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07/27/09 10:44 PM #1612    

 

Carrol Reneau (Jeffers)

This day just keeps getting worse. Tomorrow's Brazosport Facts will have Louise Parker's obituary. She was buried yesterday. I've posted it in the 'In Memory' section.

07/27/09 10:51 PM #1613    

Joe Ballard

Now here's the pic to see who can name the most classmates!!! Janet that is an awesome addition...so many young smiling faces and a few peace signs.

07/28/09 07:03 AM #1614    

 

Carrol Reneau (Jeffers)

Sad news yesterday, Coach L.Z. Bryan died yesterday about 5:20 p.m. I called Nancy yesterday about 6:30 for an update and she and Mrs. Bryan were just driving home from Houston. Coach Bryan had developed pneumonia over the weekend, then staph in his blood and lungs and then another highly contagious infection the next day. Bless his heart, his body just couldn't recover. I know our prayers are with the Bryan family. Coach Bryan was well loved by many of us because of who he was but to them he was husband, father,granddad and great-granddad and their loss is great.

I apologize for the delayed notice. I did send out a mass email yesterday evening sometime after 8:30 p.m. but apparently everyone did not receive it.

07/28/09 08:21 AM #1615    

 

Margaret Dubois (Ammons)

Sad day-I knew Louise well in Jr. High. We were buddies.
HL briefly dated her before we met. So sad for her family. And Coach Bryan-what a loss for Nancy and her family. I pray for both families.

07/28/09 08:21 AM #1616    

Martha Neel (Sanders)

I'm so sorry to hear about Nancy's dad. We seem to think of our parents as immortal.......of course, I lost my dad when I was 15, but my mother died in 2000.

Nancy, my prayers are with you and your family. I know this is a very difficult time, but with prayer and faith you'll get through this.

With TLC,
Martha Neel Sanders

07/28/09 09:20 AM #1617    

Joe Ballard

My prayers go out to Nancy and her family in the loss of her dad and our beloved coach. Nancy no more suffering for your dad. May God grant you the strength and peace you need for you and your family.

Also my prayers for Louise Parkers family. I do not remember her and that to me is sad. I looked at the photo of our huge class last night and realized I knew maybe less than 25 per cent of our class. I did as Michael suggested and took a closer look and still I knew less than 25 per cent. I have learned over the years "Life is Fragile" (Dow slogan) and how today becomes yesterday and suddenly years become decades and then a life time. I am dearly thankful to my Lord above for every day he allows me to get to know my family and friends better and to hopefully become a better person for it. Coach was a good man from what I knew of him. He was a good example for us. NANCY HE WILL BE WELL REMEMBERED.

07/28/09 12:36 PM #1618    

Jd Barnett:

Deepest sympathy to Coach Bryan's family. He will be missed.

I was disheartened to hear of Louise Parker's death. We knew each other since we were little kids and rode Joe's Dad's bus to BHS together. We even smooched one time after I gave her a ride home from Chemistry Club. I danced with her at the 20th reunion and she was just as funny and terrific as she was in high school. My heart is sad today.

07/28/09 01:30 PM #1619    

Joe Ballard

Jim I feel bad I should remember her. Was she in any of our classes in Elem or Jr. High in LJ

07/28/09 01:56 PM #1620    

 

Henry Aka Mickey Mixon

Mike,that is my belt. It was supposed to be around my neck, but John Gary yanked on it before I could pull it down. Notice Judy Teague smiling brightly, pretending not to know me.

07/28/09 02:28 PM #1621    

 

Margaret Dubois (Ammons)

Joe-
Louise lived on Magnolia - not far from the Plantation Dr. intersection. I used to walk to her house from Redwood.

07/28/09 03:56 PM #1622    

Jd Barnett:

She was in pretty much all of the classes, Joe. I am surprised you don't remember her, though she was quiet until you got to know her a little.

07/28/09 04:27 PM #1623    

 

Dee Allen

When I hear the news, of the deaths of a classmate and of a popular coach (and father of a classmate), I am left speechless. I usually, have a quick, thoughtless quip about nothing, but when it is time to be personal, I fall very short. My wife, Janet can attest to that.

