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Mary Theresa Cutajar English

Profile Updated: April 14, 2022
Class Year:
1975
Residing In:
Taylor, MI USA
Homepage:
Occupation:
Retired from Special Education, Music, Art and ESL Teacher
Martial Status:

Divorced

Children:

Elizabeth 1990 and Rachel 1992

What did you want to do or think you were going to do when you finished high school:

I thought I would be a "famous singer," a band director, or an art teacher, of which I did teach Art and Vocal Music K-12, as well as private instrumental students piano and woodwinds. I did not think I would like Special Education, but I needed to have a good paying job, after my divorce, so I went to school, while teaching for DPS. (That is Detroit Public Schools). I have had 6 editorials published in 2 newspapers (News Herald, MI and Lynchburg VA Gazette) on smoking in public, abortion, election issues, the Equality Act, how to fix our roads, and the National Endowment for the Arts (the payment of funds for art like "Piss Christ.").

I received 2 Graduate Scholarships from Susan Edwards and the Knights of Columbus, for the 2 semesters when I took a Sabbatical. The Knights of Columbus get their resources from your donations for Children with Special Needs. Because of these resources and school loans, I was able to complete my Masters degree in 4 years, while working full-time. I taught Learning Diabilities,a Critical Shortage area, in a high poverty area.

Teaching is not really respected by the public. If only people knew how hard we work behind the scenes, day and night. It is mentally and physically draining, especially in this age of entitlement, with some parents acting like children, and some principals who have no principles.

I was honored to care for our mother full time for 2 years and 2 months. Now, I still watch over her care at Manoogian Manor. The most important and fulfilling job I ever did was raising my two daughters at home full-time until they were school age. I also homeschooled them for 2 years, and taught piano in my home studio, which was a lot of hard work but fun.

Still have family around Dearborn Heights:

Yes

Which Classmates are you still in touch with:

Mary Averill
Cathryn Bronson
Cindy Isabel
Sandy Slomzenski
Brian Kramer
Russ Petrarca
Georgina Farrugia
Gisele Sidor
Linda Neal
Rick Szuran
Bill Wacaster
Donna Pratesi
Todd Sheldon
Terri Shonk
Jeff Dziekan
Dean Tagglioli
Robert Vincent
Debbie Williams
Ann Rea
Peggy Dadou
Lisa Matheson
Kim Stanley
Ray Muscat
Frank Fenech
Jamie Bernarcik
Shirley Grech
Joan Sultana
George Izeluk

Did you have any nicknames in school:

Theresa not Mary

What are your favorite memories of high school:

Marching Band, JV and Varsity Band, Choir, Art Club, Flag Corps, Musical performances of "Kiss Me Kate," National Honor Society, many Solo and Ensemble and MSBOA competitions. Looking back, we had a really good education, compared to many people that I know. Plus, we had more than most schools with a nice gymnasium, football field, tennis courts, swimming pool, art room with everything needed for basic art, pottery, jewelry, a music dept that was well equipped and an auditorium that was very beautiful, compared to all the ones I have ever seen. My brother learned his skill of auto mechanics and woodshop in our school. Drafting and science classes were also well equipped. Most of all, not one other school had a Planetarium. We were so lucky to have these features! I never realized how fortunate we were until I taught in other local districts as well as in Virginia. Crestwood offered a lot more than most students get today, except maybe in the more affluent districts.

Too bad the teachers had to work without a contract and many lost their jobs in the process.

Favorite Teacher(s):

Doc Kimball, Mr. Claeys, Mrs. Harper, Mrs. Mooneyham, and Joe Ganz taught me life skills. Fine Arts: Doug and Stanley Roose, Mrs. Wachowski and Ms. Messner appreciated my talents in the fine arts. .

My Secret Crush:

That's why it's a secret 😉.

What street(s) did you live on in the Heights:

Nightingale

My Siblings:

Michael 1976
Toni (Antionette) 1977
Joseph 1981 Bishop Borgess H. S.
Janet 1983

What other schools did you attend in Dearborn Heights:

Highview
Haston
Other: St. Brigid School and Noble School, Detroit. CCD classes at St. Linus.

Biggest thing you would do differently if you went back to your time at CHS:

I have no regrets but I would have asked someone special to the Senior Prom. Also, I would have taken more math and sciences to become an Elementary teacher or a nurse.

What are your worst memories of high school:

The long, long teacher strikes and seeing ourselves and our school on the national TV news each night.

Favorite Song(s) from back in the day:

There were so many good songs in our era, that there's too many to list.

Favorite Group(s) or Artist(s) from back in the day:

Chicago and the Beach Boys whom we saw at Pine Knob with Linda Neal and friends. Carol King at Hill Auditorium with Don Dowd and Paul McCartney and Wings at Olympia Stadium with the Co-Valedictorians Tom Joyner and Larry Roy with Joanna Presley.

First concert you attended and location:

BTO and warm up band Bob Seger, at EMU with Mike Spiteri and my brother Michael. We almost were crushed by the glass door, by the pushing and shoving of the fans. We started to yell, and they finally stopped. We were so lucky not to have been hurt!

