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09/11/08 08:08 AM #41     Amy Wilhelm (McGuirt) Susie~ I'll be thinking about ya! Stay safe and dry!!

09/11/08 08:22 AM #42     Kelly Houston Hi guys. Like you, I have been stunned and saddened the past few days over Mike's death. I'll try to write some later on...it's been a while, I know. Right now, however, I must get ready for another reunion of sorts that I never wanted to attend. I'll see you all shortly. Kelly HB (Mike's cute way of addressing us with our initials)

09/11/08 08:41 AM #43     Kathy Long (Markham)

09/11/08 09:18 AM #44     Patricia Carroll (Venus) Well Jolee I can tell you Erik is the cutest and sweetest!! I have went to this site every chance I have had to feel comfort in knowing that we all band together. I can't wait until the game to see everyone. I wish I could be there to see everyone today but you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love you all and can't wait to see you in October!

09/11/08 09:18 AM #45     Vicky Lakes (Fuller) To those that are attending Mike's funeral today, give condolences from those of us that were not able to attend. My thoughts and prayers are with him, and his family and freinds...he had more than he realized. Carla, Jolee, I thought the same thing about the shirts, incorporating those we have lost into them. Thanks for taking that on. Can't wait to see them. Susie JB- Stay safe as Ike approaches. I'll be thinking of you...see you next month. Kristen - Have a safe trip to VA. In rememberance of today 9/11 I would like to thank all of you that have served or continute to serve in our military as well as those that serve everyday in our Fire, Police and Rescue, it takes a special person to put their lives on the line every day for each one of us. Thanks again, God Bless.

09/11/08 09:34 AM #46     Kristen Witt (Bray) Ditto on Vicky's comments. It makes me terribly sad that I can't be there today. I am sitting here at 9:30am and wondering how in the world I could transport myself to Roanoke in about 5 minutes so that I can stand with everyone else to pay my respects to Mike and to his family. I hope that everyone in his family realizes how much he meant to so many of us. This is a tough enough day because of the attacks on the US. Even tougher now that we are burying such an incredible guy. Thank you to all of those in the armed forces for protecting our country. And thanks to all of those in the police and fire/rescue for protecting us every day. I absolutely LOVED what David Keaton wrote. I think that I am going to cut and paste it somewhere that I can refer to it on a continuing basis. Maybe we could even inscribe those words somehow on our reflection of Mike. Via his profile on this forum, or on the sweatshirt, or on the photo album. It does give such comfort to read those words!

09/11/08 09:49 AM #47     Laura Wolfe (Campbell) Speaking of the photo album - since so many people like the idea, I would be happy to head it up. If you're interested in sharing your photos for the childrens' memory books, or just want to write a little something about how you remember Mike (maybe a funny story - I know there are TONS of those), you can send them to me and I can be the point person for collecting all the photos. Once we have everything, I will send out a call for help in assembling books. I know Annette GN is interested in helping. Oh and Annette - I love the idea of having the neighborhood kids participate. We should definitely do that. So, if you have items to share - send me a message via this website and I will email you my mailing address. You are also welcome to send electronic items. I will take care of printing them on archival paper. Keep this in mind when you are sending physical items: Will you need them back? If so, make sure you let me know. I'll make the appropriate copies and send them back. If sending pictures, identify who is in it for me. Yes, I'm getting old and the memory is going. I am good at recognizing faces, but often can't put the name with the face. So help me out :o) Identify the year, where you were, and maybe give a little background on what was going in. Okay, any other ideas or suggestions, just let me know. I'm thinking we should give people a few weeks to get their items in. What do you all think?

09/11/08 10:29 AM #48     Kristen Witt (Bray) Laura -- I would definitely allow people several weeks to get their items ready. I know that everyone is doing what they can to deal with his death right now, so I think that allowing extra time would be great. Especially for Sean, Brian, etc.. since they were so close to him. I am sure that they would like to contribute, but they are dealing with enough of their emotions right now. Thank you so much for taking on this task. I think that it is a great idea!!!!