Nancy, I know you, and Louise Parker’s family, are hurting now. Grief is a terrible thing for anyone to go through. The loss of someone close causes uncontrollable feelings that are worse than the actual pain of death. I empathize with you and sympathize for you.

When most people quote a comforting Bible verse, they usually don’t use Philippians 2:5-11, but to me, it says it all.

Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. Philippians 2:5-7.

Before Jesus was a man, he was the Lord of Host; the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob; the Most High. Thinking not highly of Himself, he willfully and voluntarily became a human slave with no freedom, no rights, and giving up the exercise of His free will. His life was no longer His. It belonged to His master. Everything He said and every thing He did was for the benefit of His master. He was a slave to His Father in heaven.

And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. Philippians 2:8

Jesus came, as a man, for one reason, and one reason only. That He should pay the penalty for all mans sins, death. This death is not just passing from this life to another existence. It is separation from God.

“[E]ven death of the cross.” This has been one of man’s crowning achievements of inhumanity to other men. It was usually days of constant agony until, at last, the condemned died of suffocation. Picture Jesus, having been beaten within a breath of life, flesh ripped from His body with every lash, His feet were nailed to a piece of wood and His wrists were nailed to a cross piece. He was stripped naked and hung for all to see. Then - - in the middle of the day, total darkness falls over the earth.

”And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?" that is, "My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?" Matthew 7:46.

All the sins of every man, woman, and child on the earth, from Adam to the last child born before the end of days, was placed on Jesus, then darkness falls. Jesus must die, with that sin, if man ever hoped to escape being forsaken by his Creator.

“And Jesus cried out again with a loud voice, and yielded up His spirit.” Matt 27:50

God made the rule. If you disobey any, or the least, of His commandments, the penalty is death. It is a simple rule. There are no exceptions. There are no loop holes. God knew, when He made that rule, that no one, ever, would be able to avoid breaking it. (“. . . for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. . . .” Romans 3:23 and “. . . for the payment for sin is death. . . .” Romans 6:23).

So He left his throne of glory, surrounded by living creatures who praise him without ceasing. The Creator of the universe, from the smallest sub atomic particle to the largest galaxy; the Alpha, the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the One who was, and is, and is to come, the Almighty; He left his place and took on the form of a man and willfully paid the penalty for man’s sin. His only motivation was the love He had for each and every unique human who was, and is to ever live.

God knew that if man were to die, in his sin, he would be dead for all eternity, but, of Himself, and His power, He said - -

“I am He who lives, and was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore. Amen. And I have the keys of Hades and of Death.” Rev 1:18

Because He had power over death, He was able to do what no man could do.

“Him [Jesus] God raised up on the third day, and showed Him openly. . . .” Acts 10:40.

“Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Philippians 2:9-11.

That’s not where it ends. Not only did He pay our penalty, but, by his unmerited favor toward us, He offered us the free gift of eternal life.

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” John 3:16-17.

“For by grace [the unmerited favor of God] you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” Eph 2:8-9

If we were saved from our sins by our good works, we could (and most likely would) boast of our accomplishment. Only God could redeem us from our debt. We could not earn our way out. Now that He has made it possible for us to have eternal life, He only ask that we accept the gift, free of charge.

When I hear people say, “Well, Jesus is just another name for Buda, or Allah, or Shiva.” It breaks my heart. Of ALL the worlds religions and faiths, faith in Jesus is THE ONLY ONE where God reaches out to pull man up to his level. ALL OTHERS require man to strive for perfection (which is impossible) and earn the highest level of existence.

Folks, we aren’t getting any younger. L.Z. Bryan and Louise Parker have just graduated. I know that there will be a reunion (better than anything Carol could dream of) soon. Everyone who has accepted the free gift, from a loving God, will be in attendance. I pray that you will be there. There is nothing more to do. Admission is free. Just ask your Father to let you in. He is close.

“Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me. To him who overcomes I will grant to sit with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne.” Rev 3:20-21


07/28/09 05:04 PM #1624    

 

Dianne Whitley (Mangrum)

Dee,
I am moved and humbled by your email and your reminder of our holy scriptures. These passing do put many things in proper perspective for us.
Thank you.

