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06/03/19 01:38 PM #602    

 

Daniel Hutchinson

Thank you David.  I appreciate your feedback.


08/07/19 11:44 AM #603    

 

Ruth Young (Adams)

Hi there classmates

Ohhh I promised Dan about 4 months ago he could count on me to post something....................well as I suppose happens to the rest of you, life gets in the way.   Soooo now what do I say LOL

Well my excuse  for delay.   Like an old person....Lost my balance, and took a flying leap off the porch, trying to put the new (old ) dog out for potty.  Same as a few years ago putting another dog out and hit the ice and broke an ankle)  This time nothing broke , I think, but boy it really hurt for a while.  As soon as I recovered , my son hurt his back at work and was in great pain resulting in surgery.  So he lived in the recliner for several weeks and of course "mom" had to help the poor guy.

Also,....Can you tell I"m working on a sypathy excuse?  HA HA                                                                           I adopted a 15 year old dog with cushings .  Skin and bones and terrified of everything.  Didn't know what I was in for.  After 4 or 5 monthes she is a new dog.  BUT pottys every 2 to 3 hours.  back and forth to the door.  Tried diaper....that lasted about 5 min.  Needless to say we have potty pads all over the house.  I have fallen in love with her and her tumors and ugly black warts.   If you ever come to visit(PLEASE) take the ball cap off!  she hates that.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I love reading the things people post and they seldom get a reaction.  Sorry for that.     I wonder how many feel like I do ....that I have nothing of value to say.  Well too bad ha ha.  You just read all my stupid stuff  so now I want to read someone elses stupid OR exciting.  Whatever.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Oh wait I have more stupid stuff.  A year or two after school when I worked with a BL person that I had not known, she said when we were in school she hated me because she thought I was a snob.  Wow!  The truth be told....I was shy and afraid to talk to people cause why would they ever want to talk to me?    If a boy would talk to me I would freeze...no intellegent words.  And I thought girls did not want to be bothered with me.  One day when someone told "a" girl I was dating someone, she said "wow he must be hard up"    Well as you all know kids are cruel..    I just want to say at this old age in time to  (hopefully to those that I may have ignored or hurt..PLEASE FORGIVE ME AND I AM SORRY     Believe it or not even at the reunions I have felt these things.  It was a real blessing to get to speak to some people I had never spoken to before  one of which is now gone.  Glad I didn"t miss that                                                                                                    

Hope you all won't think I have lost it but am glad to say it all..................hmmmm welll I have lost some of it

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


08/08/19 01:06 PM #604    

 

Beverly Brown (Purser)

Hi classmates I am so sorry Dan poor you not getting responses for your comments. I definitely read them and enjoy the history that you have to share. We all need to remember what a blessing it is to be able to read something that our classmates post. We don't always realize what a special blessing we have to be able to read. I recently have had difficulties with my eyes. I went to numerous doctors appointment from December till now and the end result is I lost one of my eyes. The pain torture that I went through trying to save my eye unbelievable. I finally just said I can't see out of it why are we trying to save something that smell good. So I had to talk to remove my left eye and all the pain and torture went away. It is some adjustment to get used to not being able to see out of that eye but I wouldn't go back to the pain that I had, for anything. I am just extremely thankful that I can read and see with my right eye. Thank you all for the posts you put on our School site. I definitely enjoy them. Dan I extremely enjoy reading yours, please start posting again. You aren't posting two deaf ears I'm sure I'm not the only one that enjoys your post. Your classmate Bev

08/12/19 11:07 AM #605    

 

Ruth Young (Adams)

Hello again.  

Wow Beverly,,,so sorry.  That must have been a rough thing to go through.  You sound like you are dealing well with it..  I am impressed.  God be with you.

So gang.  I have often wondered about where peoplr live and what sort of lives you live.

When my husband got out of the Air Force he wanted to come back here to his home.  I thought it would be exciting.  PA sounded like a whole different world.  Well it is in a way.   I was very lonely for good old Utah, but somewhere along the way realized it's a nice place to be.

I love the greenery and how easy it is to have a nice garden.  The green hills are lovely. (NO...no spectacular mountains.)    Learned a lot about ethnic foods and people.  By now I suppose it is like that most places.

We started out in a little old frame house that my father in law owned. As the family grew , we moved next door to a little brick and bought the two homes.  It was a nice place for the kids to grow.  Dead end road with a creek.  Close to school and in laws.   Across  our little unpaved road was the  back of  a road with very nice homes  The people turned out to be very sweet  and to this day we are good friends.

