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Melinda Foster (Metzger (Formerly Blackburn))
Everyone, Thank You for signing my yearbook and sending your Sen pic to me through Lisa Brown. I am sorry I haven't stayed in touch with anyone. My home life was a mess when I left and this is the first time any of you are hearing the story, but I had broken my tailbone and my back and damaged my vertebra top to bottom at Christmas just before I left. It happened on the mountain where everyone went to go sledding. I didn't go to the Dr cause my Step-Dad was out of work and my Mom was severely depressed. I was I was hurting terribly, but I was afraid I wouldn't be able to leave to come back to Bob in the next couple of weeks if I didn't pass my school Finals for the Second Quarter. I could hardly walk or sit and I was in excruciating pain and I had to come back and go through PE. Do andy of you remember, we had to play Basketball, Build a Human Pyramid (I was on the bottom with others stacked on top of my back... can you imagine) and finish by doing gymnastic jumps over "the horse". I don't know how I made it through that day. It wasn't til 1981 that I had xrays and was shown and told the extent of what had happened to me in 1969. My jaw had been knocked out of place and I had been suffering from TMJ and cervical disc problems for 13 years. The pain was causing me to grind my teeth (even at night while I slept). I finally got help for that when I had my mouth wired-shut for a month to let the tendons relax. After that, I was rear-ended by a car (police car of all things) in 83 and it restimulted the cervical disc problem... the nerve was pinching down into my right arm (unbearable pain) and I lost the use of my arm and hand. I had to have surgery at that point. That wonderful Dr "gave me my life back" through his expert care. However, he told my (2nd) husband that I would need to come back every year thereafter to get the next vertebra fused all the way down ... Well ,,, I haven't ... and don't plan to either. I have had to have some cortisone shots due to more injuries, but I am staying away from hospitals (in general). A nutrition company came into my life that has really helped me understand how I could control alot of the pain through diet and supplement changes. It also got rid of 40 years of allergy / asthma & sinusitus suffering which was like "getting my life back" also. Now you all know "the rest of the story" as Paul Harvey would say, which has been the basis of a 40 year mystery...whatever happened to our friend from Colorado.......well, that is part 1 anyway... does anyone else feel like they have lived 9 lives since then, ha ha.
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