07/28/09 05:32 PM #1625    

Joe Ballard

Dee you my fellow classmate and christian brother explained God's Plan very well....I am moved and I LOOK forward to the reunion and hearing you preach! Amen Brother Dee!!

07/28/09 06:28 PM #1626    

 

Carrol Reneau (Jeffers)

Dee, Darlin', THAT ain't speechless! THAT is powerful. I KNOW that I will see L.Z. Bryan again (and according to her obituary, Louise as well). Coach Bryan has now seen the face of God. We tend to forget the purpose of this life and how very temporary it is. Thank you, Dee.

07/28/09 07:33 PM #1627    

 

Dickie Tracy

My prayers go out to Nancy & John and Louise's family. Coach Bryan was such a mentor to so many his football students and others as well. I knew Louise pretty well and we enjoyed so many laughs together in classes we shared. For me, its the memories that keep these timeless friends alive in my heart.

Sister and I were just talking this afternoon about how we have less time left in front of us than time gone by. Our trip out here on the road together has brought us closer and we have shared so many things that may have never been said otherwise. Being in the truck, we're together 24/7 for 3 weeks until I get off and go back to the hum drum of school. It's an experience not to be forgotten by us.

I'm really thankful of Carol and Alice for getting this website up and going. I have contacted many classmates individually and we've talked at length about old experiences. So many times at the reunions, there are just so many people that you see that you don't really have the time to sit and talk at length with one person and catch up. You get together for a fleeting moment in time and try to compress 30-40 years into a few moments of greetings.

Dee: I will miss your service and hope someone will video tape it or record it so I can get a copy of it. Since I only get to LJ once or twice a year and was the organist at my LJ church for 15 years before moving to NM, I am obliged to go back and visit my church family that has supported me throughout my life. It would be like going back and not visiting family. Dee, I am sure your message will be inspiring and I do not want to miss hearing it.

07/28/09 07:35 PM #1628    

 

Miles Pace

I was just told that coach Bryan passed. It hit me hard God bless his family. I will miss him. Miles

07/28/09 08:09 PM #1629    

 

Nancy Bryan (Gilbert)

I want all of you to know how much of a blessing you have been in my life. This message forum, for me, has been like therapy. So many of you have shared your feelings and your lives. I am so blessed to be a part of this wonderful class. It seems like this site happened for a reason in my life. I know those of you who have already traveled this road of losing a parent know how you have this flood of emotions that simply overtakes your life. Dad was the parent that I would always say never changed. He had a real zest for life. Several times in the last few months Dad and I had some special conversations that will forever remain a blessing to me. Just in June, on my birthday, we were able to share communion at his Methodist Church in Lake Jackson. All these special times now have such a clear meaning. I, as well as Dad, was being prepared for this event. Other than his family Dad loved all the students/coaches he worked with. He was so very proud of each one of you. You were his gems in his crown. Thanks to all of you for helping him fulfill his purpose on this earth. Yes, Carrol, you will see him in Heaven and so will I. I love all of you and am thankful you are in my life. Nancy
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Nancy, my dad, Coach Gene Day, was older than your dad by 13 years, but he considered your daddy as a peer and the "new generation" of excellence in coaching. I know you will miss him a lot. My Daddy died in 1987, and a daughter always has a tough time letting her daddy go. I still miss my dad to date. Our prayers are with you, your mom, and all your family. Alice
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07/28/09 08:35 PM #1630    

 

Carrol Reneau (Jeffers)

Isn't that very Nancy-like? And that's why we loved her then and love her still.

This will be in tomorrow's Brazosport Facts:

Grid icon 'Coach' Bryan dies at 80

By Jim Levesque
The Facts

Published July 29, 2009

To those who loved him and played for him, he was simply and affectionately called “Coach,” and it was not solely because of his success on the football field, friends and family said.

L.Z. Bryan, the longtime Brazoswood High School football coach who led the Buccaneers to their lone state championship, died Monday at Methodist Hospital in Houston. He was 80.

