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09/12/08 05:40 PM #91    

Annette Gilliam (Nicely)

Boooooooo I wanted to get out of cooking! Plus see you all!

09/12/08 09:01 PM #92    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Couldn't wait to get home and see who had joined the site today....the rest of our family....ha ha. Come one, come all...we can have a revival when it's all over with....and play Metallica....

We can always try dinner again next week. No problem. We've got many more weekends...Not a bowler...but I would love to come just to watch you all and laugh...

Kelly...I think you have more battle wounds from making out than soldiers in Iraq!!! Geez...who DIDNT you make out with in high school...but do tell....we love your stories....

Oh, and just so you all know about my continued love for the Swedes...when I was reading the signings in my Senior Memory book...there is this one entry...from a handsome gentleman I will allow to remain nameless because you all already know which twin I am talking about...anyhoo...he did sign my book with "I love you." UH HUH!!!! It must have been a full moon or something...I know....

Will be getting the Metallica CD tomorrow too...I heard one song off of it yesterday on XM....The Judas Kiss...wow, I can't figure out how they can even LEARN those 85 minute songs.

Talk to you all soon....

09/12/08 09:10 PM #93    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Angelo~
Love the pics...such a hottie....and the family is cute too...LOVE the pic with Mike in it...always smiling....

09/12/08 09:17 PM #94    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Happy Belated Birthday Stephanie Lugar....if you ever get tired of your hair...can I have it? You'll have to come fix it for me every day...but I would love to have it...

09/12/08 09:44 PM #95    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

I went to the roanoke.com obits page and went back to yesterday's postings so I could pull up Mike's guest book. There are 11 pages of sympathy wishes...I have never seen that many pages in all of my years as an oncology nurse...shouldn't be too surprising to me...it's for Mike...

I encourage you to look at the link to Mike's vet's webpage. She has dedicated her home page to Mike. Very wonderful tribute to him with heartfelt words.

http://www.olddominionvet.com/

09/12/08 10:45 PM #96    

Susan Jones (Badger)

Hey everyone..Greeting from TEXAS! Well..IKE is just about making landfall in Galveston which is about 2 1/2 hours from San Antonio. No rain just yet there.. but 110 mph winds and waves that are breaking over the 17 foot seawalls. That means the surges are about 10 feet..in a nut shell that means floods from hell. Here in SA we are anticipating the winds and the rain. The winds could get up to 75-80 mph. Starting to pick up. The temp has dropped and it's very calm outside which typically happens during a hurricane if you have never experienced one. I know it's getting close because my dog senses it. She's like..ummm can we get the heck out of here! The good part for most of San Antonio is that the storm is going North East that means..Austin, Waco, and yes Dallas Fort Worth will get some of the storm..but poor Houston and those Texans are the speed bumps. I live on the east side of San Antonio so I wont be going anywhere this weekend. We are hoping power doesn't go out.

Have a wonderful evening..I will keep you guys updated. Don't worry and DON"T watch the news. They over exagerate everything I promise. I know most of you remember the floods of 1985. That's about the extent of it. It's not that bad. It's the idiots that had plenty and I mean 7 days to use Jolee's words to RUN that didn't that are in deep doo doo right now!

Talk to you all soon!

And Stepanie Lugar..you are beautiful as ever!


09/12/08 10:48 PM #97    

Susan Miller (Swartz)

It is very sad to hear what happened to Mike. He was a really nice guy and will be missed. If I could have made it to the reunion, he is one person I would have wanted to reconnect with.

My most vivid memory of Mike was after high school. I transferred from Radford to Va Tech my junior year. It was my first week of classes and I had a business class in an auditorium with about 150 other students. I was a little overwhelmed by the campus and the particular class because the size of the campus was all new to me. Everyone seemed to know where they were going and what they were doing except me.

I remember walking out of my business class the first day. We were all filing out of what felt like a small hallway because of the number of people who were exiting at the same time. During this shuffle, I heard "Hey Susan". The voice sounded familiar but I had not heard it for several years so I was having a hard time placing it. I turned and looked behind me and looked someone in the chest. I then looked up and saw Mike. I was immediately comforted by seeing a familiar face amongst strangers. I was happy to see him and was so amazed at how much he had grown in the prior two years. Two immediate things came out of my mouth, "Mike! You've grown!" Mike had a great sense of humor about my candid reaction and we talked frequently that semester and then when we bumped into each other during the next 1.5 years. I have thought of this conversation many times over the last year and a half because it occurred in Norris Hall - the building where the massacre happened.

