David Benjamin
I had a great time last night at the reunion. I was able to see everybody I wanted to see, except one person, but that was superceded by the people I did not expect to see with whom I renewed friendships, like Bill Horner, Jason Stone, Paul Yoffee, Glen Garber and, of course, Bill O'Brien, the funniest guy at Newton High. You guys all Rock, and I am so glad I saw you. There were others, TNTC, but now I have their emails and can stay in touch.
My thanks to everyone who came over to me to say hello and tell me they remembered me. That meant a lot to me. To those classmates who have passed away, I do remember you, too, and have been very saddened by your passing at such an early age.
Let me share something I have learned as I've grown older and wiser, which helps to make my life easier. Try this little "experiment." Stand up and extend one of your arms out from your shoulder as far as it will go. Do you see where your findertips end? Well, that is the extent of what you have control over in your life. As soon as you realize that you can't control your SO, your parents, your kids. your friends, your boss (although you may be able to influence them), you will instantly become a happier person becuase you now have recognized the limitations of your "power" and should stop trying to do things that will never succeed. That does not mean don't improve yourself, we can always do that, and should still strive to do so, but that is within us.
As "Dirty Harry" said, "A man's (woman's) got to know his/her limitations" - I say, after determinig your sphere of influence, work within it and do all you can.
Best wishes to everyone,
David
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