“He was one of those rare men that had the ability to get the most out of any individual, no matter how talented,” said former Lake Jackson Mayor Jim Martin.

“He made everybody he touched a better person, and he’ll be irreplaceable.”

Martin was a senior on the 1974 Brazoswood team that went 14-1 and won the state title with a 22-12 victory over Mesquite in Austin. That season, Bryan’s team played five games in the playoffs, and more than 20,000 Buccaneer fans filled the Astrodome in Houston to watch wins against San Antonio Churchill and Port Neches.

After a 12-year stint at Brazosport, Bryan led the Buccaneer football program for 18 years — from its inception as a junior varsity team in 1969 to his final season in 1986 — and spent the next three years as Brazosport ISD athletics director before retiring in 1990.

He is Brazoswood’s all-time winningest coach with a 150-40-6 record. Bryan’s Buccaneer teams played to 14 consecutive winning seasons from 1970 to 1983, and reached the playoffs nine times.

“I had so much respect for him,” said former player Kurt Zeitler, a senior on the 1974 squad. “He was very important and influential in my life. I learned a lot of mental and physical toughness from him that helped me through some tough times.”

Zeitler thought of taking the day off work Tuesday after learning of Bryan’s death, “but I knew that’s not what Coach would’ve wanted me to do.”

Bryan coached for 42 years and is a member of the Texas High School Coaches Association Hall of Honor and the Houston Football Coaches Association Hall of Honor. He was named as a district coach of the year seven times, was the former president of the Texas High School Coaches Association and, in 2004, the field house at Hopper Field was dedicated in his honor.

On the field, Bryan was known as a fair disciplinarian who demanded hard work from his players.

“The thing I didn’t realize until later in life was the way he didn’t treat everybody the same way, and by doing that made us our best,” Zeitler said. “We all had the same rules we had to follow, but he knew how he needed to treat each player to inspire them the most. He knew the kids he needed to chew out and the ones he needed to be more sensitive with and lay off.

“He was able to adjust those techniques with each kid’s personality and made us the best we could be.”

Current Brazoswood head football coach Dean DeAtley lined up against Bryan’s Buccaneer teams as a player at Victoria High School.

“He was an icon, not only here, but around the state,” DeAtley said. “In the ’70s, Brazoswood was the place to be, and teams across the state would emulate what was going on here.

“Those Brazoswood teams were very disciplined, hard-nosed and tough — that really showed his personality. He was a tough guy and was a lot of fun to be around. I always considered him a friend, and he will be sorely missed.”

In a Sept. 29, 2006, column in The Facts written by his great-grandson, Blake Lapier, Bryan said his greatest accomplishment as a coach was “watching the progress of the men that played under me.”

“When he told a story, his stories were about the kids and their relationships,” DeAtley said. “I don’t think he told me once any of the scores in those games. He won enough, and winning wasn’t the most important thing for him. It was about building those relationships and helping his kids.

“He had hundreds of stories about football, and that’s what they were all about.”

Bryan is survived by his wife, Helen Laura; daughter, Barbara and her husband, Melvin W. (Pinky) Anders, of Lake Jackson; daughter, Nancy and her husband, John R. Gilbert of Lake Jackson; and son, Larry Bryan and his wife, Cheryl, of Houston.

Visitation will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday at Restwood Funeral Home in Lake Jackson. Memorial services will be 2:30 p.m. Friday at Lake Jackson First United Methodist Church.

“It’s 35 years this football season since we won state and it seems like yesterday,” Martin said. “I’ll never forget what we did in 1974, and I’ll never forget L.Z. Bryan.”


Jim Levesque is a sports writer for The Facts. Contact him at (979) 237-0161.

07/29/09 10:32 AM #1631    

 

Margaret Reaux (Wagner)

I have had 4 of my 6 grandchildren visiting since Saturday so I haven't had time to get on the computer. I read yesterday's paper this morning and was so shocked to see Louise Parker's obituary. I had been checking constantly to see if she updated her profile. My heart hurts for her family. She was so special. Not too long ago, I found the letters she wrote while we were in college. She talked about how protected we were growing up in Brazosport, but also the values we received from our parents. It doesn't matter how old our children are, they still need us and we still need our parents. My dad died when I was 16 during my junior year. Martha Neel had lost her dad a few years before. We held on to each other with a special bond. We still do.

