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04/23/09 10:38 PM #2166    

 

Marcia Kraft (Barringer)

Sandi ---

I understand what you are saying --- 103 in Lake Havasu this week --- way too early. (And I understand the friz.) Hang in there -- it's going to get worse!!! Doesn't that give you something to look forward to? (My dad used to tell me the heat has fried my brain -- maybe he was right!)

You all need to be rootin' on the Lakers!!! (Why can't they hold a lead?)

04/23/09 10:45 PM #2167    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

Marcia,

I will have to share you posting information with my brother, he is a river rat but flew up here to be with my dad. It snowed today, and he is freezing his butt off, all he does is whine about being so darn cold. He thinks we are all nuts. I just laugh at him, when I went to the river last October it was in the 70's or 80's and I thought I was going to die in that heat. Go figure.

Stay cool.
Lynne

04/23/09 10:58 PM #2168    

 

Peggy Steiner (Miller)

Gloria,
Oh my gosh, I think I missed your posting about the sandwiches. That is so sweet of you. Sounds good to me. I have never had them from The Hat so looking forward to it. Thank you.
See you in June

04/24/09 12:10 AM #2169    

 

Pat Kuester (Bowen)

Sandi, We took the car away from my mom a few years ago. This was after she ran over a curb and blew out a tire. She took the car in to get a new tire and ran over another curb bringing the car home. Instead of telling my mother she shouldn't be driving any longer, my brother-in-law told her the car needed repairs & the cost wouldn't be worth the price. Of course, she didn't believe him and asked me. I just told her she shouldn't be driving; there wasn't anything wrong with the car. She was very upset and angry with us for awhile. But the funny thing is she now tells people that she decided to quit driving after running over a few curbs. She gave the car to my aunt whose job now is carting her to church and the market. She was thrilled to get a "newer" car, but may now feel the car wasn't worth the price.

You have to put yourself in your mom's shoes. It's very hard to give up one's independence and have to rely on others. My gosh, they were the ones we went to for help and support for years. It's hard to accept the reversed roles.

Although, I have already picked which kid is going to take care of me. It's not my daughter, she is so mean. I'd really have to toe the line with her. My son is easier going, plus he thinks I am cute and funny. Of course, that may be because he doesn't have to put up with me day in and day out.

04/24/09 05:12 AM #2170    

Raymond Olsen

Hello Fellow Classmates,

Well I asked for it didn't I... what was I thinking...???
Let me tell you all what is happening in my neck of the woods... My parents have both passed away so no sickness to deal with, my kids are all grown and on their own... no problems there... my grandkids all think I am something neat and cool... (I bribe them alot) The sun is out and shining gloriously, I am alive, healthy (sorta) working still, loving life as springs rolls into my neck of the woods... the trees are all in bloom, lots of fruit this year... the garden is starting up... I have started camping and taking the fifth wheel out for trips again... (Yeah Man!!!) and just glad God shines down on me and let me tell you all something to think about... IT COULD ALWAYS BE WORSE!
I am so glad to have all of you in my life once again and do not want to ever lose that. So please know I share my heart with you all. Even Mike out there in wonderful Hawaii.

Well that's my take on things, but what do I know? Hmmm??

Love and hugs to all,
Ray Olsen

04/24/09 06:57 AM #2171    

 

Connie Lenkoski (Nelson)

Hi everyone

Will my daughter had a bad day coming home from her treatment. My Grandson called and said that his mom didn't sound right on the phone. So my husband and I took off of work and ran to the treatment center. We saw her in the car and she was running into the curb. So I called her on the cell phone and finally stop. I took her to the hospital and she also had a big rash on her body. Will she lost her memory for 5 days and I had to dress and feed her. My grandson asked me if she will get her mind back and I told him I hope so and only god know. Will she had about 10 different doctors working on her and they gave her treatment everyday. Her patseem and other electial lights was out. I told my grandson some one unpluged her for awhile. finally she came back and don't remember anything.
Two weeks letter we had to put her back in the hospital for her heart but is was something else. Her doctors are really good and funny with her.
She don't drive any more and I take her to treatment 3 times a day and her son pucks her up. Her husband needs to keep working so he don't lose her Ins.
Now we get up early and have a good time and talk. Her hair is so long it is black and goes past her butt.
We just take a day at a time. My parents a gone and my husband parents are gone so were try to work together as much as possible. We are finally getting go wealther in the 80's today.
I found a picture of my dad and mom seating by a man and woman at Knox's berry farm That was the good old days. I do take the family for walks and IL state park that is 1 mile from me and we saw 15 deer. Life is so wonderful and thing that are beautiful are free.
The rest of the family is doing will . I hope you all have fun in Vegas.
I give all my prays to everyone that are a caregiver. That is the biggest job of all. I don't write much but I think and pray for all.

