, Mary Boner, Marilyn Hornberger, and me.  Lots of
laughter accompanied the meal.  We need more of these impromptu
get-togethers.

Tish Hartley contributed money to the snail mail fund.  We moved her to that
form of communication because she seldom accesses the computer.  Thanks,
Tishy.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Jim Branham was admitted to St. Francis South on March 26.  His
defibrillator went off at home and again at the hospital.  Doctors told him
that without that device he probably wouldn't be with us.  God forbid!  He
had a heart cath on March 27 to try to determine why this happened.  It did
not show a blockage but rather an electrical problem in his heart.  He is on
a new medication to help correct that.  After several close calls, Jim was
stabilized and came home on March 29.  Joyce said they are both exhausted
and trying to catch up on rest.  She also said "we thank everyone for their
thoughts and prayers; they really work."  Keep Jim and Joyce in your
thoughts and prayers as they struggle to regain their equilibrium.  If you
would like to write to them, their e-mail address is jim.branham44@gmail.com
or snail-mail address is 185 Hillview Drive, 46151.

Richard Hamilton (chuckndi46151@yahoo.com or 560 E. Columbus St., 46151) has
been back in the hospital.  They have now installed a pacemaker and
defibrillator for Richard.  Joyce tells me they both believe this will give
Richard more strength because it is keeping his heart functioning better and
therefore more blood is reaching kidneys and lower extremities.
Unfortunately, he has developed gout, so now they are addressing that
problem.  One of these days, and I hope soon, Richard is going to be
benefiting from all the procedures he has had done and he won't be such a
great source of worry for all of us.

Mary Anderson is facing yet another surgery.  I will respect her privacy by
not going into detail, but she is dealing with cancer of the mouth.  This
isn't a new thing for her, so please remember Mary.  You can give her your
best wishes by writing to  jelliebaby@hotmail.com or write to 2717 Barth
Ave., Indy, 46203.  Mary has been wonderful to help Jane pull together our
class website and is a strong supporter of our Class.

There are many more of us who struggle with health challenges, about which I
am not apprised.  Please remember all of our friends in thoughts and pray
one for the other.  Contact them in some way to encourage their steps.  Love
and concern are the very best remedy for any ailment.

CLASS DEATH:

I am sorrowful to report that our beloved class clown, Don "Mitsu" Cragen,
passed on March 24 of pulmonary fibrosis.  He is the 44th deceased class
friend (that we are aware of, although there probably are more).  By the
time snail mail folks receive this news, the funeral will be behind us
(March 29, 2013).  There is no need for me to say anything about Don.  All
of you know how much he was loved by the Class of '62.  The Class's
traditional red/blue carnation arrangement (with a white carnation in the
center representing the spirit of our loved one) was sent to the funeral
home.  The ribbon read:  "With all our love.  MHS Class of '62 Friends."

Here is what Jim Brunnemer wrote about the funeral:  "Don Cragen's funeral
service was a true celebration of his life.  Two of his daughters delivered
a eulogy both poignant and humorous, each alternating comments beginning
with "I'll remember Dad because ." followed by loving and clever references
to Don's characteristics, humanity, and marvelous sense of humor.  They
nailed the essence of their dad, to the tears and delight of all those
present.  His was truly a blessed life."

For those of you who didn't see the obituary, I'll briefly restate it here.

Don was born on January 8, 1944.  (He always dug me if I didn't mention that
he was born on The King's birthday.)  He spent his youth in Green Township.
He married Sharon Colen of Indy in 1967 and they were married 45 years.
This reunion produced six children, five of whom survive.  Don spent many
years farming and operating Cragen Oil.  He was also a school bus driver for
almost 30 years.  Don was an avid Purdue and Yankees fan and Democrat.  He
and Sherry have six grandchildren.  He will be missed by many and remembered
forever by anyone who had the chance to meet him.  Amen.

If you wish to write Don's widow, Sharon, her address is 5020 Cragen Road,
Mart., 46151.

