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Roger Bennett
Greetings to all you OHS citizens of the world!....
We've been going through one heck of a winter this year, and here in New Hampshire the severe cold, economic pressure, and one HEAVY snow after another has been, and is, an emotional strain!... For "some" people it's been worse than usual!
I just got an email message from the girlfriend of a long time flea market and business friend, who lived a few towns away. She briefly indicated that my friend Mike was dead, and included her phone number. I immediately telephoned her, and she explained that he'd taken his own life last week.
Mike was a tall, good looking, thoughtful, sensitive, talented and pleasant fellow, who was barely 50. Karrie explained to me that he had been deeply depressed and overcome by financial and personal problems. I had NO idea of the "demons" he lived with, the financial pressures of his mounting debt, or of the desolation he apparently felt. I'm wishing now that he'd confided in me. Perhaps I could have helped... perhaps not.
Overwhelmed by what he thought were insurmountable problems, one night last week Mike deliberately overdosed on the anti-depressants that had been prescribed for him. Now it's for remaining family and this poor girl to try to make sense of what should have never happend. Disposing of debt, property, and possessions... plus the funeral itself will be a nightmare! I know of many others who are also going through rough financial times because of our damaged economy. Add in Muslim terror, plus International Political Insantity, and it would seem that the world itself is now upside down! Not much makes sense and I'm deeply concerned.
My heartfelt message for all is that "life" is always an up and down affair! As sure as there are "dark" days... the sun ALWAYS comes out again... and NOTHING is as bad as it might seem! All of us know despair, failure and sadness. All of us eventally suffer from the slings and arrows of life. It DOES get better though... it ALWAYS does!
We all have disappointments, frustrations, and regret... and we all have seen dark days. It's inevitable! Important I think for us to remember that we are really NEVER alone! In the broad sense, we are all FAMILY! Burdened by problems and fear?... you WILL get through it! Jobs, Money, and Loved ones may go away. That's NOT the end though by any means... rather it's a NEW beginning!
Oft repeated.. A door may close, but another one always opens in it's place. I've been there, and seen it happen to me many times! For those of us now suffering through this rotten cold winter as Mike did, with financial or personal problems... know that I care, and that others do too! Keep plugging away with a smile on your face, and remember that tomorrow morning the sun WILL come up (unless of course it snows again!)
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