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11/26/23 02:30 PM #45    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Sunday Greetings Nancy.

Your vivid recollection of that fateful day in Dallas certainly jolted my mind with matching personal and National details from that horrific day in our history of the world.

Jackie and Jack came into being about the time I hit puberty and faced head-on the trials and tribulations of acne, facial bloat and the rest of dreaded reality of becoming a teenager.

The Kennedy's were young, vibrant, charismatic, cultured  and represented our Country so excitingly well around the world.

Even at that young age I remember the pride I felt as I watched CBS News (and news clips) via my favorite Journalist Walter Kronkite... as he talked about how the President and First Lady had impressed the people of France during their visit...especially when Jackie spoke to them in her flawless French.

Could life get any better in my "Leave it to Beaver" world of the sixties? Truthfully ... my life back then was simple fun... consisting of movie dates (Mancuso or Dipson Theaters...we had choices, right?) that ended with a cherry phosphate at Critics...and perhaps an innocent good night kiss on the cheek from my date (which still got those young and restless male hormones raging within me :-)

My world was sheltered, but - good back then ... consisting of great family at home; And at school...Mr, and Mrs Clarke, Mr. Cravatta, Mr. Andras, Mr. Stamp, Miss Gehring, Mrs. Collins, Mr. Jamalkowski and Miss Tyler as the stellar cast of faculty at BHS overseeing the education thru my wonder years ...Watching The Mighty Blue Devils Basketball team with Captain Tom Hoitink  leading the team on to victory...and listening to The Beach Boys on Tom Shannon's WKBW radio show were main ngredients of my interests.  Yep ... was ALL good back then in my naive, simplistic - yet happy, life.

Feeling very comfortable with JFK representing us at the table of world leaders...and Jackie elegantly hosting the leagues of nations at the White House ...  I, like the rest of the majority was expecting the good times and superb leadership to finish term one and then on to even grandeur success with the speculation on the next four.

After all...Jack was amazing as inspriation and motivation...as  he  had us eating right, exercising, staying fit...was conquering the New Frontier with the Space Program, Involving us in world peace thru the Peace Corps, fostering equal rights for all  thru support of the Civil Rights Movement and gained international respect when he got in Castro's face to keep us safe from Communism.

Who knew... the full extent of the  eclipse of the Dallas Trip on Camelot?

Yes Nancy...shock, numbness, disjointed, humbled...are all good adjectives to use in defining the reactions of you, me and the rest of our BHS classmates...

And also ... the reactions of our great nation and the rest of the world - on November 22, 1963. 

We were living great history then and with sadness after only one thousand days...it was over.

"Don't let it be forgot - that once there was a spot...for one brief shining moment that was known as Camelot."

Stay safe and well as we approach the holidays ...

God bless the beasts and the children.

 

 

 

 


12/04/23 11:36 AM #46    

 

Arthur J Torcello

REMEMBERING THIS SPECIAL SEASON ...

A few years ago, my sister found and purchased this holiday music box at an estate sale and posted this photo on her FB page.

Seeing this beautifully designed and lovingly fabricated ornament of a church brought back memories of a young boy...

The church ornament must date back to the late 1940s or early 50s in terms of its creative production...
My Aunt Margaret had one just like it...and when I was about 7 or 8 years old - I loved to go to her house for the annual Christmas visit with my family.

She and my Uncle George lived in a handsome house on Hutchins Street just a few blocks from my parent's home. My Aunt and Uncle's house had a great room where everyone gathered in to visit and snack on delicious home-made Italian cookies and pastries (my Aunt could bake better than the best of the culinary artists of today's network shows...and truly took pride not only in the taste but look and presentation.)

However, the real treasure in the visit was in the front of the house where the formal parlor (with an amazing 1930s Mohair Sofa and matching chairs) proudly displayed the Christmas tree which would be artistically decorated and in the front window of the parlor.

Also... in the room to add to its mystique...was a player piano …
and on the top of the piano...

was this magnificent little white church on display.