Many classmates paid respects to Don at the visitation or funeral.  I think
those who attended the funeral will attest that it was the most
heart-warming and appropriate they have ever attended.  Music was
compliments of country music stars singing gospels--so fitting for
country-boy Don.  The minister mentioned it was the only funeral he ever
attended where the audience clapped but that it was a very appropriate
gesture for Don's celebration of life.  Wish all of you could have been
there. Don is gone but never forgotten.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH:

Old friends are gold.  New friends are diamonds.  If you get a diamond,
don't
forget the gold.  To hold a diamond you always need a base of gold.

When God solves your problems, you have faith in His abilities.  But, when
God doesn't solve your problems, He has faith in your abilities.

Love to all, karen

 

 

MARCH CLASS UPDATE - 2013

 

Well, there are several good things happening in March--St. Patrick's Day,
SPRING BEGINS, and Easter activities.  I hope reminding you of those events
will bring sunshine to your hearts.  Moreover, many of the Snow Birds will
be preparing for their trip home.  It's always good to see their smiling
faces again.  My sincere wish is that you receive whatever makes you happy
this month.

MARCH BIRTHDAYS:

Karen Arnold Pottorff
March 31
889 E. Pike St.
Martinsville

Rose Marie Sutton Phillips
March 5
10255 Tisha Circle
San Diego, CA 92126

Dewayne White
March 10
Dwhite7754@gmail.com

A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR CLASS
FRIENDS ON THEIR SPECIAL DAYS.

PURGING UPDATE:

I'm glad to report that Mark Dillender sent word he wants to remain
connected with us.  I was worried for a while.  Unfortunately, I received no
word from Chuck Ritter, Brenda New Arnold, Janice Crisman Stanier, and Eddie
Underly.  Therefore, I will no longer include them on class contacts.
Perhaps they will miss us and come back to the fold soon.  We are not whole
until all of us are touching each other to close our friendship circle.

FAMILY DEATH:

Glenn Sheeks lost his sister, Janet Harrison, in February.  Janet was 73 and
had suffered many health problems.  As many of us know, loss of a sibling
can be as or more painful than loss of a parent.  Glenn, our thoughts and
prayers are with you and your family during your time of grief.  May God
soon bring you lighter hearts and brighter days.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Richard Hamilton is moving forward with preparations to begin dialysis.  The
doctors believe this will help Richard keep bodily fluids under control and
give him more energy.  Keep Richard in your prayers through this new road he
walks.

Dan Broyer stopped by to tell me all of his chemo treatments are done and he
will not need to take maintenance drugs.  It will take a couple of months
before his energy returns, but by Spring he hopes to be able to enjoy it.
Way to go, Dan.

During the course of our chat, Dan mentioned he helped tear down MHS and had
the presence of mind to take photos before, during, and after the
destruction.  I begged him to find those and let Jane put them on the
website.  It will be bitter sweet but interesting, nonetheless.

CLASS ACTIVITIES:

Fifteen people attended the February Wild Bunch Breakfast at Forkey's.  We
hope to see more folks at the March extravaganza on the 11th.  We always
gather the second Monday of every month at 9:00 at Forkey's.  The more the
merrier.

Steve Koons has been attending a Cubfest in Florida.  He explained that
these gatherings are "a bunch of old farm boys working on Farmall Cub
tractors."  He also sent me before and after pictures of his last project.
Even to my untrained mechanical eye, it is very clear Steve has a passion
and expertise.  Everyone needs a passion to be alive.  He has inspired me to
seek that out in my life.

I received four responses to my Habitat for Humanity note.  That isn't
enough to sponsor a Saturday build BUT there are other ways we can help.
Tura Crone Lamar, who is an officer in Habitat, says their ReStore needs
contributions of everything except clothes.  If you are local and do any
Spring cleaning, remember to take your discards to them.  Also, if enough of
you agree this is a worthwhile cause, let me know if you would approve my
pulling funds from the Class Treasury to furnish a build lunch.   If we
choose to do that, I will get the "Class of '62" on the lunch schedule.
Food and drink for 25 or so people runs around $100.  If you have any
thoughts on this matter, please send them to me in an e-mail or letter.

Kenny and Melinda Hacker were in town a week ago to close his mother's
estate.  We had a nice phone conversation.  He said he was finally approved
for 100% disability for his Agent Orange diagnosis.  He also said he was
holding his own physically and wasn't giving in to his medical issues.  He
and Melinda keep very busy raising their three grandchildren, all of whom
are still in school.  They need our prayers for sanity.

