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10/15/08 12:05 PM #791    

 

Kristen Witt (Bray)

Faye --- how do you really feel? Just joking. I try not to get offended easily. I mostly give people the benefit of the doubt (a.k.a. 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc... chance) about their intentions. It is just that some people have a tone about them that can seem to be aggressive at times. That is when I get concerned that they are putting me down. Then I get pissed off. :)

And I agree with what ya'll are saying. I know of someone who graduated about 10 years after we did, and she told me how those acts were taking place on the school bus for Northside JUNIOR HIGH and how it wasn't sex. I was absolutely shocked. I know that it happens, and that it is happening at such a younger age, but do we, as a country, really need to show it on TV? I guess I now know what my grandparents were feeling when they saw Lucy and Ricky sleeping in the same bed. Just kidding, well sort of!

10/15/08 12:12 PM #792    

 

Vicky Lakes (Fuller)

I guess we do what we've always done, teach our kids right from wrong, communicate with them, pray for them, and hopefully they turn out ok. At least for me, I only have about 10 months until my "baby" leaps out of the nest and is on her own... It scares me to death, but then I think about what we did at that age, the mistakes we made, and hey, we didn't turn out to bad.

10/15/08 12:14 PM #793    

 

Vicky Lakes (Fuller)

Kristen FR - Thanks for the additional picture you posted on your profile :)

10/15/08 12:23 PM #794    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Kristen~ Oral sex is here...to stay....ha ha. Unfortunately. Kenzie talks about that crap even going on in the bathrooms at Salem High...and she first began talking about it at Andrew Lewis. I just wished there was some way to line her mouth and privates with saran wrap...and when you think it can't happen to your kid who you think is perfect...watch out, you will be a grandma. Kenzie has, unfortunately, pushed the limits. I know I am not the only parent out there shaking their head at things their kid has done...I am just willing to say it. I am a nurse...so we talk REAL talk...about how to get STD's, pregnant, killed by your mother, you name it. But we have had open, realistic, non-judgmental discussions...but we have also had scares here and there.

The best thing I can attribute it to is...tv, cell phones, and a feeling by teens of needing and craving "acceptance" from the opposite sex. To teens, it is critical. To parents, it is deadly. But they don't see things like we do.

Stefffff~ Where are youuuuuuu?

Has anyone thought about back-up plans in case it rains Friday night? I melt....

:)

10/15/08 12:25 PM #795    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

I know, you all are saying, "well, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree...." I can hear it now...I was very outgoing!!

Where the heck is Chris Akers? And Coffey?

10/15/08 12:28 PM #796    

Trina Schossow (Folden)

Kristen WB...I do not watch the new 90210, but did catch the season premiere a couple of weeks ago, in which one of the opening scenes was virtually the same (though she wasn't looking for anyone), had just arrived at school. It emphasised to me the importance of screening what my kids watch. Most of TV is crap these days, and I don't think we can expect it change, except for the worse. Just another thing for us to worry about as parents...

10/15/08 12:39 PM #797    

Trina Schossow (Folden)

Jolee...I'm with you, we need a back up plan in case of rain. 419's covered patio??

10/15/08 12:42 PM #798    

Greg Terry

I just thank god that I don't have a daughter because she would hate me. Not that I am saying it is OK for boys to do these things because that's not the case but if I had a daughter she would never be allowed out of the house. She would always be known as that kid down the street that never comes outside and lives in a bubble. I can't believe the clothes these girls wear today and I wonder if their parents know. We were at the mall in Durham a couple of weeks ago and some of the girls walking around there couldn't sit down or everything would have been showing. Also, yesterday morning while I was walking my 5 year old to the bus stop, my neighbor's son from across the street and his girl friend came out to get in his car and drive to Northside. Unless there was some special cirumstance like a Blizzard, my parents would have freaked if I had a girl sleep over when they were home. I guess it's OK in today's world.