It was lighted from inside which illuminated the tiny stained glass windows. And, as a music box...it played Ave Maria (not the tinny, jerky motion sound that music boxes produced today have...but instead it played a rich and well orchestrated sound that made you feel like you could walk thru the tiny front doors and attend midnight Christmas mass with a miniature Monsignor Kirby officiating at the miniscule altar).

I was just so dang fascinated with this little object d'art...
and my kind Aunt (seeing my fascination) would take it down from the piano and place it on the blue mirror top of her Art Deco coffee table so that I could sit on the floor and get a better look and listen to this work of wonder...


I would sit there for hours mesmerized by its beauty..


Thanks again to my wonderful sister for posting the photo as it shook the corners of an old guy's  mind and produced some awesome wonder years memories from long ago and far away.

The very best of the Holiday Season 2023 to all.

 
                                    

12/06/23 02:28 PM #47    

 

Arthur J Torcello

I received a Christmas card from a loved one, today - who also included with the card a copy of the popular poem, THE DASH, by Linda Ellis.

Please take a few minutes and watch the short video, (link at the base of this message below) by Ms. Ellis.
The poem is powerful and so very meaningful...especially at this time of year - with our hearts embracing peace and goodwill; and a new year to begin shortly with opportunities to cleanse the soul.

12/06/23 04:19 PM #48    

Thomas Hoitink

Art, That was so beautiful and so true.  Really words to live by.  Ihope that Cathy and I will be able to see you at our next and possibley last one.  There will be alot of discussions when we start our meetings for the 2025 reunion. Take care Art  Tom


12/06/23 10:35 PM #49    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Good evening Tom...and glad you appreciated the "Dash" video.

Linda's words really touched me, too ...

At this point in my life...I am regularly assessing my life, loves, relationships and trying to ascertain what  social, civic and professional contribution - I have made and will  leave behind  when I am gone...to show that "I cared and helped to make a difference in our world "

Additionally, I want to thank you for your kind comments regarding my postings here.

Although I was a quiet little mouse in High School....I learned how to "roar" once I was out and about n the real world. Sooooooooooooooooooo, I have to watch myself on chatting  about the current  issues of the world or I can find myself on a soapbox - preaching ...and losing friends and making enemies ...contrary to all that I have learned and loved from the writings of Dale Carnegie. :-)  So with my narratives  here I try to talk about things that impact my personal value system and the nice things I have learned thru living.

Unfortunately, I missed class reunion after reunion as I was too busy with my career and thought my employer could not survive without me there for a few days ...LOL  I am one of those people who regrets not spending more time with family and friends and less time at the office. Oh, but wait...in life, there are mistakes...and  "no regrets." :-)

Had my plans made for the last reunion  and than just like that ... Covid arrived and ruined our world, fun  and lives for a few years. Looking forward to the next reunion and will  enjoy visiting with you and Cathy.

God bless you and yours, my friend...and Merry Christmas.


12/07/23 06:38 AM #50    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Hanukkah begins...may your candles burn bright this season.


12/07/23 08:38 AM #51    

Thomas Hoitink

Good Morning Art,

I look forward to your messages when they come out, they are always so interesting and you are too.  As I said before I mostly hung around with the Basketball Players.  My best friend then as it is now is Sam Pilato.  After he sold his families Onion Muck farm he took a vacation in Florida and met wife number 3 and moved to Chicago. We talk on talk on the phone aboutonce a month,  Anyway Art I still remember you losing all that weight in the Summer before our Senior year and though we were not friends I noticed it,  If we are still alive I hope to see you at our 60th but keep those messages comming I'm sure a lot of our class mates do to.              Tom


12/08/23 06:13 PM #52    

 

Arthur J Torcello

I found this story a few years back in "Readers' Digest."
It was one of those submissions that was anonymous to the magazine...
so I cannot identify the author for you...but I am confident you will find it worth the read.
 