CLASS WEBSITE (www.Martinsvillein1962.com):

Jane is doing a MARVELOUS job on our website.  Fifty-six of the 84 e-mail
connected classmates have completed profiles on the site and several are
using the forum to contact others.  You really must complete a profile so
you can look at all the old pictures and Class memorabilia out there.  I
guarantee it will make you smile.  If you haven't taken time to complete
your simple profile, which is all you have to do to join, please do that
this month.  If you have any questions or comments about the site, you can
write Jane at Thompson@thompsonkerr.com.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

The most terrifying words in the English language are:  "I'm from the
government and I'm here to help."
      And

I've wondered at times about what the Ten Commandments would have looked
like if Moses had run them through Congress.

      Ronald Reagan


 (On a personal note, thanks to everyone who sent me a birthday greeting in
one form or another.  I feel very loved.  Thank you!)

 

 

FEBRUARY CLASS UPDATE - 2013

Hello from the 'Ville.  Can't help but hope many of you are Snow Birds or
permanently inhabit warmer and dryer climates.  It was 65 yesterday and
should be 26 tomorrow.  Only in Indiana.  February brings us Ash Wednesday,
Presidents' day and Valentine's day.  I hope Cupid brings romance into your
life in whatever way makes you feel loved.

FEBRUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Dwight Arthur
February 1
Dearthur5141@sbcglobal.net

Elizabeth Brummett Peterson
February 26
354 S. Webster Avenue
Indy 46219

Janet Brummett Britton
February 10
Jbritton@bluemarble.net

Jim Brunnemer
February 1
Jimbrunnemer@gmail.com

Billy Joe Craven
February 3
Pecrav@aol.com

Frank Ennis
February 13
F43g48@aol.com

Bob Etter
February 5
Rdetter5009@yahoo.com

Terry Fleener
February 7
Mjfleener47@gmail.com

Steve Koons
February 29 (or whenever he chooses to celebrate his Leap Year birthday)
Steve-koons@us.army.mil

Me
February 15
Klssas740@att.net

Marcia Murphy Bolin
February 13
460 E. Pike St.
Mart.

Stony Pearcy
February 10
Spearcy643@aol.com

Gary Stafford
February 9
Shonesty2011@netzero.com

Judy Wolff
February 6
Judywolff@bellsouth.net

Ruth Woolbright Dunigan
February 3
d.ruthie@yahoo.com

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY!!

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESS:

Judy Caldwell Hamilton
Judithhmltn1@att.net

FAMILY DEATH:

Linda Hamilton Stevens lost her brother, Richard, in December.  Richard
graduated in 1973, so was considerably younger than us, but you may have
known him.  God bless Linda's family in this time of unexpected grief.

CLASS ACTIVITIES:

I know of six classmates (plus guests) who attended Don Cragen's 69th
Birthday Bash.  I heard over 80 people paid their respects to this OLD MAN
on his special occasion.  Sorry more of you couldn't attend.  We all know
Don relishes the spotlight, and this occasion was no exception.  A great
time was had by all.

The Monday Morning Marvels met on January 14 at Forkeys for hugs.  Twelve
class members (plus guests) attended.  The casual get-together draws more
attendees each month.  Please join us if you can.  Next event will be
Monday, February 11, at 9:00.  BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!

Patsy Lavender and Ralph Durbin celebrated 50 years of marriage in December.
Congratulations, Patsy and Ralph.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Judy Caldwell Hamilton (judithhmltn1@gmail.com) wrote that she had fallen on
ice in late December and broke some bones.  She had successful surgery in
early January.  When she last wrote on January 14, she said  "I am in rehab
and doing fine but not sure when I will be going home."  We are so very
sorry for your accident, Judy, but extremely pleased to learn you are
improving.  Keep us up-dated on prognosis and recovery.

I reported weeks ago that Rick Blunk (richard_blunk@yahoo.com) had developed
a serious reaction to a flu shot which caused hospitalization.  Rick has
truly suffered with this unfortunate incident.  He came home the end of
January, so he and I met at the Legion to catch up.   Thankfully, Rick seems
to be almost back to his former healthy self.