OK enough of my soap box. We definitely need alternate plans. I checked the weather and it is supposed to be 62 and showers on Friday.

10/15/08 12:59 PM #799    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

David Noon....
If you are out there...I would love for your INSIGHT on the Vice Presidential candidate from Alaska...ah HEM! Turbo needs to hear what you have told me....or she could read the wonderful article you co-authored.

10/15/08 01:06 PM #800    

 

Faye Sowers (Crute)

okay Jolee this mom with her head buried in the sand wants to know if you will come over before Maggie starts at Andrew Lewis and have the talk.....I don't think I can do it........UGH what is with this sex stuff and kids.....too young to handle.........I mean damn man sometimes it too much for adults to handle it puts emotions in things there were days when I was in my 20s and the relationship and sex thing really mixed me up. where is my box I want to hide.......... I don't want my baby to grow up........

Kristen WB I thinks it admirable that you give people those 4 & 5th chances I guess we all have experienced that life is so short and sometimes things spoken don't come across in the right manner. I know from personal experience sometimes written things come across very sacrastic when I am just trying to be funny, I have a sense of humour after living these experiences in life that make you have a sense of humour or you would be crying in your beer most days. Anyways I guess these hiccups of life are lessons of our character. I just try to always remember to give people the benefit of the doubt, most people want to do the right thing but sometimes they just don't know what that is.........I have to pray alot and try to let things go. I have recent experiences that basically would make me become a bitter old woman if I didn't let them go so I hope I don't sound bitter just a person that picks those BIG girl britches up and goes on her merry way......(and I mean BIG britches....)

Jolee give it up woman.....:) you know I love you but David actually emailed me a while ago and it seem he was very favorable about the Palin woman (who I am a wanna be she reminds me so much of myself..........) you know I am a die hard McCain/Palin fan.........not giving it up for the old big ear blowhard............sorry no chance...........

10/15/08 01:07 PM #801    

 

Kristen Witt (Bray)

I hope that it doesn't rain on ya'll. We are suppose to get the wind and rain here on Saturday.

Hey, speaking of BJ's, did ya'll hear that Holly Madison and Hugh Hefner are no longer together? I wondered what happened. Hee~hee.

10/15/08 01:10 PM #802    

 

Kristen Witt (Bray)

Faye --- I love reading your posts. You are just so passionate about things. For you see, I am a "fence-rider". I don't lean one way or the other ... I just tend to agree/disagree with both sides. I admire your stance on certain topics, and even if I don't agree, I like to hear your opinions. :)


10/15/08 01:11 PM #803    

 

Faye Sowers (Crute)

whats a bj

Thanks Kristen I think Jolee is just trying to fire me up she knows I have been down and she in her Jolee wonderful way of trying to make everyone feel better knows the way to fire me up is talk politics ain't that right my friend..........I am passionate about it.......and try to do it without offending but sometimes my approach well it may be questionable but I mean well.........

Well I just heard old bamanomamanogonnavotefor that no idea or clue on how to fix things is coming to town on sat I guess I will have to go visit him so I can share about what people with problems really think maybe he will give some of that money back he took from fannie/freddie back....think i can talk him into it..........okay i give it up today..........turbo out maybe i can camp out in the lot with my sleeping bag..........

10/15/08 01:29 PM #804    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Faye~

Oh, on the contrary...read some of his blogs...just google David's name...he is wonderfully elloquent with his Alaska facts...and they are NOT favorable to The Maverick...I just can't go there...too inexperienced, too scripted, too "oh my God, she could be the president if the person who is in their 70's with a history of cancer dies..." To each his own my friend...but have you seen the polls lately? I think Scooby Doo would have gotten McCain better percentages...

10/15/08 01:31 PM #805    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Ouch Faye...that is the first actual reply I have made to one of your narrow minded postings! You are going for the jugular...and you KNOW I've got your back if you need it...there just may be an "OBAMA" sticker on it...ha ha..