It is great to see that everyone is getting together on a regular basis. I would really like to join all of you sometime when I am home visiting and when Colton is on a regular schedule (he just started sleeping 5 & 6 hour stretches - woohoo - there is an end in sight!). I was home a few weekends ago but I was so tired from our crazy family/baby schedule that I made no effort to do anything except rest. My oldest will have some time off the early part of November. There is also Christmas break, too. When we come in, hopefully, I'll be able to join one of your luncheons.

09/12/08 11:37 PM #98    

Joe J. Hatcher

Hey guys ! Sorry, but here lately I'm a night-owl w/ everything that's gone on this past week. It's been a little EXTRA special for me too reading through all of the wonderful tributes for Goode and seeing so many more of our classmates join and be a part of the newfound '88 NHS family !

Greg & Stephanie, you are truly blessed with your kids, whether two or four-legged !!! Susie, we're praying right now for all you guys in TX that everyone is safe, and YES, I would love to meet up everyone for lunch/dinner downtown sometime and we can share our HS stories.

I haven't posted lately becuse our family just lost a loved one just days prior to Mike's passing. My brother Dave's son Steve who graduated from Lord Bot. a year after we did suddenly died of a heart attack early last Thurs. morning and his memorial service was Wed. evening. Our family is still in shock over that and it was rather surreal to have Jolee's email about Mike right after that news too.

A blessing is that I did get to see my cousin Trish (Melton) Alt there, you remember she was on the cheerleading squad and yearbook staff, and it was nice to see her. I wanted to be there for Mike too but appointments kept me away but we're ALL there for him through his spirit and his gleaming smile.

Okay, it's getting late but do any of you remember Ms. Frances Petty's 11th grade English class ? For background, Ms. Petty had taught at NHS for years and was for a long time head of the Eng. dept. Later in life she would teach during the day and then after all the stuff we put her through would then jump into her green '72 Mustang, go home and take care of her 90+ year old mother. Needless to say, she would get very drowsy during class, bless her heart. Anyhoo, I remember one day during a lesson, she dropped off and Mr. Goode decided that he would coax a number of our classmates to leave, walk all the way around the circumference of the hallways of the school, come back in while the still sleeping Ms. Petty was clueless as to what had just transpired. Mike then took his English book, dangled it in the air beside his desk and let it drop, landing flat on the floor so that it would make a loud THUMP, waking poor Ms. Petty from her slumber. She simply carried on where she had left off, never missing a beat as to the events that had unfolded in her class over the last several minutes ! To this day, that's probably the funniest memory I have from the years at NHS. Way to go GOOOOOOOOODE !!!

09/13/08 12:39 AM #99    

Amy Wilhelm (McGuirt)

Joe~ I'm so sorry to hear about your loss..my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susie~ I wish I had your advice earlier today about not watching the news... I've thought about you several times today!! Stay safe!!

09/13/08 02:56 AM #100    

Sean Bowyer

Long day...

All in all a good one. Mike's house was filled with people and at times uncontrollable laughter. All of them telling different stories of how he had impacted their lives. Ya know, it was hard to spend any time with Mike and not come away with a story or be profoundly changed by something he said. Life was always in motion for him and there was rarely a dull moment when he was around.

Speaking of stories... Kelly, I here you have one...or two.

Have a good night or morning.

Happy Saturday Class of 88.

Out.

09/13/08 07:55 AM #101    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Sean B.~
Get some rest. Your job has been well done in more ways than one. I would love to capture these stories. The just seem to help so much, when reading them. Hope all went well and healing began in his home.

One funny story I remember about Mike was on the France trip. That is where I got to see Mike in action. I remember all of us floating around the big mega-jet that we were on. We were about 2,591,630 hours into the flight, all of us were starving, and sort of looking around for something to eat. No one really had anything good. Mike said, "psssttt...Jolee, look....." In his blue duffel bag was enough food and snacks to feed the entire plane....twice. He knew he had the gold mine...as always...Mike knew he had something good. It was just hillarious. Mike coming through with the goods.

I didn't know him as well as you all did. I didn't hang out on the college scene...got to see Ann and Patty a few times at JMU and Radford, so I am envious of all of these years you all knew Mike. I can only speak for the past 6 weeks, where he profoundly changed my life. Forever.

Off to do some therapeutic cleaning...talk to you all soon.

09/13/08 07:57 AM #102    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Joe~
I am so sorry about you having to go through two deaths in one week. How tragic. Thanks for sharing that with us. I know how hard it must have been.

09/13/08 11:52 AM #103    

Brian Dent

I am so sorry i could not make the service. It pained me greatly to not be able to show my respects, but i could not tear myself away from work. It is great to see the out-pouring of emotions from everyone. I think we all need to learn a valuable lesson from our loss, and that is, we need to take every opportunity to love our family and friends for you never know when your time is up. I am glad that i have reconnected with all of you and plan on increasing that contact going forward.