04/24/09 07:37 AM #2172    

 

Marianna Brown (Schechter)

Talking about parents....my mom, I haven't talked much about her. She passed away January 21, 1990. I have often wondered about her death. My dad passed away February 2, 1986...on his 69th birthday. My mom remarried January 1989. I didn't know the man she married...never met him...wasn't invited to the 'wedding'. The first time that I met this man was at the mortuary. When I was trying to make the arrangements (this man didn't have a pot to piss in) and it looked like I was footing most of the bill, I asked about an autopsy. You would have thought that I had taken a shot at this man the way he jumped up out of his seat and saying 'no autopsy-no autopsy' . I was also told that I had no business being there but it sure was OK for me to pay the bills. My dad had left my mom secure but there was no money...accounts had been cleaned out. They had been married exactly 1 year and 2 weeks. Under the laws in Utah where they lived I could not have an autopsy with out her husbands consent...it was refused. Her new husband wanted half of all properties. My dad had left my mom with a new home completely paid for, a nice bank account, new pickup and 5th wheel. I will always wonder if this man didn't have a hand in my moms death. He didn't get any of the house, there was no money in the bank or the pick-up but he did end up with the 5th wheel. Before he came and picked up the trailer...I striped it clean...no propane tanks...not even a light bulb left in it.

04/24/09 10:15 AM #2173    

 

Pat Kuester (Bowen)

Connie, We're all going through losing our parents or our parents aging, and it's rough. I lost my dad when I was 16. But nothing can compare with what you are going through with your daughter. My mother used to tell me that I would never know how much she loved me until I had my own child. She was absolutely correct.

God bless you.

04/24/09 12:43 PM #2174    

 

Sandra Harris (Lint)

Well, I would never compare what Mom's going through to Lynne's, Lorene's Mom or to Connie's daughter's health problems, but like Pat said it is so hard when your Mom has lost that last part of independence. She looked at me with such hurt in her eyes, almost like a broken woman. And Chris stepping up and arguing with her was a real surprise, but he has always been very close with her. She thinks of him as the son she never had. The car we are keeping, when we take her places it is easier to get into than our Chevy Truck or the van, she just doesn't have the keys anymore. It just sits in her garage staying clean. She is healthy otherwise, that strong mid-western farmer thing, I guess.Yes, Ray it could be worse but let's hope for the best, and we will keep that rope for emergencies only, huh, Lynne! I'm ready for another frizz day! Sandi

04/24/09 05:55 PM #2175    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

Sandy
You and Chris did exactly the right thing taking the keys away.
I can't agree with you more about Connie, it must be horrilbe watching your child suffer like that. Connie my prayers go out to you.
Even when you kids grow up and become parents, you still worry sick about them. My son burned his eye with battery acid the other day, it burned a hole in his eye but he should be OK. I was worried sick about him, I think it's just all about LOVE and FAMILY.

Took my mom to the eye doctor today and they said she did not have a brain bleed, she has glacoma but since she is blind in that eye already there is no reason to try to correct it. We were just relieved to know that she didn't have another stroke.

Here's the kicker to that story, as she comes out of the exam room with my dad and I, I tell him what it was and he says "hey Mom you want some weed, they say that is really good for glacoma?" She looked at him and really thought about it for a minute, (remember she has Alzheimer's stage 3) then I think she figured it out and said I don't think so. It was pretty funny to watch the faces of the people in the waiting room, one lady gave us a thumbs up. LOL

Hope you all have a great week end. Connie you hang in there, keep up that great attitude.