Judy Mason called to say David's health is declining.  They have a
succession of health care professionals visiting them daily so they can keep
him home.  He has periods of lucidity and still remembers his '62 class
friends.  Short term memory is more severely affected.  Judy promised to
keep me apprised of David's progress.  (judijammer@aol.com)

During January I also talked with Mike O'Neal and Bob Elliott.  Both are
combating COPD and have to use oxygen regularly.  Both said they are doing
as well as possible and stay active.  No rocking chairs for our class
members.  We are too tough to go out that way.

Mike Myers (mmyers001@ma.rr.com) has started chemo treatments for his lung
cancer and has several months to go.  He, too, shuns the rocking chair in
favor of physical activities.

Dan Broyer (jacksonmorganco@phenxt.com) stopped in for coffee.  He has two
treatments to go and is looking forward to April when this will be behind
him.  He has good and not-so-good days but looks well for all he has been
through.  Maybe the summer will allow him the energy to do what he wants to
catch up on all he has missed the past couple of years.

There are several more of us who struggle with health challenges.  Please
remember our friends in thoughts and prayers.  Drop them an e-mail or snail
mail note if you can to let them know you care.  Love is the very best
remedy for any ailment.

CLASS WEBSITE:

I hope all of you with a computer have taken time to check out our Website.
Jane Reese Thompson has done a marvelous job bringing this on line for our
benefit.  About 42 or so (less than 50%) of us have completed a profile on
the site.  If you haven't, please do so.  It's so easy.  Just go to the
website (www.martinsvillein1962.com) and follow the cues.  Look at the
photos Jane has loaded for our memories.  If you have other photos to share,
send them to Jane, as follows:


Thompson/Kerr Displays

8444 Castlewood Drive,Suite 1400

Indy 46250

ATTN: Jane Thompson


                         or
jthompson@thompsonkerr.com.

She will scan your photos and return to you.  Send info about the photo to
be included along with it.  If you notice photos where "kids" were
unidentified and you can identify them, please let either Jane or me know so
identification can be added to the site.

Jane said she has truly enjoyed reliving her youth through this challenge.
I personally have enjoyed perusing the photos.  Those "kids" make me laugh!!
Our innocence is overwhelming.

PURGING UPDATE:

I am pleased to report we haven't lost very many friends from our contact
list.  I have moved some from e-mail to snail mail and vice versa, but they
are still attached with us.  I haven't heard from the following friends:

Brenda New Arnold, Chuck Ritter, Mark Dillender, Janice Crisman Stanier, and
Eddie Underly.  I am sending these folks this month's Update by snail mail
in the hopes they will contact me to say they wish to remain connected.
However, if I hear nothing, I will have to assume they no longer wish to be
connected for whatever reason.  Perhaps they will miss us and re-connect
later.

THOUGHTS FOR THE MONTH (on aging):

You are as young as your faith--as old as your doubt
As young as your self-confidence--as old as your fear
As young as your hope--as old as your despair.  (Douglas MacArthur)
******
Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years.
We grow old by deserting our ideals and dreams.
Years may wrinkle our skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles our soul.
(Ullman)

Love to all, karen

 

 

 

JANUARY UPDATE  2013

Happy New Year to all. I sincerely hope 2013 is wonderful for all of us. 
Let's face it--we've got a great start toward that wish since the world didn't 
come to an end on December 21. In fact, none of the dire predictions of 
death and destruction occurred when the planets aligned. I, for one, think 
that was a bit of very good luck.

As I was updating the New Year's Class files, I noticed some old Updates. I 
began as the "unofficial" Class social secretary some time in 2001, if 
memory serves me correctly. You made me the "official social sec" with the 
purchase of my computer in 2007.
While I don't have copies of all those earlier Updates (darn it!!), I began 
faithfully to keep records in 2005. There were 42 classmates connected by 
e-mail in that year. We now have 130 classmates connected and are always 
striving to locate those still "missing." Let me take this opportunity to 
thank all of you for allowing me to be the "tie that binds" us together. It 
is quite an honor for me and I appreciate your support and trust.

Over the 50 plus years of our joint history, we've each had good and bad 
times. I just hope that from this time one, the fact that 130 of your 
friends are close will give you some support over the bumpy roads. Let your 
friends help--don't be shy to ask for that. Remember, there is strength in 
numbers.