09/13/08 12:10 PM #104    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Quite a few people have been asking about setting up or contributing to a fund/foundation for the kids. As I have heard from friends of the family, and in true "Mike" fashion, his children were well thought of in the case of his death. At this time, I would designate funds to the Old Dominion Veterinary Service if you wish, or another charity you may deem appropriate in Mike's honor. If these circumstances change, at any point, and I hear about it, I will pass this along.

09/13/08 12:12 PM #105    

Stefanie Lugar

Susie: Thank you! You are beautiful inside and out!!! I still remember you buying EVERYONE a round (or 2 or 4) of shots at our 10 year reunion. Not sure if you remember doing that but I'm sure the tab was unforgettable.

Jolee: You are hilarious! Of course you can have my hair when I'm done with it, no problem. But for now, you are more than welcome to borrow it at anytime. And yes, I will be there to fix it for you each and everyday. Thanks for the b-day wish! It was a good one!

Tim: You are so kind. I'm glad we were able to reconnect after 20 yrs. 9-11 will be the hardest day of every year for many of us for more than 1 reason.

Joe: Thank you for the kind welcome. I'm very sorry to hear about your family's loss. Understanding and accepting why such great people are taken from us so early in life is by far the most difficult thing I've ever experienced.

09/13/08 12:31 PM #106    

Diane Booth (Mabry)

Hey Jolee its Perry, yes i am to lazy to set up my own contact but maybe its best, then Diane can be blamed!I was thinking if his parents would not oppose maybe the class of 88 should put his picture and somethings about him as a person in the memory section of the paper since his obituary was short.Well since last night did not work out maybe soon we all can hook up.

09/13/08 12:45 PM #107    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Wow Perry...you should have been a grief counselor. You are so kind and good at it. I have not spoken with his mom and dad in person, except very briefly at the funeral...and it was just his mom. Let me talk to Sean or his other good friend Tommy and see if they think it would be okay if I call Andriette and Dewey. I would love to write it up...portions of it...and then everyone could contribute and we could narrow it down or post it all...hell, I am not opposed to taking out a half-page ad for Mike...we'll start working on that ASAP. In another sense, I wonder if we should just do it and let them see it...how much we all loved him....put your thoughts out there people...I have his senior picture...so we could use that. It is fabulous.

09/13/08 12:56 PM #108    

Diane Booth (Mabry)

Well I just bought my first Metallica cd in 20 years.Actually the last one was on cassette(how old are we?)I guess Mike is helpng there sales.By the way its still Perry

09/13/08 01:47 PM #109    

Kelly Houston

Perry- the newspaper memorium sounds like a great idea. I really think it would be nice to add a photo or two, also.

Joe- I'm so sorry about your nephew, Steve. You are in our thoughts and prayers for sure.

Stefanie- I hate to say I didn't recognize you the other day until I was leaving. You look fabulous and I love your children's pictures!

Jolee- eek! There are PLENTY of fellas I didn't make out with in high school...and speaking of a certain pair of swedish twins....I never touched either one of THEM! Good grief!

My story is quite innocent, really. I have NO idea how Mike and I ended up in his car heading to his house...just started at a party somewhere I suppose. So neither one of us had any romantic interest in each other...we were just 19, a little tipsy, alone with each other, and of the opposite sex. I guess we just figured..."well...here we are...why not? Let's make out." Well...not a whole lot of chemistry there so we got kind of silly and sloppy, and maybe just a little violent. Like kissing somebody you're pissed off at. Like we had something to prove, I dunno. So, long story short...we stopped and laughed and just kind of agreed we were being ridiculous and listened to some more music before he took me back to my car, which now I think was parked at Scooch's.

During the ride, I felt my chin burning like wildfire and as my little buzz wore off...I noticed this HUGE strawberry on my chin. I looked as though I had been dragged face down over astro-turf. Apparently, his chin stubble rubbed my little "no-chin" raw. I couldn't cover it with make-up for days because it was oozing and sore, and I had a hard time with all of the questions from co-workers and family, too. This thing scabbed over and was quite problematic for about 3 weeks. I remember meeting my parents for a birthday dinner at Kabuki and in the picture, I look like I have a little beard. What horrors!

So, seeing Mike at the reunion reminded me of that little incident, and I almost brought it up to him except that I was afraid he might slip and say something about it within my husband's earshot..and that wouldn't have been good. I somehow don't think Danny would appreciate the story like you all do...ya know?! So anyway...that's my funny little memory of Mike back in the day. Good times.