CHRISTMAS IS A TIME FOR REFLECTION...
“In 1979, I was managing a Wendy's in Port Richey, Florida.
Unlike today, staffing was never a real problem, but I was searching for a someone to work three hours a day only at lunch.
I went thru all my applications and most were all looking for full time or at least 20 hours per week. I found one however, buried at the bottom of a four-inch stack that was only looking for lunch part-time. His name was Nicky.
Hadn't met him but thought I would give him a call and see if he could stop by for an interview. When I called, he wasn't in but his mom said she would make sure he would be there.
At the accorded time, Nicky walked in.
One of those moments when my heart went in my throat.
Nicky had Downs Syndrome.
His physical appearance was a giveaway
and his speech only reinforced the obvious.
I was young and sheltered. Had never interacted on a professional level with a developmentally disabled person. I had no clue what to do, so I went ahead and interviewed him.
He was a wonderful young man. Great outlook.
Task focused. Excited to be alive.
For only reasons God knew at that time, I hired him. 3 hours a day, 3 days a week to run a grill. I let the staff know what to expect.
Predictably, the crew made sure I got the message, "no one wants to work with a retard."
To this day I find that word offensive.
We had a crew meeting, cleared the air, and prepared for his arrival.
Nicky showed up for work right on time.
He was so excited to be working. He stood at the time clock literally shaking with anticipation. He clocked in and started his training. Couldn't multi-task, but was a machine on the grill.
Now for the fascinating part...
Back in that day, there were no computer screens to work from. Every order was called by the cashier.
It required a great deal of concentration on the part of all production staff to get the order right.
While Nicky was training during his first shift, the sandwich maker next to him asked the grillman/trainer what was on the next sandwich. Nicky replied,"single, no pickle no onion."
A few minutes later it happened again. It was then that we discovered Nicky had a hidden and valuable skill.
He memorized everything he heard!
Photographic hearing! WHAT A SKILL SET.
It ONLY took 3 days and every sandwich maker requested to work with Nicky.
He immediately was accepted by the entire crew.
After his shift he would join the rest of his crew family, drinking Coke like it was water!
It was then that they discovered another Rainman-esque trait. Nicky was a walking/talking perpetual calendar!
With a perpetual calendar as a reference, they would sit for hours asking him what day of the week was December 22,
1847. He never missed.
This uncanny trait mesmerized the crew.
His mom would come in at 2 to pick him up.
More times than not, the crew would be back there with him hamming it up.
As I went to get him from the back, his mom said something I will never forget. "Let him stay there as long as he wants.
He has never been accepted anywhere like he has been here."
I excused myself and dried my eyes, humbled and broken-hearted at the lesson I just learned.
Nicky had a profound impact on that store.
His presence changed a lot of people.
Today I believe with every fiber of my body that Nicky's hiring was no accident. God's Timing and Will is Perfect.
This Christmas, I hope we all understand what we are celebrating. We are all like Nicky. We each have our shortcomings. We each have our strong points. But we are all of value. God made us that way and God doesn't make mistakes.
Nicky certainly wasn't a mistake.
He was a valuable gift that I am forever grateful for.
December 25 we will be celebrating the birth of the ONE that leveled the playing field for all of us.
He doesn't care if you are rich or poor, republican or democrat or black or white.
He doesn't care if your chromosome structure is perfect.
He doesn't care what level of education you have attained.
He cares about your heart.
So, this Christmas, let’s check our hearts.
There is a little bit of Nicky in all of us and I suspect there is a Nicky somewhere in your life that is looking for the chance to be embraced and loved.
 
 

 


12/08/23 08:31 PM #53    

Thomas Hoitink

Good Evening Art, Beautiful story. Tom Hoitink


12/10/23 02:05 PM #54    

 

Arthur J Torcello


12/11/23 11:39 AM #55    

 

Paul Minor

Cute.  Thanks for keeping us smiling this hectic time of year!