So much for "life in the past lane." In January 2014, when I highlight 
Class activities of 2013, I pray they are all happy and uplifting. May God 
bring us all a Happy New Year.

JANUARY BIRTHDAYS:

Marty Akard Short
January 12
Marty11190@yahoo.com

Don "The Elvis King" Cragen
January 8
Cragend44@yahoo.com

Virginia Fulford Watts
January 12
449 S. Graham St.
Martinsville 46151

Judy Hacker Fraker
January 14
gaminggrandma@yahoo.com

Kenny Hacker
January 9
Kennethhacker@centurytel.net

Emma Lou Hamilton Lanham
January 9
1040 S. Ohio St.
Martinsville 46151

Diana Hatter Tolley
January 3
Dtolley@indy.net

Bob Lanham
January 30
1040 S. Ohio St.
Martinsville 46151

Joe Plummer
January 4
42 Sunset Manor Dr.
Martinsville 46151

Connie Shields Lowry
January 16
9348 E. Southport Rd.
Indy 46259

John Stewart
January 22
Kjstew@scican.net

HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL OF YOU ON YOUR SPECIAL DAY!!

NEW E-MAIL ADDRESSES:

Jim Brunnemer
Jimbrunnemer@gmail.com

Steve Mcilwain
McIlwainstephen@gmail.com
(Steve reports he is "finally retiring" from the courtroom. Way to go, 
Steve.)

Judy Caldwell Hamilton
Judithhmltn1@gmail.com

MISCELLANEOUS INFO:

Gary and Sarah Stafford left for Winter Haven in mid-December. I gave them 
a lot of grief but they went anyway. I'm moving them to snail-mail until 
they return in the Spring.

They probably passed John and Karen Stewart returning to the Ville for the 
holidays. Welcome home, John.

I truly messed up the info of Betty Maners Wilson's anniversary. So sorry, 
Betty. Let me try again:

Betty Maners Wilson and her husband, Paul, celebrated 50 years in November. 
Paul sent Betty 50 roses for 50 wonderful years.

Karen Arnold Pottorff personally delivered to me a beautiful Christmas card. 
She also included a contribution to the snail-mail fund. Thanks, Karen.

Kay and Kim Selch made my day when they wrote how much they enjoyed 
receiving the monthly Updates. Kim is still waiting for a kidney 
transplant. Let's pray that becomes available in this New Year.

A few of us locals (Branhams, Burleighs, Cragens, Hamilons) have agreed to 
meet at Forkey's on the second Monday of each month at 9:00 for breakfast. 
We had our first meeting in December and enjoyed catching up and laughing. 
You are invited to join us. The last time we met, Jim Branham brought a 
copy of a photo taken at the First Methodist Church in the early 50's of the 
children's choir. We identified classmates--Don Burleigh, Jim Branham, 
Richard Young, Jean Bertelsen, Juetta Hamilton, Shelia Duckworth, Tommie Ann 
Neideigh, and me. Talk about cherub-faced angels--we were adorable. The 
photo went into the archives for sharing at the next reunion.

Jim also brought, of all things, a copy of the Class of '62 Herff-Jones 
senior ring order. How funny. As president of the Class, Jim was on the 
ring committee and therefore was entrusted with the carbon copy order sheet. 
He kept it all these years. The average cost was $25. (Try to buy one for 
that today.) I still have mine and proudly wore it to the 50th. This piece 
of history will also go in the archives. Thanks, Jim, for sharing.

On December 17, Jane Reese Thompson rolled out the Class of '62 website to 
all e-mail addressees. I am enclosing information on that to snail-mail 
participants with this month's Update. Maybe they have kids, grandkids, or 
friends who can allow them access to the site so they can complete their 
profile and see the many photos of Class history. Thanks so very much to 
Jane for adopting this project and single-handedly seeing it through to 
fruition. Please go to the website and complete your profile. More 
importantly, use the site to keep in touch with Class friends.

I'm starting the New Year with $150 in the snail-mail fund. That will last 
for several months. I'll send out an SOS when I need more money. Those on 
snail mail have been very generous in underwriting the expenses of the 
monthly Updates. Thanks to all of you who have contributed.