After the divorce, the houses sold and I took my whopping nine thousand dollars  ( ya I did get ripped off)  and bought a mobil home where I stayed for about  eighteen years.  Finally had enough to buy a house.  Funny but it turned out I bought the house next to the brick house where we lived before.  It is far from lovely but my kids and I sort of feel like this is OUR little road.  Well we did untill someone bought all the property at the end of the road and built several houses for his kids and two gas wells.     I am still happy here even though there are many things that should be repaired.  It is an old cedar shake, two story. The property behind me is a large mowed farm area.  Very nice.  Lots of animals.  The deer sleep in my back yard.  The bunnies live under the shed.  Sometimes I think Lavina (the grandma figure for my kids) is still hanging around.   Every once in a while when I walk through the dining room I smell smoke.  That is where she sat all day watching and smoking.    Lavina died the day my oldest child was getting married.  Her friend called and asked us to check on her.  My son had to break in the house and found her curled up in bed in her little blue sweater...cold.  That was a crazy day.  Family was here from Utah and I was baking the cake and the coroner was next door.  Asked someone to take cake out of the oven while we were next door.  Arghh..had to make that one over.    Needless to say I was late for my daughters wedding

So that is ...homes   Are you asleep yet???????

 

 

 

 

 

 


08/18/19 04:35 PM #606    

Gary Acker

We all remember Mr Eggleston well he came to the BL 1969 reunion driving a 4 wheel drive pick up and sharp as a tack. 95 years-old now.

09/11/19 08:55 PM #607    

Gary Acker

How about this class; Where were you on 9/11 /2011, JFK, Robert Kenedy etc? "May you live in interesting times".

09/13/19 09:40 AM #608    

 

Ruth Young (Adams)

HEY  great to see you back Gary!  I thought sure you would get some response to your question..........Well I will tell you where I was.   I had just gotten in to work at Eckerd  Drug...standing at my photo counter..  A friend came up and said  "don"t you know what just happened?"  Like many others I was stunned.  Hard to absorb.          When I realized much later where fight 93 went down...OH MY  close call!  I live right between Shanksville and Pittsburgh.  Perhaps the plane went right over me.  To think of all that was going on in that plane while the rest of us were below, going on about daily "stuff"   To this day and I guess forever, when a plane flys over I  get a little tense.                                                                                                                                                               With Kennedy; again I was at work ,at the snack bar at Wangsgards


09/13/19 04:29 PM #609    

 

Pete Belliston

In answer to Gary's question about where we were on 9/11 - 

It was one of those times we'll remember forever. Karen and I were on our way to Lake Powell with 3 other couple friends and had been traveling for a few hours. We had the radio on and heard a brief announcement but then lost reception. So, we stopped at a restaurant in the next town and watched it on TV for 15-20 minutes. It was there we felt the magnitude of what was happening.

Then the question was, should we go back home or continue the trip? Most of us were not adamant one way or another so we deferred to one of the men with us who was a pilot for Delta and had some real concerns about whether any of his pilot friends were involved, what this will mean to his job, already scheduled flights, etc. etc. After some deliberation, he finally decided there was nothing he could do at home that he couldn't do at the Lake so he suggested we continue the trip, which we did. It was somewhat difficult but, of course, we spent the week trying to follow what was going on as well as we could through phone calls when we could find a signal and occasional radio reception.


09/14/19 11:25 AM #610    

Gary Acker

Thank you Ruth,I did wonder if anyone would respond. Sounds like you were really close! All my best to you lady!

09/14/19 02:26 PM #611    

Gary Acker

Thanks you guys we had just been presented with a baby boy, my stepdaughters son, so we had been up all night when the news broke in.I was on the way to work when the second one came down. Quite a day!

09/14/19 11:06 PM #612    

Gary Acker

Hey group!How about 11/22/63. What were you doing? How about when Oswald got dead? "You can tell that I have too much time on my hands."I was on the Wild Cat chairlift at snowbasin.

09/20/19 12:32 AM #613    

 

Beverly Brown (Purser)

I this is Bev. On 9/11 I had cataract surgery the day before and I was just getting ready to go to the doctor to have them take the bandage off when the plane hit the first Tower so we watched it as much as we possibly could. When Kennedy was shot I was going to school up at Weber State and it was my lunch time and I was sitting in my car listening to the radio when the news came on about him being shot. It was hard to even comprehend such a thing happening. I want you guys to know how much I enjoy reading the stories that you share. Especially you Dan I have really enjoyed that's things that you have told about your life. I don't see very well anymore so it's a little bit hard to read things but I do my very best. I had my left eye removed in July because it was constantly infected and I was in constant pain prominent I had already gone blind in that eye so I told him let's just quit doing all this stuff and take it out. So that's what I did. I will try to post more often but sometimes I feel like what I have to say isn't anything great and it would be boring but I know that's not the way to look at it because I'm as good a person as anybody. I just sometimes have low self-esteem. Now that I've shared that with you maybe I will be able to get up the nerve to share more often.