12/16/23 09:14 PM #56    

 

Arthur J Torcello

I bought this whimsical, yet beautiful version of Santa today as it reminded me of the treasured Advent seasons in my youth.
When I was age 8 my best friend John Talone and I would stop what we were doing and run to the TV at 5 pm to watch " A Visit With Santa" on Channel 4. That was the Buffalo New York television station with call letters WBEN.
Every year for about 25 years starting in 1948...
Beginning with the day after Thanksgiving until Christmas eve...
LeRoy Anderson's musical version of "Sleigh Ride" was the intro to the show that every kid in western New York from age one to 92 watched faithfully...
as it brought the magic of the north pole into our living rooms.
The cast...
There was Santa, of course...
and Freezy the Polar Bear...
Grumbles the Elf and his best friend, and toy making comrade...
Forgetful the Elf.
The program was simplistic compared to today's standards...
There was no animation, no gimmicks ...
just the awesome attachment of Santa's persona and wisdom.
Most of the fifteen minutes show was spent with Santa reading actual letters as WBEN was responsible for generating about fifty thousand letters to Santa at the station - per year.
First Class Postage was only three cents back then...
Sooooooooooooooooo...
there were letters to Santa from Artie in Batavia, Paulie in Cheektowaga, Susie In Corfu, Arlene in Buffalo, Stanley in West Seneca, Patty in Bethany, Michael in East Pembroke ...
yada yada...
you get the picture.
But what a joy...
if that jolly ole elf happened to read your letter on air...
big smiles would suddenly appear on small faces...
and young heads would swell before your very eyes...
we were all legends and stars at our young age...
right?!
Pictured here next to my amazing holiday purchase...
is the photo of the cast of the Christmas memory...
from the golden age of local WNY - TV.
Although it is NOT Thursday...anyone else remember this...
THROWBACK?

02/07/24 04:41 PM #57    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Throughout my life...
Music has always been influential -
in both my actions and reactions to emotional stimuli.
Even now...as I think and write...
there is music playing in the background of my mind and thoughts.
During my early, formulative years...
popular music rocked and ruled my world - thanks to transistor radios, WBTA and WKBW.
My college years found me torn between...
Soul, Rock and Folk - music.
Through the decades as I have grown and aged...
the mental playlist has grown and aged too.
Watching the 2024 Grammys ...
transported me back to 1967 and...
the first time I heard "Both Sides Now."
It was the beautifully arranged Judy Collins version...
but, written, of course - by the now legendary Joni Mitchell.
As I watched Joni magically perform during the awards ceremony...
those facial lines disappeared as I remembered those brilliant eyes on the twenty something songwriter who thru the beauty of her guitar and her words immortalized the trials and tribulations of a young person experiencing the ups and downs of life's lessons.
Thank you, Ms. Mitchell - for your musical gifts and amazing talent.
Changing gears for a moment...
My favorite Christmas movie is the 2003 released "Love Actually."
As you may recall it consists of interwoven stories brought to life thru a stellar cast of actors...
Emma Thompson's character showcases Joni's version of THE SONG as Emma struggles to suppress her holiday disappointment in tears, silence and out of view of her young family
(please see the included video clip at the end of this reading.)
As all of us journey thru life,
indeed - there are disappointments as well as pleasures ...
each of us learns that although we think we will accomplish the secret to self - realization and happiness thru the challenging levels of the hierarchy of needs...
sadly, we eventually learn that what appeared to be an exciting road filled with challenging experiences...
is only a fickle sham.
And - the seemingly endless concert of emotions and illusions will continue until our end...
Yup...Joni aced it with her words...
"I've looked at life from both sides now...
From win and lose and still somehow...
It's life's illusions, I recall -
I really don't know life at all."
 