MEDICAL UPDATES:

Received a nice letter from Linda Fisher Phillips stating how much she 
enjoyed the reunion. I was certainly glad to learn that and hope she and 
Gordon will be regular attendees from now on. In that letter Linda shares 
her MS causes her some problems, but she won't let it stop her active life. 
Instead of complaining, she counts her blessings that she can still walk and 
travel with Gordon. Contact Linda at 721 Columbia Ave., Lansdale, PA 19446.

Mike Myers called on Dec. 5 to report he has cancer in both lungs after 
being cancer free from throat cancer for six years. He is undergoing 
intensive chemo for 17 weeks--ending Good Friday. Mike's attitude and 
outlook are exemplary. He said he will fight this with all he has. He 
asked me to send his love to all his Class friends and tell you he 
appreciates your thoughts and prayers. Contact Mike at mmyers001@ma.rr.com 
or 812 299 4444 or 26 Southridge Rd., Terre Haute, IN 47802. You can also 
find him on FaceBook.

Had a good conversation with Mary Anderson during December. Mary struggles 
with a myriad of health issues. However, she said that when she reads of 
other classmates and their health concerns, she feels blessed. Mary's main 
problems stem from Mersa, which she contracted after one of her surgeries. 
She is also a cancer survivor. Mary enjoys staying in touch with all of us 
and can be reached at jelliebaby@hotmail.com.

Ginny Toon Woodall sent a nice Christmas card. She mentioned that she still 
has six chemo treatments to go but not until her blood platelets regain 
strength. However, her cancer numbers have gone down, so there is light at 
the end of her medical tunnel. She promised to keep me posted on her 
progress with the chemo. Write Ginny at 3269 Clary Circle North Drive, 
Greenwood 46143.

There are others of us experiencing medical bumps in the road. Therefore, 
let's not only pray for those mentioned above but also those who struggle 
silently or who have been reported in earlier Updates. I sure hope the 2013 
Updates are filled with answers to our prayers for good health for our 
friends.

REUNION RESPONSES:

I received sixteen responses to my request for thoughts on our future 
reunions. That's not a huge number but it's a cross-section of ideas. If 
you didn't send a response, you have to live with whatever is decided by 
your classmates.

Most everyone wants a yearly informal get-together. Several also want a 
two-day event every two years. Many mentioned they like the early September 
time frame. In addition, many mentioned that "informal" get-togethers 
throughout the year would be great also. I hope each of you will feel free 
to organize something on a regular or spur-of-the-moment basis. Our 
"breakfast club" mentioned earlier is an example of an informal hugs 
session.

Most all mentioned our event was too much to put on Bob Etter and his family 
in view of his health concerns. I shared that with Bob. He was adamant 
that he wanted us to meet at his place for our picnics and said he would be 
upset if we chose a different venue. Since I believe all of the picnic 
attendees feel fortunate to have Bob's facilities, I will plan to book his 
shelter house. Bob: You can rescind this invitation any time and we will 
find a different location.

So, after dissecting the input, I propose we have our next reunion catered 
picnic on Saturday, September 7, at Bob's house beginning at 11:00 and 
running until 5:00. I further suggest we pull funds for this event from the 
Class treasury. Having fun together seems to me to be a good use of our 
money.

THIS IS A PROPOSAL. IT IS UP TO YOU TO GIVE FEEDBACK TO TWEAK THIS PLAN TO 
MEET YOUR WISHES. Write me at klssas740@att.net, or 740 East Washington 
St., or call at 765 315 0397 with further thoughts on this proposal.


CLASS DISTRIBUTION PURGING:

If you are receiving snail mail and wish to be REMOVED from the list, please 
drop a note to me at 740 E. Washington St., Martinsville, 46151, or call me 
at 765 315 0397. If I hear nothing from you, I will assume you are 
receiving the Updates at the correct address and wish to continue receiving 
those.

Or, if anyone wishes to be moved to or from e-mail/snail-mail communication, 
let me know that fact. We can get you the Updates in any form that best 
suits your wishes.

For those of you on e-mail, you will receive an e-mail request asking you to 
respond accordingly.

THOUGHT FOR THE MONTH:

Let's each pray that the One who came for us all the very first Christmas 
will come in a new way to our hearts and homes in the New Year and bring 
even more joy, hope, and love.

karen
 



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