Comments:

Master's Degree in Teaching and took more credits to re-certify AGAIN = 259 college credits thus far. Just missed Permanent Teaching Certificate, by a year or two. Education is big business my friends. Every 5 years we must take 6 credits to recertify. Education is costly but so is ignorance.

Website Comments:

I really enjoy traveling and have been to San Diego, CA, Padre Island, Texas, Amelia Island, Kissemee, Fernandina Beach and Disney World, Florida; Charleston and Myrtle Beach, South Carolina; Scotland, Jamaica, Malta, Atlantic Beach, North Carolina, Washington DC, Marrietta, Georgia, West Virginia, Missouri, Vermont, and all over Michigan such as: Mackinac Island, Mackinac City, Higgins Lake, Houghton Lake, Traverse City, Indian River, Frankenmuth, Ludington, Lansing, Grand Rapids, Port Huron, Lexington, Palms Beach, Tawas City, etc.

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Dec 13, 2020 at 4:01 PM

So sorry to read this about Bruce.  He was a really nice guy and classmate.  I remember that he also played the alto clarinet in Band.  Deepest condolences and may our Lord bless his family during this difficult time.

Dec 12, 2020 at 5:44 AM

Hi Denise! Nice to see you on this site. Loved your photo. Hope all is well. Take care and God bless.

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Dec 09, 2020 at 2:32 AM

Hi Laura! Hope you and your family are doing well! Thank you for the kindness you showed to me whenever I came over to your home. Take care and stay safe. Sincerely, Theresa

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Dec 09, 2020 at 2:16 AM

Mrs. Ullman was our National Honor Society sponsor.  She gave us applications and we were selected according to our grade point average as well as our extra curricular activities.  She had a candle lighting ceremony for our initiation into NHS.  She gave us a pin and that same symbol was placed on our high school diploma.  She had these gold satin sashes made for us to wear on our Graduation Day for the Commencement Ceremony.  I will always appreciate all the behind the scenes work that she did to encourage us, and to promote our National Honor Society.  She will be missed.  Deepest condolences to her family.

Dec 09, 2020 at 1:58 AM

Mr. Palahniuk was my driver's education teacher.  He was very patient with me, and told my Dad that I needed more practice.   I remember that he played guitar and he performed for a school assembly.  My brother Michael had him in Woodshop.  He also hung around the Art Dept., and if I remember right, he was the Department Head.  Deepest condolences to his family.  He will be missed.

Dec 09, 2020 at 1:51 AM

Dear Mrs. Porteus, Thank you for all of your time and dedication in your role as our Principals' Secretary. I worked briefly as a typist and a receptionist, so I can appreciate all the hard work you put into your job. Most of all, thank you for planning our wonderful Commencement Ceremonies. Your son Jeff was in the Bsnd with me, and I always appreciated his good sense of humor.

Dec 07, 2020 at 2:37 AM
Dec 07, 2020 at 2:28 AM

Happy early Birthday Frank!

Dec 07, 2020 at 1:17 AM
Dec 07, 2020 at 12:54 AM

I was so sorry to hear about Miss Weber's passing.   She was a wonderful teacher!  She taught me and so many others such an important skill and that of Typing, within looking at your hands.  Because of this skill that I attained in her class, I was able to work as a typist for Kelly Services, during the summer months while I was going to college or teaching.  Best of all, I was hired by Millwood Lumber to work as an Export Typist for Ford Motor Company at the Warehouse in Dearborn.  They offer offered me an opportunity to apply  to work for Ford Motor Company, but I chose to return to college to become a teacher. 

Ms. Weber always had a smile on her face and was very enthusiastic about her teaching.  She gave us timed tests which increased our speeds.  This helped me when I had to apply for temp jobs.  She also assisted with the book fair and encouraged me to get some good books.  Deepest condolences to her family.  She will be missed.

Dec 07, 2020 at 12:54 AM

I was so sorry to hear about Miss Weber's passing.   She was a wonderful teacher!  She taught me and so many others such an important skill and that of Typing, without looking at your hands.  Because of this skill that I attained in her class, I was able to work as a typist for Kelly Services, during the summer months while I was going to college or teaching.  Best of all, I was hired by Millwood Lumber to work as an Export Typist for Ford Motor Company at the Warehouse in Dearborn.  They offer offered me an opportunity to apply to work for Ford Motor Company, but I chose to return to college to become a teacher. 

Ms. Weber always had a smile on her face and was very enthusiastic about her teaching.  She gave us timed tests which increased our speeds.  This helped me when I had to apply for temp jobs.  She also assisted with the book fair and encouraged me to get some good books.  Deepest condolences to her family.  She will be missed.

Dec 06, 2020 at 6:33 AM

He looks like a professional model in that last photo!  He was a nice guy. I was so sorry to hear of his passing.  Deepest condolences to Sheila and family.

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Elizabeth, Rachel and Theresa (Cutajar) English, at a wedding in 2013.


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