02/18/24 02:04 PM #58    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Growing up in the birthplace of Western New York.
I remember eating and enjoying many, ethnic foods (however - primarily focused on Italian and Polish cuisine - because I was of Italian heritage... but we lived in the "Little Poland" section of the city.) Nice combination eh! 🙂
Yup - we had Henry's, McDonald's and Red Barn Hamburgers on West Main Street Road, Polka-Dot white hots on Ellicott Street...but unfortunately, I was a young paperboy and living on a DAILY NEWS route income... so middle/Junior High school years did not afford me a lot of money to enjoy junk food back then. AND that was very fortunate for me as I ate what my mom cooked for the family.
Her dishes were created with loving care from the fruits and vegetables grown in family, and friends gardens.
YUM... I can still remember the delicious taste and smell of the ripe tomatoes that we snapped off the vines in the vegetable garden on Osterhaut Avenue (they were not like the hothouse ones we get today at the grocery store that look nice...but taste like cardboard!)
THEY WERE DELISH...BACK THEN!
Pepper, onion and egg sandwiches was a family favorite, and traditionally created using fried fresh peppers from Dad's garden - and on fresh Italian bread from Pellegrino's bakery on Liberty Street. The eggs came from Angelo, the Dairy and Chicken farmer (who lived next door to my Uncle Tony) on the Old Creek Road.
Another "YUM" growing up was deep dish pizza from sister Mary's kitchen - made with her fresh tomato sauce from the tomatoes and spices grown in her husband Dominic's garden on Otis Street.
Summer staples were fresh delicious golden corn from the fields at Silver Lake and fresh vine peas from the farmland in Perry, New York....
Sadly, young people today will never know the rich sights and mouthwatering smells that awakened my generations tastebuds in our youth...
Newer family members have missed out on being there for the glorious family -tradition foods that comfortably filled our tummies as we happily smiled and chatted around the dinner table at "Our Hide-A-Way" on the lake (family togetherness and conversation was much easier back then before smart phones and pads.)
Thank you, God...
for those memorable wonder years and the amazing life you have blessed us with.
AMEN.
 

02/19/24 02:01 PM #59    

Robert E Dietrich

Arthur,

In the immortal words of Bob Hope, "Thanks for the Memories".  I got hungry just reading your message, and lingering back to our days together there in Batavia, and the wholesome meals that my mother made for us as well.  

Well said!!

Bob Dietrich


03/02/24 07:51 PM #60    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Ya know!?... It took me a few years of life to finally realize and understand...

 

 


03/23/24 08:46 PM #61    

 

Arthur J Torcello


04/05/24 11:08 AM #62    

Susan Monaghan (Katz)

I'm sorry to tell you all that Jim Pacino, husband of Patti Cleveland Pacino, passed away this morning (April 5). He had been suffering from heart failure for the past six months. Calling hours and the funeral arrangements are not complete yet, but it is likely that the funeral will be Saturday. As I learn more about this, I can let you know.


04/06/24 02:37 PM #63    

 

Georgia Pontillo (Woodring)

Calling hours for Jimmy are Friday, April 12, 4-7 at Bohm's mortuary.  Mass of Christian Burial is at St Joseph's church at 9:30 am on Saturday, the 13th.  


04/06/24 08:20 PM #64    

 

Paul Minor

So sorry to hear about this.  Hope to see soe of you Friday afternoon.


04/07/24 04:30 PM #65    

 

Arthur J Torcello

Dear Patti (Pacino:)

Thinking of you today after reading Sue's and Paul's messages.

I remain confident that we never lose the people we love...

They will continue to walk at our side.

They will continue to be our "Rock."

They will continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make in our journey.

They will continue to love us...

And, that eternal love will leave their indelible imprint in our memories and our hearts.

It is now time to celebrate them...

And, the contributions they have made to those they love and to the world in which they lived.

Smile, and find infinate comfort - in knowing that your life is even more meaningful and more beautiful, thru having shared Jim's love.

God's blessings to you.

 


04/08/24 02:37 PM #66    

Paula J Reed (Hanson)

Art, such beautiful words of celebration of Jim's life and passing. 
Paula Reed Hanson


04/09/24 06:41 AM #67    

 

Paul Minor

This came direct to me (Administrator) rather than being posted to thr Message Forum:

From Coleen Tooley Oleski:

We are all hurting for Patti and family. Jimmy will be remembered by all of us as we send love, sympathy and support.


04/10/24 02:08 PM #68    

Dorothy A McCurdy (Spear)

So sorry to hear of your loss Patty.   I pray that your memories will bring you comfort and peace.  God bless.

Doothy


04/10/24 11:01 PM #69    

 

Arthur J Torcello


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