09/11/08 02:46 PM #49     Faye Sowers (Crute) okay, the funeral was a very nice tribute to Mike. For those who could not attend please know your spirit was there and it was packed. Everyone from his high school friends, neighborhood friends, family, vet staff, college friends, etc. There were special stories told, a couple of Mike's fav songs, and we looked at the most touching picture of Mike with his daughter up front and it was stunning (you could see the twinkle in his eyes) Mike was bringing people together even in the end. No sad stories per Perry so I am watching because Perry is going to start sharing memories of Mike that will have us rolling in the floor I understand. Something about 5th grade spin the bottle party with Mike Rodgers in the sticker bush out front............you know someone will have to explain things to me but sounds like an interesting tale. Thank you Perry and Diane (you know what I am talking about) and Sean your wife is adoreable, I know she thinks this broad is a kook but we had fun talking today. Leslie, you are my hero, I am in awe of your calmness. Jolee once again I thank you for including me with the reunion because I once again relearned how special our class was than and still is today. No matter our differences we are committed to caring and helping each other.

09/11/08 03:41 PM #50     Shannon Davis (Nuckolls) Hi Dear NHS Friends, I am so sorry about Mike. He made us all feel special with his famous smile. He was kind & generous. Not that long ago, he told all of us we were welcome in his home-anytime and to let him know if anyone wanted to go to a VA Tech football game. I am thankful to have had the night with all of you at our reunion. Mike did not wait one second before he greeted me with a hug & kiss on my head that night. We will miss him deeply. I rejoice knowing he was saved & he is having the true time of his life-now in Heaven.

09/11/08 03:44 PM #51     Jolee Clarke (Preston) Wow, what an emotional day. The place was packed with so many people. People I had not seen in so long. It was so good to see everyone who could come out and in Mike's way, he would have been reluctant to see all of those people there for him. But when they played "And Nothing Else Matters" by Metallica...this chick lost it. I re-grouped with the story from the cousin (I think) who received a wheel-barrow (sp) as a wedding gift from Mike with "Metallica" inscribed inside the wheelbarrow...and that he made them sit down and take a pre-test of sorts before he would allow them to get married. Such humor and wisdom. Our flowers were beautiful and I was able to briefly speak to his mom and two sisters. A truly wonderful family. What I keep realizing over and over and over is that we have such a close family of classmates. There we all were today, leaning on each other for support, comfort, humor, and strength. And those of you who couldnt be there...we truly felt your presence before we left and you were a huge support prior to today. Laura WC~ What a great offer to take on the scrap book. We discussed at lunch (please tell me what you think) the idea of doing a "boys" book for Camden and a "girls" book for Darden. What do you think about that? I can contribute the two books with any extra funds that are left over from the flowers (?!?!?). Just let me know your thoughts. I love scrapbooking and would love to be a part of this too when it is time to create. Perry and Diane~ You two are the most genuine, sweet, thoughtful, kind, funny people. I love doing things for people and it is seldom people can get by with things on me...but you two take the cake. Anything you ever need, you call me. Suzie~ Runnnnn!!!! Come to VA!!!! Lez KP~ Thank you for being my friend, inspiring me, and understanding me for all my inconsistencies and quirks. We are an unlikely combination of friends, yet we have a lot in common. I just straightened my faucet...came in and the daggone thing was crooked! It is hard to be OCD when your husband and daughter think this house is a truckstop. Kelly HB~ Hope to see and hear from you more. Miss you! Sean B.~ I just don't know what to say...but if I did, I know you would listen....your wife is awesome, fit in with us like she gradgeeated from Northside. That is a compliment. I hope you will bring her with you more. I'll be waiting on the full moon....ha ha!!! Oh, I meant to tell you when we used to camp in the pre-#2 marriage, I used to go pee out in the woods so my camp name was "white moon squatting over rock." You must have been out there too.... Take care and talk to you all soon....as Mike would say... Stay Heavy.....

09/11/08 04:00 PM #52     Jolee Clarke (Preston) And to all of you Ghost Readers~ Now is not the time to be silent. We want to hear from you. Say anything...just let us know you are out there.