09/20/19 12:08 PM #614    

Gary Acker

Beverly it's so good to hear back from you on those subjects that I threw out. I believe that's what Dan was looking for the most. Yes you were very shy but don't let that stop you from contributing your thoughts are as important as anyone. I to have had some eye issues but not as severe. We did grow up in some interesting times (makes you realize how long we have been around).thanks again for your comments, write anytime. Gary.

09/21/19 07:01 PM #615    

Ferron Wimmer

Gary, Interesting that you ask.

I was sitting at the counter in a wafflehouse in Huntsville Alabama.


09/27/19 03:48 PM #616    

 

Daniel Hutchinson

I’d like to apologize to all of you, after my last exchange regarding little feedback, lack of interest, I have had several exchanges with Gary Acker and we’ve seen Ruth’s and Beverly’s comments.  It was also good to see Pete’s input and the blurb from Ferron.

After my ego was bruised, I mentioned to my wife, Jane, how discourage I was trying for five years-plus, attempting to stir some interest without much interest.  I told her “I give up”.  She said “Your classmates are going to think you are a cry baby”.  Now after two or three weeks, I was thinking it was immature to go in and delete all of my input (if there wasn’t any interest, why take up valuable space), for that I apologize. 

After reading Beverly’s horrific problems, pain she has endured with her eyes, I thought I was being a cry baby.  Heaven knows we all have things in our lives to deal with, some more dramatic and serious than others.  I’ve had a few issues, but am sitting here typing in relatively good healthy.  I have had my appendix rupture, and three near death experiences from that, then both eyes have had the cataract surgery, and one had a detached retina, but all have been repaired.  I suppose it is natural to focus on our own problems, not giving too much thought to what others might be going through.  The quote comes to mind, which I heard when we were about 14 or 15; a Helen Keller quote: “I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet”.  No more needs to be said on that!

 

As you all know I joined the Navy in August of 1962, went to Boot Camp in San Diego, then Radio School in Norfolk, Va.  After being graduated from Radio School, I was assigned to The Taiwan Defense Command (TDC), in Taipei, Taiwan.  Still 18 years old, this was my first experience with culture shock.  The whole experience was one of wonder.  My mind soaked everything in like a sponge.  While in Taiwan I celebrated my 19th birthday,  my mother and step-dad sent me a beautiful black jade ring with a diamond in the center.  It was the diamond from the engagement ring my mother had been given by my biological father.  I still have the ring, there was more story behind the ring, but I’m already making this too long.

I wanted to respond to Gary’s question about “where were you when John Fitzgerald Kennedy was assassinated”?  I’m sure I related the story of my getting ready to go to a soccer game with a young lady (blind date) from the American School of Taipei.  One of my shipmates was dating a girl from the school and wanted me to take a friend to the soccer game, as a double date.  It was Saturday morning, already the 23rd in Taiwan.  I put on a nice ski sweater I had purchased for my step-brother for Christmas, went down stairs to the dining area, passing through a pool room, and noticed a very somber mood, a couple of the Chinese dining room help were in tears.  I asked what the problem was, and was told that President Kennedy had been assassinated.  It was like a blow, I immediately went to the office and called my office at the TDC, and learned more about the event.  Naturally, all recreational, sports and festive activities were canceled.  I went back to my room, took the sweater off and repacked it for my brother’s Christmas present.  I went into work and there was a Teletype depiction of President Kennedy made from the type, letters, figures and symbols of the Teletype printer.  I kept a copy of the likeness and still have it, saving it in a book (similar to a year book) of my Viet Nam trip on the ship I was later assigned to.  I’m attaching a copy here.  I hope it isn’t too faded for you to see what it looked like.

With the technological advances, and social media, about four years ago, via a TDC web site, I was able to determine for certain the young lady I was supposed to have the blind date with, was contributing to the stories on the TDC link.  We became facebook friends.  It’s interesting for me to finally learn of her identity, that she lives in New England, was married and has a couple of children.  It is indeed a small world.

OK, guys, I still have some stories to share, but will spare you from more right now.  I pray you all remain in good health and that life is still worth living for you.



