Ruth Garcia (Osborne-Hess)
Hey Jim! I’m with you on a gathering before the holidays. (Working on relocating to MSFC!)
Many of us share in your same feelings about this recent class reunion. It is hard to describe what exactly transpired in that snapshot of time and how that could impact each of us, individually, in such a profound way. It’s a mystery. But it happened. It was for real!
Perhaps it is because we have more in common now then ever. It is undeniable that we are aging (who would have admitted such even 10yrs ago!). Our life experiences have left each of us with scars and a limp, externally and internally. None of us have escaped the wear and tear. We’ve been chopped down at the knees, but we got back up. We’ve stabbed in the back, but we’ve forgiven. We’ve had our heart pierced and broken by those we loved, only to heal and embrace a deeper love. We’ve been blind, only to see clearer now. Failing health, uncooperative joints, and surgery. A lot of ‘heart’ surgery. With the blessing of children has also come some of the greatest joys and deepest hurts. And grandchildren. Some of us know both the joy and the sorrow that somehow reflect like a mirror. Dreams fulfilled beyond our wildest imaginations and with the flip of a coin dreams dashed and shattered beyond our comprehension.
Perhaps what happened in our last Reunion is that we are in someway comprehending more fuller our own lives. And it’s ok. It’s not only ok, it’s fun, funny, true…and real.
For most of us, our lives are not a youtube sensation and not measured by how many friends and followers we have on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, the balance in our checking account or retirement cushions. Nor does the measure of our ‘successful’ children cover the deficit of our children adrift. Perhaps in the autumn of our lives, our yard stick has become authenticity. And the Reunion became the intersection to discover each other again in that light.
There are so many whom I didn’t get a chance to reconnect with and even more that didn’t show up that we all wanted to see again!
Let’s get together soon and often!
Ruth aka Bootie
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