Love,
Lynne

04/24/09 07:17 PM #2176    

 

Mike Lampman

I could sure use a hug and thanks for your kind greetings Ray

04/25/09 12:29 AM #2177    

 

Lorene BuSteed (Householder)

Mike, here is a hug for you. I hope things are going great in your neck of the woods or water/waterfalls, green surroundings/flowers. A little bit of paradise. Enjoy! Of course I've never been to Hawaii, but that is how I picture it.

Here is a hug for the rest of you. Have a great weekend!

Hello Ray! Keep the forum alive!

Love to all!

Lorene

04/25/09 10:52 AM #2178    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

Lorene,

We will get to Hawaii one day my friend! Then we can give Mike those real hugs.

I'm off to the grandson's soccer games, then to see my mom. I hope to talk to you later.

Have a great week end, give my buddy Roland a tug on the ear for me.

Love you,
LYnne

04/25/09 05:44 PM #2179    

 

Phyllis Willhite

Recently there have been postings on the forum with disparaging remarks made to other individuals. This is inappropriate. This kind of posting should never be done our our Forum. If this type of posting continues, those individuals will be barred from the forum. The forum is intended to keep us in touch with each other and for sharing what's going on in our lives.

04/25/09 06:23 PM #2180    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

Phyllis,
I hope I haven't said anything to offend anyone, I appoligize if I've said anything inappropriate.
I for one have really appreciated our forum and the opportunities it has given us to share our lives with one another, good times and bad. So very sorry if I have said anything to upset anyone.
Lynne

04/25/09 07:02 PM #2181    

 

Carol Maddex (Switzer)

Lynne you have been most gracious as most of the classmates have been.
Hope all is well with you and you had a nice day...

Hugs my friend,
Carol

04/25/09 08:39 PM #2182    

 

Pat Kuester (Bowen)

I agree!! This forum should be for keeping in touch with each other not finding fault with each other. It should be for giving each other moral support, sharing our ups and downs in life, and reminiscing. Any personal disagreements should be handled privately. We should handle our differences like we did in high school, talk about each other behind each other's backs.

Of course, I am only kidding. Wink, wink.

04/25/09 08:43 PM #2183    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

Pat,
I have to say your post made me laugh so hard, the part about handle it like we did in high school.......how darn funny is that? Good one my friend.

I am so thankful for this forum and for all of you and all of the support you have given me at this difficult time in my life.

Hope you all are having a great weekend.

Love you my friends,
Lynne

04/25/09 09:36 PM #2184    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

Sorry guys but I just have to say I am LMAO!!!!! at your comments.
So gald that some of you now know what I have had to deal with since our last reunion. I'm so glad it's over with on our forum at least.
Na na na na na na............. :)

04/25/09 09:37 PM #2185    

 

Marcia Kraft (Barringer)

Pat ---

I'm so glad you are my BESTEST friend!

04/25/09 10:18 PM #2186    

 

Carol Maddex (Switzer)

Mark retirement has done you good....Like the new pics....

04/25/09 10:34 PM #2187    

 

Patricia Hamilton (Denham)

Thanks Pat, your comment made me laugh too. I read it to Steve he laughed too. He wants to know why women can't get along. Yea, like all men get along? I'm glad I missed the nastiness this time. This is not the place for it. Take care all and have a great weekend.

04/26/09 05:38 AM #2188    

 

Don Deyne

I'm confused.

Disparaging remarks?????

Did I miss something, were the messages removed and I just missed them?

With the clue that someone removed themselves MAYBE I figured part of it out as I did "find" a name missing. (if a person removes them selves are their messages automatically deleted? That could explain why I'm lost)

Isn't it strage it was the first name I though of. I must be psycho, uhhhhhh I mean psychic. (hope that's not disparaging, don't wanna get in truble)

S M I L E

04/26/09 06:17 AM #2189    

 

Phyllis Willhite

Someone did remove themselves and, no their remarks did not disappear also. Things were written that should not have been written and those posts were removed. And sadly, the same thing would have to happen again should that type of thing be put on the forum again. We want our forum to be just what Pat said, for giving each other moral support, sharing our ups and downs in life, and reminiscing. Any personal disagreements should be handled privately.

04/26/09 10:46 AM #2190    

 

Lynne Scales (Thurman)

It kinda feels like we are in trouble with the principal or something doesn't it? LOL

Everyone take a deep breath and have a great day.

Smiles and hugs to all.

Lynne

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