I work with Robin Lapier,Coach Bryan's granddaughter. Our prayers go out to a wonderful family.

07/29/09 02:41 PM #1632    

 

Judy Burkes McGough (Pinkard)

Nancy, My prayers are with you. This loss is felt by all of us that knew and loved you and your dad.

07/29/09 10:34 PM #1633    

Joy Garrett (Chessher)

Dear Nancy...you are so sweet, and so special! Your Mom and Coach Bryan raised a wonderful daughter! I lost my Mom very young, and my Daddy to lung and liver cancer almost 5 years to the date before my wonderful husband passed away. We all miss our loved ones so much, but the time that we will be separated in the light of eternity is so short. I know one day that I will meet JESUS, my Mom, Dad, Randy, and my wonderful grandparents, Mammy and Papa at the "pearly gate" of Heaven. I am so thankful that none of my family will ever suffer again, but are so happy! Coach Bryan was a wonderful man, and was so loved and respected by everyone that knew him. I heard a story recently there are sports in Heaven! GOD loves sports! I think GOD just made Coach Bryan the #1 coach in Heaven!

May GOD comfort you and your family, and fill you with HIS peace. Like your Dad, Nancy you are loved by many. You..your family are in my prayers.
In HIS LOVE always..love to you..
JOY!!!

07/30/09 06:17 AM #1634    

 

Carrol Reneau (Jeffers)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JOLIE'S GRANDMOTHER (A.K.A. JOY, YIPPEE!)







07/30/09 06:44 AM #1635    

 

Carrol Reneau (Jeffers)

Awhile back some classmates were trying to remember,finally, here 'tis:

FIGHT SONG

Fight for the victory, boys of Brazosport High,
Never let your courage fail you; keep on fighting, fighting, fighting.

We will be true to you, even though you lose.
Keep the dear old Brazosport spirit;
Fight for victory, fight for victory, NOW.
E – X – P – O – R – T – E – R - S


ALMA MATER

Hail to our Alma Mater, glory to thy name.
Many loyal sons and daughters, join to sing thy name.

From ocean unto ocean, from dawn till setting sun,
We’ll tell of our devotion, and of the victories won.

Hail, Brazosport forever; on Exporter team.
Ever, our Alma Mater, loyal to thee.

07/30/09 10:48 AM #1636    

 

Marian Sahr (Bullard)

Hello Dear Classmates....I am back! We lost the championship game to Nederland so there will not be any Ark. trip, darn it. I love that state. I might go anyway for a few days. I have vacation that I must use. When you work for the state, you use or you lose. Dianne, it is great seeing you here. I remember well how close our parents were. I always remember ya coming over, or us to your house, and you would ALWAYS have on a pretty dress or a really cute short set. I would usually get Myra's handy downs but that was OK. I loved your parents and see them from time to time. I remember your dad at my dad's funeral and how hard it was taking it. I am sorry to see the ones that have passed but what a joy it is in Heaven. With daddy dying when I was only 13 it was so hard to take. Then when I had to bury my stepdad, that was a double whammy. But, I think how wonderful it must be for him in Heaven. He has no pain, both legs, and a big smile on his face. I am sure my daddy is thanking him for raising his 5 kids. I loved my dog ChiChi. I haven't had a dog like her since. Isn't Carrol the coolest. I was watching the slideshow while on vacation and could not believe the picture she posted of me. Was I really that "dorky"? I had a good laugh from it. And check out Dicky. Every picture posted of him, he had is leg lifted. Ummm, what's up with that? lol I am looking so forward to the next meeting. I am so sorry some of you can't attend. It is awesome. The minute you walk in everyone is up and hugging you. I am sure we will spend a great portion of the time hugging at the reunion. Life is so great and I thank God for each day he gives me. I, too, think we have the BEST class ever. I am corresponding with ones I didn't even know in school. It is great. OK Took enough space. Missed you and see you soon!

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