09/11/08 04:03 PM #53     Barry LeNoir "In every way we're troubled but not crushed, frustrated but not in despair, persecuted but not abandoned, struck down but not destroyed.. and so death is at work in us, but life is at work in you." (From 2 Cornithians 4, read this morning at Mike's funeral.) Only a man like Mike Goode could get away with having Metallica played at his funeral! A little Jesus and a little metal: Rock On indeed! Per his likely wishes, it was even announced that Metallica's new CD is released soon... Classic Goode! Attendance at Mike's funeral this morning was tremendous; and very moving to see so many friends gather in his honor. A shout-out to and for Mike: "Rude Goode", from rival days at Glen Cove Elementary, to 1979 North Roanoke Recreation basketball league with Coach Dewey Goode, to screaming with the Pope Pack at NHS, to France (as the two most obnoxious American tourists) and back, to Alarm concerts, to our beloved VPI&SU (aka Virginia Tech) and many "boo-bird" filled games in Cassell Colliseum, to graduation, employment and beyond... Raise your heads, dry your tears and lift your voices to let a big, last, resounding Mike Goode "boo-bird" ring throughout Roanoke and Blacksburg: "GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODE!!!!"

09/11/08 04:07 PM #54     Annette Gilliam (Nicely) It was so good to be with each and every one of you today, it made the whole unfortunate event seem more bearable. I don't want to sound bad but for those who have ever lost anyone close it just dredges those memories back up and it just makes it easier when you have others to lean on. However, the funeral was a great reflection of Mike and the wonderful person that he was, from the savvy business man to the sweet caring friend and father. And his infectious smile. By the way, we do have the BEST class: CLASS 1988 ROCKS! Laura: I am going to start contacting the parents in the neighborhood and community for pics and stories to add to the scrapbook. I will be contacting you when I get the goods. Perry and Diane thank you for you know what at you know where. :> Please post if you guys plan anything for this weekend :>

09/11/08 04:10 PM #55     Kristen Witt (Bray) Now, I am really wishing that I had been there this morning. But, I am glad that you felt our presence since there were many of us that couldn't make it. Just a reminder to everyone, you can go to the "In Memory" page and post your messages for those who have passed away. I have posted my message for Mike, and I just want a quiet moment to reflect on Rusty and Tonya. I do have memories of them, but I want to have some quiet time to put the words together so I don't sound stupid. Thank you to all of you who attended the funeral on behalf of the class of 1988. I am sure that his parents, his sisters, his ex-wife, and his kids were truly touched by all of your support. So, I kinda hate to ask considering the event, but how was his family holding up? I am sure that they are still in shock, as we all are. And is there anything that we can do?

09/11/08 04:33 PM #56     Jolee Clarke (Preston) Well said Barry. When the pastor mentioned that they were now going to play a song in tune with what Mike would have liked, I leaned over to Jason Loving and said, "Oh Lord, can this place handle that?" I must have said it out loud...I heard someone laughing and agreeing. I listened to "Mandatory Metallica" on XM Channel 51 all the way home just to put a smile on my face. Two songs lasted 30 minutes...ha ha. And, by the way, the new CD goes on sale tomorrow...Mike told me that.... If anyone wants to get together tomorrow night for a casual dinner...pick the place...I eat to live and live to eat....oh wait, I ride a Harley...that is supposed to be "ride to live and live to ride...." Sometimes I get my phrases mixed up. I think the memory phrase for Mike should be: Distraught but not Defeated. It falls right in line with the verse Barry quoted from the service today. Doesn't it? Tina Hall~ If you have any pics of Tonya Green, scan them and send them to me as a file, whatever, and I would love to add them to the memory page.

09/11/08 04:59 PM #57     Sharon Underwood (Ramsey) I am so sad to hear about Mike. He was one of my first friends when I came to Glen Cove in the second grade and since we both lived in North Lakes I saw him often. The past few days I have been flooded with memories of the kind things he did and the times he made me laugh so hard I could barely breathe. We would pass by his house almost everyday leaving North Lakes and it was such a comfort knowing that a good friend lived there. If he saw us he would always wave with a warm smile. I was not able to make it to his funeral but it has been nice to hear about it from those who did. He will be greatly missed!

