Web Admin Terry Kaylin (Smith)
I had Mr. Oppizzi for English, and I feel so grateful that Donna Kusnitz Clott (she had him for 6th grade) and I got to spend an afternoon with him in Sea Cliff on the Island. While we were in the early stages of planning for our Fiftieth Reunion and were going through the yearbook. we both stopped on his page and squealed..."Mr. Oppizzi...I had such a crush on him!". Well, I'm sure that we were among the MANY who had a crush on him, but in addition, we had such great memories of him as a wonderful teacher who had a great impact on our lives.
Anyway, you have to understand that this was all happening very late at night while drinking wine (you get the picture). Of course we Googled him, and sure enough, found out that after retiring from teaching, he and his wife Carolyn had moved to the Island from Greenwich Village. We discovered that he was a marathon runner, still competing into his early 80's. We dug a little deeper, and found out that he had owned a bookstore in Sea Cliff, which unfortunately suffered the fate of countless local bookstores of being driven out of business by the big chains. Finding his phone number was easy, so we decided that we would call him in the morning. Long story a little shorter...we ended up talking with him and setting up a time to meet for lunch the next day. We drove out to the Island and met up at the local Sea Cliff Bistro. We brought along a little photo album we had quickly put together for him, filled with old photos and remembrances. We got there early, and were unbelievably excited and nervous! We watched as a very good looking elder gentleman with snow white hair came bounding into the restaurant. It was a very emotional and happy reunion, with tears all around. We told him how much he had influenced our love of literature and learning, and he was beyond touched. Believe it or not, it turned out that no one else had ever sought him out, which we found incredible. After a lovely lunch, which included a bottle of wine that he brought, he invited us to walk with him to his house. We followed along, not realizing that his idea of a walk included climbing up a substantial hill to get there! Needless to say, he was waiting for us at the top...LOL! We were very happy to get to meet his lovely wife, who arrived back from a trip to Boston just before we had to leave.
So...it was a very special afternoon with a very special man who had remained involved and active, so it was with great sadness to learn that Alzheimer's had claimed him.
Donna and I are both looking for the photo that taken that day, so hopefully it will be found and will be posted.
Goodbye Charlie!
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