10/15/08 01:40 PM #806    

 

Faye Sowers (Crute)

I will be the first to admit I am a narrow minded conservative loud mouth woman but I was sincere in my post I figured you were trying to bring me out of my quiet shell this week.......I was not being sarcastic really sometimes the best friends are those who allow us no pity parties..........I still love you man I can't help that I am narrow minded this is the woman who has to still ask questions of what things mean....don't forget that.........once a nerd always a nerd.......I am referring to myself..........I will email Dave he must have been scared to tell me his real thoughts...........I ain't that scary am I?
sorry I lied about my last comment too inexperienced Palin.....what about no knowledge bama......he could always ask directions of nobiden........:) stop girl I want to wallow stop making me laugh............i am going to go drink now..............or be dragged by my office to go get a flu shot no I think the drink will do.....

I just emailed Daveo I forgot he was a professor so hope he wasn't offended by my email I did refer to the fact that most professors are a little more liberal in their thought process but hopefully he will get on the forum to see my sense of humour............:)

another question jolee will you please pay my tax bill increase when it comes........gawd I am cracking myself up...........I have to laugh because the fear will overtake me....of what is to come....ughhhhhhhh

10/15/08 01:44 PM #807    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Nope Faye, you're not that scary...and I LOVE your fire and drive...truly, I do. And you make valid points, and I appreciate you for everything that you stand for...you KNOW I mean that...that is why I call you TURBO!

10/15/08 04:11 PM #808    

Ken Haines

Yes, Dave is not too favorably impressed by Ms. Palin. He is a little shy and reticent with him opinion, though?!!

I hope the game is great on Friday. Sorry I won't be able to make it.

10/15/08 04:59 PM #809    

David Noon

Alright, I've apparently been summoned to duty here on the Palin thing. I'll be brief, but I've been writing a lot about Palin for the past two months, so I'll throw some links at the end for anyone who's interested.

It's safe to say that I take an extremely dim view of Sarah Palin. As governor, she's been reasonably decent; as a potential vice president (or president), she's a farce. Her demonstrated lack of knowledge on most issues -- foreign policy, the economy, even energy -- is staggering. And when I say "staggering," I'm being kind.

I've tried to explain this to non-Alaskans, with mixed success, but one of the fundamental problems with Palin is that she comes from a state that does a poor job of conditioning political candidates for national office. Alaskans generally view the rest of the United States as a weird, unpleasant, dangerous place that is useful only to the degree that it supplies us with billions of dollars a year in federal support. Palin's a product of this extremely odd political culture.

So until McCain asked her to help him recruit the social conservative voters that abandoned him in the primaries, Sarah Palin had not spent more than two minutes of her life thinking about the kinds of issues you'd expect to be on the mind of a VP candidate in 2008. The fact that she doesn't know what the "Bush Doctrine" is, for example, is mind-blowing -- the Bush Doctrine, after all, is the reason her son (and Joe Biden's son) is in Iraq right now. The fact that she seems to think that the United States should not export any oil it might recover from ANWR is (and again, I'm being generous here) insane, especially to the ears of people who know the first thing about how oil actually circulates in a global market. The fact that she can't discuss any Supreme Court decisions except for Roe is embarrassing -- especially given the fact that at least two recent Supreme Court decisions (Exxon v. Baker and Mass. v. EPA) directly affected the state. These are things she should know about. But she apparently doesn't.

It goes on and on. It's not that Palin is an idiot; she's not. She's just not very curious -- despite her claims to read every newspaper in the country.

I suppose I can understand why a lot of conservatives are excited about Palin. She's young, she's energetic, she can function adequately with a teleprompter and without the risk of follow-up questions. And conservatives got stuck with John McCain this time around, which is of course a shame for them. So I can appreciate the temporary enthusiasm for someone new, even though I share exactly zero of her political views.

But at the end of the day, she's a novelty candidate. Maybe she'll be back in 2012 for a run at the presidency, maybe not. I happen to think she'd do poorly in a prolonged race. But at this point, though, it looks like she'll have four years to catch up on all those newspapers.