 


09/28/19 09:55 PM #617    

Gary Acker

After reading Dan's post I thought I would throw out this as only part of what he said. Have any of you been physically touched by a loved one who has passed? I have, it was the night my dad passed away. I decided that my sister Kathy who had passed earlier that year. ( I have him now ). Have any of you had an experience with a strong presence or smell, anything at all? Near death I haven't been exposed to that. It's been quite a life for us I think

10/08/19 02:37 PM #618    

 

Daniel Hutchinson

For my Jewish friends and everyone of the Jewish faith I offer the following quote, with a wish for all, that God continue to bless you, where ever you may be and bless Israel.

(Hebrew Years 5779-5780)

"Yom Kippur – October 8-9
“Day of Atonement” – the holiest day of the year for Jews. Its central themes are atonement and repentance. Jewish people observe this holy day with a 25-hour period of fasting and prayer, often spending most of the day in synagogue services. Those observing Yom Kippur abstain from food, water, and other worldly needs (such as bathing and having sex) from sundown the first night to sundown the following night. We usually follow up the fast with communal gatherings and celebratory meals to break the fast."


10/08/19 03:00 PM #619    

 

Daniel Hutchinson

Gary, I'd bet my pay check there are numerous near death, or after-life experiences our classmates have expereiced.

Shortly after my son died in early April 2016, my daughter told me she had paid for a psychic to contact her brother.  They were very close and she was taking his passing very hard.  I told her I didn't beleive in those claiming to have psycic abilities, yet never poo-poo it either.  Personally, I feel some of these things are tools of the adversary and not of our Heavenly hosts.

Nevertheless, my daughter, had asked for some signs from my son.  The Psychic had told her my son made it known that he was watcing over her, and mother other daughter and my granddaughter, with whom he was like a father figure.  My oldest daughter, Traci who paid for the psychic session(s) said between the bedrroms, hers and her mother's there is a small accent table with a small lamp. For about three nights in a row that light would come on without either one of them touching it.  She is convinced it was a sign from my son.  There were two or three unusual occurances which are hard to explain.  

Just thought I'd share, Gary -- perhaps some of our other classmates might weigh in?

 


10/08/19 03:40 PM #620    

Gary Acker

I had another experience after my sister passed away, I was mad and depressed punching the radio buttons. The song "chances are "by Johnny Mathis came on. How often do you ever hear that one. it was her favorite song! Talk soon. Any classmates? Chime in.

10/11/19 04:21 PM #621    

 

Ruth Young (Adams)

Back to 9/11   Interesting to hear where we all were...not knowing about each other....Ferron !  ,,,way down south in a waffle house?  !    I really don't remember much about the other  happenings,  Think maybe too involved in child rearing.                      OH BEVERLY   please don't let your self esteem ( I also deal with some of that)   keep you away from us.  At this point in our lives  we need to let it go.  WE LOVE YOU.    I was so happy to see when you (and the rest of you folks) rersponded.  How is your eye doing..?  One of my biggest problems is trying to not become a mean old cat lady  HA HA


10/11/19 04:41 PM #622    

 

Ruth Young (Adams)

Wow Gary and  Dan   NEAT  I personally, very much believe in that sort of thing.  When my mom died I was sitting in her bedroom with my aunt and sister in  law,  Talking about her and all of a sudden we all stopped and felt and smelled that she was there.  Then my sister in law had a dream.  Mother told her she was fine now and Ruth Ann ( me) needed to go home  because I was worried about my kids.                                                           Another time many years ago I worked 2nd shift about 50 min. away from home.  Tired  and trying to decide whether to stop at the store before getting on the turnpike or after, I decided to stop before.   pulled into the parking lot and found my tire was flat.  It was on the threads.  Figured I might as well get busy and figure out how to fix it.   As I opened the trunk to get the spare....along came a man out of nowhere,  He fixed everything and refused money.  I shut the trunk and turned around to speak to him ....he was GONE!!!   Had I gotten on the turnpike with that tire, the way I drove, you would not be hearing from me now,    Many times I would get in the car and turn on the radio and the first song to come on would be   "I Will always be with you"

Ya  I've had a few

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


10/11/19 06:57 PM #623    

Gary Acker

Thank you Ruth.I have no doubt at all that those who have gone before do contact us. The music and smells prove it to me.

10/11/19 07:55 PM #624    

Gary Acker

By the way Ruth, I can't see you as a mean old cat lady!

10/24/19 12:23 PM #625    

Gary Acker

Hey group, Bob VanFossen had triple bypass surgery yesterday and a new valve. He is in a lot of pain but seems to be holding his own. I know that he would appreciate your prayers and thoughts.

10/24/19 01:06 PM #626    

 

Daniel Hutchinson

I note that Bob VanFossen has not joined this group.  Gary, if you are in touch with him, please pass on my best wishes for a speedy recovery.  Praying for him down here in Texas.


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