Now, Sean. A story, or two, huh? Geez. For the life of me I don't know what you mean? Perhaps you'd like to elaborate. Perhaps not.

Off to paint a room.

GO HOKIES!!!

09/13/08 02:08 PM #110    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Kelly...if you leave us again from the forum and don't post at least every 3 or 4 days...I will come hunt you down. I am laughing so hard right now I almost spewed wheat thins and crab dip. I like the violent part. Wonder why when you hooked up with a guy back then you felt like you had to rip and pull on things. Johnny would pay for that behavior from me now. God love his wittle heart. I remember my mom telling me how Jason had corrupted me, had raped me, and she wanted to press charges...I kept thinking to myself...ummm....mom....I'm the agressive one here...I could get charged and it would stick. Once again...my husband would rub my feet for a year and promise to never pee on the floor again if I would be like that. Now you put some Russell Crowe on the tv or turn some Keith Urban on and it's ON!

Well, we have mowed the yard, cleaned up inside, cleaned out all of my summer flower pots and put those up, took the blower to the entire house...washed clothes and ate a cardboard pizza for lunch. I'm tired!

I'll be heading to Wally World later for groceries and a big dose of Metallica...

09/13/08 02:57 PM #111    

Stefanie Lugar

Kelly: Thanks for the compliment. My children look just like me, don't they? I think so anyway. Oh my, how I
love the story about you and Mike making out. I'm glad no other injuries were incurred during the wrestling match. Maybe you two were just too beat-up to go any further, LOL. I'm glad to know you too are painting a room today. Fun stuff! Let's catch up soon.

Jolee: What is up with your husband peeing on the floor. I think you definitely should take Kellys approach if it will stop him from doing that. A little pulling, tearing, ripping "stuff" won't hurt ya, LOL.

09/13/08 03:17 PM #112    

Brian Dent

Stefanie- my how you've turned into quite the "HOTTIE". Not that your weren't hot back then, but WOW! Hope to see you soon!
Kelly- i feel left out, i'm not on your list.
Jolee- keep being Jolee!

09/13/08 03:27 PM #113    

 

Vicky Lakes (Fuller)

Hey Everyone, I think I speak for everyone that lives "away" from Ronaoke, when I say how reading all the posts about Mike makes us all feel as if we are home, and as if we are still connected to each other. Even as I read the Old Dom. Vet Clinic website it brought light to a side of Mike that I wouldn't have know otherwise. He truly was a great guy.

Stephanie L - Great pics by the way. You look amazing and I love the picture of Tanner.

Kelly HB - Thanks for sharing your story..and yet a side of Mike we probably didn't know. Ha Ha

Susie JB - Hope all is well in Texas.

Jolee - I wish I had a 1/4 of the energy you must have to get things done. Anytime you feel the need to clean please come on up.


09/13/08 03:58 PM #114    

Susan Jones (Badger)

Hey everyone..Thanks for all of the prayers! San Antonio escaped the path. We had winds and a few sprinkles but it's sunny skies. We still have a chance of getting rains and floods throughout today and tomorrow but for the most part it's ok. I have talked to some of my friends in Houston and it's NOT good over there. 3 million people (which is pretty much everyone in Houston) are without electricity. It maybe 2 weeks before it's back on. The state of Texas prepared a lot for this storm which prevented a lot of deaths from this storm. Thank Goodness.

Those of you in Fantasy Football Houston Texans WON'T be playing this weekend or Monday night. I am hoping they come to San Antonio in the time being. Their stadium was damaged and if they come here I can go see other teams play.

Well I hope everyone is having a great weekend! Mine is looking better!

I am looking foward to my trip back to Roanoke in October!




09/13/08 03:59 PM #115    

 

Jolee Clarke (Preston)

Got a playlist added...found out how to do it on a friend's myspace and added one to my myspace as well. I'm not good at a lot of things, but I love this website stuff. I changed my myspace page last night...if you have myspace, check it out...www.myspace.com/jolee4duke04. No comments on the Duke 04...JJ Redick...he needs me and doesn't know it yet.

Brian D.~I'm not quite sure how you missed Kelly's list...maybe she can work something out. Rug burns at 38...what the hell....Johnny will probably want to watch though...ROFLMAO!!!!

Vicky~It's not energy...I really have no energy...it's a disorder...ask the rest of our class. We have come to a realization that NHS did something to us...put this perfection and order complex within us...we had better check...we may have microchips in our necks...

Okay, just finished re-roofing the house...just kidding..I'm such a shit, aren't I?!?! No, really, heading to go do something else orderly and linear.


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