10/15/08 05:00 PM #810    

David Noon

Oops. That was longer than I expected it to be... Blah blah blah.

Anyhow, there's more Palin stuff to be found here:

http://minnesotaindependent.com/author/david-noon

10/15/08 05:30 PM #811    

Tony Bond

Friday night @ Martin's is The Seed! Which, for those of you who have not been out in the last few years, is a Raggae/R & B/Funk/Rock band that has won The Roanoke Times band of the year the last few years. If you have not seen them before, then you should see them soon before they move to D.C. You can check them out on www.myspace.com/theseedsound or www.theseedsound.com...

10/15/08 05:33 PM #812    

Tony Bond

Oh, and Jolee, I no longer go by Daniel... I only went by that in school anyway as some stupid teacher in second grade at Burlington decided it was too difficult to remember that I went by Tony and it kind of stuck...

10/15/08 05:42 PM #813    

Carla Boyd (McCabe)

I agree...if it rains Friday, lets do 419 West.
Jolee...did we decide to say Saturday's plan is meet for dinner at 7pm at Martin's...then move to Corned Beef&Co.?
I have people asking me what the plan is...I want to set something in stone so that anyone who decides to join us will know where to find us. Don't want to leave anyone out!

10/15/08 05:45 PM #814    

 

Faye Sowers (Crute)

AHHHHH DAVE a sparring partner it seems......and what might your opinion be of the countrys beloved mirage of Obama..........is your opinion the same as most of the Hollywood sector who hates Bush so much they would vote a rock (or knothead in this case) in as President over a veteran who has served his country instead of caused riots (ACORN and drawing racial lines instead of creating the unity he claims)I mean the liberals/lobbyists really took it over the edge by ousting Hilliary and instead putting some mirage of what appears to be a human in the form of Obama in the race of President its insane that the world cares so little that they obviously would choose someone that has no right to be in that role........okay let me go splash some water over my face and take a step back.....Dave I would never presume that your an OBAMA supporter and for those who are....sorry but if you think my life/career/family life has not been impacted by the decline of this housing market it has and watching the Barney Franks/Chris Dodds of the world defending the crap they did makes me want to throw up.......I talk to people every day who are losing their homes and if you think someone like Obama gives a rats a.. he doesn't......those are the facts. I have people crying in my office and it is frustrating because their net worth is now next to nothing.......okay water time........can Jolee as the administrator plug me............okay happy thoughts.........how are all those soccer moms out there doing? oppps sorry I mean how are all those hardworking moms and dads out there doing...........:) anyone loosing any money in investments.....chris a how is your business..........did I say bitter old woman earlier..........okay I am smiling and laughing as I write this steam is not coming out of my ears.....its comical I am going to go PTA stuff right now soooooo
peace out

ohhhh one more thing those political candidates who have been conditioned obviously suck so let a person who comes from the real world with real problems go to work. You know its those people who have been Washington conditioned that I worry about running this country no matter what party they are affliated with they don't have a clue on how to look out for the people and I mean all people.

10/15/08 06:51 PM #815    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Faye~
Your veteran served his country based on his Daddy's position at the time...and then served another woman when he was married...left the first one behind crippled...and I dare to think that Obama, nor McCain, is the problem with the economy right now...can't really blame either of them...I did tear up a little bit in the McCain interview with Diane Sawyer where his old prisonmates sent coded messages with "taps." That is sort of what Johnny and I do...but he winds up with these big knots on his head...I dont think we have it down yet...

Thanks Dave...love ya, mean it. I really do not have a party I belong to, and humbly, I do admit that I am not really impressed with either candidate...but I have chosen a ticket...and I am a professor...

And Faye...I can "UN"plug you...that's about all I can do as administrator...hisss...hisss...ffffttttt....fffftttt! That is cat talk! (But thanks for the phone call, no, I'm not upset...I'm glad you have somewhere to vent your beliefs)

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