09/11/08 05:05 PM #58     Trina Schossow (Folden) Such emotions today...hard to put into words, but it was so great to see so many of us assembled together for Mike and his family. A true testimony to Mike...standing room only, just like at his beloved concerts. As Metallica cued up today, all I could think was Mike was probably smiling down and wanting it turned up!! Barry, thanks for posting the verse from this morning. One of my very favorite contemporary Christian tunes comes from that verse-"I'm Trading my Sorrows". The lunch crowd, it was fabulous to be able to sit down together after the service and trade stories and to just lean on each other. Our class is amazing and I am so thankful to be a part of the Class of '88. I was talking to some after the service that missed the reunion, and I could not stop gushing about how great everyone was, regardless if you knew each other during school or not. I think some classmates stayed away thinking it would be like high school again, with the same crowds together...so not true with this crowd! Perry and Diane, you are an awesome couple and I love you both. It has been so wonderful to get reconnected. Love on your families tonight.

09/11/08 05:09 PM #59     David Brugh Like the rest of you, I have been deeply saddened since receiving Jolee's email. Even though I had not seen or spoken with Mike since high school, I still smiled big every time I thought of him. His mischevious smile and his infectious laugh followed him everywhere he went. I can still see and hear him impersonating Rick Flair.... That's how I remember Mike. I would like to offer my sincerest apologies to my classmates, Mike's friends and family. In my post a while back, I shared pictures from some of my fondest memories in high school. One of these photos was of Mike. Unaware of Mike's struggle, my caption was inappropriate and surely painful for Mike and those close to him. For this, I cannot express the depth of my regret and sorrow. To you, Mike, I am so very sorry. I wish I could have told you this in person. My thoughts and prayers are certainly with Mike's family and friends. Peace be with all of you. David

09/11/08 05:15 PM #60     Annette Gilliam (Nicely) Carla: Thanks again for the ride! :> I also enjoyed catching up while we were in transit. You crack me up girl.:>

09/11/08 05:30 PM #61     Jolee Clarke (Preston) David~ Your apology is as sweet as you are. However, we are getting old and for the life of me, I don't even remember the caption you are talking about. I knew of Mike's struggles only since the reunion, but I do not remember thinking any adverse thoughts about anything that has been posted. Except for the Rush Limbaugh crap Mike posted.... :)

09/11/08 05:50 PM #62     Marion Frazier thank you to everyone for posting after the funeral--i've been wondering how it went and have been listening to the only 3 metallica songs i own (and a couple of danzig's thrown in for good measure) off-and-on all day. rock on mike--i'm thankful i got to hang with you at the reunion.

09/11/08 06:45 PM #63     Vicky Lakes (Fuller) Thanks everyone for sharing your experience at Mike's funeral today. Throughout the day at work I would stop and think of him and tears would come to my eyes. People must have thought I was nuts crying over the copier...but it makes you appreciate those in your life and the friends you have, and those you have reconnected with since the reunion. It's funny but when I think of Mike I remember him as he was in High School, before he was tall :) He sat in front of me in Accounting. I think it was Erik, Mike, Jay Wimmer, Gunther and I in that class, and it was a blast. He always had a smile, and yes that twinkle in his eye. A Metallica song won't play that he won't be remembered.

09/11/08 06:48 PM #64     Vicky Lakes (Fuller) Barry, thanks for posting that picture. Strangely enough I think I have the same one. Thanks for sharing the words spoken at his funeral.

09/11/08 06:59 PM #65     Leslie Kidd (Palmieri) Perry and Diane - Thanks so much for the kindness you showed us today. What a great class we are blessed to have. To everyone else I came in contact with today, I was one of those people Trina referred to in an earlier post. It really has amazed me how warm and kind everyone is. As Jolee reminded me today, I have been homebound with my kids for quite a few years. I think I forgot how to have friends. Thanks again to everyone for your kindness. Say a prayer for Mike's family.

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